MrFicks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
82	None of this will help, until you fix this		MrFicks	/r/becomeaman	05/06/15 11:24 PM
28	Increase your Power		MrFicks	/r/becomeaman	12/06/15 11:54 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	[FR] Powertalk and Lifting being used to diffuse workplace shit-tests. This doesn't cover his ass because everyone (including the "Clueless") understood the threat.	/r/TheRedPill	17/07/15 12:12 PM
1	[FR] Powertalk and Lifting being used to diffuse workplace shit-tests. I don't disagree with what you did, but this isn't Powertalk. This is Straighttalk. There is little plausible deniability here. Your intentions were clear to any observer.	/r/TheRedPill	16/07/15 08:08 PM
2	How to deal with disrespect from a male friend? I was in the same situation a little while back. The only solution is to physically fight him. I tried everything under the sun to get the harassment to stop. Finally, I told my buddy what my line was. He crossed it and the fists started flying. Since then I have received so much more respect from people and feel so much more confident. In fact we are closer friends than we were before. Even if you get your ass kicked, it doesn't matter. The respect you gain will be worth it. If it doesn't work …	/r/askTRP	09/07/15 01:47 PM
2	Out of the 4 sidebar books, which would you say is the most definitive and important RP work? Agree 100%. "The Way of Men" by Jack Donovan should be required reading for every man. Changed my view of the world. After that read "No More Mr. Nice Guy".	/r/askTRP	28/06/15 12:03 PM
1	How to confront people without looking like a whiny asshole Google "Broken Record assertiveness technique". Also read "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty". It is a great book on how to become more assertive.	/r/askTRP	26/06/15 09:56 PM
2	Male to male shit testing Jack Donovan covers this in "The Way of Men". The men in your honor group will constantly test you. They are testing how you respond to an attack. If you stand up for yourself they will trust you. It tells them that if there is an attack from outside the group, they can rely on you to fight for them.	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/15 01:11 PM
3	None of this will help, until you fix this Thanks for sharing that...I can tell you that I went through an anger phase as well. Once the anger wore off, I felt empowered. I felt like a man for the first time in my life and most importantly, I felt like I was in control of my life. I too had to improve on my confrontation skills. What helped me was to focus on being assertive instead of confrontational. Pick up a book on assertiveness training. It will make you realize how much people have been manipulating you into doing things you don't…	/r/becomeaman	21/06/15 11:47 AM
2	None of this will help, until you fix this That sucks...I think most of us have had similar experiences. Just make sure you are not blaming yourself for this. If you made some mistakes that's fine, you're allowed to. But it sounds like she has some deep rooted issues of her own. From the tone of your post, it sounds like you are still playing the role of a victim. You are not a victim here and you need to stop viewing yourself as one.	/r/becomeaman	08/06/15 04:38 PM
6	None of this will help, until you fix this That is true...Either way you are facing your fears. Just act. Don't let fear of abandonment paralyze you. Just know that when someone does abandon you, YOU WILL HANDLE IT!!	/r/becomeaman	06/06/15 05:34 PM
2	None of this will help, until you fix this Absolutely...This is a life long process. The first step is identifying the abandonment issue. Then you need to improve step by step. The 2 books suggested at the end of the post help you do this. Facing fears and becoming more assertive help you to get over your abandonment issues.	/r/becomeaman	06/06/15 03:54 PM