| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerThey come from racism. I’ve never seen a person rip on any other First Lady they way they did with her for being “so ugly” “a tr****” “manly” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Kanye wants to take away her right to remarry through court wtf. He also wants to make it difficult for her to divorce and claim her prenup.I think society has always been like this in terms of wealthy women. Period pieces and “seasons” are so romanticized like Downtown Abbey or Bridgerton, but women in these pieces are demonized for scheming to marry well/ high up as though this wasn’t literally the only avenue of success they had and the alternative was homelessness. Women of lower class have always historically had much more freedom in their day to day life if we are comparing women across the board. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 12:39 AM |
| 85 | when men have nothing else they have the audacityI can’t even express my shock and disgust at the audacity. People continue to disappoint me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 07:34 PM |
| 4 | is planning the same weekend trip with a different girl one year later an issue?Has he only been there only the once with his ex or is this a place he loves and he’s been going to for years and brought his ex last year? First one is bad, second one is gone dead for it being the same weekend but could potentially be okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 06:20 PM |
| 81 | When You Ask Men What They’re Looking For^ this is the move. If he’s lying you’ll find out, and if he is serious you don’t want to make him think you’re not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 04:21 AM |
| 201 | Classic RedditRefreshingly a lot of commenters were calling out OP but I’m still disturbed that comments like this existed in the first place and weren’t downvoted to oblivion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 31 | I don’t know what to say other than ewwwww!If you can afford it look into sourcing from small local farmers. My parents have a small farm and while they do obviously breed the animals they let them do it themselves they don’t use stuff like this, they let them roam the land, etcetc. And there’s plenty of others like that as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 02:58 PM |
| 11 | Spotted this ad under "housing" on craigslist 😬Hey just a heads up there’s been problems with weirdos stalking women from here you should make it a screenshot on imgur so you can black out identify identifying info | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 04:40 AM |
| 33 | I got chucked off a left wing political facebook page I followed for years for challenging this. How do you vet for men who believe they are owed access to a woman, I'm starting to feel it might be all of them.With how “kink positive” everyone is I wonder how much seeing a therapist would actually help or if the therapist would just try to reaffirm ~~iTs OkAY JuSt GeT cOnSeNt~~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 03:34 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, have you noticed any trends of men who chose arranged marriages vs. leveling themselves up to be independent of the patriarchal culture?Like one of the other commenters said, arranged marriages often aren’t just having a person you never met picked out and assigned to you anymore. It’s a person selected by your family/ a matchmaker, who you then are free to reject. And honestly matchmaking/arranged marriages where it works like that sounds very appealing. You’re going on dates with people who you know you can marry- you don’t have to have all the conversations about religion, your personal values, morals, etc etc. all that has b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 02:36 PM |
| 36 | Need guidance about dating!!21 year old here; this is honestly the most important advice I could give anyone- Do not date men who watch porn. It’s so normalized in our society so people don’t question it but the more you learn about the industry the more and more horrifying it becomes. Look up Rose Kalemba. Look up GirlsDoPorn lawsuit. Look up “hot girls wanted” documentary. Read the NYT thinkpiece’The Children of Pornhub’. Or go to FightTheNewDrug or ExodusCry and read their countless sources. Porn is rape 99% of the time… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 06:30 PM |
| 247 | Friends that make questionable relationship decisions like this are LV. I don’t understand how the entire friend group KNOWS it’s disgusting and yet…no one steps up to call him out. Gross.This ^ raise the age of consent to 21 and make “Romeo and Juliet” laws on a federal level to protect teenage couples | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Read this if you’ve ever wondered “what if I gave my lvx a second chance…?”Has anyone ever gotten back together with an ex and had it work out? I’m in college and my ex and I broke up because the distance (different states) and our career goals seemed incompatible long term but outside of him I’ve become interested in something else and my new career path has a lot more flexibility location wise; and for his graduate school it’s looking pretty likely he’ll end up within a few hours of me which feels super doable for weekend trips maybe 2x a month instead of us only see… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/21 05:07 PM |
| 18 | How does a HVM approach a woman?I think what he does is the right move when he doesn’t know a women but is interested in her. He’s avoiding putting a stranger in an uncomfortable position I think that’s considerate. What if he’s interested in his server? By asking her number if she’s jot interested she has to worry about losing the tip for that table. Whether it’s a server or just a random woman there’s a power imbalance and you never know how a strange man will react to rejection. It lets her not be worried about a bad reacti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 02:31 AM |
| 100 | What I posted versus a reason for a permaban from a large “feminist” subreddit. Wow I wonder why :)‘fourthwavewomen’ is the only one worth anything it’s still new and small but I’m sure it’ll get banned when they do another ban wave and inevitably get rid of FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 05:40 PM |
| 15 | Am I wrong, or are these handles just random pieces of wood?I have no clue about the couple or effort or anything but I honestly like the design it’s very eclectic. I would buy that they might just have a different taste. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 02:38 PM |
| 13 | Porn is SO normalizedDo you have the link to this interview? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 10:51 PM |
| 58 | “The sex lives of college girls” a new disgusting HBO specialHaven’t checked it out but I’ve heard people saying the writing reads as if it was written for high schoolers- there was a line about “being invited to an upperclassman’s party!!” Which no one cares about in college- and tweaked the ages last minute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:06 PM |
| 84 | PSA Holiday Gifts that both of you use does not count as a gift!I do thinking cooking/baking gifts can be an exception if you’re someone who genuinely loves that sort of thing. My best friend was in culinary school and loves anything baking related. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 5 | People Hating on a Woman at DisneyI think there’s a difference with it being his chest instead of arms. Man or woman touching a chest is a lot more intimate and she was groping his chest it doesn’t really matter that they were fake muscles it was inappropriate and there were children around. Either way this isn’t FDS this isn’t relevant to the sub at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Should I tell my boyfriend (very recent), that I am not sure if I want to get married or have kids?You should checkout r:fencesitter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:14 PM |
| 12 | What are the red flags that it’s emotional abuse?Here’s the thing: both of those things you said can be true. The situation you described for him does sound like it would have been really stressful and unpleasant with his family and leaving your religion is no small thing so I’m sure that must have been a very painful and confusing time for him. HOWEVER, that doesn’t matter. There are plenty of people experiencing similar problems who don’t take it out on their loved ones. Maybe he was emotionally abusive because of the drama with his family a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:59 PM |
| 105 | Relationship subs give me no hope for men or the future of womenPiggybacking off of this - even ignoring the people on Reddit, the allure of a relationshipadvice column with total anonymity is going to attract people in the worst situations. They know deep down that it’s not okay; that’s why they’re going to strangers where they can be more honest instead of the people who love them who would be horrified. My friends and I when were in a relationship will talk to our friends about problems and get advice when we’re in relationships but the problems we have a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 02:46 PM |
