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1

What sucks is having a spouse who has tapped out of a marriage and it is forcing the other side to make life changing decisions. If he is the bad guy, she equally is. This idea that someone can be a shit spouse that is giving zero intimacy or effort needs to start being highlighted more.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/22 11:18 PM
4

You don't suck at all. Most people would have easily just dove into cheating as a solution. Life too short to be miserable. And it is cool you thought out a gameplan for your happiness and mental health.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/22 04:19 PM
1

Watch the movie 40 Year Old Virgin with Steve Carroll. Super funny, but also will help you.
/r/seduction09/10/22 05:02 AM
2

Swingers clubs I've been two have been really chill with great people (polite, respectful, good vibes). Any chick who wants to meet up at Swingers Club is telling me that they are most definitely DTF. Prepare accordingly.
/r/seduction14/09/22 03:20 AM
22

I am happy, successful, and getting women is quite enjoyable on my end. Getting ready to buy a bigger chain, and drop around a stack on Jordan's. Maybe you should be taking note ;)
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:51 AM
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And I am Black, 6'4", buff, wear a gold chain, Jordans, and definitely love rap music and blunts. But I am also a bookworm, love deep conversation, and will get down with some Harry Potter or Star Trek. Putting nerd in my profile seriously increased my quality of matches.
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:23 AM
34

Just write a line in profile that you are more of a nerd type. In all honesty youll even get more matches because of that.
/r/seduction31/08/22 04:20 AM
3

Approaching is the hardest part of it all, sounds like you have had alot of success and progress in that area. Next step is basically learning how to flirt. It is the flirting that builds that chemistry. There's someone I want you to check out. I need to find his U: name but I will be back and repost for ya.
/r/seduction28/08/22 07:21 AM
4

I am 6'4" and have had a similar issue. I simply just say "because you have me just that excited."
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:03 AM
2

He is right though, that is "my ex is back" type behavior. Don't even bother texting her back again beyond saying "ok".
/r/seduction09/05/22 07:28 PM
5

Blue chew is thee only correct answer.
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:59 PM
1

75 numbers for 500 approaches is really good stuff. Depending on location, season (summertime lay rates increases), and improving game youll see your lay rate increase.
/r/seduction01/05/22 05:31 PM
1

Remove "pls" and be a bit more cocky. Like when she asked where are you taking me, simply say "depends on what you are wearing.." Then hit her with "you have this gorgeous body that would look so damn sexy in this outfit"
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:07 PM
1

1000% worth getting fit.
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:39 AM
1

Just means you need to be a little more flirty, compliment her on what you find attractive, and be playful.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 04:43 PM
1

Group dates are a blast. Usually will bring a joint or make sure the party continues on late with some booze. 9 out of 10 times she has a great time, and I have an even better time with her.
/r/seduction04/04/22 09:51 PM
2

Have breathe mints, body spray, condoms, water bottle or two, and snacks. When she arrives give her a big hug to jump start physicalness. Even hold her hand and walk her to your room. Just be focused on making sure she is comfortable, being flirty, and physical. And from there the rest will take care of itself.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:49 PM
2

Don't over think this one. Set up your room/place for company. Plus, if she ghost there is not any money wasted.
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:56 PM
2

Lol
/r/seduction17/03/22 05:33 PM
1

From day 1 I always looked to improve my game (hence being in this subreddit). Dating apps really helped me master my craft and find all the confidence in the world. Without the dating app experience I am not sure if I ever would have found myself with the confidence and skills with 8-10s.
/r/seduction17/03/22 02:48 PM
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I heavily used dating apps for like 3 years or so. Hook ups were easy to find but they were women between 4s-7s. Alot of those were mid to young 20s. Ton of fun stories and women. Took a lengthy break from online dating and although hook ups reduces, quality went up to 8-10s. And let me tell you, once you bang a hot 10 it changes how you view dating.
/r/seduction17/03/22 12:06 AM
1

