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| 1 | Continuous struggle of power w/ LTRThis. Seems like she actually made an effort into getting to know some of his colleagues gf's. I don't see what's wrong with them having a group chat if they got along. She's right, OP doesn't decide who she talks to. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Tips for working out with a "skinny-fat" type of body?Yeah this looks good. I like the gradual progress. The only thing i see is about the cardio-aspect, as it doesn't specify the intensity of the sessions, but i guess it's just normal running and then increasing the duration over the weeks. The only thing i need to wrap my head around is the diet-aspect. I know how important it is, and at times i find it difficult and tedious to setup a meal-plan. First week says 3 low carb days, 3 medium and 1 high. I guess i need to properly look up what defines… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Tips for working out with a "skinny-fat" type of body?Thanks, i really like how detailed this is. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | A question about second datesI have managed to get a second-date often with girls whom i haven't kissed on the first date. That being said, most of these girls haven't ended up with an f-close and they eventually flake. You should know pretty early if a girl is interested in you. I have two very clear examples right now from my two recent girls: Girl 1: First date, no kissing, mainly just talking and getting to know eachother. Although she talked a lot, i didn't feel like she was sexually attracted to me. A few days later i… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Tell me your experiences with “Religious Girls”I think you can easily come across those who seem religious, but are really just dying to get fucked and experience that type of lifestyle, while some girls are just a waste of time since they will hold back too much. I met a girl from tinder once who i made moves on. She seemed fine with kissing but always got uncomfortable when i tried to escalate. At times she just also seemed completely oblivious about all kinds of stuff in terms of dating and sex. After attempting for a while i eventually n… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Are traveling nurses the ultimate CC riders?Male teacher here, can confirm. Honestly, i was surprised when i first started my career to discover how slutty some of my colleagues are. I think it has something to do with the line of work, and the frustration it often brings. Being around children all the time etc. Shit, i don't know really. I don't shit where i eat, but i overhear what colleagues say, and us males sometimes meet outside work where people share what they've heard/experienced. One of my close female colleagues, for example, i… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with "guilt" and approaches from plate in public. What should i do?Yeah she asked me if i thought it was okay for her to be with other people, in which i replied something about «its all up to you what you decide». I fell asleep and woke up to a fucking novel from her. Basically said stuff like «i got my answer now. What kind of person do you think i am? I thought it was fun at first to see you, but nowadays its not. I could have been with other guys, but i refused them all because i’m waiting for you. But i got my answer now, and its not like im gonna jump on … | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with "guilt" and approaches from plate in public. What should i do?Talking to her now. She acknowledges that we are “fuckbuddies” but feels hurt that we seem to just be acquaintances when we meet when we go out. She says she gets hurt that i sometimes seem to care about her and sometimes treat her like she doesn’t exist. She also says she feels different about us than i do. I’ve mainly replied telling her the same things i’ve been saying. That i do care about her, but that i think she has more feelings. I told her i dont want drama or her to get hurt, and thats… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with escalation and flirting on first date. Coming off as too «friendly»?Ideally i would sit next to her, but the logistics in the bar made it so that it would have seemed weird if i was to pull up a chair next to her lol. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | "Plate" started crying before sex because i don't want to be serious.. How to handle?You think i'm at the stage where i'm at an ultimatum now? Interesting. Yesterday. she posted a story on snapchat, where it was just a picture of a quote saying "my dumb ass be loyal before the relationship even starts", which is very clearly directed towards me. I guess she made an attempt to make me feel like she has other options, and that she's stupid to keep seeing me. Do you think just adds more to the fact that she's broken and that i should end it? I've been thinking that next time i see … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | "Plate" started crying before sex because i don't want to be serious.. How to handle?We don’t go out drinking together. She drinks with her friends, and i do the same with mine. But i live in a small town, and we go to the same bars. (There are only three lol), so it’s difficult. I don’t actually think she’s seen me hitting up other girls though, and i haven’t seen anyone hit on her either. We don’t really approach eachother when we’re at the bar, just a bit, but she texts me when it gets late, asking if i want her to sleep over. I honestly think she doesn’t sleep with other dud… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Why can't people read the goddamn sidebar before asking questions here?I agree to some extent, but what would the purpose of this sub be if not for asking questions like that? If everything could be answered in the sidebar we would only need the main sub. I do however think people should read more and then ask questions to further elaborate that. Way too many over-the-top silly questions with little context. