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Gym selfies on a dating profile make you look like you're narcissistic, have no friends, and lack self awareness to know your shouldn't post them
/r/seduction29/06/19 05:14 PM
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You didn't think even one dude was cute enough for a right swipe?!
/r/seduction27/06/19 04:02 PM
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The older you get, the more you realize who you are and what you like. I used to bend over backwards trying to hit it off with girls who were hot according to everyone else's standards, and seduction felt like a competition, like I was trying to prove something to other people. I didn't realize it at the time because I wasn't experienced, but a lot of these women are vain, uninteresting, lack depth, and are awful people. You'll always be attracted to hotter girls but as you start to know yoursel…
/r/seduction24/04/19 04:15 AM
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I think you're setting too high of a goal in 100. When you're just starting out, getting a number is great, but after 20 or so, you'll get the picture. It's really easy to get a number... once you figure out how easy it is, that makes game exciting but you'll also quickly realize it's meaningless. You'll start getting makeouts, and then you'll realize 100 numbers is kinda dumb. Then you'll start having hookups.
/r/seduction15/02/19 01:43 AM
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A couple months ago I was on vacation in San Francisco, went to Delores park, and opened a girl sitting in basically that exact same spot on that same hill right there
/r/seduction24/08/18 07:19 AM
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lol wait, did she seriously ask you if you're a virgin? How did that come up? or did she not say anything and you went out of your way to tell her you're a virgin?
/r/seduction09/07/18 03:29 PM
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Idk, I would say I'm about a 6. I've been told that I resemble John Mulaney
/r/seduction15/04/18 04:31 PM
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A "set" in PUA terms is just a girl or group of girls you talk to. I use lame pua terms on here. Also, you will learn this in time, but don't smile too much. A slight cocky smirk will do. You don't want to look nervous and have no energy, but you don't want to smile too much and look like the fact that you are taking to a girl makes you eager. Don't overthink it though. You will learn with experience Once you get the girl talking, Going from a neutral face to a smile when a girl says something y…
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:40 AM
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Um, honestly I'm not sure. It felt like a one night stand. But I could text her to hang out, just to guage things and see if she could be a semi regular thing
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:31 AM
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You're on the right track. I didn't start learning or caring about game until halfway through college. It's really hard to be consistent, but the most important thing is to stay confident and positive when you're out. Realize that you are an attractive, high value guy, and by opening sets you are doing a good thing for girls. If girls try to throw shit at you, keep smiling and standing tall. In my personal opinion, keep it simple with openers. Don't try to say some cheesy canned line because tha…
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:22 AM
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In my opinion they weren't necessarily shit tests. She was flirting around and looking at her options. So I did the same. When she looked back and saw me with other girls, it made her realize I was the best option. If I was standing there like a chode waiting on her, I think she would've stayed with another guy. I was so confident and in the zone that it was easy for me to open sets, so it worked out perfectly. I'm not always that confident. But it makes you realize what's possible if you can ho…
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:10 AM
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I actually feel like somewhat of an authority on my strategy here. Dating apps are for the most part a waste of time. It's A TON of effort to think of the perfect response that will make her interested in these apps. I get straight to the point. In under 5 messages I always ask for the number. Girls don't want to waste their time on small talk on tinder and neither should you. Express interest almost immediately. You don't have to build rapport to get a date. Sometimes it's nice, but usually not…
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:00 AM
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Maybe I'm not categorizing correctly, but I think of shit tests in two categories. Either she's criticising/negging you, or she's pumping herself up. Naturally I know how to respond to critiques of myself. But when the girl tries to brag about herself, I have to think about it because my natural response is to validate the girl. By talking calmly and slowly I buy myself enough time to think of a response
/r/seduction15/04/18 06:53 AM
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I mean perhaps. We were sitting across from each other at a narrow and long table in a crowded bar on the initial convo. It would've required one of us to walk through and around a crowded bar for a long time. That would've been a significant investment. I wasn't willing to give her that, and honestly I think it was the right call in the long run.