Sorry, didn't know it was an invite only group.
/r/seduction13/03/22 07:06 PM
1

checkout a sub called covertpickup lines Pesonal experience has been that I got with way hotter women approaching in person vs dating app. It just takes figuring out somethings. That sub will help if you are willing to work for it.
/r/seduction12/03/22 10:09 PM
3

Sounds like a friends with benefits opportunity. Sounds like you are overthinking this completely. Next time she has no plans, set up a date with intentions of getting her naked and snuggled up with you.
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:47 PM
2

Just be yourself, and make sure yall are just having fun. The rest will take care of itself. Tips Hug them when you first meet. This breaks the physical barrier, and allows comfort to set in more naturally. Don't be afraid to be handsy in a comfortable way. Make sure you have breath mints, condoms, and good smelling cologne. Be sure to groom, and make sure you looking your best (but make sure comfortable too). Understand you need a place to hook up. So clean up your place. Or rent a nice hotel f…
/r/seduction01/03/22 02:57 AM
2

Forget that dude, shoot your shot man.
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:41 PM
1

Honestly.. just don't gaf she has a boyfriend. Run your normal game. Focus on just having an amazing night with her. And don't be afraid to let the date naturally go on until the sun comes up. Alot of guys will push for sex. And will do so early on in a date. Which can be a major turn off. Let the night naturally progress. Be flirty, be handsy, and have full interest in her and keeping her smiling.
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:01 AM
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Just some viagra
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:48 PM
1

Ill let him know what her favorite drink is.
/r/seduction21/12/21 05:10 PM
1

American English has numerous dialects. "N*gga" is a commonly use word from the Black American English dialect. Similar (but not the same) to the word "B*tch" in the White American English language. It can be used in numerous ways with multiple meanings. Imagine if someone said "A b*tch got to eat". N*gga isn't widely accepted but in the Black American English language we n*ggas really love and use the word. With how he used word that is not in a profane use. He simply identified himself as a pe…
/r/seduction14/12/21 12:01 AM
1

What is one thing you could do today that would improve your looks/style even by the most smallest fraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 01:35 AM
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No different than how you would get in a swimming pool when it is a bit cold outside..
/r/seduction29/11/21 09:37 PM
2

This was a great write up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 01:46 PM
1

way to go! And just know each time it will get smoother and less nerves.
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:34 PM
1

Hahahaha! Life can be tricky but just know where you wanna be at it very possible.
/r/seduction09/11/21 08:52 PM
1

Appreciate the advice
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:25 PM
2

Try "How to Beast" on Youtube.
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:23 PM
1

Hahaha! I am seeing that! Also, thank you man
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:22 PM
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So true.. yet still surprises me that being open and direct has been so effective.
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:21 PM
1

Understand, and applying, with what you just said was maybe the hardest part to learn. Once learned though it is a game changer.
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:20 PM
1

Good luck!
/r/seduction09/11/21 12:08 AM
5

Absolutely agree, simple approach is looking to be the best one.
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:56 PM
2

Way to go man!
/r/seduction08/11/21 07:53 PM
1

*fist pump* ;)
/r/seduction08/11/21 03:33 PM
3

Anytime someone comes on to you that strongly just know they are already DTF that night. It blows no other friend wanted to step up and be a wingman. I honestly would text her something strong, like "There wasn't a very specific dessert I wanted to enjoy that night. Hate that I missed out.." Then shoot her a cute selfie to remind her what she is missing out on.
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:45 PM
2

I can confirm that fat jacked is a thing.
/r/seduction08/11/21 01:17 PM
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Pre Game (1) Groom, look your best, smell good, and also keep breathe mints and condoms handy. (2) When I go to a party I hope to find a hot hook up. What is important is that you are aware of places to have sex. Car, hotel, back to your place, maybe something risky. Be honest with yourself, and plan accordingly. (3) Arrive to party and take a look around at potential options. Be sure that your body language and eye contact is inventing. Understand that anyone striking up a conversation with you…
/r/seduction07/11/21 05:06 PM
5