| 119 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.I disagree. That narrative has been pushed on women through media and “girls mature faster then boys so it makes sense to date up.” speaking as a college aged women, while the majority of us recognize these older guys as creepy, I’ve seen enough girls I was friends with go after older guys and think those men are so mature and ~~suave~~ enough to believe a woman could write that. On that note though, weirdly enough, every friend like that has the EXACT same story despite these even being people … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Friend is being bullied by PickMe roommate over a guy, what would you do?Are they living in the dorms? They can talk to the RA and get a new room assignment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 10:21 PM |
| 28 | Concepts that need to be retiredI have mixed feelings about “a relationship is work.” Because I do think it is going to be. You have to work to keep your relationship cultivated, even after you’re married you need to continue ‘dating’ the person. And you’re going to have disagreements you’ll need to healthily work through no relationship is perfect. I feel like that was what was originally meant when people said it but then it started being used as justification for unhealthy/toxic relationships where they’re always fighting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:24 PM |
| 45 | real intimacy is so hard to findYeah this feels kind of shamey; with my ex missionary was painful because of his size; we had to do doggy or other positions and frankly they genuinely just hit a different spot and felt better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:19 PM |
| 50 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysMy brother was a surgeon and he rewent through residency to switch to ER because he couldn’t stand other surgeons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:16 PM |
| 136 | Be Wary Of Male DoctorsI was talking to a med student forever ago from tinder- which in and of itself should’ve been a red flag as I was 18 and med school students are 22+, but I remember having a conversation with him during his gyn rotations where he said he was considering becoming a gynecologist but changed his mind when he realized he would have to look at untrimmed/maintained vaginas and even back then I was pissed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:58 PM |
| 92 | Be Wary of Male Therapists / PsychsHow do you find a good female therapist? I’ve been wanting to go to therapy to work through some issues in my past relationship but I’m worried if I start talking about some of my expectations like no porn, I’ll have one trying to tell me that I’m too controlling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 04:52 PM |
| 38 | Some men say, men going for much younger women or even teenagers is just "biology". I just realised adult men who try to be with teenagers/much younger women usually end up alone.Yeah I never understand their logic because from a “biological” perspective the prime childbearing years are 22-26 iirc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 92 | This 50/50 crap makes me want to rip my hair out - Priyanka Chopra says Nick Jonas only bought an engagement ring; reveals they split wedding expenses equallyThat’s the social standard in the west too; the bride pays for most of it traditionally and I think the grooms family pays for the rings, flowers, alcohol, and rehearsal dinner. This is a weird post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 03:44 PM |
| 6 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.John Mulaney confirmed it on ‘Late Night With Seth Meyers’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 05:11 PM |
| 15 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.you need to fix the tiktok links they posted a tutorial here on how to do it w/o but right now your user is showing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:07 PM |
| 18 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.No they just had 2 French bulldogs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Had to share thisOkay this is very much not true. I was raised pro life in church and while I can’t speak to everyone, I was never told to hate or shame the women getting abortions. I was told they were in desperate situations and needed help which is why we had a lot of fundraisers and my youth group worked closely with a pregnancy crisis center fundraising and having supplies and resources for free for women who were pregnant/had children. For us it was about protecting a life and maybe people spoke like that;… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 17 | I’m so jaded and cynical. I want to find this sweet but part of me feels uncomfortable knowing the amount of time he had to spend with a bunch of underage girls to make this. Also, IT guys are notoriously creepyI wouldn’t judge just because he’s a man working in a high school. I remember we had this little old man janitor in my high school and everyone loved him because he was really sweet to everyone and he was never creepy he was just a genuinely kind grandfather figure to everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:22 AM |
| 23 | Stop watching reality TV and reading trashy novelsIs it intended to be romance? I loved her books in middle/high school I thought they were just supposed to be gothic horror? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there a benefit to not adding men on social media, to "keep the mystery" and require them to invest time and effort into getting to know you? What are your thoughts?What’s your age? I’m 21 and I feel like adding people on social media is the norm even for just acquaintances- your number is more for closer people. I feel like you should add men on social media- it’s a good way to judge their relationship status on who’s liking/commenting, and you can see what type of accounts they’re following. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:12 PM |
| 30 | FDS approved TV-shows?Haven’t watched in in ages but i remember marvelous miss maisel being good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 04:21 AM |
| 2 | How has FDS made you reevaluate how your father/brother(s) treat you?It makes me feel sad for my parents because I see how they act and I feel like I understand why they act the way they do. For how they were both raised, I feel like they’ve done pretty good and I don’t resent or blame either of them, but I want to be better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 05:15 PM |
| 9 | Man 36m lies about divorce to 29f gf. Input girls?Your last post say you lied to your girlfriend and it’s this exact same post You’re a creep who lied and she left you get over it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:02 PM |
| 4 | Man 36m lies about divorce to 29f gf. Input girls?No look at the account | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 07:01 PM |
| 10 | Man 36m lies about divorce to 29f gf. Input girls?Yeah I don’t think you realize what this subreddit is for. This is literally the type of man that gets discussed to avoid. It’s for women trying to avoid dating losers not for men to get advice on dating women and getting them to stay after lying. Or for men at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 16 | Man 36m lies about divorce to 29f gf. Input girls?Why are you friends with this dude? He sounds like a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:43 PM |
| 4 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleI didn’t discount physicians who aren MD I said MD/DO. And we’re on FDS, a subreddit that promotes quickly cutting men for red flags, even if the flag might be nothing, because we don’t owe them anything and we need to protect ourselves first and foremost. I’d argue that same mentality should be applied to all areas of life, especially your healthcare. Sure, not every midlevel provides substandard service, but when you know they’re already starting with a MUCH lower base knowledge, require no re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 7 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possiblehttps://www.tafp.org/Media/Default/Downloads/advocacy/scope-education.pdf Your singular experience doesn’t change the fact that nps/pas have less education and knowledge. They happened to know more in this one instance but this isn’t a debate or opinion it is a fact that they are less knowledgeable and educated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:52 PM |
| 5 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleThere can be good np/pas and bad md/dos but it doesn’t change the fact that they have much less education and knowledge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 03:49 PM |
