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Why care what women say? Clearly they don't give a shit about logical consistency. WATCH WHAT THEY DO.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 08:30 PM
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I don't want to be an incel who has racist/sexist views and don't agree with their views on women. lol.
/r/seduction22/04/19 02:13 AM
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The dominance hierarchy exists to make men grow, and to ensure that the men at the bottom aren't always the same men. The boys at the bottom stay on the bottom throughout their entire school lives, never being taught that they need to grow strong and become formidable. Men go to very dark places when they stay at the bottom of the dominance hierarchy for years on end. This is very key. The dominance heirarchies are benevolent. We don't enjoy having someone be on the bottom of the heirarchy forev…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 10:29 PM
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An example in more recorded history is the Aborigines in Aus. https://imgur.com/a/tovcvrX They had wide dental arches and all their teeth, before they started getting ahold of European foods.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 06:41 PM
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It's interesting, I was reading through some passages in the Bible recently, and one verse stood out: "Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee." Genesis 3:16 Even back then, ancient religions were noticing that the curse of being a woman is to forever have your desire pointed to your husband (or men in general) but you can never reach equality. He …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 12:20 AM
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The key is to take them riding with you. Bonus points if you're riding to your dance class.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 05:07 AM
2

All it cost you was a slight embarassment to learn something about this guy. A worthwhile investment imo. Now you know.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 04:52 AM
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I think the best reply would have been, "I don't remember asking for your opinion." Shove her back, and disqualify. But hindsight is 20/20 as they say.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 03:08 AM
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She stood up in the bar and said, "Who invited you? You're just a fucking asshole. You know that?" She then tried to tell me I wasn't allowed to come with them to the next bar because "nobody likes you". Everyone in ear shot was looking at her. Her friends were all embarrassed.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:57 PM
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Busan is great, in the south.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 07:17 PM
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Great post, thanks! Made me think of this clip from RSD Tyler, regarding not spending all your time consumed in the negativity. Accept it, realize you can't change the problem and move on. https://youtu.be/kx3rkgqTWJ8?t=6m23s
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 09:25 PM
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Shame for sexual attraction. There's a mind fuck. Something to meditate on.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 04:30 AM
1

In your opinion, what would you do? Girl does something shitty to you in public. Then asks you what's wrong. You would...
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 01:39 AM
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If a girl asks you what's wrong, confront her for sure. "You just did XYZ and I'm very disappointed in your behavior tonight." "I found it was very rude how you did XYZ. That's not how I expect you to behave towards me." You need some more "Dad" game, treating her like a disobedient child. When she apologizes, whole heartedly forgive her, give her attention/affection and move on.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 11:29 PM
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Not that I care about being seen as a racist, I think this sub is closer to seduction than alt-right.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/17 08:21 PM
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Unless they're happy to settle for a 30 year old.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 09:41 PM
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Pfft, I laugh. Great nation of Kazakstan find this many times ago. The government scientist Dr. Yamuka has proved it is size of squirrel.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 01:04 AM
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Doesn't like you but wants your validation FTFY You're not friends after one date, that's ridiculous. I would stick with the old, "Watch what they do, not what they say." To that effect, go on another date with her. Be more physical, make out with her, see where things go. That will give you more information then asking us will. And don't tell me you don't want to get laid. If she told you she wanted your cock more than anything, you'd be on that so fast. This is just you protecting your ego, in…
/r/seduction04/04/16 02:55 PM
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Underrated comment. YOu make a good point. Similar to the idea that if a woman likes you, you can do no wrong. If a woman doesn't like you, or hates you, you can do nothing right.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 03:45 AM
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Ya, you're right. I'm just saying I don't go too ham with passwords and logging out and stuff.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 11:16 AM
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I usually don't go too overboard, because if a girl confronts me about something she saw on my phone, I now know what kinda person she is. I can move with that knowledge accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 11:12 AM
1

Form an old school men's club, or join one. There's a ton of red pill men who belong to these clubs, hence why they've always been under attack by women so much. Powerful men being mentors to the boys? No we can't have that...
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 02:28 PM
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There no community but you are encouraged to build your own. Have an excellent circle of powerful make friends and treat each other well. I'm building a company and there is a large framework for ritual and traditions within the company to encourage people to form meaningful friendships with each other. I only hire men, and only masculine ones. The corporate culture is great.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 02:26 PM
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Yeh, you can't complain about the CC while enjoying the fun of a soft harem. If the woman's optimal is a powerful man who gives her the tingles while providing a lifestyle for her, then man's optimal is a harem of beautiful women all fighting for your attention.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 01:26 AM
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Tren is an anabolic steroid. It's probably one of the most powerful growth hormones, originally for livestock in the 1960s. Through cutting or bulking cycles, you will see tremendous growth. Literally every cell that trenbolone acetate touches is affected. You basically will be bigger with more lean mass than is at all possible through regular diet and exercise. A side effect is that you're going to be more horny than you can imagine. Like, constantly fucking anything that moves.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 10:22 PM
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I'm doing the same thing, though I actually really get a charge out of meeting people, the chasing, the excitement and adventure of newness.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 07:15 PM
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I enjoy storytelling, I'll remember this one for sharing around the campfire when we're all sitting in the ashes of the Reddit apocalypse.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 07:14 PM
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The agricultural life style gives WAY less time for whining about female problems and is far less forgiving for weak men. Self-controled women and powerful men.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:06 AM
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"Give me your number and I'll take you out blah blah." "Sorry I have a boyfriend." "That's not what I asked..."
/r/seduction03/04/15 01:24 PM
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Whoa whoa, you can't touch the exhibits! My skin care is considered an art form in Canada!
/r/seduction10/03/15 02:32 AM
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Ditch the 1-10 thing. Either you're into it, or you're not. Generally don't fuck girls you're not attracted to, because they're low hanging fruit. You're better than that, you can challenge yourself to do better.
/r/seduction05/03/15 05:28 AM
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You posted something, I mean issues in the "concerns" sense of the word. Seriously though. Go check out Models. It's required reading for anyone interested in seduction.
/r/seduction03/03/15 10:46 PM
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OP: Go read/listen to Models by Mark Manson. He deals with some of your issues.
/r/seduction02/03/15 07:22 PM
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Mark Manson speaks to this. Don't play games, assume attraction. If she rejects you, move on.
/r/seduction02/03/15 07:20 PM
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German Volume Training, /r/leangains and /r/malefashionadvice .
/r/seduction20/01/15 05:20 AM
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I dunno about that. :P http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Claire_Underwood
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:33 AM
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Then for a real treat, tell her she's just insecure. My mind just played that out. Can see that going well... I wanna do it.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 06:15 AM
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Yeh, you're definitely right. I've been single with some girlfriends for a very long time. I'm happy to continue, and only start a LTR with someone worth while. Good conversation with you though.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:42 AM
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I want someone who is worth my time. Girls being attracted to you is boring. I have power in my own life, through my business and my racing team, but I don't want someone who is purely taking from me. I want the alpha of women.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:32 AM
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I guess it's that I don't actually care about some girls, and their attraction and neediness repulses me.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:42 PM
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I've grown to hate the retarded "girl love". It makes them seem beneath me. Maybe that's how girls view guys that are "too into" them. Put anyone on a pedestal and they have no choice but to look down on you.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 10:05 PM
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You have no other options so you start dating a landwhale. You help her get fit. You're still a loser with no prospects, so she leaves you.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 05:25 AM
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There have been people living seperate until they're married for literally ever.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 11:41 AM
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Actually I was talking to my mother the other day and the topic of gender roles came up. She's pretty RP (so is my dad) and quite Christian. She mentioned that in the Bible it says that the woman's curse (when they get kicked out of the garden of eden) is to lust after the power men have, but that men will always rule over them. Thought it was kinda interesting that the Bible noted that so long ago. EDIT: I realized I commented this on the wrong comment, that's why it seems like it doesn't follo…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:58 PM
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Generally I keep two or three girls on the go. Then you're able to accurately see the good and the bad, since you're not projecting yourself and your desires onto them.
/r/seduction16/09/14 04:39 AM
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This took MANY years, a pill will be another 15 I'd think.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 04:57 PM
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Good stuff man! Sounds like you're excited for the future, and that's good. Keep a sense of hope for the future, it'll take you a long way in life. See ya!
/r/seduction06/09/14 06:41 AM
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I learned from Tinder that I need to hone what I'm looking for. I didn't really know what I wanted before, because I didn't have that many women to choose from. Now I'm starting to find creative and quick ways to disqualify women and save myself time. I can't go on dates with everyone. It's far too exhausting.
/r/seduction29/08/14 03:19 AM
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I'm not saying I believe this, but generally black men, especially tall ones, have the stigma of being aggressive and even frightening. However, you can build extra intrigue if you are the opposite of your stereotype. If your first impression can be one of fun, playfulness and cool, you can work all that in your favour. Black guys also have the added bonus of seeming extra cool. Good style and a professional demenour can take your further than the same effort would on an Asian or white guy.
/r/seduction28/08/14 11:11 PM
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Have you got a link to anything worth while?
/r/seduction28/08/14 10:30 PM
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(Moral problems aside.) You don't get a girl to cheat, you just have to be around when she's looking. Girls who are happy in their relationships don't cheat. Those who are not, do. You run game as usual, don't bring up the boyfriend. Sometimes she's going to say something like, "I dunno about this, I have a boyfriend." You can usually break that with, "Yeh, you're right. I should leave." I've done that, moved to get up and leave and she drags me back.
/r/seduction24/08/14 10:46 PM
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No one is more or less predisposed to self diagnosing themselves as "socially awkward" and then wallowing in their self-pity. In the words of N. Dynamite's grandmother, "Get up Napoleon, make yerself a dang quesadilla!!"
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 10:35 PM
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You're at a concert. There's nothing really wrong with seeing a band and getting torqued about the main dude. I got tickets for Foster the People way back when they were farting around LA, I took my sister and she was totally over the moon, wanted Mark Foster's autograph, talked about it for the whole ride home. I know it's my sister, but I have no problem with being excited for a singer. It's about the band when you're at a concert, not you. Let your girl have a good time, laugh and be excited …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 08:47 PM
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Whenever I read these threads on /r/relationships, I just feel so sorry for these guys. Society and their upbringings have totally failed to properly equip them for life. They function fine with everything except relational conflict. Their crippling anxiety for appearing vulnerable or standing up for what they want ends up shooting them in the face.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 05:36 PM
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I'm telling you, the extent that people will excuse the actions of others so that they don't have to feel awkward, confrontational, anxious or whatever is fucking pathetic. Why don't you break up with her? Cuz she'd be mad, sad, disappointed, etc. at you? WHO THE FUCK CARES WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK OF YOU?!??! NO ONE is looking out for you. Only you can care about yourself and take care of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 05:08 PM
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Not to mention, the religious oppression she would have to fight through would, I'm sure, be considerable.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 05:55 AM
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Shit. I've been burning through them all trying to find someone worth knowing. :(
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:47 AM
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Not really. They don't know anything. I've 22 and have been dating way older lately.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 04:34 AM
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Yeh I've seen those rings. Thanks for the concern.
/r/seduction29/07/14 07:36 PM
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Haha, I have yellow rings in the center of my eyes that draws a lot of comments. MY BRAND.
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:18 PM
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I think being well read has got me further than anything else in my life. Some of the girlfriends I've had are extremely attractive and the only way I've differentiated myself is by being knowledgable on topics they like. I can talk in depth politics, business, science, pop culture, history, travel, and more. I met a girl last year, vacationing from Dubai. She was the daughter of some wealthy business tycoon, but I was able to talk to her about bio medical neuroscience because I read a few books…
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:16 PM
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Read Models, by Mark Manson. There's nothing wrong with showing emotion. It's vulnerability and it's confident. Obviously if your emotions are jealously and other toxic stuff, than hide it. But being excited, sad or in love are all valid emotions.
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:12 PM
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I got a fuckin problem.
/r/seduction26/07/14 07:29 PM
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All those types of questions are good. What are you excited about right now? Often people can't even answer that. And If someone can't answer that question it tells me a lot about the person.
/r/seduction18/07/14 07:02 AM
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I've been really worried about being rejected for a while, but a little while ago I went for the kiss with one of the more attractive girls I've been with. She pushed me away and said, "Hey no." I smiled and laughed. I was a little embarrassed at the time, but it catapulted me so far forward in my game. I've gotten to the point now where I can reject people [who don't fit my life] and I don't accept [just] any girl that comes along. It's such a great feeling. Edit: I am really drunk. Added some …
/r/seduction16/07/14 01:57 AM
1

