| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 16 | I choked | Outer Game | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 03:43 PM |
| 12 | Go do something | Logistics | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 01:34 AM |
| 8 | Maintaining a connection | Fundamentals | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Where to meet women | Logistics | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 11:43 PM |
| 4 | I think I messed up | Field Report | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 09/04/25 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Movie Date | Fundamentals | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 03:18 PM |
| 2 | How do I approach this? | Logistics | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | What happened? | Escalation & Calibration | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Dinner at her place | Outer Game | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I handle this? | Logistics | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 05:59 PM |
| 0 | Treating Myself | Field Report | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Texting Tier List | Fundamentals | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 06:56 PM |
| 0 | “I’m not so sure…” | Outer Game | Mr_Dixon1991 | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 02:56 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | I chokedKnew it… | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I chokedAm I overthinking it? | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 04:00 PM |
| 6 | I chokedYou think she was implying I wasn’t one? I interpreted it as she thought I was. | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 03:56 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a girl plays with her wrist while I'm talking to her?She's uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked for my socials but won't be able to meet for months. Now what?Was going to say this. Generally speaking, women will find time if they're that interested. | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Colleague is driving me crazy!You don't mess with women at work. She's letting you off easy. Move on... | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 04:31 AM |
| 15 | 3 Flirting Principles That Get Me Laid Over TextI have a BoA in English. I didn't realize how tryhard and formal my messaging (I barely got to text) was until I started following this sub. lol Early on, most of my convos died after a handful of messages. They were pretty bad looking back. Absolutely no playfulness. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?Depends... I dropped money on a local dating coach, and it turned out to be a total waste. Definitely talk to them beforehand. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake?No. Most of the time it's because she's not that into you. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 03:27 PM |
| 7 | Why do fat chics always pose next to hotties in OLD and think that builds attractiveness?There's always one of them in every group of women. | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Those who have been banned from tinder (match group) did you ever get unbanned?I got banned for (somehow) making two new accounts at once. | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 01:49 AM |
| 37 | Why some women reject in a very rude way?Women tend to be abundantly clear (or rude) so that men do not pester them. | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Is “hey, you’re sexy asf” too aggressive of an opening for dayYeah, that's pretty cringe. Do not comment on their physical appearance for an opener. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Do girls always give you tell tale signs of when they want to kiss youCorrection: when they want YOU to kiss them Usually, frequent touching, prolonged eye contact, and close proximity are signs of her being open to a kiss. | /r/seduction | 13/04/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I think I messed upNo, just my first name. | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 02:21 PM |
| 1 | I Quit Using Pickup Lines and Focused On This One Thing. Here's What HappenedI can't think of one off the top of my head. It's a "know it when you see it" type of thing. But yes, I'm gun-shy when it comes to pick-up lines. Unless you blow her away (in which case, it worked), she'll assume you use them all the time. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 07:49 PM |
| 2 | I Quit Using Pickup Lines and Focused On This One Thing. Here's What HappenedIt has to be really - REALLY - good for me to use it. Otherwise, you risk her lumping them with every other pickup line sent her way. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | I Quit Using Pickup Lines and Focused On This One Thing. Here's What HappenedI only use pickup lines on the apps, and I'm selective with them too. It has to be the perfect pickup line for the photo or prompt. Otherwise, I offer a compliment and follow it up with an open-ended question - online or IRL. | /r/seduction | 02/04/25 06:25 PM |
| 16 | Buddy of mine's "luck" with women suddenly flipped to positive - but I have no idea what he did differentlyDan Bilzerian explained how men don't have success because they don't bother trying, and they never get out of that mindset. Once you have success with a woman, other women no longer seem out of reach. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 06:13 PM |
| 6 | What's your biggest "aha!" realization, that seriously increased your results?This. Whether it be responding to texts... reciprocating touch... making plans work... The more they're into you, the easier things are. Once you realize this, you can gauge interest and decide whether she's worth the effort. | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 02:13 PM |
| 5 | 3 Biggest Flirting Mistakes That Kill Attraction (And How To Fix Them)Can't stress the first point enough. The longer the date goes without flirting, the likelier it is she will put you in the friend zone or give you the "nice guy" label after. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 01:32 PM |
| 0 | How do I handle this?She’s coming down to write an exam in the morning. Is it still possible to pull it off in the morning? | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I get lots of girls, but never make it past the 3rd dateSounds like you're not being bold enough or escalating. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Does hitting a girl up after she already rejected you and some time has passed and asking out her out again ever workNo, she already rejected you. Based on my experience, women file men in certain folders. It would be like applying at the same place every couple months. The recruiter knows what's up. | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 05:03 PM |