| 39 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleAlways request a female doctor, and ALWAYS request an MD/DO. There’s a huge problem in America with “midlevel creep” - nurse practitioners and physicians assistants who have half the school time(not that their schooling is even comparable), no residencies, and they’re being allowed more and more independent practicing rights. My exes mom almost went septic and had to have emergency surgery because of the bad call of an NP. They’re pushing substandard service for the same price don’t let them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 21 | Am I the only woman tired of men acting like the entire world around them is a 24/7 offline dating service?I remember a few years ago I went to the mall by myself just to shop and there was this guy in a store who kept staring at me and I smiled every time we made eye contact just like…on reflex? I didn’t think anything of it and continued shopping- I had been to a couple different stores in the mall afterwards and eventually went out to the parking lot to my car. Probably about a half hour had passed since I was in the store with that man. As I was walking to my car I heard someone yell “hey” and ig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 03:59 PM |
| 14 | Older women aren’t cock-blocking you. It’s the younger women that just don’t want you.Honestly age gaps can be completely fine imo- it’s more about the stages of life you’re in; once you’re in your 30s+ while it can still be problematic it seems like much less of an issue. But considering that men are allowed by society to act immature for much longer then women I would be hesitant about dating a younger man. General rule of thumb would be no but every rule will have that one exception- if you like him and he’s been acting HV so far I don’t think exploring it would be an issue as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 04:45 PM |
| 11 | Seen this repost on FB today. Are men really this stupid?I know this isn’t the point of your comment and you weren’t being literal but just for any younger girls on this sub reading this- DO NOT double up on condoms. If he wears two there’s more friction and they’re much more likely to break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 09:32 PM |
| 17 | Every damn timeCan you dm it to me? I tried trying to find it and couldnt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:38 PM |
| 13 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸I’d disagree w that most of. Friends are into BDSM and all the ✨sex work is empowering ✨ bs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 09:34 PM |
| 14 | It always be the men who are a 1/10 who have the audacity to mock a woman’s appearance (look his name up on Google) 🐸I almost wonder if he did it on purpose out of some weird bitter pent up anger for having to work under his wife | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 09:33 PM |
| 19 | "friend" refuses to accept "no means no".A guy like that would just get offended and not listen if someone held him accountable; framing it as her fault but in a way that still tells him to find someone else is the most effective way to get him to stop harassing her unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:10 AM |
| 67 | Never date someone who criticizes your fitness routine.Not the person you asked, but I’d recommend swimming as a workout. I’m a dancer so I’ve injured my knees a lot and I like to do my ballet warmups in a pool- it’s a good leg workout because it’s hard to lift your legs in the water but being in the water relieves pressure on your joints. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…If this an America VS Europe thing? I’ve lived in a few different states and I’ll normally just double check that the kiosk at the local mall has good reviews and go there and they’ve all been the same price range. Or are y’all going to actual salons? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 11:31 AM |
| 42 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…Really? I’ve never paid more then $15 for threading and they’ve always looked amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:33 AM |
| 9 | "6. It Doesn't Make Him Deviant" 🙄Like I said, I’m 21 so there’s ten years between us. This is a generational difference. I grew up with unlimited internet access because my parents were too old to understand how to put blockers in the websites. The internet has been really horrific and traumatizing for me in a lot of different facets and when I’ve spoken to people my age male or female they have had similar experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 02:54 PM |
| 23 | "6. It Doesn't Make Him Deviant" 🙄Forget men at this point there isn’t a single person who hasn’t viewed porn at some point. I just turned 21 and I was exposed to it at 9. With the internet becoming more and more commonplace the average age of exposure is getting younger and younger you can see it in that picture someone posted in here about that 17 year old who already had a snuff fetish (or some sort or violent fetish truth be told I was a bit too scared to read the post so I just skimmed it I got the jist) Our society is groo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:22 PM |
| 49 | "6. It Doesn't Make Him Deviant" 🙄Unfortunately their editor in chief is a woman. Jessica Pels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:20 PM |
| 23 | Just openly being a predatorY’all follow swipesfordaddy on tinder they’re hilarious ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 11:07 PM |
| 45 | I know most of us know the pitfalls of pursuing age gap relationship, but would you pursue a friendship with someone in an age gap relationship?Most women in here had really unhealthy relationships and I’ve seen multiple posts from women saying their friends introduced them to this sub and it opened their eyes. I’d proceed cautiously and immediately cut her off if there begins to be problems, but I’d still give her a chance as a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 05:37 PM |
| 43 | Don't be a pickme, even men won't like you. Credits: https://twitter.com/finegodmother/status/1410316385545330689?s=20Truuueee. Even when I was on Tinder and dealing with fuckboys, I still never paid on the first date. They would always pay for me and even when I offered to pay my half they’d tell me I could get the next one. Men know they’re supposed to pay on the first date if they don’t do it it’s because they don’t want to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 10:35 PM |
| 39 | Ladies NEVER ignore your instincts or dealbreakers. Here’s yet another scrote having broken a woman’s heart after stringing her along for a year.They’re all the same man this is one women’s posts about her ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Traits of HVM when you start dating in HS/CollegeHigh school and college are both (generally) 4 years and it goes Freshman (14/15 in high school 18/19 college), Sophomore (15/16 ; 19/20), Junior (16/17 ; 20/21), and Senior (17/18 ; 21/22) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsI think LDR can be real, BUT you have to get serious really quickly. It’s not possible to be casual in LDR and you need to have an end date figured out pretty soon to make it worth it. Otherwise yeah it’s just indefinitely being stuck inside your room on your phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | standards check: career / education levelIn a relationship now but if I was single; I wouldn’t expect people to have a job (I’m in college so that’s semi common for my peers); but for dating I’d want someone who has actual life plans and goals. I want to either go medical field or full on charity work after college and my boyfriend wants to be an professor so I’d like to be with someone who contributes something to society and is enthusiastic about it. It doesn’t have to be well paying either; I would date a social worker or high schoo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 02:05 PM |
| 33 | Teen Vogue promoting porn propaganda, rape culture and grooming under the guise of "education"/guidance. The depravity is unending...I googled teen Vogue CEO and a women “Elaine Marie Welteroth” came up soo.. Edit: she’s editor in chief not CEO but in the context of what is chosen to go into the journal the editor in chief matters more I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:56 PM |
| 236 | Teen Vogue promoting porn propaganda, rape culture and grooming under the guise of "education"/guidance. The depravity is unending...This is the shit that makes me so upset. We talk about men oppressing us but the reality is they don’t have to. They’ve planted the seeds and the pickmes go do their work for them and bully the next generation of girls into obedience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 27 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?That’s assuming it’s the same person. Someone else in the comments pointed out her account could have been hacked by some lurker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:52 PM |
| 4 | What do you guys think of this? (My personal opinion is in the comments)Honestly I kind of agree. The way you watch your dad treat you and your mom sets the very first standards in your life for how men should treat women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 02:14 PM |
