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thanks:)You did the research, I appreciate the thoughtful comments and responses you left too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:44 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:55 AM
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or go fuck yourself and you wont be a virgin anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:33 PM
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most people would be less hated if the were polite and honest. Come on, it's just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:30 PM
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covid isolation and the rise of the internet and social media probably affected this. If you're not going out as much, you not getting laid as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:29 PM
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Akatsuki coat wins kudos from me by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:26 PM
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so you want to be pegged basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:25 PM
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my gay friends and I say hi.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:23 PM
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hey don't knock on OP's talent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:23 PM
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We should just eat the rich on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:16 PM
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damn top tier, you put in the effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:14 PM
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Tbh I think the demographic here leans more redpill so you see more redpill posts during purge week. Also some don’t have time to be posting 24/7 memes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:24 PM
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Lol I often wonder how people have so much time to make memes and post on Reddit. Some of y’all are here 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:22 PM
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almost every woman you talk too, is still not a large enough and diverse sample size to represent most women. Also sleeping around isn't the same as cheating with your rapist. There is clearly an underlying trauma and mental health issue going on with this individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:17 AM
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just give them malfunctioning robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:06 AM
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insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:59 AM
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just get a sex doll. Also, why do you assume men have no self-control or innate morals? Sound like internalized misandry to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:56 AM
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sexbots are the obvi answer, then men won't have to sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:53 AM
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wait, do we actually have an award for purge posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:51 AM
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I thought I was in r/bookscirclejerk for a second here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:48 AM
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This is why I have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:44 AM
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Handsome chad cat. 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:43 AM
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Some people have mental health issues. That's why they do shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:42 AM
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I'm not a furry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:30 AM
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I fuck my life over every single day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:29 AM
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They can sex on demand but not from chads or the ideal guy. Plus women like the relationship process that’s why dating simulations are popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:47 AM
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Nah I’ll stroke my fembots and manbots while I appreciate both sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:44 AM
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There are more things that just status that attract women. And women can certainly be turned on by a computer, many people are attracted to fictional characters and anime dating sims as women. There are entire apps dedicated to the so called anime boyfriend experience. Of course sexbots wouldn’t be the same but they would still be just as possible for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:46 PM
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Nothing wrong with having robots. What’s wrong is the revenge fantasy. It’s not like women would not have bots of their own, or simply not care that someone they wouldn’t sleep with is sleeping with a bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:44 PM
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Lol I’m sure a reddit post will affect them that deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:42 PM
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And women everywhere appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:07 PM
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Fembot guy posts like every 5 minutes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:12 PM
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if fembots existed then manbots could exist too. 👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:34 PM
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She’s gonna gain sentience and come after op lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:30 PM
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I want a fembot and a manbot. Best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:30 PM
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Tbh if tech advanced enough to create fembots, manbots would be totally possible as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:24 PM
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Nah if female robots exists it’s only a matter of time before a ideal boyfriend robot. Why get mad when the women who want one can have their own robots?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:19 PM
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If there’s a fembot gf then women can get an ideal boyfriend robot. Since the technology would exist anyways. Why assume women wouldn’t have robots for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:18 PM
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I do think my standards tend to be skewed because in my community she would be called fat. Asian people are much harsher on weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:56 AM
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She's what is called skinny fat. Regular weight, but not toned and higher body fat percentage. The positions aren't great for showing off the body as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:55 AM
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She is at a healthy weight, but she's skinny fat. Aka she's not overweight but has more body fat and an untoned body. You can tell she doesn't work out. If she took a body fat test, she would have more body fat than non chubby people at her weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:54 AM
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People kinks have nothing to do with feminism at its core and people need to stop attributing kinks like cukchold to femenism. Rather than femenist this just seems like someone whose part of a specific kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:06 AM
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What the average red pill guy thinks the average feminist guy is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:12 AM
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I have no sympathy for people who can't spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:11 AM
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the way this is fake as fuck. sure, military wives cheat. But they won't post pictures of their goddam face and child while saying they need discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:10 AM
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Sorry but furries deserve to burn in eternal hell. I said what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:07 AM
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If you fuck a sex robot are you still a virgin or not? Because you loose your virginity when you sleep with another person, but do sex robots count as human? This is the real question.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:03 AM
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It could be both. There may be a wall in terms of attractiveness, and people can mature and value themselves over hooking up or a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:49 AM
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Hi, can I troll? Is that allowed during the purge? Anways, I hate everyone one of ya'll and watch your backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:42 AM
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I swear this has been posted before. Also you know why the date fell through, you were awkward and made strange comments. Gaining weight and loosing hair doesn’t help. Imyou need to work on you self confidence issues and your physical health.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:24 AM
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Q4A Favorite book? What genre do you like? Recently I've been into classics, especially Dickens. Right now I'm reading A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man. side note: I've been so much more into reading since changing my major from literature to psychology. Reading for pleasure is much more engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:19 AM
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seriously, seems like a recipe for agitation and arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:15 AM
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Framing yourself as a victim never works out-- regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:12 AM
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OP, are you talking about your experiences? It seems like you've experienced something like this because the thought process you describe is so incredibly specific. I will say, I've never been attracted to starting a relationship with someone who has different values and a different lifestyle. I like people who have similar hobbies, interests, and values. I don't like big social events and tend to be a homebody. So the people I've been with are similar because we can do what we like together. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:11 AM
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This is the answer. Also, I've never really been attracted to people with a different lifestyle/values. Different looks, ethnicity, upbringing-- yes? But we generally have common values and interests. I don't think most people want to be with someone who lives a different lifestyle, because part of a relationship is living or interacting together.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:07 AM
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However, this retort never made sense to me. Let's address the elephant in the room: common sense. Isn't it common sense that women are more traditional in poorer/more conservative cultures? I figured that fact would be no less reasonable than saying the earth is round. Saying poorer nations are more conserative is common sense. Saying they're more religious is common sense. Saying they're more racist/sexist/homphobic is a reasonable claim to make. Why is saying they have more traditional women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:04 AM
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It does when they don't live by their own red pill philosophy. Is it redpill to be on seeking arrangements?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:56 AM
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Generally when your comeback is "he's rich, so you loose", you've lost the argument or are jerking for the other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:53 AM
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nipples stiffen in cold weather, whether or not you have big tits or not lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:51 AM
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I do get jealous of small boobs because it seems much more convenient for every day. I don't have large breasts, but it is seriously annoying to have to wear a bra or pick clothes out based on support.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:50 AM
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What's funny is that skinny is back in fashion right now, and Kim Kardashian is reducing her overall size everywhere. People want smaller boobs, butts, and bodies right now. Seriously, the y2k style comeback proves the trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:49 AM
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Any influencer that sells therese "improvement" courses gets the damn side eye from me. All of them are trying to scam basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:46 AM
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tbh, fresh and fit are terrible examples of red pill, especially their whole exchange with aba and preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:45 AM
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????
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:09 PM
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As Ben Franklin once said, if you ignore the face it's all good. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Advice\_to\_a\_Friend\_on\_Choosing\_a\_Mistress
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:43 AM
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Depends on the country and culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:41 AM
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Q4A What's your opinion or take on NEETS? (Youth not in employment, education or training (NEET))
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:39 AM
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I can't keep up with the alts lol. I don't think I've been blocked by anyone and I haven't blocked anyone but I post like every 2-3 days, so I'm no the most active. I doubt anyone has hooked up lol And I'd say a solid amount of people here have been in a psych ward or received some type of psychiatric treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 04:37 AM
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No, and if you view the person you want to date as an enemy that's just a setup for an unhealthy relationship and perspective. I consider it more as who would suit my values the best. Of course, both people want something out of a relationship. If the things we want are similar, I think it is a good start for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:07 PM
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It sounds like both of you were immature and rude to each other. Purposefully trying to hurt each other with your comments. Who you surround yourself with affects your perception of the world and the experiences you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:04 PM
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Yeah raw materials are cheaper. I can buy dry rice and beans for a good price. The issue there is that you have to prepare the ingredients to make a meal. Junk food is already prepared so a lot of people find it convenient. Therefore ready made stuff often wins out over potatoes, which you have to cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:17 PM
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Junk food is addictive. The manufactures. Purposely test and create a product that will create a dopamine rush and make you want to eat more and more. Sure you can buy lettuce, but you have to cook or do something to make the lettuce a part of a meal. Ready made, addictive junk food would always win over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:12 PM
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I would say society as a whole has taken the bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:08 PM
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No. And I don’t think it’s healthy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:41 AM
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Tbh I like slapping my guys ass as well lol. It’s like showing affection plus showing your attracted? I dunno
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:39 AM
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For sure. We sit a lot more than we have ever used to. And with innovation we don’t need to do the physical labor our ancestors did. Washing clothes used to be a damn workout now it’s popping it in the machine etc. my grandma eats a ton but she’s very old fashioned and brooms the house by hand rather than using a vaccum, etc. probably why she’s slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:31 AM
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Holidays aren’t a great time for the waist line sigh. You’ll prob be fine once you go back to regular eating patterns s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:30 AM
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I think it’s the access and poverty as well as culture. I know food deserts are more common in a lot of southern states. If the only good you can acess is junk food, that’s a pretty much a setup for failure. It’s def a combination of issues, not just conservatism or liberalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:29 AM
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tbh you don’t have to orgasm for sex to be pleasurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:14 AM
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everyone doesn’t share the same morals. Casual sex may be gross to you, but others don’t find it repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:13 AM
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If it’s legalized, nothing wrong with it. I don’t care what two consenting adults are doing. I wouldn’t compare it to casual sex because money is involved. So it is a business. Casual sex has no strings attached like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:11 AM
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This has to do with class status. People who go to college and can afford it generally want to marry within their social bracket.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:08 AM
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Going to be honest here. Women are harsher to each other on looks. But I agree that mens beauty standards have become harsher recently. Especially with social media. I think beauty standards have gotten more extreme in general in the last couple of years because of filters and instagram. I find it crazy how a body type can go in and out of trend. How we can find a certain type repulsive only to love it the next year. Crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:04 AM
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High fructose corn syrup is the devil. Junk food is made to be addictive. Seriously all of us have been fucked over by these companies making additive filled food. Food addiction is real. I see so many people suffer from it. Grandma might have her leg amputated because of diabetes, but she is still ordering from McDonald’s in the goddam hospital. Door dash to the hospital. Like seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:54 AM
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Nah whenever I see well fed people I can’t help but think about how unhappy their organs must be. Excess Visceral fat means a shorter marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:50 AM
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Wow. Tbh the sub doesn’t represent regular demographics, most of us here are outliers. Ngl I don’t like chub at all. If you are overweight it’s a no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:48 AM
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Yes conservative states are by far more obese. Of course I know blue states like Cali the d to have higher acess to healthy food and a collective health forward perspective. Here in la people work out and eat vegan or low calorie food all the time. It’s pretty darn easy to acess and stay slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:39 AM
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Fat acceptance does have a connection with modern American feminism, however the rise in obesity is directly related the the rise of addictive fast and junk food. The reason people used to be slimmer is not because they were more conservative but because they didn’t have the same terrible and addictive junk food that we have aces to. Just comparing an American grocery store to a store in another country will show you why we are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:36 AM
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I don’t think the cause of this is feminism. I think the cause is the mass expansion of social media and internet culture. As well as the messaging that pop culture and media have been sending. I wouldn’t say feminism is the cause of the rise in obesity. Obesity is rising because of the overproduction of addictive junk food that is easily available and convenient. Hook up culture is perpetuates by dating apps and is shown in tv, movies, online etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:33 AM
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They both sell their bodies. Tbh, not much difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 01:04 AM
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What matters to me is we have similar interests, so probably someone in a science field like me-- especially involving healthcare. I feel like people outside of healthcare have a hard time understanding the stresses of healthcare, and so I'd want someone who can support and understand my passions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:58 AM
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You answered your own question. Sometimes, people are superficial. People can hype you up, then tear you down in the background. Happens all the time, to both sexes-- though women tend to hype there friends up more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:54 AM
