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| 71 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ... | MALE DEPRAVITY | Ms_Diva_Muffin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:56 AM |
| 62 | What is happening in the South of the USA? It's getting scary!! | Ms_Diva_Muffin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 01:59 AM | |
| 33 | Even aged 77 they're still dogging around!! | MALE DEPRAVITY | Ms_Diva_Muffin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 02:58 PM |
| 24 | Ughhh. Gross, on so Many Levels !! | DUMP HIS ASS | Ms_Diva_Muffin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:12 PM |
| 17 | Alex Salmond cleared of all sexual assault charges | MALE DEPRAVITY | Ms_Diva_Muffin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 04:01 PM |
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| 20 | Would you date white guy who used to teach English in Asia ?It totally depends on the guy. While there are many, many creeps that go there because they wanna be with Asian women, I also know plenty of normal, respectful men who taught in places like China, Japan, Thailand . A lot of them did it to live in a cheap place and be able to travel freely through beautiful countries for a few years. It's a bit of a generalisation to say all of them are depraved . Two of my brothers did it and I know for a fact that they're HVM. Edited to say that just because a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:22 PM |
| 22 | Nvm really went above and beyond to live that shitty Lifetime movie.Yeah but traumatising a pregnant woman while you're administering an ultrasound to her would probably not be the best idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:18 PM |
| 17 | Nvm really went above and beyond to live that shitty Lifetime movie.Fucking hell. This is horrible! For both of those women! And their kids. How can someone be so heartless! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:16 PM |
| 7 | The absolute audacity of married men, I have no words.Came here to say exactly that !! :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...Ah OK , Thanks. As I said, I'm not from US so not completely familiar with this ! Thanks for explaining! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 09:41 PM |
| 5 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...100% That's exactly what I thought and it's so common!! So sad for that little girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...But some are there for peeing in public? I'm sure a very small minority! But they shouldn't be on that list for that! For one thing it's very unfair, for another it gives the actual offenders excuses to complain about the register | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...Yep!! So many pedos on there giving out about the register, saying it should be illegal! Some of them even had the fucking gall to call themselves a discriminated against minority!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...Holy fuck! Some people are just so fucked up aren't they!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:52 PM |
| 10 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...And HIS mother is the one calling the authorities and trying to keep the child safe!!! And she's on another forum called 'crazy MILs' or something giving out about her!! WTF!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:52 PM |
| 8 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...Yeah I remember reading something like that before, or maybe I saw it in a movie. Someone had peed in a kids' park at night or something and now they're on the register. Is that ever true? Can it happen? I'm not from the US and there is no sex offenders register in my country. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...I know!!! This is the one I read too! She had another post asking if her daughter (his stepdaughter) would be allowed to visit him in prison along with her!!!!! I actually sent her a private message pleading against this. Probably won't make any difference but I was almost crying reading that particular post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 05:48 PM |
| 8 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...WTF! Staying with someone who looked at CP is despicable enough but staying with someone with is distributing it. Why do these women stay! This is not a LVM situation, this is actual child abusers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 03:19 PM |
| 10 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...That is so crazy!! How could anyone stay with someone who looks at CP ?? Really? And they show no remorse! They call it a 'victimless crime' because there was no contact!! It's fucking disgusting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...Spent a year? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 19 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...There's one woman on it who is asking if her daughter (sex offender's stepdaughter) will be able to visit him in prison. He is convicted of an offence involving a minor child!! And she still wants his minor daughter to be around him. I'm in disbelief!! Should I send her a message to make her see sense? Is that allowed? I'm sitting here so worried for the daughter of this woman, who is obviously a very likely victim of this pedophile! Wish I'd never stumbled upon this subreddit! https://www.reddi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 11:46 AM |