/r/seduction15/04/18 06:33 AM
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She didn't seem rich really. Seems to do well. Middle class, but not rich (judging by her house). And no I'm not rich. I have a job and make okay money but def not rich at all.
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:35 AM
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If she just wanted a make out, you could've maybe played "hard to get" more. When you're about to kiss, say you can't kiss her or something. Make her work hard for that kiss and she might come home with you to qualify herself.
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:33 AM
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I would note a few things: I'm not really considered to be that attractive. Don't get many matches on tinder and most of my friends get way more attention from girls if I'm not actively gaming. In fact I get pretty much no attention. I'm a really skinny guy. But I am 6'2 which helps tremendously. Half the battle is being able to identify those IOIs. A lot of nights I feel like I don't get any from girls, but it's probably me just holding a weak frame. This set was much more than just getting att…
/r/seduction15/04/18 12:05 AM
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I don't ever recall being rejected on the kiss but I don't go for it if I don't have a very strong immediate reaction to the open or if she isn't receptive to the twirl, or not receive to the arm on the shoulder
/r/seduction14/04/18 07:53 PM
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Honestly I've never felt very comfortable overtly flirting with girls within my group. If it doesn't go well it puts a really bad vibe on the whole night. Sounds like you had an awesome night. That girl seduced you with some sexy shit haha
/r/seduction14/04/18 06:54 PM
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The hand spin has always been one of my favorite moves. My best rapid escalation move that I've used a few times to get an insta make out is to introduce myself with a handshake and if I get a strong immediate ioi, lift the hand up for a twirl, then put the girl's arm on my shoulder and go in for the kiss
/r/seduction14/04/18 06:51 PM
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Approach girls who dance well. That's not the only answer, but there's a string correlation there
/r/seduction09/04/18 05:28 PM
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The ego is the number 1 thing that fucks most guys (myself included) up in game. Your ego is getting in your way. You're still stuck in your high school mindset thinking you're too good looking and cool to get rejected. So now you're too scared to approach because then if you get rejected you internalize that as meaning you aren't cool/good looking anymore. Fuck that, fuck your ego. Go get rejected. Or go get laid. It doesn't really matter because you're the same person no matter the result of t…
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:12 AM
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I'm definitely not going into these interactions with any expectations for a relationship. I've always been more of a "single guy" than a "relationship guy." I hate responsibility and commitment and I love meeting new people and flirting. However occasionally when I meet a girl I like more than most, I'd like to be able to see her again and potentially build something. It does get tiring sometimes putting in so much effort to meet people. I'm not sure how to build on the momentum from the initia…
/r/seduction08/07/16 03:10 PM
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yeah, but its mostly been a bunch of hookups and/or promising dates with nothing happening after... honestly, yeah... its been fun but i get exhausted by it sometimes
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:53 PM
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good advice
/r/seduction07/04/16 06:50 PM
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Out of curiosity, how would you have handled it once she came back to my house to use the bathroom. Trying to think of a way I could've escalated things smoothly and without objection. I probably fucked up there, but I think I fucked up more early in the night by setting the tone where she was gonna be the alpha and dictate how the night went. She was calling the shots... how do i overcome that? I don't usually date girls with an alpha personality so this might be an issue i never knew i had.
/r/seduction07/04/16 12:58 PM
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damn dude, I can relate... this brings me back. I started dating a girl almost exactly 2 years ago. She was graduating college at the end of the semester, then moving to New York. I still had one more semester to go. We ended up dating like 3 or 4 months but it was really great. We also had a very memorable and awesome first date. To this day she's the only girl i've liked. When she moved it was really shitty... but it would've been impossible to make work. Sucks for things to end when there's n…
/r/seduction06/04/16 07:02 PM
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/sends dick pic "sorry wrong person. hey what's up?!"