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How tf do you cold approach in the nordics?Norwegian here. It's true, us scandinavians really don't approach strangers unless for asking about directions and what not. The term "dating" doesn't really exist here like it does in the US. People rarely "ask anyone out", if that makes sense, so it's normal for people to get a bit startled when getting cold approached like that. Go out to bars and other social events instead to meet girls. We are small countries and generally very friendly towards foreigners here, and girls get all sort of ti… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 11:04 PM |
| 65 | Alpha widow settles for Billy Betabux until Chad comes back to town.Christ this is like watching a horror-movie with someone, and you knowing how it ends. If the alarm-bells aren't going off like crazy when the girl even started mentioning him and how successful he is, combined with the fact that he is coming back, then you are so far behind in understanding women. The girl will fuck Chad, and the saddest part is she doesn't give a flying fuck how Billy Beta reacts, because this is what she wanted all along. She never truly wanted Billy, and always longed for Ch… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Hung out with a girl, she ghosted me for a week and I deleted her on Snapchat. She just messaged me, was this the right way to respond?To everyone saying deleting her from snapchat was a mistake: If you can handle not hitting her up at all and just ignore her, then fine, keep her in your snap. However, if you feel like you won't be able to ignore her and move on (oneitis..) then you need to delete. Learned this the hard way. Girl i had oneitis for kept playing with me and stringing me along, while she was secretly still not over her ex. It was such a roller-coaster shitfest where i kept taking her bait. I finally deleted her on… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 09:24 PM |
| 3 | A rather strange question on acne and make upI regularly get red pimples at seemingly the worst fucking time and places on my face. Always at my nose or middle of my face somewhere, and often right when the weekend starts. To deal with this i have this "cover stick" thing, that i put on there. Obviously if it looked unnatural i would never use it, but it's hardly noticable at all. I've never gotten a comment from anyone saying they noticed it. It doesn't remove the "bump", but it helps conceal the redness. I would however never use any for… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 11:08 PM |
| 2 | LTR asked if it would bother me if she went for dinner with an old friendHer: I met this guy b4 we met, we just went out for drinks but i tried to hook him up with my friend instead , right now hes in the city for work reasons . The key here is; what did you answer her? Was it a text, and you didn't answer that last message? I'm guessing that you not answering her made her think it was "okay" to do it. She did bring it up though, and also sent a picture of where she was. If she had definite plans of cheating on you, she wouldn't have told you about him. My guess is t… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 02:03 PM |
| 8 | How do you decide if you should flake?It's fine to cancel plans once in a while, but don't make it a habit, because then people will think of you as unreliable and the chances of you getting invited to stuff will decrease. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Just noticed LTR of one year FB details is set to single... wat do?Overreacting. Lots of people don't give a shit about facebook and what says in their "about me". Should I set my shit to single and public, or maybe set my relationship to something funny like “widowed” but public so she sees it and let her bring up the issue to me? Please don't. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming Alpha WidowsThis. The girl's i've been with that i suspect have a very low n-count, are usually the ones who are most eager to want an LTR and all that. I think one exception might be some single-moms who are looking for someone to take care off her offspring, and who looks to lock you down quickly if she thinks you are capable of being a good provider. She could still be alpha-widowed though, but she needs you for financial stability. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 05:11 PM |
| 10 | I now see why spinning plates is the most desirable outcome but shit it feels lonelyThe fact that OP seems to be fine about cheating on his LTR with five women, because he believes "trp is amoral", is everything wrong with some people's interpretation of this sub. Sure, you can ignore the moral responsibility of being faithful to a partner, but it will make you a piece of shit in people's eyes, and it will most likely make you feel like a piece of shit, like you do now. If you are not able to handle the backlash of the consequence of cheating, then you obviously shouldn't have … | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 05:04 PM |
