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I LITERALLY told you that I'm not into that shit. How did you get into the point of thinking I want women to be used? My daughter etc. Yeah - I do watch porn and camgirls occasionally. No, these poor camgirls aren't sold into slavery, into masturbating in front of a camera for hundreds if not thousands of dollars. I AM against human trafficking, I AM against someone being put into prostitution against their will. No, I wouldn't want to be used by another man i'm not attracted to.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 12:42 AM
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Yes, I do. But it's never rough, dominant shit - It usually doesn't involve two people (as in, it's "erotica" - pretty tame shit)
/r/ExRedPill22/02/21 11:39 PM
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I think you misunderstood. I'd love to settle for a 5/10 if she hasn't been promiscuous, HOWEVER, I'd love to also settle with a 6 or a 7 or an 8 or a 9 etc. Of course, appearance plays a role, however "lack of promiscuity" plays a way, WAY larger role in terms of me being attracted to her. Edit: nvm. I completely misunderstood your answer lol. Answer: yeah, I agree. I just couldn't think me being respecting someone who just desires me for pleasure.
/r/ExRedPill22/02/21 01:32 AM
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That's what's strange to me - how are guys (people) even able to have casual sex? Don't you feel less human for treating and being treated like an object of pleasure "but feelz gut"? I don't WANT to be a "pleasure lulz fun stick". You're absolutely not harsh at all, I love when people put sense into me.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 09:33 PM
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Absolutely disagree. I'd love to settle for a 5/10 if she herself hasn't been with a lot of guys before me (just because I myself haven't)
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 08:56 PM
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Yeah, I agree, but that still doesn't solve my fear and loneliness problems. I truly appreciate your honesty, though.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 08:50 PM
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I agree, but it's a generalization based on observation HOWEVER, again, as always, there's this thing called confirmation bias. (However, yeah, that's often what I see with single mothers for example)
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 08:49 PM
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TRP answer to this would be that yes, while RELATIONSHIPS are between similar looking people, you're not taking hookups and casual partners into account. According to TRP, girls have hookups with hot guys, then settle for guys who are still attractive, but not incredibly hot. They match with a similar looking partner as their tenth stick. (sorry for the lingo, I'm in my hatred phase) That's where the alpha fucks/beta bucks come in - they share the wholesome shit with the "beta" of sorts while po…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 08:30 PM
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As much as I hate to admit it and don't feel like it's true, I kinda have to agree, yeah. Protection mechanism -> inadequacy (haven't had anyone to like me) -> fear (even if I find anyone, she'll cheat on me, may have super aids, has already been with dozens of guys so that I'm just another stick to her) -> disgust (Eww... I don't want someone who has done something so horrible!) -> hatred (Sex is disgusting, people are disgusting for having sex, because only bad boys have sex, meaning that it's…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 08:15 PM
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But yeah, I've asked help from my friends, my siblings, people online (red pill, normal people), I've even once bought a "pua" guy to teach me and he didn't understand why I didn't have a "spark". I HAVE gotten some therapy, but it seems that no person understands why noone likes me romantically.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 07:53 PM
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Thanks for being understanding! The struggle is finding someone on the same page as you who would want to date you. Tbh, I struggle finding ANYONE to date lol. I've never dated nor have had any intimacy with girls EXCEPT negative ones (like, girls have wanted to cheat with me etc.) Some people have some sort of trauma/bad experiences when they were younger, so certain sex acts are seen as violating and dirty. Maybe redpill got into your head too much. Maybe you were a late bloomer and didn't fin…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 07:51 PM
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Does vanilla sex never happen out of lust It probably does Do you think most people want rough sex involving choking? I think most people like passion and they call it "fun". Choking might be too harsh for most. Exactly what's wrong about two adults wanting to make each other feel good, without making a baby? For some reason it seems completely unnatural and alien (= disgusting and wrong) What is wrong about lust between two consenting adults? What harmful actions come from it? Again, it just FE…
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 07:04 PM
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Wholesome and humane - normal, vanilla shit between two people, preferably people who want to have children Rough - choking, hard sex, sex with multiple partners, sex based on lust, only for "fun becuz peepee feel gut", one night stands. I KNOW it's not disgusting to most people, however I have a hard time accepting this and i've been ridiculously depressed for over a year now because of that.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/21 06:05 PM
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I'm not sure I understand what you mean about sex and 'moral' values? What about sex is inhumane or immoral? My brain has somehow made the connection that animalistic = evil, humane = good. Maybe because it's a lot of "bad boys" and thugs who get laid etc. (maybe they get laid despite or something, but it's still "evil" if someone has sex with a thug because he's hot) Honestly, someone who views sex as a 'for one other person' and may have a low libido etc, getting involved in churches is likely…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 10:18 PM
