TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

Willem20 Archive

View 22 posts and 179 comments by Willem20 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
414

Willem20/r/seduction14/12/13 05:15 PM
196

Willem20/r/seduction21/05/14 12:55 PM
76

Willem20/r/seduction05/11/13 02:10 PM
16

Willem20/r/seduction05/02/14 07:10 PM
10

Willem20/r/seduction22/05/14 08:04 PM
9

Willem20/r/seduction01/02/14 06:24 PM
5

Willem20/r/seduction27/03/14 05:55 PM
4

Willem20/r/seduction11/09/14 08:14 PM
4

Willem20/r/seduction21/09/13 05:08 PM
3

Willem20/r/seduction19/10/13 11:29 AM
3

Willem20/r/seduction01/02/14 03:47 PM
3

Willem20/r/seduction02/09/14 12:31 PM
2

Willem20/r/seduction15/10/13 06:59 PM
1

Willem20/r/seduction03/06/13 09:30 PM
1

Willem20/r/seduction20/08/14 06:02 PM
1

Willem20/r/seduction30/10/13 10:23 AM
0

Willem20/r/seduction27/05/13 08:23 AM
0

Willem20/r/seduction14/04/14 09:57 AM
0

Willem20/r/seduction15/05/13 03:39 PM
0

Willem20/r/seduction12/08/13 08:03 PM
0

Willem20/r/seduction16/10/13 04:39 PM
0

Willem20/r/seduction21/05/14 08:47 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

It's great and he does have a point, but what is the benefit of this to /r/seduction? It is basically just a thread with guys agreeing with each other
/r/seduction22/09/14 09:48 AM
1

It differs. I did find out that touching an under arm is more sexual than touching her shoulder
/r/seduction03/09/14 07:14 AM
1

Communicating with sexual intent
/r/seduction02/09/14 10:37 PM
1

Well shit man, but these things happen. And, as an very experienced man in this situation: you won't be looking for words in this situation anytime soon
/r/seduction04/08/14 12:06 AM
2

Link is down
/r/seduction21/07/14 09:50 AM
1

I get this. And if this happens to me, I'm bold. If I ask her out and it's 'meh meh' I tell her that if she isnt glad too see me, Id rather spare us both the time. Or I just tell her if she isnt interested in me, she can better be honest with me or change/explain her attitude. Being in this situation isnt about indirectly persisting an answer, it is about taking an answer. Be bold bro!
/r/seduction05/06/14 09:52 PM
3

http://geweldigfantast.blogspot.nl/ Alsjeblieft man! Leuk om een andere Nederlandse Sedditor te leren kennen!
/r/seduction21/05/14 08:25 PM
1

Haha, thanks for the advice! I've read models already, and yes it is a great book! It definitely helped me grow, and this action of breaking it off is a product of developing by reading Models. I just don't know where to starting growing in escalating and closing, something that has bugged me since the beginning.
/r/seduction27/03/14 08:06 PM
1

http://www.nytimes.com/packages/html/nyregion/1-in-8-million/index.html#/john_keegan Watch this, it is also about him. It's awesome
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:08 PM
1

haha, I knew this old sales trick! It's excellent although I've never realised how to use it to dating girls
/r/seduction23/03/14 11:07 PM
1

Train your voice, just search on reddit or google for this one For this one, you can record yourself while your singing with earplugs in. It might sound awkward at first, but it seriously helps
/r/seduction28/02/14 10:50 AM
-5

How about "Hey, want to come back to my place?"
/r/seduction12/02/14 04:35 PM
94

Why try to be smooth? I have always, always, always tried to be smooth. With no to few successes. Last thursday, when a good female friend of mine said that my boldness is attractive. I say what I want to say, I say it when I want it and look past the fact she might reject me. Boldness is good. Boldness is being honest with yourself, her and the rest of the world. Being bold is also letting her know that she has a wonderful appearance, and that you were stunned when you first saw her. But only i…
/r/seduction12/02/14 03:59 PM
5

Pupils dillate
/r/seduction09/02/14 04:34 PM
1

2014 challange: Find a cure for being a cunt, despite what Bronn said.
/r/seduction08/02/14 09:02 PM
1

I'm wondering what is it that you mean by enlightment? It is quite of a vague word I feel like your sexual energy will allow you to express true self I've never really thought about it this way, great advice man, thank you! If there's anything you can tell me to get me thinking even out more, please do!
/r/seduction02/02/14 09:14 PM
2

Once I get asked by a women if I'm gay, or she's telling me that I am so gay, I know I am in. Take it from a different perspective. Most women like gays, don't they? they can make them laugh, are handsome, well-dressed etc. Now she's talking to you, and all of those characteristics apply to you. It just can't be that he is in to girls, is he? Shit test or an definite IOI, it doesn't matter, she passed the ball right in front of you to an open goal. The only thing you got to do is knowing how to …
/r/seduction01/02/14 06:28 PM
2

Coffee shop has a different twist in The Netherlands here..
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:55 PM
1

Made a simple wallpaper for this: http://i.imgur.com/IF19e0U.png
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:44 PM
1