/r/seduction23/10/15 01:38 AM
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Aight, well my gut is telling me to go for it cause idgaf if I get rejected again, even if it makes me look weird. I'm starting to think that maybe I'm not pushing through resistance enough. Like, maybe I could have gotten her number the first time if I tried harder. I'm kinda replaying past rejections in my head and wondering if I gave up too easily. I think maybe this has been a weak point in my game recently... but I'm just running out of ideas and asking the PUA community for advice rather t…
/r/seduction19/08/15 05:35 AM
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didn't mention how often you hit the gym. I'm pretty skinny. I weigh like 160. I'm actually extremely athletic in terms of speed/quickness/jumping/etc. Not to sound like an asshole, but my speed/quickness/jumping is probably in like the 98th-99th percentile of white people. Just always been skinny. When I go to the gym, it is pretty much exclusively to play basketball... for usually 2-5 hours. Haven't really committed to a weight training plan since high school. I used to go to the gym every day…
/r/seduction05/08/15 07:59 PM
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UGA
/r/seduction05/08/15 03:37 AM
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Why didn't you just say "Fuck yes we should totally hang out tomorrow." I mean, I've done that many times before and gotten no response. Since that hasn't been working, I kinda figured that I'd try something different and not come on so strong since she seemed particularly interested. Interested enough to where I wasn't agonizing the wording of my text...
/r/seduction05/08/15 02:58 AM
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The only drugs I've ever done excluding alcohol are Weed and Acid. I've never done coke because I know myself and I would be a nightmare to be around. Never done prescription drugs cause I know how addictive they can be and how much they can fuck you up. Weed generally hurts my game if I'm going out to a bar or a party or anything hectic like that. But if you are one-on-one with a girl, I think smoking weed can be oddly sensuous and a good way to transition to sex.
/r/seduction05/08/15 12:48 AM
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I'm likeable and have friends of both sexes. I'm not socially inept, I can have a great conversation with someone, make them laugh. Yet despite all of these "pros" I have yet to find anyone who wants to be with me. This is a lot like I was. I was always friends with a decent number of guys and girls. I was pretty good in conversation with anybody. I kinda knew how to flirt. I just had no idea what the hell I was doing with girls. I had no idea how to express interest. I had no idea how to kino. …
/r/seduction20/03/15 08:59 PM
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3 months ... i deteriorated in physical looks Did you develop a meth habit?
/r/seduction19/03/15 09:34 PM
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You are just going through a slump. It happens to me all the time, and it is basically unexplainable. Everything that used to work for you just stops working altogether. But trust me... out of nowhere, everything will just start to work again, and you go on a hot streak. I don't even get it, and I've put a LOT of thought into it. Like, I can never point to anything in particular that I'm doing "wrong" when I'm in a slump. One thing I have noticed though... is that the more you keep at it, the sh…
/r/seduction18/03/15 05:25 PM
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I've done this once or twice and it has always made me look creepy/needy and I regretted it.
/r/seduction27/12/14 09:12 PM
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When I'm confident a girl was checking me out, sometimes I'll do a pretty funny, dramatic approach... basically I'll catwalk over to her in slow motion, stroke my hair, maybe do a spin, then say something really cheesy/cocky to her.
/r/seduction26/11/14 06:26 PM
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Do you try to seduce the girls or just have your own fun? Yes. I hit on girls when I'm drunk... for fun. I also hang out with my friends and joke around with people, but flirting with girls and trying to hook up with them is fun for me now, so I do that. My night-game is also definitely better when I'm drunk, but that is not the case for everyone. Even when I'm blackout drunk, I don't tend to slur my speech or lose my balance/coordination.
/r/seduction26/11/14 06:21 PM
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Congrats my man. Keep it up, Sounds like you are having a blast. I tend to be really hot and cold with girls, so I understand how awesome it feels to get back "in the zone" (as i always call it) after a dry spell. I'll go a month or two with almost zero success and then I'll go a few months where literally every night I go out, I'm getting makeouts, bringing girls back, and meeting chicks that I can go on dates with.