| 25 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...It's absolutely insane isn't it! And I completely agree, sex offenders do not change, especially the ones who are sexually abusing minors! Which most of these degenerates are! I just cannot get my head around women (with children!!!!) who are deciding to stick by their molester husbands! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 11:00 AM |
| 19 | Down the Reddit rabbit hole ...Never a truer word spoken! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 10:54 AM |
| 8 | Would you date Damaged guy ?Where does it say anything about escorts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 11:06 AM |
| 3 | FOUR YEARSCame here to say that!!! WTF! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 10:44 AM |
| 2 | male depravity postsYes! Agree! Some people go looking for that stuff which brings that negativity into their lives, and into our feed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 3 | male depravity postsIt's hard to avoid them when they're all over the feed when scrolling down. It's easy to get sucked in. We can easy go to incel and misogynistic boards if we want to see what they're saying. It doesn't have to be filling up FDS feed as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:02 PM |
| 2 | male depravity posts100% agree!! If I wanted to read what depraved men and incels were saying I would read their forums. There's no need to repost it all here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 06:00 PM |
| 52 | Woman shares devastating story about porn addicted husband - Later edits post to tell men to STOP asking her to help them recover. LVM think we are only here to be used.That is so sad. He started masturbating at 8 and looking at porn at 12. There have to be more regulations for children on phones, internet. He's a grown man now and it is his responsibility to heal. But if he started when he was 8 his brain did not fully develop normally. This man is broken and can probably not be fixed. And he was only a little boy when it started. I feel very sorry for everyone in this story, and especially the young boy that he was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Crime documentaries, and so many women wait until it's too late?Thanks a mil. Something to get me through the next few weeks of lockdown ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Crime documentaries, and so many women wait until it's too late?What's the name of the show you're watching? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:58 PM |
| 14 | How do you all feel about Bumble?You met August 2019 and you already have the baby? Hmmm something doesn't add up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:11 AM |
| 69 | Dude Blocks and Ghosts Poor PickMe IMMEDIATELY After First Date Sex. She Has No Idea Why...smhVery likely that the guy has a girlfriend. My best friend found out her ex boyfriend cheated this way. The girl that he had slept with contacted her and told her. They had talked for a few weeks, slept together and then he had blocked her on everything. She then got suspicious, looked up his accounts somehow and found that he had a girlfriend (my bf). My bf dumped his ass straight away! Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:50 AM |
| 7 | My boyfriend seems indifferent occasionally.No , she couldn't, because of this sub! If it was another sub maybe she wouldn't have mentioned it. But many people on this don't believe in long term relationships, just marriage, so she was being pre-emptive by saying it as they have been together 5 years. . You are projecting your own thoughts on to what she said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:12 AM |
| 18 | My boyfriend seems indifferent occasionally.She mentions marriage here because if she didn't most people on this forum would lambast her for being a 'forever girlfriend', when it's not important to marry in many cultures. So you've completely missed the point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:09 PM |
| 10 | Dating in Asia vs the westI'm from Europe and from reading stories on this forum it definitely seems so much worse in the states! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Sex lives as portrayed in TV/moviesI know. I was replying to the other poster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:46 PM |
| 13 | Sex lives as portrayed in TV/moviesYeah but I think there's a difference in not having sex when you're in a relationship and when you're single. When I'm in a relationship I like to have sex on average 5 times a week, sometimes more sometimes less. However when I'm single I can go months without sex and not even think about it . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 12 | ER Visit On The Second DateYou'd been on one date when you looked at his phone, he's allowed to be seeing other women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Red flag?Having cameras in your kids' rooms is a total red flag. Not for any seedy reason but for weird controlling reasons. Who the hell puts cameras in their kids' room?! Children have a right to their privacy and I'm sure we all survived our childhood without having cameras in our rooms. The thing about not allowing them electronics and not allowing them to watch certain TV programmes for me is not a red flag at all. Children these days spend way too much time on electronics. It is not good for brain … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:49 PM |
