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To a feminist, perfect equality means 100% of college grads are women, 100% of high paying jobs go to women, and 100% of criminal sentences are to men. Post secondary education is a perfect example of feminist hypocrisy in action, even when women start gaining an increasingly large advantage (more than 60% of grads are women in almost every developed western country), they’ll still push for more mandatory female placement, more scholarships and funding for women, and further make it more difficu…
/r/MensRights20/12/21 12:26 AM
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Shelters for male domestic abuse victims? Courts that don’t penalize males much harder? Lack of baby genital mutilation? Police that will take sexual assault, domestic abuse, or rape of males seriously? Universities that offer the same number of scholarships and placement favouritism/quotas specifically for males as females? Family courts that won’t strongly prefer giving custody of children to the mom? What magical area do you live in?
/r/MensRights03/12/21 03:21 PM
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Thank you bot, you are very kind.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 01:32 AM
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“Talk about your problems …unless your problems deal with any societal issue disproportionately affecting men, in which case you’re a misogynist for suggesting those exist and you have it easy, kill yourself.”
/r/MensRights02/12/21 01:28 AM
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HPV now causes more throat cancer in men than cervical cancer in women in most developed countries at this point because of this exact reason. Somehow governments collectively decided HPV and the consequences of it are only an issue for women. https://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/hpv-transmission-during-oral-sex-a-growing-cause-of-mouth-and-throat-cancer-201306046346
/r/MensRights09/11/21 11:04 PM
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ESPECIALLY in the natural resources industries like mining and oil and gas that are generally looked upon poorly by the public, they strongly push the hiring of female employees purely for the image boost. I recently conducted interviews (in Canada) for an entry level position at our company, and of the 10 applicants who made it to an interview, 2 were female. Before we even conducted the interviews my manager directly told me that they were hiring the 2 female applicants. That’s right, BEFORE t…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 10:01 PM
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https://www.victimsweek.gc.ca/res/r512.html Unfortunately it’s stats from my country, but I’m sure you’d find similar in the UK.
/r/PussyPass03/11/21 06:50 PM
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Also a fan of DuckDuckGo! Thank you!
/r/MensRights02/11/21 11:59 PM
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It’s essentially a convoluted form of victim blaming because the offender happens to share a trait with me. Similarly if I’m wearing a purple shirt, I’m not less of a victim of another person wearing a purple shirt stabs me. Even better for the male on male violence example, I cannot remove my ability to be male to be a less likely target (at least reasonably).
/r/PussyPass02/11/21 11:59 PM
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As an easy movement, let’s all just start off by boycotting Google for that last year because that is indeed absurd. Download Edge, Brave, or FireFox instead!
/r/MensRights02/11/21 10:38 PM
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Not only that, but men are substantially more likely to be attacked by a stranger than women are. The point I’ve seen feminists make is “at least men aren’t conditioned to be afraid alone at night”, like somehow being more afraid when walking alone is worse than actually being the victim of a violent crime.
/r/PussyPass02/11/21 07:17 PM
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100%. This is the same sort of energy that prompts society to see female teachers raping highschool boys as a super minor thing.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 09:27 PM
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But don’t worry, women will still remind you that they attempt suicide more frequently (even if it is to manipulate men) and so they are obviously the greater victims here.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 09:01 PM
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These videos are honestly pretty commonplace, but a girl physically attacking a guy repeatedly, with no intervention whatsoever from anyone watching it until he defends himself, where he is suddenly seen as the perpetrator. https://www.reddit.com/r/ActualPublicFreakouts/comments/qezfxd/how_dare_you_do_exactly_what_i_told_you_to_do/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/MensRights25/10/21 05:48 PM
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Women are recorded to attempt suicide more frequently still making them the biggest victim here… even though even when comparing similar methods of suicide (most common is pills), men still “successfully” commit suicide far more frequently. Not a nice topic to bring up but women tend to attempt suicide for attention or manipulation, whereas men do because they want to die. Definitely a women’s issue. Thanks media.