"On nice! You two must be very happy together!" Either she is or she isn't. I've had people confess they've been thinking of breaking up. I've had people thank me and we both move on.
/r/seduction13/07/14 12:59 AM
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I call my dates. I never get flaked on anymore.
/r/seduction05/07/14 09:01 PM
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I don't hide the fact that so far, just based on some conversation and some photos, I'm interested.
/r/seduction05/07/14 08:45 PM
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"Ok, you seem interesting enough. But before I get your number, promise me you're not a fat white pedo who just wants me for my body." "LOOOOLLL No Mr!! I'm definitely a cute innocent girl!" "Pfft yeh, ok. What's your number." Then I text her: "This is the FBI. We hear you're trying to run game on a local man, trying to get wit dat ass. Is this true?"
/r/seduction04/07/14 09:14 PM
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Ok, this is a great reply. Thanks for the effort. So this guy is in praise of basically sex as the main activity you do with girls. Your interests are things you do on your own time? I guess I play around with that and see where it goes.
/r/seduction04/07/14 06:28 PM
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What do you do?
/r/seduction04/07/14 05:55 AM
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Too much like TRP. I got out of there and I'm just happy to relax and play vidya.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/14 08:34 PM
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Or even start out with something smaller. A lot of dating coaches say you should go dive in and talk to all these girls, but the shock doesn't build any skill. Go talk to 10 girls, but just start out asking them for the time. Then maybe ask them for the time, then "How's your day going?" (and then, "That sounds fun, enjoy the rest of it!") Then maybe ask them for the time, how their day was and then a question that sounds logical to ask based on their response. SLOWLY work up towards having full…
/r/seduction30/06/14 04:42 AM
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I supposed. He just seemed so miserable. Completely distraught over being treated like a door mat by his wife.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 02:52 PM
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Right, sorry yeh. Huge shit eating grin. Picture her playing with herself and moaning your name. Giggle inwardly to that.
/r/seduction13/06/14 03:58 AM
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First, read the side bar and give yourself some primers on approaching and stuff. This is a question that has been covered before and is fairly basic. That being said, here's my take. make small chat about their day, how much longer she has to work "I don't usually harass cute girls at work, but if you weren't at work and I asked for your number, what would you say? Acknowledge that it's unusual to ask for a girls number at work. Put her in the frame of mind that you're just a dude, not a custom…
/r/seduction13/06/14 02:55 AM
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RIP in peace quickdrawmcgraw
/r/seduction12/05/14 08:26 PM
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I read the book late in my pursuit of self improvement and women, so the value I took from the book was to not be all that concerned about what other people think about you. Be a polarizing person and this will help push away the people you don't like, while attracting the people you do.
/r/seduction12/05/14 12:10 PM
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I don't want you to think that the F-Close-is-the-pinicle-of-seduction logic is wrong or something. (well, maybe I do) There's nothing wrong with getting your rocks off with some girl who needs you to hold her down and fuck her brains out. Eventually though, Grant is right. You're looking for someone who makes you genuinely happy. I had a similar realization after reading Models. It becomes a game of Polarization, so you can weed out the people you don't like, so you can more quickly find the pe…
/r/seduction11/05/14 02:43 PM
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The real question here is why is he letting her out of the kitchen on their first date?!
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:54 PM
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First of all, thanks for keeping on top of the content on here. I feel like you're doing your job because over the last couple days we're been getting some pretty low quality threads that contribute nothing and then just in time you come in with some changes. Great job! Second, in response to the post, I agree with what you're doing. We need to focus on getting people out on the street and talking to women. You will learn more in your first approach and on your first date than you will in months…
/r/seduction29/04/14 12:22 AM
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And then end with this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3j4t185wl-0
/r/seduction29/04/14 12:02 AM
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I supposed I must be. So my follow up question is: LOL SEDDIT HOW DO I KISS BOYS
/r/seduction28/04/14 09:58 PM
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WTF. Is this highschool?! LOL SEDDIT HOW DO I KISS GIRLS
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:11 AM
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Oneitis is something you'll deal with early on, but the only want to truely get over it is to have other women going on. I met an attractive girl that has a lot going on for her. She rides motorcycles, volunteers in the political sphere and can easily hold an intelligent conversation with me. I have 3-4 other girls on the go, who require some of my attention. Old me (a year ago) would have been all over this girl and scared her off. My emotional distance gives her the space she needs to become i…
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:10 AM
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I had a girl who said, "Ohh I have an exam next week and I need to study." I said, "That's a lie. You know you're going to cram the two days before. And besides, I'll have lost interest in you by next week. Tomorrow, at 1:30 and we'll have a study break. What's your address, I'll pick you up." I don't let people set times. Everyone has a 30 minute free period at least once per day. If she's saying a while out, it's either a rest to see if you come back from rejection or she's hinting that you're…
/r/seduction28/04/14 03:02 AM
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Yeh, you're over thinking it. I have got lazy with using brilliant openers. I just stick out my hand and say Hi!
/r/seduction28/04/14 02:59 AM
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Yes, I agree with you. I wouldn't stop someone from getting someone who wants to give them the commitment. I find it amusing how women tend to decry men with the "All they want in sex" line, while many of them seem to chase commitment with the same underhanded tactics. I'll never flinch to "be my boyfriend or I'm gone" because I genuinely don't want to be that for someone.
/r/seduction26/04/14 04:24 PM
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10/10. Thanks. I usually keep my sensitive and cuddly side private as a reward, this I'd feel comfortable using as it fits with me well.
/r/seduction26/04/14 02:55 AM
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Idiot, there's only one. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gpqmoBYkQfc
/r/seduction26/04/14 01:03 AM
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U SO RIGHT. Great point. Thanks for the help man.
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:55 AM
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That's a good point. Build the idea that you're a career driven person. I'll level with you and tell you that the thing I'm missing in so many of these women is them having their own lives. I build vintage motorcycles, race cars, ski, travel, seduce women, speak almost a third language and have a huge life outside of a girl. I find so many of these girls have 0 going on outside of their job or school. It's so fucking boring. I'm sorry, fashion, EDM and your cat are not legitimate interests.
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:36 AM
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I like that you're getting out, and you're doing something. So many people on this sub do nothing, and so many on Reddit do nothing and complain about their results. However, you don't understand it yet, but you're just getting into game. There was a post on here a long time ago, I can't find it now, but it went into the mindset that some of us have who have been in the game for a long time. Basically it's not about getting with girls, it's not about wowing your bros. You should feel sorry for t…
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:31 AM
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I very much dislike conflict, so in some ways I could "alpha up". :P I don't think my problem is keeping them around, I think the problem is managing expectations. I've never told any of my past or present girl friends about other girls. I feel like they know we're not exclusive, but I suppose I could be more clear. But yeh, Google calender is a solid idea.
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:22 AM
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I've thought about this sometimes. I think maybe it's partly up to me, but I usually put the onus on them to choose their happiness and decide what they want for themselves. I'm not sure I'm being fair to them by keeping them on, because I'm basically dating 5 girls. If I was in their shoes, I'd move on and find someone new. One girl did a few months ago, she just said, "I'm totally in love with you, but I understand that what we want is not compatible." We're still friends, but she's with someo…
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:17 AM
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I read that post. That's what got me on Tinder. Usually dating sites and app are inundated with greasy boys, so I figured if I typed proper sentences and was mature about it, I'd get there. I've just gone on my third date and I'm meeting up with the qt3.14 from earlier this week. They're all 7-8/10. I'm happy for your success! Keep it up man! For me, I'm interested in people. I like talking, meeting people. I have a local club where people just all hang out and go to events, kinda a posse. It's …
/r/seduction24/04/14 06:38 PM
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I was pretty careful with my pics, I think they did it. My bio is, "Rude jokes, loud motorcycles and rocknroll. Probably best to not contact me." Most girls who have opened me say, "Sooo, I'm a rule breaker?" or similar.
/r/seduction24/04/14 12:17 PM
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24
/r/seduction24/04/14 12:15 PM
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I'm not going to let you excuse yourself by saying, "Oh he's good looking that's why." I'm fairly average, but I've put in the time. I'm happy, I'm successful and the photos I post show it. I'm on a boat, I'm smiling in the sun, I'm with other gorgeous girl friends, all having a good time. To the casual observer, my life looks awesome. (obviously I'm not going to post photos of the days where I don't want to get out of bed, or the days where I have no money and I'm stressed about that a little) …
/r/seduction23/04/14 06:18 PM
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I'm not sure I'm that bold. :P
/r/seduction23/04/14 03:54 PM
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Perhaps Tinder is not the proper venue for you. Less photogenic people tend to strike out on these kinda places.
/r/seduction23/04/14 03:54 PM
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Yeh there's 30 million people within about 25 miles. I've liked easily 1500 people.
/r/seduction23/04/14 03:53 PM
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That's true. And from my experience with some of the older gals, they're aching for for well dressed men. A lot of the cougar types seem to just be after younger guys because we tend to be at the leading edge of fashion and are in our prime physically.
/r/seduction20/04/14 03:58 PM
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That's happy for you and everything, but can we start a secondary subreddit for these socially awkward people who are looking at/speaking to girls for the first time? /r/sociallyawkwardseductionvictories
/r/seduction11/03/14 04:59 PM
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Oh, heh no. I'm talking long term. I am good at public speaking, I am quite attractive and easily make friends. I am naturally very social. My problem is that my goals are above where my current skill is, but I lack the motivation to drive myself beyond what is easy. Malcolm Gladwell says to be a professional you need to spend 10,000 hours doing something. My issue is I get "pretty good" at something (seduction, business, etc.) and then get bored. I never get to the 10,000 hours.
/r/seduction27/02/14 12:56 AM
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Huh?
/r/seduction26/02/14 09:48 PM
2