/r/seduction18/11/14 07:27 AM
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I have a pretty large group of guy friends that I hang out with all the time, but I've never dated or hooked up with a girl through connections from my friend group. It is very possible to meet people and get hook up's without the help of friends. I do pretty much all my game at night. I drink, I have fun, I'm outgoing, I dance, I joke around, and I approach girls with this energy. I'll admit, I always enter the bars with my friends, but I almost 100% of the time approach solo and I often lose m…
/r/seduction18/11/14 07:18 AM
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Some things I am great at. For example I'm naturally stoic, intelligent and quite witty. The downside is that I'm naturally also a nice shy introvert, which are three words that make every vagina dry up. I swear, everybody on the planet thinks they are an introvert. The most outgoing person in the world will tell you that deep down they are an introvert because they, too enjoy their alone-time. I suck at kino That is what your problem is. I can almost guarantee it. Your game will instantly get 1…
/r/seduction17/11/14 06:45 PM
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I've always thought it is pathetic to think someone is "out of your league". What does that say about your self-confidence if you think someone else is just better than you? There are definitely girls with huge ego's who will think they are out of your league, but honestly fuck them. That is probably the worst quality a person can have, just thinking they are better than others.
/r/seduction17/11/14 06:23 PM
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I feel sad just like everyone else for a period of time when a relationship ends. That being said, I can always have fun. I try hard to be a positive person and just because I'm feeling sad or depressed doesn't mean I have to make others feel that way. Its a waste of time feeling sorry for yourself. The keys to getting over a girl are: Finding more girls Not contacting her Get rid of things that remind you of her. The biggest thing I can recommend is unfollow her on facebook. This does wonders. …
/r/seduction17/11/14 02:53 AM
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I'm constantly going through extended hot and cold streaks with my game. I cannot explain it at all. I never can tell what i'm doing differently when I'm doing well vs. badly. I think it is just a difference in my mind-frame. All I can say is that when I'm doing well, I don't care about anything except having a good time. Rejections don't bother me. My friends discouraging me, putting me down, etc. doesn't bother me. Me being an idiot doesn't bother me. I'm just trying to have fun.
/r/seduction14/11/14 05:57 PM
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This happens to me sometimes, but it is only when I care about a girl or feel invested in a girl. You shouldn't be bothered by stuff like this unless you have been dating a particular girl for a bit of time. The best thing I can say is talk to as many girls as you can. Try to go on dates with as many girls as you can. The more girls you have at your disposal, the less you will care about any one in particular not reciprocating your interest. Also your game will be better, and you will not be as …
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:39 PM
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Yeah I'm not trying to stifle your creativity or keep you from expressing yourself or anything. There are tons of songs out there that when you really look at it are creepy as hell. But from a pickup standpoint, I would heavily advise against it.
