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| 55 | I’d like to hear your opinions here.I’d be curious to know if he pays any of the other bills. If she is paying the mortgage, the electricity,gas, cable, internet, trash, all of the other stuff that goes with home ownership, he needs to pay his way somehow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 02:15 AM |
| 85 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…You should see the dms that I’m getting about this! A lot of angry men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 11:37 AM |
| 47 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…So did I! I was rolling my eyes until I got to the end | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:17 AM |
| 102 | I’m not advocating robbery, but…Read until the end 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 12:14 AM |
| 22 | Princess meets FDSThis never gets old. It was actually my screensaver a few years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 01:43 AM |
| 36 | THE CORE OF THE DATING WAR: Money.I was just reading an article about Jackie Kennedy and she reportedly advised Carly Simon to not marry someone who was broke because “you’ll never respect a man who doesn’t take care of you.” Jackie wasn’t wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 12:57 AM |
| 4 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseI didn’t think of that. It makes sense that a buyer might think that I’m an investor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseThank you for this! Another comment said that this was all in my head and I was playing the victim. This is a real thing that happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:29 PM |
| 7 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseCongrats to you on your success in the housing market. I wish everyone the same success that you had. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 04:11 PM |
| 7 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseExactly! I’m just looking for a nice house with a big yard for my dogs, but I guess yards are only for children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:56 AM |
| 19 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseMy guess is that she just wanted to sell me something quickly and be done with me. I think they’re working on volume right now since so many houses are selling in hours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:53 AM |
| 211 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseExactly! If it were a man driving a Mercedes or wearing nice shoes, no one would say a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:30 AM |
| 36 | Apparently single women can’t have nice things aka my attempt to buy a houseThere are all kinds of guides online about how to write love letters to homeowners. The legality is a bit questionable. https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/mortgages/letters-to-home-sellers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:29 AM |
| 28 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)I think McDreamy made a lot of women think that it’s an attractive career. I dated a guy who was doing his fellowship in base scull neurosurgery a few years ago. He was actually very nice and down to earth. He just worked insane hours. I think he was probably an outlier personality wise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:21 AM |
| 48 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)I’m contemplating med school. I’d definitely be the grandma of my class, but I work with so many usually guy doctors whom I wouldn’t say are overly bright. If they could do it, I think I could too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:19 AM |
| 173 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)I think certain kinds of surgeons are worse than others. I used to have to interact with several surgical specialties regularly at work and I’m happy to break it down for y’all. Just in case you decide to date one. Ortho: either super nice family guy whose idea of a good time is an afternoon fishing OR a jacked womanizer. I don’t think they skew psychopath. Neuro: spine surgeons are the biggest pricks you’ll ever meet. High probability that he’s a psychopath. Guys who do cranis all day are usual… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:45 AM |
| 33 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Agreed. It isn’t hard to get a woman off. All a guy has to do is to say “tell me what you like” (probably one of the sexiest things a man can say in bed) and then follow the instructions. No woman wants hoola hooping or jackhammering or weird bottom humping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 03:58 AM |
| 68 | I think this is supposed to be a joke, but I’m certain there are men who feel this way.This guy is posing like he is Idris Elba or something... Sir, you are no prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:27 PM |
| 6 | “Never give him second chances, we men are fully aware of our actions”Oh my god! My ex keeps emailing my work email asking when we are going on a trip. He’s blocked everywhere, but my work email doesn’t allow blocking. I dumped you two years ago. Why the hell would I want to go on a trip with you? Delusional is the correct term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 01:03 AM |
| 200 | Fat lvm hitting on fit womenI call it King of Queens syndrome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 4 | Thank God this guy is here to message me on the error of my ways 😂Anytime I comment on FDS, they come out of the woodwork. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 13 | Thank God this guy is here to message me on the error of my ways 😂According to his profile, this guy frequents a subreddit called: pussypassdenied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:05 PM |
| 64 | The Eternal Girlfriend 😳😬I wish I could have forced this in my early 20’s brain. You really shouldn’t have to convince someone to love you and/ or marry you. I spent my 20’s in two long term relationships trying to convince some very average at best men that I’d be a great wife. 🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:37 PM |
| 21 | men on reddit really believe this........What is the one word? Inquiring minds would like to know. I know some men who could use their lives ruined 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 01:18 AM |
| 5 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?When I was trying to nicely break up with my horrible ex of several years, he literally ran away to a different room of the house, started crying (of course), then got his ex wife’s engagement ring out of his safe and tried to propose to me with it while still crying with snot coming out of his nose. I told him no, but was completely freaked out. Because I was a doormat, I agreed to have dinner with him later that week for “closure” where he proposed to me again with a new ring in a very full, v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 8 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?I had something crazy similar happen! After the first time I had sex with a guy in my early 20’s, he asked me if I had ever considered a boob job and then said with my frame I wouldn’t want to go any bigger than a large C. Like he was a plastic surgeon or something! (He wasn’t. He was a CPA.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What kind of entitled asshole gives his wife a performance review?Here’s a link to the article if you’d like to throw up: Husband takes wife out to complete an annual review of their marriage https://mol.im/a/9042733 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Is stinginess related to job?I think it if you meet them in real life, this isn’t an issue. I’ve dated a few doctors and attorneys and they haven’t been cheap at all. I also met a few on OLD and honestly, they’re giant losers. They are the guys who can’t approach a woman in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:34 AM |
| 14 | Yes, Virginia, HVM exist..." as certainly as love and generosity and devotion exist, and you know that they abound and give to your life its highest beauty and joy"This is be very cute. A lot of these social media posts seem performative to me though. It’s okay to do a nice thing without posting it everywhere for the praise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:21 AM |
| 35 | I'd rather eat my eyeballs than comply with this kind of bullshit at any occasion, much less on my wedding dayHey! He’s just a Jim looking for his Pam. My god, find a cultural reference within the last decade, guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 08:15 PM |
| 83 | I'd rather eat my eyeballs than comply with this kind of bullshit at any occasion, much less on my wedding dayTacos!! If I see one more OLD profile that mentions tacos. The majority of Americans like tacos. It is not a personality trait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:25 PM |
| 27 | Y’ALL! I was dating a guy who treated me the best I’d ever been treated. He then told me he’s on the sex offender registry! Worst part is below...They would probably get sued by some perverts rights group. There are a lot of stipulations around companies doing background checks as there are a lot of protections in the Fair Credit Reporting Act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:01 AM |