/r/MensRights25/10/21 04:47 AM
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I like how she’s self proclaimed “forever single”, like it’s some big mystery as to why that may be.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 05:03 PM
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It’s all about virtue signalling. Even if they don’t believe in what they’re outwardly supporting, they’re still gaining some social benefits from doing so. On that, I will personally say I’m a feminist whenever I’m speaking to someone who is a feminist, purely to not incite conflict and to slowly ease in criticisms of the movement and how it has separated from more traditional feminism and values of equality. In fact, even if you don’t support what current feminism is, you may as well identify …
/r/MensRights28/09/21 07:26 PM
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Not only in school, also in the entire justice system, but yes, the bias exists everywhere.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 08:14 PM
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The amount of times I’ve had a partner justify one-way controlling behaviour and double standards because “men will cheat even in happy relationships whenever they get an opportunity to, it’s genetic!” is a lot. I’m glad this myth is finally being attacked dispelled. People in the comment section were even heavily downvoting people who claimed this which feels like a win.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 04:15 PM
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Which is why I adore first and and second wave feminism as progressive social actions. Past that some narrative has developed that women are universally worse off that men in every situation, which quite obviously reduces the ability to deal with any issues disproportionately affecting men when the predominant narrative is “well they have vast privilege, therefore this issue doesn’t matter” As an edit, sorry you’re being downvoted, I appreciate you appearing and presenting opinions counter to th…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 07:34 PM
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That’s the issue I’m trying to draw attention to, feminism has a tendency to only give attention to women as victims, and even places them as victims in scenarios where men are being disproportionately affected. War is a good example. Men will literally be exclusively drafted, or will at least face societal expectations to participate in the military, yet the feminist narrative will claim women are the true victims of war because their “husbands and sons” are lost, completely ignoring those husb…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 07:01 PM
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Not necessarily referring to women in general, but feminism in general where even in situations where men are disproportionately being affected, they draw attention to and play up women as being the true victims. Such as war mostly victimizing women because “fathers and husbands are lost” completely ignoring that those fathers and husbands are actual people who have died, and not just utilities affecting women.
/r/MensRights19/08/21 06:57 PM
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Unfortunately I was from a very small school so they didn’t have any alternative options for teachers. In hindsight, I should have just opted for online classes, as difficult as that would have been. I’m very happy that worked out for you though! That’s a huge bonus to have your mother as an English teacher as a reference.
/r/MensRights10/08/21 08:18 PM
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Again, you’re arguing assuming we have a mutual understanding that these are all the result of choices, something which most people on the opposing side of this would not agree on. I will certainly talk about male disposability, but if someone completely rejects that something like the wage gap is the result of individual choices (even if society influenced those) and not just purely the result of society, attempting to change their mind on that will almost never be accepted, which means the ent…
/r/MensRights10/08/21 07:49 PM
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I agree with you fully in theory, but if someone is going to argue with me about how males earn more or reach higher points in their careers and won’t accept that that’s purely a result of their choices, well then yes, I’m absolutely going to throw every negative that comes with that from much higher death rates, much higher injury rates, less holiday time, less sick days taken, more hours worked per week, more overtime worked, less time spent with family, and higher reported levels of workplace…
/r/MensRights10/08/21 07:28 PM
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Statistically comparing the results of suicide attempts show that even when the same method is used, women have substantially higher proportions of failed suicide attempts. If you have any explanation other than a difference in intent, I’m very open to hearing it. If anything, men pick those methods because they will almost certainly work and many women avoid them because they can’t make an “attempt” without almost certainly ending their lives. https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10…
/r/MensRights10/08/21 06:35 PM
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There have been a few larger meta analyses comparing when the exact same methods are used (usually intentional overdose as it’s most common), the rate of “successful suicide” for men is a lot higher than women, which generally leads to a conclusion a difference in intent exists. The myth that the glaringly large difference in successful suicide attempts is the result of means chosen has been fully dispelled.
/r/MensRights10/08/21 06:10 PM
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A few comments from other studies I’ve seen, but first off there was a huge difference in success rates of therapy and counselling when the resources serving men were male vs when they were female. Most of the female professionals really can’t relate to issues felt by men, and worse yet even take the mentality of trying to convince them the issue doesn’t exist. Then in terms of suicide, there was a meta analysis comparing using the same methods of suicide, specifically with intentional overdose …
/r/MensRights10/08/21 06:07 PM
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An English teacher of mine was pretty outspoken that “girls are better writers, boys are not good at writing”, and as many of you may know the grading of most writing assignments is pretty damn subjective. I was from a fairly poor family and wanted to go to university, so the cost of that would either be split between scholarships or student debt. My last few years of school I really buckled down to try and get the best grades possible to earn several scholarships, but by far the biggest was a $…
/r/MensRights10/08/21 05:02 PM
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Ahhh yes, all of those pickup artists in the group of men who have essentially sworn off of women.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 05:23 AM
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Massively agree with this. Aside from these niche subreddits, I’ve posted on other social media platforms with simple awareness posts like “how can you help do something about this issue that disproportionately affects men” and that was enough for a few people to label me a misogynist, or worse terms. Even openly advocating for simple support and awareness of men’s issues as a man is enough to apparently mean someone hates women.
