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29

Oldest trick in the book but its become a cliche for a reason. It works.
/r/seduction15/04/14 03:53 PM
6

Lack of interest or abundance mentality.
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:42 AM
0

Hmm. That's a good question. I think it's a fine line to walk. Be too passive and you'll probably be thought of as the little guy who's a bitch and be too aggressive and you have height issues. I'm 6'1" myself. I'd be lying if I said girls don't flat out tell me they like my height but I don't think it's as important as many assume it is. Confidence and social skills will trump height 9/10 times.
/r/seduction30/03/14 01:46 PM
2

How would you handle this if you were dating? I've had this exact situation happen before and I'm afraid I played it too aggressively.
/r/seduction28/03/14 07:14 PM
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In my experience it's usually an easy let down. However I also have maintained friendships with women I've slept with. IMO it's something you need to decide on a case by case basis.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:16 PM
2

So either tell them "Nothing" or stop being a bitch and tell them you're looking at them.
/r/seduction24/02/14 11:33 PM
1

Google translate has come miles from where it used to be but it's still unreliable at best. If you have the time, actually pick up a language. Being able to talk sexy to a girl is just one of many perks. /r/languagelearning
/r/seduction23/01/14 10:22 PM
2

Hey my man. You're certainly not alone here in fighting depression. You can always PM me if you need someone to talk to and /r/Depression is a good place to vent and get advice. Honestly though you have some deep issues that sleeping with a girl is not going to fix. I've had problems with suicidal thoughts as well. When I was 18 I was in Bavaria visiting the famous castle Neuschwanstein. It was a beautiful day. Sun shining but not too brightly. Few fluffy clouds. Not hot not too cool. Just perfe…
/r/seduction04/01/14 07:52 PM
1

Can I get a link to the Durden video you mentioned?
/r/seduction17/12/13 11:56 PM
3

Here you go.
/r/seduction17/12/13 11:51 PM
3

Well written and nicely done man.
/r/seduction17/12/13 11:46 PM
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So, why do I give a fuck how men from California talk? I'm from the Midwest and call me a stubborn farm boy but I'm sure as shit not going to change the way I talk especially not to sound like some California boy who we grew up making fun of.
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:08 PM
0

You are absolutely talking out of your ass and I agree with /u/i-heart-progress when he said it sounds like you're manipulating women.
/r/seduction29/11/13 05:59 PM
12

And Brad Pitt would not let that slide one bit.
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:24 PM
2

Going to have to agree with this. I'm 20 and in school, last year a buddy and I went to a bar about an hour away from school. Crowd was definitely older than me, late twenties early thirties. I had women all over me. They really got off on me being much younger (youngest woman I talked to all night was still 6 years older than me). You just have to be mature and confident. Don't take any shit about your age, if they say something about you being young just fire back (sarcastically) about them be…
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:46 AM
1

Get in tight with the fraternity brothers. You don't have to join the fraternity to become friends with them. No better social proof than being one of a handful of guys (out of 300+ people at the party) invited upstairs to take shots with the girls.
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:43 AM
1

The sarcasm and confidence is key I think, otherwise you're just disqualifying yourself.
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:38 AM
3

I know I'm a bit late, but reading this reminded me of myself last year. I'm from out of state. Came to a school with 55,000+ people and didn't know a single person. Literally nobody. It was rough at first but here's what I did. Be way more open and friendly. Talk to people, they don't bite. Look into joining a club or two that interests you. Just start going to their meetings and events. It's a great way to meet new friends considering you all have at least one thing in common. I also joined a …
/r/seduction14/10/13 05:28 PM
9

I feel like that's a process that's already happening for me then. Just gotta keep working.
/r/seduction12/10/13 06:55 PM
11

How do you internalize? I've noticed that things have become much more automatic for me but I'd be lying if I said I never consciously think about what I'm doing.
/r/seduction12/10/13 06:27 PM
3

I almost always go straight for the hug. I'm a touchy guy. I hug my male friends too. Usually I just straight up say "I'm a hugger" and go for it. Most of the time they laugh and are fine with it. If they're not, it's usually not a person I want to know better anyway. Obviously I don't do this in more formal or professional settings.
/r/seduction12/10/13 04:28 PM
2

To add onto this, don't forget to mention the bride and how lucky your buddy is to be with her.
/r/seduction17/09/13 01:45 AM
1

Have fun.
/r/seduction14/09/13 09:56 PM
1

The only other one I've checked out is the Chicago one and it seems pretty dead.
/r/seduction12/09/13 08:29 PM
1

/r/askseddit
/r/seduction19/07/13 02:33 AM
1

I'm home for summer but I go to school at OSU. I'm 20 but I have a fake.
/r/seduction20/06/13 05:05 PM
6