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Dominant in what way? There's no point in forcing yourself to be something you're not, just because you think it'll make you happier. Also, just because a partner is more dominant doesn't mean they do all the leg work in a relationship. In a healthy relationship, both people would have input and split work. I'm more outgoing so I order ,and talk to the waiter, make any complaints if needed etc. when I'm with a shy person, but my partner would do the research and pick the restaurant based on what…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 06:50 AM
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I wasn’t working during the height of Covid, but I have heard from the other staff that it was horrible. We had an outbreak and it was tough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:44 AM
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This is why I cannot buy any sweets. I end up eating way too many calories. Plus with butter cookies just a little has a lot of cals
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:42 AM
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No family unfortunately, I think it’s shocking because this is my 2nd patient death I’ve experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:16 AM
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6months, just started. Still in college, so all the firsts and kinda surreal
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:03 AM
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Code blue, patient didn’t make it. Had to clean and dress him. It feels surreal. He was rude sometimes, but he had a good heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 03:53 AM
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On point. I think stereotypes like this are just harmful all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:16 PM
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I don’t understand why users equate sex with dating here. And seriously OP just clearly doesn’t understand gay dynamics, calling the bottom the equivalent of women and other shit like that. It’s funny when users talk about shit they clearly have no clue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 07:04 PM
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I don’t think you can compare homosexual sex to heterosexual sex like that. The bottom isn’t the “woman” because they are both guys. And the gay men I know don’t always exclusively bottom or top, a lot of people switch. Also anal isn’t the same a vaginal sex. I know people in the do more blowjobs, handjobs, mutual mastrubation than anal. Of course anal sex is more prevalent, but you don’t have to have anal sex, and the bottom isn’t the equivalent to a woman. But competition is fierce also in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:54 PM
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I think you mean moderately overweight. Obesity is not good even when on the lower ends of obesity. Being overweight isn’t good, but is much more manageable than obesity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:48 PM
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Fear is a gift. I know people aim to be fearless, but that's unrealistic. I have so so many fears. Plus healthy fear is imperative to living a healthy life. I'd worry more if someone didn't fear having to be changed/being total care in the hospital.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:40 AM
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Tbh it’s good that you’re afraid of having to be taken care of like that. It means you have a healthy outlook and want to be self-sufficient. Those patients always get better the fastest and are the favorites for sure, if they get ill at all. Take good care of yourself, it seriously pays off. And if you ever get sick, doctors and nurses will have a much easier time taking care of you. Just taking blood from an obese patient can be hard, not to mention scans and surgery, etc. I think healthcare w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:24 AM
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I say no obesity for both sexes because it kills and causes so many chronic conditions. It’s not men against obesity or women against obesity, it should be humanity against obesity. Because it is killing us, and lowering our quality of life drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 06:11 AM
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Def you get used to it. It’s gross the first couple of time, but you get used to it after seeing it everyday. Some stuff is grosser thought, like when a colostomy bag bursts—shit gets everywhere. Had a patient who would open his colostomy bag because he wanted to “release” the gas, but every single time it would start leaking. Also some dementia patients don’t remember what’s happening and will pull their catheter out and start bleeding everywhere. That was a real nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:59 AM
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Effexor works so well for me but the side effects are such a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:55 AM
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Man vyvanse works so well for me but the mania is real. I’m normally someone whose quiet but I started talking 100 miles per hour when I take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:53 AM
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Longest I’ve gone is 24hrs. I don’t do well without sleep. I fainted and started hallucinating, but I also forgot to take my meds which caused me to stay awake in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:52 AM
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Congrats! Hoping for a safe and healthy pregnancy!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:51 AM
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Once you empty a colostomy bag or watch someone insert a catheter, most things aren’t gross anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:44 AM
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Shit. I mean lbs lol. I’m a little sleep deprived. But we do get quite a few 200-300 lb patients. 200ish patients aren’t uncommon these days, and they can be super hard to take care of if they are total care. Some of them can’t even move their arms of legs to help you out a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:41 AM
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Hoyer lifts are a lifesaver but also damn annoying to use sometimes. The oldest patients are not too obese, like the 90+ crowd. But the majority of patients are overweight which makes care so much harder. We have to special order beds all the time. And if a patients falls and grabs you it could be career ending. The difference in quality of life is staggering. Recovery is so much harder and simply living is so much harder when obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 05:39 AM
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Trying to change a 300lb+ patient is a nightmare. Man, my wrists hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:16 AM
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Where to you live?!?!?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:16 AM
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Most people don’t want to know the kinky shit other people do in their private times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:22 AM
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Yeah I’m a couple hours away, probably why I didn’t feel it. I’m surprised thought, because I though I would lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:21 AM
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I mean posting your wife's nudes. Talk about the lifestyle all you want, but why post or reference them here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:01 AM
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I smell a fake story. Either way, he situation doesn't have much to do with being a career woman. Illness occurs regardless, and death takes people away without discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:50 AM
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ok, but there is literally a subreddit dedicated to the swinger lifestyle. Why not just post there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:47 AM
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It's strange because nudes don't really have anything to do with ppd, he could just post this stuff in another subreddit where people are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:43 AM
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ok, but why this subreddit? There are subreddits dedicated to posting this kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:43 AM
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Yes. Tech jobs aren't that attractive to the gp. But, yes, titles matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:16 AM
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Woke up to news about an earthquake in my area, but I didn't even feel it. supposedly 6.4 magnitudes. interesting. There's been more earthquakes in Cali recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:15 AM
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I'm confused. Why are you going to post your wife's boobs? What does it have to do with ppd? Guessing I'm missing a lot of context here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:13 AM
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Def. I have to stop responding because sometimes people are just wanting a fight or are too stuck in their views to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:27 AM
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Sounds beautiful. I like walking right after rainfall, the smell of wet concrete and wood is amazing. Petrichor I think it’s called. Late night walks are great too, quite and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:26 AM
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Looks painful damn
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:18 AM
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You’re kind to other users and pretty darn optimistic 😊 I like that about you 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:17 AM
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That’s a pretty good mindset imo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:16 AM
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Both is a good mix tbh. Too much optimism can be a flaw
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:16 AM
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Damn, y’all have opinions. I haven’t watched the sopranos though I know it’a popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:15 AM
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Girl, it’s ok. I get like that too.😅 you know the whole disassociating with reality because you’re caught thinking about something 🫣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:14 AM
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Let’s platonically disagree!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:09 AM
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Q4A Are you more of an optimist or a pessimist? Recently I’ve been more optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:09 AM
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I think it’s great to contemplate things. It’s fascinating but depressing sometimes. I’ve had a couple existential crises from it, but eventually I did accept that we don’t have answers for everything. Still, it’s totally fine to get in your head imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:07 AM
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Lol. I believe you’ll get rid of it. At the very least once we’re all dead it’ll be gone, decomposed with the rest of our human remains.💀
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:02 AM
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I love them! I know they are cliche but they make me motivated. What works, works ✔️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 07:00 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:59 AM
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To be honest I don’t even know who I am, so I don’t know how to fully be myself. It’s a conundrum for everyone I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:58 AM
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You only fail when you stop trying. My favorite quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:57 AM
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How do you win be avoiding? You’re not even a player on the board then, and you’re still unhappy. So it’s just lose lose. Being emotionally constipated isn’t healthy or attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:53 AM
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What is SMV? Sometimes posts here read like a different language, so many terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:52 AM
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People can want platonic interactions ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:50 AM
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Hit me with a synopsis. Man there so many shows people are recommending I can’t keep up!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:49 AM
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From what I know about bottom surgery, they can retain sensitivity because no major nerves are affected. Not sure how it relates to this case, but I imagine it would be a surgeon's perogative to maintain as much regular sensitivity and integrity as possible. There always is the chance of damage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:40 AM
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sparkling water is great. delish for sure, but nothing can beat diet cherry coke for me. It's my OTP. I seriously spend most of my grocery budget on diet soda.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:37 AM
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It's definitely a possibility. I tend to be more of an optimist though. Which I do like!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:35 AM
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Saroise Ronan is such a great actress!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:33 AM
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Not very interesting. But I bought some Zevia soda, because it's supposed to be healthier than regular diet coke. But seriously it tastes like shit. I wasted my money, and it doesn't even have caffeine!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:31 AM
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don't forget the sigma Margot. I think she'll pull off barbie very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:30 AM
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I mean giant plastic barbie margot, seriously such a vibe!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:29 AM
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Hope you understand sarcasm!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:28 AM
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for movie Barbie( I'm excited by the concept, but not sure how it will be executed), Oppenheimer is obviously going to be a must-watch, Avatar 2. I also want to watch some older shows and movies. My friends say breaking bad is a must-watch, so I'm thinking of starting that too. So many interesting things to watch, but not enough time sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:27 AM
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you're welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:23 AM
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I am looking forward to the new Barbie movie, starring Ryan Gosling and Margot Robbie. I think it could either be iconic or a mess. Either way, it'll be fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:07 AM
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Today is one of those days where I feel optimistic! My finals are over, and now I have time to volunteer and watch movies:) Honestly, I think this break will be very fulfilling for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:06 AM
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You have given up and that's why you are failing. No one can help you if you won't try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:02 AM
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You need to deal with your mental health issues first, especially the fact that you are frozen in the place where you had a mental breakdown. People aren't attracted to mental instability. You have given up and that's why you are failing. You only fail when you stop trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 06:01 AM
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No, it's just a joke. I don't actually hate everyone or myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:57 AM
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People shit on evolutionary psychology because it is vastly untestable and based on assumptions. Humans aren't monogamous by nature, but we aren't polygamous by nature either. We tend towards polygamy, but pair bonding is common. You can't define human mating systems that simply.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:22 AM
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"as a bi women I've never understood mens obsession with skinny girls with no shape..." The thin shaming here is evident. If you're not attracted to skinny women, that's fine. But you don't need to insult skinny women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:18 AM
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The main issue with evolutionary psychology is that it cannot be confirmed or falsified. Most of the field isn't testable in any way-- making me seriously doubt its validity. I haven't read the Evolution of Desire, however, so I cannot comment on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:15 AM
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Hypocrisy does make more sense in this case. OP's view seems just as black and white and the women OP is condemning.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:10 AM
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I find that our greatest strength is our capacity for reason. Sure we are influenced by instincts, but people are definitely able to control themselves and act based on reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:44 AM
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Looking forward to it. I agree. He has an interesting face. Not traditionally handsome, but definitely attractive. Similar to Benedict Cumberbatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:42 AM
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squid game. I wasn't a huge fan. I will try boardwalk empire out though. Thanks for the recommendation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:41 AM
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Thinking of watching peaky blinders. I heard it's one of the best shows on Netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:51 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:44 AM
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I hate myself and I hate all women. CMV. we are clearly all numbskuls who can't think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:44 AM
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Cognitive dissonance. Happens with most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:43 AM
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saying you're the only one your age that's not cringe, seems pretty cringe to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:03 AM
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chimpanzees just share an ancestor with us, they aren't our ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:02 AM
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sure sexual selection affected evolution, but by far environmental factors and natural selection are the single largest driver of evolution. It's the entire reason we developed bipedal locomotion, our brain grew, and we evolved to be more gracile, etc. Sexual selection is just one form of natural selection that affected hominins over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:00 AM
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Barbara Kingsolver is quickly becoming my favorite author. I'm hyped to read Demon Copperhead, but first I have to re-read David Copperfield.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:54 AM
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I usually get downvotes when I disagree, or give a different opinion. I don't downvote others, especially since the rules say not to downvote, but it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:26 AM
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there are many other things that can cause socializing issues. I still think people do go undiagnosed especially if they are high functioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:38 AM
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Can’t tell us you have a secret and not spill! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:35 AM
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Yeah, having someone intrude on my routines would make me unhappy. I don’t like being lonely but it’s also hard to find someone at the same time. Still I do think in the future I want a relationship, just that we would have to understand and be able to work together. Not sure how realistic that is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:34 AM
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I def think the views on this subreddit are more extreme and don’t represent the norm. It also makes sense that people on the spectrum may find online interacting easier the in person. That’s how it is for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:32 AM
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Sometimes tho I want to go back to being a kid when I didn’t give a fuck about social norms and just fixated on whatever I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:27 AM
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Definitely read more about it. Diagnosis is harder to get, but there are resources for dealing with it. For example I like headphones in public, because noise bothers me and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:27 AM
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Yeah social skill are extreme important but something people have to work on. I know how to socialize but it’s exhausting for me if that makes sense. It’s like acting in a sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:26 AM
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I used to be like that when younger. I learned how to answer people from observing others lol. Especially since when you are quite people like to point it out and ask why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:24 AM
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I can relate on acting like others to deal with social situations. When I was younger I didn’t get social clues at all, though now I understand them from experience. Still I have to actively act when interacting socially and it gets exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:23 AM
