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| 5 | Does anyone here successfully do cold approaches on their college campus?Yes, the last 3 dates I've gotten were from approaches done on a college campus. Don't listen to others who have never done it at all, because how can you give a credible perspective on something you haven't even done before?? College is a great time to socialize and meet women. How I do it is that I ONLY approach the one's I WANT to date. This means any girl that's 8-10 in my book. I DO NOT spam approach every living thing in sight. This means that the last 3 dates I went on with 3 different gi… | /r/seduction | 28/03/17 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Brookings Institution: Where Have All the Good Men Gone? Gender Differences in MarriageabilityFirst and foremost the title is a bit misleading in this article and used to stir people up and get them to read it, because the data proves it wrong otherwise. In all but 1 of these statistics does the odds favor men, which means women statistically have been proven to have the advantage in the dating world, at least in the U.S. The lowest statistic on this article was 123 "marriageable" men to 100 women. If I did the math right this means that 19% of American "marriageable" men won't even have… | /r/seduction | 28/03/17 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Get The Girl To CHASE YOU- My Text Game!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xzpndHtdl9A | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 06:49 PM |
| 49 | Get The Girl To CHASE YOU- My Text Game!Great use of push pulls translated into texting/snapchat will definitely try this one | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 10:25 PM |
| 2 | I paid to lose my virginity at 26, I don't really feel any different. How should I move forward?I finished inside the girl You did what!? | /r/seduction | 25/03/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm suffering from twoitis. Two women, too comfortable so pick-up game lagging.For sure, funny things happen and actually I've realized something...Unless you both have chemistry and are both willing to make things work, and she is your ideal girl that you see you could have a future with, then Every other relationship is temporary. Don't take it too serious and just improve yourself and improve your game. Going back out infield starting today again, cheers bro | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | To the seddit veterans, how do you get fuck buddies?Any escalation techniques or articles in kino to build up sexual tension you could suggest? | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 06:17 AM |
| 1 | To the seddit veterans, how do you get fuck buddies?Ok, next question now is how do I hook up with her in a short amount of time? I have about an hour and a half to make this happen and I'm going to be at a college campus in the middle of the afternoon. Do you suggest that I just walk around with her on campus and just try to build up and escalate there? Any suggestions? This is a huge college, and also I know she lives in the dorms with roomies so Idk how to pull there. | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm suffering from twoitis. Two women, too comfortable so pick-up game lagging.I fell into the same dilemma literally a week ago. I started not going out and improving my game and was dating two girls. Then things fell apart recently with one girl. Shit happens. The other girl doesn't seem like she's into anything serious either. Anyway I digress. Given the situation again, I would seriously have gone out and still game while having both relationships going. I know how it feels to start being comfortable with where you are. But I'm telling you this that two relationships a… | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 06:06 AM |
| 1 | To the seddit veterans, how do you get fuck buddies?Let me give you my current situation. I took this girl out twice now, have made out, but both of us don't text each other everyday or do things to indicate that we're an actual couple. I like this girl as a friend, but don't see myself in a LTR with her. She is also a little bit detached as well from my reasoning. She has a flight to go up to SF for Spring break tomorrow, ofcourse to have a bit of fun. I asked to see her before she leaves, and im trying to figure out how I can hook up without be… | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 05:50 AM |
| 1 | To the seddit veterans, how do you get fuck buddies?Nice! Did you straight up tell her what you wanted before you hooked up with her? Or was it a conversation that happened afterwards? | /r/seduction | 23/03/17 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Calling all PUAs...how to get from # close to date... consistently??Ofcourse I won't have 100% close afterwards, I meant as consistent as possible (which I think is something we strive for in pickup). Now on that note then, what do you do say if the girl stops responding? Do you use the above line or some variation of it? Also, I don't really care if something comes off as needy, if it works I'm all for it. (I already destroyed a lot of my ego from approaching so coming off a certain way wouldn't phase me). | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 05:56 AM |