| 20 | Cellar-Dweller-Turned-Spouse would rather play video games than have sex w/ his own wife. When confronted, Hubby essentially blames Wife for being too ugly. Wife all but has a mental breakdown over this; sadly, Hubs is now too busy playing on Tinder (+ other dating apps) to offer much comfort.Honestly thank god for her sake he did that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 02:03 PM |
| 7 | Sad how a lot of young girls in the comments are missing the point though...What show is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Men and pickmes don't even care what kinda world they're creating for their kids.For him I know he had a porn addiction up until we started dating- I was still changing as a person and I found a lot of fucked up stuff on porn and human trafficking so I remember it went exactly like this (DISCLAIMER: I don’t recommend this for anyone seeing this. It happened like this because I was learning how fucked porn was at the time and beginning to acknowledge how I really felt about my s/os watching it for the first time. It worked out well for me but I really feel like 95% of the tim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 04:21 PM |
| 9 | "Jokes"Every single friend I know who lived with her single mom was molested or raped by the moms boyfriend and was raped again while we were in high school/college (in college rn). I’m not exaggerating. Every single one. If I ever became a single mom I wouldn’t even consider dating until they’re out of the house or maybe high school but never bring the man home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 02:53 PM |
| 9 | This is what porn and pedo culture does...Holy fuck that’s never occurred to me That’s so depressing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:17 PM |
| 34 | Online dating be like...😂He looks a lot like a young Leonardo DiCaprio I think that’s what it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 10 | Men and pickmes don't even care what kinda world they're creating for their kids.My boyfriend first saw porn at 6 I did at 9 it’s permeated into our culture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Rewatching Pretty Little Liars after FDSA lot of bars serve food and just stops letting kids in/kids stay after 9. Also haven’t read/rewatched in a while but she could have a fake, or she could have just been confident enough they didn’t bother to ID her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 04:16 PM |
| 28 | Straight, white, often fat, male woes 😆Imagine if they put this energy into shit that was actually negatively affecting them like the porn industry 🤐 they get off to the oppression tho that’s their real cause | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 65 | Husband "doesn't remember" raping his wife, he's hurt that she tries to work through the trauma in therapy... I really hope she leavesMy dad has low blood sugar issues and he gets crabby when it’s low but I doubt he’s ever had memory issues or that that is an issue this guy is so full of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:32 PM |
| 11 | Don’t dwell on something that didn’t even benefit you!God that makes me shudder to imagine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 11 | Inspired by the "still not engaged" photo shoot post, the topic of "promise rings"I graduated high school 2 years ago in a small town where like 3/4 graduating class if they were girls, work as CNAs, hairstylists, beauticians, or maaybe nails and if they were guys, went to a trade school or military. The very much sort of area where high school is always a big deal because that’s like the highest formal education they have. I don’t think even half my graduating class bought class rings. Letterman’s are still a thing but not rings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 5 | “Strangers don’t owe you any loyalty”That logic is for women who blame the other women for “seducing” her man and stay with him. Women who willingly are affair partners are shitty people I don’t think anyone is in disagreement over that but she had no commitment to you. You need to be angry with and blame the person who betrayed you, i.e, hold your man accountable for his actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:54 PM |
| 95 | Inspired by the "still not engaged" photo shoot post, the topic of "promise rings"Cute up until after high school, and lazy for adults. I have a friend who’s BF cheated and afterwards gave her a promise ring as a promise to “stay loyal” and I was just like....bitch seriously? ( he still hasn’t met her dad or proposed but he said going to this year and they’re “engaged” and planning a wedding for September 🥴 she’s telling everyone and making bridesmaids and contacting venues and doing all the research and he hasn’t done anything) They’re a place holder to appease girls who wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 28 | Is it fair of working class poor women (like myself) to be with a HVM? I think I deserve one, but society beginning to act like only high earning women deserve high value men and its not fair.Elon Musk is the richest man in the world and he is a LV scumbag. I’ve seen plenty of posts on here talking about rich LV men versus lower class HV men. A guy should be stable enough to support a family but honestly your post just seems like money = value to you and while a guy should yeah, not be broke and be responsible with his money wealth is not what makes a good man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:49 PM |
| 28 | Dear God, rape he raped herHey there are trolls and lurkers of creeps on here I think you should know that link also includes your tiktok not just the one you were trying to link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 85 | They’re thiiiis close to figuring it out!He has to be making fun of those types of guys right?? There’s no way he could film this and post it and be unaware I feel like he would e tried to make the girl “bitchier” and “more dramatic” if he was making fun of her not the guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 27 | Where's the lie?My friend’s boyfriend got turned on by her bleeding... I tried to explain why this was nit okay and got blown off because “he backed off when I told him I didn’t like it!” I told my older sister later expecting her to have the same “what the fuck” reaction as me but she didn’t thing it was a problem for the same reasons my friend didn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:49 PM |
| 5 | It do be like thatPNW?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:43 AM |
| 9 | NYT Journalist Nicholas Kristof, whose article exposed Pornhub and instigated the unverified video Purge, has set his sights on Reddit. Reddit ALSO hosts underage rape videos, involuntary porn, pedophilic content, and extreme sexualized violence with zero verification.We stan a King | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:54 PM |
| 19 | Is this pickmeism? (90 day fiance and publically thirsting over men)It’s shitty behavior that pickme’s definitely engage in, but it’s not exclusively pickle behavior. I remember in high school I had a really pretty sweet friend and her boyfriend was so overweight like easily 100 pounds overweight, and so gross and greasy, and it’s not like he was a nice person. He was a POS who’d cheated on her multiple times. And I would make fun of him to our other friends and I remember something I said a few times about him was “you can be ugly or a douche. You can’t be both… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 12:50 AM |
| 1 | I always knew these movies were suspicious...As I reread your first comment I feel like an idiot for not realizing that’s what you meant 😂 my brain had a malfunction there my b | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 05:11 PM |
| 23 | What in Fresh PickMe Hell is This?I went to read it out of curiosity and thought it would be talking about how cheating is actually way more common then people realize and doesn’t have to be a relationship ender- because I do know a couple where one cheated and went and confessed to the other what happened and they worked through it and working through it brought up other issues they had and actually weirdly long term benefited their relationship But it’s not even that it’s so sad she’s clearly been cheated on before and is tryi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 06:10 PM |
| 4 | I always knew these movies were suspicious...No she didn’t In the original little mermaid she gets her legs but everywhere she walks feels like needles poking her feet and the prince takes her on and kind of treats her like a pet iirc. He gets married and The mermaid’s sisters show up with a dagger that if she stabs him will return her tail and she can come home. She refuses and I think stabs herself and throws herself into the ocean to become sea foam and from what I remember it was kind of implied she became an angel. There was never any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | LVM rolling up to the table like...Try r/helpmefind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:09 PM |