Makes me think, I have failed at business for the same reason I often fail at seduction. I don't have consistent and lasting effort to achieve my goals.
/r/seduction26/02/14 09:33 PM
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I find that if you even just meet up for a coffee, you're not meeting for the expressed purpose of sex. As much as girls should be able to do what they want, many still feel the need to shame each other for being sluts or whatever. That sucks, but we as guys can do a little work to make it easier on them in that regard. Meet for coffee, a game of pool, hot tub, whatever. Then escalate.
/r/seduction13/02/14 09:53 PM
0

A girl you've never talk to, but seem to be your type and you're physically attracted to? Ok, go talk to other girls. This one you know nothing about and you're already putting her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction08/02/14 10:32 PM
11

Some find it hard to be detached like this. I found the best is to cultivate passions. I build cafe racer style motorcycles and I race cars. It started out as a "manly activity" but as I got into it I actually enjoyed it. I can now weld, sew seats, fix motors and all kinds of other things. I am so absorbed into things unrelated to "finding a girlfriend" that I have become infinity more attractive. I'm unavailable to women and aloof, but in reality I'm just covered in oil and can't touch my phone…
/r/seduction06/02/14 08:16 PM
2

When you put the woman in the drivers seat for a date, it will never go anywhere. Society tells women they can't escalate. I guess it sucks for them because they are told they can't ask out a cute guy they like.
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:07 PM
1

Whatever. So, any recent successes?
/r/seduction02/02/14 02:32 AM
-7

Thanks for the equally useful post. Jesus, I come back in this subreddit and it's filled with virgins. What is this...
/r/seduction02/02/14 12:27 AM
10

I contribute quite a bit of value; field reports and the like in the past. I liked this, though we could all have a laugh. BUT YOU ARE JUST TOO GOOD FOR THAT APPARENTLY.
/r/seduction01/02/14 11:17 PM
3

It's nauseating, trying to talk to someone and they lack the ability to hold up the chit chat. Give me a conversationalist any day.
/r/seduction01/02/14 10:22 PM
18

RIP in peace
/r/seduction01/02/14 10:08 PM
17

I love Zyzz, dude is shredded.
/r/seduction01/02/14 09:25 PM
-2

What's tinder?
/r/seduction29/01/14 12:47 AM
6

You need to get out of your head. Neediness almost always stems from a mindset that is conscious of lack. (meaning the things you lack) You need to have enough, and be consistent enough that you start to truly believe that you have what you want. To be honest, the quickest way to that is going to be approaches. You're never going to meet girls if you don't approach. In sales, you have momentum and what is called "The Pipeline", which refers to a numbers game. Basically if you talk to 20 girls, y…
/r/seduction25/01/14 08:13 AM
8

Yeh, when someone tries to tease me about features, I reply, "Yeh, it's one of my more adorable quirks." If they don't let up, I'll ask why they're so interested in me. If they're genuinely a bully, I don't hang around that person.
/r/seduction22/01/14 04:00 PM
1

Haha, 3 month old reply. Nice. :P
/r/seduction20/01/14 02:56 PM
1

I have a family friend who has Tourettes and he has some little twitches and studders, but he's an anesthesiologist and married a hot Italian woman.
/r/seduction30/12/13 08:20 PM
0

"Someone's got her rude hat on today!"
/r/seduction23/12/13 03:13 PM
0

One of the best posts on this topic. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tlorg/my_relationship_manifesto_what_to_do_after_you/
/r/seduction01/12/13 02:44 AM
4

I used to use "oh she's probably not worth my time" as an excuse to not approach. But then I missed out on a ton of opportunities, so now I just get everyone's number. I'll decide after, when an excuse isn't a problem.
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:39 PM
3

Well, I get a lot of enjoyment from meeting women and getting their number. That first interaction is often the best for me since it's fresh, exciting and unknown. I often forget about the girls who don't capture my attention. I'll usually only call the ones that seem worth my effort.
/r/seduction29/11/13 03:46 PM
16

There is no "bro code", there is no he was here first. They're not dating, he has no claim. I would think that basically every attractive girl I am interested in probably has multiple other guys interested and perhaps taking her out at the same time as me. If you like this girl, by all means ask her out. Don't let some mistaken sense of whatever be an excuse to not talk to her.
/r/seduction10/11/13 04:21 PM
11

Shut up baby, I know it!
/r/seduction07/11/13 04:45 PM
1

I'm right that you don't think that, what make me think you DO think that? You'll have to word that better, I don't understand. :P
/r/seduction02/11/13 02:28 PM
1

Don't think that you're the only one who wants to fuck girls and not have commitment. There are loads of girls who feel the same way. It's not like guys have some monopoly on treating the opposite gender like a piece of meat.
/r/seduction02/11/13 05:40 AM
3

"I see you're in the singles car...does that mean you're single?" "Uh, yeh?" blush "No way! Me too! I'm Mr_Zarika."
/r/seduction31/10/13 06:46 PM
8

Art Williams is an amazing guy. He was a high school gym teacher who was displeased with the scams that local insurance companies were running. He went on to start one of the largest Term Life Insurance companies in the world, and one of the most profitable assets under city group. The company went public as Primerica last year or the year before. Warburg Pinus was their largest IPO investor, with an investment of $240 million. The stock's IPO was better than Facebook.
/r/seduction26/10/13 06:28 PM
5

