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I wonder if he still managed to get ghosted
/r/seduction02/08/18 10:34 PM
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Couldn't agree more with regard to men's appearance in real life. It's far more about the way a man makes a woman feel. Can he build attraction? In apps though, you're correct, it's forcing women to select LIKE MEN. They must essentially act like men. There's not enough substance for them to feel attraction based on anything except for looks and because of the differential in demand between men and women online (more male supply, more female demand) women can be physically choosier than they cou…
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:04 PM
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I can't seem to figure out Bumble. It seems you had some success here, and I've heard of others doing the same, but I've had nearly 0% success rate with Bumble in the couple years I've used it on and off. Very few matches, and a disparagingly small percentage of those actually send a message, let alone ever get to a date. I think I've been on maybe 2 Bumble dates in 2 years of casual use. My profile is the same as my Tinder which is quite a bit more successful (although still poor). Good photos,…
/r/seduction31/07/18 02:56 PM
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It has nothing to do with the weed. It has to do with the idea that in order to date someone, you can't be intentional and honest and just set up a date like a fucking adult. It just feels so spineless and backhanded to be interested in a woman and act like you really aren't. To want to take a woman on a date, but instead force yourself into "low key" bullshit simply because the average person doesn't have the maturity and personal fortitude to show up to a date. Honestly, I never thought I'd se…
/r/seduction21/07/18 01:24 PM
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"Hey I'm gonna go smoke a blunt and take a walk on thos little nature trail I like to walk and just appreciate life. Come keep me company". If this is how you are supposed to meet educated, ambitious, wife-material women, I'll just kill myself now and get it over with haha.
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:44 PM
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Not enough attraction Well yeah, obviously...the issue is how the hell are you supposed to generate any legitimate attraction in a such a short window. I'm not meeting these women in some social situation where we are forced to be together for extended periods, that would be much easier. It's more like chatting up a girl at the gym while she's doing her cool-down and making a date for later in the week. It's 6am and we have to go to work...so making a spontaneous date or doing a "same day lay" a…
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:43 PM
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OP discloses in comments that wife used to date a man who was 6'4" and she explicitly told OP that her ex was bigger than him (as if it needed to be said). Brutal nonetheless. I feel badly for this guy, because he should have developed himself and become more sexually experienced before getting married. It's really biting him in the ass now and making him insecure.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 08:10 PM
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Now these women with their crows feet, torn up pussy, and cellulite filled thighs that make them look like walking sacks of cottage cheese are still arrogant enough to play chicken with their biological limits because they know that out there is some sad Homer Simpson who will happily pump a baby into her and give up his rights, his manhood, and half his salary. Jesus christ, thank god I wasn't drinking milk while reading this because it would have come out my nose.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 07:00 PM
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There was an opinion piece in the New York Times, the "gold standard" for western journalism Haha, that's a good one. It is hard to counsel someone you have known for 40 minutes, Who the fuck seeks out life advice on ANY topic with someone they have known for that short of time? Let alone about children. “Why don’t you move in together?” asked a male friend, and when I replied, “We don’t want to,” he said glumly, “Nobody wants to. You just have to.” The fuck? Who the hell dates people they would…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 06:20 PM
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The act of waging war against something is married to the desire to destroy it. Women love masculinity. Normal healthy women love masculinity, but normal healthy women aren't the ones causing the problems. The issues are being created by females who have failed sexually due to ideology, obesity, ugliness and who resent men and masculinity. I agree that the Boy Scouts should have just chuckled and said "Haha, no", but they didn't because of the heavy pressure. SJW's now wield a tremendous amount …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 06:08 PM
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The native mating language of the modern day asshat.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 05:56 PM
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I agree with those principles. I am of the opinion that rather than just focusing on what action one should take in these situations, one should focus on being the kind of man who CAN or WOULD check out another woman and not be bothered by being caught. Thinking back to previous relationships, if caught in a situation of looking at another woman's ass in the mall, I wouldn't hesitate to say something to the tune of "Well, when your ass looks like that, let me know and I'll build it a shrine in t…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 05:46 PM
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I don't know what those acronyms are, and I haven't had this happen to me much, but knowing me it would probably look something like this. (Assuming this is someone I've been dating a while and not a new thing). "Were you just checking her out?" (Big cheeky smile) "Yep" "You're the worst" "Hey now, don't you mess with me little lady, I'll pinch your butt!" (Proceed to chase her around and pitch her butt while she laughs and pretends to be mad). Then tell her(jokingly) she needs to start wearing …
/r/askTRP25/06/18 05:21 PM
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Jesus christ, I feel like an old man saying this, but what the fuck is wrong with people anymore? Who the fuck goes around looking at their SO's social media activity period, let alone what shit they "like". I swear, people who are grown ass adults act like they're in the 5th grade or something. These people need jobs. Social media is a fucking plague. I'm all for having a facebook to keep in touch with old friends or whatever, but some of you people are out of control with this nonsense. Wanna …
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:48 PM
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I just realized how much more crazy this story is. Not only does this girl live with her ex...but it's at her parent's house! So she moved her ex into her parents house and then proceeded to do this shit!