I thought to myself "So?". Then I remembered that I just turned 20 and that's a no no for me now. :/
/r/seduction23/05/13 04:32 PM
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I respect that you didn't delete it though.
/r/seduction23/05/13 04:28 PM
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But OP doesn't want a relationship. She doesn't want to take him out for drinks or go on dates or anything. She just wants to have sex with him. Ultimately it's up to her, but I would think long and hard before hooking up with a coworker.
/r/seduction28/04/13 03:59 PM
1

Oh silly me, you see, when ARealSocialIdiot said 260 is pretty big for a guy no matter what his height I clearly should have known that he didn't mean what he said but 260 is big for a guy no matter what unless he's a professional athlete. You're right, my example is completely invalid. If only I knew the name of a random guy who was 260 lbs and didn't look fat.
/r/seduction22/04/13 04:46 PM
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You're good.
/r/seduction22/04/13 04:30 PM
0

It's big but it doesn't have to make you look fat. Brian Urlacher is 260 lbs and 6'4" and he doesn't look fat at all.
/r/seduction22/04/13 05:52 AM
1

Good job! That's what we're here for. To help each other learn.
/r/seduction12/04/13 10:33 PM
2

Yeah, I honestly enjoy hanging out with her and am happy to continue a friendship. That's one thing I really don't like about the Seddit community. Just because there's a woman you're not sleeping with doesn't mean you can't enjoy her company. I don't know, I have lots of female friends.
/r/seduction12/04/13 02:34 PM
1

No problem. Seeing all the other guys posting here about their problems helped me as well. Maybe there should be a weekly "failures thread"? Just try to move on and start meeting other women. Work on improving yourself in the meantime. Best of luck brother.
/r/seduction11/04/13 10:12 PM
1

Again, I didn't intended it in that way. Poor word choice. I apologize. Well it confused me because just 3 days earlier she had texted me asking where I was and then the next day said she had been trying to find me. I don't know. It was the final nail in the coffin and is a good thing because now it's easier for me to move on. I wished her the best and thanked her for the fun we had together. I don't like burning down bridges. Thanks for your input.
/r/seduction11/04/13 10:10 PM
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In all honesty don't. It comes off as desperate. If it's meant to be it will be. Sometimes people need space. Remember, there are many women out there that you can be with and many that are better than her. The best revenge is living well.
/r/seduction11/04/13 03:57 PM
9

It wasn't intended to come off that way. I apologize.
/r/seduction10/04/13 11:26 PM
9

I worded that poorly. It's ok to have a routine but you do need to surprise her every now and then. I stand by what I said though, complacency is bad news.
/r/seduction10/04/13 11:23 PM
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Haha. Newbie bro hug. I'm having a hard time because I had one girlfriend for 4 years and then was single for a year. No sex. No women. Discover Seddit and start improving myself. Then I get this girl who is HOT. I wasn't kidding with the 9. Now I'm back to nothing. Not for long though. I'm learning. Some lessons are tough but everybody more experienced than us has been there at some point. I realized how far I'd come when instead of heading to the store for booze and a pack of smokes I went to …
/r/seduction10/04/13 09:36 PM
2

Yep, them sleeping with you right away doesn't mean shit.
/r/seduction10/04/13 08:21 PM
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OP, I'm sorry there are so many douchebags in this thread. Guys, obviously a decent looking woman can take home most guys if she wants to. You're missing the point. She isn't posting this as what she did, she's posting this as what he did, both right and wrong. Analyze what he did. Thanks for acting like a bunch of neckbeards guys. I'm supposed to be the newbie at this. I'm seriously so disappointed in you Seddit.
/r/seduction10/04/13 02:55 PM
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This is a map of how "welcoming" a country is towards foreign visitors. I know this was posted in r/Europe a while ago and many of them vehemently disagreed with it. Although I think this certainly plays a factor, I think the larger indicator would be the cultural attitude towards sex in that particular country.
/r/seduction03/04/13 03:13 PM
1

Do what makes you happy.
/r/seduction02/04/13 08:05 PM
2

To answer your question, yes. But honestly, this would have been a better question for r/askseddit
/r/seduction28/03/13 05:20 PM
2

Did almost the exact same thing. Now she hardly talks to me and has already flaked once. It's a tough lesson man, but one we all need to learn I guess.
/r/seduction27/03/13 10:06 PM
1

I love your advice. It pumps me up. But it still hurts right now. I think the best thing at this point for me would be to cut contact. If she wants back in, she can let me know.
/r/seduction27/03/13 10:00 PM
1

I usually wait until the next day. You don't want to seem desperate but at the same time you want to be fresh and in her mind.
/r/seduction20/03/13 02:55 AM
1

I speak German. The language of love :)
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:03 PM
1

Well, I usually bring up something that happened earlier. Like I convinced a girl she needed to "take me out to a nice steak dinner". So the next day I hit her up asking when she was going to take me out.
/r/seduction17/03/13 05:54 PM
2