| 193 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeHow much you want to bet he’s actually a pedophile? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:06 PM |
| 8 | This was posted in LongDistance with a title scolding those who buy a PS5 but say they're too broke to visit (discussion in comments)Student could still be girlfriend for five years Most of them broke up by now but freshman year a fuckton of my friends were people who had been dating their little high school boyfriend since freshman year then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:34 AM |
| 9 | Jasper Bloom was the ultimate NVMI’m sure part of it is a conscious styling choice by the wardrobe departments as well Although I do always wonder a bit about ‘type’ actors how true they are or aren’t to the role they’re constantly playing and if constantly ‘being’ that sort of person turns them into ine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 2 | The Holidays are Coming: You dont need to buy him a Gift or show up with himThat’s more then I’ll be spending for my entire family and friends total holy heck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 02:32 AM |
| 12 | 100% AGREED!! Older men dating 18 year olds SHOULD NOT be legal!It definitely is in high school I had one friend date an older dude but the rest of us thought it was fucking weird and creepy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:02 PM |
| 28 | 100% AGREED!! Older men dating 18 year olds SHOULD NOT be legal!He’s still watching porn tho 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 35 | This made me snort with laughterNgl it’s not even that far off with masturbation a fuckton of dudes fuck themselves up and break their own dicks watching porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Seeking advice and discussion about the harms of porn useThe main issues with porn are the human trafficking which is a much much larger issue then people are willing to admit The inherent misogyny in the way porn is filmed and made. With written porn obviously the first one is a moot point so I think as long as you’re not reading shit that’s inherently sexist and demeaning there’s no issue. There’s nothing wrong with masturbation at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:10 AM |
| 35 | And here we have NVM/LVMs who whine about paying for a first date huhOnly semi related but price is definitely a huge pro to switch to a cup if you can. They’re $20-40 but they last for years it’s so much cheaper and much much better for the environment ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:55 PM |
| 48 | OLD GUYS ARE JUST MAN CHILDRENAnd then you put your shirt back on and left right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:22 PM |
| 25 | Makes you think 🤔Can I ask what he said with the allergy of men? Because some woman are actually allergic to sperm and can have really bad reactions like difficulty breathing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:18 PM |
| 29 | Congratulations sis, you played yourself. DO NOT buy homes and have children for men you're not even married to. 🤦♀️You need credit cards to get credit right? Maybe she’s been warned off them all her life and never got one before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Congratulations sis, you played yourself. DO NOT buy homes and have children for men you're not even married to. 🤦♀️She must have legal recourse here right? Money that big there must be a paper trail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:23 PM |
| 114 | Pictures of scantily dressed women cause a region of the male brain associated with tool use to light up. Their brains literally categorize us as something to be used. The "hostile sexists" studied showed no brain activity that indicates they recognize women in bikinis as humans with thoughts.This isn’t a great study. I almost used it in an essay last year and ended up not. The study is over 10 years old, the group size is only 21 men, and the study has not been done again with a new group since. The sample size is too small for a true analysis, it’s more of a shocking headline then anything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:20 PM |
| 9 | THE BAR IS SO LOW ITS UNDERGROUNDThe only way this is remotely acceptable is if you want to go ring shopping with her and let her pick the ring out and just want a placeholder but even then I don’t see why they can’t buy a little cheap $5 ring cause even that would look better. Of if these are little middle/high school kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:22 PM |
| 162 | We are not responsible for who is attracted to us. But we do need to be discerning when it comes to the kind of people we entertain and keep aroundI know this is a dating sub but I just want to remind everyone this goes for EVERYONE in your life.. pickme behavior extends past romantic relationships make sure the people you’re friends with are people of quality where you two mutually make each other better people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:13 PM |
| 31 | Exactly! Stop accepting zero effort and start demanding what you deserve!Idk it just feels inappropriate to me. With a dorm room they’re directly in your room and normally the only real spot to sit is in your bed; if you have a suite with a separate living room it feels different but the idea of hanging out alone in your bedroom on the bed, even if it’s genuinely not someone they’re attracted to or have any risk of anything happening with, just makes me uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:09 AM |
| 30 | Exactly! Stop accepting zero effort and start demanding what you deserve!I’ve been in a relationship for over a year vs my best friend at six months. When my boyfriend and I first started dating, because we were long distance and it was both of ours first “real” relationship, we sat down one day and had a long talk about both of our boundaries and came up with a pretty clear rules for what was and wasn’t okay. Nothing crazy just things like; no being alone with someone opposite sex in your dorm room, no hanging out alone with someone opposite sex late at night. There… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 01:40 AM |
| 19 | Co-parenting sisterhood?The this exactly what I was thinking. It sounds so nice in theory but with 3-4 woman unless all of them are lesbians that wouldn’t work out because eventually one woman will cave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 12:41 AM |
| 31 | Man thinks because you matched with him on tinder, you should have sex with him 😒 gets pissed when a girl doesn’tHoly fuck. 👏 SHOW 👏 HIS 👏 FACE 👏 SHAME 👏 THESE 👏 MEN 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:27 PM |
| 14 | The goal should be: Power couple at the end of the world.Pretty easily Jim was a shitty dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 03:31 PM |
| 46 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.In the study what it is is 1/3 of men are who would “force a woman into intercouse” repercussion free, whereas when directly asked if they would rape it drops to 13.6 percent. So I do think that the 1/3 is an accurate representation of who would/is capable of committing rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | We’re not “females” we are women. We are more than “someone’s daughter” we are PEOPLE.My personal opinion is I would like a guy to ask my parents for their /blessing/ to marry me and join the family, but not their permission. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 01:54 PM |
| 169 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.Remember that study with college men? https://archive.thinkprogress.org/1-in-3-college-men-in-survey-say-they-would-rape-a-woman-if-they-could-get-away-with-it-ffa7406b9778/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 34 | UnbelievableOh that’s what it was lmao. I was trying to figure out wtf “gomod” was 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 1 | I came across this on TikTok and wanted to share ✨✨Dude everyone has been doing that. I bought groceries recently so I wasn’t too bad but I went and got a fuckton of cheap ramen/Mac and cheese/ soups just in case stuff gets really bad so I have a lot of no perishables | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The only way to win the game is not to play!If you guys broke up why would he bother telling you? You’re not a part of each other’s lives anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:54 PM |
| 3 | “Cooking a nice dinner isn’t a sign of being a grown up. Cleaning your kitchen after that dinner and before you go to bed is being an adult.”Wait I have that in my fridge is that bad? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:43 PM |
