Multit4sker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
613	How I overcame approach anxiety		Multit4sker	/r/seduction	19/03/19 01:08 PM

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1	Posture exudes power. Fixing your posture is a great way to build confidence and more. Super important advice. Posture has a huge influence on your confidence and the perception people have on you. That’s crazy.	/r/seduction	11/04/19 01:54 PM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety I understand your point. However, I recommended the book Models which is literally anti-PUA I'm using the same wording in this post because I read a lot of theory and it was mostly PUA but the mindset is completely different when I'm approaching.	/r/seduction	21/03/19 10:02 AM
2	How I overcame approach anxiety Depending on the places. If I am at a seduction place like a bar, I prefer to use direct openers like “hey, what’s your name” or something to show a direct interest. When I’m in a normal place like a mall, I try to be more contextual. I’m in a foreign country so now my favorite opener is: “hey, I just arrived in the country and would like learn some basic words if you don’t mind”, the girl is usually super excited to teach me for a few minutes and I keep the discussion as long as possible then c…	/r/seduction	21/03/19 06:44 AM
2	How I overcame approach anxiety It definitely did. Honestly this environment change helped me in many more ways than just the seduction. I completely changed my diet so I’m losing the weight. I’m taking care of myself (having some massages, buying new clothes, doing more sports, grooming) and I feel like it’s giving me more confidence. That’s things I couldn’t do before in my home country probably because I was in this environment since I was a kid so I just kept doing the same things.	/r/seduction	21/03/19 01:49 AM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety Answered that here . I never got “rejected”. 100% of the girls kept talking with me but some of them didn’t want to have a selfie at the end. I was ok with that and just left.	/r/seduction	21/03/19 01:42 AM
2	How I overcame approach anxiety I’m living in Thailand and I’m from France	/r/seduction	21/03/19 01:37 AM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety I love this answer! Keep us updated :)	/r/seduction	20/03/19 03:05 PM
3	How I overcame approach anxiety Actually that was 100% percent my approach which was fucked up in the beginning. I would never had accepted a selfie with myself if I was a girl considering my opener and non-confidence when I begun. You can see here that I had 2 selfies with American girls.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 03:02 PM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety I was telling myself the exact same thing before. Then I ignored my survival instinct for few seconds just the time to approach. And then you get more and more confidence to repeat. Not magical solution.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 02:59 PM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety No we had some discussion then when the feeling was good, I just told her: "I like talking with you. I want yo meet you again, is it ok for you?", she answered positively, then I asked for the phone number. For the selfie part, it was not a selfie, her 2 friends took us in picture while we were talking and she sent me the photo later :D The selfie thing was weird sometimes. I still remember the first girl I approached, she was American. I explained her the challenge and told her I needed a selfi…	/r/seduction	20/03/19 02:53 PM
3	How I overcame approach anxiety You're lucky I made field reports in a seduction forum while I was doing the challenge :D Paypal Aussie girl US girl #1 US girl #2 2 Thai girls	/r/seduction	20/03/19 12:41 PM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety Indicator of interest. When the girl do something that make you think she's interested (smiling back etc..).	/r/seduction	20/03/19 12:25 PM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety It took some sacrifice, I worked during the day and was doing the challenge by night. Some days I wanted to quit but didn't want to lose the money so I forced myself. Some days I was sleeping really late cuz I was too anxious to approach but approached just because I was too tired after 2 hours of walking. Tell her I'm still virgin? If she asks, I will, if not, I won't.	/r/seduction	20/03/19 12:24 PM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety That's why you have to give something that you can't afford losing :p	/r/seduction	20/03/19 12:19 PM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety Mostly in bars (way easier for me), I was avoiding drinking tho (or maximum one small beer). But I tried to approach in neutral places as well (malls).	/r/seduction	20/03/19 12:18 PM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety One of the reasons I was fearing approaching girls was that being obese, I feared to creep them out (yes my self esteem was not at its best). So actually approaching a group of 2 girls was easier for me (as the girls would feel less in danger). The only time I approached a group of 3 was with the girl I'm dating now and it was in the context of a bar so I just isolated her and her friends were pretty ok, I introduced myself and spoke with her for 2 minutes then made a false time constraint (I ha…	/r/seduction	20/03/19 12:15 PM
1	How I overcame approach anxiety In that case, the IOI was the girl looking at me (you know this feeling when someone is looking at you => peripheral vision) and when I looked at her, she avoided Eye contact. So at first I was hesitating, then she did that twice and I knew she was just too nervous to look at me directly (or she was looking at someone next to me but I wanted to make sure) so I just woke up, went to her (and her 2 friends) and the conversation was: Me: "Hi, what's your name" Her: "My name is **" Me: "You're reall…	/r/seduction	20/03/19 12:02 PM
2	How I overcame approach anxiety I can assure you your weight is not the problem. I know some pretty athletic dudes who can't open a discussion (with boys or girls). The world is full of people who are afraid to make the first move. Once you'll understand that, you will see a huge amount of opportunities. What helped me was to use a pretty basic app (Momentum in IOS). I committed to the habit of opening the discussion with at least 1 person per day (girl or boy). First, I just asked for basic things then it led to really intere…	/r/seduction	20/03/19 11:51 AM
2	How I overcame approach anxiety Number close => Get the phone number	/r/seduction	20/03/19 11:36 AM