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ADVICEMrsSnoochie/r/RedPillWives21/08/21 02:00 PM
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Yeah definitely break up. You haven’t had kids and having them will make you resent him way more. I don’t think this is a healthy relationship.
/r/RedPillWives27/01/24 04:20 AM
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That’s awesome thanks so much for listing it all out! Very helpful! I know I need to get a rotating weekly list of things to clean like you do but I just have not gotten there yet. Sounds like you have a great routine!
/r/RedPillWives22/04/22 03:17 PM
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I too have a toddler and am a SAHM who enjoys keeping a nice household. That’s awesome they complimented you! I’m still hoping someday soon someone comes by and does the same for me. What’s your cleaning schedule? I typically do a kitchen “closing time” every night. Husband spends time with toddler while I get alone time listening to music and finishing my cleaning for the day. Things like load dishwasher, clean countertops, clean floors, take trash out.
/r/RedPillWives22/04/22 01:27 PM
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Are you afraid your house will burn down? Are you afraid your work place will suddenly go out of business and you’ll be without a job? Are you afraid one day you will become bitten by a shark in the ocean? Of course not. You don’t focus on the what ifs. You focus on cultivating what you have now. It sounds like you might however have some trauma regarding abandonment you may want to visit with yourself and/or a therapist. Make sure you’re entering into healthy relationships. I will also add that…
/r/RedPillWives29/03/22 12:21 PM
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I don’t agree with finding a part time job will help. What about hiring a cleaning lady? Someone that can come weekly or bi-weekly to do a deep clean for you? Have special nights where you have takeout delivered? Are there ways you can outsource some of your tasks and get help ? That way you can focus more on self care.
/r/RedPillWives19/02/22 11:53 AM
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What would you do if you buy a house and it catches on fire and all your belongings are destroyed? Better not by a house right? No. I don’t like these what if questions. If it happens you deal with it then. It’s not like anyone at any age can pick up a career or go back to university. The main thing to stress is that it’s not in the plan to happen just like when you buy a house it’s not in the plans for it to burn down. You can take precautions so that it doesn’t burn down (just like with your m…
/r/RedPillWives07/02/22 12:10 PM
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If you’re interested in spending time with children and making a difference in a person’s life have you considered Big Brothers Big Sisters program? Are you able to look into fostering?
/r/RedPillWives03/02/22 01:59 PM
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With children it’s easy. Parks. Play groups. Sports. PTA.
/r/RedPillWives03/02/22 12:46 PM
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Amazing! Hope that helps!
/r/RedPillWives22/09/21 02:35 AM
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I agree with the rest of the comments, mess is normal. From the sounds of your comment you sound like you’re doing a good job. I would continue to do what you’re doing! A couple tips since you did ask for them, - Before husband comes home I do a QUICK 10 minute pick up. Not sure why but it makes a world of a difference. - Check in with current organization setups and decide if they really are helping or if they could use an adjustment. - watch organizing videos and look at Pinterest for organizi…
/r/RedPillWives21/09/21 07:52 PM
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No worries. I just thought I would mention it.
/r/RedPillWives23/08/21 09:33 PM
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In rules under #2 there is a list of questions to answer if you’re looking for advice. It could help us offer you help to hear those answers. ❤️
/r/RedPillWives23/08/21 09:12 PM
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Thank you!!! I will do the OYS: maybe by doing my best it’ll make him want to do better too by seeing how hard I’m working. My post was only a small part of the entire picture. He actually is amazing! Everyone has their faults. I’m happy to stay at home. Thank you your comment is really helpful.
/r/RedPillWives23/08/21 01:40 PM
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Thank you I agree!
/r/RedPillWives22/08/21 05:34 PM
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I’ll look into the book thank you!
/r/RedPillWives22/08/21 05:32 PM
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Great idea! And YES that’s exactly what they are!
/r/RedPillWives21/08/21 05:51 PM
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Haha! I guess he uses them to clean his nails. Maybe it’s an exaggeration to say “they are “everywhere” but they’re mainly on his desk and in the shower. Then he will put like anything in his pockets.