| 54 | Photo uploaded on Instagram ?!He wasn't acting like that because he was embarrassed by you. He was acting like that because either he had a girlfriend/partner, or he didn't want other women to know he had a girlfriend, he wanted to appear single. Huge red flag. None of this was your fault! I hope you're feeling better now that you're away from him and I hope you're getting help for your trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:36 PM |
| 5 | Level Up Check-In: what have you done lately to improve yourself?I've had Vietnamese instant coffee once and it made me feel like I was on drugs!!! It's so strong ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:20 PM |
| 27 | Comment: “just take this as a valuable lesson that if you want some ass, go look up porn”...as if that’s not the entire problem of why he felt like doing thisCame here to say exactly that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 24 | Still praising men for doing the bare minimum.Ohhh hold on ! Where did my comment (or any of my post history) say anything about 'aggressive black men'. Seriously?! Where did you get that from? I'm going off numerous articles I've read about this situation wherein it has been stated that he did in fact rape her. However I will do more research due to your comment. Please do not project your issues onto me. There is absolutely no call for it! Edited to say that perhaps you could link this 'proof' as all I've seen are articles saying the oppo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:25 PM |
| 108 | Still praising men for doing the bare minimum.Yeah I would 100% forgive my husband for being a rapist if he never left the toilet seat up. I mean who wouldn't??! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 2 | This might seem like a strange question but as an adult, how do women go about making friends with other women. I seem to not have gotten the hang of this and am trying to level up. I know I would be a great friend. I just seriously have no idea how to go about it.Oh never thought of this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 01:33 PM |
| 6 | This might seem like a strange question but as an adult, how do women go about making friends with other women. I seem to not have gotten the hang of this and am trying to level up. I know I would be a great friend. I just seriously have no idea how to go about it.Ohh I don't know. Repulsed is a very strong word. Like I said, if we get on well, I ask for their number, if there's no vibe I don't. It's all about feeling it out. But I'm not always right. Sometime's I've thought we've got on well, contacted them after, got a one message response and that was it. But I don't take it personally. I moved to a new country two years ago and through this approach have developed an amazing group of female friends that now I couldn't live without. I went through a ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 01:31 PM |
| 14 | I kind of exposed this guy to all the women who could be his fiancé... long story how I found out. My heart was racing! I know it’s the right thing to do but I’m a quiet girl I normally don’t do this stuff but I felt so bad for his fiancé about to marry a cheaterWhat kind of response did you get? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 02:26 AM |
| 75 | I hope his wife goes and finds herself a nice girlfriend who cares about what she has to sayHe reacted like a dick. But, I would love to know how others would feel if it was the other way around? If your boyfriend/husband told you he was bi? Would it be hard to hear? How would you react? Would it be a dealbreaker? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 01:16 AM |
| 70 | This might seem like a strange question but as an adult, how do women go about making friends with other women. I seem to not have gotten the hang of this and am trying to level up. I know I would be a great friend. I just seriously have no idea how to go about it.If I meet another woman on a night out, at a class, at a language exchange, through a mutual friend, etc, and we get on well, I always ask for her Whatsapp. Then send them a message asking do they wanna go for lunch, a drink, join in on another activity already planned with friends. 9 times out of 10 we'll do one of those activities. Sometimes it develops into friendship from there, sometimes not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 01:13 AM |
| 61 | Not dating related but wtf..Cringe cringe cringe Look at his post history. Explains a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 4 | The man I've been seeing just got engaged to his GIRLFRIEND OF EIGHT YEARS100% tell her. Send her all the evidence. My best friend's boyfriend recently cheated on her. She found out because the girl he cheated with messaged her and told her, sending her screenshots of their messages. The girl didn't know that he had a girlfriend. My friend dumped him straight away, blocked him and is staying strong. Sometimes people surprise you, in a good way. Edited to say: Update us if you can :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 32 | No clue why he still has a girlfriend but this makes me sad for her100% a troll. No one is that stupid! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 11:11 PM |