Zoo!
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:43 PM
1

I definitely do not agree on this. Seeing what results? Of being told what to say, and being told what her possible reaction will be? I don't see how that can do any good for confidence, not to confuse with what you call confidence (the way I see it, it is more of a flow and an adrenaline rush) If I was to do a chemistry project, and I was exactly told by my professor to do X and Y and eventually the result will be Z. Well, hooray. I just learned how to do something which I didn't really discove…
/r/seduction21/12/13 05:51 PM
1

Once it says 'free' in the title, people will gather and devour it as maniacs. Frankly Josh, I think this book is EXACTlY what you shouldn't be giving to guys. It's full of scenario's. And that is exactly what won't create naturals. I can give you hundreds of scenario's and what to say in those, but it won't improve the person. And that is why I think this book is nonsence, not even worth the money (How ironic) and definitely not something I would suggest. My main point in this is that guys firs…
/r/seduction21/12/13 01:49 PM
1

Whatever will give you that fulfilling feeling man! But I still suggest: lay down those games!
/r/seduction15/12/13 09:08 PM
1

Well, a penthouse is just a definition you give to something..
/r/seduction15/12/13 08:16 PM
1

Whatever you feel like bud! But I suggest something less 'life sucking' ;)
/r/seduction15/12/13 08:15 PM
1

Reflect on your behavior, but most importantly: on your emotions. I have always been a needy man (well, for the last few years especially then). So I reflected on what I did, took on 'No More Mr Nice Guy' and reflected again, and again, and again. It's a simple example, but that it how I did it with more situations.
/r/seduction15/12/13 04:18 PM
1

Frankly, I'm not even close to PUA-hood nor trying to be, just getting my life in shape, these fundamentals are benificial to that.
/r/seduction15/12/13 04:12 PM
1

Seems like I've created a new 'branche'.
/r/seduction15/12/13 04:10 PM
1

Well, become better at talking to people in general I would say. Don't worry, it's fun!
/r/seduction15/12/13 04:10 PM
1

How to bring it is another topic, but it's not that big of a deal. If she rejects you, that's great! Now you know that you will need to invest time in other things instead of her, right?
/r/seduction15/12/13 04:09 PM
3

Look at it like this. Any reasonably attractive woman can pretty much get dick on demand. I must say I find this statement pretty funny. All your life this has been taught to you, and thus far I don't think this mindset has ever benefitted you in any way. I don't like something, I say it. If I want somethign, I take it. I was able to have sex many, many times more than I did, but I've put hard work on becoming the man that I wanted to be, so why go around and fuck every girl depressed on modern …
/r/seduction15/12/13 04:07 PM
2

GODDAMNIT that is one hell of a great mindset! Why? Everytime I look back on myself 3 months ago, I feel kinda cringey. I always believe I was an idiot back then and how I am superior right now. And that is good, because it indicates how I've improved overtime! The fact that you push yourself to become better isnt bad, instead, it is awesome! The thing is, you need to drop the negative view of yourself and change your mindset. Someone might be better than you at something, but everyone knows one…
/r/seduction15/12/13 02:41 AM
2

Ways of the superior man by David Deida No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover Daring Greatly by brene brown and ofcourse Models by mark Manson
/r/seduction11/12/13 10:21 PM
6

FOR FUCKS SAKE, THESE ARENT SECRETS
/r/seduction05/11/13 09:38 AM
2

Well done man! Seems liek you had alot of fun! Some pointers for the next time: * If you hit it off with a girl, and a friend of hers comes up to you two, ALWAYS introduce yourself! Just make it a friendly, non sexual introduction *After a night of approaching, think about it the next day and review what you did wrong.
/r/seduction19/10/13 11:36 AM
0

Haha, no definitely not the girl. Haven't seen or spoke her in that period. Yeah, you're probably right about that. Let's see how things will work out.
/r/seduction15/10/13 09:12 PM
1

Nope, it doesn't necesarilly has to do how you look. But for fucks sake man, it does give a fucking benefit. Im 192 cm, I work out effectively, which gives me a good muscular look, I have a light beard which I keep trimmed and look maintained, i am a prooud follower of /r/Malefashionadvice and dress well, I have a good haricut which suits me really well and gives me the 'modern man'-look. All of this gives me situations where I don't even have to approach or or try hard to attract women. Looks d…
/r/seduction14/10/13 10:15 AM
3

This says it pretty much all, there isn't a norm when to hug and when not to, you need to sense this on your own
/r/seduction12/10/13 01:22 PM
1

Just one thing mate, if you compliment and walk away, that might give you a bitof a confidence boost, but still you are hiding yourself by walking away. Make the conversation man!
/r/seduction12/10/13 01:21 PM
1

If you can take anyone on a fight that might give off a alpha male sign, but the truly attractive man doesn't need to prove himself he can take them, thus not giving off that sign. It is logical, yet not everyone knows it.
/r/seduction12/10/13 01:18 PM
2

"If you go to a restaurant and your food is shitty, you will probably be pissed off. It's the only meal you'll get that evening and it doesn't taste good, well, it kind of ruins your night, right? Well, if you're going to a buffet, you'll have plenty of choice. If you don't like salad #1, you'll try salad #2. The same applies with approaching women, you are at the buffet, if you don't like women 1 or the interaction doesn't go well, you will get your chances with women 2" Something that I've alw…
/r/seduction12/10/13 01:16 PM
3

One principle for success with women: women also enjoy sex, even more than men. Taking this as a mindset will seriously change your perspective, if not already
/r/seduction08/10/13 10:09 PM
5