I so want to beleib.
/r/seduction23/10/13 12:20 AM
6

True. Rejection can still be scary, though I find it's become almost exciting to approach. I don't get that rush in many other areas of my live.
/r/seduction14/10/13 03:14 PM
21

It's all excuses to justify a crippling fear of what others think of you. Rejection is so scary for these boys.
/r/seduction14/10/13 08:27 AM
0

This is, at best, a noob question best saved for the "Noob Questions Thread." At worst this is weird and creepy. Honestly, the approach never changes. You walk up, you say hello, you make an observation, you make conversation.
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:37 AM
2

I enjoyed this for the simplicity.
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:33 AM
2

You're right, you should get out of here. You'll never change your life, you'll never attract a woman. I think we need to start a new subreddit, I'm getting sick of these downer mindsets.
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:33 AM
2

I think that the "friendzone" should not be part of your vocabulary. You think about it, and you fear it, so it becomes your reality. When is the last time you worried about meth addiction? Never? You confidently walk around knowing that you don't have any worries in regard to meth dependancy. The same goes for this "friendzone" idea. You've been there before obviously, so you're worried about it again. The friendzone happens to some guys because they spend too much time on a girl, with no physi…
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:24 AM
1

...that's rather brash. Not very helpful either.
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:16 AM
9

That being said, whenever I starting thinking of excuses to approach, I think about some obscure time I got rejected, laugh about how I don't care at all, then approach.
/r/seduction05/10/13 04:00 AM
5

Is this a joke? I feel like this has to be...
/r/seduction01/10/13 01:42 AM
1

Seriously, there's nothing in there that says she's not into you. I would definitely give her a second chance in a day or two. And yes, in the mean time find some other girls too.
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:03 PM
1

Whoa, analytical much... She's agrees in the club when she's been drinking. Turns out she's busy, so she says, "I'm busy that night sorry." You reply with a standard, "ok cool." She asks you to invite her again. I don't see where you did anything. And even if she had blown you off for serious, actually, you still can't assume that you did anything. What if she's in a relationship? What happens if she's not into you? What happens if she's flying out of the city next week and doesn't want to get i…
/r/seduction27/09/13 03:31 AM
2

53 here. Your coming years will be the most important and potentially pivotal years of your life. Don't waste them. Take every opportunity, every risk, every challenge. It will pay off, and you will love yourself and your life so much for having the balls to get out of your comfort zone. That's where real life begins.
/r/seduction27/09/13 02:57 AM
2

Ok so the first thing that I want you to dispel from your brain is the idea that some people are introverts and others are extroverts. This is far too black and white a way to view people. In reality people form a broad spectrum from those who get a charge out of socializing and those who get a charge out of reading a book in the park. For me personally, I enjoy my downtime, I like to recharge and play some video games and hang out with my roommate. However, I also like to talk and meet new peop…
/r/seduction27/09/13 02:25 AM
3

This is actually good. Don't immediately start scanning the bar for the girl you want to take home. Scan the bar for some pumped up guys who look like they're having a good time. Walk over and say, "Sup guys, I lost my friends so I'm making new ones. Mind if I join you? I'm Alex." Talk to them, if there's a girl nearby who you are definitely not interested in, notice something about her you can comment on (her neat scarf for example) make eye contact and then get up and walk over. Same thing aga…
/r/seduction27/09/13 02:01 AM
2

I don't enjoy the night club atmosphere at all actually. I find most of the best girls I've met are through events I volunteer at or small parties. I also find day game is more my style so I'll talk to people at coffee shops and places like that.
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:49 AM
1

Just to follow up on this, one of the common complains I hear about girls is that they often lack substance. (boys and makeup are not things you can talk to men about, however, your interest in fair trade coffee and punk music would interest me) To stand above many of the other girls, I feel that cultivating interests that you are passionate about and can actually lead a conversation about would be good. Talking with men and actually holding up your end of the banter is important and can make pe…
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:46 AM
1

When I was just into second year (18) I hooked one of the grad student girls, she was 27 at the time. Honestly, I just was pretty straight forward with her. It was during frosh - where we were both volunteers - so there were tons of opportunities to kino and flirt. I flirted with her all week and then at the end of the week there was this huge party and everyone got pretty drunk. This was a few years ago, so I think we made out at that party. Then I got her number that night and texted her to co…
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:42 AM
1

Ok that's awesome. I read through that Simple Science Fitness link that someone else posted (http://simplesciencefitness.com/) and it all seems way less scary.
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:16 PM
1

An hour? That's not nearly as bad as I thought. This post is helping me sift through all the nuanced shit and just go to the gym.
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:15 PM
1

AW YEAHHH. That's what I like to hear.
/r/seduction26/09/13 07:13 PM
1

I don't feel like spending time sifting through all the various training regimes and fitness ideologies, please someone just tell me what to do. I'm 165 lbs, 5'11". I am skinny but fairly strong as my business has me lifting boxes and stuff a lot. I can eat anything, I don't mind cooking, but easiest meals are good.
/r/seduction26/09/13 06:17 PM
2

Here's a great post on the topic. http://np.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tlorg/my_relationship_manifesto_what_to_do_after_you/
/r/seduction26/09/13 11:33 AM
2

Lying Pervert!!
/r/seduction24/09/13 05:05 PM
2

You're only as good as your current project. That's tough. I think about this too. Even though I've had tons of success, I still get wiped out by rejection and break ups. I suppose it affects me less, though the emotions we feel are still real.
/r/seduction24/09/13 05:03 PM
2

I agree with what you're saying, I just wish I could get a first impression of myself. I don't seem myself as having some crazy skill that I have honed in the mountains of Asia. I'm no god. I get complimented on my social skills and looks, etc etc quite often, it's still hard though. I sometimes think, "Am I really that cool?"
/r/seduction24/09/13 05:01 PM
2

I was introduced to seduction through a friend who got himself into it. He came and asked if I would be interested on working together to improve ourselves, and keep each other accountable. I was interested and so we did The Stylelife Challenge, which is what comes after reading The Game. That was wild, to say the least. It's like P90x for seduction. The unfortunate part is that he got sidetracked when he started dating the first serious girl he found, I continued on. As for where I am now, I wo…
/r/seduction24/09/13 04:57 PM
3

"You have great eyes. And the rest of your face...that's covered in skin..."
/r/seduction24/09/13 02:26 PM
1

Shit that's timely for me. And very wise.
/r/seduction24/09/13 02:24 PM
1

We should be more douchey maybe?
/r/seduction24/09/13 01:38 PM
7

+1 for approaching a girl on campus. -1 for asking for the time, then telling her you didn't want the time (although possibly +1 if you did it with a huge shit eating grin and said it very sarcastically) I rate this approach a 0. Next time skip the what time is it. Walk up, say:" I wanted to come talk to you, my name is FlyingKiwi46, what's yours?" "Sarah" "Nice to meet you Sarah! So what's new with you? I take it you go here?" "Yeh I'm in art history." "I can never remember all the names and da…
/r/seduction24/09/13 01:45 AM
7

I hate that "I have a goldfish" shit. I usually reply with, "Of course you do, you're so interesting to talk to! Anyways, I'm going to run. See you around, fancy face."
/r/seduction24/09/13 01:32 AM
4

You can be direct or indirect. Direct: "Hi, you caught my eye and I wanted to come say hello. My name is Jason, what's yours?" "Miranda" "Nice to meet you, Miranda. So, what's up? Other than us standing at the bus stop together." "Oh I'm just finished class and I'm going home to let my dog out." Then let your social skills run wild. You can ask about the class, or the dog. (She's probably more excited about the dog.) "Oh I love dogs! What kind is it?" "Haha me too! It's a Jack Russell!" "Oh they…
/r/seduction24/09/13 01:29 AM
3

Ok, skin and jaw alignment are fairly insignificant in the grand scheme of things. Our own minds can make these things into crippling disasters, when in reality we are our own greatest critics. Seal is a great singer who has horrible facial scars. He was with Heidi Klum for a while, and has partied with various Victoria Secret Angels over the years. Seal Part of becoming good at seduction is accepting who you are, with all your limitations and weird issues, and loving yourself. If you can love y…
/r/seduction18/09/13 11:13 PM
9

I cannot. They are truly inconceivable!!
/r/seduction15/09/13 02:54 PM
8

Not at all. Asking people out is part of life. DRUNK JUST GOT HOME EDIT: Its weird that you're over analysing this so much. If you think this girl is cute, then go ask her out!! If you're feeling unprepared, read the side bar on here. Go smile, chat with her, look her in the eye and ask her to lunch or something EVEN MORE INTERESTING!!
/r/seduction14/09/13 01:20 AM
1

This was the answer I was looking for. You've totally hit the nail on the head. I agree this is a generalization, but this is a generalization based on my sample group. I want a package. I don't want someone who has a terrific personality, but is unattractive to me physically. For example, I have plenty of girl friends who are overweight, but have the most bubbly, friendly and attractive personalities. I am not attracted to them, since part of the whole package I am looking for includes looks. A…
/r/seduction10/09/13 08:38 PM
2

Yeh you're very right. I used to tango and swing dance, I'll start hunting for some of that.
/r/seduction10/09/13 02:22 AM
3