| 40 | Y’ALL! I was dating a guy who treated me the best I’d ever been treated. He then told me he’s on the sex offender registry! Worst part is below...The best $10 that I pay per month is for an app called Been Verified. It gives you very detailed background info without needing much information about the person. It also pulls address records, so you can see if someone has a live in girlfriend or wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 13 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?The worst is sleeves on tops. If I find a top or a sweater where the sleeve comes to my wrist, I buy one in every color. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 4 | The partnership is about working together 🤗 he's making the mess, and I am cleaning it. But seriously, I can't imagine how harmful it is for the young girls to hear such things said by an authority.The answer is probably in one of the many books that she’s self published. She has absolutely no background in psychology, but calls herself a love doctor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:39 PM |
| 108 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?5’10”. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve met a guy who says he is 6’ on his profile and he’s shorter than me. Now I set my height minimum at 6’2”, so even if they are lying, they’ll still be taller than me. I met this guy for dinner only to find out that he was the Notre Dame leprechaun in college. This man was claiming to be 6’ on bumble and he was an actual leprechaun! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:18 PM |
| 14 | DON'T close convo's with a X or ❤️🥰👄💋🌹😘They call you babe because they can't remember your name. If they start the babe thing after like a month of dating, it's because they're also dating three other women and can't keep you all straight. Been there, done that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:45 AM |
| 42 | Single mothers are the new witches of society. When in doubt blame the single mother. This is why I will never birth a child to continue a society who hates me so much.There are so many gaps in this argument, but I’ll go with the easiest. What about single mothers by choice? These “Men’s Rights Activists” always seem to forget with this argument is that there is a big trend with middle class to upper middle class women to do it on their own as they really don’t need a man and their children perform just as well and are just as happy as children from a two parent household. Per the WSJ: Her research has found most single mothers by choice are college educated a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:58 PM |
| 54 | This is why we block.If you haven’t already, block him. Don’t give him the opportunity to jump in and out of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:45 PM |
| 238 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.He’s also an overgrown man child. He’s joked in several interviews that his wife basically mothers him and does everything for the kids while he is out on his motorcycles or hanging with his pals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:09 AM |
| 7 | What if you wanna pay sometimes? For empowerment reasons?Empowered how? Put the money you would have spent on him in a piggy bank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:33 AM |
| 7 | The ultimate LVMHe treated her pretty terribly for like 12 seasons until he died. He would be a complete jerk and then do something romantic over and over and over. So I guess by him dying she leveled up? 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 12:01 PM |
| 24 | Yet another story of how a woman becoming successful ended in divorce... Sickening. Good for Martha! Being single on your 70s shouldn't be a bad thing or the end of the world.Martha is my idol. If I won the lottery, I’d live like her. Out in there country in a big gorgeous house with designer chickens, stables, greenhouses, gardens. She is living her best life. That video that went viral of her last year on her tractor is the end goal here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 03:02 PM |
| 16 | BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments)I have a 130 pound Newfoundland. They look like huge bears and people cross the street when they see her. She’s incapable of hurting anyone, but she’s giant and her bark is loud as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 04:13 PM |
| 159 | BuT fAlSe RaPe CaSeS (Check comments)If watching 20 seasons of Law and Order SVU has taught me anything, it’s that you could live in a bunker and if a man wanted to rape you, he would find a way. That being said, it does offer a little comfort to take some precautions. I live alone and have both a gun and a giant dog. It helps me to sleep a little better, but I still know that of someone wanted to get me, they would. What precautions do you all take? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 12:59 PM |
| 110 | I guess if you’re going to act like a doormat, you might as well beg your boyfriend to propose to you on one.People thought it was funny and were asking where they could buy one. She wrote in the comments that she can sense a Christmas engagement on the horizon, but she’s been wrong before. She has also posted “white dress try ons” where she tries on engagement party dresses and then has to clarify that she isn’t engaged. Once she posted a video where she was a bit tipsy on vacation just begging him to go to a jewelry store and buy any ring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 01:09 AM |
| 124 | I guess if you’re going to act like a doormat, you might as well beg your boyfriend to propose to you on one.They’re friends of friends. They’ve been together/ lived together for at least four years. He’s in no rush. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 08:33 PM |
| 25 | Oh of course, no problem. I believe what you’re looking for is a free whore? I hate it here. Marriage seems unattainable with what this internet has allowed me to see.A nice, short, piece of shit man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:07 AM |
| 8 | .. old sm “friend” I never really knew, and now deleted.. grossWe could play bingo with this! It’s like every pick me behavior rolled into one. Then throw on some bullshit love language talk. That book is the best thing that’s ever happened to gaslighting assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:04 AM |
| 27 | For the women who want children, vet like if you were to pass away after having children with this man. Would you trust him? Could he feed, clothe and bathe someone else? Provide? Protect? Love?Charlize Theron is a good example of a single mother by choice. Outside of her fling with Sean Penn, she has always seemed very level headed. She knew she wanted a kid in 2012, there was no man on the horizon, so she adopted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 04:00 AM |
| 25 | For the women who want children, vet like if you were to pass away after having children with this man. Would you trust him? Could he feed, clothe and bathe someone else? Provide? Protect? Love?I have the same plan in mind. If I don’t have someone fantastic by a certain age, I’m going the sperm donor route. I can financially and emotionally support a child on my own, there’s really no need to add a man into the picture unless he’s great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 03:56 AM |
| 16 | Faking pleasure- pick me behavior?I once asked how much longer he thought it would last. That really sped things up. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | The Booty Kings (Chris Redd, Kenan Thompson), Uncle Butt (Pete Davidson), Lil Wayne and Future rap about how much they love women and consent.Future is a terrible person. He’s also still very salty about Ciara marrying a really great guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 135 | If he wanted to marry you, he would. A year into dating and he’s getting the ring made.Congrats! Also, moissanite is a lovely stone that holds up well. There is a sub all about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:33 AM |
| 132 | I love how OP handled this like a queen 🙌👑 the audacity of this selfish guy trying to pressure her into being a warm fleshlightFrom the genius Nora Ephron - When Harry Met Sally Harry: What are you saying, that they fake orgasm? Sally: It's possible. Harry: Get outta here! Sally: Why? Most women at one time or another have faked it. Harry: Well they haven't faked it with me. Sally: How do you know? Harry: Because I know. Sally: Oh, right, that's right, I forgot, you're a man. Harry: What is that supposed to mean? Sally: Nothing. It's just that all men are sure it never happened to them and that most women at one time or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:13 AM |
| 51 | Because a wife should be subservient to her husband$20 says this bald fuck is single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | A very sweet gesture I found on Reddit! This may not mean he is a HVM, but I do think a gesture like this is so kind and gives me hope that some guys do things like this! Let’s hope he’s HVM all aroundMe too! My lying, cheating, terrible ex loved to cuddle. (He also loved to cuddle some strange when he was out of town...) On multiple occasions he asked me to “hold him”. Not as a joke, he wanted me to cradle him like the big baby he was. He was 6’4”, 250 pounds. Hold yourself, you big buffoon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:02 AM |
| 21 | It’s my friend’s birthday. I got her some little gifts and I’m taking her out to a nice restaurant (that I found and picked and I will pay for our meal) She’s an amazing person and I want to make her feel special on her day 💗Exactly! We all need friends like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:57 PM |