| 8 | 11 Year old girl gave birth to baby fathered by her own brother; parents "clueless".I honestly think they should castrate all child abusers, including anyone ever caught watching child porn. Rapists too. Start castrating them, and watch the statistics fall! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 42 | How do you become a better woman?Why in hell did you continue getting into a car with this man?? Stay safe sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:24 PM |
| 7 | This guy I used to hook up with hits me up to try and win me back. This is what he says.My ex of two years basically said this to me as I was dumping him! And he was serious. He said, it would be great if you found out you were pregnant cos we'd have to stay together!! Ehhhh what!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:05 PM |
| 8 | Practice FDS - watch the LVM expose themselves. A story of the lowest effort exposure ever (texting....)Yep!! Even my ex who was pretty LVM, always texted first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:55 PM |
| 13 | 1000+ tinder matches collected over the last year or so and none of the men I find attractive ever message me. I’m getting really frustrated.Yep!! My brother told me he swipes right on every single profile! And then if he gets a match he has a look at the profile to see if he likes them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:53 PM |
| 37 | “Cat Person” | The New YorkerThat was very very painful to read in places. I can identify with so much of her experience, it's so cringy. Really well written article! One part that really stood out was this line, " He looked stunned and stupid with pleasure, like a milk-drunk baby," Who hasn't seen this look on a guys face? I saw this look on my ex LVM's face the first night we slept together, the article describes it perfectly. So glad I don't do this anymore. The article describes perfectly in minute detail how it is comp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 03:47 PM |
| 30 | Another LVM family annihilator murders his wife and kids after a trip to Disneyworld.Why are there so many of these stories, literally just these last couple of weeks?? What is going on?? I mean, am I naive in thinking that it's not always like this, there is definitely more than usual of these types of killings happening. So sad for that woman and her little kids. RIP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 01:08 AM |
| 8 | BEWARE OF MARRIED MEN!What is it with cops? I hear so many cheating stories about them!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 3 | No regard for partners safetyThat sentence is shocking!! No jail time at all. Despicable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:38 PM |
| 3 | One of the most egregious things I’ve read in a long time! LAOP’s husband left her and their 5 young children (1 with special needs), moved in with his girlfriend and cut LAOP off from every bank account, health insurance, and stopped paying the mortgage on the family home.Ah OK. Got it. Thanks for the explanation :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Do you think lvm could turn into HVMSome people can change, if they try very hard and do it for the right reasons. Narcs definitely cannot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:08 AM |
| 3 | One of the most egregious things I’ve read in a long time! LAOP’s husband left her and their 5 young children (1 with special needs), moved in with his girlfriend and cut LAOP off from every bank account, health insurance, and stopped paying the mortgage on the family home.Apologies, I don't really know the ins and outs of reddit, why do you say: Reminder: do not participate in threads linked here. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 03:04 AM |
| 188 | they know exactly what theyre doing.I really do not understand the concept of roastme?!! Seriously. Why do people do it?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 02:51 AM |
| 7 | Guy tells his gf he’s moving in with another woman, gf says she’s done. Here come the Pickme’s with “I trust my bf but not other women.”I think it's very important for this woman to set her own boundaries and stick to them, and respect her for doing so. However in my 20s I house shared with many people, old friends and new people, male and female, that's just something you do in your 20s. Nothing untoward ever happened. I lived with both a male and female friend at one time for a couple of years and the three of us had boyfriends/girlfriends at the time who would stay over a couple of nights a week, there was no jealousy involve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 35 | Boyfriend keeps panties and nudes of other girls, refuses to get rid of them and constantly talks about all the other women he’s fucked. GF wants to know how to discuss it without hurting his feelings.Oh no!!!! And she calls him a "sentimental/nostalgic guy" WT actual F!! He sounds like a psychopath! Who the fuck has a load of old panties from exes and one night stands?! Especially one night stands, why aren't these girls taking their knickers home ? :-D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 06:32 PM |