| 4 | I don’t know how to feel about this...Was just thinking the same thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Society sees this as the norm for motherhood, how many sleep deprived fathers do you know? 🤡I might get attacked for this; but if a couple has kids even if they try to split it equally isn’t the mom more likely going to /have/ to be the one up at night? Unless they’re bottle feeding the husband isn’t capable of feeding them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Pick-Me tales from reddit: Pick-Me falls for former friend who stole her nudes, askes reddit for advice since " he'd make me so happy as my boyfriend", claims he is just a confused virgin. WHAT IS LIFE Y'ALL?That’s exactly what I was thinking. Maybe he just found out they broke up and is going to try and get back in her life or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 08:01 PM |
| 12 | Before you get the ring, please know his political views. For reals!!That risks alienating men who align with your values because 1) they’ll think you don’t agree 2) if you come clean and say “I was testing you I’m actually XYZ” that’ll give a lot of people bad vibes because you lied and they’ll stop talking to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 05:35 AM |
| 9 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .Won’t an adopted daughter still have a random guys genes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:18 AM |
| 39 | May you meet someone who IS a feminist, not someone who SAYS he's a feminist.This! It felt weird at first with my boyfriend when I asked and he said he wouldn’t call himself a feminist, bust when I asked further it was because he felt like guys who called themselves feminists were try hards who creeped on girls; I didn’t really understand what he meant at first but I feel like I do now you definitely can’t trust those guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Boy becomes a douche after woman refuses to share her ig for privacy reasons. The level of entitlement this scrote has is unmatched.People are listing douchey reasons a guy would want your insta and they are all possibilities and this dude is obviously a lunatic but I don’t think asking for insta is that unreasonable in and of itself. Insta is so much more visible then snap and snap stories you can get a feel for them as a person and /most importantly/ you can see if they’re in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 08:25 PM |
| 2 | I love this woman. Her Twitter is usually about having standards and HVM, and people are usually big mad.Late response but I’d probably consider them like a half date? Like we do it when we want to do something and we might go to the cherry blossoms on campus or something to eat them and chill for a little bit and it’s nice and fun but we do have full on dates where we go to the movies or dinner or stuff like that too. Those cost more though so we definitely don’t do them as frequently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 05:22 PM |
| 1 | I Cannot Fucking Believe This Pickmeisha Made Me Agree with Joe Rogan. Dr. Debra Soh claims there is "No Such Thing As Porn Addiction". How Much Does the Porn Lobby Pay for these Researchers to Pretend That Porn Has No Effect On People?Do you have a link to that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 06:41 PM |
| 53 | BrilliantWhat’s the theory? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | I love this woman. Her Twitter is usually about having standards and HVM, and people are usually big mad.I’d raise it to 22 for broke college students my boyfriend and I do that all the time; although this is also a year in lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men.Did I say that it did? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 08:50 PM |
| 8 | This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men.I thought she was Afro Latina? Edit: I was right she is. https://54.204.251.142/cardi-b-sets-the-record-straight-about-her-race-and-ethnicity/ Latino is an ethnicity not a race the two are not mutually exclusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 5 | Anyone see that Finland is criminalizing unsolicited nudes?As bad as it can be, they do a hell of a lot of good things. They’re charging Netflix right now for distributing child porn in Texas bc of that Cuties movie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:42 PM |
| 7 | It is really sad to think about when a cam site is 33rd most popular site in the world.What is this website that tracks it? Also what’s the #1 site? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:35 PM |
| 54 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.I don’t know if it’s because I’m in college and they push free tests on campus, but I’ve never known a dude who slept around who didn’t get tested every three months and wasn’t willing to show results. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 58 | 'Sex work is work' doesn't prove anythingRight?! I was reading that and thinking “How shitty is your life that your best relationship has been with a man who thinks woman are a commodity to be bought?” These aren’t good men. These aren’t heartwarming stories. It’s abused woman who found a man who partook in her abuse but was nice to her face. Notice how few of the stories actually resulted in marriage? One girl who was a sugar baby said her sugar daddy fell in love and when she confessed back he said he couldn’t love a whore and stoppe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 9 | They’re now mocking sensual and intimate sex. The comments are full of girls saying how they only watch brutal or forced or kidnapped porn?? And they’re so proud of it??I doubt that the editing with the words it tiktok’s editing but there’s only her account name in the corners there’s not the weird two account names that happens when a person reposts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:52 PM |
| 40 | A Seeming-HVM Explains Why He Won't Leave his Forever Girlfriend for Someone Else He Likes More, Using Economic Theory as ExplanationThere’s an app called Call Recorder- i think it’s a one time $10 but I used it when my friends shitty boyfriend kept calling me so he couldn’t pretend I was flirting back or something. Pretend the call is dropping, hang up, then call him back with it already patched in. Its decent quality and honestly $10 is probably worth the job safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:27 PM |
| 9 | Being (rightfully) cautious around men is enough for women to be called misandrist. But even men don’t trust other men.The weekend one seems dumb... how many of us would be happy with our s/o spending the night at a female friends house? It’s just inappropriate even if you trust the person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:43 PM |
| 45 | Oops....My best friends boyfriend was sleeping around and the day HE accused her of cheating because her maps showed her in the middle of the woods (even though she lived in a one bedroom by herself and could’ve easily had someone over if that’s what she was doing) a girl messaged her on FB so apologetic that she had just made a Facebook account and saw his relationship status and didn’t know he was in a relationship and sent screenshots and if she had any other questions about it to please ask and that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Find out if a family member, friend, or acquaintance is a LVM/NVM by asking them what they got for their wife, partner, significant other, or ex when they gave birth to their child...Yeah same this seems like a stupid thing to judge a guy on. I just googled it because I had never heard of it before and the first thing that popped up said only like 55% of American woman know what that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:36 PM |
| 16 | On men who are obsessed with a specific type of women (aka scrotes who reduce women to what gets their pp hard)I just saw this other Latina girl who posted a tiktok in her Snapchat that was a black dude who said “I don’t know who needs to hear this but Latina girls belong to black men.” And it just pissed me off so much. Like I’m happy with my Jew lmao I don’t want your creepy ass I don’t belong to you. I’ve had dudes make comments about me having an ass cause I’m Latina, about how ~~spicy~~ I am, asking if I’ll call them “papi” all this dumbass shit. And I’m fucking Latina I can’t even imagine how bad i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 07:18 PM |
| 32 | My profile said I don't want kids, and I don't do hookups 😡*^ this. A lot of people view “don’t do hookups” as code for hookups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:27 PM |
| 17 | LVM who get themselves blockedThat is very much a thing. All my friends who had single moms were molested or raped by their moms boyfriends at some point. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.couriermail.com.au/news/queensland/pedophiles-target-single-mums-on-dating-sites-to-molest-their-children/news-story/8f26ef15be7a3813070964910fb07a4b | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 2 | Cardi B Says She Left Offset Because She Didn't Want to “Wait Until He Cheated on Me Again”Cardi might not have been but most prostitutes are human trafficking victims and I doubt they’re all world class actors so I’m sure the men are aware that they don’t want to do this and are forced to. Maybe what she did is unethical too but I really couldn’t care less what happens to those types of men. Them dying would improve their sex on the whole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:25 PM |