| 20 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .I have a timeline to find someone fantastic, if I don’t find him by the timeline, I’m going the sperm donor route. Tons of women are becoming single mothers by choice. You can raise your children the way you see fit without having to deal with a man child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Recognize the red flags. This will also serve as a reminder for myself 🙌Yes! I took a screenshot to remind myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 11:23 PM |
| 35 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.I would never get to the true love stage, because I’d never make it past the first date with a short guy. I’ll take chubby, receding hairline, or bad skin, before I’d take short. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 03:30 AM |
| 7 | Listen to your brain, listen to body. Remove all stressful elements from your life.I wish I had learned this at 22! It would have certainly saved me a lot of wasted years of stress and anxiety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:40 AM |
| 14 | This is why you don't give second chances to LVMs and have kids with them. Nope.If I don’t find an out of this world fabulous man who treats me like a queen in the next year or so, I’m planning on just getting a sperm donor. Sperm donors have no rights, I can raise my kid the way that I see fit. There’s a reason that so many are choosing to be single mothers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 76 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.I work with a bunch of men who like to order people around. I’ve found that it’s quite difficult for a man to order you around when you’re 5’10” in four inch heels. They’re either at eye level or shorter than me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:24 AM |
| 18 | But if I say "respect me and don't watch porn" my standards are too high 🙄🙄What 18 year old makes enough money to completely support themself? I certainly didn’t. This list is full of plot holes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 11:16 AM |
| 27 | Reason no. 6394573 not to date LVM’s. Your hair will FALL OUT!Yes! When I was with my ex, I was so stressed all the time. I broke out into hives regularly, my skin looked like shit, and my hair was falling out in clumps. It was like my body was telling me to get the hell away from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 04:09 AM |
| 8 | “Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.” – Nora EphronI love Nora. Sometimes I listen to her audiobooks when I’m feeling blue. My favorite Nora quote: "This is the season when a clutch of successful women -- who have it all -- give speeches to women like you and say, to be perfectly honest, you can't have it all. Maybe young women don't wonder whether they can have it all any longer, but in case of you are wondering, of course you can have it all. What are you going to do? Everything, is my guess. It will be a little messy, but embrace the mess. It… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 09:02 PM |
| 34 | oh honey noIs it a ring pop?? You can’t get those wet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 02:33 PM |
| 53 | Imagine not replying for two hours because you’re studying and you come back to this...I’ll bet y’all $20 that this man is a neurosurgeon. I’ve gone on a few dates with neurosurgeons. They do not know how to interact like actual human beings. I’m sure that part of it is that they have to disassociate a lot as they are usually wrist deep in someone’s brain, but somewhere along the way in their training they lose the ability to be a human. Like a second date is probably not a good time to give me a 45 minute lecture on gray matter in the brain complete with CT scans. I don’t work in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:54 PM |
| 9 | Imagine not replying for two hours because you’re studying and you come back to this...I’m assuming that this man is a doctor. If you are a tall doctor with dashing good looks and insanely high test scores and you are single, it’s on you bud. Most of my clients at work are medical practices and I’ve dated a doctor or two. Even the not so great looking guys have no issue finding dates. It’s pretty well known that almost all specialties outside of GPS and pediatricians make a high, steady income and a lot of women look for that in a partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:45 PM |
| 7 | 🙄 also, why do men insist on calling us “females” tfShe is crazy fit! I’ll bet she could do the splits if she wanted to. What the hell is this range of motion nonsense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:45 PM |
| 9 | Obvi? I just got back on tinder and after FDS I digress. Hard.Is there an OLD platform that you’d suggest? I used bumble for a few months and it wasn’t worth the time, so I deleted it. Also, I’m pretty sure their algorithm front loads all of the interesting guys. When I opened my account, I had a bunch of professional guys in my beeline. After a few weeks it was all barbers and line cooks at Five Guys Burgers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:40 PM |
| 65 | Scrote only has sex if it means his wife is pegging him while watching the kind of porn he likes. She does so begrudgingly. And he refuses to clean up the poop afterward.She is obviously an educated woman. I’d bet she is also pretty put together. It’s time to pack up and leave. This is his way of being dominant. Only he gets to decide how they have sex. He gets the pleasure and she cleans up the mess (literally... eww). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:36 PM |
| 29 | Found this nugget in my inbox after my last post on here. If this is a woman I feel sorry she has such little self respect and worthiness that she actually believes this is true.I say go on with your haughty self and find that unicorn! I just love the word haughty! It makes me think of 1940’s Katharine Hepburn movies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 09:32 PM |
| 14 | Man terrifies woman into blocking him on multiple forms of contact. Cue him whining and hundreds of comments calling her a bitch without hearing her side of the story.The old Publix special for my ladies in the south. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:56 AM |
| 63 | Man terrifies woman into blocking him on multiple forms of contact. Cue him whining and hundreds of comments calling her a bitch without hearing her side of the story.But he was an ABSOLUTE GENTLEMAN. He said it four times in one paragraph, so it must be true 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:55 AM |
| 20 | Onesies all dayEvery time I hear that word, I think of that hilarious story on here a few months ago who wouldn’t wipe his ass 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:50 AM |
| 68 | My Awakened Goddesses TribeFemales? I feel like a guy wrote this. I’ve never heard a woman refer to other women as females. Just men, of the low value variety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:08 AM |
| 98 | What hard lessons did you learn over the years through dating?I had a really brilliant psych professor in undergrad. I should have listened a little bit more intently. He used to have Love Lectures once a week and gave the best advice. He was about as HVM as you could find. Absolutely ADORED his wife after 40 years of marriage. I also TA’d for him and met her a few times (she was also a professor) and they were the real deal. His advice about marriage and engagements: if you aren’t talking about it by a year and he hasn’t done it by year two, it’s time to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:01 AM |
| 80 | What hard lessons did you learn over the years through dating?You can’t fix anyone. You aren’t Bob the Builder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:53 AM |
| 249 | you deserve someone who takes care of you ❤️Mine cheated on me when I was in the hospital for two weeks after extensive surgery. Just out banging randoms. It is nice to see that some men really rise to the occasion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 75 | Men using women on Tinder for emotional therapy. Comments are from another man doing the same thing. Women are not service animals, go and seek help!Are they so cheap that they can’t pay a $50 copay to see a real therapist? My god! A few months ago, I went on a first date with a guy who told me about how his engagement got broken off and then started crying. On a first freaking date! At a restaurant! In front of people! I didn’t ask him. He just started rambling and then crying. People were looking at us. Thankfully it was right as the bill was coming, so I didn’t need to think of a reason to leave. He text me afterword to tell me that I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:25 PM |
| 317 | all of the comments were criticizing the bf and she STILL defends himWhy would you post this on the internet? Is this some sort of weird bragging? I’d be so embarrassed that my boyfriend thought so little of me to show up three hours late. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 11:52 AM |
| 46 | Ladies, look out for each other! We are all queens, and we need to support each other as suchThe “what man would want me?” thing is real. I was in a terrible accident and it took a year of intense PT to get back to walking like normal. I had a very pronounced limp for months after I stopped walking with a walker. I stuck it out with my terrible ex because I didn’t think anyone else would want me. Then two things happened. The first was that a very cute physical therapist at my PT office started blatantly hitting on me. He wasn’t my type, but it was a great boost of confidence. My limply… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:18 AM |
| 26 | Why do LVM get so mad when they see a woman being loved properly?She does! She’s lost a ton of weight and looks really different. Those bikini pics that the jealous man above were complaining about were hot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:46 AM |