| 5 | [SEEKING ADVICE] What are some good self-care practices to do after leaving a toxic (LVM/pickme) relationship?Love this idea <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 02:59 PM |
| 59 | How to to weed out any LVM11 ? Really. I was bullied when young! Does that mean I don't deserve a good relationship?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 08:05 PM |
| 7 | I FELT LIKE IT APPLIES TO MEN AS WELL.....What? This makes no sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 03:14 AM |
| 16 | How do I make HVW female friends?I moved to a new country as well and have developed a really close group of female friends over the past year. It's amazing! There's a facebook group for expat and local women in this city. So someone put up a post seeing if anyone wanted to get together for a few drinks. A good few people went, and a few of us stayed in touch and became close friends. Through those new friends, I met other new friends and we have all become very close, meeting up numerous times a week for lunch, drinks, dancing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 13 | Sums it upHahahhaa love it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 05:23 PM |
| 12 | Is this even real???Yeah right!!!!! Hahhaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 12:55 PM |
| 16 | How Settling For “Not so sure” Love in Order to Avoid Loneliness Can Ruin Your Life. Pickmeisha, Take Note.Great video!! Really needed this today!! "We'll grow used to cosy mediocrity" !! No more hermanas!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/20 12:05 PM |
| 1 | The "2 numbers a week" challenge: Has anyone tried it?Why not? When that's who we want to date! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Is anyone else in a relationship from before finding FDS that they chose to stay in? What changed and what didn't?Could you give some examples of the things you actually did to turn it around? For example, with setting new boundaries, establishing new standards? Thanks so much and congratulations!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 11:46 AM |
| 10 | Relationship Help!Dump him. He's showing you who is he. Listen to him!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 10:24 PM |
| 15 | Beautiful queen who inspired me to start telling LVM to fuck offOhhh his face when he was caught. Feel sorry for the other girl too though, 6 months dating and hadn't met his friends or family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:08 AM |
| 29 | Beautiful queen who inspired me to start telling LVM to fuck offMy ex who I dumped a month ago basically gave me that exact same speech last week. Such bullshit!! "Now I've realised, you're the woman of my dreams, blah blah blah" So unoriginal. She is a queen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:03 AM |
| 12 | It’s really that simple...This!! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 02:31 AM |
| 5 | “The Game” by Neil Strauss - a how-to guide for deception and sexual coercion for LVMsUgh I feel sick reading this. So scripted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 03:41 AM |
| 7 | Not sure how to handle thisFeel so sorry for his girlfriend and child. If you don't want to let the gf know (and I would definitely want to know this piece of information), then you could threaten it. Tell him if he tries it on with you one more time you're going to tell his girlfriend, and then follow through if he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 06:10 PM |
| 49 | Not sure how to handle thisHe has a girlfriend and a child, and he lives with both?! Why can't you block him? And tell his girlfriend while you're at it! He sounds like scum! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 02:50 PM |
| 145 | MEN KNOW! Celebrity men discuss how they knew their wives were “The One” Almost ImmediatelyPoor girlfriend :-( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 11:12 PM |
| 2 | If you're one of the people here who is with a truly HVM for the long haul, why are you here, and what convinced you they're HV?Hahaha who doesn't love muffins ;-) Nice story. Gives me hope for when I'm ready to start dating again . Thanks :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 05:03 PM |
| 19 | Boyfriend paying for me to impress another girl?It is bad if he blatantly disrespects her in front of other people, or disrespects her at all! It's very clear he was putting on a good show for the cute receptionist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 03:25 PM |
| 37 | Boyfriend doesn’t see a problem with watching porn...Oh No!! Poor girl. She needs to get the F away from him fast. Rapist, porn addict, cheater, liar!! He sounds like the lowest of the low. Hope she has some friends/family around her that help her to see the light quickly!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 02:23 PM |
| 2 | If you're one of the people here who is with a truly HVM for the long haul, why are you here, and what convinced you they're HV?How did you meet your current HVM? Would love to know the story :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 02:14 PM |