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Autism spectrum is very real, and many high functioning people go undiagnosed but suffer some social and relationship problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 02:20 AM
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Q4A How many of ya'll are on the spectrum? I wonder how much this affects us in dating and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:48 AM
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I wonder how many of us here are on the spectrum? I can say, without a doubt, that it makes it much harder to be successful socially and in relationships. I personally have a very strict routine that I abide by, and so adding new people into my routine is something I find incredibly difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 12:47 AM
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This is a copypasta of op's comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 08:46 PM
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models traditionally have all these features. And these features age better. tbh, as long as you style yourself and work with their features I think they will be fine. maybe not attractive to some men, but there are people out there who will be into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:18 PM
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And you can't spell, and ramble in incoherent paragraphs without indentation. Objectively, you aren't worth that much intellectually. idgaf how much that offends you, it is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:11 PM
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Telling a woman she doesn't deserve a young, hot, man is essentially telling her that her value is less than a full male. Men are objectively less attractive the older they get. Not only do most men find their partners in their mid-20s after multiple failed relationships probably with girls mostly more attractive than themselves. so men, why am I not worth a young man? I mean especially considering I'm the one with more desirable traits for a relationship. Men are the ones that want a relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:09 PM
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tbh, I personally prefer your mom's type of communication. My mom calls me at the same time every day, and I like it. Face time but we talk while continuing whatever we were doing before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:02 PM
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damn. hopefully, you can retake it. It honestly isn't right, how much of our grade is affected by finals sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 07:01 PM
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Man I’ve had nightmares about this. So far I’ve been good, but sometimes I stay up late to study and wonder if I don’t wake up on time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:54 PM
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Look it’s a hoax because the company and the scientist don’t even exist. Sure it is a feasible idea to make fake wombs, then you should edit the title and make it about that rather than a fake company.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:49 PM
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See I have a high libido as well so in general I think if I were in a relationship we would both meet each others need.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:44 PM
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Makes sense, so similarly I wouldn’t want my boyfriend looking and OF when we are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:42 PM
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No Aldi in my state sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:18 AM
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ngl, he's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:04 AM
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lesbians don't put out that easily lol. but there are some ig
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:32 AM
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Innate human rights are more of a philosophical debate, and honestly not one I know enough about or have read enough on to adequately discuss. I do agree that they are socially constructed, so within the current social structure, sex isn't a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:26 AM
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there is research into the growing embryos in labs, though the furthest it has ever gotten is 13 days because they are usually terminated at 14 days per the 14-day rule. I haven't seen any research into a machine like this, because embryos are microscopic. They are literally grown on a petri dish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:09 AM
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It's not, though the idea is not bad. https://www.reddit.com/r/worldbuilding/comments/zgursc/ectolife\_the\_worlds\_first\_artificial\_womb\_facility/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:36 AM
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Then link your sources. The source linked here, in the post, is not reputable and is based on a FAKE video. The scientist they mention isn't even real! Sure, it is possible to make artificial wombs. But ethically, and practically it's quite difficult to get it to the general public. How do you even do human trials on this? I don't see it happening for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:28 AM
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News sources want the most sensational headlines, even if they are fake. This is why I read boring old NPR and AP because at the very least they cite real sources. In the future, there will probably be fake wombs, but people vastly underestimate how hard it is to get this technology out there. Not to mention, the ethical questions. How do you do human trials for a fake womb-- especially if there is failure? Right now labs terminate human embryos after 14 days, though it is getting changed. Still…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:25 AM
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The artificial womb stuff is fake. https://www.reddit.com/r/worldbuilding/comments/zgursc/ectolife_the_worlds_first_artificial_womb_facility/ crazy how news sources are running with it like its real, when it's literally a concept video from the worldbuilding subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:15 AM
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It's fake. editors in the worldbuilding subreddit made it, and news sources ran with the story without checking. goes to show how fact checking matters. And I was wondering how they got over the 14-day law that makes labs terminate embryos before 14 days. https://www.reddit.com/r/worldbuilding/comments/zgursc/ectolife\_the\_worlds\_first\_artificial\_womb\_facility/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:09 AM
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Ok, this is a hoax. Found to original video from the worldbuilding reddit, and news source just picked it up without research. https://www.reddit.com/r/worldbuilding/comments/zgursc/ectolife\_the\_worlds\_first\_artificial\_womb\_facility/
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:07 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/worldbuilding/comments/zgursc/ectolife_the_worlds_first_artificial_womb_facility/ This is fake.The worldbuilding subreddit was the source. News sources just ran with it. You literally can't grow a human embryo past 14 days in a lab, so how could they have made the technology? No legitimate news source is reporting on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 04:02 AM
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Don't know how viable this is yet, and it will cause a lot of legal and ethical questions-- especially in the testing phase. How do you ethically test this? There's also a law in place that doesn't allow human embryos to develop past 14 days in labs. It's no longer a hard rule, but most labs follow it. I would say this is more sensationalism right now, then viable technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:24 AM
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yes, people online are more extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 03:00 AM
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I know people watch porn, but I would be put out if they were tipping or buying videos to get sexual satisfaction when we were in a relationship. It would certainly be an issue for me, because that is a form of a "relationship", even if it's just online. Question, would you be fine with your girlfriend spending money and buying videos from a male OF creator?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 02:57 AM
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make sure to prep friend, no need to tear your vag.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:59 AM
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Yep, I love visiting my parents in the suburbs but you can't get around without a car sigh. Living in the wilderness sounds beautiful, but not that travel friendly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:57 AM
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looks like a ballsack to me 🤷‍♀️ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:52 AM
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Thai food rocks ngl. too bad for your nsa agent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:50 AM
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Of course, my fellow female human. Let's start our plans for female world domination. What do you want to put on the agenda?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:43 AM
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I hate driving and traffic. My dream is to live in a commuter-friendly city! TT
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:42 AM
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emoticons, because sometimes I don't get them. But winking cat gifs, are the most attractive of all. Just being unbiased here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:41 AM
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damn, #freethenip
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:40 AM
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it's ok, you can always get a pussycat and ppl will bother you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:38 AM
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heyy! I;m glad to see you, dw
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:36 AM
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a pillow fight in our underwear like what totally happens at sleepovers lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:35 AM
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hmmm....seems like you're easy if my Reddit profile pixels are enough to get you going lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:34 AM
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you're back! lol, I was bummed you deleted your old account.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:26 AM
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There are some creepy af users, sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:17 AM
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Damn, you have to type them up! Seriously, I've experienced more in the 6 months I've worked at this rehab facility than all my life lol. Your dad must have seen shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:16 AM
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man, you are better at dealing with that shit than me. People are wild over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:14 AM
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wait really? Seriously, if I did DMS I would message you cuz you're cool to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:14 AM
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I do feel like I miss out on the messages from users who I would care to reply to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:05 AM
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Im a dm prude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:03 AM
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Yeah, tbh women and users of certain subs just tend to get ore dms. I occasionally post on some eating disorder recovery subs, and people with fetishes would start sending users messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:02 AM
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In reality, we are all out own biggest haters lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 01:00 AM
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Don't worry, I'm pretty much the same. I used to keep my messages open on other forums, but strangers on the internet just don't deserve that level of access. Also, too many creepy guys send messages, and mass messages, so better safe than sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:59 AM
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The hours and physical labor suck. Some of these patients are total care-- meaning they are in diapers-- and they are 300 pounds. Imagine changing a 300-pound adult. I work as a CNA, so I literally do that. Healthcare is my passion, and I need clinical experience for med school. But every day I get more disillusioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:58 AM
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That's true, our budget is ridiculous. I'm also for bringing back long-term psychiatric wards because at the nursing/rehab facility I work we get shafted with patients who need serious mental health care all the time because they have no space elsewhere. Some of them are homeless, and the hold is only 72 hours, so they get dumped back and come back again the next week. The addicts are even harder to take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:55 AM
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true, most of us who end up here are weird ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:51 AM
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Question for Everyone. Do you keep you messages open or closed? and why? I keep mine closed because I don't like getting messages in general. Also users can send cruel of creepy messages, so I prefer to simply get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:49 AM
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I'm always thinking about the healthcare system in America-- it's just so fucked. But is it realistic to achieve some sort of universal healthcare We already, don't have enough doctors and nurses? I often doubt my decision to apply for med school, because of the cost both in money and physical/mental labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:36 AM
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you shouldn't drink only if you drink too much, or have a medical condition. If not, enjoy in moderation. I doubt you are that weird lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:32 AM
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There are. That's why government and law exist. The social contract is where we give up some of our freedoms, in return for certain protection of our rights. There is the abuse of this system, but by in large humans have created some form of governance to protect their rights-- again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:26 AM
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Aren't you supposed to wear sunglasses after getting them dilated? I don't think that would be too practical lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:23 AM
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Yep, consensual sex is consensual sex. It's not realistic for sex work to ever go away, and people pay for sex all the time. As long as they have the other qualities I look for in a partner, I wouldn't be opposed. I'm into BDSM, and ppl like to use pros, so it wouldn't stop me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:14 AM
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I don't mind. Of course, that shouldn't happen while we are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:11 AM
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It isn't abusive to deny sex, because sex isn't a human right. The freedom to have sex is a human right, but not guarantee you will get sex-- even in a marriage. It may feel like "torture", but we all know torture is much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:06 AM
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Sure, but not nearly enough to constitute actual abuse-- emotionally or physically. guaranteed sex isn't a human right.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 12:03 AM
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Inflation sucks. The price of groceries is ridiculous. I'm financially fine, but it's tough to see how much more I'm paying compared to before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:59 PM
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Materialism. People who buy more than they can afford and need. Also the valley girl accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 11:58 PM
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The equivalent is a Husband getting fat. Extra boy fat is not attractive to me, and would lower attraction considerably.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 08:00 PM
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True, in China the one-child policy led to parents abandoning female children. Tons of Asian and African communities see female children as a burden since they won't carry the family name and abandon and kill them off. In India, they had to ban doctors from telling couples the sex of their child, during ultrasounds, because couples would get an abortion if it was a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:52 PM
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I simply want a partner whom I can trust and support for the rest of my life. If a guy says so, than clearly we have different goals in life, so it may not work out in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:49 PM
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When you feel sad, remember, I hate all of you equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:47 PM
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Barbara Kingsolver is by far my favorite author of all time. She wrote on of my favorite books-- The Poisonwood Bible. I like classics as well, especially Dickens and Wilde. Though my favorite book of all time has to be The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:43 PM
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Yeah, I don't care if you want to stay fat. Not my problem. Losing weight shouldn't be about getting other people, it should be for health anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:41 PM
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Books, its fun since I used to be a lit major before becoming a stem major, so most of my friends are from before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:33 AM
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The furries are calling you. accept your nature I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:32 AM
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The average person doesn't really think about sex as power or the other terms and theories people here discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 02:01 AM
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Sure, there are women who are upset for this reason. I don't think most women care about men they don't want sleeping with sex workers, because why would you care about what someone you don't care for is doing? But, they probably care if someone they do want is getting sex from a sex worker. However, there are so many other reasons people are against sex work, including society looking down on it in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:58 AM
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Yes, the female and male brains have some structural differences, but the majority of that is an account of the fact that women are smaller than men-- so brain size differs as well. Women actually tend to have larger prefrontal cortexes than men, the part of the brain responsible for regulations. But we largely have the same capabilities. https://stanmed.stanford.edu/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/medicine-and-dentistry/prefrontal-cortex#:~:text=Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:51 AM
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You'll don't even know, the Hollywood stars have full-on sex parties and swinger meetups. Politicians are even wilder. If you think they are normal, think again. They all sleep together and pay to keep it quiet. Just because one star gets exposed, don't think they are the outliers. This shit it pretty darn normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:43 AM
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Take zinc , vit D, and those vit c packets you can put into water as supplements, theraflu or mucinex is good for symptoms, and rest! I've gotten exposed to so much covid, especially since we just had an outbreak at the facility, and by doing all that I've been fine. Symptoms are mild for the boosted and those who got the bivalent, especially since they cover the newer covid strains.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:38 AM
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Yep. As long as you find the other person attractive and they also find you attractive that's good enough. They don't have to be your ideal physical type. Then what matters more is if you have similar values and goals and if you could live with and understand each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:28 AM
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See looks fade. So In the long run, what matters is that both of them like and trust each other, while finding each other attractive. If someone got with a below-average person while they were above average in looks, there is probably a reason-- regardless of male or female. So it's more about a person's values because if you both have similar values and understand each other it is so much easier to have a long-term relationship. Thus, I don't think one is better than the other because we know n…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:28 AM
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Yep. Exposure therapy is one of the most effective for treating anxieties. I used to be extremely claustrophobic, so my therapist would have me continuously ride elevators while holding my breath and counting. It's really made a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:24 AM
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tbh, I don't know. I've only been on this sub for a couple of weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 08:03 PM
1