I like your dress. Isn't really complimenting yourself, it only isn't projected towards her. I agree, the third is way better, but there are more aspects of complimenting her. For example (and yet the most essential part of complimenting in general): why do you like that dress? By explaining why you like that dress, your compliment will be much more effective
/r/seduction08/10/13 07:16 PM
4

You are worrying too much man, and that is completely understandable. I had the same thing in the beginning too. I advice you to read 'Models' by Mark Manson. It is a frequently adviced book around here and with a good reason, it is probably the most life changing book I've read in my entire life. The book covers alot of stuff that Seddit won't cover you in a year, it isn't meant as derogatory towards Seddit, but it is true.
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:51 PM
8

On 2: think about it this way: If a man is in charge, he doesn;t need to say he is in charge right? I think the same applies when calling girls pretty, or beautiful, they shouldn't be told, but they need to feel that they're pretty
/r/seduction08/10/13 07:52 AM
2

More depth on the concept of vulnerability: 'Daring Greatly' by Brene Brown
/r/seduction28/09/13 04:12 PM
-1

First of all: Get your mindset straight. This sub isn't primarily about getting laid anymore, not since the book Models, by Mark Manson got it's hold on this subreddit. And within reason, since it's a great book, you should definitely read it. I can also adivce you to read 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' by Robert Glover.
/r/seduction26/09/13 09:30 PM
1

Extremely high invested girls, but for me also girls that I don't have anything in common with, are also 'no go's'
/r/seduction26/09/13 09:27 PM
3

The thing I've learnt me most last year, when I came here heart broken, is not to chase the one you want, but chase your ideals, dreams and what makes you happy.
/r/seduction26/09/13 08:50 PM
2

I think the solution is quite simple: the women you're interested in you aren't worrying about making a move, with women you are attracted to, you are worrying about making a move. To overcome this is a hard process we've all been through, but you have to face it eventually
/r/seduction26/09/13 08:46 PM
1

This is a new perspective I haven't thought about before. In a way you're saying that getting a number and leaving is soooooooooo cliché
/r/seduction26/09/13 08:45 PM
1

Yeah, I've read that before in I believe it was Models. Now that I've mentioned Models, what are some books that you think are a must read? (Totally not relevant to my last question, but still)
/r/seduction19/09/13 06:33 PM
1

I understand what you're saying, and frankly it has been quite a revelation on the initiative thing. The thing is that I don't want to come off as needy towards her by asking her her out every single day. Thanks Chris! EDit: because of her age, what do you recommrnd as a date?
/r/seduction19/09/13 06:09 PM
1

Hi Chris, Last weekend on a festival I met a cute girl who is 2 years younger than I am (She's 17, Im 19) Short to say: we had a great weekend, we kissed, she slept topless in a tent with me (she was a virgin, so she was sure she didn't want to lose her virginity that way, which I respect). When it came to an end I got her number and she wanted to meet up again. Also, it was sure she was into me. She was pretty direct about it that night. Now the thing is, I might have overtexted her. I'm not a …
/r/seduction19/09/13 03:27 PM
-6

THIS.
/r/seduction19/09/13 03:12 PM
3

I read this story, and I see you are blaming yourself for ALOT of things. Stop that. If you blame yourself for alot of things in the relationship with a girl it will be unattractive, but most of all: it's fucking annoying. You aren't persuasive in this story if that was you're intention with the choice of aggressive words. Instead, something I do with every interaction (Or atleast the memorable ones), I recall what happened, define everything and learn of the experience. It calms me, and helps m…
/r/seduction16/09/13 08:32 PM
7

Good job man! #-closed too by the way? Edit: What did you mean with this btw? She smiled, looked away, and I grabbed the we made out.
/r/seduction16/09/13 03:24 PM
5

You want some decent advice on texting a girl? Let's make a list of things that work, just reply to this comment I'll start: 1. don't flood her, feel the energy in the conversation on that base you text her 2. the first text: dont wait three days, it's bullshit. Keep the good feeling of last night, show some excitement 3. Don't wait to long with asking her out. The more you text her, the less interested she becomes.
/r/seduction12/09/13 08:23 PM
1

If she flakes, she's not attracted to you. So it isn't worth to spend time on her if it's going nowhere, right? The flake another girl did recently was a lot more mysterious, lots of friendly banter until the moment I gave her a time and place - message seen but never spoke to me again This seems like she has her own problems, not worth the fuzz
/r/seduction12/09/13 10:27 AM
3

Read it, then throw it away and read 'Models' by Mark Manson. Cheers
/r/seduction12/09/13 10:25 AM
6

I find it strange that, well, this solid piece of advice has been so hugely ignored. I'll try it out, thanks mate!
/r/seduction10/09/13 08:30 AM
2

I think the most important thing is your tonality. A mate of mine, great lad, but he is always very excited about everything. That's a great skill, dont get me wrong, but because of this he doesnt make her feel really 'sexy'. Once you've got better at that, it's just about the words you say, the topics you come up with, and as you probably knew, it doesnt matter what you say, but why.
/r/seduction10/09/13 08:27 AM
1

Could you show me in which post it has been posted? So far I havent found it
/r/seduction05/09/13 07:58 AM
2