/r/MensRights03/08/21 04:10 PM
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Sadly a good portion of these ads are also from men seeking female only roommates from my experience, so sadly this is also perpetuated by a lot of dudes. Also from experience, most of the male roommates I’ve had have been genuinely respectful and clean in common areas, whereas every girl I’ve lived with who wasn’t my partner has been messy as hell, felt entitled to my food, and were overly dramatic around simple household interactions. At the very least, can the men on this sub not perpetuate t…
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:56 AM
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Landlords also discriminate against single males as well, but it’s incredibly difficult to prove that in what is essentially a blind process for tenant interviews.
/r/MensRights30/07/21 04:49 AM
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I would rather not get already biased courts involved in complex relationship issues. Cheating has come to encompass a wide range of actions from flirting, emotional cheating, touching, to full on sex, and many, many others. What exactly is cheating is dependant on the boundaries defined in each relationship, which are obviously not in the form of an official contractual agreement. That’s also working on the assumption that being in a relationship is always clear, when quite often, a lot of grey…
/r/MensRights28/07/21 11:12 PM
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What are you even propositioning? If someone is trying to touch your dick and you don’t want them to touch your dick, but they continue, you are a victim dude. That’s not buying into “toxic masculinity”, that’s standing up for yourself and saying you’re not okay with being fucking raped or sexually assaulted.
/r/MensRights21/07/21 04:17 AM
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Which is an excellent stance to take until another country doesn’t like your country or way of life, and decides you should all die.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/07/21 10:10 PM
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Always consider the gender reversed situation for a quick check. If you noticed your girlfriend was wet, would you feel entitled to have sex with her, even if she repeatedly refused? Then to take that even further, would you refuse to talk to her after because she didn’t consent? I’ve been in a similar situation in a very unhealthy relationship where my girlfriend at the time essentially needed sex at least once a day to feel validated. Whenever I wasn’t up for it, I was punished with verbal har…
/r/MensRights20/07/21 09:31 PM
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Okay, but what if you could avoid being forced to fight in a war because a woman was drafted before you?
/r/MensRights14/07/21 06:47 PM
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I’ve always felt they should be the same as a prenup and I kind of expect they will progress that way, where it’s kind of an awkward conversation, but in this day and age, it should be the standard. Sure it would suck feeling accused, but at the same time, she has nothing to worry about if her intentions are good.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/07/21 06:01 AM
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The entire feminist narrative relies on claiming things are the result of/associated with feminism whenever they are viewed as positive, and claiming it isn’t associated with feminism (or at least “true feminism”) whenever it is viewed as negative, regardless of whether or not the people or groups involved identify as feminists or not. It’s a great way to take credit for everything beneficial while immediately dismissing any harm or hate speech resulting from it.
/r/MensRights13/07/21 05:57 PM
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My favourite part is every time a country considers passing legislation to make their draft for women as well, every feminist organization in the country aggressively fights it. It’s funny how fast opinions change when you’re faced with actual equality.
/r/MensRights08/07/21 07:41 PM
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At least in Canada, I’ve actually seen cases of guys fighting and suing full “Women Only” gyms basically saying they’re discriminating and actually winning.