I'm a little self-absorbed, but I'm ok with that. I feel like I'm a pretty fucking cool dude. :P You're right though. The answer is to just keep meeting people. I think I also answered my own question: go hang out where other cool people hang out.
/r/seduction10/09/13 01:54 AM
-1

Women are the keepers of sexuality in our western societies, so you can basically just say, "Ok let's fuck." You don't actually need to do anything.
/r/seduction09/09/13 01:45 AM
1

Life is about having fun. If you aren't having fun meeting girls and you turn it into a chore, you're not doing this whole thing properly. Go to events, have fun, make FRIENDS and mostly have fun. You will meet people along the way, we're here to make sure that you can be confident around women when you meet them. Be someone you would want to be friends with. Seduce yourself first.
/r/seduction09/09/13 01:41 AM
19

Yeh that's a tough one. I've got those same reactions before. It's really sad that girls are so similar sometimes, though that just means you can have some canned responses to this silliness. Either way, good on you for moving forward and working on yourself. Next time, you can go with something more silly when asked, "Like what?" This is partially a shit test for some, so I often go with something like, "I haven't planned that far ahead." or "I've done all the work so far, asking you out and al…
/r/seduction06/09/13 03:26 AM
2

That's the biggest realization for so many people. "Shit, this is easy and not scary at all. I wish I was doing this years ago." Experience tends to be what you get after you needed it.
/r/seduction04/09/13 09:13 PM
117

DUUUUDEEE!!!! THAT"S SO SICK!!! Fuck I'm so proud of you man. 27 and you've spent your whole life thinking about women in one way, and now you're working to correct it! A gabillionzilliontrillion times better than all the AFC (average frusterated chumps) who spend their days bitching about women friendzoning them.
/r/seduction03/09/13 08:13 PM
4

It reminds me of bullies, who put others down to make themselves feel better.
/r/seduction31/08/13 03:11 PM
3

Your attitude will take you far. As cheesy at it sometimes feels, self talk is powerful. "I have a powerful focus and I am motivated to achieve my goals." is my morning. I mediate, stretch and get into the day.
/r/seduction29/08/13 11:51 PM
1

Agreed. Zac has gone through the full circle of seduction. We start out afraid of women, but we get good at kino, opening, confidence, etc. We internalize those things and we become someone who is social, open, interesting and engaging. Then you grow beyond the need to validate yourself through pick up, which many never move beyond. Zac touches on this when he says, "Some of you are here because your dad through you were gay and you want to prove him wrong." Eventually you get to this point wher…
/r/seduction29/08/13 11:49 PM
19

Yeh, here's your answer. Calm, cool, not embarassed, not excited. Just relaxed with a witty answer.
/r/seduction18/08/13 11:51 PM
4

This is great, really fits into my style of game. I'd use this like this: A few of us take a round of shots, cheer, I raise my hand to high five a random girl beside me. She does, don't fucking touch me etc. I'd actually say, "I'm just kidding, you silly girl." My game is very dramatic and non-sequitor. I'd even offer the high five later in the night to a girl and then hold my hand so high (I'm tall) that she has to jump. As she's jumping, "Come on girl, you gotta work to get me."
/r/seduction08/04/13 12:16 AM
5

Well yes, but I mean it more that you're not some victim who is cursed with bad social skills. You're not some unique snowflake, but that's freeing to me. It means that I am free to change my life at any point.
/r/seduction28/03/13 08:48 PM
12

Very true. It makes you realize that you're not really any different than everyone else!
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:27 PM
1

You really want to win this discussion eh? Is everything going ok? Maybe just chill out man, work on appreciating the view points of others.
/r/seduction25/03/13 04:21 PM
1

That's true. I guess it depends on who you are marketing yourself for. If you're trying to attract a more sophisticated young professional, then this may not be a good idea. However, if you're seducing younger girls who are wildly outgoing, this would be congruent with that style of game and his personality.
/r/seduction25/03/13 02:24 PM
1

Very nice. Keep it up!
/r/seduction25/03/13 04:27 AM
0

Not at all. He's being fresh and wild.
/r/seduction25/03/13 04:27 AM
3

No, you're not going to get anywhere romantically with this girl. Why are you afraid of having her as a friend? I have quite a few very close girl friends and they mean a lot to me. I guess because you didn't choose to be just friends. Your lack of proper framing from the beginning landed you there.
/r/seduction21/03/13 01:50 AM
88

Friendzone = too much time together with not enough kino.
/r/seduction20/03/13 02:59 PM
-1

This subreddit isn't for high schoolers. Most of us are in our early 20s, up to 40s. If you don't have a car, you can get one. Or you can take the bus, or ride your bike. I don't think about this problem ever. If I'm going downtown, I take a cab.
/r/seduction19/03/13 07:19 PM
1

Oceans 11. :P
/r/seduction19/03/13 05:59 PM
1

My name is Lymon. Lymon Zarika!
/r/seduction19/03/13 05:18 PM
1

I don't care if she talks about other guys, because they are so far below me, in every way. They obviously don't have a chance with her, and if she stooped to their level, I'd just see how I want her even less. I also want a powerful woman.
/r/seduction19/03/13 05:17 PM
1

This is what you need to focus on when you're in a relationship: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/tlorg/my_relationship_manifesto_what_to_do_after_you/
/r/seduction19/03/13 05:15 PM
2

There's lots of girls into kickboxing. So that's an easy one, just go find a club or gym that does that. As for parkour/freerunning, I like going to a gymnastics gym on their open hours and just have fun. There's a lot of cute trainers and stuff there who you can talk to. I'm not sure where you live, but in Canada we have cooking seminars that are free/cheap at the LCBO (liquor store) and the Loblaws (grocery store). Lots of cool people attend those.
/r/seduction19/03/13 05:13 PM
1

Wow, that never even crossed my mind. Probably will never cross my mind again...
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:54 AM
1

You can stop thinking she's any better than you, for starters. I wouldn't date someone who thought they were no good. Go start remaking yourself, bit by bit. Read the top posts and the side bar for more info. To talk to her you can always start with, "Hi, CuteGirl1, I'm whatiflike."
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:53 AM
1

Who the fuck said memorize pick up lines? No, please go read the sidebar and the top posts.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:51 AM
3

Smile, start laughing and shaking your head. xD "Ohhh my gosh." Her: arms crossed "What's so funny." You: "Oh, just you. Such a highschooler." Put your arm around her. "Come on, let's dance/sit down/get a drink/go outside." If she still resists, you've done something wrong earlier or it's seriously a girl's night only. Smile, "nice to meet you then" and walk away. That's kinda my go to for any and all shit tests that come up. Who the fuck tries to shit test me? Children, little girls. That's who…
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:50 AM
1

She initiated with you, just relax for a few days. If she text you, great. Give it a few, message her something casual and fun. "Hey, so are you going to ask me out again? Or am I playing too hard to get?" If nothing, move on, who cares. #somanyhotgirlsoutthere
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:45 AM
3

Understand that nothing in highschool matters, and you will barely remember things that worked you up at the time. I wouldn't worry about it too much, just push the boundaries and test things out. I have a few friends with younger sisters who are in high school, and it's hilarious how insecure they are, but how easily I can attract them. I am unattainable to them, but I sometimes act interested in their lives. Enjoy your time there and don't sweat it. No one is dating the girl they did in high s…
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:41 AM
2

I don't try to cut it off. I just try to frame it better. I constantly surround myself with cool friends and other girls, so I don't brood about one person. Get dates with other girls, even if you're not into them and you'll be over it. Oneitis comes from elevating one girl as unique or special or better than everyone else, when you don't really know her all that well. Meet more girls and realize that there are so many hot girls out there, you literally could never meet them all.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:39 AM
2

See also: the sidebar.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:37 AM
1

Yeh, straight up call her. Also: get dates with more girls. You won't be as analytical about it.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:36 AM
6

current girlfriend Uh...focus on your girlfriend?
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:35 AM
1

Go to your local Shopper's Drug Mart (or similar) and try some scents on. Go over a few days, find the one that you can't smell on yourself after about 20 minutes. If you can't detect it, it's mixing with your natural body chemistry better.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:34 AM
1

LOL I love dating older. I was 19 and dated a 27 year old for about a year. She came at me with, "You're too young for me." "You're too old for me! Besides, you can't keep up with my wild lifestyle." wink
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:33 AM
1

Go start some hobbies in your new city. Go through your local 'groupon' sorta thing. Do something new each day. Go to hot yoga, go to the gym, walk in the park, go to the coffee shop, go to a car show, shop at the farmer's market, hang out at a biker bar, volunteer at a soup kitchen, etc etc. Meet girls AND GUYS. Build a network, start getting invited to more events. BE INTERESTING. You won't have to walk up to strangers on the street if you're in a yoga class with 13 cute girls and you're the o…
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:32 AM
1

Good stuff. In sales, there's this idea of momentum. When you close a sale, you've got a high. The more sales you close, the better you feel as a salesperson. If you obsess over one client for a month, and then it falls through, you feel like shit. It's good that you're keeping activity going, which builds momentum. 9/10 times, a girl will be more interested in you when you've got 5 girls on the go, then when you're a loser just interested in her.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:29 AM
1