| 38 | Please don't shrink yourself to make (men) comfortable.Awkward is the new #1 neg. I can’t tell you how many times in different situations that I’ve heard men refer to women as awkward. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:42 AM |
| 19 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?They got married when she was a neurology resident. Chances are he knew she would be successful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:40 PM |
| 6 | List of men with jobs to avoid. Please bear in mind that women in these jobs could be fine, as we are socially conditioned to continuously work on self-improvement, whereas men are not. I’ll start the list in comments, please contribute.Also, a ton of business travel. Pre-Covid, I traveled at least once a week for work. You should see how those sales reps act once they get a drink or two in them at a hotel bar. They are propositioning EVERYONE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:16 PM |
| 51 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?I think this is bullshit. There are of course successful men who are looking for a nice trophy wife that bends to his every whim, but there are also successful men who like to be challenged intellectually and are just fine with women making their own money. A SVP at my company makes buckets of money. His wife would never have to work. She is a chair of a department at a medical school and is very successful in her field. Every time I’ve been to a work dinner that he’s at, he always brings up wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:04 PM |
| 11 | What is with Snapchat?They’re married and there is no proof of their philandering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 02:15 AM |
| 18 | So so so many luscious HVM layers here!Is so sweet. He’s told this story during several interviews and he always seems so thrilled to tell it. He is still so smitten with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 01:58 AM |
| 13 | How did he not see that coming?😂He obviously doesn’t have a job or has a really shitty job flipping burgers somewhere. I work in HR and I would fire him for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Past FWB wants to make amends and be friends again cause he missed me. Trust has been broken after how we ended and I wanted a relationship, but he didn’t. I left the situation and didn’t contact him for 2 months. He reached out last week.I kinda doubt that this man is an ER doctor 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 70 | No.I made a bet with my obese ex that he couldn’t lose 80 pounds and if he did, I would pay for a vacation. He did lose 80 pounds with some sketchy medically supervised program including crazy amounts of B12 shots. I paid for the vacation and within three months, he had gained most of it back. However, I have to say that this is the closest I’ve ever gotten to fixing someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Past FWB wants to make amends and be friends again cause he missed me. Trust has been broken after how we ended and I wanted a relationship, but he didn’t. I left the situation and didn’t contact him for 2 months. He reached out last week.I’m not sure if it belongs on this sub. It appears that she is the one texting him first. This is one easy block, delete, and move the hell on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 158 | No.A list of the things that I have attempted to fix: alcoholism, lying, cheating, obesity, not completing a college degree. The number of those things that I actually fixed: zero. 🤡 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 01:27 AM |
| 47 | Don’t go on “boat dates” with guys you don’t know well or you could be put into a situation you don’t want to be in. 😬When I was younger and much more naive, I went on a second date on a boat. For a good half an hour it was just the two of us out in open water and he wasn’t that great at driving the thing. I had to pretend that I was having a good time until he docked at a bar and then called an Uber to get out of there. I lied and said I had stomach issues. No one wants to hear about stomach issues, so it worked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:14 PM |
| 38 | LVM really be going out of their way to neg women just posting about their new hairI said this in another post, but I’ll say it again. It’s okay to have preferences. It’s not okay to be an asshole. I’m not sure when people made the collective decision that it was okay to express every thought that popped into their heads, but it’s really unnecessary. Learn to censor yourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:46 AM |
| 6 | Wow, I just realized that all of my 20's went to being a pickmeisha and needing validation from men. Don't be the old me...I also feel like I wasted my twenties on a bunch of losers. I don’t want to sound cliche, but I’m kind of okay with it as I learned a lot about myself from the experience. Would I relive my twenties? Hell no! They did make me a better person for my thirties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 03:40 AM |
| 51 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩It’s okay to have preferences, but it’s not okay to be an asshole. I am not attracted to man buns or neck beards. If my significant other grew either, I would say something. I wouldn’t act like a toddler and throw a tantrum. This couple has been together long enough to have a high school aged child. If the only thing holding the relationship is his love for her long hair, the relationship has been dead for a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:40 AM |
| 60 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.“Try to inspect the penis beforehand”. Get out your magnifying glasses, ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:24 PM |
| 42 | I love it when men put LVM in their placeProbably Outback. Really swank it up! Don’t come at me... I love a bloomin’ onion, just not on a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 574 | If he gets it in 1920, he has no excuse in 2020.He was a terrible husband who put his sick wife in a sanitarium so he could have an affair, along with all kinds of other crazy things like having her receive electroshock therapy. It wasn’t all Great Gatsby fabulousness. There is nothing about their relationship that is worth praising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 07:16 PM |
| 207 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?This is nothing. Most of them can’t even fill out the intake paperwork. I worked in my uncle’s orthopedic practice in high school and college. It never failed to amaze me how many left their kid’s birthday/ social empty or had to call their wives to ask. They would never have their insurance card and were always asking if you could just look it up for them. They also didn’t understand the basic principles of insurance, like you pay your copay and if your kid needs a cast, you’ll have to hit your… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Really?! If you injure a woman during sex, she should be more soft spoken around you?! Christ...A lot of these screenshots make me feel sad for people. I guess I have to check my own privilege, but I don’t encounter people who are this uneducated in my life. I realize that low value people come from all walks of life, but it feels like punching below your weight to make fun of women who can’t even form a cohesive thoughts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:28 AM |
| 25 | I never heard women complaining about 18 yo men bodies. Why do they keep doing this?Exactly! She has a great figure. She wouldn’t give them a second look. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:33 PM |
| 15 | “Women should be more indulgent of affairs”. Excuse your mouth?Happily divorced. Not a great idea, I certainly agree that revenge doesn’t work, but it helped to speed up the divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:47 PM |
| 199 | “Women should be more indulgent of affairs”. Excuse your mouth?This is not FDS, but a good friend found out about her husband’s affair, went to a bar when he was out of town, found some young thing, brought him home and screwed him in front of their ring security camera. It sent an alert tp the husbands phone. Apparently it wasn’t the same when she did it? 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:43 PM |
| 71 | Why are we ALLOWED to sleep with anyone we want? How dare we have requirements when we invest in a partner?If you are a 25 year old “kissless virgin”, you might need more help then reddit can provide. There are obviously underlying issues, but sure, blame it on those women and their requirements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Just thought this was funny (not sure what to flair it, but oh well)I disagree with this. Typically asking for more in your current job results in a tiny pay bump to placate you and then HR will do sketchy things like not giving you your annual cost of living increase because you’ve already had an increase that year. The easiest way to make more money is to switch companies. This generally results in a 15%+ increase which you wouldn’t see with your current company. With everything in life whether it is a company or a man, the way that they treat you (or compensa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:34 PM |