No offense man, but if you're hitting on my girlfriend and "pretending I'm not there" after we've made it clear we're together I'm going to hit you.
/r/seduction17/03/13 05:53 PM
1

Don't put her on a pedestal. By not bowing to her every whim you stand out from the crowd and it's attractive.
/r/seduction17/03/13 05:50 PM
1

Screw that! 1) You're not old enough to be my dad so in my book you're not old. 2) We need your experience 3) You're never to old to learn and better yourself 4) We're all in this together, regardless of age
/r/seduction17/03/13 05:42 PM
1

Nearly 20, male.
/r/seduction17/03/13 05:41 PM
1

Begin introducing yourself to everyone.
/r/seduction08/03/13 07:31 PM
3

I'm still fairly new with this as well but from my experiences so far, confidence is key. It's really number one. Be confident. Exude confidence. Everything else will follow. 1) Confidence 2) Fun. Regardless of outcome. 3) Introduce yourself to everyone (male and female) 4) Keep your value high. After confidence (which is without a doubt number one) the other 3 are of equal importance. Hope to see another report soon!
/r/seduction08/03/13 03:23 PM
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What I like to do is go with a few of my friends. We act like idiots and dance like crazy but the trick is to not care what other people think. You're having a great time. You're with your bros. You're never going to see any of these people again. Be confident. Dance your ass off. I usually like to then break off from my group of friends and make a round asking girls to dance. Honestly I get shot down more often than not. Shrug it off and move to the next one. They're the ones missing out by not…
/r/seduction08/03/13 02:59 PM
1

True. I keep it very brief though and always imply I've got other shit to do.
/r/seduction03/03/13 10:54 AM
2

I think the most vital thing is to go out with the intention of just having fun. It seems to me that when I just go out with my friends and borderline ignore the women they come up to me. Besides, I've convinced myself I'm going to have a great time regardless of whether or not I get a girl and it's worked.
/r/seduction02/03/13 11:35 PM
2

Ahh, I'm actually from New Lenox and was astounded you found a bar to talk to a woman in. There's nothing to do here.
/r/seduction01/03/13 09:16 PM
4

Really? I'm 19 as well and most girls love it when I call. It makes you stand out. They can get 20 texts a day from desperate guys but how many of them nut up and give them a call?
/r/seduction01/03/13 09:09 PM
2

815? Sir, you wouldn't have happened to be in New Lenox or the Joliet area would you?
/r/seduction01/03/13 08:57 PM
2

Don't worry about it man. Babe Ruth struck out sometimes. Learn and move on.
/r/seduction27/02/13 05:49 PM
1

You're doing well. Not fawning over her is what's making you attractive. As soon as you put her on a pedestal you're no different than the hundreds of other guys available to her. You refuse to do this, this is different, this is unexpected, this is attractive. Keep it up.
/r/seduction23/02/13 09:52 PM
2

I could see this. Did he say how long it's been? I think he needs to keep going with the "I want to have sex with you, but if I don't I don't really care" course. I think the whole thing is a shit test. Like I said, I think she's just used to guys falling over themselves to sleep with her and OP is not. That makes him attractive. I think she'll be back.
/r/seduction23/02/13 06:18 PM
10

OP I'm confused, is she making you leave before or after you've f-closed? I think she just wants you to beg and plead to stay or something like that. She's used to guys fawning over her and you're not. Don't give in and she'll want you more. I think you did good the time you were fine with leaving. She did come after you after all. She's just playing games and wants you to want her. I think you're doing well.
/r/seduction23/02/13 05:33 PM
0

I think in this particular case she may legitimately only see and want you as a friend. Be honest with your feelings for her, tell her. Explain you think you could be more than friends but if she doesn't feel that way you understand and want to remain friends. Just don't come across as being madly in love with her, calmly explain that you think you guys could work out together and you wouldn't be opposed to giving it a shot. If you're just trying to salvage the friendship at this point try blami…
/r/seduction22/02/13 06:33 PM
5

Cheers, good luck. Expecting to hear back soon.
/r/seduction22/02/13 01:39 AM
14

To be honest, I said this to a sober girl [HB 9] at a party (I was falling down drunk) she exchanged numbers with me (as in we both took each others) and we met up the next weekend. F-Close. Now we're planning on going on an actual "date". Shit works.
/r/seduction20/02/13 05:07 PM
10

Church maybe?
/r/seduction04/02/13 11:13 PM
2

Or those of us who ski and just never really thought about striking up a conversation with others on the lift. It's a new and fresh idea. I like it, thank you.
/r/seduction27/01/13 09:53 PM
2

Yep. I live in a dorm on the 9th floor. So I use the elevators every day. I almost always strike up a conversation with whoever else is in there, especially if it's just the two of us. Guy, girl, good looking bad looking, whatever it doesn't matter. It's been good for me getting over my approach anxiety and people will recognize you after awhile.
/r/seduction27/01/13 09:52 PM
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