I'm not sure about you, but eventually you get to the stage in your game where you're not interested in bedding everyone you meet. I love making friends, I have an armada of funky fresh girls who I can call and go out with. I meet more people, guys, girls, whatever. If I meet a girl and she has a boyfriend, fine! One of my best guy friends I met through chatting up his girl! She said, Oh I have a boyfriend. I said, Introduce me! We're both car guys and been friends for a few years now! Relations…
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:25 AM
2

Go for ice cream, walk through a cool area of the city, chit chat, point out silly looking people, laugh, hold her hand, sit on a park bench, make out.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:22 AM
1

No movies. Unless it's a second or third date, and it's at your house.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:20 AM
2

Yeh that's key to remember. You can take girls on the same shit over and over. It's not like they discuss you in some sorta secret lair.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:20 AM
1

HAHA I do this too sometimes! "Happy Birthday!!" "Aww thanks! Birthday kiss!" point to cheek This also is great for ending dates. "Ok well I'll see you later, boy." "Alright. Kiss goodbye." point to cheek
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:18 AM
1

DHV is part of how you show that you're awesome. You share awesome stories, not so much focused on the "I did this, I did that" but more on the adventure. "These events occurred, my friends were there, one did this wicked thing." I can't really tell you how to organize your life, that's kinda up to you. One thing I've found is that we always seem to be able to make time for the things we enjoy. For example, I go to school full time and work, but I have enough time to restore an 80s BMW and rebui…
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:14 AM
3

http://infothread.org/Pick%20Up%20Artist/Escalation%20Ladder.pdf
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:11 AM
1

I'm dealing with this type of girl right now. Basically I've pushed her back constantly. I've made myself unattainable and very busy with my own activities, to the point where she is now really interested in being together (all the while escalating kino, that's just who I am) as much as possible. These girls have to feel that they're "winning you". Serious power types are what they are after. Avoid the friend zone by properly building kino, and framing your relationship as a physical one from th…
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:09 AM
1

I've been after a girl like this for a short while now. I basically have to be relentless with displaying how absolutely unattainable I am for her. She was initially interested, and I've kept this up, which now has her calling me and asking to get together. It seems the more I focus on being busy and interested in my own shit, the more she wants me. These girls want what they can't have.
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:06 AM
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This is one of those quasi-related posts on /r/seduction that could also easily be posted in GetMotivated or any other "CHANGE YOUR LIFE YOU PUSSY BITCH" kinda places. Have an actual usable piece of advice to give us? Great! Have a Field Report? You're valuable! You're preaching to the choir boys here, we all know that we "just have to do it".
/r/seduction16/03/13 06:03 AM
3

This is a brilliant idea.
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:13 PM
1

I messaged the mods (to no response) because I want to revamp the side bar and get active. I've been active in this subreddit for a while and have privately helped many people who PM me. More importantly, I am active in the field. MAKE ME A MOD. :) /shameless plug
/r/seduction04/03/13 10:10 PM
1

And if she's giving you shit tests, I feel that she's getting interested in you.
/r/seduction04/03/13 05:14 PM
1

Yeh, even if you just get the IOI's, physical contact and a pause, but no eye contact. You get to do the age old chin lift, eyes lock, kiss.
/r/seduction03/03/13 11:09 PM
5

This is me. When girls break it off with me, I act so unfazed that they're coming back within a day or two. Instant sex-zoned. Why just yesterday...
/r/seduction03/03/13 06:48 PM
1

Haha, she came and sat in my lap. We talked for a minute or two, with strong eye contact. Then I just kissed her when there was a moment pause.
/r/seduction03/03/13 06:45 PM
11

get back on the horse. I get the idea of negs, but come on...
/r/seduction03/03/13 01:27 PM
1

Keep watching.
/r/seduction02/03/13 10:34 PM
2

Mostly I just make sure I have enough other women around that I don't get focused on one of the hot ones. They're the same as the rest. Same fears, same wishes, it's just that guys tend to become idiots around them. Even when I'm tempted to start texting or Facebooking her, if I instead start messaging all my friends and my sister and whoever, I get totally distracted.
/r/seduction02/03/13 09:35 PM
2

Hookah bars are so ace. Great for talking. Yeh that's pretty good dude! Case and point for being confident and just going for what you want.
/r/seduction02/03/13 09:32 PM
19

Unless they're really dying to give you their number.
/r/seduction02/03/13 09:22 PM
1

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegle Not a very observant person, are we?
/r/seduction02/03/13 07:02 PM
0

Obviously. I'm more interested in how everyone took me so seriously. What an unfun bunch of AFCs.
/r/seduction02/03/13 03:53 AM
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No they don't! And even if they did, who wants a girl who thinks about sex a lot...
/r/seduction01/03/13 06:08 PM
1

No it doesn't. Girls like respectful guys.
/r/seduction01/03/13 04:51 AM
3

Wow, you just assume everyone is a certain way? Maybe you should just stay home pal. ;) People are all different. Do you think you're an interesting person? Will you be in a club at some point in the future? I will say that the club vibe is sexual, so guys are girls are looking to pick up. Girls, being the "keepers of sex", tend to be more on the defensive at clubs. If you know how to use this, you can turn that into your advantage. I see a girl shoot down 5 girls in an evening? At the end of th…
/r/seduction01/03/13 01:53 AM
2

Cntl + F: "this". THIS!
/r/seduction01/03/13 01:35 AM
4

Stop this. Having a girlfriend is something I have been wanting for 6 years. I feel like the world is against me, that I am not allowed to have a girlfriend. I know we all can get discouraged and get down, but ever verbalise it. Don't put your fears to words, they're not even real so why acknowledge them? When you hear yourself say something, subconsciously it becomes more real. Second, when she says, "who is this?" you always joke around. Don't let your desperation make you too serious. "OHHH W…
/r/seduction01/03/13 12:03 AM
1

Yeh, stop texting, that's so damaging if you're having conversations all the time (more so if they're boring ones). Starting being more unavailable. She's getting bored because she could have you if she wants, and that's unattractive.
/r/seduction28/02/13 11:48 PM
2

wink "I'm Max."
/r/seduction28/02/13 11:44 PM
17

Chat chat chat, "What adventures are you getting into this evening?" "Oh haha nothing tonight!" "No way! Invite me over."
/r/seduction28/02/13 05:08 PM
1

Bingo. I am an adult and can say, "I am not currently interested in a romantic, monogamous relationship." She is an adult and can say, "That is what I am looking for, so I will continue looking." If anything, her sticking around when she's aware you're not just with her is almost as if she's trying to change you. She thinks she can calm you down and make you into someone different. (someone who wants a relationship)
/r/seduction27/02/13 01:27 AM
3

aw yiss.
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:03 PM
12

Really, anything that isn't you getting emotional and struggling to actually take her question seriously is positive. If she shit tests me and I have nothing, I'll often just smile, laugh and shake my head. When says, "What!?" I'll just respond, "Oh, you're such a highschooler."
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:02 PM
6

For some. I find that I have trouble keeping serious with people. My brain is always thinking of the most cocky and funny responses. If you decide you are funny, and work at it, you'll default to it.
/r/seduction26/02/13 11:01 PM
5

My name is Limon. Limon Zerika!
/r/seduction26/02/13 10:58 PM
23

I can't seem to find it now, but there was a great article about the essence of shit tests. You have to keep calling her on her tests. You do this by agreeing and amplifying. So for example, she says to you, "Why don't you have a girlfriend?" "I don't have a girlfriend, because no one is good enough. It's tough being me. ;)" I'll give you another one. "Why are you talking to me?" "You're so right (agree), I totally forgot there is a no-talking-to-strange-women policy in effect." she laughs "Plea…
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:57 PM
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Further then that. You have to love yourself to even accept love from others. If you can't see anything of value in who you are, how could you fully believe that another person could? You'll end up constantly needing validation from someone, just incase they stopped thinking you were great. (since you don't really think you're great) This applies to game, as well as to dating and marriage.
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:49 PM
8

I sometimes struggle with this. We all have high points and low points in our game. I find that I'll get tired of girls and chill out with my game for a week or two. At this point, I'll maybe just have one girl that I've been hanging out with and just doing fun things with. I'll inevitably meet someone new and get interested in someone else. However, I do feel guilty about moving on from being focused on this one girl. Even though we're not dating, I feel like I'm cheating. (stupid, I know) I fi…
/r/seduction26/02/13 06:46 PM
3

Very true. I just threw my answer together. As they are replying, get your next question ready in your mind. ... that is an interview. It will keep her attention for roughly 2 minutes before she gets bored. I'm offering that point for someone who can't think about how to keep a conversation going. It helps keep you in the moment, since you're intently listening to what she is saying to have something to ask when she finishes. THIS MAN HAS THE PROPER ANSWER THAT I MEANT TO WRITE.
/r/seduction26/02/13 01:08 AM
7

Part of being conversational is being present. Not being caught up in worrying about kino, or IOIs, or even what you're going to say next. When someone says, "Yeh, I went to Berlin for school on an exchange. I just got back." You can ask so many questions from just that little thing! "How was Berlin? I'm thinking of taking a trip to Europe next month." "Oh what school do you go to?" "How was your exchange? A lot of work? Did your courses transfer well?" "Are you glad to be back?" The key here is…
/r/seduction25/02/13 02:50 PM
4