/r/MensRights08/07/21 05:55 PM
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I have serious concerns that most women’s response to women lying about being on contraception is “you should have expected that, it’s your fault”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:51 AM
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If you’re in a relationship or casual fwb, generally I can verify that my partner is taking birth control. If they lie to me and stop at some point, that is quite literally the same thing as removing a condom after placing it on. Agency over my own body. They’re placing faith in me. Your hypocrisy is disgusting and I’m glad everyone here but you can see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:34 PM
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This is the same logic as saying if a woman thinks there is a possibility of a man removing a condom (lying about intent to use agreed contraception), why wouldn’t she wear a dental dam if there was any doubt? Surely she would know the man is a bad person and should have expected him to do that. How can you possibly place blame on the person being lied to about contraception?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:19 PM
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I love all of the women here trying to normalize lying about birth control and blame men for believing their partners are using the contraception they say they are, when again, it is quite literally rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 08:10 PM
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Yes, she coerced him into sex under false pretences. This is rape. Just as stealthing (removing a condom after it was agreed to be used is) is also rape. The second however is usually done by young dudes who just want to feel raw sex, not used to baby trap women which makes it’s irrelevant to this conversation. You’re acting like frequency of occurrence of these has no relevance to the conversation. One is common (lying about birth control to baby trap a guy), one is almost unheard of (self sabo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:10 PM
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Have you ever had sex with a broken condom? If there’s a tiny hole or defect in it, it literally tears and falls off during sex. Most people can quite obviously feel when this happens. I don’t think guys use this ever, nor do I even think it would work. You’re just trying to deflect from a pretty common thing women do that guys don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:02 PM
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How is that not relevant? If an unintentional/unwanted pregnancy happens with an awful male, she can simply not have the child (at least in almost all of the developed world). If the same scenario happens to a man, he is fully trapped. If someone says there on birth control and they’re not, that’s essentially the same as a guy saying he’ll wear a condom and then removes it when she isn’t looking. Are you saying that’s her fault for trusting her partner to use the contraception they agreed upon? …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:53 PM
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For starters, men have absolutely no control of whether or not they wish to keep the child (her body, her choice). Secondly, men also can’t readily confirm partners are on birth control, and even though it’s technically rape, women lie about being on birth control and consequences are usually non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 06:38 PM
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Most women do not actively accept that this is an issue, or at least don’t have enough awareness to understand the root cause of it. If a less attractive woman gets pumped and dumped by high value man out of her league, she’ll believe he’s just a douchebag and then go for other high value men out of her league, and repeat this scenario not realizing these guys are out of her league because they still go on dates with her and give her attention, they just won’t enter a relationship with her becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:35 AM
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Read the top comment, it’s a nice summary seeing as you’ve chosen to argue this with motives unknown to me or anyone else in this community. https://www.reddit.com/r/news/comments/ob16pz/bill_cosbys_sex_assault_conviction_overturned_by/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/MensRights01/07/21 12:24 AM
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My sweet, dumb child; he quite literally admitted guilt in civil court with the stipulation the testimony couldn’t be used in future cases. Which somehow was still enough to get him convicted originally in criminal court even though it wasn’t supposed to be usable in future cases. That is hardly fucking innocence even if he escaped criminal prosecution.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 12:06 AM
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Did you read literally any of the actual article? He basically admitted guilt and A LOT of guilt in a past trial in return for the testimony not be used in future trials. Then it was. He escaped a conviction, but he almost certainly still drugged and raped those women. Again, MRA does not need to associate with this. This is not a win.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 11:21 PM
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I really don’t think this is something MRA should be celebrating. He is almost certainly guilty of his crimes, the case got thrown out because of an agreement he made several years back when he testified in a different case that basically said that testimony couldn’t be used against him. Let’s do the absolute fucking minimum we can to maintain some level of good PR and not associate ourselves with Bill Cosby please. A serial rapist who got out on a technicality is still a serial rapist. Also for…
/r/MensRights30/06/21 09:54 PM
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I’m a bodybuilder, but fairly frequently in pretty normal places. Probably have an instance about 1/3 of the times I go out in a public area either. Some are pretty gentle, others are pretty fucking sexually aggressive. Most unfortunately, almost all are from relatively older women.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 09:50 PM
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Well that’s appalling. Again at the least not used to defend adults, but damn. That seems so absurd anyone could think that’s remotely okay.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 08:00 PM
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Legitimately really interested to see the surrounding situation there, can you link the post? Edit: Never mind, found it, but it seems almost completely being used in regards to younger boys (which admittedly still isn’t great when it’s being used to excuse terrible behaviour). Trying to find the instance you’re referring to.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 06:27 PM
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Yep, I’m kind of amazed how much mainstream feminism has turned against any women who were not born biological women. I expect unreasonable stereotyping and general hate from feminism for existing as a man, but damn, they’ve decided to take the most vulnerable minority group of women there are and absolutely attack and demonize them.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 03:38 PM
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You’re in pretty much the only group that it’s generally acceptable to perpetuate negative stereotypes about in Western society. I’d assume eventually they start to collect.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 06:17 AM
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I mean, you started with an initial comment resorting to name calling, you should expect that in return in any community. And you’ve yet to provide any evidence or rationale behind your opinion. If anything you’ve done an excellent job to further prove that feminists continue to make baseless claims and are unable to support them as soon as anyone asks for any form of evidence. So thanks for contributing that at least.