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 02:14 PM
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I chuckled pretty good at that one too.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:59 PM
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Of course he does, he's been getting free food! I wonder if this guy bought the whipped cream the BF ate off the girls nipples last night.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:47 PM
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O that totally changes things. I'd be happy to date a girl who'd fucked two other girls before.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:36 PM
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For sure. It's about the woman's character. Not commitment material.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:35 PM
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Me too, clearly she isn't the least bit ashamed about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:12 PM
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I'm not the RP example, the dude who sacked up and walked out and ghosted this chick is.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:04 PM
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I've experienced that too. I remember reading Rollo's first book when I was fresh out of a 2 year relationship (in other words, depressed) and the stories he would tell about women's sexual behavior, manipulation, etc would turn my stomach because I could empathize with the men in those situations. I still get that a little, but now it's more of a feeling of pity.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 01:02 PM
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This guy probably believes that while sleeping in the same bed, she was totally faithful to him and was just trying to be altruistic to her loser ex. These guys will believe anything. I used to be like that...to a little lesser of an extent.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 12:39 PM
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You want to understand? Easy. Be a blue pill beta who never gets laid -> finally get a girlfriend -> then every time she acts nuts, remember that your only viable alternative is your left hand filled with lotion -> tolerate way too much shit for the sake of not being alone.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 12:32 PM
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I actually needed to be reminded of this. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 12:20 PM
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Women are just doing the same thing they've been doing for thousands of years: evaluating and filtering out weak men. Women unionize. Funny, one could almost say this woman's union was going to war with anti-feminist rhetoric and ideology...in other words...masculinity. Of course there isn't an overt war on masculinity in the literal sense, but war is a convenient metaphor because there are two sides and you can consider certain things as "battles". The boy scouts losing their place as a boys on…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 12:10 AM
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To be fair I didn't have you in mind at all. I was just trying to separate ideology from party. haha. Glad it worked out for you too though!