/r/seduction04/11/14 12:05 AM
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I'm gonna be honest with you: writing a song for a girl who you just met, never hooked up with, and who did not return your text is one of the most creepily obsessive things I've ever heard a guy do for a girl. I would advise strongly against doing this. If you like music and express yourself through it, write the song, but really: don't let her know about it. Forget about this girl. Typically I'm all for trying out new techniques... even if most people think they won't work, but this just sound…
/r/seduction03/11/14 09:54 PM
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I realize that it can be impressive to say you met and banged a girl on the first night; however, I have swung back around full circle and gone back to my old ways. Now I focus more on going out, getting some quality phone numbers This is about to be long, but I feel like writing it. Your situation is very similar to mine. I was a virgin until age 20. Starting at age 19 I started getting a ton of random make-outs at bars, getting girls numbers but not calling (probably more for practice than any…
/r/seduction29/10/14 03:58 PM
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I never really understood how someone could say they like a girl who they can't have a comfortable conversation with. If talking, "kinoing", etc. is difficult to do, that is usually a sign that I don't find the girl fun or interesting (though obviously I could work on my game to connect with more people). To me, my game is much better with girls who I actually like because being with them, talking, dancing, whatever just feels natural. If it all feels forced then that kinda indicates that we are…
/r/seduction28/10/14 04:55 AM
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19 year old male, and I've still got my V-card. Bit old, I know I wouldn't really say that. I'd say that is fairly normal for a guy. I didn't lose mine until 20 but I never really thought too much about it until I was halfway done with college and was like "whoa, I'm doing something wrong". I ended up losing mine in a ONS and things have gone pretty well for me since then. My only advice is: if you are talking to a girl and you want to have sex with her and you have the opportunity to do so, you…
/r/seduction27/10/14 05:40 PM
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I agree, I just wouldn't tell someone not to try it. I would argue that the biggest thing holding most guys back from hitting on girls is fear of being a "creep". The bottom line is: if you go from having zero game... to trying to pick up girls on a semi-regular basis, you are going to look like a creep many times. You might as well just get over it and not worry about what other people think. Hell going in for the kiss 2 minutes in is better than doing it immediately. But the thing is... for ma…
/r/seduction03/07/14 04:05 PM
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But that's just it, there's no BENEFIT to it I disagree. To anyone who wants to have casual hookups, using a risky move like this will fast-forward you toward that. I see so many posts on here from guys who say they can hit on girls at the bar and get numbers and get dates but never can end up sealing the deal. If this is your situation, why not try something like this? So many guys spend hours with girls and never get so much as a kiss. Maybe if they tried this, they would see how easy it can b…
/r/seduction03/07/14 03:24 PM
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So don't try it because it is a risky move and you could very likely get rejected? What about not fearing rejection? Personally I'm all for trying out risky pick-up moves. You aren't gonna get any better by playing it safe. I think you have to always push the envelope. I've gone for really quick, almost instant make-outs before, and it has worked well for me. I basically recited exactly what I'd seen on some youtube video. I've been rejected as well, but I don't really give a shit and hardly rem…
/r/seduction03/07/14 01:45 AM
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Where/when are you going on these dates?
/r/seduction03/07/14 01:28 AM
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I almost never do "street game" or daygame in general... but I think maybe you should try being more direct... that is the best way to figure things out. I never learn what techniques work for me unless I take risks. Maybe try: you- "Where is the nearest starbucks" her-"two blocks that way" you- "honestly, I just thought you looked cute/interesting/whatever, and I had to talk to you"
/r/seduction18/06/14 07:27 AM
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You will learn what works for you, but just start making more aggressive, risky moves. They won't always work, but you will figure out what does work over time. I like to tease the girl by joking around with her/talking to her normally, then kinda "flipping the switch" into sexual mode for 5-10 second increments. For example, I might be having a conversation with a girl for a minute... with 2 feet of space in between us. Then I'll "flip the switch", get right up in front of her, talk slowly, loo…
/r/seduction18/06/14 07:22 AM
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If you go out to bars/clubs, the ratio shouldn't be that bad. Try that, you are 21.
/r/seduction14/05/14 05:04 AM
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I don't think I was knocking him. I hope I didn't come across that way. I'm just saying that I, too have had streaks where I feel like I'm getting worse. I'll have no success for a decently long period of time. When that happens, I find it helps to not stress too much about it and take a break from reading pickup forums.
/r/seduction03/05/14 06:04 PM
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No, I mean... I experienced the same. When I first learned about this shit it immediately helped me, but like most people I eventually went through cold-streaks and periods where I was constantly getting rejected. If you get overly obsessed with reading blogs/books as solutions to your problems, you won't solve them. I would advise you to take a break, take the pressure off yourself, just try to have fun... eventually you will get back to having success. In my opinion, there is only so much that…
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:50 AM
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agreed, you will never learn by asking others what works. You will also learn very little by playing it safe. You have to just go for it and you will learn what works and what doesn't. What you will find rather quickly is that escalating-- even poorly --will result in you hooking up with girls more than anything else.