| 16 | Just thought this was funny (not sure what to flair it, but oh well)Absolutely! It’s a great (and honestly, very easy) field and the only one that I can think of where c-level execs are predominately women. Feel free to DM me, but just a few quick thoughts: 1. Get your certifications as quickly as you can. They really boost your earning potential early in your career. 2. Switch jobs every two-ish years. Every time I have switched jobs, I’ve ended up with 20-30% more pay than I was previously making. 3. Don’t be afraid to be smart. This is going to sound mean, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:03 PM |
| 10 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?Yes! Everyday there is a message to lurkers. I say just let them lurk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:09 PM |
| 55 | DICK. SIZE. MATTERS. SAY IT with your CHEST!Not so lucky in love, but I’ve definitely been lucky in this department. Before someone tells me about the giant they dated with a tiny pecker, I realize that my theory isn’t always true, but I’ve had good luck... I’m tall and have only ever dated tall (6’2”+) men. A friend was showing me these unsolicited dick pics that she was getting from losers on tinder and it dawned on me that I’d never even seen a small penis. Talk about naive, I just thought all dicks were 7”+ hard. Dick size isn’t every… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 12:01 PM |
| 34 | I'm so tired of being aloneI’ve been there. I know it’s not what you are going to want to hear, but you won’t attract anyone worth attracting until you get your depression and anxiety under control. LVM men seek out women who feel like terrible about themselves and their situation because they are easy to manipulate. I spent three years of my life with an awful person who only made me more anxious and depressed, because I just wanted to have someone. He knew this and manipulated the heck out of me. They preach it around h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 11:49 AM |
| 78 | Just thought this was funny (not sure what to flair it, but oh well)I work in HR for a giant company and have access to comp info. I can tell you that the wage gap is still very real. Even companies that tout their diversity and empowerment of women do it, it’s just more subtle. In sales, women who go out on maternity leave generally do not have their annual quotas reduced even though they are missing months of the year to hit that quota. That means that they are missing out on commissions, president’s clubs, and bonuses while men who generally take a week or so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:20 AM |
| 28 | I see so many young girls 15-21yo on tiktok saying that they want to become pornstars... And it makes me feel so weird like why would you want to do this to yourself? Just for male attention? Are they that naive? you get nothing from this you just serving men and the patriarchyThey don’t realize what all goes into a porn shoot. You don’t show up and have sex with a person and leave. It’s an all day affair. There are reshoots and things have to be shot at different angles. You’re going to get pounded by some guy for hours and hours. They pump them up with viagra and have fluffers backstage to blow them in between scenes to keep them hard. It is by no means an easy job, they work hard for the money and put themselves at significant risk, especially if it’s shot somewher… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:02 AM |
| 155 | Ugly guy want you to see past his looks but only if you are good-looking.The other issue is that a lot of the men in porn are really ugly. Look at Ron Jeremy. Ugly guys see this and think, “Well if he can get someone like that, so can I,” except that shit doesn’t happen in the real world unless you’re filthy rich. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:50 AM |
| 62 | Trying to practice my Danish and found this passage: "I will not fall for any of the following categories: alcoholics, workaholics, marriage-phobic or with girlfriends or wives, misogynysts, megalomaniacs, chauvinists, emotional assholes or perverts."I’m pretty sure that is a quote from Bridget Jones’ Diary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:43 AM |
| 15 | Nothing like bragging about your proposal with a $76 ring while playing video games to the freaking New York Times.I just love the NYT, especially the arts section. The vows section is like a treasure trove of craziness. Keep up the good work! We need real journalists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:12 AM |
| 52 | Nothing like bragging about your proposal with a $76 ring while playing video games to the freaking New York Times.Moissanite is a good alternative. They don’t cloud and are affordable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What would you do if a NVM took you to a grocery store and gave you $50 on your first date? I’d take the money and go straight home.Publix stores have a gift card rack in the front of the store. Buy yourself a $50 Nordstrom gift card, get yourself out there, and go buy yourself some Marc Jacobs lipstick or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:29 PM |
| 27 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingBear spray is where it’s at. You can buy it on amazon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:24 PM |
| 25 | On a Facebook Post about an expensive proposal, you're bound to have many Pickmeishas appear in the comments! Some of these are hilarious, some are downright sad.Are they vying for a prize for shittiest proposal or something? It’s like a competition to see whose husband cares the least about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 11:51 PM |
| 11 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...Pockmarks from acne. They’re pretty easy to minimize with some strong facial peels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:46 PM |
| 62 | He proposes with a 20$ costume jewellery necklace and then gets butthurt when she asks for a ring. The guy needs a shovel so he can still dig his way below the bar.I don’t understand half of the words in this post. I guess I’m very lucky to have never dated a gamer. In my opinion, buying a woman a nice engagement ring is putting some skin in the game. In most states it is considered a gift and does not need to be returned if an engagement is broken off. It’s basically saying: here is a token to show you how much you mean to me and also, if anything happens, use it as an insurance policy to move on with your life. I also think it should be representative of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 08:01 PM |
| 10 | From SATC.. blood test and ATM receipt sound good to me — would you add anything else?Don’t waste time with Mom. They almost always think that their son is perfect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:03 PM |
| 268 | The comment section is full of people hating on “Princess week” and how he’s just super spoiling her etc. I can’t believe how some people just can’t deal with a man being nice to his wife...Let’s be real, this guy realizes that she is WAY out of his league. I know that this isn’t a popular opinion here as a lot of less than attractive men are LVM, but the majority of the women I know who are adored by their spouse are with someone not as attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:52 AM |
| 29 | This is posted on Bumble's IG page, meaning they condone it. It's dangerous and there are so many women fawning over it.I’m going to sound like an old granny, but that’s a pretty forward first message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:31 AM |
| 59 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.Near the end of my last relationship, my POS ex literally fell asleep going down on me. He wasn’t even faking it, he actually fell asleep. I kicked him in the head. I feel like it was probably some sort of sad metaphor for our relationship. That is a whole new level of not giving a shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:09 PM |
| 12 | It just dawned on me that nearly every man who has gone down on me were just giving it "the ol' husband try" meaning, they were purposefully bad at it to make me give up on asking them to do it.We need to put this on a t-shirt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:05 PM |
| 17 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolY’all I am this person on OLD. Might be because I work in HR, but I treat this shit like an interview. 😂 What do you do? (Anyone who gives vague answers about this is lying about what they do.) Where did you go to school? How many times have you been divorced? (Most men over 35 have been, so it’s a safe assumption.) Why did your last relationship fail? (Anything about her being crazy = unmatch.) Do you have a pet? (Pets are a responsibility. If they can’t handle a pet, they can’t handle me.) Whe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:42 PM |
| 11 | Yet we are the “too sensitive” “overly emotional” ones...okTheir fee-fees 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:55 PM |
| 60 | Demi Lovato broke up with her narc fiancé and is living her absolute best life while he’s ‘crying’ on Instagram🧚🏼♀️I’ll be that person. You shouldn’t marry someone you’ve known for less than a year. Also, put your Sherlock Holmes hat on and research the hell out of a man before you even get close to marrying him. All of this info about him is out there for anyone to find. I know we shouldn’t blame other women, but you need to be your own advocate. Boyfriend’s IMDB is like two bullet points, he didn’t buy that $2M engagement ring himself... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:17 PM |
| 38 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?I faked it for three years with my last ex who was a drunk and had a hard time getting hard. You know what’s really sexy? A sloppy drunk trying to get it hard enough to wedge in there. It looked like play- doh. My god! What was I thinking?! I’ve only ever had one guy who was able to get me off. From the beginning of our relationship he was really big on getting you off gets me off. I thought it was just a line, but he was serious. Things would not progress to him having an orgasm until I’d had a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:07 PM |