no, I have waxybut
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:34 PM
1

Yes I’m shallow. Yes I know women and men suck. No one is worth it. Loosing weight is good for your health, staying fat is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:47 PM
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No, you all deserve to be hated equally. I’m a true egalitarian 😡😘
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:35 PM
2

I don't find it disturbing because I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:23 PM
1

^this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:19 PM
2

flops. here, there, everywhere 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:13 PM
0

why 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:12 PM
1

you have to be there to find someone. simple. but depressed people are everywhere as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:11 PM
1

No, I just feel a need to hate more 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:10 PM
1

No, we're the losers 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:10 PM
2

I hate my wife and my husband 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:09 PM
1

no 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:08 PM
2

In the psych ward. Get there first tho. 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:07 PM
1

Huh you are too optimistic for this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:04 PM
1

I hate you and eveyone so nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:02 PM
1

It’s because you can’t attract a better model.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:02 PM
1

Yep women here have no worth. Thanks for reminding me why I hate everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:01 PM
1

Interesting…..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:59 PM
1

Nah I make more breaking doors open so we can grab a dead person off the toilet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:57 PM
1

Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:55 PM
1

How many people work hard enough to gain smarts?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:54 PM
1

I’m in medicine and I certainly know work hard. You can treat dying people then since men are so superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:51 PM
1

Pay for a hooker and tell them to shut up. It’s simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:49 PM
2

I think sex tourism in exploitative regardless of gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:44 PM
2

Savior complex. Plus irl you can’t say all the shit, because people will think your off your rocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:40 PM
2

A user here told me they think the guys here don’t actually believ shit that they say. Especially the misogynistic stuff like a woman’s only worth is their vag. Because as soon as a woman agrees they start backtracking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:33 PM
1

Don’t worry your hand already did. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:30 PM
2

Depends on if I’m online or not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:24 PM
1

Interesting! The bit about humor is something I didn’t know. I do know Brit’s tend to be more sarcastic tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:24 PM
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Interesting. Personally I think it’s my vag that corrupted me. Because after having periods I decided the world sucks and everything in it should burn 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:23 PM
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Definitely, people consume so much more than they need. I like to track all my purchases, because online shopping is really easy to get addicted to. But when I track all the money and pay with cash it’s much easier to stay within my budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:21 PM
2

That is the worst, and when I like to bring in quotes directly from the paper and bold them. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:20 PM
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Oh I know money buys happiness when you have bills to pay. If we adjust for inflation the amount of money should be in the 100k. Which is a good amount of money imo. What I mean is that people can be happy with a combined income of that much money. There aren’t many men or women who make above 100k, so it’s ridiculous to only looks for people making that much money if you want to be in a relationship, when a guy making 60k with a solid job could also, with combined income, provide a happy and sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:18 PM
1

Interesting. I definitely think being fit and decent looking helps, in every department.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:14 PM
1

I do agree about other places have less socially isolating environments. And religion. Since religion tends to affect dating and marriage as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:10 PM
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Tbh I just don’t see fat people in there later 80s and 90s. There are definitely tons of fat 60 to 70 year olds and it’s really tough to care for them. I pulled my back helping a patient into her wheelchair and it still bothers me. I do think I exaggerated too much, but the oldest folks tend not to be very fat or are at home like you pointed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:06 PM
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I don’t think they don’t apply, I simply think they affect different cultures differently and that there are others issues that also come up that other cultures may not experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:00 PM
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I agree. Whoever can name call the best should automatically win 🥇
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:52 AM
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Don’t worry I’m being sarcastic. I actually started using Reddit this year, though I had a profile before, so I didn’t know profiles didn’t show up on old Reddit. That’s interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:43 AM
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I said it helps in my community and culture, because people will literally ask you. It’s a saying we have. Not everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:41 AM
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Overweight and fat are the same thing to me, unless it’s muscles. In the Asia the bmi standard are even harsher, ppl in America tend the glaze over the fact that overweight people here would be considered fat back in the day and in other countries. People just got used to seeing bigger people. Simply put if you are overweight or have high body fat, you are fat. Doesn’t mean you don’t deserve respect, but extra weight is always a toll on the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:38 AM
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Depends on whether you value companion ship when you get older. It’s easy when your young and healthy, but as you become older and sicker people value relationships and the comfort they bring. Friend and family can help, but romantic intimacy is a different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:33 AM
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I’m just playing to my strengths. People have to pick a stance. Either we only have sex to offer and thus becomes hoes or we have worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:31 AM
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The majority of people here should stop cherry picking and interpreting research and statistics or spout on about evolution— including me. It is a crime to science.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:28 AM
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Childhood obesity is a serious issue in America. 66 percent of American are overweight that’s the majority of people. Let me tell you as someone who works at a nursing home the people in their 80s and 90s eat pretty healthy and are slim on average. You don’t get that old without good eating habits. The overweight ones die faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:23 AM
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Most people are fat and overweight in America. Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:17 AM
1

It’s good you didn’t invest in crypto. Stayed safe from ftx. Keep yourself safe in index funds the market wins more than the human mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:10 AM
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No I’m a woman. I’ve never said I was a man? Or represents myself as one? My avatar is literally female? And I comment on r/duexmoi and r/cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:05 AM
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so most men haven't given up, becuase intelligence is not the majority on the bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:03 AM
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Men and women are all born equally pure, then human nature corrupts both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:01 AM
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Nah, men still trying to get laid. Maybe some gave up, but I don't see that outside of this sub. Ig you could say most men here have given up?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:52 AM
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Women suck, men, suck, and everyone sucks. This is the true pill. Hate everyone equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:50 AM
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you're being too nice. when I'm being sarcastic. please stop trying to revive my dead heart. thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:40 AM
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no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:35 AM
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nah, I'm really a girl. I post too much in r/EDAnonymous and r/duexmoi not to be. I'm just adding on the other commenters' argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:32 AM
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no u/WaxyButt is my fellow useless female. go get your own, and leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:29 AM
1

I know. I hate him equally too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:25 AM
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Don't get too excited. Hate everyone like I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:20 AM
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I fuck femboys, so I win. why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:18 AM
1

I still hate you, like I hate everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:16 AM
1

so basically not conventionally attractive. but average. Well good luck ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:15 AM
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yes, so create female robots with artificial wombs who can interact with ya'll. I see what ppl be doing to SIRI...... Then kill us off, the universe is pointless and chaotic anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:13 AM
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true egalitarian moment here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:11 AM
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Yeah, I hate everyone equally. Makes interacting with people excruciating all the time. That's why I take my antidepressants and kill my sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:11 AM
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your warm wet hole still has worth then!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:10 AM
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"why are you flipping me off" because I hate all of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:09 AM
2

I fell like I'm missing info here. Why did the city of NYC block you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:08 AM
2

fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:06 AM
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Nah you having a Y chromosome means you are more likely to inherit genetic disorders. Women stay carriers, ya'll stay color blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:03 AM
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Depends on how good looking you are. If you're ugly and not rich, well good luck ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:00 AM
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It's called antidepressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:58 AM
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Periods suck, giving birth sucks, and menopause sucks. Life sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:58 AM
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I still hate all of you equally. Go fucks yourselves, and no one here will be a virgin anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:57 AM
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men are females who never got the chance to be fully developed before androgens kicked. You'll are inferior women with useless nipples.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:54 AM
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But if you have zero worth, you shouldn't be around children?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:49 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 05:49 AM
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I suppose we would have to adjust for inflation. But I think with combined income, people could reach a decent living standard. There are not many jobs paying 100K out there unless you are in tech or medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:58 AM
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Interesting. So it's a purposeful play? I guess you're playing the devil's advocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:40 AM
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Key here is SOME men, not ALL men. Also, some subreddits like this one tend to attract more people with this type of perspective, but that doesn't mean the average guy is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:26 AM
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What's your alternative method? I think humans tend to have a form of dating even in cultured where arranged marriage is common. People will still go out together, and get to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:24 AM
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Always remember, start shit get hit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:18 AM
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after 75K income, more money doesn't make people happier. So enough money is better. Not more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:15 AM
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People have become materialist, and want to live an expensive lifestyle without understanding that the majority of people earn a regular income. There are not many 6 figure men, but people always aspire to be the exception. Studies show that after 70-75k combined income, happiness doesn't really increase. So what matters is that both of you make enough money together to live a decent life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:13 AM
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It's very interesting. I like staying in hotels, but I have to admit it's nice visiting family especially since they cook the best food when visitors come lol. And it's a support system, if anything ever happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:11 AM
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The people here are outliers, please don't base your entire view of people off of this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:06 AM
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Men and women aren't smarter than each other. We both basically have the same capacity for intelligence. Men are physically stronger yes, and do have other biological advantages. We can absolutely have equal rights. Why do you think men only see women as sexual objects? There are plenty of guys who have an insightful conversations with me on here, even though we may disagree. It's strange to reduce people to such singular motivations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:05 AM
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I disagree, I think women and men both need each other. It's not cool to be like men are suffering, nice. Or that all women are good for is sex, nice. people want emotional connections too. I want the person I'm in a relationship with to be open with me, and for me to be able to confide in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:01 AM
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I do think it would be interesting to see how other countries and cultures fare in dating and marriage in comparison to the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:57 AM
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Yep, my family is similar with the extended family setting you up too. It's a family business to set up marriages lol. I'm the only female child of my family's current generation, so it puts even more pressure because my uncles and family would have to approve for the least friction sigh--and my mom has 8 siblings. But I know they will support me if I need anything, which is amazing. Especially since my mom's siblings have spread around the world. So whenever we visit another country, we have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:28 AM
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In my community, it's very normal to have an arranged marriage. My cousins got arranged marriages, and they are pretty average-looking people. What matters most in those setting up those relationships is a job, house, car. People will literally post their qualifications while looking for a marriage partner. Saying I graduated from this university, I work at this company, I have this house, I have a car, my family originated from this village etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:26 AM
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I'm first generation American, so my parents immigrated here. But, my cousins still all got arranged marriages thus far and they are quite modern in views otherwise. It's quite common, though now they use websites and stuff rather than advertising in the newspaper or hanging flyers lol. Unless you're talking about big cities, the villages and towns are very conservative from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:23 AM
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Yes, the nightlife is similar and can even be wilder in some areas-- because of less regulation. But during the day time everyone is conservative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:21 AM
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See the way I see it is. There are more Asian people, especially Chinese and Indian men, in general than other races. So more people== higher amount of those races being in certain groups. What you have to look at is the rate overall of marriage, relationships, etc. Rather than the overall number.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:21 AM
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Interesting, it seems like cities tend to attract a certain type. Have you been to Asian cities? I know they tend to be more liberal than the countryside and villages, but still they are more conservative compared to other countries imo. I personally prefer quiet villages lol, but that's my bias speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:36 AM
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Oh! sorry! I guess people will now know the marriage culture of my community lol. I do wonder about the demographic of this sub? How many are western based? And I know eastern European countries are different as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:35 AM
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Definitely. It's in cultures like mine that I think more liberal views need to be more accepted. Though, it's hard to ease thousands of years of culture and beliefs. My parents have gotten more accepting since moving to the us.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:34 AM
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Interesting, what culture? If you did that in our culture, the family would beat you up. Seriously, grannies with a broom are scary af.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:30 AM
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It is, but in our community, almost everyone gets married by their 30s. There's no particular data I know off the top of my head, but the extensive regularity of it is part of the community. It's why there are jobs that are literally to matchmake and announce marriage intentions between a girl and a guy's family. There's even the term leftover woman or man, for the ones who don't get married, and family will start setting you up on blind dates at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:29 AM
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That's true. Tbh, some of my friends went wild in college lo. Too much repression isn't great either. But yeah another story is that a cousin of mine wanted to marry a Muslim guy, but the family outside America was against it. So, the sent her to my aunt's house and forced her to stay there while the men went and threatened the guy. Some weird and fucked up stuff like that happens too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:24 AM
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That's true. I was raised and born in the US, but my parents actually banned me from dating till I went to college. Though, that's because Asian parents think dating gets in the way of studying. ​ How about Eastern European countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:20 AM
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So mostly a western issue? tbh, I don't see guys in my community having a tough time getting married or dating. Though, arranged marriages are common even now. And parents will get matchmakers etc, even in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:18 AM
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Look it’s a numbers game, the more you date, and the more experience you get and the more likely you are to get laid. Sometimes it doesn’t work out with a one person, but keep on going on dates. The fact that you are getting dates means women are interested initially, you just have to work up to having sex and perhaps more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 11:05 PM
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It is. I think EMTs have it even worse because they are the first responders. At least but the time they come to the facility, we know the details.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:50 PM
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Tbh I don’t either. Op please translate to regular English for us plebs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:30 PM
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Yeah I’m premed right now and working as a cna for experience. I think actually working hands on has really changed my perspective and made me more resilient. But I still get sad when people die. Especially since I feed and care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:24 PM
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Yeah, You become really close to the people you work with. Sometimes I want to vent to my family, but they get uncomfortable and can't really understand the trauma of someone dying while you are treating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:18 PM
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Sorry I just can't get over the ghost of dickmas past. Man this sub has its own vocab now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:12 PM
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Maybe she's no longer interested or having second thoughts. But maybe something might have happened in the last 24hrs, and she hasn't had time to respond yet. Don't catastrophize just yet and think she's 100 percent not interested anymore. We don't know what's going on withher right now for sure. Let another day pass, and send another text asking for a confirmation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:11 PM
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"I think it's going to take both men and women to abolish friend zone" Realistically, not going to happen. "When being rejected the guy should be clear that he wasn't looking to make friends and the women should be clear she was looking for friends." I agree. It would make things clearer, and keep people from hanging on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:08 PM
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Patient died on the toilet today. Door was locked, we had to pick the lock. I have even less fucks to give now. Sometimes, I really feel like I'm becoming desensitized. I used to cry when a patient died, now I feel numb. Sad, but numb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 07:04 PM
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Look government doesn’t even pay for basic healthcare. They are not going to pay for sex therapy. It will have to be out of your own pocket. This is why I say decriminalize sex work, and let people choose to have sex with hookers if they want to. Most realistic outlook imo. I work in healthcare and see people dying all the time. I just get cynical about ppl thinking to government would pay for anything. Sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:58 PM
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Again the issue here is from what money? The government is in debt and doesn’t even pay for basic healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:54 PM
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Well you have money right? You can pay for a hooker if you really want to no longer be a virgin. And if prostitution was decriminalized it would be easier to access. No need to make that be subsidized by the government when the government won’t even pay for people’s cancer treatment. I understand your problem but the solution isn’t viable. The government shouldn’t be able to stick its hand into our personal sex lives. That’s too much power for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:52 PM
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Exactly, healthcare is about medicine and treatment not sleeping with people. Also the government spends on a deficit —we’re in debt. There is no money to speak of for these initiatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:49 PM
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We can’t even get government to subsidize veterans healthcare and stops companies from inflating costs of insulin. Such a healthcare spending account is honestly a dream in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:48 PM
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Just decriminalize prostitution. No need to make state funded brothels, it’s honestly a waste of money when there are already brothels. Also where will the government get the funding for this, you really think congress would ever pass such a law? We can’t even get congress to pay for insulin or veterans benefit? Women will be paid handsomely, from what money? Our government is in debt. We run on a deficit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:44 PM
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I'm confident because I watch so many people die miserably in my job, and can't give af anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:36 PM
1