| 10 | Women only gyms need to be normalized so that we don’t have to deal with being stared at, harassed or catcalled while trying to workout🙄🙄I mean as others have said mixed gender gyms are often much bigger and have a much wider variety of services offered. A woman only gym wouldn’t be able to compare unless it’s in a huge city my Y would not be able to be even half it’s size if no men went based on how rarely I saw woman there. To be fair I’m a dancer so I only ever used the yoga studio or group workout room so I was always pretty secluded so I haven’t experienced any huge issues. But the occasional times that I would workout with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢Not the person you asked but my mom used Connoisseurs; it’s in a red bottle thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:36 PM |
| 76 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.I’m sorry if this is inappropriate to ask but out of curiousity... What did you see that was so bad? And what did he admit to that was worse? (That tactic is hella smart btw I wouldn’t have thought to do that in a reverse situation I probably just would’ve called them out for whatever I saw and flipped out) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:31 AM |
| 14 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyWomen’s periods do not synchronize that is a myth. https://modernfertility.com/blog/cycles/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:15 AM |
| 27 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyPart of that is because of exactly what you said. Woman are fertile for a short window versus males consistent fertility. It’s easier to interrupt woman’s cycle made of eggs that have been in the body since birth and are set then develop something that can combat the daily creation of sperm in men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:14 AM |
| 5 | Women Are Being Trained by Porn to Like Degrading, Violent, Male-centered SexIs this an actual thing though? Can getting wet be harder if you’re dehydrated? What even is it. it’s not water because it doesn’t dry up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:32 PM |
| -5 | What would you tell black women who are experiencing racial bias when it comes to dating?I know this isn’t the important part of the survey and aside from the point but it’s really irking me that for the different ‘races’ the woman is labeled LatinO not LatinA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:03 PM |
| 6 | Rant about guys my ageFor what it’s worth, not all boys are like this even in our age group. I’m a sophomore in college and my boyfriend is in a frat (exactly where you would expect a douche guy to be) and he doesn’t watch porn, he always opens the door for me or car door (even when I’m driving lol). I was FTing him once and one of his brothers came in when he was living in house and I don’t remember how it came up but one of them mentioned seeing those fucked up articles last year when a new scandal was breaking eve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 12 | My sister taught me that every woman cannot be saved, and I have to accept it we all should.Dude not to be a dick but said friend intentionally would go after guys in relationships. Some better ones shut her down some didn’t. The point I was trying to make is in some instances woman are shitty and I don’t know if you can fault them for the relationship being destroyed but they are not innocent. She intentionally went after taken guys this was a consistent thing she did to the point where I, her best friend who hung out with her 5 days a week, did not feel safe letting her around any bo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:10 PM |
| 6 | The Audacity of some scroteaI haven’t read your other post so I have no context outside of this, but I wonder if your husband found your account logged in somewhere and this is a fake account to stop you from leaving him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 58 | My sister taught me that every woman cannot be saved, and I have to accept it we all should.I think it’s fair to be upset with them (if they knew). It’s a scumbag move to stay with a man who’s taken. But it is inappropriate when they blame the woman and find the man faultless. My best friend in high school was a piece of work; I stayed friends with her way longer then was healthier for me but I remember she would constantly flirt with and get with dudes who were in relationships and I remember one time where I still wish I had called her out- we were talking about it in the car and she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:31 PM |
| 44 | Never settle for less than you deserveIt’s a fact that woman are delaying marriage but that could be attributed to other reasons; for example, I could argue woman are trying to get to a further point in their career before starting to have kids because having kids and taking maternity leave can stagnate some woman’s career and they want to have a higher pension when they retire. I never said I disagreed I said it’s not verifiable and even if he posts random stories of woman agreeing that’s not verifiable that’s anecdotal. Unless the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:44 PM |
| 32 | Never settle for less than you deserveI don’t think it’s uncertainty just that that’s not really a verifiable fact | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 5 | Serious question: Have older men ever became obsessed with you?My best friend and I used to work in a cafe together. A older man came through one day who was American but spoke the language of my nation of origin and wrote a book about it and I made some small talk because that’s always fun to me. He would come through a few more times when I was working and always came to talk to me and I never thought much of it because we had a ton of regulars. He came in one day with his wife and son. I was bringing more trays for people and set them down. I had to cut … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 2 | What the actual f*** is wrong with menI mean I found this sub through people complaining and I’m sure a lot of others did too. Even if she talks shit it’ll just bring more people in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 2 | refreshing to finally see some condemnation of liberal feminism on a popular sub. they're finally learning.There’s one person named mist weaver or something who’ve I’ve been seeing a lot of on there and she posts a lot of radical feminism stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:04 PM |
| 10 | Politics changes need to come. Men need to be imposed a Homicide and Partner violence tax.Prime example of this: the Japanese internment camps in America during WWII. White woman were forced to go with their Japanese husbands into them. Japanese woman married to white men were allowed to stay out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think about the show "Jane The Virgin"Yeah goals is the wrong word I was thinking more of last 2 seasons Petra. I like that she grows though. Jane just regresses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:43 AM |
| 11 | What do you guys think about the show "Jane The Virgin"I hated how everyone worships Jane and she can do no wrong throughout the whole show and everything the Villanuevas do is right. The whole main family felt so selfish I’d have to rewatch for examples but I hated them. I love Petra though she is goals 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:49 AM |
| 4 | There’s one particular LVM I can’t get out of my head, no matter how hard I try.Thank you! Yeah I know I definitely lucked out I would not try that again if we broke up. It honestly has me worried for any daughters I have because I don’t want how I met their dad to be a big secret (for now I was thinking I’ll just tell everything else- we met at the bonfire and spent the whole night talking minus the sex part) but my sisters all know and stuff like that always comes out. I don’t want them to take that as an example and try to go looking for love in one night stands because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:07 PM |
