Hi,

I'm a 25 year old male. Only started dating 18 months ago. Since then I've made a lot of progress, met quite a few girls and have had some great experiences.

Some things I am great at. For example I'm naturally stoic, intelligent and quite witty. The downside is that I'm naturally also a nice shy introvert, which are three words that make every vagina dry up.

What seems to be a common theme with me is the lack of spark, chemistry, whatever you want to call it. Some girls have told me this, which in fairness I realy do appreciate. I have managed to sleep with girls, but not those that I'm really attracted to (5 or 6s)

In terms of appearance I'm reasobably attractive, probably a 6.5 or 7. I've had attractive girls come up to me and give me their numbers or approach quite a few times.

That said I'm naturally quite feminine/androgynous in appearance. I'm also long, but not tall, 5 10 ectomorph. I've been going to the gym and it's been helping that a bit, fucking slow process.

That said the girls (usually go for early 20s girls) wouldn't go with me if they didn't think I was cute/attractive.

What I do lack is physical confidence. I'm constantly a bit tense, I suck at kino, body language and my inherent niceness can make things feel platonic.

Does anyone have any specific resources or tips to overcome this?

TLdr; my lack of kino/confidence is drying up pussys around the world!