At midnight on Saturday i drunkely bombed my last 10-15 matches with the same message: "Wanna get festively drunk and dance poorly?" I got a generally positive response from most. Ended up adding two of the girls on snapchat, one of whom i'm still chatting with.

The girl who I went on a date with responded positively and after sending 8 messages I suggested getting margaritas. She agreed, gave me her number. I texted her and we scheduled a time/place to meet.

The date: I pregamed the date by drinking a beer and a whiskey-ginger. She arrived 10 minutes late, so I ordered another beer at the bar. When she arrived we hugged and I told her she looked cute. We looked over the drink menu together and got a margarita pitcher.

For the next hour or so we just joked around a lot and made really good, somewhat deep conversation. She was a lot smarter than I expected, and I like her - she's edgy. Despite the good conversation her body language was cold. She was facing directly forward toward the bar, crossed legs often leaning away from me. She made comments about me touching her, which was discouraging. She threw a lot of shit tests at me (more than i've ever had on a date).... asking me if I'm consciously touching her, asking me why i'm on tinder, if i'm using it to hook up with girls, etc. I'm not sure if i handled these questions very well. She's a good arguer and studying to be a lawyer, kinda cornered me a few times and I was a little too drunk to keep up.

After the Margarita pitcher we hopped in her car and smoked from a 1-hitter, then drove half a mile to a little strip of shitty family restauraunt/dive bars. When we got out of the car I tried to hold her hand while we walked and she legitimately rejected it. I was so confused. We were having really good conversation but she was pushing back hard against the simplest of kino, but I kept at it. She excused herself by saying that she just doesn't like touching people and being touched. Maybe that's the case, but I'm not too sure about that.

Anyway, we went to a shitty bar and got a pitcher of beer to split. I'm starting to get quite drunk as i'm several drinks ahead of her. She had to be pretty drunk as well. I moved my barstool really close to her and tried initiating all kinds of kino. Rubbing my knee against hers, touching her a bit more. She started to respond a little bit more positively, but was still absurdly resistant for the time in the night... She was still making comments about my physical touching but they weren't in line with her body-language... which was warming up a little. Went in for the make-out and she reciprocated. Made out a few more times, kept joking around and getting drunk... then she gave me a ride back to my place. When we got back I suggested we go inside to smoke. She rejected that idea "why is that any different from smoking in the car?" didn't handle this shit-test too well. After a while she came in to use my bathroom. Honestly i was getting so much push-back to my advances that I didn't want to try and push things any further. We walked outside and made out one more time, then she left.

In the morning I sent her a text along the lines of "Hey, I had a good time with you last night" as of 2:12 PM she hasn't responded.

I quite honestly am really confused about this date. In some ways it went really well but the resistance to my kino all night was a really bad sign. Could've handled shit-tests better as well

tl;dr: went on a tinder date, got drunk, made good conversation, joked around, faced an absurd amount of resistance to kino, made out, no response yet to my after-date text...