/r/RedPillWives21/08/21 05:21 PM
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I really appreciate your feedback! I will seriously do these things thanks. I stopped getting his coffee ready because I don’t even know when he will wake up. Rewarding the good behavior is also a solid idea thank you.
/r/RedPillWives21/08/21 04:06 PM
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Thank you kindly! I’m sorry to hear - I’m going to try and just communicate as much as I can.
/r/RedPillWives21/08/21 04:01 PM
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Thank you! He could work on his health. I do agree he might be seriously depressed.
/r/RedPillWives21/08/21 04:01 PM
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Thank you! I appreciate your words. I will keep in mind that I need to focus on the safety aspect with him! Wake up call is probably necessary at this point.
/r/RedPillWives21/08/21 03:34 PM
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That is a solid factor to mention thank you! Yes I’m sure he’s pretty depressed. Everything is very heavy right now and rough. In the world and with our living situation. I’ll keep that in mind thank you!
/r/RedPillWives21/08/21 03:34 PM
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Do you have a porn addiction? Looking at unrealistic women’s bodies all day? Maybe your expectations have become unrealistic due to things like porn and photoshopped women on Instagram.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/20 01:45 PM
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Sorry to hear about your infertility. That is really difficult. Maybe you can look more into fertility treatments and ways to keep your mind busy on trying to find ways to start a family.
/r/RedPillWives15/05/20 12:14 AM
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I think you should respect that he doesn’t agree and respect his wishes. I think you should look into why you are wanting the dog and seek an alternative solution.
/r/RedPillWives14/05/20 11:22 PM
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Is this a troll post?
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 11:45 AM
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The problem is him desiring to sleep with other people and you being “okay” with it. Why is he even married if he wants to have sex and talk to other women? Why would you even let him bang some random people in another country? Huge red flags. You’ve going to have to look deep into it.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 08:04 AM
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Firstly, I’m sorry I cannot read your entire story but I’d rather comment than not comment. It’s too long. Summarize more. I think you’re too worried about what others think. Get over it and learn to not care. Life is too short and you creating and maintaining a good family system is a bigger concern. I look at my husband’s career as something I nurture. We are a team. I help him succeed in his career and because of it he gets raises and promotions. I even do small things like make his coffee in…
/r/RedPillWives09/02/20 05:32 PM
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When you think about your ideal life - what does that look like to you?
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 12:46 PM
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Just let him know you’d like to wear a little makeup because without it, you feel, you look tired. I feel like that’s something little a husband should respect. If he has an issue, ask him why this is an issue for him.
/r/RedPillWives04/09/19 01:02 AM
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Maybe counseling could be a great option for you to explore.
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 06:10 PM
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He doesn’t sound like what you need or actually want. Go for an older man who’s established in life and red pilled. You’re someone’s dream woman you just have to find/wait for them. This guy sounds like a nightmare don’t get involved. It’s easy to want what we can’t have but you’ll regret getting involved. If this blue pilled guy does anything he might get bored and use you for sex which is NOT what you want. In the meantime focus on you and making sure you’re ready for your dream man. Dress nic…
/r/RedPillWives24/08/19 12:47 PM
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You’re welcome
/r/RedPillWives17/08/19 02:23 AM
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I’m hearing that you’re not taking the time to remember that you need self care and balance too. It’s okay to accept help/rewards and it’s okay that your husband wants to care for your needs. I would recommend looking into the 5 love languages. Maybe, your husband wants to show love to you by treating you nicely when he gets home. I’d say, investigate into why you’re feeling like you don’t deserve it and work on some self awareness into that. :)
/r/RedPillWives17/08/19 02:16 AM
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When I live in Los Angeles dating was terrible. Being in the Midwest you actually find decent people who want to settle down. Would you ever consider moving to a place where there are more tradition women?
/r/RedPillWives04/06/19 11:51 PM
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