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:39 AM
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I went out to bars and clubs with more confidence, I actually started talking to girls and I was getting results. dude, that is all you need to do... fuck the seduction community, if you are approaching and having success then who cares what everyone else here tells you to do. I tend to only go on these boards when I'm having a ton of success. If you come here to try to fix your problems, you are probably overthinking things. You will fix your problems by going out there and hitting on girls. Yo…
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:34 AM
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Honestly, everyone goes through streaks of insecurity or lacking confidence. You just have to keep trying and eventually you will get over it. But If a girl is approaching you... you are fucking set. In my experience all you have to do there is initiate contact and escalate and you WILL hook up with girls, even if you aren't being interesting or anything.
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:30 AM
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I'd prefer that people say "f-close" and "k-close" only in their title, just so it makes it easier for me to search. Like if I wanted to find a list of "field reports" where someone pulled off an "f-close", it would be impossible to find by searching "fuck", or "kiss". I like it when people say something like "[FR] F-Close on the first date" in the title... instead of.... "Fucked a girl on the first date", just so I can search it.. but yeah it sounds sketchy in casual conversation to say "f-clos…
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:22 AM
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80 in 2 weeks, sounds good to me. I've had tinder for like 4 months and I only have 130 matches, significantly less than all my friends. I haven't hooked up with any of them with the exception of girls that I'd already hooked up w/ before we matched. I'm also decently tall, which helps me in real-life but that isn't conveyed via tinder. I like tinder for practicing text-game, but as an avenue for getting hookups, i feel like it is only good for attractive guys.
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:17 AM
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Agreed, anyone with AA should not be trying to build confidence by using tinder... texting in general gives girls an arbitrary reason to just ignore you, which is why I prefer face-to-face so much more.. it gives you control.
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:09 AM
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For me, tinder is basically just a venue to practice my text-game with no negative ramifications... but I agree, there shouldn't be so many questions about how to use tinder... it is a good place to just figure things out for yourself.
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:06 AM
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Yeah, I was just opening it up for some discussion. I'm not a pickup artist, but I have pretty good success with this, so I thought an expert might be able to tell me why that success isn't normal.
/r/seduction25/04/14 02:31 AM
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At a loud bar/club: Brush her hair away from her ear, get right next to her and talk into her ear. If she is receptive, you can start doing it on both sides, brush your cheeks against each other, etc. It can be an good way to ease your way into the makeout. edit: Serious question -- out of curiosity, why is this being downvoted by some? Does it seem creepy or something? It has been really effective and relatively low-risk, high reward for me.
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:53 PM
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I've known about the "PUA" stuff for maybe two years now. I've gone through some really bad stretches (a few months without getting a K-Close) over that period that have made me question if I'm getting any better... but I've had some great stretches to cancel that out. As a whole I've had lots of success, much more than I was before I found out about it. The biggest thing that you have to do is lose your ego. You get comfortable with your role in your friend group and you get used to girls treat…
/r/seduction23/04/14 09:01 PM
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When I first found out about this forum, I got marginally better immediately just by learning some of the basic pickup concepts. Since then, I've gone through 2-3 month streaks where I had tons of success, and 2-3 month streaks where I had no success at all. Overall, I've gotten much better... but I rarely ever go on this forum. It is good to understand the basic pickup concepts... and maybe read the occasional "field report" or watch videos, but I don't think you should spend too much time here…
/r/seduction18/04/14 09:52 PM
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There are certain things that you pretty much only say on a seduction forum, "F-Close" being one of them. Yeah its pretty lame, but it doesn't bother me because this is basically an anonymous internet forum. For example, I would never say "[FR]" in any setting if I was telling a story, but that seems to be the general guideline here... I believe it makes it easier for other people to search specific keywords. Like if I wanted to search this forum for stories where someone ended up having sex, It…
/r/seduction16/04/14 11:27 PM
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I think most people's friends are like this. I know mine are. I love hanging out with them at bars, but fuck... if I want to hit on girls, I'm getting the hell away from them. I have two friends who are good looking guys and literally refuse to approach a girl. Once a month, a decently attractive girl approaches them and I have to listen to them tell that story about how cool they are for the next month. If I talk to girls with them, they always try to steal the girl I'm talking to. They don't e…
/r/seduction16/04/14 06:45 PM
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Sounds fun! My night was similar. Really crazy. I kissed 4 different girls on New Years. I've never kissed more than 2 in a day before and I hadn't K-closed anyone in close to 2 months before it happened. Being NYE and being drunk certainly aided me, but you really just have to be confident in yourself, don't take yourself too seriously, and go for it. I would write a FR, but I was too drunk to remember a lot of the important details of the things I did.