yep, They can have dry orgasms as well, depending on what you're into.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:34 PM
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Don't tell them you're a virgin. Seriously. Unless they seem like they wouldn't care, and are open to virgins, you are exposing too much by stating you're a virgin or that you don't have this experience. Pick what to disclose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:26 PM
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Big brother doesn't need to be involved in sex too sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:22 PM
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Don't involve the state in this. Absolutely no mandated sex anything. Getting too Brave New World here, and I dislike it. The government's job is to protect our civil liberties, in exchange for the power which we give them. Aka the social contract. Not to get us laid. Jefferson said the freedom to pursue happiness, not the guarantee that you will succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 06:22 PM
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It’s hard. Some families visit once a week but the other days are still lonely for the residents. Others never visit, which is even harder. People have to donate shoes and jackets in the winter because some residents don’t have any. I’m trying to buy a resident shoes, because one of her legs is so swollen that both feet are different sizes. It’s tough to see honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:54 PM
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I want someone to come home to, someone to sleep in bed with, someone to kiss and cuddle. Friends and family don’t fill that hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:40 PM
1

Yep is nursing and medicine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:38 PM
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You’re wrong about the profession. It’s healthcare; so many people in nursing or medicine cheat. It’s the long, high stress, situations with each other. And then the 3 days off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:38 PM
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Data is logical to make description off of. However as human we do not only use data and logic are our reason to do anything. Emotion and personal experience have a whole lot to do with the rescission we make. I think that writing off personal anecdotes is not great either because people base their actions on their past experiences, not data usually. It’s a interesting balance. And science is also not 100 percent correct, people need to remember this. Things are constantly being corrected and ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:36 PM
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I think you’ve answered you own question, and I agree. from my experience working at a nursing home the older women fall for more scams. I’ve had to stop many residents from sending money etc. some of them are just so lonely that any online attention makes them excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:27 PM
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This is why I fall on the side of no pills. I cannot and do not fully agree with any one ideology. There are parts that are true to both sides, and most often it's best to take what works and leave what doesn't. My perspective is always, to read both sides, and leave with what makes the most sense. No one ideology is 100% correct-- especially since most evolve and even develop sub denominations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:34 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:19 AM
1