Whenever possible, if someone starts to talk and gets interrupted by the AMOG, I'll say, "Hey just a sec mate, she was saying something. look at her Go ahead, what where you saying?" That's been really powerful for me in gaining rapport.
/r/seduction25/02/13 02:47 PM
3

Well, you're not giving us much to talk to you about. :P You don't want to be an AFC? The best places to start are the TOP (sorted by all-time) links, and the side bar.
/r/seduction25/02/13 01:52 AM
1

"Let's go outside"
/r/seduction25/02/13 01:48 AM
2

I go to "lounges" rather than clubs. They tend to be quieter and more conducive to game.
/r/seduction25/02/13 01:48 AM
2

I agree here. The natural direction that we all end up trending towards is girlfriend zone. I find I keep having to next girls because they want to be in a LTR while I do not.
/r/seduction25/02/13 01:33 AM
1

I need to go over DiCarlo's Ladder again and again, til it's burned into my brain.
/r/seduction25/02/13 01:30 AM
2

I should have said this, but we were fooling around in her bed and I went to pull her shirt off after a couple minutes and she resisted (Nooo...). I pushed her off me and things didn't get heated again.
/r/seduction25/02/13 01:28 AM
1

Yeh, I'll just assume attraction I guess. :)
/r/seduction24/02/13 09:13 PM
1

Exactly. I don't even say "making a fool of himself" anymore. To me, the idiot trying to grind up on her is the fool. The one having fun dancing, and not giving a fuck, is the more interesting and exciting one.
/r/seduction19/02/13 05:25 PM
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It's all about having fun, and making other people think you look/are fun. Be ridiculous, dance around, smile laugh. Don't be the creep who is just walking up and grinding on random girls. That's ungentlemanly and, to be quite frank, fucking weird please stop.
/r/seduction18/02/13 11:48 PM
31

The fish don't tell the fisherman what bait to use.
/r/seduction01/02/13 03:50 AM
4

Yep very good. I like how he maintains his momentum and gets somewhere, while many other AFCs would just get down and leave.
/r/seduction24/01/13 05:29 PM
11

HEY!! DING DING DING!! If you're finding yourself getting sucked into thinking about seduction and the girls, get some other things to do. FILL your schedule.
/r/seduction22/01/13 07:11 AM
1

Exactly. So many people aren't fully present when they're meeting someone and it's clear when they can't even remember the name of someone they just met.
/r/seduction10/01/13 06:53 PM
5

Well the first thing I find is useful is to decide that you're a person who remembers names. For so long I was always like, "Oh I'm so bad with names." Cut that out, you're a person who remembers names now. Self talk will help your brain put more weight on the need to remember these names. My second thing is to focus on the name when it is first given. Don't allow an introduction to just pass through your head and be lost to the void forever. Actually think about the fact that you were just intr…
/r/seduction09/01/13 03:27 AM
1

To continue your point, I think that showing emotional side is best kept for when you are in a relationship. I'm usually not very open with how I'm feeling. I rarely have serious complaints; however, women do want to connect with you and see your tender side. But just as you only want your girl being sexual with you, she doesn't want you going around being deep and connected with all the girls around you.
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:51 PM
3

How have you bettered yourself recently? How old are you now? Noticed any big changes for the positive after having this epiphany?
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:48 PM
2

You are VERY correct and I think there is an even deeper point to be made. There's nothing wrong with having a small group of friends. I have only a couple close girls, and even fewer guy friends. I go out and I'm social and popular. However, I spend my time on other passions, like car racing and skydiving and building my motorcycle. When you have a small friend's group, make sure that you're not just sitting around at home watching tv and being lazy. Cultivate passions and hobbies.
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:45 PM
2

You sound you're a catch! Keep it up man, thanks for sharing. Eres increíble!
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:39 PM
1

Thanks for sharing! I know it's clique, but the biggest journey starts with a step. Keep pushing forward, but reflect back too on yourself to appreciate how you are growing. It's easy to not see change when it happens gradually.
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:37 PM
2

Great job man! When you get that revelation and are fulled with the desire to better yourself, you never look back.
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:35 PM
4

Awesome. I was listening to Eternity, by Joseph Jacobs while I read your story.
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:34 PM
8

I feel that it's very cool if you can remember people's names. I have this skill as well, through practice though. It shows that you actually put some effort into your interactions. If the girl is with other people who you can remember, greet them first to show that it's not just her name you remember. If she's alone I sometimes will tease her a bit about something else, such as forgetting my name. Oh yes, I remember you Amanda! We met at a Christmas party last year. Do you remember my name? Wha…
/r/seduction08/01/13 08:21 PM
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I just assume. Escalate kino properly and your going to make HER want it more. If she outright gets offended, I'll simply brush it off with something like, "We must have got our signals crossed, have a good night."
/r/seduction08/01/13 08:05 PM
1

Another of my problems was when I'd make a racy or sexual comment, I didn't have anything to follow up with so I'd just go red and look at the floor. Now, if we're walking along the street, I'll say something that would normally make me blush. I say it, look at her and smile. Then I abruptly say, "cross the street" and I hold out my arm for her. Now I just made some sexual comment, and then escalated kino to avoid embarrassment. Now we're walking arm in arm. If she asks why you just crossed the …
/r/seduction06/01/13 04:41 PM
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When you're a new subscriber, basically read the top posts. They're all stellar and each one is different. They cover pretty much all the important stuff.
/r/seduction05/01/13 10:42 PM
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You have to think of it like a pipeline. You dump leads in the top and girlfriends come out the bottom. 100 girls met 70 numbers got 40 dates 30 k-closes 25 second dates 15 f-closes etc I don't know what the numbers are, but that's the idea. If you want more FWB/gfs, you have to meet more girls.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:57 PM
-2

There's no friendzone. If you do it right, you can be friends with her and have her wing for you. One of my friend's girlfriend loves going clubbing and when we all go, she's stellar at winging for me.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:51 PM
3

Haha, never to early to start building a proper foundation. When you're 16, it's so easy to be leagues above the idiot guys around you. I'm pretty young still too, and I find when I date above 20, it's much harder because the boys have all matured. Under 20, guys are still playing CoD, wearing skate shoes and complaining about high school.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:36 PM
1

You have to think about yourself here. She, through your time with her, falsely thinks she is better than you and therefore has rejected you. Why would you want to continue hanging out with someone when they have so obviously insulted you? Because you think she's so hot? So funny? So great? Now you're reinforcing her higher value. Have enough self-respect to next her. If she come begging, perhaps you can dignify her by giving her some of your limited attention span.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:34 PM
1

If you can't do anything about it, don't let your scammy brain start to stew over it. Ignore her until you can start escalating your relationship, and even then just stick to your game.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:25 PM
-5

If you say froyo, other than to make fun of people saying froyo, you're a gay.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:23 PM
3

Classy.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:22 PM
2

Haha awesome! That's why I post this stuff. When I realized that I can recycle EVERYTHING with every girl I meet, I got really good at one set system of getting girls. When I stick to the system I have created, I win. When I break the system, I lose. However, now that I am fully confident talking to girls and using my little system, I can start to ad lib and deviate from it, because I have a foundation.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:22 PM
1

Goaliebw is correct. Also, there is a slight tension when you first meet where she doesn't know at what level your relationship is at, so if you start it at a hug, then excellent you're using a cultural greeting to amp kino. I have a Spanish friend and he cheek kisses as a greeting. 9/10 times he is now that sexy European guy who just kissed her and she's blushing like crazy. I've seen some PUA who says girls will sorta accept whatever you're doing if you are confident enough about it, since the…
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:13 PM
1

Whatever, you got out there and overcame some fears so that is pro dude!
/r/seduction05/01/13 06:04 AM
3

These guys kinda got it right, but I think the answer is simpler. If she is going to text you, the onus is on her to keep it going. You can feel free to randomly ignore her, text back one word answers, suddenly get engaged for a few minutes to tease her a little, then back off again.
/r/seduction05/01/13 04:12 AM
2

Book store is my go to after a second or third date. "Find the strangest book you can. Let's try pregency and spiritual first."
/r/seduction05/01/13 04:06 AM
15

Keep in mind that you can literally do the same thing with each girl, and unless you're trying to go through a group of friends, they won't be judging you for it. My first date is coffee at this cute cafe around the corner, nice a small, I always get a dry cappuccino and have the newspaper open when she walks up. My first comment is, "What a boring newspaper today, you arrived just in time. What do you want to drink?" 0% kino, very stand offish body language, while my language is more interested…
/r/seduction05/01/13 04:05 AM
2

Good stuff man. Update us with your progress in the form of Field Reports.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:19 AM
1

Thanks! I'll have to remember that.
/r/seduction05/01/13 03:03 AM
1

Good point. I guess it's like my method of going out with other girls to distract me from oneitis, she just hasn't been out enough. Whatever, I'll complete the robbery at our date this evening.
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:01 PM
1

I get the training thing, and I have tried that in the past, I just find that often it's difficult to link two things in her mind. She starts talking about her boyfriends, yawn and change the subject. Again, and I stop talking to her. But I feel like some girls don't get it, how do you link the two? Maybe make a snide remark about it, as you say in the second paragraph. Hmm...I will have to test this.
/r/seduction04/01/13 06:06 AM
2