| 8 | If you're one of the people here who is with a truly HVM for the long haul, why are you here, and what convinced you they're HV?This is me. My first ever boyfriend was a total HVM, but I got bored and cheated on him with an LVM, who I stayed with for 8 years (on and off obviously because when is it ever stable with an LVM) So now, after recently breaking up with another LVM after a two year relationship I am taking a break from dating, starting therapy and going to work on myself so the next time I have the luck to be with a HVM I appreciate him! 2020 Vision sisters!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 02:14 PM |
| 22 | LVM happy he can finally be a total piece of shit in peace with his brand new “downgrade” PickMeishaI was just thinking that while reading the comments, it has to be the ex! He's obviously an LVM of the lowest order, but he couldn't really be that stupid, could he?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 01:59 PM |
| 12 | A pickme/level up taleThanks for sharing your story and your vulnerability. You are so brave!! I'm sure we have all been there. I know I have, and hopefully I'll have the courage one day to fully share my story here like you. Thank you. Thank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 01:52 PM |
| 25 | What is happening in the South of the USA? It's getting scary!!Yes this! I listened to a talk recently with Brene Brown I think saying this exact thing. Male patriarchy is dying, they're becoming desperate, and they're scrambling and fighting and struggling to not let it die by becoming even more controlling and misogynistic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 04:18 AM |
| 5 | What is happening in the South of the USA? It's getting scary!!I know the South has always been conservative right wing and backwards, but I mean recently with this governor pardoning child rapists and killers, and the recent bill in Ohio which states that doctors have to re-implant ectopic pregnancies or they could be charged with murder (when it's medically impossible) It's always been bad, but seems to be getting much much worse And for the record, straight, white and female (and not from the US!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 04:14 AM |
| 13 | What is happening in the South of the USA? It's getting scary!!Yeah completely! Child rapists, murderers, violent criminals! From the article "Among the gruesome violent crimes committed by those pardoned are the beheading of a woman whose body was hidden in an oil drum and a newborn baby dumped by their mother in a septic tank." How can he get away with this? I'm not from the US, but so the rule is any president or governor can pardon whomever they want, and no-one can do anything about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 02:57 AM |
| 4 | men will stay with you even if they don’t love you and that terrifies meLove it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 02:06 AM |
| 18 | men will stay with you even if they don’t love you and that terrifies meOh that is terrible. That is one of the reasons that I dumped by boyfriend recently, I just know he has it in him to do something like that!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 02:04 AM |
| 7 | men will stay with you even if they don’t love you and that terrifies meReally?? I thought they seems very committed? But you never know... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 02:02 AM |
| 30 | Ladies, choose wisely and ruthlessly!So so true! If a relationship is not strong before a baby, it ain't gonna get strong after!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 02:00 AM |
| 6 | I(21F) feel uncomfortable with my boyfriend(28M) frequenting nightclubsBig red flag!! He's going to flirt with women, at best, and do other stuff with them, at worst!! Does he ever invite you? Are all his friends male? Do any of them have partners? Do their partners go to the nightclubs with them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 08:44 PM |
| 12 | All porn leads to this road.Just googled DDLG, had never heard it before. Eeeewwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 48 | All porn leads to this road."my boyfriends porn history consists of rape porn, gang rape stuff, men beating women unconscious then raping them. Also there is horses fucking women and dogs fucking women." Holy shit!! I would NOT want to having sex with someone like that!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 18 | New to this--what do I do from here?Yeah making you pay for a cup of coffee. Even many LVM wouldn't do that. Very strange . As a resident maybe he's very broke ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 3 | I slept with him...am I useless to him now. What do I do?Block block block block block!!! You are going nowhere with this LVM, except to more pain!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 08:31 PM |
| 63 | Remember ladies, he can genuinely be in love with you, but still treat you like shit. They’re not mutually exclusive concepts.Thank you for posting this!!! It's so true. My ex loves me so much, I know this. But you're right, love is not enough!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 08:27 PM |
| 45 | Oh my god this is is the most cringe thing i have ever read.Who writes this crap?? It seems so fake! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 10:52 PM |