Haha thanks! Well, thing is that is already happening! I met her when I was on vacation with 7 friends. I approached her and her friend, because she was in the same apartment as we were. On night 1 she was attracted to me, because I simply do 'crazy' things when I go out. We ended in the pool that night (her, her friend and me). She started calling me gay, which is a clear IOI. I dont think attraction fades overtime, it just gets a different perception.
/r/seduction02/09/13 07:36 AM
4

Hey man, I suspect you're new here because you mention that you've read The Game? I advice you to read Models, by Mark Manson. It's a pretty common advice here, but it is a really good book and has a great section on AA and rejection. Knowing about the process and factors helps you overcoming the problem. Don't get me wrong, I still suffer from AA, but it has decreased overtime. Soen oractical advice I can give you is to make eyecontact a game. Who watches away the first loses. If you can mainta…
/r/seduction01/09/13 04:20 PM
2

Currently I am in the same kind of situation, I fell in the friendzone because I waited too long. We did kiss, yet it was waaaay too late. Frankly, I don't 'know' how to get flirty with her again. It's a long story, but I got her more attracted to me because an emotional connection I interacted on day 1. It changed my perspective towards her since then. Long story, weird feelings. Some advice in what way I can get more sexual with her again will be appreciated
/r/seduction01/09/13 04:15 PM
3

OP made a full summary, but I didn't download it at the moment because I was on my iPad, seriously no one has that version..?
/r/seduction28/08/13 10:00 PM
11

Good, now move on.
/r/seduction07/08/13 08:31 AM
1

But wait.. Do you share intimacies? Do you share same interests? Do you call em your fucking friends because they are your friends? People say that teaching a subject is mastering that subject. Go fucking do it.
/r/seduction07/08/13 08:27 AM
1

Mate, I don't even have to read this FR to give you an advice, the title is enough: you can't get oneitis all of the sudden by this particular girl, you would get it by any girl at any given time. The best advice I can give you is to have more interaction with women, it helped me ALOT.
/r/seduction07/08/13 08:24 AM
1

Wait, just agree every single sentence you're typing?
/r/seduction07/08/13 08:09 AM
2

Meh, seems a bit dull and unoriginal frankly. I don't think you can get 'sexual' by texting
/r/seduction07/08/13 08:05 AM
1

Haha, I must say that does sound fun to do hehe
/r/seduction07/08/13 08:04 AM
3

The puddle of molten her, melted again.. And again... Everybody knows that right? Right..?
/r/seduction07/08/13 08:02 AM
0

Go to a gym!
/r/seduction05/08/13 09:38 AM
4

There was once a time I thought I would never be good with women. I was wrong. So that happened, why won't this happen?
/r/seduction31/07/13 11:41 PM
1

There is none, yet there are many. Thing is, you are worrying too much about her, when she is most receptive and what not. You are veading that moment of being totally comfortable with yourself, something I'm, honestly, getting there, even though I've been here a while. About you're AA: Most of the stories here are 1. very minor personal victories or 2. great stories and probably true The thing is, most of #2 is 1 of the 50 approaches they have done in a while, so don't feel pushed man! 95% of t…
/r/seduction31/07/13 11:39 PM
1

Well, the first statement is 1. Nonsense. Maybe some people write that here, but definitely not everybody at all times. 2. The first statement is untrue, but you're only masking your sexuality and interest towards a girl, and you are hiding your vulnerability. Reading further down the post, I must say you're a tad late with this discussion. Like a year or two, because this has been discussed many, many times before. Slowly the people who think this way (mostly referred as 'fake alpha's') are fad…
/r/seduction30/07/13 03:19 PM
1

The best place? Anywhere. Just go out there, push yourself to go out of your comfortzone! I've had (and sometimes still having) problems with this, but the amount if satisfaction is huge.
/r/seduction28/07/13 12:19 PM
1

95% of the women in your life won't be a match for you. Wether she tells you or there's too much friction between the two of you (consiously or unconsiously). Why bother about that 1?
/r/seduction28/07/13 12:17 PM
1

Seems to me you can't take any form of critism.
/r/seduction28/07/13 03:23 AM
30

What can I say.. This is basically every 'PUA' has ever said, and frankly, it's alot of bullshit. A bit roughly said, yet true. As Mark Manson calls it: fake alpha theory. A few pointers: This is CHICK CRACK. Women NEED MYSTERY. I lol'led when I read this, the classical Hollywood ideology of a 'ladies man' doesn't apply in real life. ("Look at all the novels, its all about mystery") You can tell nothing about yourself and be the Don Juan you always wanted to be, but in the long term: it won't ge…
/r/seduction27/07/13 11:59 AM
1

In direct cases of: "I'm so ugly" etc. I'll say straight to their faces that they should stop it. Straight away. No more words need to be used. Why? First is that you are showing you have a spine and you won't bend so easily. Second, she will understand you don't like it, thus showing you're in control. Third, it's time to fucking end that whining bullshit
/r/seduction26/07/13 06:34 PM
1

I agree with you. I suspect that OP is the guy in the video, and even though this isn't very good material and maybe a bit cringe-worthy, I must say that OP does have the balls to put himself out there. Good job OP
/r/seduction26/07/13 06:31 PM
-5

Fun and entertaining to read, yet I don't think this is too solid.
/r/seduction08/07/13 12:34 AM
1