| 6 | There’s one particular LVM I can’t get out of my head, no matter how hard I try.Yeah no that is in no way your fault for ‘going wrong’. Be more careful next time for your own sex but you’re not to blame for that going the way it did. And like people said social media makes people look way better then it really is. Ngl whenever I get FOMO from other people’s socials I scroll through my own social media and look at all my old fun memories and it makes me feel better- maybe that would be helpful for you? EDIT: sake not sex lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 12 | There’s one particular LVM I can’t get out of my head, no matter how hard I try.I met my now boyfriend from a one night stand. When I was visiting a friend I told him to set me up with someone as a rebound because I had just gotten out of a really bad relationship a month before. We ended up spending the entire night talking after and never fell asleep and we’ve been together a year now and I still am like “how the hell did I fall face first into this?” I’m not trying to encourage hooking up or immediately sleeping together because that can backfire very very easily, but my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Is he HV? Always pays on dates, doesn’t push for sex, is intelligent & excites me, but recently moved to a different city, so it would be long distance.How long have y’all been seeing each other? If you really like him and he seems good I would say go for this date if it’s not too far (you didn’t mention but I’m assuming 1/2 hours away? I don’t know how realistic that is for you to drive) and over the date discuss intentions; and while there doesn’t need to be an ironed out timeline you should definitely have at least an idea of the plan. I saw other people talking about gas and stuff. I personally wouldn’t feel comfortable just asking straight… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Is he HV? Always pays on dates, doesn’t push for sex, is intelligent & excites me, but recently moved to a different city, so it would be long distance.A lot of people are saying long distance isn’t worth it. Long Distance isn’t worth it if you do it wrong you NEED to discuss life goals and plans to close distance early on. I met my boyfriend at a bonfire when I went to visit for a friends graduation. We did long distance for a year and closed the distance in August. Closing the distance was one of the first things we talked about, maybe a month in and we had a set plan (it actually would’ve been in 2 years but corona worked out to move the tim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Do you notice a higher concentration of HMV/LMV in certain cities/places?San Antonio is literally the second highest city with the most cheating in the US so... I’d say there’s probably a lot of bad guys here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 4 | LVMs be pulling out all the red flags in the most unique ways....WHY DO YOU WANT TO GO OUT ON A COUPLE'S RETREAT ALONE?I don’t disagree, but you do have to consider a kid potentially getting a “new parent” is already difficult enough and hard to tread; the kids interacting with the other kids and trying to live together if they get married is like 10x harder. Especially if from one side there’s siblings around the same age but in the other side their isn’t. My best friends from childhood were stepsisters and their family was doing the best they could all things considered but there was so much infighting and one… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:21 AM |
| 6 | This is the 2nd time I got a dm from an ugly male lurker on this subreddit. I trolled him a bit and then blocked. Don’t they know how pathetic they look? 😂 they’re literally only proving us right.Blocking someone on reddit doesn’t hide you from them it just hides them from you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:40 PM |
| -2 | How to not attract creepsIf you’re not kind or nice you don’t get tips. I straight up flirt with customers when I worked at a bar and so did my best friend. Our boyfriends work customer service jobs too and the four of us were all in agreement that it’s okay to flirt while working that’s how you get the best tips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | “what do you mean having a dui and six charges is a big deal? why are you upset?” -LVMI don’t think that’s very fair. Some people are born into really crappy situations and go along because they don’t know better; in your exes case he was just amoral but generally bettering yourself is a testament to good character. It depends on why bettered themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 31 | Couples on YouTube/ in the media who are actually good couples?Safiya Nygaard and Tyler Williams are sweethearts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:32 PM |
| 56 | Just a rant about comments on makeupShe doesn’t wear a lot but foundation and lip gloss are some of the most transferable makeups imo especially onto a WHITE jumper and depending on the darker her skin tone the more obvious it’ll be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Meredith Grey, the OG PickMe 😂It’s u/ when it’s an account, r/ is for subreddits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else shocked by how many ‘out and proud’ men there are about binge drinking / smoking (420/tobacco) and drugs?I think it’s just a generational thing at least for weed. I moved recently and downloaded bumble for friends and so many girls have pictures smoking/ captions say “420 friendly” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:12 AM |
| 27 | Please remove ALL personal information from screenshots before posting them hereUse Snapchat to cover stuff not apple settings it isn’t sheer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have serial add-er LVM? 😂I was talking to a dude from tinder like 2 years ago and he had made a few different gross comments so I went ahead and deleted him and he noticed a day later and he kept readding me that day... I guess to get my attention? Idrk what his logic was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:21 PM |
| 6 | Any FDS songs that don’t mention guys?Most Girls by Haille steinfield | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:18 AM |
| 8 | This thread made me realize how much I have been groomed. I remember this man called «Batmanforever» that wanted to meet me when I was 13 years old. He told me he was 25. Its heartbreaking to read.So many fucked up” I’ve been sold to ‘XYZ celebrity’ “ or bullying romance stories | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | I'm just focusing on myself!SAME 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Where the fuck are some good Rom-Coms?I appreciated “To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before” it’s a teen romcom but I felt like it was a relatively healthy one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:52 PM |
| -1 | Notice the Way His Dog BehavesYes to this. I have a shelter dog and have been working on training but she is very protective of me and will jump at any stranger or dog that comes near me because she’s worried they’ll attack me. I was on a walk with her and a friend who she loved once and some idiot had their dog off leash. When the dog started running up I started pulling her back and my friend got in between (it was a small dog that just seemed interested it wasn’t aggressive or anything) but but dog was barking and her bar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 4 | Notice the Way His Dog BehavesHard disagree. I got my dog at a shelter and the way she acts she was very clearly beat before I got her. She’s very protective of me/aggressive to strangers and other dogs when they come near me and my boyfriend has said she’s still aggressive but not as bad when I’m not around. I’ve been working on it with her and she’s not less aggressive but we do “look at me” on walks so she’s not focusing on those people/dogs. Aggression in a dog can mean so many things and you can do your best with a dog … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Opinion: Feminism in the bedroom can leave women unfulfilledThere is a lot of overlap in beliefs held but nuance is key. A lot of traditional feminists are also religious so for example -a traditional feminist might be against pornography/prostitution because it is a sin/‘immoral’ - a radical feminist will also be against pornography/prostitution because it is fueled by the degradation of woman/human trafficking -a traditional feminist will be against sleeping around because you’re meant to wait til marriage and judge someone having sex - a radical femin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 51 | Thought y’all would appreciate this (for context I commented that on a IG reel video and the ‘joke’ of the whole video was “my husband doesn’t do anything to help with the house or kids”)This was on Instagram haha but truue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:49 AM |
| 25 | Oh hell noIt’s most likely a fake screenshot the company made to pay meme accounts to post lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Boy bye.Y’all realize condoms come in different sizes for a reason right? Sure they can force it to fit but it probably will be painful if they’re too big and it has a much higher chance of breaking. If a guy is trying to bully you or manipulate you into unprotected sex tell him to fuck off but stop spreading this type of stuff that could put people trying to avoid having kids at risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What does this mean?Disagree with that LDR are the same as others- some work, some don’t. They’re harder sure but not inherently a waste of time. I just closed the distance this month after a year and I have friends who have had to go long distance for school or other reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:13 PM |
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