I get a ton of sex. There isn't any crazy advice or needing to look like a hunk. I am simply a gentleman, honest, and attentive. Honestly is mostly likely the most important ingredient. For women? Find a guy who is like a high quality block of clay. Someone who is honest, fun, understanding, attentive, and then shape/mold into the man you want. Alot of males don't know how to be great relationship men. The "real" great ones are willing to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:32 PM
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Sounds like yall had a cool moment together. I would be more direct. By direct letting her know you really enjoyed the car ride together. Would make a joke that the hand, stick shift move, was your flirty best move. She will laugh, but get the message you are into her.
/r/seduction31/10/21 05:25 PM
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For some, that is still beating around the bush.
/r/seduction31/10/21 04:45 PM
1

Walk up to her and say.. "Hey, really like you. Would like to get to know you better before the opportunity passes." Then follow up with her the first thing that comes to mind about her curiosity wise and just ask. The new move is to just be a straight shooter.
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:22 PM
2

LFG!!! So cool man
/r/seduction27/10/21 12:54 PM
2

I usually just text when ever I have uninterrupted time. It could be minutes or hours. When you are funny and enjoyable to talk to (or hot) no one cares how soon you text.
/r/seduction26/10/21 07:50 PM
2

Kicking ass, thanks for sharing man.
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:47 PM
2

Any first date hook ups?
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:50 PM
5

This needs to get upvoted to the moon. As a guy who is pretty successful finding SexFriends everything was spot on. I would say I am a 7 on a good day. And will have a great chance 1 out of 10 women I approach.
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:01 PM
1

Banging chicks off Tinder.
/r/seduction25/10/21 06:20 PM
2

Nothing went wrong, you are just with a chick with an odd personality. I had similar situation and it ended in the worse heart break. I stayed around thinking her feelings would change only to see her date other guys. Enjoy all the sex, but don't waste your time waiting for something serious. Continue to date around and have a life.
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:56 PM
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She could either be a busy person and prefers to message uninterrupted or she is living with someone she doesn't feel comfortable texting around. Either way I wouldn't bug about how she messages. Focus on your next date and trying to score.
/r/seduction25/10/21 01:41 PM
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/r/seduction30/07/21 10:46 AM
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/r/seduction30/07/21 10:45 AM
8

Sometimes you gotta warm the motor up a little bit longer. How was the foreplay leading up to things?
/r/seduction18/07/21 11:01 PM
3

Lift weights at the gym or play a sport.
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:18 AM
3

FYI this is the sub reddit for seduction and not r:/friendzone. Lol I think you are giving up too easily. Continue on with this unintentional group event that you planned. Ahead of time pick out a small sweet gift for this girl you like. It could be something as simple as her favorite candy. This item will help you stick out and create a more positive thought when she thinks of you. If she responds positivity to something that small, then start texting her a tiny bit more. Be funny, fun, and com…
/r/seduction19/06/21 10:43 AM
2

As long as you are happy bud :)
/r/seduction19/06/21 10:30 AM
2

Wait.. did you just friendzoned yourself??!
/r/seduction19/06/21 10:28 AM
1

Either or for me. I like to do something cute or funny snap wise so that fresh air of energy is there for the date.
/r/seduction19/06/21 01:41 AM
0

Simply let her know she is welcomed to stay warm and dry at your house.
/r/seduction16/06/21 01:50 PM
1

There's a chapter called 'What's that?" Teaching you awareness, what to be curious about, and how to ask about it to get the conversation ball rolling. So let's say you wore graphic t shirt of a band. I would simply start the conversation asking about your shirt. Let's say you didn't know about the shirt but gave a clue that you found it at a thrift store. Well then I would ask about thrifting and if you love it. Or have you trade garage sale shopping.. etc. The more someone talks the more info …
/r/seduction16/06/21 02:42 AM
1