| 5 | Dating app red flagsAh OK. Gotcha! I thought it might be something that WE should ask for, so we can get a snapshot into their life. I thought maybe someone NOT giving you their insta/snapchat could be a red flag, in that they might not be who they say they are! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Why Doesn’t FDS Focus on Improving Physical Appearance? Do Looks Matter For Attracting a High Value Man?Love love love MUAC!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Tried to come up with a headline but I just have no words...I know. That's exactly what I was thinking, and that's exactly who he's looking for. So sad that someone who was abused faces more and more abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 09:40 PM |
| 10 | Dating app red flagsWhy is asking for Snapchat/Insta a red flag? I'm asking because I've never done OLD and I don't have snapchat or insta, so genuinely curious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 09:39 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, what to do when a man reveals a micropenis?Yeah I think 5-6 average, 6-7 big, above that very big I know I read this somewhere very recently when my friends and I were discussing micropenises, but I can't find the source now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 03:27 AM |
| -4 | Tried to come up with a headline but I just have no words...The sad thing is, he'll probably have lots of offers :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 03:16 AM |
| 63 | I'm a massive Pickmeisha, so I broke up with my boyfriend today.Not OP but ... We all made mistakes in the past. We're all trying to change and using this sub for support. No judgement please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 03:14 AM |
| 9 | Ladies, what to do when a man reveals a micropenis?Much less. Less than 3" hard I believe. 3-4" is seen as small | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 11:17 PM |
| 33 | Ladies, what to do when a man reveals a micropenis?He had probably come in his pants, euggghh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 10:32 PM |
| 5 | My emotional time limits for recuperating from breakupsYeah but I dumped him 2 weeks ago so six more weeks :-) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Dating up or dating down? What's best?Do you means looks wise? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 08:42 PM |
| 8 | My emotional time limits for recuperating from breakupsYou can do it!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 08:41 PM |
| 14 | My emotional time limits for recuperating from breakupsOK I dumped him two weeks ago, because he cheated (repeatedly!!) We were together two years so in six weeks time I'll be recovered! I already feel a million times better since I discovered this sub!!!!! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 08:40 PM |
| 38 | HmmWhere I live (Latin America) lots of the women love the game of trying to steal someone's boyfriend, love being the side chick, because they think that means they're so irresistible that a man just had to have them even if it meant being unfaithful , they will also do anything for that man hoping that eventually he'll pick them . It's a mad culture and very hard to find female friends you can trust. Luckily I have some HVWs that I trust with my life, but I've been burned a few times by these tra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/19 08:39 PM |
| 22 | New here, and I need help..I really needed to hear this today!! Thank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Wont let me penetrateYou said "Should I have just continued what I was doing?' , so basically asking people on here if you should have raped the girl or not!! | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Wont let me penetrateText Copied: Wont let me penetrate 📷 So I and this religious girl(who want no sex before marriage) were kissing and hugging naked and I was squeezing her (she was little reluctant), when I was about to penetrate , she said " I will never forgive you for doing this " and started crying so I stopped and pulled up my pants. Should I have just continued what I was doing or I did right thing What should I do next time we meet. ? She's very much into me though. Are you actually serious?? You're aski… | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 04:15 AM |
| 6 | I'm a pickmeisha but I'm done.Sounds very similar to my last relationship, which I've finally left two weeks ago after two years of what you're describing, and worse! We got this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 05:56 PM |
| 6 | What are all of these pills for?Oh I was hoping someone would ask!!! I haven't a clue!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 06:02 AM |
| 13 | When you choose to have standards and walk, why does it feel like you got dumped instead?This!! Thanks for posting. Describes my ex to a tee!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Men who often travel to South East Asia - red flag?I wouldn't see it a red flag just because of this one thing, as the men you're talking about are Asian too (i think?) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Men who often travel to South East Asia - red flag?But with Japanese men is that not a close-by location to travel? I mean like Spanish people going to Morocco or something. I would find it a major red flag if a European or American said they often go to South East Asia, but maybe it's different when it's in the vicinity? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 03:53 PM |
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