/r/seduction03/01/14 07:43 AM
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in that case, i think it depends how drunk everyone else is. If everyone in the bar is drunk, i think it hurts you to be stone-cold sober... unless you can fool others into thinking you are just as drunk as them... and in that case some might say you are taking advantage of drunk girls.. at the same time if the people in the bar aren't too drunk, it would be terrible for your drunkass to stumble into a set and start blabbering to girls. For me, being drunk helps because 1) i'm having a good time…
/r/seduction05/12/12 08:49 PM
9

I think palm reading is fucking weird if you are being serious about it. I think many girls also think it is fucking weird. It can be funny if you make a joke out of it, though. There was a simple pickup video where one of the guys pretended to be super serious about a palm reading... but then was like, "this line says you like to get your face jizzed on." Obviously that is pretty extreme, but you can tone it down a bit based on how your interaction is going.
/r/seduction05/12/12 08:31 PM
1

There seems to be a big movement in the "pickup community" about not drinking when going out. I drink copiously and do just fine. Whereas many on here are against it because you aren't quite as quick on your feet when drinking, my goal when going out is always to have fun first. When i'm out drinking having a blast, I do well with women. If i decide not to drink specifically for the purpose of picking up women, that puts heaps of pressure on myself to get girls for the night, rather than enjoy m…
/r/seduction05/12/12 08:23 PM
3

Little bits of advice i'd give 1) sit next to her instead of across from her. If possible, request a small table instead of one of those interview tables with a bench on each side. You can pull her seat out for her like a gentleman and move it next to your seat at the beginning of the date. 2) Play the "questions game." If you are unfamiliar, it is like truth or dare with only truths. gives you a chance to talk about more sexual topics. 3) If you manage to get caught in the situation you were in…
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:30 AM
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Not approaching when I know I should have... that seriously eats me up. Earlier today I ran into a scenario almost just like the one in the video and I can never get that situation back. Really cute girl gets on bus, sits across from me, I glance over at her and she smiles back. We hold eye contact for a second or two and she looks down and silently chuckles a bit. I look away for a few seconds. Look Back. She does too. We share a smile once again. My heart is racing. I'm going to do this. I hav…
/r/seduction13/09/12 09:03 AM
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good shit dude. sounds like you had a blast... those kind of nights are the best. i'm kinda shocked you didn't get the K-close with "Emma"... i thought her friend had to be Full of shit but maybe she really hasn't kissed a guy before... she was probably just nervous
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:43 AM
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Sounds like she doesn't want a relationship, but like mitsifer mentioned maybe theres still an opportunity for a FWB situation. Try and get her to show her hand a little more... "I'm not really interested in a relationship right now, but I'd still like to see you..." in the meantime don't get too attached to this one girl. Theres always the possibility that she was at one time interested in you but isn't anymore. If she sees you hitting it off with other girls then it very well may reignite her …
/r/seduction10/09/12 08:36 PM
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Junior in college here at a school with a very big Greek life. Im not in any fraternity, though I have nothing against them and came very close to pledging when I was a freshman. That being said, I personally would advise against joining a "lower tier" fraternity... especially a new one that presumably doesn't have a house. You probably won't have any socials with any moderately big sororities. Also, whether you like it or not... pretty much everyone in the greek community (and many who aren't g…
/r/seduction10/09/12 07:50 PM