A munch is a social gathering for people interested in BDSM. Basically like a socializing event to find people you could potentially be interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:15 AM
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ok, so you're taking about BDSM munches right? Just wanted to clarify, because that's what I'm talking about. Generally, the more experienced people will come and talk to the new members and introduce themselves and find common topics, don't worry too much about having to start a conversation, just to continue it forwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:13 AM
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Raising children while not in a relationship is pretty hard IMO, and I think it affects the children too. Probably your father must have enjoyed the fuckboy lifestyle, but when thinking about the future and family I think it's healthiest to settle down with a person around mid to late 30s. Of course, some people don't want children, and others simply can't afford them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:59 AM
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Most realistic take here. Gender roles and how they are split really depend on the dynamic of the people in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:53 AM
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Social skills are a problem when you don't have them. If someone cannot read body language. know when the talk, what to say, etc. Then they are going to have a hard time. There are people who can get away with having poor social skills if they are attractive, but that's not the majority of us so we shouldn't play by those rules. The most straightforward solution to getting more dates is to become more conventionally attractive or become successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:50 AM
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Tell her. Seriously people love hearing how much you appreciate their work, especially if they are dedicated to their craft.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:46 AM
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Thanks for clarifying. Let me try and re-answer. I think it's definitely harder for someone who's a virgin to live the "regular" life, have social groups, meet outside, etc. Often being a virgin, past the regular age people are virgins, is associated with being less attractive, less competent socially, or having other health issues. I think they are quite interconnected. There are people who are virgins by choice, who are the exception to the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:43 AM
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I agree. It's a fallacy people fall for all too often. I can't deny I don't find it enjoyable to listen to people I disagree with. Logically, I know it's correct. But realistically, it's quite hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:40 AM
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I hate everyone equally. muah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:33 AM
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If you are going to a munch, try and socialize with as many people as possible to expand your options. People talk about regular things, but also mention kinky things like toys or play they are into. Don't feel forced to spill everything about you about what you like, but also let people know so you can figure out if you have mutual interests. Just be polite, socialize and talk(people talk about movies, dnd, etc) and see if there are people in who you could be interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:33 AM
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He's good when he stays in his area of expertise-- psychology. He's not taken very seriously within philosophy. But, one cannot deny he is an intelligent person. I don't think there is anyone in the world who is always right, I disagree even with philosophers and speakers whom I love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:28 AM
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depends on how attractive you are. attractive virgins-- not bad. unattractive virgins-- you will be treated worse. People can be very superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:24 AM
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yes, but the quality of life and the type of women he would get would change. Tbh, so could a woman. The grannies all get it on too lol. I mean your father must have settled down at some point to have you, or maybe not. But I know that a lot of people are lonely the more they age. I always feel sad for the ones without family, especially in the holiday season.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:20 AM
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It really depends on culture. If you live in Asia or have an Asian family, more specifically a traditional Asian family, it's harder to be known not to be a virgin than it is to be a virgin-- if you are unmarried. Community shaming, family "face" etc make it hard to not be a virgin and easy to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:19 AM
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You could fuck at that age but it's not the same IMO. I work at a senior citizen facility, it's like a different world. Everyone fucks everyone, so much so that we test people for sti's. It's because women outlive men, so the ratio is different. The issue is you have to live to that age, and I mean once you are in a senior living facility quality of life isn't great. So, I guess they all enjoy their last few years of life as much as they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 03:01 AM
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Aka appearance. It better be good 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:01 PM
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And it’s an outlier. Again Reddit posts don’t indicate the general populace’s pov. Don’t base your expectation of what the average women cares about based on Reddit posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:56 PM
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I care about appearance, and I care about what’s inside. You’re welcome. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:54 PM
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You are not wrong. Of course, being a fuckboy has a cutoff age. If they never settle down, then it’s not as much of an advantage because as you get older you can’t attract as many people as before. Also if you value a family or want children knowing when to stop is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:49 PM
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Most regular people do. But you’ll be getting people giving you to exceptions to this rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:41 PM
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It’s called being a matchmaker, and many women like to matchmake. In my culture it’s fairly normal to set people up on blind dates. So if I think a guy I’m friends with would be good with a girl I know, I would ask them if they wanted to meet up and see if there’s potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:40 PM
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If they are complaining, clearly it’s important to women. Reddit posts is not an indicator of the general population. Just because there are exceptions, doesn’t mean the average women would put up with that. Plus if they are complaining on Reddit about that, it’s most likely the advice they will get is to break up, esp over something as basic as hygiene. Don’t convince yourself that women don’t care about hygiene, because women absolutely do. If your ass is stanky, you are, in general, not getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:27 PM
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Not washing his ass would turn me off. There are always exceptions, but yes it’s true that people are much more forgiving to attractive people unless they just act terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:11 PM
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Yes. It’s called the halo effect in psychology. It’s how guys like Ted Bundy where able to fool people. Humans in general are biased towards attractive people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:05 PM
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Micro needling works too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 10:37 PM
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Whips take practice for sure, especially if you don’t want to break the skin open. But they hurt more than floggers for sure, and are very fun to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 08:05 AM
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I do like the marks left from biting, though flogging is more fun for me. I hate spitting on people though. I tend to be more into sadism and overstimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:53 AM
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True, people in the kink community/fetlife and munches are more straightforeward and know what they like. I know I want to flog/humilitate my partner and I know they like it. It's so much easier than someone who you have no clue about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:47 AM
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life is unfair, you still gotta work and make money to support yourself even if some lucky guy gets benefits and dates because of his looks. People who are attractive have that advantage, it's not going to go away. Got to just accept life as it is, and do your best. It is how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:41 AM
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Tbh, my experience deviate from the norm because I'm into bdsm and a domme. I have my fun, and when you meet someone and negotiate kinks all the stuff is usually done-- teting/boundaries/scenes etc. It's pretty cool, compared to just randomly hooking up. You do have a point about hooking up not equaling good sex. It's hard to find someone compatible, but its worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:38 AM
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Hey fashion is a different gamepark, it's not for practicality lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:33 AM
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It's not lame. Love eyes are the best. You can tell by the pupil dilation, and people find that shit sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:32 AM
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It totally is. Making someone flustered is hot af. I like pulling hair more though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:31 AM
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Women know what they are attracted to. Girls have types, and they know it. Damn, I dunno where everyone gets this idea that women are so indecisive. Anecdotal experience of one girl you know, doesn't mean it applies to all women. I tell people, that someone who writes off the entirety of modern women as not worth it, is coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:26 AM
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ya'll haven't worked in healthcare. All the paramedics are hot af.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:20 AM
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You're mssing out if you don't have GOOD sex. what's the point of sleeping around if it's not pleasurable? Also, some people aren't into sex very much. I know people like that,they would rather not be sexually active. So it's a bit individual. But if you are young, into sex, and know how to have safe sex-- go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:19 AM
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That's why you test and use protection. Sex can be fantastic if you know what to do and have a partner who is into the same things as you. I feel sad, whenever I see people saying sex isn't that good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:17 AM
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There's an orgasm gap yes, but women are most certainly capable of multiple orgasms. Espcially since you can have a clitroal orgasm and a vaginal orgasm. As someone who likes both women and men, men are usually done after one or two. But women can go on, if you stimulate correctly. Some get oversensitive, but that's a kink for some people. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:14 AM
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Don't worry, It's mutual, I have a complete and utter disdain for people like you who look down on people because of their sex. Shows the content of your character and there isn't much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 07:10 AM
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Just because two things are rising simultaneously ( correlation) doesn't mean that one is the cause of the other(causation). Ie. A and B are rising, doesn't mean A is causing B to rise. In research, we have to prove the statistical significance of our data(p-value). Just because it looks one way, doesn't mean the data has statistical significance. So promiscuity is rising with divorce rates doesn't mean that promiscuity is the cause of divorce rates. There are too many other variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:50 AM
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People are generally not the best at communication, It's why I think people become unhappy in marriages. They don't understand each other. Especially when it comes to sex and emotions. I think the only issue with polyamory is that people have a tendency to become jealous or feel like they are losing the other person. It really depends on the person, some people really like it--others not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:43 AM
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he's saying he doesn't want to be with women with more than 2 pervious partners. I can see why he thinks promiscuity is ending marriages, if 2 partners is too much lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:33 AM
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correlation does not equal causation. The number one reason for divorce is generally money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:31 AM
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translation== if you're not financially independent it's hard to get into a relationship. ​ You don't have to be making bank to be independent, just able to cover your expenses and basic goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:29 AM
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oops, well I'm not in a committed relationship, so I don't really get sexually bored. But I think exploring new kinks and new ideas keeps things fresh. Also, I mean if it's that boring, some people like threesomes and open relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:25 AM
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No thanks. You can do that and report back. Thanks for volunteering! I'm sure random men will appreciate someone going up and asking them how many people their wife has slept with, and it's a totally viable experiment!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:23 AM
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I came into anthro thinking I was going to be bored as shit, and now I think it's genuinely one of my favorite courses ever. Just conceptualizing how we evolved is so wild, especially when you see all the skulls etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:22 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J_34ZKbJg-M found this by googling lol But I feel like this should be the anthem of rp.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:23 AM
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tentacle senpai gets his hand on cute anime girlz
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:18 AM
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Seriously we are all liars
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:17 AM
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Strong sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:13 AM
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You are telling me my parents had to help? The only help was that they went to school and got an education, but they also pulled themselves up by working as hard as they could. Yes, they were lucky, but they also worked fucking hard. My dad's hometown is literally a village with no running water, when I go back to visit we have to pump from the well and boil the fucking water. Dad and mom were both dirt poor and often starved when there was a bad season in he village. They worked hard, studied h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:04 AM
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Strong answer Traditionunable senpai. you totally destroyed gymbro, I'm sure you didn't ask for anecdotal experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:55 AM
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That's why I sleep only with women and femboys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:53 AM
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See I'm asian, and in my community, the guys work just as hard-- there's just more of a push from culture and community to work hard. I also live in an area that's mostly immigrants, so it's a nice area to look for long-term partners. I think a lot of it is burnout, a bad education system, and shit jobs. Unless you get a STEM major, it's quite hard to do well. Trades are good, but very physically hard on the body. This is why I'm pro-union.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:40 AM
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self-made millionaires exist, for example, my poor immigrant parents came to the US and work in tech/medicine and are millionaire's now-- esp with stocks and shit like that. But self-made billionaires, I can't name one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:36 AM
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It's sad, some guy literally went on my profile and commented on my old posts telling me I'm sick and shit like that. I'm glad every day that I completely closed my DM's and don't give people any access to me, outside of the public forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:33 AM
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Thanks, My emotions tell me that you are a fellow slut. uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:32 AM
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Did you literally go to my profile just to comment on my older posts. That's strange. If you're not looking for a relationship that's fine. All the best I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:30 AM
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I've noticed that there are way more men and more rp users on this sub. Someone got pissed at me after I said they were rude because they called women "warm wet holes". I mean, it's pretty obvi why that guy isn't getting any girls. There's also this notion that women can't be rational, but as Mary Wollstonecraft said women and men have equal capacity for reason. It's not about sex, but how you analyze and rationalize.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:24 AM
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I agree. I don't care about women's or men's body counts, as long as they are attractive. Men, especially being more visual, wouldn't care as much IRL I assume-- as long as they are attracted. I mean as someone who's whose into BDSM most people I'm into have a high body count. And I wouldn't be into low n count people, because it's generally more work and less comfortable than someone who knows what they are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:22 AM
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If you can't find someone IRL who you're attracted to then your not going to find anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:14 AM
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people get pissed by alternative points of view. I mean this is a debate subreddit, you are obviously going to encounter people with different points of view, so it's quite immature when they start name calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:12 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 04:00 AM
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Maybe I don't think my assumptions are correct without inquiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:57 AM
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I have finals next week. Gotta memorize the epochs and species leading to the genus homo for anthropology. Sigh, at least we got to look at skulls in class. It was fun af. Saggital crests are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:45 AM
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I'm disappointed by your point of view that society would benefit from fat shaming. Fat shaming etc often causes more stress and unhealthy eating habits, as well as isolation, and low self-esteem rather than a healthy mindset. This is like saying bullying makes people better-- rather than acknowledging it hurts people more than it could ever help them. Society would benefit from more asshole shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:43 AM
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I know a friend who has their shit together and has a high n count, they just partied and went out a lot in college. They also are extraverted and just like to be physical with people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:36 AM
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If you have some intellect you'd know you can't know anything for sure without inquiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:34 AM
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Ok, so what's important to me is financial stability. Right now the majority of people are living paycheck to paycheck-- women and men. And most people have debt. As someone who is incredibly careful with my money, I would want someone who is able to live within their means. They don't have to be making six figures but depending on the place they live in, they should be able to afford rent, a car, have insurance, and be in a place to pay off debt-- especially for a long-term relationship that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:32 AM
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It's pretty simple. A guy is my type == I am sexually interested. Some people don't have that sort of attraction, but I think the majority of people know when they find someone sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:59 AM
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I think your idea is unrealistic and highly unlikely. I have school and work, thus almost no time to be bored, and when I want entertainment I read and post on Reddit. Recently I've found this subreddit interesting, but I prefer posting on circlejerk subreddits specifically the book one. It's fun to make jokes and literature and have people understand them. Anyways Camus was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:54 AM
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Ok, a pill is a pill...I highly doubt anyone is the purely red pill, pink pill, black pill, etc. I actually find these denominations a bit pointless and annoying-- especially since really no one IRL uses it and it doesn't apply to the vast majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:51 AM
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Being a regular bmi and having some muscle definition is attractive. It is how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:21 AM
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low body fat is attractive to humans in general, even when unhealthy because most people can't tell the difference. The reason women like hands is that you can tell muscularity and body fat from how veiny their hands are. It's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:20 AM
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Here's u/teethpeach original quote. "Decision Fatigue can occur for a number of reasons beyond dating" Clearly your reading comprehension needs some work. Nice try, in twisting their meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:11 AM
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I work at a nursing home and seriously, some of the most decrepit older men still have sex. There's a 30ish guy who is supermorbidly obese in our short-term unit, and he has a wife. He's a chill and nice guy though, but he's by no means attractive and he is still is doing fine. We actually have to test the residents and separate them because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:06 AM
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On point. I don't see many women on this subreddit or on Reddit saying they like couch potatoes etc. Most say they have a type, and it's generally an aesthetically attractive person by societal standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:04 AM