| 29 | Should I leave him or can we work it out?Generally I think if someone is asking if they should stay or go, they already know what they should do. If you get to the point in your relationship where you have to ask if it’s all worth it, it isn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Dump A Porn Scote TodayI’m sure the people in the comments told her to just communicate. Maybe he’s depressed? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 02:58 PM |
| 57 | What a beautiful story! This is how us women should look out for each other!🥺❤️❤️❤️The grammar is terrible. I think it’s safe to assume this didn’t come from a reputable news source. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 12:13 PM |
| 34 | Or maybe don’t go having kids all over the place when you only have $800 a month to support them?? Why is that so difficult?In order for the court to deduct money from your paycheck, you have to have a paycheck. If you file income taxes with no income, then there isn’t anything there to take. I’m not saying that this man is a drug dealer, but he’s a drug dealer and judging by how cheap he is, not a very good one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 07:53 PM |
| 33 | Male med student wants to be able to examine female patients against their will. LVM are everywhere.Don’t date an OB/GYN. I have no problem with most specialties, I’ve dated a few nice doctors, but I’ve never heard anything good about OB/GYNs. I went on a date with one several years ago and he told me that he was very good at eating the box. I’m so naive that I had to google it while he was in the bathroom. It ended up being a very brief date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 33 | Do you ever think back on a past relationship in disbelief at the things you went through?I can’t even think about my last relationship. I made an absolute fool of myself. Literally everyone who met us said some variation of “Girl, run!”, including his mom and sisters and my ass stuck around for over three years thinking I can fix him. I also turned into the biggest pick me doormat, which is so not like me. Note to self: you aren’t going to fix an alcoholic lying cheater. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:33 AM |
| 40 | Why don’t guys understand that women just prefer tall dudes! It’s biology!I’m a tall woman and honestly, I just like to feel petite. I’ve never dated a guy shorter than 6’2”. When I roll over in the middle of the night, I want to feel like there is a man next to me. Sorry, not sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:45 AM |
| 15 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡Yes! You cannot fix him, you aren’t The Betty Ford Clinic! Learned that one the hard way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 11:55 PM |
| 53 | Formerly diagnosed but treated clamydiaWhile chlamydia is a common STD, it is also easily cured with antibiotics. Once it’s gone, it’s gone, unless you keep sleeping with the person who gave it to you if they haven’t also been treated, There is no need to feel blacklisted or even tell someone that you had it as it is cured and you cannot spread it. Would you tell a date that you had the flu last year? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Unsolicited half-naked pics. No thanks and BLOCKED!I second the delete and block, but I’ve gotta say, that’s pretty in shape for a 60 year old man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:37 PM |
| 17 | I saw this today and wanted to share. It’s NEVER too late to level up ❤️That’s the thing that gives me pause. I make more now than most associate attorneys make. It’s a field I’ve always been interested in and I work in a legal adjacent field now, but it will take a lot of time and tuition to end up where I’m already at. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:31 PM |
| 92 | I saw this today and wanted to share. It’s NEVER too late to level up ❤️Me too! The law school part hit me. I keep thinking that I’m too old to go back. It obviously isn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 6 | How to be a femme fatale.If a man were doing this to a woman on this sub, we would all call him a sociopath. I might be in the minority, but if you have to change your entire essence or mind fuck someone to get them to be with you, it’s probably not worth it for either party. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 25 | we literally can’t even sleep in peace...I would never sleep with a man who called having sex “wanting the pipe”. Grow up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 68 | This has to stop. The bar is SO low for men!Me too. Maybe it’s projecting, but I’m not a fan of anyone bragging about how fertile they are, especially when there are tons of women who aren’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 03:40 PM |
| 12 | This has to be a joke, can’t believe this is real 😂😂😂I just threw up 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 49 | Guy treats his GF like shit because he thought she’d never leave. She leaves him and is gone for good. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!I really don’t think he wrote this. A narcissistic, selfish asshole would not have this sort of clarity a few days after getting dumped. It would take months of therapy to figure out that you are a gaslighting, careless, thoughtless sack of shit. The vast majority would never put in the work to work on their flaws, because they don’t believe that they have any. I’d bet she wrote this from the perspective of what she would want him to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:37 PM |
| 5 | WOW, Cook a whole bowl of INSTANT ramen and he’s an ✨entrepreneur✨ Ladies I think I found my future man 💍👏🏽Or CEO. No CEOs of companies with actual employees are on OLD. Congrats of being CEO of your family’s lawn care service! Those are the only CEOs on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:57 AM |
| 11 | Kicked him to the curbIf you’re 20, you have so much find to find someone. I know that it’s hard to grasp at 20, lord knows I held onto hope for a guy who would give me scraps of attention. It feels like he will be the only one. There will be more. There are always more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:24 AM |
| 12 | Real ClassyI hope that guy chokes on an ice cube and dies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 34 | Has anyone seen Enola Holmes on Netflix?It’s very cute and appropriate for a teenager. Also, Henry Cavill 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:39 PM |
| 12 | Men who don't pay on dates are insecure, not just cheapI never even reach for my purse. There is no gesture on my part. I’ve also never been asked to pay my part of the bill. Probably because I’ve been known to get up and leave through the back door if a date is going horribly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 26 | Saw this on FB and thought of you QueensDidn’t he marry his adopted granddaughter or something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:24 PM |
| 35 | Men only bringing the audacity, yet again, to the table!I don’t necessarily like dad bods, but I like really big men. I had a girlfriend comment that all of my boyfriends look like the offensive line for Iowa. Just some big ol’ corn fed guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 15 | Dating Profile Translations and jokes, a field guide and PSA.Taco Tuesday/ I love tacos - I have no personality Why do so many men have shit about tacos in their profile? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 25 | They try to invalidate grown women because impressing us is harder 🤷🏻♀️Darn! I thought I had a few months before I hit the wall. Now I find out I hit it 5 years ago. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:12 AM |
| 47 | Can I just share, ever since embracing the single life I don't have panic attacks caused by arguing. No one triggers my flight or flight unless I allow them. I'm starting to realize, how easily my significant others affect me.My anxiety was out of control with my last ex. He was a lying cheater and I was a doormat pick me. I lived at an anxiety level of 8-9/10 every day. That is no way to live. After an embarrassingly short engagement, I broke things off. It took months for my anxiety level to get back to normal. Looking back, I can’t believe I allowed myself to be put in this constant state of stress. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:06 AM |
| 18 | How easily do you orgasm?I used to be really anxious about it. If I took more than 10-15 minutes, I would worry that I was taking too long. I’d worry about how I looked, was I doing it right, comparing myself to other people. I was really in my head. I could get myself off with a vibrator in three minutes, but a guy could go down on me for half an hour and nothing. If you think you might be in your own head, a few tips. First, try a glass or two of wine first to take of the edge. Not to get drunk, but just to get a litt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 18 | 24 hours?? You are SINGLE!She is fantastic! So joyful, so funny, and gives 0 shits about what men think about her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:47 PM |
| 96 | Cardi B Says She Left Offset Because She Didn't Want to “Wait Until He Cheated on Me Again”Exactly... this does not need to be categorized as queen shit. Queens do not beat up other women. I know that she is well liked here, but threatening and beating other women because your husband has a wondering dick is not worthy of praise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:11 PM |