/r/MensRights27/06/21 01:46 PM
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That’s really cool! Can you provide any examples of cases it was used in? Did it effectively reduce sentence or even lead to a non-conviction in these instances or was it just kind of used in passing as a last ditch effort to attempt to do so? Also it’s great you’re a man, but that’s not really needed, there’s a substantial amount of women in this community, as well as people identifying as feminists (men and women), we’re here to talk about your arguments and ideas, not attack your identity. Fi…
/r/MensRights27/06/21 07:04 AM
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Maybe it’s a regional thing, and I’ve only heard it from older generations. My grandmother would say it to my mother when my brother and I were small kids and we would mess around outside and get full of mud, dirt, and grass stains. My mom would understandably be upset, but my grandmother would make some attempt to defend us saying “boys will be boys”. How that got twisted into feminists thinking it’s a common phrase used to justify rape or sexual assault is beyond me. But then again, most of th…
/r/MensRights26/06/21 10:42 PM
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Yep, I’ve never heard this used outside of referring to horsing around in real life, yet somehow, every feminist on the internet thinks it’s used by general society and even court systems to just brush off rape. But I guess if you can’t find any actual issues or injustices, you just start making them up.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 10:33 PM
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Also a fun reminder, more suicide attempts are made by women, but that usually means the same people repeatedly making “suicide attempts”. Speaking from experience having dated 2 girls who were “suicidal” every time I attempted to break up with them; girls have a tendency to “attempt suicide” with no no intention to actually end it, but as way to get attention and sympathy, and manipulate people around them. Guys attempt suicide because life seems helpless and they actually want to end their lif…
/r/MensRights26/06/21 09:53 PM
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The justification I’ve seen is it’s “for the good of the child”, specifically used to justify rape victims who are forced to pay child support, but I’m sure it’s a similar justification to most of these instances. Good of the child trumps whatever is obviously fair and just. Basically “Yes the mother is a terrible person, and yes you obviously and rightfully shouldn’t have to accept any responsibility here as you’re literally a victim, however this kid needs a father/financial support and you’re…
/r/MensRights26/06/21 01:32 AM
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I don’t know who that is, but I provided a government source which is probably more reliable.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 02:17 AM
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Stats show that 5.9% of rape allegations are determined to be false. That’s a substantial number to begin with, but now let’s keep in mind that those are only the ones that are proven false, as in the accusers were caught absolutely red-handed either blatantly lying with evidence proving this or admitting it was a false claim, so the actual figure is likely much, much larger than this. False accusations are not that rare. People should absolutely have some doubt cast on their claims until substa…
/r/MensRights22/06/21 09:58 PM
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To further support this, remember the pushback to the #NotAllMen? As if creating a narrative where all men are perpetrators and all women are victims was not bad enough, the feminist movement could quite literally not accept that any men were innocent. Every man either was a rapist or supported rapists.
/r/MensRights22/06/21 08:18 PM
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The fact the vast majority of single women want to date, yet none of them can find relationships with guys they consider good enough probably means their standards are unreasonably high to justify their personal value in the current dating market. It’s basic economics.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/21 08:37 PM
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It’s assuming it’s feminism because they’re the ones who have taken the title of the movement for equality. Men’s Rights activists get actively attacked because “Why do we need MRAs when feminism is already about equality, so obviously Men’s Rights can’t be about equality because that’s what feminism does, it must be a hate group.” When you take responsibility as the social movement fighting for equality and claim to pursue equality regardless of which gender benefits, you can’t just turn a blin…
/r/MensRights21/06/21 06:48 PM
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Theoretically feminism is about equality. Yet I challenge you to look at the historical progress on literally any men’s issues that feminism has made, especially comparatively to the advantages it has produced for women. There’s an overriding belief that either men’s issues don’t exist or they are the result of the patriarchy and so don’t need anything done about them. While at the same time, feminism will bash any groups promoting men’s rights and call them hate groups, because why do men’s rig…
/r/MensRights19/06/21 10:58 PM
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Theoretically feminism is about equality. Yet I challenge you to look at the historical progress on literally any men’s issues that feminism has made, especially comparatively to the advantages it has produced for women. There’s an overriding belief that either men’s issues don’t exist or they are the result of the patriarchy and so don’t need anything done about them. While at the same time, feminism will bash any groups promoting men’s rights and call them hate groups, because why do men’s rig…
/r/MensRights19/06/21 10:57 PM
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I did indeed and I have corrected it, thank you! I was just blown away by that one. I don’t know how you can become twisted to the point where you see “man removing consent = he is a rapist”.