When I was young I read a book Called "How to Speak to Someone: 92 Little Tricks" it helped me tremendously. I went from shy guy to a martial artist at conversations years later.
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:15 AM
3

You might have to stroke and blow one out to start each day. He will help with some mental clarity.
/r/seduction16/06/21 12:06 AM
3

Love what you wrote.
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:45 PM
1

Ask her out asap. Where yall go depends on what you would see as an entertaining date.
/r/seduction12/06/21 01:36 PM
10

I used gym pics on my Tinder profile. There were swipes were 3 or 4 messages in I was getting an invite to her place. It was pretty insane.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:05 AM
11

I can confirm this based off my personal experience.
/r/seduction12/06/21 12:47 AM
3

Just continue to make effort to get better. I had similar issue and started with making myself call out eye colors in my head.
/r/seduction11/06/21 02:06 PM
2

This is what you do... gotta find a toxic mindset aka A Revenge Season. Spend the next 12 months hitting the gym, building muscle, working on your style, and becoming attractive. Then slyly catch her attention where you eventually hook up with her. Then afterwards block her on all social media and ghost her ass.
/r/seduction10/06/21 11:54 AM
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I don't have answers for you but I re entered "the game" after 12 years. And I must say getting some ass is so much easier now vs back then lol.
/r/seduction10/06/21 01:11 AM
3

I would stop texting her for a week (unless she text you). After a week just keep things normal as they had been before the Fwb conversation. Eventually an opportunity will naturally present itself in the moment. And when it happens you proceed with scoring in mind. She has been a flakey biscuit. With those types you have to back off by alot, let things naturally settle, and just know when she comes knocking again the time to make a move is literally in that moment. Cause if you don't she is alr…
/r/seduction07/06/21 04:30 PM
1

When the transition goes smooth it usually equals to good things. For me I like to hear how bad things were with ex or prior dates. Then talk about what would she like to enjoy in those important areas. Then ask about love language. Love language answers are fun to discuss but brings the conversation to the doorway of getting deeper.
/r/seduction05/06/21 06:00 AM
1

I once had a bad date so awful I gave up dating. My date was a dead fish in so many ways. Then ended up having a guy come pick her up from the date lol. I was done for good then this babe hit me up the next day, we went out, and it was the most amazing date ever.
/r/seduction03/06/21 01:44 PM
1

Respond with... sure am asking questions, a few ways I would to get to know someone as gorgeous as yourself. Then compliment her on the first thing you noticed about her that was attractive.
/r/seduction03/06/21 01:40 PM
1

Spice it up with recreational drugs.
/r/seduction03/06/21 01:36 PM
6

So far it is warming up..
/r/seduction02/06/21 10:36 AM
23

You gotta bang and ghost man.
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:28 AM
1

That pull away method is a little out dated. It is mostly for the women who are hard to get. I would respond to text like normal and continue to ride the wave. How soon before yall hang out and you go for it all?
/r/seduction02/06/21 02:17 AM
5

Nothing wrong with doing that. Just never forget what the end goal is. And when it seems that isn't possible to achieve, then leave convo.
/r/seduction02/06/21 02:02 AM
1

All about doing homework before hand. Pick out the date location close to where a cool hotel would be. Download hotel . com app to phone. Make account, log in, and favorite a couple nearby hotels in area of date night. If the date is going perfect, and it needs to continue, takes like 5 minutes to pick a hotel, enter in information, and book. Doing homework ahead of time will help you pick the right one with the right price. Just make sure you pack a small bag. Put in breath mints, condom, maybe…
/r/seduction02/06/21 01:58 AM
5