| 31 | He wanted a traditional woman, but still wanted to treat like a traditional man. That's a no for me dawg.It seems like a dumb thing to brag about in general. I get that the song is catchy, but it’s a bodily function like a runny nose. Would you brag about having the drippiest nose? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 3 | May Every Woman Find Her Marty Ginsburg (Vogue)Yes! Thank you for posting! There was another post on here last week that was bashing him for saying that they were equals. He was incredibly supportive of her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:02 PM |
| 152 | He wanted a traditional woman, but still wanted to treat like a traditional man. That's a no for me dawg.He is a disgusting person. He will cheat on anyone. A supermodel, Mensa member, with the WAPest WAP on the planet, who went to culinary school could make him three meals a day in lingerie and he would cheat on her. But sure, let’s make excuses for this loser of a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:55 PM |
| 7 | How much time do you guys give to see if he can make you orgasm?A few weeks after you start sleeping with him. If he’s that slow to catch on, it’s because he doesn’t care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, if you’re lucky enough for this guy to ask you to get a drink, you’d better bring a stopwatch! You’ve got one hour!I’m an ISTP. Are women ISTPs incels also? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:24 AM |
| 21 | Ladies, if you’re lucky enough for this guy to ask you to get a drink, you’d better bring a stopwatch! You’ve got one hour!Yes! I had an ex who brought some stupid personality test home from work that grouped people into four colors. For the next week he kept blaming every argument on me being an orange and him being a gold or something. Apparently being a lying cheater is something golds do. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:57 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, if you’re lucky enough for this guy to ask you to get a drink, you’d better bring a stopwatch! You’ve got one hour!I just got back on OLD, but two days in, I’m ready to call it quits. This is what’s out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:07 PM |
| 2 | OofPretty sure they are imitation opals, but even if they are real, opals are not everyday stones. They break very easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 16 | "I'm Gonna Wash That Man Right Outa My Hair" - SOUTH PACIFIC (1958)I've been watching musicals from the 50's and 60's lately and forgot about this little song from South Pacific. It's a FDS Anthem! Lyrics: I'm gonna wash that man right outa my hair, I'm gonna wash that man right outa my hair, I'm gonna wash that man right outa my hair, And send him on his way. I'm gonna wave that man right outa my arms, I'm gonna wave that man right outa my arms, I'm gonna wave that man right outa my arms, And send him on his way. Don't try to patch it up Tear it up, tear it up… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 8 | Wow. This is sad.Y’all, let the boy use his allowance and buy her a happy meal. My god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:41 AM |
| 35 | Makes me 😤 to see a gorgeous queen put in effort for date night while her man does the absolute leastThis is Florida in a nutshell. You will see a woman who obviously put some time and effort into her look with a wrinkly slob wearing flip flops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 5 | Why Justice RBG’s Husband was a HVM.Thank you for this! People were blasting him on another thread. From everything I’ve read about them he was incredibly supportive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:55 PM |
| 21 | Good Strategy QueenDo a little bit of research on them. He was incredibly supportive of her and he was the one who called everyone he knew in the legal community to get her short listed for the Supreme Court as she wasn’t the type to make those sort of calls herself. For the majority of their married life, he practiced tax law and she was a professor and worked for the ACLU. Did she try landmark cases? Absolutely. But he was also one of the best tax attorneys on the east coast. Prior to her becoming a Supreme Cour… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 26 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?I had the same experience. I was very tall and gangly in high school and had very angular features. Because I didn’t look like everyone else, people liked to make comments about it. I got made fun of almost daily through high school. I really thought I was ugly. Then I went to college and suddenly had all of this male attention. It was the strangest feeling, like going from an ugly duckling to a swan, but really looking no different. Just surrounded by different people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 01:43 PM |
| 142 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?I was 19, model proportions (5’10”, 120), and quite pretty. I was always a bit self conscious about being flat chested. My boyfriend asked me if I’d ever consider getting a boob job. He said I only needed to go up to a C to make him happy. It stuck with me for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:26 PM |
| 71 | If you’re this bitter, it might be best to just remove yourself from the dating pool.I’m not sure if he is married. I think he was saying that’s where he should be in his life instead of having to be on bumble. Either way, he was unmatched right after this message. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:45 AM |
| 21 | If you’re this bitter, it might be best to just remove yourself from the dating pool.I unmatched. I had no reason to continue the conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:44 AM |
| 47 | I live in Boston and this guy matched with me and messaged me who lives in Maine. He mentioned taking me out for dinner and drinks then mentioned this. I live in the city and don’t drive. Was he really expecting me to somehow meet him halfway?There are like 10 single women in Maine. He might have to drive a little more than half way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:26 AM |
| 41 | Wanted to share another gem from my short stint on tinderThe opportunity to have a relationship... I hope no one would put up with that especially with this specimen of a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 12:42 AM |
| 62 | These men don't deserve a glance, let alone WIVES.I guess she can take him out back and hose him down like a dog. She’s married to a literal shit stain 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:25 AM |
| 7 | The women must be lining upExactly. You can always subtract 2-3 inches on OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:23 AM |
| 117 | These men don't deserve a glance, let alone WIVES.Did she not know about his nasty skid marks before she married him? Wash your ass, people. A screaming, shitty man child. What a prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:01 AM |
| 19 | If he's not treating you like you're "the one", then let that man go.I love this! Just threw the wedding portraits in the dumpster 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:58 AM |
| 35 | Women pay to listen to a male dating coach telling them to split the bill, yikes!I listened to his audio book. I made it about half way through and then just decided that I’d rather be single than spend anymore time listening to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 10:31 AM |
| 27 | Okay... I’ll stay singleI hope this man isn’t a real professor somewhere spreading this bullshit to young minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:57 AM |
| 16 | I deserve to maintain my dignity.There’s a scene in When Harry Met Sally when Sally finds out that her ex was marrying his rebound and she says something like, “It’s not that he didn’t want to get married, he didn’t want to marry me”. That’s always stuck with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:36 PM |
| 15 | When trash identifies itself 🗑Have y’all ever seen one in person? I dated a man for 6 months, we took things very slow, we finally got around to doing it and it was not good. This was a 6’5” former college football player, huge hands, huge feet, not so huge below the belt. I tried to make it work for a while, but if they aren’t gifted in other ways, it makes for an awkward time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Confidence around an attractive manThe key is to not treat them like they are any different from anyone else. They are so used to women flocking to them that you will stand out as different for not caring. Not a great example, but when I was in college I was in the same friend group as the quarterback of the football team at a very big football school. He was very good looking and in phenomenal shape. Women were always all over him trying to buy him shots at bars, passing their phone numbers to him on napkins. I always treated hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:03 AM |
| 4 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅I’m 5’10”, so not super super tall, but I’ve dated a few tall men who enjoyed the fact that I’m tall. I wouldn’t let it hold you back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:45 AM |
| 6 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅I’m 5’10” and I won’t date anyone under 6’2”. I’ve found that 6’3” to 6’5” is the sweet spot. I went on a few dates with someone who was 6’8” and that was too tall. Moral of this long winded story: I’m picky as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:43 AM |