/r/MensRights18/06/21 05:12 PM
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I made a post on r/unpopularopinion about how guys can remove consent at any point regardless of their reasoning and be free of judgement/retaliation for doing so, even in regards to cases like not wanting to have sex because you don’t have correctly sized condoms available. I was permanently banned with no chance of appeal and called a incelling rapist in the ban. For saying that men should be able to remove consent without retaliation if they don’t want to wear poorly fitting condoms. Mainstre…
/r/MensRights18/06/21 04:48 PM
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Don’t worry kid, it’s even better in the workforce when you’re working with a team of primarily women, all of whom have gotten used to the privilege the education and hiring systems have afforded them, all the while assuming it’s actually equality. Then when told the work they’re delivering is below quality standards or far behind schedule, they will call you sexist and you will pick up the slack and work harder to cover what they don’t do, all while promotions will favour them as internal diver…
/r/MensRights18/06/21 06:01 AM
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Though I completely agree with you, that’s apparently not the game modern feminism wants to play. What really irks me is as soon as you start pointing out the glaring areas where men receive far worse outcomes (life expectancy, criminal sentence lengths, workplace injury frequency, murder victim rates, conviction rates, homelessness, addiction rates, custody, etc) suddenly that is no longer the fault of society or systematic oppression, suddenly it is men’s faults themselves and therefore no att…
/r/MensRights18/06/21 05:28 AM
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There is emotional connection and then there is literally valuing someone else’s life over your own. And thanks, it’s obviously too much of a coincidence all of them are no longer with us, I guess that means I get them back now?
/r/MensRights17/06/21 08:30 PM
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2 parents, 2 close friends, and a long term girlfriend. None were easy, but again, at no point did I wish I could take their place. I don’t think many people have a connection that strong to anyone that they would, and for the most part, I would assume it would be their children if they do.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 08:25 PM
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Call me selfish if you will, but I’ve had a great many loved ones die, and terrible as it is every time, I’ve yet to think I would rather it was me.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 07:59 PM
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The whole point of MGTOW is literally to avoid women, yet they get attacked pretty consistently because apparently that is also a terrible, unforgivable act when roles are reversed.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 03:23 PM
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They will further claim that women are most impacted by that because “they’re the ones losing fathers, husbands, and sons”, like that’s more damaging than actually dying in war somehow.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 03:20 PM
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Oh I’m definitely still a supporter of the movement, especially a lot more in social circles around me. I’m just cautious of what I post online publicly and attending any public rallies, as that’s where the more severe backlash and consequences will occur. It’s a slow, uphill battle. But I believe in the cause and I’m slowly convincing others to as well. Life doesn’t have to suck for men forever unless we let it.
/r/MensRights17/06/21 12:36 AM
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All it takes is a single news outlet to decide you’re a hate group (which they will because men’s rights is a dirty word and the feminist rhetoric controls popular media), regardless if you’re purely peacefully promoting men’s rights, and suddenly you’ve lost your job and been ostracized from your community.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 11:56 PM
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This is new and kind of brilliant. I will be stealing and overusing. Thank you.
/r/MensRights16/06/21 09:50 PM
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My god, I’m so sorry you experienced that, especially considering the pregnancy and resulting threats. I’ve had similar experiences reaction wise though. For some background, I turned down a girl who was pretty aggressively hitting on me at a party multiple times. I passed out some time later and woke up to a peeing feeling to find that I had just had sex with her because she literally undressed my unconscious body, stuck my unprotected penis inside of her, and rode me until I came inside of her…
/r/MensRights16/06/21 05:05 AM
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Slapping my ass, grabbing my crotch, even literally attempting to remove my clothing has been pretty frequent throughout my twenties. Then at the first moment of pushing any aggressive, drunk woman off of you for blatantly sexually assaulting you, you’re probably going to be met with a drink thrown or poured on you and a chorus of booing from her friends because how dare you reject a nice woman who just wanted to show interest in you.
