How long did it take YOU before you because regularly successful picking up women in bars/clubs?

childishgames · 2014-04-18T21:52:29+00:00

When I first found out about this forum, I got marginally better immediately just by learning some of the basic pickup concepts. Since then, I've gone through 2-3 month streaks where I had tons of success, and 2-3 month streaks where I had no success at all. Overall, I've gotten much better... but I rarely ever go on this forum. It is good to understand the basic pickup concepts... and maybe read the occasional "field report" or watch videos, but I don't think you should spend too much time here.

Mouthpiece · 2014-04-18T23:16:02+00:00

I think it's a mistake to compare yourself to other guys, because the environments, cities, and men themselves are all very different.

The most important thing, is whether not you or doing better than you were before you started, and each let you go out are you doing a little bit better than you were the last.

Right now you're focusing on results. That's probably a mistake. You should focus on process instead: is your inner game more solid than it was last week? Is your body language better? Are you starting to recognize and figure proper responses to shit tests?

As long as you can track improvement in how you're doing, the results will take care of themselves. Each of us has a different journey, of a different lengths, taking us through different places. The important thing is it every day, we get up, put one foot in front of the other, and make it further along the path.

Title	How long did it take YOU before you because regularly successful picking up women in bars/clubs?
Author	Msmith68w
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	April 18, 2014 8:10 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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