Need escalation advice

hunterpua · 2018-12-11T21:15:43+00:00

Break Rapport.

Neg, tease, disqualify, disagree, push pull, play tricks on her, physically break rapport (ex. high five, down low, too slow), etc.

What you're doing right now is having comfort building conversations with girls. Those are naturally sort of bland.

You need to build comfort first before you can break rapport because if you just go around talking shit to people you don't know then you won't be seen as boring but you'd be seen as a dick.

But you already got the comfort part down so no need to worry about that.

You can do something like looking deep into her eyes like she's the most beautiful thing you've ever seen and saying, "Has anyone ever told you how beautiful.......MY eyes are?" or you can say, "You're way too tall for me" if she's a short girl and "You're way too short for me" if she's a tall girl, you can also playfully say, "Damn, you're sexy. Too bad you're kinda bland to talk to."

Saying things like those are all that you need to shift the conversation into a more flirty tone. Suddenly you guys aren't being so serious with each other, you guys are now messing around and being playful.

jonnysunquest · 2018-12-12T01:37:31+00:00

Are you talking about a girl you will see again? If so, I'd recommend to not force anything. Keep cool and a positive mind. Wait for the next time. Build slowly, but playfully, trusting your instincts if the gal is into you or if she is indifferent to you. If she's not into you, be polite but keep expectations low--you never know, she may have a friend who you may fancy. If she's into you, enjoy the art of seduction.

If you want to escalate as to take conversation to the next step such as an invitation to do something (hang out, get together, etc.) that's another topic.

Title	Need escalation advice
Author	MrBobosky
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	December 11, 2018 8:27 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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