/r/MensRights15/06/21 06:44 PM
4

In Canada, if you’re a man and call the police for domestic violence, the police are statistically still more likely to arrest you than your girlfriend/wife. I’m sure absolutely no assumptions as to guilt would be made and the police would be right on getting a forensic specialist out afterwards to examine bruising on her to adamantly defend the guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/06/21 05:20 AM
3

Sex for men in general is kind of a high pressure activity. You’re generally expected to do all of the work and just know how to pleasure your partner. If she doesn’t cum, it’s your fault. If she doesn’t get wet, it’s your fault. If you cum too early or go soft, it’s your fault. Then promoting unrealistic body and performance standards of men while publicly shaming those who don’t meet those standards is pretty much completely socially acceptable. General expectations for women are pretty much j…
/r/MensRights15/06/21 02:02 AM
3

I’ve had this argument on a feminists sub before and what it boiled down to is “lying about being on birth control is different than lying about/removing a condom because of the risk of STDs and the impacts that could have”, completely ignoring the fact that a child is a literal lifelong responsibility with huge time and financial consequences. They then take that and come to the conclusion that removing a condom is rape whereas blatantly lying about being on birth control is minor and the man s…
/r/MensRights14/06/21 06:59 PM
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Better yet, have you ever had a situation where you didn’t consent to doing something with a woman at a bar or a party, and she (and usually her friends) pretty much invalidate the fact you’re not interested in them because you’re not allowed to have standards? Then you’re attacked for having standards and not consenting? It’s been pretty damn frequent throughout my twenties.
/r/MensRights14/06/21 02:16 AM
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It’s direct victim blaming. Simple as that. Just because the person who murdered me shares some feature with myself, I do not feel any better or less impacted by being murdered. It’s like if a woman were raped at a festival by someone who was also at that festival, and someone responded with “Whelp why should I care, you were both at the festival, it’s obviously your fault this happened”. Except even slightly more ridiculous, because well, I didn’t choose to be a man.
/r/MensRights13/06/21 09:18 PM
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Yep, it’s literally as simple as that. There is literally no other group on earth that it is socially acceptable to stereotype and actively promote those stereotypes, but somehow feminism misses that point and sees it as perfectly acceptable to do to men. Then places blame on men when there is pushback to the universal stereotyping.
/r/MensRights11/06/21 05:42 AM
7

Worse yet, even when it is pretty blatantly obvious it’s still somehow viewed as harmless because men are physically stronger and so couldn’t possibly be at any real risk. I’ve had an extremely drunk, overweight girl at a bar grope me and attempt to literally rip my clothes off while her friends all laughed at it and encouraged her. But of course, I can easily overpower her if I had to so there’s no “real harm”. Not only was I disgusted, but my clothes were damaged in the process. Feminism is al…
/r/MensRights08/06/21 10:55 PM
3

A female MRA who makes reasonable educational content in a format that most of society can pretty effortlessly consume? Let’s not hate on her please. This is how issues gain traction.
/r/MensRights03/06/21 06:16 AM
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I always kind of questioned the BLM movement largely because it’s really only black men that are being killed by police at high rates. As a white male, you’re much more likely on a per encounter basis to be killed by a police officer than a black woman. Yet that would make it a men’s rights movement and society doesn’t like those.
/r/MensRights03/06/21 04:13 AM
7

Nobody loves to convict males with the hardest sentences possible while never seeing women as anything but innocent victims more than conservatives.
/r/MensRights02/06/21 04:51 AM
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I don’t know what your relationship with any of your family is, but if you’re even somewhat in contact, I would generally think to tell your family if your partner was rushed to the ER with a brain injury, even if at first it only appears to be a concussion. Even a minor concussion can leave someone home from work for a couple weeks. The fact she somehow just forgot seems incredibly suspicious. That’s why her entire story is being called into question. Not divulging something like that, at best,…
/r/MensRights02/06/21 04:01 AM
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