Lol, if so: move on. She's not worth your time
/r/seduction30/06/13 01:32 AM
2

If it didn't work out, dont push it man. Let it go. You aren't ready to date yet, you are too clingy and needy. Don't text her anymore, that's my advice. Why? Because I was in the same situation as you are right now. I continued texting her and it only got my 'feelings' more fucked up.
/r/seduction26/06/13 09:04 PM
3

Wait, maybe you should explain your situation more clear.
/r/seduction26/06/13 02:44 PM
5

Don't wait. I think that's one of biggest things the 'Hardcore epic beast PUA's' came up with. If you wait, you might lose the fun vibe the two of you already had.
/r/seduction26/06/13 09:23 AM
4

Try this: http://newlifeparties.com/2012/02/10/the-10-day-mental-challenge/
/r/seduction26/06/13 09:15 AM
3

You are forced to communicate and bond wih people, or else you'll only regret this trip. Besides that, I'm sure there are some points where backpackers meet up, right? Where are you from, and where are you going by the way?
/r/seduction24/06/13 09:25 PM
1

Even though you've read this sub alot, I don't think your confidence js in 'right' yet. A good exercise for you would be reflecting situation towards yourself. For example : why do they think I'm likeable enoguh? What can I improve! Or: what did I do wrong with that one girl? Even though these two are way different, they both reflect to yourself (inner AND outer) and gradually you'll improve
/r/seduction23/06/13 02:07 AM
1

Damn.. I suddenly felt so fucking bad when I read >the sound of them fucking My advice is: get your shit together. Pretty generL so: work out, muscles AND jogging. Combine the two, it's something I'm working on and it works. (Really, I've never been REALLY fat, but I always used to have some on my belly which is reducing significantly right now) Second of all: its hard to make a transisition from relationship to get in the "PUA" state (I hate to use the word PUA like that), but you'll get there.…
/r/seduction23/06/13 02:02 AM
1

It's a bit like the Old Testament, but you know the New Testament is being more of an influence.
/r/seduction16/06/13 02:24 AM
0

Just ask if he is cool with you dating her?
/r/seduction15/06/13 01:43 PM
2

Frankly, you are way too ignorant thus far. You are denying every possibility, I'll just relate it to the fact that you're new. about your grandmom: nobody likes a whiner(that's what you did), even though he might be the popular jock. At the moment I think this 'FR' is nonsense, and you had a different perspective than how it really happened. I'd advise you to read the book 'How to make friends and influence people' from Dale Carnegie. Reading your posts you could use it even here.. And btw: fuc…
/r/seduction15/06/13 01:39 PM
5

Hi. Sometimes you have a shitty night, just accept it. On the 'too young' thing, how old was she? Personally I never believe it, I think it's just a way to reject someone without hurting him too much. But if she was like 30, I would buy it. She is probably in a way different time period of her life.
/r/seduction15/06/13 11:27 AM
1

Couple of possibilities: 1. Making her laugh doesn't mean you're attracting her, you didn't build enough attraction 2. You made a scenario in your head how you thought it happened, when instead it went differently. (Perception, you should figure this out yourself, seek for the details, rerun the convo in third person) 3. Was she genuinly laughing, but just a friendly laugh. See option 2. 4. Maybe you just weren't her fucking type. Edit: wait? What? You have a girlfriend and you want to 'bang a n…
/r/seduction15/06/13 11:22 AM
2

You can't control a woman, fucking understand that first. If she didn't think you were her type, move on. Besides that: you're new to the game, don't expect miracles to happen so soon.
/r/seduction15/06/13 10:45 AM
1

I'd rather have it MFF..
/r/seduction15/06/13 07:12 AM
3

Get her to dress like a nurse and take care of you
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:41 PM
1

Boooooooommmm /thread! Ni really, maybe she's not into you, dont push it. Maybe let the conversation die because you dont respond, if she comes with something, maybe she will text you, who knows
/r/seduction11/06/13 04:40 PM
1

I haven't read everything, because in the very beginning it became clear to me. I don't really know in which state you live in atm (As in college, dropout whatsoever) What I do know, according to your previous posts, is 1. You have a very low self esteem. 2. You need to go out there and approach people in general. (Don't think now: oh, I already do that, do it more.) I can advice you to join some club activities, like theatre, dancing lessons, everything. Also a fraternity is a possibility. Or g…
/r/seduction09/06/13 07:48 PM
15

Make sure your right foot is on red.
/r/seduction09/06/13 07:34 AM
2

Whenever a girl starts texting in front off me, I always place my hand over her phone and something like: "I'm way more interesting than your phone"
/r/seduction09/06/13 01:48 AM
1

Stop thinking, start doing.
/r/seduction07/06/13 08:03 AM
1

Something everyone here has always secretly desired.
/r/seduction06/06/13 11:14 PM
-22

Even though I like the fact that you've improved, well done man. But seriously, this is mostly just straight up bragging. "Chick" "fuuccckkk that" "the middle of the fucking bar!" I'm supsecting that you're talking like this because you're still in some sort of adrenaline rush.
/r/seduction03/06/13 09:21 PM
3

Great, now forget this bullshit. Mystery method is entertaining, but one big illusion (which is rather ironic) Getting one girls number will send your sexual interest out to one, but will make her also feel slutty towards her friend.
/r/seduction02/06/13 09:07 AM
2

