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I’ve realized that there are two types of “nice” and I do believe that nice guys do exist. Guys are either submissive nice or dominant nice - beta nice or alpha nice. Beta nice is fake niceness, and it isn’t deceptive intentionally, it’s just a natural response to being submissive - similar to when an animal submits to a more dominant animal. Alpha nice is genuine niceness. If you’ve ever seen two alpha ish guys, the most alpha is the one who’s the more compassionate. This has been proven in chi…
/r/seduction24/12/18 05:22 PM
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I agree with that. X mas break is coming up, plus I’ll be leaving here in a month or so, So I’d rather try to re-initiate sooner rather than later.
/r/seduction04/12/18 09:44 PM
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Thanks for the advice! Everything you said kind of elaborated on my fear, which is a belief I’ve adopted of “don’t come off as some overly nice guy.” I think I’ve tried to build rapport / connect in the past with girls out of neediness, so this has tainted by view on it. Now I avoid the personal questions because they pull me back into that needy “ask her questions” pedestal mindset. But I just realized...I don’t have to connect these emotions. Building a connection can also be done out of desir…
/r/seduction04/12/18 05:51 AM
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I usually go with “is it suppose to be nice out tomorrow?” And they say “I’m not sure.” And I say “yeah me neither.” Then leave.
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:48 AM
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Hahahaha
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:48 AM
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What’s your response rate when you number close quickly, like if the interaction is brief? That’s another thing that’s messed me up - watching RSD instructors kill it in interactions that last 20 minutes. I always had the belief that you’ve gotta get to know them good first.
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:34 AM
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Haha dude that me feel better. One thing that’s MAJORLY helped me is holding an assured expression. Not only does it make you appear calm and confident, but it actually helps me feel it. I actually ended up approaching this chick after I posted this. Just talked about random shit. Started telling her we should rob The Dollar Store. She said she got out at 9, and my first thought was “tell her let’s hangout and get her number.” But my mind said FUCK! Don’t do that and I didn’t. Hahah. But yeah li…
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:26 AM
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You are nice because you are beta. Once you become alpha you will not be “nice.” Real nice, sure. Real niceness is the most attractive thing for people. Guys look at being alpha as too hard, because only the “elite” are alpha. That’s not true. Millions of men are alpha, and it’s all about a simple change in mindset. Anybody can adopt the alpha attitude, and when you have the alpha attitude, you instantly become alpha. How does one change their mindset? Being alpha is all about being in control. …
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:26 AM
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Really awesome article.
/r/seduction30/11/18 04:11 AM
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“Being needy come across as you can’t live without them.” The way I see it the following happens when you are needy. 1) you don’t have much sex 2) you feel lonely and deprived 2) you talk to a girl 3) you realize that you could have sex with her 4) you realize that this would fix your loneliness 5) you become needy 6) she realizes you are needy How does one fix this? Having sex, getting girls. Fix number 1, fix the rest. But how do you fix #1? I have no idea. That is why I don’t have much sex.
/r/seduction30/11/18 03:59 AM
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Re reading this it actually is a great mindset even coming from a starting point
/r/seduction29/11/18 07:13 PM
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That's very insightful, and I appreciate the response. I think it's easier to take on those beliefs when you are actually abundant. Like they register in my brain, but they don't hit at the core. I guess it's probably self beliefs that are holding me back from realizing this.
/r/seduction29/11/18 01:00 AM
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