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yeah, I understand. I'm not trying to judge or anything - I don't care what people do UNLESS it comes down to people I am myself attracted to. It's like I'm unable to like someone who has had many partners (I'm not talking about "perfect pure virgins") since I myself have not had any and like I said, have absolutely no interest in having many.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 10:08 PM
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But I DO have sexual urges - I just find it disgusting to do with a real human being IF she has 1) done it with another human being besides me 2) It is based primarily on lust (makes me feel like a disgusting object) 3) It's incredibly animalistic If I wank, I feel like my "humanity" isn't corrupted by that, however, I still don't think that sex/masturbation should be used just for fun But yeah, I mostly agree with you - I should look into it.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:50 PM
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Thanks! But I truly don't think I'm greysexual since I do have sexual urges.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:43 PM
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But I'm NOT asexual or greysexual :/ I'm just disgusted by sexuality and the "system" of sexuality in a sense. If sex was "wholesome" and "humane" and not "rough" and "passionate" - I'd have no issues with it. If it was based on something else than lust in a sense.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:42 PM
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Many asexual people can and do have sexual urges. But I think the point you're getting at is that you are not interested in casual sex? In which case... Fair enough. That's not that unusual. Not only that, It's more that I'm disgusted by the idea of sex and lust in the sense of how it's presented. If it was more based on some kind of "moral" values (whatever they may be) and not on "animalistic" principles, I'd be fine with it probably, but I find the fact that it's the complete opposite of "hum…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:41 PM
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Yeah, thanks for the rational answer. By the fact that dopamine feels better than oxytocin, I mean that I would rather prefer bonding than casual sex (I know, gay etc.) I do have some sort of madonna-whore complex. I probably need therapy and not hang here for a while.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:25 AM
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Value sex as in have it with random people. As in, it's so good that you are able to have it with a random chick without the fear of getting an std, getting her pregnant etc. The same goes for women too. How do you feel that much passion? But you're right, I'll get my own results - cuddle when I want, have sex when I want (not that often). I agree with people not being special though.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 10:07 PM
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I don't want to fuck guys though :D I do LIKE sex, It's just not my intention.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 09:01 PM
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I honestly thought that even guys wanted the relationship part (looovee, cuddleees) more than sex, since I've always felt like that. Dude, I need therapy. Thanks.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 08:01 PM
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Honestly, the more I look at it and read the answers - I have all the answers allready. It's pretty straightforward. I just need to get out of trp (I know the stuff enough). Right now what makes me lonely is the Corona isolation. Also, maybe overall lonelyness comes from the disability to value sex as much as other people so it makes me feel alienated (Why people have casuals sex? Don't they want to raise a family? Aren't they afraid of STD-s, unwanted pregnancy etc.) but the more I think of it,…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 07:58 PM
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I honestly don't even understand why I have these pussy tendencies to come back here over and over again when I always find the same answer - if you get the results that you want, do whatever you want. Thanks for the answers.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:46 PM
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You're right, I did score relatively low neuroticism and high extroversion (which is weird, I feel more like a social introvert, since I don't talk that much) , imagination and agreeableness. It's not that I don't like being dominant - on the contrary, I love being dominant with people in general. I flirt with girls mainly to cuddle. I literally just like hugging and holding hands lol, no matter how gay it is. I am pretty effeminate in the sense that I don't enjoy random agressive displays of po…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:43 PM
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Who doesn't like it?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:28 PM
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I don't go to lengths for people. My "power" only works when I'm content myself and I genuinely enjoy when others are happy around me. When people start using it, I obviously don't let them. The only times I've been weak is when I'm not happy. Every time I'm fully content, people gather around me.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 06:00 PM
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A few things obviously girls cheat. As I've said, I've been the one who's been cheated with. If my potential future LTR cheats, I'll just leave her. Of course I'll be sad, but I have great friends who'll probably support me as they've done before. in my country, you don't have to pay child support. If I decide to pay child support (not planning on having children in the near future , if ever) I'll do it for my children because I want to. Why would I not want to support my children? both men and …
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:51 PM
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As I said, it's not that I don't like pussy, it's that I like cuddling, romance etc. more. Oxytocin > Dopamine
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:41 PM
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Thanks, good luck.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:34 PM