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 08:55 PM
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Part of the reason I choose to use "leftist" instead of "democrat" is because the ideology spans countries that have different political party systems. I don't know that I have a solution unfortunately, but I do believe that when those of us on this "side" of things act like buffoons it doesn't help the cause. That's my primary argument.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 01:58 PM
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I don't find it to be idiotic, you were just seeking clarification.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 01:56 PM
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I say that it isn't about democrats and republicans because those are simply actors in the political system. I'm referring to ideology only. Republicans may embody these values more than democrats, but they do not embody them perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 01:56 PM
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I disagree with these sentiments. While there will always be detractors (the blue haired feminists in our case), that doesn't mean there won't be a demand for the information we provide. Clearly there is a demand, or else we wouldn't be here. You HAVE to understand that there have probably been hundreds or thousands of men, who have been searching for solutions, stumbled unto TRP (having some vague notion in their head that TRP was full of angry neckbeards) and read the comment section on a give…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 09:21 PM
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I agree with you, and didn't suggest that TRP was about manipulation. I was saying that the sub has a reputation for manipulation and that we should be more deliberate about lifting up TRP members who use their redpill awareness in moral ways. I believe this would help reduce the stigma associated with the community and thus lead to more blue pill betas finding their way here and becoming unplugged.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 08:41 PM
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Man, I love this. Thank you for posting it. I just had a post yesterday talking about how I thought TRP principles should be used for good, rather than manipulation and this is a great example. Bravo sir.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 07:40 PM
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The leftist ideology I'm referring to here is essentially our "matrix". While most in TRP are only concerned about the matrix with regard to women and dating, the veil that's been placed over our eyes is far more expansive than that. This matrix is the current cultural zeitgeist that says that a man can be a woman if they only change their mind, that fathers are stupid buffoons who offer nothing of value to their children, that women are all victims, that diversity of race/gender is noble but di…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 04:11 PM
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This. I find far more tolerance and acceptance (especially of other ideas and not just of other races or genders) on the right these days. I don't know if it's always been that way, but even mainstream liberals are highly disrespectful, hateful, and condescending these days. And that's to say nothing of the violent extremes.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 03:51 PM
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The trolls above are certainly intent on proving me wrong haha.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 03:49 PM
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I agree with all of what you're saying. My point was that as a community, we don't do a good job of lifting up those who use this perspective with noble intent. Thinking about it, the firm tone used here might also be a cause of the "hateful" stereotype. This is part of it I'm sure. A kind, generous, and virtuous man who is also highly assertive is often seen as an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 03:48 PM
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I really enjoyed this post. I've not been a super active TRP member, but in my experience, there are two categories of people here. I think of them as the Men and the Boys. The Men are mentally mature, and understand that everything is situational and there are no absolutes in life. They take what they find valuable and ditch the rest...and most importantly, they never compromise their values for the sake of getting laid. The Boys are this weird kind of troll that is more invested in how smart t…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 09:35 AM
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I just now what it feels like to be on the opposite side of that. There were men I would have hurt quite badly given the opportunity. This was back in my oneitis bluepill days when I blamed the man for my girlfriend's actions.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 06:44 PM
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While I agree that my brain has a tendency to overgeneralize, and predict the outcomes of situations I couldn't possibly know, it makes sense to me to make educated guesses... If I have a finite amount of time and willpower (which we all do), how should it best be allocated? This is accomplished through rough statistical analysis. How statistically likely is it that I would go to a club and meet women who also hate clubs, yet are also at the maturity level I demand (higher maturity means less li…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:44 PM
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Because of that, you have to give young professionals a couple of years on the dating scene until they start the settle down. So mid twenties plus two years equal twenty eight minimum. For my sake, I hope you're right haha
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:31 PM
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This is helpful. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:29 PM
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It's honestly not about risk/reward, it's about morality. A good man doesn't fuck other men's wives(knowingly).
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:26 PM
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On the whole, I completely agree with your sentiment. It may not sound like it, but I do take full responsibility for my situation. I'm aware that successful sexual encounters happen in bars, yet I don't know how that works, so clearly, I'm the issue in this scenario. You say you don't know how clubs/bars work. Learn how they work. There's plenty out there on youtube. Here's the issue. I separate bar and clubs. Bars are sit-down establishment with tables, food menus, lots of quality booze select…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:30 AM