| 3 | When I approach mixed sets in the club other guys will always get in my face. How to I react here?Look up AMOG tactics, specifically made for these situations. Best one I've found so far, assuming you already opened and built some comfort "How do you two know each other." or "Do you girls know him?" just some variation of that. There's a bit of improvising involved after you get the response. Tyler even used this in the video you've linked. And to all the people here telling him not to do this, 1) The guy could have just walked up seconds ago and not even know the girl yet. 2) What if anothe… | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Finally got several solid numbers.... but texting hasn't been my strong suiteI agree with your point. However, texting is almost unavoidable. Once you're done with the interaction, you have to keep the relationship up. I can't imagine having a good set, getting her number, then instantly ask her out a few days after without at least talking to her in between. If you know what you're talking about, then I'll ask you the same question. What do your text conversations look like? | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Finally got several solid numbers.... but texting hasn't been my strong suiteI mean I get you on that, I would think that if she texts back, and doesn't flake the interaction atleast went ok. Can you give me some specific examples of what you mean? What would your text conversations look like? | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 02:48 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Do you want to make out? "No" Do you want to go to your place? "Ok"Wow great post, commenting to save link. | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Pickup is painful.I asked several girls within the past week, how old their boyfriends were (Keep in mind these are girls in their 20s.) low and behold they were all older, I have yet to come across a girl who has a younger S/O. One girl I asked at this LA club was 26. She told me her boyfriend was 43 and they were living together. Just some food for thought. You're only limited by what you believe. | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Pickup is painful.Be more subtle, is what I got from this. Could you think up of any examples of subtle negs? | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 06:20 AM |
| 4 | Pickup is painful.you are putting too much value in the girl instead of putting value into yourself Wow, couldn't have said it better. I knew this going in as I have started to work out, be more social, and pursuing my career, but I'd forgotten how it all ties in. Next time it happens I'll remember what you said here. Thanks bro | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Pickup is painful.I've read about lots of shit about not giving a fuck, I know it logically and intellectually. I've reasoned it out. But the thing is, if I was to talk to a really great girl, talk to her for a while, and have it crash into pieces, I would say I don't give a fuck. But inside I know i'm bluffing. My question was how do I bridge that gap, and how do I learn to do it quick? | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Pickup is painful.I'm curious, is there a way to get over neediness at a faster rate? Should I keep the texts that crashed and keep looking back at them until I don't feel any attachment anymore? I feel like that could work. What do you think? | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Pickup is painful.Great insight! I was talking to a very attractive girl and she would text back seconds later. Then I threw in that neg and BOOM no response. I did this with multiple girls and same thing happened. I read that hot girls need a negging or two. But I think in terms of texting negs are a BIG no no. They take it out of context and the set destroys itself. Anyways thanks for sharing, always looking to improve my game. | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | [5/5] The Snapchat Guide to Game: how to get more dates.Snapchat is so impersonal. Girls give out their snapchats online to strangers they haven't even met. If you're going to go for a girl, MAN UP and get her number. Stop wasting your time. Snapchat puts you back two steps, because then once you get it, you are competing with so many other guys, and she doesn't know your intentions. Even after you get her snapchat, you have to get her number in order to hang out. Or are you solely just communicating through snap and never get her number? See the dis… | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 07:07 PM |
| 8 | My 3 most embarrassing rejections (and what I learned from them)Didn't get much from this, but was an entertaining read | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 10:31 PM |
| 1 | 30 years old, just got laid for the first time. There is hope after allI'm completely happy for OP but when I read your comment I was dieing :,D | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 09:50 PM |
| 21 | Don't be a little bitch like me.Onenitis is doing its damage. My advice, take action. "In order to get a woman, you must be willing to lose her." At the same time, be free from outcome. Mentally prepare yourself. Something I heard, although somewhat cheesy, may help you let go if things don't work out "Someone can be madly in love with you and still not be ready. They can love you in a way you have never been loved and still not join you on the bridge. And whatever their reasons you must leave. Because you never have to inspir… | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How can I work on my fear of kino?I agree, take some dancing lessons that require a partner, like salsa. It will force you to kino and lead in the right way. | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Is there a taboo when it comes to approaching women in certain places?All these are just limiting beliefs, and maybe this guy said it to even get on the chick's side. With that being said, one situation I could think of is at a funeral, for obvious reasons. | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 05:22 AM |