I've been there, but I'm slowly moving on. It's not just with girls that I bail myself out, it's in all sort of things. Sport, school etc. /r/Getmotivated did work for me.
/r/seduction31/05/13 10:05 PM
3

Yeah, dont escalate. Also: dont do routines or whatsoever.
/r/seduction31/05/13 10:03 PM
1

Maybe buy a blanket from the local alley hobo.
/r/seduction31/05/13 07:51 PM
1

I disagree on #3 and #5. 5 - all you're doing is molding yourself into living in one big illusion, where you think yiu are succesful by doing it, when instead you are not. 3 - If I'm in a club, music is loud and youre saying I cant lean in. How the f should I be communicating with her? Hand gestures?
/r/seduction29/05/13 08:18 AM
9

This relevant to alot of people, so no, it's not for AskSeddit only.
/r/seduction27/05/13 08:25 AM
2

Bingo! That's the one I was talking about
/r/seduction26/05/13 06:10 PM
2

Not a stewardess,but I did once read a fr about a guy who picked up a red head on a plane while flying to LA. Cant find it anymore tho
/r/seduction26/05/13 04:59 PM
1

Watch Stand-Up, it works.
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:12 PM
1

Attraction isn't growing by acting arrogant mate, you should know that by now. It's not, emotional connection is being vulnerable, and thus polarizing. I don't think your game is good, maybe you should read Models, by Mark Manson. It tears down every PUA aspect you've learned so far, and slowly rebuilds you into a more natural 'gamer'.
/r/seduction23/05/13 09:14 AM
2

I think there is a big difference between rational friendzoning and emotional friendzoning. She rational friendzoned you, she says she didn't want to be more, but yet it has to be decided by her emotions wether she will friendzone you or develop feelings for you. Emotional friendzoning is the 'normal' concept of friendzoning, you gradually become friends.
/r/seduction22/05/13 01:58 PM
3

also, a kick ass made up story of defending school children from a bear usually helps. Don't forget to add lasers. Always add lasers.
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:55 AM
1

I only read the title and the first few sentences and I immediately noticed that this is bullshit. Now you want to know why, right? I've tried being 'acting' like I'm the prize, being cocky and stuff. You're not cocky, you're arrogant. You are acting like the motherfucker in high school you didn't really like. The typical jock who got all the girls. By being cocky (or arrogant) you won't attract women, you will push them away. If you want to attract women you will be needing to open up, make an …
/r/seduction22/05/13 10:49 AM
-2

Frankly, I think this was the most pointless article I've seen here in a while. But by this comment I am definitely interested in pt. 2.
/r/seduction22/05/13 08:20 AM
1

Coffee bar..?
/r/seduction21/05/13 09:25 AM
0

Why improving our 'Tinder game' if you haven't even got real game! Otherwise you wouldn't be on that app.
/r/seduction21/05/13 09:24 AM
-3

Good thread, but not really a new perspective on this matter.
/r/seduction21/05/13 09:07 AM
1

Tell him to go for the F-close ASAP. Maybe this is more something for him btw: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=16
/r/seduction21/05/13 09:05 AM
-1

OH GOD? WHAT NOW!? Good thing you are on Seddit, just text her if she wants to go in to town, or hang out, w/e. "What if she rejects my offer?!" 95% of the women you'll meet in life wqill reject you, wether consciously or not. She is probably one of them
/r/seduction17/05/13 02:15 PM
0

Thanks for the advice, but I forgot to mention that it's not a house party or anything like that. It's a sort of prom/ball-ish. I don't it's necesarry to explain it in every detail, but girls will wear dresses and I will wear a tuxedo. It won't have any obstacles in the hall, except for the bar, but if I can manage to put her up there and still being willing to kiss me, I'd rather take a cab home with her, hehe. I'm thinking about lifting a girl gently, if suitable. I pulled that one off before,…
/r/seduction15/05/13 04:20 PM
1

I think you have the wrong mindset. Saying to yourself that you're the price only works when you have severe oneitis and/or you're a 'nice guy'. If you want to make her think that you're important and maybe a little unreachable: it's all about your lifestyle. By saying and thinking that you're the price, but still have the same routine like you used to (going to school/work, get home, do homework or w/e, masturbate) then you are living in one big illusion. Instead, get some social hobbies. Like …
/r/seduction15/05/13 03:07 PM
2

Wow, I am quite impressed thatyou feel afc about how it ended. If it was me, I'd see she would push boundaries and didn't want to do that as the biggest IOI you could get at such a moment. By disagreeing with her you did something very well: you polarized. Just by disagreeing with her (only if it's honest) it causes you to look less needy towards her, which is a good thing ofcourse. Source: 'Models' by Mark Manson. If you havent read it yet, you should. Ps: if I made any grammar mistakes, please…
/r/seduction15/05/13 12:17 PM
2

I knew that line with love of my life already. You really are the love of my life.
/r/seduction15/05/13 12:06 PM
1

You should start reading Models by Mark Manson. Your intentions are off.
/r/seduction12/05/13 09:45 PM
1

I came here with a similiar story too. I was head over head with one girl. I made a post about it too. And guess what? I got burned into the ground. That was the right treatment. You are crazy about her, and she knows it. You can wait and 'reset' yourself, like my plan was, but instead you should go out and meet a different girl you will be crazy about. And this time, you won't screw it up.
/r/seduction12/05/13 09:43 PM
-10