You make a great point, looks matter but not in a way that should be discouraging. Just means you have to find an environment that best fits you. I am curious to know are these women you meet are you trying to hook up with them the same night?
/r/seduction29/05/21 11:41 AM
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We almost hooked up.. so to answer your question, Yes. I couldn't quite get a grasp of them both. The extra friend went ahead and invited a guy over she had been steadily talking to for weeks. So while me and my date were getting it on, her friend had a negative experience happen with that guy. Which grew her friend away from me. I was understanding but the night sucked lol
/r/seduction28/05/21 10:45 AM
1

So... similar situation happened to me when I was pretty inexperienced. It was me, the chick I was trying to hook up, and her best friend hanging out for the night. I got the thought that I would shoot for a 3some. I failed, and failed big time but I was proud I got some swings at the plate, and most importantly.. the experience. I would prep for a 1v1 but also a 1v2 if the friend shows up. If it is a 1v2, and you are taking a shot for 3some, my tip is make them both feel like they are having a …
/r/seduction28/05/21 09:27 AM
2

Youtube channel called How to Beast. He has quite a few videos worth checking out, just will have to look through them.
/r/seduction28/05/21 01:45 AM
1

Look about the same man.
/r/seduction22/05/21 12:58 AM
0

Start small, think of hug or hand holding. Simply ask for it.. "Heyyyy, I've been missing you. Come give me a hug" hold arms out Or if at the movies just reach over and grab her hand. You don't need to directly ask to be an "item". Just share with her that she has been on your mind alot. How you love hanging out.
/r/seduction21/05/21 01:54 PM
2

lIt is 2021 now.. load up on Viagra :)
/r/seduction21/05/21 11:52 AM
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In this world of sexism that we live in, and the massive amount of dick pics we send them, the least we can do is take the stressful barden of paying for the night out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:27 PM
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I always wonder if guys like OP even have good sex when they do achieve their "goal". Great dating is suppose to be about having fun together. When you think of it, sex is all about having fun together. But the fun starts with naturally building up to that point. Can't imagine some dude like OP being a fun date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 04:20 PM
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Wow! Great write up. I really hope your post grabs alot of attention. You really crafted the blue print for success really well. So many people believe you gotta look like a 10 with chiseled abs to be successful in the dating world. My experience has been similar to yours. I am not that good looking but confident in my looks, but also did the work to improve and grow in many important areas. My mushroom trips helped with the process also :)
/r/seduction14/05/21 11:26 AM
2

Woah.... like fucking Yoda man.
/r/seduction14/05/21 01:25 AM
1

Highly recommended.. gotta let the tiger out of the cage before hand.
/r/seduction14/05/21 01:15 AM
1

And to answer you question at the end... YES.. yes they can be for the right nice guy who has the looks.
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:28 PM
0

Look cute, bring breathe mints, condoms, and anything you might need to keep blood pumping to your dick. When you see her inject flirting into the air by complimenting her looks "Damn, ass is so hot in that dress I wanna grab a handful". At restuarant order drinks right off the back, it helps relax mood. Most importantly, just relax and enjoy the night.
/r/seduction13/05/21 03:27 PM
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If that is the negative thought you have going into the bedroom no doubt you already lost the before the battle even began. There's literally a thousand options to make her cum out of her mind before you even whip it out and slip it in. Figure that out, and stop crying soldier Salute
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 06:54 PM
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Tinder but I am in a top 20 city. So there's just a crap ton of people.
/r/seduction06/05/21 01:01 AM
1

Congrats man, welcome to the club.
/r/seduction05/05/21 01:32 AM
2

More mature people there is just alot less game playing. Cool to just be yourself, message alot, and be more up front.
/r/seduction04/05/21 02:23 PM
1

This is a slam dunk score. A big yes to wine and music. Just make sure you have a lengthy playlist and a second bottle ready.
/r/seduction01/05/21 06:59 AM
1