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Reddit itself has more male users, adding on the niche of ppd, I don't think it's realistic to say half the members here are women. But yes, ppd women are a niche and not a representative of the regular population, similar to ppd men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:59 PM
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Yep. To be honest, I feel like Reddit instigates the worst in me sometimes. Arguing or debating with strangers over the internet just makes me frustrated and wastes time. I always end up in this sub before my finals because I'm procrastinating my work, other times I never post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:57 PM
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Yes. They fit my aesthetic type perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 11:52 PM
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It's unattractive if you are not treating it or don't cope healthily.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:18 AM
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being toxic or good is irrelevant. All that matters is skill, and willingness to adjust during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:16 AM
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no foreplay makes a better build-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:13 AM
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They don't, but since this is a public forum I might as well correct the misconception. I already know people don't care about science because the strangest pseudoscience bullshit gets upvoted in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:11 AM
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That's your personal preference then. I literally said that I want a relationship and think they are beneficial, not that I think everyone should have a relationship. I don't find relationships bothersome, so I pursue them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 02:08 AM
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Yep you can. But there is still a strong correlation between success and confidence. People don’t measure by the outliers as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:42 PM
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Confidence is a valuable emotion. When your confident your not afraid to fail and try again. You know it’s not because your unworthy that you lost, but because of external factors like preparation, skill etc. a confident person puts forth their best foot and can acknowledge and grow from failure. It attractive because we know a confident person is prepared and ready to put in what it takes to achieve their goals. Someone who’s not confident often takes out their insecurities on other people, has…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:40 PM
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It has. I don’t know why you think it hasn’t but it is modified especially the bivalent vaccine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 10:20 PM
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Yup it’s the refusing to yield. Compromise is a must in healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:45 PM
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Boosters are pretty common as the other poster said.Also there are different variants of Covid. Just like the flu shot changes every year depending on the strain, that’s why we get booster. Plus I get everything early and for free at the clinic I work at so I’m not too annoyed. My boss literally gave me the vaccine it’s was cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:38 PM
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I would prefer they have the first two shots. Especially as someone who works in healthcare, I get exposed to so much Covid that if they weren’t vaccinated they would probably get sick. There was just an outbreak at our facility, everyone survived but the quarantine and having to wear ppe was stressful. Yes they would most likely survive but getting sick and having to quarantine isn’t great either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:36 PM
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Nothing, is there even anything I can gain from commenting on Reddit? I just post my opinion, you or others disagree or agree, and then I repeat. It’s quite simple. My endgame is simply to voice my point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:45 PM
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That’s why I say one would be happier in no relationship, than a bad one. I certainly know people can be lonely even in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:42 PM
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Of course as I said in my comment anyone would certainly be happier with no relationship if they were in a bad one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:41 PM
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Interacting with people is not an external factor. You choose to interact. It is a choice you make and can control. How people react is the external factor you can’t control. Are you going to allow something you can’t control from preventing you from interacting with people and dictating your emotional well-being?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:55 PM
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This is just a circle jerk at this point. To be honest a purple pill circle jerk sub would be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:53 PM
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I used to be much more depressed then I was now, especially before going to therapy, I care simply because I can choose to. If you are uncomfortable I simply won’t continue to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:47 PM
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Yes also in healthcare marriage is beneficial. If both of you work and one person has the better healthcare, you can add them if you are married etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:45 PM
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Why accept something that you don’t agree with? I don’t think marriage is only for raising a family; I would marry a partner whom I could live the rest of my life with even if we didn’t want to have children. Plus, if you can’t procreate adoption or having a surrogate is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:44 PM
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Ok. You do you then. I like having a partner in my life. I think the most practical solution to being lonely is to interact with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:41 PM
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Yes friends exists and are awesome. Additionally I like having a partner who I can live with. It’s nice to have someone like that, and I prefer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:40 PM
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Sure. I just want someone to come home to. I have my friends, and they are great, but I also like having a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:39 PM
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You can definitely be married without kids. Marriage has several legal benefits as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:38 PM
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damn, this is what I get for typing while sleep-deprived and studying for finals lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:24 AM
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Stoicism isn't an RP concept, though I believe some RP people do indeed follow stoic beliefs. Interesting take, which stoic philosophers have you read? I'm partial to the true chad Seneca.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:19 AM
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Yes, not all confidence looks the same-- not only for men but also for women. We simply have to accept the reality, that there will always be people who have it better than us, who don't have to work as hard, etc. There is nothing we can do to change that fact, so all we can do is live our own fullest life. Confidence does matter. It improves your standing, but still, there are always people who have it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:13 AM
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I think both men and women do better with companionship. Who wants to go through life alone? It's great to have a partner to rely on, who you know is there for you. I think men and women in bad relationships would certainly be happier without them, but overall I think relationships and marriage are mutually beneficial. Being lonely sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:07 AM
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Marriage can also have legal benefits but in general, it's for forming a family. It also represents a legally binding commitment-- basically a lifetime commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:05 AM
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Not everyone. Sure, maybe a majority is this way, but there are always people interested in forming friendships. If you are convinced you can't approach someone, then you just stop yourself before even trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:49 AM
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So you are working on yourself and not interested in putting the effort to come across women, but are also posting on Reddit complaining about how you can't get laid? Because I said in response to the other commenter, that the men who are currently uninterested or not putting in the effort to get in relationships because they are working on themselves aren't posting on Reddit complaining about how they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 07:47 AM
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There are always outliers. My ideal relationship however, isn’t one where the man or woman is dominant. I want us both to respect each tiger and communicate, then make decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 11:42 PM
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Racism and stereotypes do suck sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:26 PM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:24 PM
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If you are missing all your shots even after practicing for years, you might just be practicing ineffectively and incorrectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:04 PM
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Yes. For example my family unfortunately has a history of depression and paranoia. Still I take my medicine, go to therapy, and maintain contact with my friends. When I have breakdowns it’s really heartwarming that my friends are there for me, and similarly I’m there for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:19 PM
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You must like making sweeping generalizations about people, and subtly insulting them rather than respond to their arguments or hear their pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:02 PM
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I’m sure anyone who puts in persistent effort can improve their social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:00 PM
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Thanks. 😎 I know my argument is neat. No need to praise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:57 PM
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Your view is reductionist, and you see things only is black and white. Any valid point I make are just blue pill lies to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:48 PM
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Yes, this is a subreddit. Yes, You lack communication skills, are rude, and have a reductionist point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:45 PM
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Calm down. This is a subreddit. I’m being honest, not rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:44 PM
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Humans are selfish but also altruistic. I find it beautiful how humans can be both at the same time. We can't control other people, but we can control how we react. Just because some people are cruel doesn't mean all of them are. From my perspective, you sound depressed. I don't think it's healthy to see people only in a negative light.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:33 PM
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Yep, fat guys have sex. You were probably well groomed and have a decent personality as well. The guys who are fat but also slobs, or bad at socializing aren't getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:31 PM
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Humans have worth. Seeing women in only a negative light, and finding them worthless is simply irrational. I don't find it not worth putting up with men, just because there are men who genuinely hate women. I know plenty of amazing men and women, people who are doing great things. It's so nice when you can see the positives in people. Your sense of normalcy is genuinely twisted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:29 PM
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Because ignoring everyone is depressing in my opinion. Why ignore everyone? Even the most introverted people, need some human interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:22 PM
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depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:19 PM
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Calm down, please. You don't have to resort to being rude to women, just because they don't engage with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:19 PM
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Well if you are disgusted by women, you're not going to get laid. It's as simple as that. No woman wants to be with someone who views them as disgusting. Furthermore, you are rude and lack social skills from the comments I read here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:18 PM
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My advice is to start with social hobbies, like volunteering or things like the local hiking group, etc. It's easy to meet people interested in making friends or more in those situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:14 PM
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Sure, but those guys aren't the ones posting on Reddit about how they can't get laid. If they are working on themselves and aren't looking for a relationship at the moment, I highly doubt they are complaining about women and their lack of options. Yes, it's the logical option to work on yourself and improve your methods when you have had no success in something. But a lot of people react emotionally and refuse to see their own flaws as well. It's really quite difficult for people to acknowledge …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:13 PM
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The issue I see here is that you are looking only at the negatives. You think, no one likes to talk to strangers, people don't want to socialize, etc, then you preemptively stop yourself from trying to make new friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:10 PM
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Exactly, mental health issues are very real. However, one must take steps to work on it. I have a family history of depression and paranoia. So I take my anti-depressants, go to therapy, and live quite a fulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:04 PM
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Going, to be honest, this is just really depressing to read. You can definitely make some changes. I think it's better to be uncomfortable, then to let yourself wallow and convince yourself nothing will change. r/Stoicism my advice, check it out. You cannot control your circumstances, but you can control how you react.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:02 PM
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Definitely. I'm not very outgoing in person and I don't like loud environments, but I still have friends whom I go hiking with or get out hair/nails done, or we go watch the newest movies and have fun criticizing them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:34 PM
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Wow, you are making grand generalizations. It's not men against women. It's us against society. College is dummy expensive, and debt is terrible. The college system is making it not worth it to graduate. What's the point of a degree, when you will be in debt and don't have job opportunities? I want to be a doctor, I'm going to go like 400k into debt, seriously. Though my future profit is not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:25 PM
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A small house in my area costs 600K--1mil. I can't just move because all my job opportunities are here. I make my own lunch, and drive my parent's old car. Still, I could never afford to have a family. I'm lucky, however, because my future job prospects are good. Once I finish my education and get a hospital job, I should be comfortable. But the majority of people, don't get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:20 PM
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In this economy, it's simply impossible to be the sole breadwinner. Both people need to be working if they are average person to make ends meet. I don't think it's about wanting freedom, I think it's more about how shitty inflation is and how shit the job market and economy can be. People used to be able to afford a family on a single income, now it is little more than a dream for the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:18 PM
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Having women in your social circle is not detrimental. If you can be friends with women and be personable you already have an advantage when it comes to getting laid. OP is not saying you should sleep with the women in your circle, it's more like if you are friends with women, you will be invited to social groups where you can meet more women and have a greater chance of meeting someone. Nothing can guarantee a relationship, but I highly doubt incels have ever tried looking their best, being fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:15 PM
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I think when it comes to feelings of not having self-worth etc, you should definitely try therapy or visit r/Stoicism. I know plenty of fat guys who pull, but the caveat is that they are charismatic and well-groomed. One guy I used to work with, was pulling girls way above his level but he was seriously funny, personable, and comfortable to talk to. Never think you are not worthy, or you don't have a chance. You definitely loose 100% of all the shots you don't take.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:10 PM
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The may just be unattractive They may be fat, not groomed, or are just unfortunately ugly. It's harder to have casual sex. Now, I know some fat guys who have sex, but they are damn charismatic and well-groomed. I often wonder if the regular poster who complains about not having to sex has worked on these aspects, or is being honest about how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:07 PM
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To be honest, I simply think Reddit users are just more prone to this. I don't think it reflects on the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:04 PM
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Pretending to be something you aren't won't attract women, yes. But, you can also make efforts to meet in a middle ground. One cannot just stay in place and expect change to occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:02 PM
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Great answer! I sincerely dislike it when posters like OP start spouting off about biology and evolution when they really don't know anything about those topics. This subreddit is often fraught with pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:00 PM
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Oh, I meant to write closest living relative. We share a common ancestor. I'll go in and edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 08:27 AM
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They basically get off by fencing another male bonobo with their penises. Sometimes it is used to also connote excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 07:56 AM
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You mean this? https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/12/071210094541.htm It is very interesting, I hadn't really known about this till I googled it after you mentioned it. I don't think fruit fly characteristics can really apply to humans, but it is very interesting how homosexual behavior in fruit flies is linked to a genetic mutation. I will read more, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:47 AM
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Exactly. Best method imo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:29 AM
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Yep, I think experience matters in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:27 AM
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On point with this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:20 AM
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I am not attributing my personal experience to the larger demographic of genZ. I know that is not practical and is a logical fallacy--if you read my other comments I acknowledge that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:16 AM
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I do hope the information I provided is interesting. Did you know that male bonobos participate in what is called penis fencing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:11 AM
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It’s not stupid. Attractiveness is a serious advantage in life. If you are going to get surgery be careful, there are long term effects with surgery esp plastic surgery and it tends not to age well. Don’t get filler because it migrates. What I will say, is that you will not develop self esteem just from surgery. And you won’t be magically happier from getting surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:40 AM
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Being attractive is a baseline requirement. Then to really be pulling, you have to be smooth and charismatic. Charisma is the factor, other than general societal beauty standards that I think matters the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:31 AM
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Humans engage in both polyandrous and polygynous behavior but are most often pair--bonded.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:02 AM
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"In a materialist worldview evolution, biology and environment MUST explain for all behavior." environment and culture are the factor OP is missing. Mating systems are not just biologically based. We share 99% DNA with chimps and 98.7% with bonobos, but both of those species differ in their mating systems. A lot of this comes down to environment, social structure, and hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:59 AM
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I highly doubt the American Anthropological association would be proven wrong by your videos when it is already noted in the textbook that rape and cannibalism occur. I also pointed out many flaws in your arguments. My argument may not be perfect, but don't get this twisted-- yours is not perfect either. The video you provided and the text, are both things I agree on. I know chimps rape and cannibalize, but that doesn't change the fact that their regular mating system is polygnandrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:51 AM
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"Chimpanzees (Pan troglodytes) have a complex mating system: most copulations occur between estrous females with full sexual swelling and multiple males in group settings where the potential for sperm competition is high" There, simplified they have sex with multiple males in group settings, aka orgies. Bonobos are even wilder and resolve fights by having large orgies involving homosexual copulation as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:48 AM
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Basically what you are doing here is a straw man fallacy. I never said all men take turns raping war conquests. I said both humans and chimps can be cannibalistic and rape. I didn;t even specify men, because female chimps have been noted to commit infanticide. The link you provided, literally says in the title "from rival clan". My textbook is open access, so you can use it for free. https://explorations.americananthro.org/ chap 6 and 8 delve into the topics I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:40 AM