| 9 | When you're not invited outPeople don't like to be around someone who makes things awkward. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | LTR searched ex on FB, soft next ?Christ, why do people overreact so much after reading a bit of TRP? | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Ghosted a girl after vacation with her and meeting her family in the countryside. Right decision?I don't get this. You were just having fun right? You just met for a few weeks, why do you act like she should treat you like her boyfriend? Having other guys stare at her and talk to her is standard stuff anywhere in the world. The pictures were shit-tests. So you took a 7 hour train-ride back? And what did you do those 7 hours? Nothing? And then you leave her at the bus-stop, alone, in the middle of the night without even saying goodbye? Why? Because she "disrespected you". That just comes acr… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/19 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Had sex for first time on holidayIt's not such a big deal. You fucked, and there's a chance you'll never see eachother again. It's normal to be insecure about this stuff to begin with, you'll get used to it. I remember after my first lay i didn't get that "i just got laid fuck yeah" feeling, i was actually more worried about consequences. Because of that, i didn't text her afterwards and try to set up new meetings. I just ignored her. She developed into a stunning woman a few years later, so yeah, i regret that. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 07:17 PM |
| 11 | Is it just me or do women turn everything into drama or an issue?Women act on emotion, not logic. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 07:11 PM |
| 1 | chick mentioned how her ex texted herWell how did you deal with it? You haven't mentioned it as far as i know? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What is your personal opinion on eye contact?If you look away too much when you talk, you will seem insecure. If you stare too intensely, you will look creepy and intimidating. Find the right balance in the right situation. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 12:52 AM |
| 1 | chick mentioned how her ex texted herI dont see why she thought that would interest me. She wanted to see your reaction to it. It was a shit-test. She could also be alpha-widowed and isn't over him, which is why she keeps mentioning him. Since you said yourself that you're not too serious, i would just don't give a fuck and keep fucking her. If she breaks, she breaks. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | So basically even super religious chicks will slut it up if given the opportunity?"Dated" a very religious girl once. Super nice girl, but it was obvious sex would be something i had to work hard to achieve with her. I never got to that topic with her, but i think she might be that kind of religious who waits until marriage before sex. As soon as i wanted to do more than kissing she suddenly "just wanted to be friends". I've met her a few times after this. She's on tinder, and i've seen her on possible "dates" with some other dudes. They are gonna have to work hard to crack t… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 12:41 AM |
| 2 | When someone ignores youSome people are just fucking shit at replying. Not even joking. Could be he forgot about it. One of my best friends is always like that. Fucking nightmare to text with because he can suddenly just "see" my message but not reply, until i remind him about it later. I wouldn't think about it. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 12:34 AM |
| 73 | How would I rebuild my reputation after a girl tells everyone that you are a creep.Because of her spreading shit about me being a creep. Ive lost two potential plates and the friends group is broken. Went from 5 close friends to now 2. Excuse me, what kind of friends do you have that cuts you off because some random girl told them you're a "creep"? They aren't true friends of yours. I mean, if some girl told shit about me, i'm pretty sure my closest friends wouldn't believe her, because they know what kind of person i am. Find new people that aren't so fragile, and don't give … | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 12:25 AM |
| 7 | How to make new friendsI've used to be the opposite. Struggling with girls, but always made friends easily. I'm still close with 4-5 of my childhood friends and we meet up during holidays, and play videogames occasionally. I've always wondered why making friends came so naturally to me, and i think one of the main reasons is that i have a wide variety of interests. For example: I know plenty of people who loves football, and that's basically it. They don't watch other sports, they even frown upon it. If you're not gon… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Are bisexual girls a red flag?Personally, all the self-proclaimed bi chicks I've met have been broken as fuck. There is your answer. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 11:57 PM |
| 2 | At what point do you stop using condoms with a plate- if at all?So you've never fucked a plate raw ever? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | I created an alpha widow who was about to get married how do I live with myself?Lol what? | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Handling financial success with LTR. - How?Jealousy is a strong emotion. It’s normal to be jealous of other people’s success, we’ve all been there. However this is your partner, and she should show more support and happiness on your behalf. Why would you want to have such negative energy around all the time? Talk to her about it, or end things so you can be with girls that actually admire your success. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you come to terms with being ugly?Yup.. And hopefully if i don't lose my hair i'm hoping i will have good youthful looks when i get in my 30's and 40's.. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 12:35 AM |