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you don't have to be a gorgeous man to be good and successful with women yea i definitely would have to agree with this. once he gets into conversation with a girl, his confidence and conversational skills take him far, which is something anyone can do.... and you can apply those things to nightgame or daygame that being said, i think he's overcoming more than just mediocre appearance... his biggest hurdle he has to overcome is the fact that many of the girls he opens initially think he is a cre…
/r/seduction03/09/12 05:50 AM
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i'm not sure thats entirely true. this works in a busy street in london, but if you don't live in a huge urban area, people will recognize you as the creepy guy who aggressively hits on girls during the day... his confidence and seemingly genuine interest in the other person are definitely things to take away from this, but if you try to replicate this in your town... you will most likely come off as a creep
/r/seduction03/09/12 05:31 AM
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agreed. once he gets going, he can hold good, genuine conversation and seems like a cool guy but he definitely has some really creepy opening techniques. the whole thing where he leaps in front of the girl is pretty weird. also, i think he sometimes doesn't read the situation very well and goes a bit overboard with sexual talk (though admittedly it often times works in his favor). his confidence is through the roof though and he really doesn't give a fuck, which outweighs everything weird he doe…
/r/seduction03/09/12 05:27 AM
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-20 -2-4 -yes -yes -on a scale of 1-10 i'll say 6
/r/seduction31/08/12 05:35 AM
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I think you have absurdly high expectations of walking by cute girls in public. Stop trying to impress them with your smile.. or by looking away and acting "cool" or anything like that. Random cute girls aren't going to stop and talk to you just because of a smile, and if you have that expectation--consciously or subconsciously--you are going to be disappointed because it will (almost definitely) never happen. Either approach or don't approach, but don't walk around smiling at everyone expecting…
/r/seduction28/08/12 06:39 AM
3

If you are going solo and you are simply trying to neutralize girl #2, I'd just show interest in both girls, but position myself physically so that my intended target is next to me and getting slightly more physical contact. In my experience the less attractive girl usually cockblocks by pretend texting and by acting like "the group" needs to go to another bar. If you make the other girl feel "included" in the group then often she will stop being a cockblock for the time being... since she feels…
/r/seduction14/08/12 07:12 AM
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I held up my glass and said "Hey guys, cheers!" They were incredibly weirded out. First off, I think it is in your head that they were weirded out by this. Seems like a pretty normal and friendly thing to do. If they actually WERE weirded out, then it is them who suck, not you. I approached and said they looked like they were just itching to dance. One of them replied that once the music started she would turn into a hurricane of dance moves. I replied that I would be a TROPICAL STORM of dance m…
/r/seduction23/06/12 06:19 AM
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IMO he came across as a douche anyway. No need to egg him on anymore... At a bar/nightclub, It will just cause a big scene and bring more attention to your failed set. Sounds like OP was outnumbered and nobody was really on his side, even if the people outnumbering him were pieces of shit. Just cut your losses, smile big, stand tall and act like you are having a great night, IMO. Best way to get revenge on them is to actually have a great night while those guys stand by the bar and try to instig…
/r/seduction19/06/12 07:42 AM
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Seems like a good way to get in a fight.
/r/seduction19/06/12 07:12 AM
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I'm just starting out with this stuff, so maybe my advice isn't the one you are looking for, but I think you want to avoid the vague answer to her question. To me it seems you are avoiding her question which seems unconfident of you. I might think you are unsure of yourself. Question: regarding your kiss the other day, who pulled away first. If you did, she probably really thinks you see her as a friend. If she did, she probably (at least for now) sees you as just a friend. Your answer--IMO--sho…
/r/seduction15/06/12 07:07 AM
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