"Scaref I'm too wild for you granny?"
/r/seduction12/05/13 09:31 PM
1

95% of the women in your life will reject you, direct or indirect, consciously or not. If she says no: why moan about this 1 girls of the 95%?
/r/seduction12/05/13 02:18 PM
-7

My friend had this too. He was dating a girl for weeks, and he din't know how to ask it. So I suggested: why not asking her if she thinks they're in a relationship. "Do you consider this as a relationship?"
/r/seduction12/05/13 02:11 PM
1

Your situation shouldn't automatically apply to us, aye.
/r/seduction11/05/13 12:54 PM
2

Good FR, OP. Ironically I'm having the same thing with a girl in my class, but our 'college' education system isn't the same as in the USA, unfortunately enough. Not to forget the rather big distance between hometowns.
/r/seduction11/05/13 12:51 PM
0

My favorite line for this situation , is one I readonthe SoSuave DJ forums: put your hand over her phone and say: "I'm way more interesting than your phone." You obviously need to look her in the eyes and smile appropiately. I've tried this various times with different results. Since I have been improving over time I don't have to say it so often anymore. Also I've just realised that when I used this line with a negative result, they were clearly unreceptive.
/r/seduction11/05/13 12:38 PM
2

If you make eye contact, you should always SMILE. From the beginning, or half way through, doesnt really matter, but a smile is the crucial factor that changes everything.
/r/seduction10/05/13 08:36 AM
6

You're in college, there are loads of people everywhere. It doesn't mean you have to stick with your friends forever man! I mean to say that everyone can become your friend, but you have to approach them too. Ps: where are you going to study in Europe?
/r/seduction06/05/13 07:27 AM
2

Did you learn how to ride a bike perfectly in 1 day?
/r/seduction06/05/13 07:22 AM
2

Isolate a girl. If you approach a group (which is IMO a huge step) aks you aak her number when her friends are looking, it's obviously they'll back out. They dont want to be 'greedy' in front of her friends, since they all like you. Goodluck!
/r/seduction05/05/13 10:08 AM
1

It's best to open by saying hi or w/e. From that you should've noticed something about her, for example: a necklace. Then you might want to talk about that necklace. Alot of conversational items are possible ofcourse.
/r/seduction05/05/13 10:05 AM
1

Isn't this just the point of Seddit?
/r/seduction05/05/13 01:26 AM
10

Despite all the 'funny' trolls here, what point do you mean? Directly after you've kissed her or 'the day after'? After you kissed her: keep dancing or w/e, hold eye contact, smile and you may kiss her again. The day after: If you got her number, set up a date. Like watching a movie or something, I don't care, find something. It's not that hard bro
/r/seduction05/05/13 01:24 AM
1

It's pretty common in The Netherlands, but what about a bike? On the way home you automatically have a conversational subject. (In The Netherlands almost everyone rides a bike)
/r/seduction03/05/13 06:39 PM
2

Dealing with my past. I was very timid and introverted in highschool, while when I was at home I was very extroverted, being the person I really am. I see alot of people back from that time and while they still saw me as the same kid, I surely did show them otherwise. Also I've dealt with the oneitis girl which beought me here in the first place.
/r/seduction01/05/13 09:10 AM
20

God, you're really excited aren't you? Oh well, you're allowed to. One pointer: don't ask/talk about ex-BFs. If she's comfortable enough to talk about that she will let you know.
/r/seduction27/04/13 10:20 AM
0

You fail because you think you will fail. This is what's going on with you. Change your mindset to: I won't fail. If you do fail: better luck next time. Easy to say, yet more easy to master.
/r/seduction24/04/13 09:27 AM
-2

Oooohhhh, I totally didn't get that! Shitty joke.
/r/seduction24/04/13 09:10 AM
2

Frankly, if you're REALLY desperate to get laid, you shouldn't care about her looks either
/r/seduction23/04/13 05:46 PM
2

Ooh, what do we have here.. A challenge, a quite big one I see! First let me explain what is going on with you at the moment, it is a psychological effect which is your main problem. By thinking you 'creep' girls out, you eventually will creep them out. Maybe you should lay low on the Facebook thing though. By constantly seeking their approval you will increase your chance to be rejected, thus making you feel more shit about yourself. As already adviced: change your cloths. You already said you …
/r/seduction23/04/13 02:53 PM
3

GOD.. Talking about making alot of drama. I find it a pity that there wasn't a point in this story.
/r/seduction22/04/13 10:05 PM
-3

I agreed on the first part, the last part is just fucking bullshit. You see, many, many people move to a different country so they'llfind a better life, when in fact they often find themselves in a worse situation than before. The same thing with girls: I, as a Dutch, have the idea that American girls are more sluttier than here, which is bullshit. Some tricks will work better on American girls than on Dutch (we're a bit stubborn, not that that describes us well, but anyway), but it wont help yo…
/r/seduction22/04/13 03:44 PM
2

I think this is the most wonderful advice, and what Seddit is all about. Not just 'getting in their pants' (as much non-Sedditors describe this sub) but improving yourself as a human.
/r/seduction10/04/13 09:35 PM
13

The next time you masturbate will feel like the biggest failure in your life and wasn't really worth it.
/r/seduction07/04/13 11:13 PM
1