It all starts with little sly compliments
/r/seduction30/04/21 12:53 AM
3

Great Info!
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:28 AM
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No worries man, it happens to all of it. Each step you analysis how things went. Then see how you can learn from it and grow. Three things that standout. The scenario (A Bar), she approach you with strong eye contact, and third of all got close to you. If this happens to me I am probably taking a strong swing with flirting. Something as simple as "Be careful around this Mclovin cause I am always down to find some trouble to get into." Usually the response is a laugh and question back, "What kind…
/r/seduction29/04/21 03:57 AM
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Dude.. that moment of her locking eyes on you.. she was down to fuck asap. If you are ever approached at a bar, and she offers you a drink, go with playful flirty lines to test the waters. Then heat it up as she heats up.
/r/seduction29/04/21 03:06 AM
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Looking at ways to improve is the first step, and looks like you are doing that here. Don't be afraid to find books or youtubers who can help you improve at talking to girls and putting your best foot forward. Confidence starts in the mirror. To improve, you have to identify piece of yourself that you love, and be ok with finding your strength and figuring out how to highlight them. Confidence starts with learning how to love yourself.
/r/seduction24/04/21 02:32 AM
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Hahaha, oh yeah? I honestly don't think I am a hot guy, which makes it so funny to me. I don't know what would be the most easiest way to share, but shoot me a message.
/r/seduction24/04/21 12:57 AM
1

I am tall with muscle. Big arm and chest. My profile picture on Tinder is a gym selfie. I've shared before that I've gotten 100s of swipes and too many opportunities for hook ups for me to keep count. Now.. the muscles get the door open, you still gotta have the moves to match it though.
/r/seduction24/04/21 12:36 AM
0

Jump back on dating app asap. Find a girl who is broken hearted like you, get drunk, and bang like crazy as yall trade stories of heartbreak.
/r/seduction24/04/21 12:21 AM
1

I once went for the 3some. Birthday night, just the three of us, music, booze, and the right environment. At that time I didn't have the skills to pull it off, and one of them ended up calling a guy she was crushing on to come over. Entire night fell apart lol. I say make a decision now on what you want to focus on. Banging both individually or as a 3some. If 3some, find moments where you can chat it up with both of them at the same to, sorta to plant that seed. Keep flirting with both individua…
/r/seduction22/04/21 08:32 AM
1

Checking out someone's public Instagram account is creepy?
/r/seduction22/04/21 08:22 AM
1

Here is an unique answer. Alot of gyms in big cities can be tagged on Instagram. So if you look up that location tag on IG you can see everybody who take pics at gym. So you can search through the pictures and see if you see a cutie you've seen at the gym. Then you can check out her IG page and do your homework to see if this is someone you'll like to slide into the DMs with. Agree with comments that you leave people be while at gym. If they are publicly sharing their page though it gives you a …
/r/seduction22/04/21 12:26 AM
1

Quiet usually means thinking, and thinking deep and hard.
/r/seduction17/04/21 02:32 AM
2

If I am super engaged in a conversation for days, but then I know I am having a tough day or need rest I will out right say that I am tired or exhausted. I had an ex who just didn't accept that information lol. Everything would be going amazing between us, and if I had a day or two of being "off" she took it as me pushing her away. So then once I was rested and excited, and immediately checking in with her, she would be short with me. It was a nightmare to deal with. And that is way I gave that …
/r/seduction16/04/21 03:39 AM
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A lot of times when someone states they are tired, they are really just tired. Second, a day before a date I will shorten up on messages. That way all the good conversation starters are saved for the date lol. Tip: The day of the date send a few cute selfies or a cute outfit picture. It usually sparks the right things.
/r/seduction16/04/21 02:58 AM
2

Some people are just shit from a social stand point. In that situation I would have been up front. Let her know she is hella hot, then make a joke about how you lost all your words cause of her. Sorta a mix of honesty and flirting. Most girls will feel for ya and help your nerves settle down and get something flowing. Idea of how to improve, prepare ahead of time. Have fun topics in your head. Maybe a fun interactive game. Or make sure drinks are accessible so yall both can sip and set the mood.
/r/seduction10/04/21 03:29 AM
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Me too! Lol
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:20 PM
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