| 3 | How do you come to terms with being ugly?I know he is looking to get laid NOW, but this is so true. I’m closing in on 28 years old now, but i look a lot younger. Everytime i reveal to a girl that i’m 27 she’s shocked thinking i’m 21 or something. When i was 18-19 everyone thought i was underage and i always got asked for ID everywhere. I think it hurt my chances with women A LOT that i looked too young. He should grow a beard, if he is able to. Just that will increase your age in people’s eyes. I used to think my youthful looks was a c… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Comfort after sexJust chill. Hit her up and suggest something, if you're still interesting in seeing her. Meanwhile you should be prepared that she might not be interested. Build abundance, start talking to other girls. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Do I next her?Hmm, i don't think my comment history shows me defending women much? I have commented on this post, which is what my latest comments are, where i do actually think she doesn't deserve to be nexted yet. I prefer to give opinions where i don't immediately dictate whether a girl is a slut or not, like now. Thing is, to me it seems like you have pretty much made up your mind already, as you keep saying she's been disrespectful to you. Are you just looking for confirmation? In the end, it's all up to… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 01:54 AM |
| 6 | Comfort after sexI feel like I haven’t been able to keep many around cuz I don’t build comfort after You'd be surprised how many girls also sometimes just likes to fuck and move on. Obviously not saying that's the sole reason for you not being able to keep many around, but yeah. Just like how you can take a girl home and next day you realise she's not "all that", girls can do this too. I fucked a girl last weekend, figured she would be very into me since i thought i had higher SMV than her. Texted her a few days… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Do I next her?The most interesting part of this is that the guy sounds like a complete moron. Honestly, if your gf even considers talking to him again after that i would be worried. Or if she supports her best-friend in dating a guy who literally asked to fuck her. What a shitshow lol. I still stand by what i said. She doesn't deserve to be nexted yet. She told you about it and showed you the convo. Why would she show you the convo if she felt like she wasn't faithful to you? I think you did the right thing a… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Do I next her?What's an "LV-girl"? I don't see the term in the sidebar glossary. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Do I next her?Could you provide some more details on what the conversation was about after he asked for sex? Also, did your GF bring it up to you and let you see it, or did you "catch her" talking to the guy? | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Do I next her?I just think it's stupid to draw conclusions so easily. She blocked him and respected OP's wishes. She shouldn't be immediately nexted because of that, but OP should be a bit more cautious. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Do I next her?Exactly. There are definitely some red flags, but i hate how everyone's solution is to immediately "next her". It's become a trend here to draw conclusions immediately without knowing the whole story. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Do I next her?Well we don't really know how close they are/were, could be he wasn't a drugdealer when she first met him. Not a lot of backstory to go with.. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Do I next her?You told her to block him, and she did? I don't see what the problem is. She hasn't done anything yet to deserve to get nexted. It would have been different if she was talking to this dude without you knowing it. If she resumes contact with him, that's when you should be worried and take action. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 11:46 PM |
| 8 | Going out to enjoy yourself vs. Going out for womenThe point is to go out and have a good time with friends. That doesn't mean you shouldn't pay any attention to women. Don't make it your mission to go out to find a girl to fuck. We all know that mindset of going into the bar and immediately start scouting for girls and all that shit. Go have a good time, and suddenly you find yourself talking to a girl, that's when you start making moves. I've found that i've personally had a lot more success when i go out to just have fun, because i'm more rel… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Humor: signs you're overdoing itThe key is to combine the right amount of humour with the right amount of charm. I've often used to be "the joker" in my group of friends, which makes me quite popular, and i've never had problems getting friends, but i ridicule myself so much that i think it hurts my chances with girls sometimes. I rarely have problems getting girls to laugh, but i overdo the self-irony thing, and i think it can often give off a negative vibe about yourself. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else demote plates who hate cum?or hate cum anywhere but in a condom Most girls i see never even ask about a condom lol. They don't seem to care at all. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Will go on 7th date, No kiss etc so far, advice plsWhy are you surprised she wants to see you? She wouldn't go on 7 dates with you if she wasn't interested. Good luck dude, and i would be happy to know how it went if you don't mind saying. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Will go on 7th date, No kiss etc so far, advice plsDo you live with your mom? How old are you? The only thing rain stops you from doing, is having a damn picnic or something. Nothing to worry about. I usually like to ask girls out for a drink one evening, and then escalate there, but i'm sensing you might be quite young? Take her to play pool, bowling, some food, anything that's an activity. Don't take her to the movies, it will just be 2hrs of you sitting in silence, unless you have a plan afterwards. The activity in itself isn't the most impor… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 11:16 AM |