| 16 | I’m moving to NYC this fall and I keep hearing that dating in NY is awful. Is finding HVM even more difficult in a place like NY?I haven’t dated in NYC, but I have dated in Chicago and it was terrible. Men seem to think that Ivy League educated models grow on trees. They know if they are decent looking with a good career, they can get on OLD and have 50 messages in half an hour. I would stay off of OLD at least initially. Also, just about every married man that I worked with in Chicago had a “work wife” and most of them weren’t just getting lunch together. I get that a lot of couples meet at work, but “work wives” and off… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:31 AM |
| 10 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?I’m late to this party! I thought I was meeting a man for dinner for a first date. When I got there another woman was waiting in the lobby for the same guy. Apparently he was holding open auditions or something. I promptly left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:07 AM |
| 9 | Men like to complain about women misrepresenting themselves on OLD. Check out this massive level of facetuning 😂I’ll bet he’s fairly attractive under that spray tan and 10 layers of photoshop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 11:25 AM |
| 3 | 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻I lost 35 pounds and am now back to within 10 pounds of my college weight. I can’t get over how much more confident I feel! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 01:54 AM |
| 12 | Buying your fiancee a ring like this just because it is the cheapest.....That’s a no from me, bud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 15 | Oh you know, just a standard day in the life of a pickme.What’s the going rate on a leg? I don’t exactly think they have black market value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 05:14 PM |
| 2 | How do you get a guy to put in more effort?Exactly! You find a new man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:09 PM |
| 184 | Some women desperately need FDSWhy are these women obsessed with sucking dick? You could suck a LVM’s dick 23 hours a day and on the 24th hour he’d be sexting with someone else. Sucking dick will not keep a man. Maybe only do it if you want to do it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:59 AM |
| 6 | Look at this prize! Neck beard and a Pornhub sweatshirt. This was his whole profile. No description. Just his mug and a Pornhub sweatshirt.Yes! I always want to jump in and say that you can be tall and ugly get yourself in that 20% too. Better go buy some lifts like Tom Cruise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 01:16 PM |
| 20 | Look at this prize! Neck beard and a Pornhub sweatshirt. This was his whole profile. No description. Just his mug and a Pornhub sweatshirt.Yes! I’m not sure if they are trying to be self deprecating or if they really are just massive losers, but why put yourself out there like that? There was a profile that said something like, “I’ll probably die alone and my dogs will get hungry and eat my carcass. Please swipe right so this doesn’t happen”. WTF? Go see a therapist! You obviously have some issues to work through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 01:06 PM |
| 6 | Humble men of MatchThe league is very easy to get in. It’s all advertising. The guys on there are the same that are on bumble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:50 AM |
| 151 | Best thing I never hadI was talking to my Mom today on the phone and somehow my ex fiancé came up. We spent like 10 minutes laughing hysterically about all the stupid things he did. It’s good when you get to the point where you can laugh and wonder how in the world you ever wasted your time on a loser like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 02:06 AM |
| 37 | Humble men of MatchI want to see his resume. If he is really that educated and successful, he would have a matchmaker service, not match.com. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:30 PM |
| 13 | A man on my social media?! In this economy?!Story of my relationship! Didn’t want to post “personal stuff” since he had business connections on Facebook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:26 PM |
| 12 | My former friend's decent into madness.I work in HR. Save this shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 71 | Don't chase someone who's not chasing you. Match the other person's energy in a relationship, and you'll never feel fool yourself. When they go low-effort, so do I, and then I find someone else.There’s no reason to waste any energy on a man who is playing games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 08:18 PM |
| 48 | 78,000+ women pledging to never let this be themThat’s actually not bad price wise. I used to pay close to $300 for the works (eyebrow, lip, Brazilian, legs). There are much more fun things to waste $300 on than waxing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 02:49 PM |
| 11 | OLDER WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTIVE TO MEN ?You know who else is 5’10”? Supermodels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 02:36 AM |
| 27 | This is satire but the truth bells are ringing for milesIt’s such a nasty thing to say. Is it so hard to say unprotected? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Stay woke ladies - some will play the long game, stay nice until they get what they want from you. Fuck boy gonna fuck boy.While this is a great quote, I don’t think Sylvia Plath said it. A quick search shows that it isn’t in any of her published work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 06:22 PM |
| 44 | There's a reason financial independence has been kept from women so long in this country. By owning assets, a woman has options and can choose to leave abusers. Practice caution before giving up your career/money/stability for a man.Are we talking about a doctor? Because I know a lot of women who have put a man through med school/ residency only to get divorced when they start making a real paycheck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 03:40 PM |
| 14 | How many women have you dated that you need to include all of these disclaimers?Exactly! How hard is it to say would you like to get dinner on X date? You aren’t planning a wedding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:28 PM |
| 188 | There's a reason financial independence has been kept from women so long in this country. By owning assets, a woman has options and can choose to leave abusers. Practice caution before giving up your career/money/stability for a man.If at all possible, don’t give up your financial independence. It’s nearly impossible to come back to the same level job you were at if you’ve taken 5+ years off to take care of babies. I’ve had so many friends who were at director and VP levels who took a few years off to have kids and ended up having to go back to work, usually because they were getting divorced, and ending up either finding nothing because of the gap in work history or having to take a major step down. If you are in a job mak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 12:52 PM |
| 35 | Y’all this guy is mansplaining my job to me. I’ve only done it for 15 years, but thank you Bumble man for telling me how to do it.That happens all the time! A good friend of mine has a masters in art history and works for one of the big auction houses in NYC. Guys are all the time trying to school her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 126 | Y’all this guy is mansplaining my job to me. I’ve only done it for 15 years, but thank you Bumble man for telling me how to do it.Not to out myself too much, but I am a director of employee relations for a big company and spend my days doing sexual harassment, ADA, discrimination investigations. It’s all grey. Thank goodness he’s here to clarify for me. What with his one undergrad class 20 years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 61 | Y’all this guy is mansplaining my job to me. I’ve only done it for 15 years, but thank you Bumble man for telling me how to do it.I think they are trying to have some sort of common ground to talk about, but there has to be a better way to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:30 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, I’m happily single but my sex drive is too high. It sucks. How do I lower it?If you’d like to have no sex drive, get yourself on an antidepressant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020Okay y’all, I need some advice. I got out of a four year relationship last fall and decided to get myself back to feeling like myself before dating. I’ve recently been dating two guys. They’re both very lovely and have so far have done everything right. They’re both successful, smart, very kind people. I’m physically attracted to both of them. The issue is that I am now having crippling anxiety about intimacy, really even kissing, with either of them. I’m having this weird mental block about pot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:09 AM |
| 12 | Ugly scrotes back at it with the judging and misogynyShe is pretty either way and certainly out of these internet trolls league. I suppose they have to be dicks to feel better about themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Some of the finest gentlemen I’ve seen on tinder recently. The last 2 profiles I don’t even know where to highlight 🤮🤮🤮At least the Jung guy is laying it all out there. He should have just written: I’m a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:26 AM |
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