| 1 | Question: How to get at someone that just seems impossible.Two words experience infield. The guy who's surrounded by perfect 10s 24/7 doesn't get intimidated, becuase he is around them all the time. The only way to not be intimidated is realize that that 10 is just another girl. That said, infield experience trumps all. Do you think a guy who constantly gets 10s is in fear and intimidation by them? Rhetorical question. | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 02:31 AM |
| 1 | NEVER assume she is taken unless SHE says she is!What would you do in that situation where he hesitates? Do you Isolate immediately? Also, I kept number closing after the "I have a boyfriend" line and its worked out in my favor. What would you do if she drops that line, but still gives you her number and responds back the next day? | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 01:43 AM |
| 4 | Question: How to get at someone that just seems impossible.You get what you feel you deserve. If you feel that a girl is so far out of your reach, she is. If you didn't think that, she isn't. It's a concept of inner game called being Entitled. Read up on that, it should push you in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Are there any guide lines or simple unwritten rules that men can passively announce they are single in everyday activities?Why be passive?? You don't want to put yourself out there? I don't think you can sit back and be passive unless you're a celebrity or a natural. Having asked this question, I doubt you belong to one or the other category. The best way to convey that you're available is to do cold approach. | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 01:33 AM |
| 1 | NLP (neuro linguistic programming), does it work ?Not a fan of NLP but it does work. I suggest looking online. http://www.pickupguide.com/ should be a good start. | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 01:23 AM |
| 2 | The Eye contact ExperimentI have to agree with you, eye contact is something that you have to practice over time to convey the right message. If you're new to this concept, you have to make the distinction between death "staring" and confident eye contact. But to find the difference between the two, you have to practice this infield. The goal is to convey confidence with eye contact, not "staring" in a creepy way. | /r/seduction | 08/04/16 05:52 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "it feels like I haven't seen you in ages"?Now I see exactly where the problem is here. The fact is you're not ESCALATING and you're also not INTENTIONALLY going for the INSTANT DATE. There are some great posts on these topics. An essential part of this is to practice ISOLATING. Do an archive search. You're focusing on the wrong minute texts that don't mean much in the whole grand pickup. . I still stick with my above advice for your original post, keep that in mind. I also want a date with her. I'm the master of the outcome-independent … | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 10:23 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "it feels like I haven't seen you in ages"?You're not going to blow your chance of dating her just by one text. Especially given the fact that you already spent some time alone with her. Again don't overthink it. | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 09:56 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "it feels like I haven't seen you in ages"?You're overthinking it. Don't overthink and just do what feels right. I would have to agree with DirkDieGurke here. It's a response that suggest freedom from outcome and abundance. You're not needy, but still acknowledging her. | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How many days per week do you go out?Before I'd go at least once a week, but recently I've upped it to at least 2+ a week. This is because of constant advice that you'll learn faster and be more successful if you go out more often. This means playing nightgame as well as daygame for me. | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on girls with "boyfriends?"I'm interested in the other side of this and it is subjective morals. Let's assume these redditors were actually open new ideas and could look at it from different perspectives. What would you do in the situation that I presented? The set went well, she gave positive IOIs, said she had a BF, but still got the number otherwise. What would you do specifically to see where you could take it? | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 08:47 AM |
| 6 | The Eye contact ExperimentI think the idea of the whole "no smiling" action, was that he would wait until they smiled, because in the HB's mind, she's convinced that she made her own decision, and so she's going to be more "bought in" to her action and would make the interaction easier. But in contradiction, I did find in the past that people were more likely to stop and listen to you if you did initiate the smile because, my guess is it conveyed confidence and friendliness. (We all need to field test this to find which … | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 08:30 AM |
| 6 | The Eye contact ExperimentThe above seddit article is TAKEN FROM THE "RULES AND GUIDELINES" sidebar of Seddit, which means this is a core foundation in the beliefs of Seddit. You're new here, aren't you? Relative to you, no, I've read understood and internalized all of the foundational rules of Pickup as well as READ ALL GUIDES IN THE SIDEBAR. Notice how I said LOOKS PLAY A VERY MINUTE level in attraction. That doesn't disqualify it's worth, but it isn't significant enough either. LOL, no. Looks do matter. Anyone who's d… | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 08:11 AM |
