having trouble with a unique shit test

cycmarques · 2013-02-23T17:33:22+00:00

Never put your D in the C

Dogmaa · 2013-02-23T17:29:45+00:00

She sounds fucking nuts. She is trying to get you to throw a childish tantrum so she can prove to herself that she has power over you/dominance in the relationship, whatever.

If you got what you came for, I would be saying onto the next one with this chick.

himynameiszach · 2013-02-23T17:28:45+00:00

You already closed. Unless you're looking for a relationship with this woman (which you shouldn't if she pulls that shit), you already did the best thing you can do. Either she'll come back or she won't.

basilshaker · 2013-02-23T17:37:51+00:00

Sounds like a borderline personality type... You got what you wanted, get out while you can.

Mshotts · 2013-02-23T17:33:38+00:00

OP I'm confused, is she making you leave before or after you've f-closed?

I think she just wants you to beg and plead to stay or something like that. She's used to guys fawning over her and you're not. Don't give in and she'll want you more. I think you did good the time you were fine with leaving. She did come after you after all. She's just playing games and wants you to want her. I think you're doing well.

grantgw · 2013-02-23T18:20:32+00:00

Its a basic control test. And the first 2times she controlled you. Made her feel in charge. Next time relocate to your place. She can go anytime, but she will be the one outside. She'll expect you to come after her - don't.

oliver_tate · 2013-02-23T17:36:06+00:00

Sounds like some weird anti-slut mechanism to make her feel better, bitches be crazy.

areallyniceguy · 2013-02-23T19:03:05+00:00

She treats you like shit.

My advice: Abandon ship.

RandianHero · 2013-02-23T18:03:14+00:00

Seems to me you already figured out a system with her if you want to get laid. So what's the problem?

dking168 · 2013-02-23T17:57:31+00:00

You already closed, you have the power, you can choose what you want to do

heres_one_for_ya · 2013-02-23T18:29:39+00:00

This is why r/seduction lingo is stupid. Is not a shit test it's just fucking crazy. I

Travis47 · 2013-02-23T18:46:06+00:00

Get here over to your place and do the same shit to get imo. See how she reacts to getting kicked to the curb. Lol

themightycheese · 2013-02-23T19:38:27+00:00

I have a friend who does this to guys just because she has intimacy and commitment issues. Having said that, maybe you could always just tell her no and that you're staying the rest of the night? Leave if shit gets real and it is a more of a serious issue.

imstartingover · 2013-02-23T19:41:31+00:00

Yeah i'd leave that one alone.

Blemish · 2013-02-23T20:12:38+00:00

can anyone share what this was about ... it says deleted ?

Why would OP deprive other redditors of the learning opportunity ?

ilovetime · 2013-02-23T20:16:18+00:00

God damn it, what was the context?

NahDudeFkThat · 2013-02-23T18:42:48+00:00

You kick HER out when she pulls this. No matter who's place it is, actually especially if it's her place.

Lock her out too.

With a shit-eating grin and a frolic frame of course.

2013-02-23T20:01:33+00:00

Maybe she is following one of those "10 ways to make a man do whatever you want" type of crap they read about in glossy mags or some sort of chicks game. Just need to figure out what she wants to achieve.

Willem20 · 2013-02-23T18:06:57+00:00

Really..? You're letting yourself get pushed out? C'mon man!

Next time she says: "ok time for you to go!" you're going to use these magic words: "No."

Title	having trouble with a unique shit test
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	52
Comments	46
Date	February 23, 2013 5:17 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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