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I've always dated women a year or two younger, but 5+ years just feels creepy, in your 20's anyway. 50 and 55 seems like nothing, but the 20's are such formative years that someone who's 25 is lightyears ahead of a 20 year old in terms of cognitive development, maturity, etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:18 AM
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You have to get your mind away from that line of thinking. It's part of the Blue Pill/Social Conditioning and shaming tactics that push men toward women who wasted their prime years and want the Beta Provider Backup Plan available AFTER they're all used up and passed around. I agree, but it doesn't help that I feel much older than 27, so I have a hard time even having a conversation with a 20 year old. They just have no life experience (especially with helicopter parents these days) and it's har…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:17 AM
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For whatever reason, this comment just hit me really hard and brought me a lot of peace...thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:12 AM
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I’d watch out for single women in their 30’s, but anything 28 and under seems pretty reasonable. If you focus on age too mich you run into the issue of thinking you are doing great by picking up a 22 year old who has had 50 partners - she is the same person as the 30 year old with 100 partners, just younger. I'm suspicious of this as well, unless the woman has a very good reason, such as she was in medical school and residency and just moved from a different state for her job here. A normal, loc…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:10 AM
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First and foremost - DO NOT settle for or marry low-value women. Also - DO NOT settle for a formerly hot, "reformed slut" or a divorced woman with kids. FULL STOP. Couldn't agree more. Young, single, childless, and never-married men have NO BUSINESS dealing with a Single Mother or divorced woman with kids in any way, shape, or fashion. The single, childless, and never-married man who accepts this situation places himself at extreme disadvantage and legal issues, exposes himself to ex-husbands an…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 11:02 AM
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I'm just getting a bit discouraged because I do cold approach the women I see out and about (gym, coffee shop, etc) and the vast majority of them are either married, engaged, or at least say they are. The rest have "had boyfriends" so who knows if they're taken or just not interested. I don't have much of a social circle to game haha. I'm working on it, but a few crumbs of success would be helpful. Pretty much the only women I've been able to capitalize on in the last couple years have been onli…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 10:55 AM
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I sure hope so. It just feels so creepy talking to girls that are 20 (7 years my junior). I also FEEL way way older than 27 so that doesn't help.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:11 AM
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Dude, I haven't the slightest clue how bars/clubs work. All the women I pulled during college or after were daygame in class or online. I'm somewhat introverted so I always hated these places. Too loud, can't talk, everyone came with their "group" and didn't want to talk to anyone else...I honestly don't understand it. I live in a mid-sized city and have a buddy who would be willing to go bar hopping with me, but wouldn't know where to start. I actually find this a bit annoying because everythin…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:10 AM
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I'm more or less talking about the average man here, although this is certainly applicable to my situation. Where does the average 27-32 year old man even meet a 22 year old woman? They have completely different lives, unless the man is a man-child. There's minimal exposure. I did find the 2nd thing you said to be very helpful though. I think I've personally been holding onto this idea of the perfect (which for me is a woman only 1-2 years younger than me).
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:22 PM
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I know it's fashionable on this sub to think every man who wants a family is a purple pill beta, but there are plenty of us who simply want a family...because we fucking want one. Not because we are desperate to become a plow horse for a domineering woman, or in a rush to give up half our shit. Some of us actually want to reproduce, raise children, and enjoy all the benefits family life affords a man. This doesn't require being a spineless bitch. Just because your values don't align with someone…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:11 PM
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I'm sure you're right, my lived experience has been pretty shit the last couple years though. I'm surrounded by married hotties and single narwhals. Care to detail out a more extensive list of activites/locations one might come into contact with single women in this age range? Since the end of my last relationship 2 years ago 99% of my dates have been from online (and 80% of them are 50lbs heavier than advertised). The other 1% has come from the gym and maybe 1 from a coffee shop. I tried meetup…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:04 PM
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I'm not advocating this thought pattern as truth, I'm saying this is how I see it (in a nihilistic fashion) and am actively seeking NOT to continue to see it that way through the obtainment of new information. Also...I don't WANT to fuck married women. This isn't all about sex. I had my fun and did better than most in college, despite not having TRP knowledge, but when it comes to finding a wife, TRP doesn't seem very helpful. I know a big part of it is because there are no many issue with marri…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:40 PM
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Doesn't deserve him? I know this isn't going to be a popular opinion, this being TRP and all, but I'd have that the other way around. It sounds like she put a lot of effort into developing this relationship. I'm not trying to be a white knight, but give her some credit here. What did you expect dude? Spinning plates is one thing, but you can only spin them so long if they want something more. If she wants a serious boyfriend and that wasn't you, you have no right to keep spinning her. This isn't…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:05 AM