Everyone is saying things like:"He's not a friend" amnd "Stop going out with him". I find that a bit harsh and sometimes not even really possible if you are in the same group of friends. What you can do is: - Go 1on1 in a conversation when you are NOT going out. Just ask him to come over. Get serious and say to him that if he keeps doing this you can't really be his friend anymore an it's blocking all the positive things about him (Or something like that) - Look up some theory or lines how to de…
/r/seduction07/04/13 11:11 PM
1

Are they more handsome? Are they more charming? Fuck that. You are going to be the one who is going to lead the conversation. Be bigger, louder and more dominant than them. That is what will make them want you to. Really man, try it.
/r/seduction22/03/13 09:56 AM
5

Body insecurities: Ive had the same thing, but then I did what was needed to do: getting fit, you take good care of your health, working out helps. Being useless in bed: I think you are around 21 years old? And you're still a virgin. That means you obviously have watched alot of porn. Believe it or not, you always pick stuff up from that. You might want to consider reading /r/Sex too. STDs: we have a solution for that: CONDOMS! Telling her: if you really want to be with her: just tell her. If no…
/r/seduction22/03/13 09:39 AM
2

Text game fucks me up everytime too.. I saved this so I can read the links later. Good for you btw OP. :)
/r/seduction22/03/13 12:47 AM
2

I want to say something about point 4. First off: 6-8 hours sleep is needed for a man is bullshit. It differs from person to person. 6-8 hours is an estimate. Second: It is indeed good to go to bed at the same time, but also to wake up at the same time. Personally I go to bed around 00:00 and wake up at 9:00. And an annotation to point 10: it works, it is hard, but it works. My own record is 7 days, which I am proud of. Hopefully going to pass that soon.
/r/seduction15/03/13 12:11 AM
1

18 rejections?! Brother, dont get me wrong, you were in the wrong club. It is DEFINITELY not about you, but the girls. Thats for sure.
/r/seduction09/03/13 02:05 PM
2

If you cant control yourself, why would others let then control you? It fits better with NoFap really. Also: fuck girls, drink beer
/r/seduction09/03/13 12:18 AM
1

If they think youre too young for them: react playfully with a phrase such as: "Oh, but dont worry grandma, you're in for something now" or w/e. I've read good comebacks here so far, so you've got work to do!
/r/seduction04/03/13 12:03 AM
23

I see alot of 'very manly' guys here, whining about how you shouldn't care if she has a boyfriend etc. I think that if she does have a BF just move on. 1. There are more girls 2. If you really want to improve yourself, why would you drop your morals and [?]-close her?
/r/seduction04/03/13 12:01 AM
1

I like the first 2! Thanks! (mainy because they give the same message in my language haha)
/r/seduction24/02/13 10:39 PM
1

Stick to the point, this isn't what I'm asking for. And yes, I'm a regular visitor of MFA. It was just to give you an idea.
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:38 PM
-9

Really..? You're letting yourself get pushed out? C'mon man! Next time she says: "ok time for you to go!" you're going to use these magic words: "No."
/r/seduction23/02/13 06:06 PM
4

Atleast you had sex with her.
/r/seduction11/02/13 11:24 AM
1

I probably should read titles better.
/r/seduction09/02/13 10:43 AM
1

Basic tl;dr: some things can apply to anyone. Just like horoscopes. Thats it really. I'm wondering what context you can apply this to this subreddit OP.
/r/seduction09/02/13 12:05 AM
2

First off all: this is old as fuck Second of all: this is stupid as fuck. You know those Facebook posts where you need to fill in a number in the reactions AND SUDDENLY you know who you're going to marry. You know this is bullshit right? So does (almost) everybody else. They'll think the same with this. Don't try your luck on this one.
/r/seduction08/02/13 11:59 PM
1

Or just propose if the rest want to go for a drink, and slowly move from there on to your teacher.
/r/seduction08/02/13 06:45 PM
1

As a Dutch, I can confirm this. "Hey, wanna fuck?" also works.
/r/seduction08/02/13 06:44 PM
2

Same for me! I always used to drink alot before going out, and even then I didn't approach girls. When I did, I stumbled over my own words.. Yesterday for example, I drank 7-8 beers in a period of 8 hours (?). And I drank some Coke (Sugar 'destroys' the alcohol in your blood if you didn't know that already.) and it worked of 'okay' (wasn't really my day yesterday.), but still I was way better at conversating, routine, jokes etc.
/r/seduction03/02/13 04:10 PM
2

and teased her again as if she were my snotty little sister. The fucker just sort of friendzone her for a while. I've seen things, but this...
/r/seduction03/02/13 02:53 PM
1

Okay, I'll put it in a different way: If you want to solve a math problem, you need numbers, right? Without them you can't solve the problem. You already had 1 number, your eyes. (You should feel lucky btw) Just ask her: Why ? Why do you think I have nice eyes? Or why are you doing well? Why did you order a bloody mary? Why did you move to that part if town? In crowded and loud bars (or when she's drunk, had that one recently..) this is harder, but in a more relaxed place this works well.
/r/seduction31/01/13 11:17 PM
0

You know a typical British comedy? Or British comedy in general, say: "im going to kiss you now" in that British comedy-ish way.
/r/seduction21/01/13 12:59 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter