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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why You Must Stop Putting Women On a PedestalFor sure man no rush brother | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/25 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Why You Must Stop Putting Women On a PedestalThank you brother appreciate it, do hit me up on X or Substack if you need anything brother! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/25 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Why You Must Stop Putting Women On a PedestalYes if you can recall, I am from X brother we have spoken before, but I am not so active there now! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/25 01:31 AM |
| 5 | Why You Must Stop Putting Women On a PedestalThis is the full lesson. I did not write a whole article on this on Substack. It's just where I hang out. I hope this clarifies! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/25 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Married 38YOYou played the dynamic between the two women well. When one started pulling back, you shifted attention to the other, which brought her back into the mix. This is key in any group dynamic: women are competitive, even subconsciously. By creating that subtle competition, you positioned yourself as the prize. Always show you’re not overly invested in any one person. When you project abundance, women naturally gravitate toward you. When she said, “I’m married, we won’t be having sex,” your response,… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/25 07:55 AM |
| 10 | What Constitutes Being An Asshole? Starving Her EgoNon-neediness isn’t just about maintaining attraction, it’s a cornerstone of personal power. When a man demonstrates that his emotional well-being doesn’t hinge on someone else’s behavior or validation, he communicates a rare form of strength. This doesn’t mean being dismissive or cruel; it means prioritizing self-respect over external approval. Women and people in general respond to that energy because it exudes security and clarity. However, non-neediness should not be mistaken for detachment … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/25 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Exchange RatesI’m with you on this one. The concept of “what do you bring to the table” is something that really needs to be understood in terms of value and exchange. It’s easy to get caught up in all the material stuff, like looks, money, and status, but what’s often missed is the deeper, more real stuff that creates the strongest connections. When a woman says “I am the table,” it’s a red flag. It’s essentially saying, “I’ve got nothing else to offer except my looks, and I’m going to charge you for it.” Gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/24 05:39 AM |
| 3 | The Masculine Art of Silence: Why the Loudest Voice Is Often the WeakestYou're absolutely right. The real power of a man isn’t found in how loudly he speaks, but in how deeply he understands the value of silence. When we talk too much, it’s often out of a need to prove something, to seek validation. But the truly confident man? He doesn’t need to shout to make his presence known. He’s secure enough to let his actions and his stillness do the talking. Silence isn’t passive; it’s a form of strength. It’s about having the discipline to pause, to not react impulsively, … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/24 05:24 AM |
| 2 | From A Psychological Perspective, It Pays More To Be An Asshole, Even When A Woman Is Being Nice To YouI completely agree with this perspective being detached from external validation, particularly in romantic dynamics, is key to cultivating true self-confidence and security. The problem with seeking external validation, whether from women or anyone else, is that it places your emotional well-being in the hands of others, leaving you vulnerable and dependent. This dependency can breed insecurity and resentment when the validation doesn't come in the form you expect, and women, on a deep psycholog… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/24 03:56 AM |
| 3 | You Can Never Win With WomenYou’re absolutely right nothing lasts forever. Relationships, our bodies, and even our health will change over time. But that doesn't mean everything is doomed. In fact, knowing that everything is temporary should actually push us to appreciate what we have while we have it. Instead of trying to hold onto things that are naturally going to evolve, the real goal is to focus on what you can control: yourself. By investing in your growth your mind, your strength, your emotional resilience you creat… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Frame, Insecurity and Having Something to ProveHey man, there’s a lot of truth in what you’ve shared, and it’s something every man needs to hear. Your frame is who you are at your core it’s not a persona you can fake forever. Sure, “fake it till you make it” might get you started, but at some point, you’ve got to make it. That only happens through putting in the work. Whether it’s in fitness, relationships, business, or life in general, real confidence comes from showing up, taking hits, and proving to yourself what you’re capable of. When y… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/24 05:00 AM |
| – | Holiday Depression.Hey man, first off, I just want to say you’re a good guy for sharing this and for everything you’re doing. Life’s thrown a lot at you, and the fact that you’re still standing and trying to make others happy says so much about who you are. You’re absolutely right the holidays can feel like a gut punch, especially for men. There’s this unspoken pressure to have it all together, and when life hasn’t gone the way you planned, the season can hit even harder. Divorce, loss, mental health struggles the… | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/12/24 06:17 AM |
| 6 | Why don’t a lot of men care about their own genders expectations and issues as much as how some women care about their own ?You’re touching on something a lot of guys notice but don’t always know how to address. Men don’t seem to care about our own struggles and expectations as much as women care about theirs, and there are a few reasons why. Society has conditioned us to “just deal with it.” From a young age, men are taught to be tough, not complain, and push through. Talking about gender expectations or struggles? That often gets labeled as whining, so most guys avoid it altogether. Women, on the other hand, tend t… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/24 06:05 AM |
| 2 | You don't get your medalYour story about your father really hits home. It’s easy to miss the bigger picture when you’re a kid, but looking back, it’s clear that his daily struggle was a sign of something deeper. He wasn’t just dealing with the stress of work; he was trapped in a cycle of suffering that he felt he had no way out of. It’s heartbreaking to think about, especially when you see the toll it took on him and even on you and your brother, who couldn’t help but laugh at his misery. But as you pointed out, that k… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/24 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Weird double standard in society.I hear you, and you’re pointing out something that’s definitely a reality in today’s society. The double standard around physical preferences especially when it comes to height and weight is real, and it’s something that a lot of people feel but don’t always talk about openly. Height is one of those things that’s mostly out of a man’s control, yet it’s a big factor in attraction. It’s interesting how many women openly express their preference for taller men, and society doesn’t bat an eye. But w… | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/12/24 03:17 PM |
| – | Is this normalHey man, first of all, thank you for being brave enough to share this. It takes real strength to open up about feelings like this, and that in itself shows you care deeply about your family and your own well-being. Let me tell you you’re not alone in feeling this way. A lot of men go through these moments where life feels like it’s throwing punch after punch, and the weight of it all makes you question if you’re doing enough or if things will ever get better. But the fact that you’re still stand… | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/12/24 03:14 PM |
| 14 | some cold approach trialsFirst off, huge respect for putting yourself out there. Cold approaching is no joke, it’s a skill most guys in my community are too scared to even try, so you're already ahead by just taking action. A couple of things that might help: Don’t Overthink the Outcome: If you focus too much on “getting the Instagram,” it can make things feel forced for both you and her. Try going in with zero expectations—just be curious about the person and let things flow naturally. The connection will either happen… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/24 03:00 PM |
| 37 | The reality check some of you needYou bring up a solid point, and it’s something more men need to hear. The idea of chasing chaos or danger to "prove" yourself as a man is misguided and honestly, it’s a distraction from what really matters. Let’s keep it real: the men who are actually strong and respected the kind of men other men look up to and women are drawn to don’t seek out unnecessary fights or chaos.They’ve mastered the chaos in their own lives. They build discipline, handle their business, and show up consistently. This … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/24 02:02 PM |
| 13 | Sex energy is earned through confrontation with chaos. You cannot fake itYou’ve touched on something powerful here—the idea that the respect, attraction, and submission we seek aren’t handed out for free. They’re earned through our relationship with chaos, the one thing that strips away pretense and reveals who we truly are. This is exactly what I have been teaching my community of men, let me unpack this further in a way that’s not just philosophical, but practical and deeply human. The chaos we’re talking about isn’t always about battles or fists flying in the ring… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/24 01:53 PM |
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