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i would really like an answer to this question too man. I'm also 25 and living in a mid-sized city but all of my interests are "old man hobbies" that are typically done in solitude. I'm not interested in big groups or partying, but I would like frequent interactions with small or medium sized groups of people with shared interest. Here's a thought. The way you phrase that you don't drink makes it sound like you just don't drink in the party sense, not like that you're allergic to alcohol or some…
/r/askTRP25/03/17 01:25 PM
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It's a stepping stone opener (remember...I did my first cold approach 3 days ago) that they seem to respond well too. I'm gonna stick with it until I think of a better way to open in these situations. I overtly ask them if they're seeing anyone far before any signals would give it away. I agree. No more mentions of coffee. I think that was just a nervous thing. I never actually invite dates to coffee, always evening drinks. Generally they are ordering drinks to go, not staying in. One has stayed…
/r/askTRP24/03/17 01:54 AM
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Good point. I've been better about that in the past. I'll do this. Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:45 PM
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I am sure there is plenty of room for improvement in terms of "excitement" but it's not been as bad as it would appear from my writing about it. I just didn't want to type too much because people don't want to read a wall of text. There has been some teasing and me making some fun of them (couple have said they were nurses and I got a big grin on my face and said something to the effect of....you wipe asses for a living don't you...to which they all laugh and say "yeah it's so fun" or something …
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:40 PM
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Well what I have been doing is sending them a text right when I put their number in my phone (when they're still standing there) with just my name so they have my number. After reading comments from the guys at r/askseddit, I've decided to not do that but rather "strike while the iron is hot" and text them shortly after that interaction or the next day at the latest to set something up. I'll give that a shot and see what happens. I have been operating on the assumption that if they don't respond…
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:28 PM
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I think another influencing factor is my late experiences with online and app based dating. Bumble for instance has a feature that shows you how many people have swiped right on you and the number goes down as you swipe past those who have swiped right on you, so I will be swiping and then get to a very unattractive woman in a string of very attractive ones and it's always that one that's swiped right on me. I get very few matches with girls that I consider to be equal or slightly below me in se…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 06:51 PM
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It isn't meant to be comprehensive or balanced man... It's meant to show that when it comes to things I feel are valuable to women, I think I've got more upside than down.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:45 AM
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I suppose that's the underlying question. How to become self led in this specific area. I teach myself how to rebuild a transmission... But I guess I need guidance on how to teach myself to feel desirable outside of that external validation. Then again, this isn't a new feeling. I have felt this way the majority of my single years so I'm sure it's related to the most recent ex but not exclusive to that. Thanks.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 03:33 AM
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I certainly do need to work on closing. No doubt about that. I guess it's just difficult for me to have genuine fun. The hobbies I have aren't really social hobbies, and certainly aren't social in the aspect of socializing with attractive females. They're very masculine in nature. Let's take motorcycles for example. I ride and enjoy riding, riding can be a social experience, but I know VERY few women with motorcycles and none that are attractive. If a girl is out on a ride with us it's because i…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 06:48 PM
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I know where you're coming from, and I know you speak the truth, but I feel like that has become difficult to do lately since I'm on a big dry spell and really "need" to get laid. The other thing is that I typically don't find large groups of drunks...fun. I just generally have a hard time in large social situations just having a good time. That presents an issue because that is where you meet hookup partners for the most part. Anyone have any advice on just how to have a good time? I'm not so s…
/r/askTRP23/04/14 01:34 PM
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Thank you man, I like that. Here is my revised version. I like to go my own way. I am not one to follow the societal path of my generation. I like to have adventures, life's too short to have dull experiences so I enjoy meeting women that are passionate, whether it's emotionally, intellectually, or sexually. Oh, and I love a cheeky smile. I'm looking for a girl who can make me laugh and understand my ideals. I shortened it up and changed a couple things. I like it now. Thanks for the suggestions…
/r/seduction13/03/14 10:28 PM
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How would you change the middle two? I think I agree with you.
/r/seduction13/03/14 09:36 PM
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I am going to try this idea out. Can I get a female perspective on my new bio? I'm a 22y/o male. I'd love to find an FWB so I need to be forward about sex without being weird. "I like to go my own way. I am not one to follow the societal path of my generation. I know how to have a good time my way and I'm not interested in changing that anytime soon. If you want to experience this fun yourself, swipe right and I'll be glad to open you eyes(and your legs). I'm looking for a girl who can make me l…
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:47 PM
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