| 6 | The Eye contact ExperimentI posted this because this guy obviously field tested it to the tee himself. Also I said I haven't EXTENSIVELY field tested this myself, but through SOME infield testing, I did get similar results. Unless you are very attractive I'm not particularly attractive. Or be very attractive. How can we take you seriously if you haven't even gotten past your own looks?? This is pickup 101 RULE 1: LOOKS DON't MATTER The whole beauty of pickup is the realization that looks pay a VERY MINUTE level in attrac… | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on girls with "boyfriends?"Agreed 100%. Only thing I'd say in my above Proposal, is that IT IS ALL I text and LEAVE IT AT THAT. I'm not saying I'm going to follow up trying to be a homewrecker, but would it be really so bad as to SUGGEST that if the girl was ever in a situation where you'd agree that its fair game, that I would then be available to pursue? | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on girls with "boyfriends?"How so? | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 07:12 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Tinder dateIf she doesn't respond at all, here's where you fucked up; After a while she came in to use my bathroom. Honestly i was getting so much push-back to my advances that I didn't want to try and push things any further. We walked outside and made out one more time, then she left. If she came into your place despite you failing the shit test, that means she's giving you another CHANCE. When you AFC'ed out and didn't persist and escalate, she made the distinction that you're just another AFC and there… | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 05:52 AM |
| 6 | The Eye contact ExperimentFirst off I'd like to mention that this isn't an original post, it was from an old pu forum. It was a field test that he ran to try to decode eye contact in terms of seduction. What he was trying to find essentially I think was COMPLIANCE and how it related to eye contact. Greater compliance was found when he didn't initiate the smile. Now I haven't extensively field tested this as much myself as he did, but I did find recently that this actually held true. I made eye contact with an HB walking … | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 05:24 AM |
| 0 | Opinions on girls with "boyfriends?"Obviously you CALIBRATE the situation. Which is a SKILL you PICK UP AFTER APPROACHING MANY. So many of these questions I feel like are not coming from people who actually do cold approach pickup. "Omg I actually have to evaluate each set based on experience because every situation is different?" YES!!! Now, I'm not talking about sets that are obviously not going well (hard NOs). I'm talking about the ones where she shows a significant amount of interest, but just mentions it to playfully deter y… | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on girls with "boyfriends?"All of those are valid points, but it could also be that it's a SHIT TEST. Put your shoes in a HB, if every guy hit on you, what would be the quickest and easiest way to deter them? Think about it. And I don't know where "plowing" was ever a term, but I think it is more about persistence. If you feel that there's zero attraction, and does tell you to fuck off (A.K.A. A HARD NO) then you FUCK OFF. But if she's giving some IOIs laughing, eye contact, questioning, etc. There's atleast something to … | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 04:51 AM |
| 0 | Girls sticking together in the clubsI went out solo game recently, and have found this to be true. What I did specifically (field tested), was I got to know a random group in the club (When I was in line). Later on, I asked several of them to wing me. This absolutely worked 100%. The fact that they "switch" is because the other friend might get jealous that she's not getting any attention. If you have a wing, problem solved. Try bringing in a wing. If no one you know has the balls to do it, meet someone who will. There's usually a… | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 04:37 AM |
| -2 | Opinions on girls with "boyfriends?"I've actually read up some similar posts to mine, and I'm slowly making up my mind about this. I think you are right, it wouldn't be right to pursue anyone who is taken (Although we all don't do what's "right" all the time.) Honest question though, what if you completely respect the relationship, but just give them an opportunity, (bear with me) THAT if sometime in the FUTURE that they ARE NOT TAKEN, you can be there. But ONLY in that condition. For example, if someone texted something like: "He… | /r/seduction | 07/04/16 04:22 AM |
| 1 | [Meta] Should we do a weekly check in/progress/accountability/short FR thread?This sounds like a great idea, I'm a beginner myself and am trying to track my progress. A weekly progress check would be great, so everyone knows where they're at and where they'd like to be. | /r/seduction | 24/02/16 04:50 AM |
| 1 | How to approach this girl in between classes?You laid out your plan already, do what feels right to YOU. A huge part of game is being comfortable with your own skin and being able to trust yourself in these situations. Don't overthink this, just do what feels right. Also, I would avoid having canned lines, just because they can backfire on you. A huge sticking point for me is not knowing what to do, or looking at the situation and overthinking things. You seem to already have a plan, so TRUST YOURSELF and do it! | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Questions to the whole communityI honestly was interested in these things and wanted to draw some things from other's experiences. I am in no way a marketing researcher and I do not have any interest in being one, just a redditor who's trying to improve his game. If its against the rules, that's that, but I disagree with "they are of no practical use to you." I think everyone has something to put forward, and there's always value in that. | /r/seduction | 02/02/16 11:30 PM |
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