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I don't think optimal continuation means everyone mates and reproduces. There is something called carrying capacity, meaning the land can only support so much population. If everyone mates and reproduces in a species, we would pass carrying capacity for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:31 AM
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Yes, chimps can be cannibalistic and rape rivals, while killing the young just like humans do. Still, the mating hierarchy is polygynandrous( equal btw males and females), and they still basically engage in orgies.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:27 AM
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Less than chimps yes, but they are incredibly similar to humans just the same. No, bonobos are just as terrestrial( land dwelling) as chimps. You are simply wrong when you state they live in trees only. Bonobos travel by knuckle-walking( brachiation) both in terrestrial( land) and arboreal( tree) substrates. I believe you may be thinking about monkeys, because bonobos are incredibly close to chimps in looks and some behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:24 AM
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It's not a minority within ANY given species. Yes, it is a minority within Humans. But it is frequently noted that female bonobos favor female partners more than any other. In such species, it is common and not an abnormality. The animal kingdom, which includes humans, has such breadth and variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:19 AM
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Bonobos share 98.7% of our DNA. What I said about chimps is taken straight from my anthropology textbook, please give me proof that what I said is wrong. Bonobos live both terrestrial(land) and arboreally(tree), They are knuckle walkers just like chimps, and even engage in bipedal locomotion. You are wrong about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:16 AM
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True. I used to believe this stuff too, but after taking anthropology I've broadened my views. Science is still incredibly uncertain about human mating systems since we don't follow a "single" system like some of our common ancestors. Culture and the social environment highly affect mating not just in humans but in other animals as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:12 AM
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So, you have no answer to why you believe homosexuality is caused by genetic mutations or that they prevent the optimal continuation of species. Some of our closest living ancestors commonly engage in homosexual sex. For example Bonobos' have highly common occurrences of male/male and female/female mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:07 AM
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We evolved from Great apes, not monkeys--with the chimpanzee being our closest living relative. What's interesting is that chimps don't mate by fighting each other for a female, in fact, they basically participate in orgies. Chimps are polygynandrous meaning both males and females have equal status. Another common ancestor the Bonobo is very interesting. They are hypersexual, with females having a higher ranking. But they all basically have homosexual sex as well as heterosexual sex. In fact, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:03 AM
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I mean the guys and classmates I know personally. Yes, I said I am biased, as I said this is just based on my pov in the last sentence of my comment. But your experience is biased as well because you are only talking about your experience and the guys you knew in college. We can't just say the amount of people in GenZ having sex is less/same/more based on personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:49 AM
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Yes, there is that stereotype in STEM. But I also know male classmates in my class who are not virgins and get laid. I think this is all just an example of personal p.o.v. Just your or my experience is not enough to make a claim about the entirety of Gen Z.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:45 AM
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I just can't with all the pseudo-science being spouted. Where is OP getting all these assertions and how are they so certain they are right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:42 AM
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There is no "gay gene" or "straight gene". There is no Mendelian mutation that makes someone gay. edit: I wanted to edit to be clear that in humans there is no "gay gene" as far as science has experimented. Nothing is ever 100 percent!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:29 AM
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I'm a STEM major too, and the guys I'm friends with and my male classmates get laid/have dates too. To be honest, It's very tough to make a relatively accurate estimation of how many people date/get laid from personal p.o.v. Might just be my college, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:22 AM
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Wait are you genZ? Because I am and basically everyone I know gets laid or dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:10 AM
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No, we haven't really slipped back into our "naturalistic" mating behavior, and animals don't really just "opportunistically" mate. Actually, there are several modes of what is called sexual selection and mating types with the majority of animal species having complex criteria and dynamics that decide who mates with whom. It's not that easy to compare animals to Humans given we have evolved and changed over millions of years. Human sexual selection has always been mate choice-- meaning the woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:42 AM
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Nah, my passion is hospice care and also wound care, because the pus and wound vac is just so satisfying lol.I don’t really like research. I prefer hands on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:38 PM
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Please elaborate. I do know the government is corrupt since there is a “supreme leader”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:11 PM
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As Malala yousafzai said, I will protest if I am forced to wear a scarf, and I will protest if I am forced to remove my scarf” Freedom to choose is imperative, I’m glad the Iranian women are gaining freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:10 PM
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No,because I want to be a doctor. Health care is my passion, if I’m unable to do what I love, I know I will be unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 09:07 PM
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Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 08:54 PM
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Destigmatization of prostitution is something I agree with, unfortunately, I don't see it as plausible in society just yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:22 PM
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In general, they are just shamed by society. I don't see only women or older women shaming them. Parents, relatives, friends, etc all shame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:33 PM
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Well, that's exactly why OP should go in and edit. The entire post is littered with comments like this, and it makes reading through it difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:24 PM
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well, not my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:29 PM
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I’m going to stop you right there. In the study you linked it says “The results do not support either the dual sexuality or commitment hypotheses, and imply that female self-reported sexual desire is not strictly dependent on cyclic hormonal changes.” And yes, when you make a claim you need to provide evidence in the post. Google gives 1000s of results, how am I supposed to know what you are referring to? Misandry is the belief that women are superior, yes you need evidence to back up the claim …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:33 PM
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Ok, go get a fleshlight then. Others of us like having sex with people, but if you prefer something else it’s ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:27 PM
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You say misandry is normalized. How? What qualitative data do you have to prove this? Where are you getting the fact that women prefer different men in different menstrual cycles? You bring up so many points that just have no evidence to back them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:08 AM
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It's quite hard to read. I know most people don't have great grammar, myself included, but OP clearly needs to edit because some sentences don't make any sense at all. I highly doubt anyone could read this post in entirety and understand all his points. for example: "So no traditionally average man were good enough for average men. " what does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 07:01 AM
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What is interesting here is that the study itself says " a person’s lifetime number of partners was statistically unrelated to their odds of marriage after controlling for annual sex partners" So overall lifetime sexual partners aren't statistically relevant. You also make a number of unsubstantiated claims. For example, you say women with a high count are likely to have "special ex". Is there any evidence to back this claim up?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:10 AM
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Well, the study does say the number of lifetime partners is not significant to the odds of marriage. But that if you have multiple partners in a year, so short term, you have lower chances of getting married. Therefore, it is true that the num of partners doesn't particularly matter unless you are trying to raise your odds of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:06 AM
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I'm not sure how that is relevant to the discussion. Do you mind explaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:31 AM
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Clearly, not you. Then you would have understood that the commenter was giving her perspective as a woman, and not talking generally about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:26 AM
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Ok, I'm going to be honest here. I tried my best to read through this, but the grammar and spelling errors made it difficult for me to understand your argument. In my opinion, if you edited, it would be so much easier to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 03:02 AM
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This is true, hormones generally regulate the bodies functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:14 PM
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There are similarities btw men and women, but I can say without a doubt we all have different personalities, goals, types etc. not to mention cultural differences, I do feel like this sub seems to focus more on america but there people also have very different cultures based on where they grew up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:07 PM
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Nice deflection. All humans lie and are hypocrites. So why single out women for being liers, when every single one of us is a lier?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:22 AM
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Because women are not a monolith. We are different people. Her perspective isn't all women's perspective because we have different thoughts, feelings, and emotions. Seriously, we have self-autonomy you know? I find it so strange when people act like women are some sort of foreign species that can't be understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:20 AM
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You are making a lot of blanket statements. Saying men must have a grounded sense of what they attain, and that average women are free to have ridiculous standards. The thing is, that I have absolutely seen hot women with average men and vice versa. I really don't know what ya'll are experiencing irl, because I've seen many average men and women have great relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:16 PM
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Ofc you won’t know that while standing in line, but for example if you are at a party you can def get a vibe of what another’s persons personality is like. If they are outgoing or more reserved. I don’t think anything is just that black and white.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:08 PM
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Yep I pegged your mom and dad. You can thank me later.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:04 PM
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What I mean is that people absolutely approach women who are outgoing more than introverted women. Even if someone is a 10, but they are intimidating, I’m sure less people approach them in person than online. Personality def has an effect. Yes physical appearance is the number 1 consideration, but it’s not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:02 PM
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Oh , my last question was rhetorical lol. But yes the point is that attractive men will always get more attention. Same with attractive women. And we agree on that. So ofc an average woman would be attracted to and want a chad? There nothing really immoral or strange about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:55 PM
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I think women who get approached in public tend to be less intimidating and more open. It might not just be physical attributes, but things like personality too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:53 PM
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I’m a woman, but sure I too can become an awesome man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:48 PM
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He said men are pursuers of sex, meaning they pursue physical sex not just getting off. Sexual selection in anthropology is literally the act of selecting a mate based on physical and social characteristics, not just mastrubation. Humans of course experience sexual selection just like all species.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:47 PM
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Actually I think your point is valid too. People treat others differently depending on how they look. In psychology it’s called the halo effect. Two things can be true at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:43 PM
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Ofc people will notice a chad more. Physical attraction and confidence is an outlier. There are many average people out there, so how does one average person stand out from another?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:42 PM
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You can’t “fix” someone. You can’t fix bad men, and you really can’t “fix” women as a collective. This argument lacks cohesion, and being honest here I am a bit lost about your point. Also what do mean that average men had to give up what made them men. Are they not men anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:41 PM
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No. Suffices. If I’m not interested I say no, regardless of league. No is a full sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:32 PM
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No problem, lol. Tbh props just make sex all the more satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:43 PM
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It’s cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:42 PM
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I quite enjoy the fact that vibrators exist. In fact they are amazing to use as a woman lol . Why would they be competition, when they can increase sexual satisfaction and are a great addition to intercourse?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 09:36 PM
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This a seriously depressing take. What is the point of measuring value base in having kids or sex? No one is useless just because of their sex or if they are fertile or not. People have so many other skills and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:28 PM
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Seriously it’s not absolute. Judge people by the content of their character not their sex. What people have to offer is individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:26 PM
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Couple times a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:26 PM
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As someone with an eating disorder no. This is my perspective, but I wouldn’t want to have the same relationship I have with food with other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:24 PM
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People are attracted to what they are attracted to. But I’m sure we al have some sense of what our level in the dating game is, and usually people stay within their circle so to speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:23 PM
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You don’t have to do anything like get a vasectomy if you don’t want to. People have a variety of opinions, doesn’t mean you have to agree or go with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:22 PM
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Hi op. I fucked your mom and dad. Sorry not sorry. You can call me stepmom now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:21 PM
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I would say these are psychological needs. Most people desire companionship. It makes us feel content, desired, etc. sure we don’t need to literally provide or protect or nurture, but it’s still psychologically relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:20 PM
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Wow. Such insightful advice. I’m sure a fleshlight is exactly the same as having sex with a person. People surely don’t want to touch and be physically intimate with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:16 PM
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This is a paradox seriously. you choose to focus on yourself, but not for yourself, but for validation from the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 08:13 PM
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Women are more open with each other. Like I know the wierd and problematic shit about my best friends. And they know my issues. When we need help it’s easier to broach the subject when they already know ur situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:17 AM
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Yes directness is appreciated as well as confidence. When people have things going for them and are confident in their abilities it shows in their actions, both men and women. I’m bi sexual, and neediness is not appreciated on any side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:08 AM
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Tbh, I feel odd judging peoples physical preferences. People are attracted to what they are attracted to, and nothing can change that even if it goes against societal standards for morals. People are quick to point out flaws and dipole someone in when we are all so flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:04 AM
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Embrace the tall model aesthetic girl. but seriously, as long as you are attractive I doubt tallness is a problem. Sure some men, don't want a tall girl. But ppl have their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:38 AM
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I hate it when we judge or dislike other people based on stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:34 AM
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Sure, but tbh ppl do fwb all the time in healthcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 08:22 PM
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nonverbal gestures tend to work, but sometimes people don't get them. Still, humans in general, are very good at reading body language and understanding the situation. You're making a very broad statement. I don't think that it's that easy to figure out the reasoning behind people's actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:43 PM
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I'd rather not marry then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:35 PM
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tbh, work on yourself before you look for relationships. Though, I think you already have come to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:34 PM
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I sit quietly and observe, till I get too tired and have to go to another room.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:33 PM
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Cats are expensive, yes. They require their humans to serve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:32 PM
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Well a requirement for a "bad boy" is to be attractive, so yeah its the personality but mainly the fact that they are attractive. Most people I know don't take them seriously. It's usually just a phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:31 PM
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I have a co-worker who would be considered a "bad-boy". He is tall, relatively good-looking, smoked, and doesn't like authority, etc. What is interesting, however, is none of the women who have careers in our facility are interested in him. Some of the younger CNAs flirt, but none of them take him as a serious partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:28 PM
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relying on an ad hominem means you lost the argument. personal attacks do nothing on both side.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:25 PM
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Peter Wastholm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:47 PM
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tbh, I'd rather be an avergae looking woman, like I am now. It's hard to measure what is a worse position, what are your metrics?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:21 AM
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sex doesn't interest me. tbh, I'm chill with that. ​ I would say, go for it when your confident. Don't take a step without feeling like your ready. It's not a problem to be a virgin in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:19 AM
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It is human nature to desire companionship. Men and women both desire relationships-- whether they are romantic in nature or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:17 AM
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I can't give an answer to your last question of how to get women to ask more guys out. However, I can say, from my limited psychology knowledge, that women tend to find what is called "nonverbal perceptive signaling" effective-- basically nonverbal gestures that show interests. Nonverbal gestures work for women, so it makes sense that the majority of women don't take verbal initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:12 AM
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Well, there is certainly a universal beauty standard. Most straight women would find men who fit beauty standards attractive. Vice versa, most straight men would find women who fit beauty standards attractive. It's not very surprising that people, even ugly people, find those who fit beauty standards attractive. It is also quite disingenuous to make such broad and vast statements about ALL women based on subjective sample experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:29 AM
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all humans are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:23 AM
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If confidence is tied to something physical, something you could theoretically lose and is momentary, then I would argue it's not true confidence. Better to be confident in your character, than penis size lol. They are probably just sexually confident
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:21 AM
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