| 6 | Not replying after giving you her numberThe more you date, the easier it is to determine what their number means in each situation. | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 11:56 PM |
| 8 | I invited a woman back to my apartment and I did not escalateIt's true. They give one shot to show your stuff. I arranged a second "date" with a woman after dropping the ball at my place. Bad decision. lol | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | I invited a woman back to my apartment and I did not escalateI had a similar experience recently. You learn from it. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 10:15 PM |
| 77 | What does it mean "I like you a lot but I can't sleep with you"Move on... | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | What are some good ways to practice flirting?Dating apps for me | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:31 PM |
| 2 | How to react when married women stares at you gives you signalsThere’s no intent behind it. They’re just doing it for the reaction. Again, they’re being playful. That’s how I see it. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How to react when married women stares at you gives you signalsAt most, they are doing it to be playful. I wouldn't think they are seriously interested. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 04:59 AM |
| 1 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?There's a happy medium though. I saw girl last summer who totally got this. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:42 AM |
| 2 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?I expect most women to hold off on sex for the first couple of dates to avoid the "hookup gal" label. So I'd say Date 3 at the earliest, Date 4 at the latest. | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining a connectionI tried putting my arm around her shoulder, hand on her leg, etc… she wasn’t open to it. Also, she presented time constraints before the movie. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 09:29 PM |
| 30 | I need help complimenting 10/10 girls.Refrain from complimenting her on her physique. She will appreciate any other compliment. | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining a connectionBacked off. What should I have done instead? | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Asking out a cashier?I live in a midsize city where everyone goes to the same places. I wouldn't do it unless I knew she was 10000% into me. Otherwise, i would have to act like it never happened. Also, what signals is she giving? | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 02:19 AM |
| 7 | Maintaining a connectionShe said she "wanted to get to know me more" before going ahead with it at my place | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 10:17 PM |
| 6 | How can you tell when a girl is ready to go back to your place?If it's the second date, then just suggest a legit reason to go back to your place. In the back of her mind, she knows what might happen... she just don't want to feel dirty about it. If she's interested, then she'll accept your invitation. The worst she will say is, "No, not right now." | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 03:37 AM |
| 13 | How can you tell when a girl is ready to go back to your place?I came here to post this. lol. I smoothly introduce photos of my black cat (midway through) before asking asking near the end. And yeah, she has to be a cat person, of course. | /r/seduction | 05/02/25 03:15 AM |
| 30 | Asked a girl out, this is her reply"That's really nice, but"... excuse/reason... Laughter/emoji I would take that as a "no thank you." | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 06:08 PM |
| 1 | hotel bars vs normal bars for game?Worked front desk at a hotel for a couple years, and had a birds eye view of the bar. The bartender (before he was fired) had the best game I’ve ever seen. Yes, he was a bartender. Yes, the logistics were in his favour. But man, he had game. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | The future of hookup cultureIt's a "thing", but mostly those against it (see dating apps and Reddit) refer to it as "hookup culture." Everyone else uses terms such as casual dating and hooking up. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Do you pay on the first date?I always offer to pay, regardless of the outcome. That's why I usually pick cafes for the first date. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 04:48 PM |
| 9 | What should I do when girl says "My friend(F) and I are going to the bathroom"?Try to get her number before she goes. She's on the spot and you don't have anything to lose. Otherwise, she has time to think about it. | /r/seduction | 08/01/25 03:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach this?We live in different cities that are part of a tri-community. There's about 5 miles separating her area from mine. My place would be between her place and the cinema. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 04:44 PM |
| 3 | What do guys want girls to do when flirting?Smile, be engaged, and be playful. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 06:08 AM |
| 6 | How to smoothly tell women you’re seeing other women?"Hey, I'm not feeling a serious relationship between us. I don't mind meeting up, but I am seeing other women." | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Showing interest in a workplace?Don't even think about it. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Tips for extremely reserved womenThis. They’re not saying much because they’re not interested. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 10:01 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys do if she's late?Late for what? | /r/seduction | 23/03/24 02:28 PM |
| 1 | “I’m not so sure…”How long should I talk with her before meeting in-person? | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | “I’m not so sure…”My pictures are decent, and women (whom I match with) say I look “cute.” As for text… my profile states “looking for long-term, open to short-term”, and the description supports that. | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 04:41 PM |
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