Yeh holy shit. Man the fuck up and get this girl away from you! GO FIND SOMEONE ELSE CUZ THERE ARE LITERALLY A ZILLION!!
/r/seduction04/01/13 05:15 AM
12

What we all call oneitis, the rest of Reddit calls the "Friend Zone". Either way, it's where you're thinking all about this girl and she just wants, at most, to be friends. The fact that you're posting this, all in relation to getting back ONE girl, is proof that you're still failing with her. We're not here to make you able to get some girl you fucked up with. That's more r/relationships department, and even then their advice is often bad. What we CAN do, is help you realize that there are lite…
/r/seduction04/01/13 05:01 AM
18

Impossible. If you're training him AND he's self-improving with us, he'll out charm you before you can resist. WE ARE IRRESISTIBLE.
/r/seduction04/01/13 04:45 AM
2

DING DING DING! WINNER!
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:27 AM
2

I think that's actually the most basic form of what we're doing here. We're trying to make women consider us the most eligible for them, while not letting them think that we're even remotely attainable. It will only be by some miracle that we grace them with our attention.
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:26 AM
2

Can you still use messanger with a disabled profile?
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:26 AM
2

I'll be the first to comment and give you a solid e-high five. smack! Takes a lot of dedication to get yourself into premium shape, and with that work ethic, you're going to be a social guru in no time! As for your question, I'm still a fresh 20, so I've got a few years of destroying myself with drugs and alcohol before it shows. However, I'd think you're basically starting in the same place as the rest of us. This seduction thing was uncharted territory for everyone at some point, regardless of…
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:20 AM
7

Yep. When girls try to mess with you, you HAVE to mess back. If you get all butthurt over her teasing, you're making this hard on yourself. HER: "Just for that, I'm not going out with you this Friday." Reply: "I feel like you're in Grade 3! Are you taking me off your birthday list too?" "OHHHH THANK GOD. I was just trying to think of an excuse." "Oh, so you can sit at home and cry? Come on, we're trying to make you more interesting, don't back slide on me now girl!"
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:17 AM
5

Shhh...you don't know anything at this point. In this post, we're discussing date setting, and we're looking at HIS text game, not hers.
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:14 AM
1

Shit, your text game is hench!! Love the Friday comment, and then the follow up joke about thinking she'd pick it. When you set yourself up to be the cocky and very funny from the start, you can get away with the more ridiculous later. EDIT: Saved this post for later, I want to remember this shit.
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:13 AM
3

Yeh, more sounds like he's afraid of meeting more of the same and being hurt again. Because we ARE all humans and we do get attached and we do sometimes get hurt.
/r/seduction04/01/13 03:06 AM
1

What's your reasoning? I'd be interested to know.
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:59 AM
3

If she says, "Oh that's weird." then I say, "It's fun you prude. Start in the self-help section and move to pregnancy advice." I also like going into thrift stores or value village or whatever and finding funny hats and coats. Take iPhone pictures, Instagram that shit (or Facebook). Then you're looking like a hilarious person on Facebook, which helps for picking up other girls, who see that you're a fun guy.
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:59 AM
1

Can you offer some more information? I'm interested in MORE, Mr. Socrates.
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:54 AM
1

This girl should be scared to death that you will walk out on her. You are far too tolerant of bullshit from her. If a girl told me that some other guy was coming over, I would drop her so fast it wouldn't be funny. You should have zero tolerance for bullshit like that. How do you create that air of "I've got 10 other girls waiting for me" without talking about how you have 10 other girls waiting for you? To outright say that seems dickish and not in my character. I was thinking about the option…
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:49 AM
3

Yeh, I always wonder when I can start being the little spoon. :( I love being little spoon.
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:48 AM
2

I think part of my jealousy was coming from the lack of girls in my life. I've been out of the game for a brief time, and just focusing on one girl. I've been out with 3 girls in the past 48 hours, so I'm feeling much more attractive and confident.
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:47 AM
1

Shit man, don't say that. I have a strong empathetic streak that makes me sometimes feel back for fucking up girl's heads.
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:46 AM
1

D-close, yeh I like that. I ended the date the other night with plans to hang out on Saturday, and then go see a movie at this funky local cinema. (very intimate) I'll start escalating kino there, on the second date, and helpful kiss close that night.
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:45 AM
-1

I find when girls are bringing up their exes, depending on the rest of the conversation and interest level, it can be a good thing. It's like she's trying to justify herself by saying that other guys like her, so you would probably like her. That said, on a first date, I'm very hands off. Second date, if I like what I see, I will start escalating kino (I find DiCarlo Escalation Ladder is great) into a kiss close or better. Usually sleep together on the third.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:36 PM
11

That's powerful man, thanks for the reply. I like the definition of jealousy. Also: should I not say I had a good evening?
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:30 PM
5

I enjoy reading people's drunk ramblings, it's often very close to what they truly believe. You're right for sure though, it's something that really has little to do with the girl and more to do with you. I want to be loved by everyone I meet, but that's unrealistic for the most part.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:29 PM
2

Mmmm good tip. I'm kinda on the rebound from a previous relationship that got more serious. I'm currently in the "bang girls to get over oneitis" stage, so that could be part of what is messing with me.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:24 PM
2

As a rule I usually do not, but she brought it up several times when we were together. She is insecure about what to do about him, and I could tell she is looking for another answer than him.
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:24 PM
1

That's true. I guess I just need to decide what I want, girlfriends for flirting and fooling around, or a girlfriend for a relationship.
/r/seduction03/01/13 06:37 AM
7

Good fable. I've always enjoyed Aesop's.
/r/seduction03/01/13 06:08 AM
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If I recall correctly, The Game (Bible lol) says to get them back to your place. (I guess the old, "Let's head back to my place for a night cap" works.) From there I don't even know. He had some sorta "gimme a back massage" game going on. I'd probably start with the bi girl, go for the kiss. Then try to work the other in.
/r/seduction03/01/13 06:06 AM
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high five. next.
/r/seduction02/01/13 03:56 AM
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Just reading through this, not bad not bad. You know what you did wrong. From my experience, you were fine up until you went with instinct 1, rather than going to see R&J. She says, "I have no money at all, i'm so poor, come here!" Your text should have been, "Oh, I'm going to see R&J" Her: Aww, why not! You: Perhaps another time, I'll call you. I love "I'll call you", because it's so blatantly uninterested that's fantastic.
/r/seduction01/01/13 10:16 PM
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Presentation is so important to meeting and attracting women. Thanks for the share. The whole site looks good.
/r/seduction09/09/12 05:06 AM
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This is the answer. Even more so for those of us who are new to the game. Girls who you don't like or find unattractive are great practice. No one started taming lions on their first day in the circus.
/r/seduction09/09/12 05:03 AM
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I just LOVE it when you're vibing and the city momentum and atmosphere just supports it. Sounds like you're having fun, which is rule number 1. You're getting out there and practicing and testing, which is great too.
/r/seduction09/09/12 05:02 AM
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It's all about creating moments. Women want to feel that they're in a movie. If you can get that, you can do whatever you want. Qlue has some good ideas there (triangular gaze? need a definition) for sure. I often will excuse myself, but "I may not be back, I'll need a kiss goodbye." Then point to your cheek. She's happily give you a kiss on the cheek, but now you've made it ok to kiss you. Come back in 5 minutes, "There's something I want you to see/someone I want you to meet/come, I want you t…
/r/seduction09/09/12 04:53 AM
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David Wygant.
/r/seduction09/09/12 04:40 AM
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Cleanliness.
/r/seduction13/02/12 10:45 PM
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That's true, thanks. I think just writing it out calmed me down. I've got a girl I met at the Metro grocery store meeting me for coffee next week and I've gotten back in touch with a fling from October. Back in the game.
/r/seduction23/01/12 01:46 AM
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It's just one of his moves. But Xelloss is right, he's able to pull off running into those two blondes, or pulling that other girl out of a cab, simply because he is so proud of everything he does. That confidence oozes out of him, so he ends up testing women to see what he can get away with.
/r/seduction22/01/12 08:49 PM
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I'm asked that a lot, and I just say "Thank you". Sometimes I just joke and ask if they're looking to buy.
/r/seduction22/01/12 07:40 PM
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Give me your number! I have a boyfriend! That's not what I asked!
/r/seduction07/01/12 11:45 PM
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hm hm. agreed.
/r/seduction07/01/12 11:34 PM
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...the things that don't matter.
/r/seduction07/01/12 10:40 PM
1

Thanks, call me Limon!
/r/MensRights07/10/11 03:17 AM
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Best movie ever. MEN!
/r/MensRights07/10/11 02:17 AM
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I frontpaged you guys, i'll be around!
/r/MensRights07/10/11 01:18 AM
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YES! I love my girlfriend, but it took me a long time to trust women after an abusive childhood and an early relationship.
/r/MensRights07/10/11 01:16 AM
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That's great. I'll "man up" and get over my issues to post one day.
/r/MensRights07/10/11 01:14 AM
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That is very sad.
/r/MensRights06/10/11 09:22 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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