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I don't like that other people don't feel that way. Makes me kinda lonely and alienated, so yes, I do want to change it.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:31 PM
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I don't want to treat her like shit :D it makes me feel like shit. Treating everyone like shit makes me feel bad, unless people disrespect me. Of course ignore a girl if she treats me like shit.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:31 PM
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I don't feel attracted towards men. Good luck to you too.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:17 PM
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I see. I've read it a couple years ago, but you're right. I'll read it again. Thanks for rational help.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:52 PM
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But yeah, it makes sense :D
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:51 PM
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I just turned 25 so yeah I guess I'm decently young. You're right that with life experience, my look will change. Never been in a "relationship" longer than two weeks (left her because to my younger self, "she wasn't good enough", whatever that means. I still had the idealized fantasy back then)
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:49 PM
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What.. Where did that come from? I know you're being sarcastic, but as I said, I don't like sex as much as cuddling. I still like being a leader and dominant. I want to know what might be the issue here.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:47 PM
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Yes, primarily women BUT even the women in my family don't have such a view and they usually believe that sex should be causal nowadays (as much as I've talked about it) so I have no idea why I have seemingly conservative views with it.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:42 PM
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Checked my T levels. They're ok. It's always been like that (ever since I was a kid. Kids don't have much testosterone). My friends have told me It is very weird though and they've never seen anything like this.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:27 PM
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Why do I like oxytocin more than sex? Why do I even DISLIKE sex in certain situations? (Casual sex, cheating etc.) Why do I have a rather negative view on something that Is normal in our society?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:26 PM
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Not right now lol. It's Corona isolation, I don't want to go outside and It's advised not to. Overall, yes. I've had girls who had boyfriends, I've been the one who's been cheated with once, but felt like shit. I've said no twice to girls who had boyfriends. As i've said, I really don't enjoy casual sex and I LIKE the "building a relationship" part (I've never been in one, so It may be idealized) The overall question is - how is it possible that people like getting laid so much that they would b…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:23 PM
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You're completely right about the being a man, being a leader and a role model. Again, I just don't understand the glorification of pussy and not feminine "energy" (overall appearance) itself.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:20 PM
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Yes, at THE END. It's not like i'm asexual - I just don't understand how can people make sex the end goal. It's just a byproduct that may or may not happen.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:17 PM
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I don't think I'm a lost cause lol. I have read the sidebar, I DO understand how women work. I just don't understand why I don't work the way other men/women/people do. I can't be the only one who prefers romantic connection (oxytocin) over sex (dopamine). But you're right about mindset being the most important thing. Thank's for your answer.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:15 PM
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I have read the sidebar. I've also seen most of it irl. I do get girls (attention) since I'm a musician, I'm just not interested in random sex and It makes me feel pretty bad/weird/alienated. I feel like I don't understand people who cheat, who have casual sex etc. But you're right that I probably need to fix my mindset and problems myself.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:15 PM
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The most reasonable answer :D I just don't understand how I can be the only one who feels that cuddles, flirting and overall feminine energy feels way better than plain sex (or even sex at all). It just boggles my mind how is it possible that there are no women that also prefer oxytocin over dopamine (but then again, women are wired differently).
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:10 PM
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Why?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:01 PM
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Flirting genuinely seems silly for me, usually when a girl flirts with me, i'm like "fine, i'll do it".
/r/seduction29/06/15 07:24 PM
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Yeah, you're probably right, I am afraid of talking (and not good) to girls on a personal level :) (not on like... professional level?) but I also genuinely don't like flirting, I do think it's silly and boring, i often even lose interest in a girl when she does these silly tests, you know, the "would you like to know me better", or some teases etc.. (Losing interest might not be the right word, but I lose the idea of her being my partner or start looking at her as a friend) I don't want to "pla…
/r/seduction29/06/15 07:22 PM
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Thanks for all the answers :)
/r/seduction28/06/15 09:09 PM
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Dude, that sounds amazing! Thanks :)
/r/seduction28/06/15 09:07 PM
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But it's so boring and tedious, how do introverted people even flirt without getting super tired? :D
/r/seduction28/06/15 07:50 PM
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Thanks :-)
/r/seduction01/01/13 11:42 AM
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