| 2 | If a girl agrees to come over, is she DTF?Yup, thought about that, but the weird thing is she told me before we met (tinder) that she had seen me out at the bar before, so she had actually seen me before and knew what i looked like.. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 10:31 PM |
| 7 | If a girl agrees to come over, is she DTF?I remember a girl from tinder came over to my place several years ago. We sat on the couch watching a movie, but she was so defensive. Never gave me a chance to get my arm around her or anything of the sorts. After we watched and talked a bit, she eventually left. I remember thinking afterwards "ugh, so i guess she just wanted to test the waters on the first meeting then", but after that she went completely cold on me. when i think back to it now: Who the fuck agrees to go to a dude's place on t… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 12:59 AM |
| 3 | How do I make myself love going out and talking to girls?This. From experience i actually often have more success with women the times i decide to go out NOT chasing women. Going out to "chase women", where you're on a mission, can be quite tiresome, and you start feeling the pressure of getting laid. If you do that, you will reek of desperation. Go out, have fun with friends, laugh, drink, and suddenly you might find yourself talking to girls before you know it. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Will go on 7th date, No kiss etc so far, advice plsThere are girls that don't give strong IOI's or hints at wanting you to kiss her, but will reciprocate when you do it still. Sometimes you just need to take a leap man. I have to ask, is it clear from both parties involved that you are having dates, or have you just started hanging out and started as friends? Because if you haven't been clear enough on your intentions she might friendzone you, so you need to act. You say she's a virgin, which for all i know could be true, but if it's true it mea… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Bothered by something this plate I'm attached to said. How would you feel?This is a major shit-test. You’ve been sleeping together for 8 months. That’s a long time for a plate. It sounds like she has a pretty «wild» life with clubbing and all that shit. My guess is you are probably her «comfort-zone». She probably brought up the Bali thing to get a reaction from you. To make you jealous. She was likely hoping for you to tell her to «not go» on the trip, which would show her that you care for her and want to be exclusive. I do not however think a girl with such a lifes… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Father beats up LTR for finding out she's dating me,and is being overprotective,a jerk,won't even let her hang around boys.Do you mean bruises instead of moles? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 11:18 PM |
| 5 | What was your own personal RP epiphany?I think i had my first real "epiphany" when i read one of the articles in the sidebar at the main sub. I don't remember exactly which one it was, and i don't remember how i stumbled upon the sub, but everything i read just left me completely flabbergasted because i could connect everything with real-life events that i had experienced. After that, and after reading more from the sub, i've gradually seen real life-events unfold that confirmed more and more of the theory i've read. AWALT, realizing… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Huge argument with LTR ended up in sex the next day - where from here?"Women are like children" This is a great example of that. I remember throwing a tantrum and locking myself in somewhere when i was a kid. You are solid so far, just keep doing what you're doing. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | "Don't touch me" - coworkerThis is a classic "girl thing". Their moods shift all the time, and unpredictable stuff like that happens. Something probably happened that put her in a bad/grumpy mood and you did what you did at the worst time. I have a coworker who is just like this. She goes from laughing, smiling, excited etc, to a point where it's almost annoying how gleeful she is, but a moment later she can snap at you for nothing. Nothing new. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Tell plate/ltr about other women?Usually no obligations since you're not official or exclusive(right?). Problem is you promised her you would tell her if you slept with anyone else. Why did you do that? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is up with young women and not using condoms lately?Mate, i'm telling you, herpes can have no symptoms. Do you not understand? Just do some research. It's not fake lol. It's a VIRUS you have in your body. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 05:59 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is up with young women and not using condoms lately?It’s not even sexually transmitted I mean kissing yeah but sex no. HSV1 can also cause genital herpes. It's mostly HSV2 that does this, but it also happens occasionally with HSV1 too. So yes, you can get genital herpes if a girl with oral herpes gives you a blowjob. I don't know your n-count, but it's a pretty high chance that you've already gotten a blowjob from a girl with oral herpes. Also a high chance you already have the virus, but you're one of those who gets no symptoms at all. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is up with young women and not using condoms lately?Some fair points, but tell me this. You can get herpes when you are a child, either from birth, or from simply sharing the same drink as your parents. You have oral herpes, but you don't know much about it, and you are not a ratchet or do drugs or anything of the sort. You then blow some dude's dick, and he gets genital herpes from you. Is that the type of girl you describe? I got herpes type 1 from a girl who had no idea she had it. And like you said, she's a "normal type of girl" like you desc… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Can’t seem to get to get commitment out this girl. Driving me mad.Yup, like people have already said; you seem too needy/desperate. You should not even be thinking about an LTR right now, you haven't even had sex yet. No worries though, it could still be salvagable. Pull back a bit, make her come to you. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Having the hardest time getting close to any femaleIf you think you "connected well" with that girl, then she would probably be more willing to see you right? We often think things might be going well, or we misinterpret IOI's, and in reality she was just being friendly. Difficult to know dude, but there has to be something you're doing wrong. We don't have enough information to say what you might be doing wrong. Maybe it was something in the way you tried to make plans.. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 01:06 AM |
| 5 | I want to impregnate a cuckoldress and have another guy raise my kid.This is an example of when trp goes to your head | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is up with young women and not using condoms lately?Statistics say that more women than ever are having protective sex. However, i find myself doubting this a lot(or it's still not enough) and i do agree with what you are saying. I've had similar experiences, where most of the girls i've slept with really don't care. I can't really remember a single time a girl openly told me she wanted me to use a condom. I even get a sense that they are "annoyed" or "dissapointed" when i take time to wrap it up. One of my latest girls, continiously wanted to ha… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is up with young women and not using condoms lately?Except herpes. But all you have to do is just not tell people, which is what most people, especially girls, do. So there really are almost no risks these days. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is up with young women and not using condoms lately?"Pulling out" is NEVER a good option, because of precum. I feel like some girls aren't aware that guys doesn't only produce sperm when they climax.. And the only ppl with std’s are trashy as hell and I don’t sleep with ratchets Sorry but this is a bit deluded dude.. Some hookers are probably more safe than regular people these days, since they get tested regularly. In today's society all women sleep around. For example, lots of people walk around with herpes without even knowing it, because it r… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 06:49 PM |
| 3 | What the fuck is up with young women and not using condoms lately?Same here. Only one outbreak so far, haven't noticed ANY discomfort at all since. It's like it never happened. It's ridiculous how it's so frowned upon to have it genitally, when it's much more contagious on your lips. It's not like people with herpes on their lips tell people before kissing them right? Or girls tell guys they have oral herpes before giving a blowjob? Hell nah, almost everyone keep quiet about it. Especially girls. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is up with young women and not using condoms lately?Herpes is so stigmatized. If you have type-1 it's a piece of cake. I got it. I freaked out first because i thought it would ruin my sex-life completely. It's however so common that it's ridiculous, most have it without even knowing. Where i live, you are not obligated to tell anyone. It's all about morals, and lets face it, do you decide to tell people, and risk having 90% of all girls reject you, or do you do like most people and just not tell anyone considering it's so common? My doctor didn't… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 06:33 PM |
| 13 | BJ's vs Fucking: does anyone else see it like this?Well you can get a scare from blowjobs too (STD), but i see what you mean. I personally have a fetish for blowjobs, so i also look forward to it, sometimes more than the sex itself. My current plate is so fucking good at it. I can just do whatever i want. Mostly, girls are quite shy on the blowjobs, at least in my experience, but this girl just goes to town. Nothing makes you feel more dominant than when you get to just hold her head and fuck her mouth. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Hey guys, how many times are you able to fuck in row?I tried once to go straight on round two by just changing condoms because i was still hard.. Ended up with a semi and it just didn't work, so we had to stop. I usually only require a few mins to get going again, but my problem is mostly the feeling i get "after cumming". I don't remember exactly what the terminology of that was again, but i think mine is pretty extreme. Doesn't matter how hot the girl is, as soon as i cum, i immediately just want to be alone and her to leave lol. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend wants to go clubbing wearing suggestive clothesVery true. I see many times men who let their girlfriends do shit that's just not appropriate in a LTR. It's one thing to hangout with a guy-friend from work or an old friend on a few occasions, it's important to not be TOO protective, but if your gf decides to stay out late drinking with other dudes often then you need to hear the alarm ringing. I'm in the same social circle as one of my female colleagues, and she has a bf she lives with. He is a really intelligent guy, knows everything, but he… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Plate has caught feels - best approach for damage control?I’m european and i’ve never heard that it’s assumed you’re exclusive if you are just seeing someone. It doesn’t really matter where you are from; unless you have adressed being exclusive you are not doing anything wrong. This is universal. About knowing her professionally: this is why you don’t shit where you eat. You got yourself into this so it’s difficult to end it without consequences. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Confidence tips for under-endowed menListen. I'm quite small myself, around 4.7inches, and it has torn at my confidence most of my life. I dreaded showers in the locker rooms when i was younger, and i still do. I'm also a grower so it looks very small when soft. It's such a confidence blow when you see that most dudes in the shower have dicks that actually "hang" lol. I know you probably don't feel like im similar since it's not as small as yours, but know that i can at least somewhat relate to how you're feeling. The topic of "doe… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Plate has caught feels - best approach for damage control?«Note, culturally, where I am it's assumed you're exclusive when you're seeing someone.» Just out of curiousity, where are you based? You say you don’t want an LTR but want to keep seeing her. You should apply normal plate-strategy. Has she brought up «the talk» with you? Have you discussed your relationship? If not, you’re fine and just keep going. Eventually if she gives the ultimatum of «not seeing other people» or «wanting an LTR», then you tell her you’rennot looking for anything serious ri… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Girl I just started to ltr just came out as bi and has female orbiter best friend who is ALSO bi, need adviceRelationships with bi's almost never work, but you can do the most out of it. Like, i hooked up with a girl at a party once. We were going to sleep and she had a female friend staying there. We all slept together and me and the girl fooled around a bit with the other girl in the same bed. It didn't end up in a threeway because i thought the other girl wasn't interested and i was worried about #metoo stuff since the girl i was hooking up with was very drunk. So we didn't fuck. Next day she reveal… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 06:17 AM |
| 3 | LTR and TinderThis really sounds like a fake profile. I've used tinder a lot and i often come across obvious fakes. They had to get the fake picture from somewhere right, might as well be from your gf. Do not be too drastic about this shit and start a hassle over nothing. Find out 100% that she created it. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Delete, Block, ContinueThis post got 300 upvotes. This post reeks of arrogance, overconfidence and just plain butthurt. If he didn’t write this post he would be contributing more to the sub, because most of what he writes is just wrong. It’s a genuine problem how posts are perceived here and on /asktrp. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | TinderHope you don't have a photo in your tinder with you wearing gaming-headphones brah.. Jk, but in most cases this is usually just "big talk". They could just be having a girl's night and they dared her to write something like that. How far away is she from you? I have several times gotten messages from girls, always like 150km away, with VERY nsfw messages about what they want to do with me. I'm not travelling 150km to find out. But if she's in the same town as me, then why not. People are more ra… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Whats a high income skill you should learn in your younger years?I work as a teacher. I know you will immediately think it's low-pay and all that, but i live in europe, and teachers are actually very well respected here, and it pays reasonably well, especially if you have masters degree. I know lots of other teachers who have different jobs, there are lots of other opportunities, but i haven't looked into it much yet. It's difficult to "climb" in a profession like this though, but it's possible to take on more responsiblity which could lead to something. For … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | What's the deal with fat chicks becoming aggressive and declaring their interest pretty fast? I almost got raped one time.Another time a fat chick destroyed my chances to lay an hb9 who I was getting pretty intimate with, by telling her she likes me and of course.. Girl code. BFFE code This is very common for fat chicks/unattractive chicks. I've seen that shit happen many times. They don't get any attention from guys, but their hot friends do, and they can't handle the jealousy. If they are not getting any, they don't want their hot friends to get some either. Because of this, they start to create a scene to get at… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do women get so happy when I cum while fucking and inside them instead of the face?Besides the obvious jokes about getting that child support, i think it's more of a "my pussy is so good he didn't wanna pull out" kind of thing. Like, it feels a lot better to make a girl cum when you pound her with your dick, than if you finger her right? Girls find it more intimate that way. It's in their DNA to want the man to empty himself inside her. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Whats a high income skill you should learn in your younger years?I regret that i didn't spend time really thinking about my future when i was younger. I think something towards IT, computing, software development etc is highly profitable in the long-run. I've always had an interest in this stuff, but never viewed it as something i would make a lot of money out of. I think what many people have said here, about connecting with people is important. I know a lot of people who didn't necessarily do very well in school, but they are so sociable and likeable and th… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 12:55 AM |
| 13 | WTF is happening? Hubby give's her a lift to my placeEventually, they're going to get caught. This type of thing, men get really heated over and it's very emotional and things can happen in an instant of temporary insanity. Many years ago I slept with a girl, two weekends in a row. When she drove me home the next morning on the second-time, she revealed she actually had a bf she was living with, and they had a child together. She had only told me she had kids, but didn't say anything about a bf. I then realised i had just rolled around with the gi… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 12:48 AM |
| 1 | WTF is happening? Hubby give's her a lift to my placeYup wearing a condom means fuck all if you get an STD from a blowie. And let's be honest, no one wants to get sucked off wearing a condom. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 12:38 AM |
| 6 | How do you tinder?I don't care what many people say about tinder, i think it's a good way to meet girls. Here's how i usually use tinder: - Don't take it too seriously. There will be girls looking for attention/validation ONLY. You'll know this quickly when you start talking to her. (if she asks you questions back etc. or if she's boring to talk to) - Unless she has a bio or pics that gives you a good opportunity for a unique opening, don't spend ages thinking about some witty way to start the convo. Just say som… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | What is it like being an attractive dude?The young man i talked about in my second example is actually a really chill dude. We have a lot in common and we hung out sometimes after he moved to a different job. He is still young and has a lot of time still to improve his game. He actually knows a bit about TRP principles, and is aware of the threat of feminism and all that. He reads a lot, and told me he read some of Jordan Petersons work. I was not that aware of stuff like this at his age. He unfortunately moved to another city to study… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Should you call your friend out for talking behind your back?How good of a friend is this to you? Choose your friends wisely. For all you know this could just be nothing big in particular, it doesn't mean he really talked shit about you. Talk to your friend, if he is a good friend you should already be talking about this if you are both into that girl. Surround yourself with friends that you feel you can trust. "Bros before hoes" is a cliché, but it's true. One friend i had, flirted a lot and tried to get into the pants of a girl i was interested in. I ha… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Should I tell her what's my intent or leave it openIn a similar situation, except i haven't said anything romantic to her. It's clear she's quite invested in me, sends me pictures with "i miss sleeping in your arms" one night when she's currently on vacation. She snapchats me often, and she has asked me if we are "dating or something like that"? She has also stated when drunk that "she doesn't want to sleep with anyone else than me". We had a small chat, where i mostly just avoided her approaches for LTR/exclusivity by saying stuff like "current… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | What is it like being an attractive dude?It's all about your SMV. Looks play a part in this of course. Looks, body, personality, success.. You can be average-looking, but if you have a great body, success (either money or fame/status), and you have an attractive personality (humour, confidence) then your SMV will be high enough to fuck plenty of chicks. I shared an apartment with a friend when i was studying. He was a pretty attractive dude. We went out drinking pretty often. Problem is he always got shitfaced drunk, and i can't even t… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 04:18 AM |
| 1 | The beta stareWhat the fuck is this | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Grow a pair and Travel AloneI see. Never been to Thailand myself, but i've always wanted to. It's a long way from Europe though and the plane-tickets are expensive af, even if you can live like a king there considering the prices. Actually here in my town, there's a ladyboy, who is thai, and "he" added me on social media and started talking to me, hinting strongly on wanting to have sex. What's scary is that you don't really see it easily that he's a ladyboy, but i knew who he was through friends so i knew about it. "He" a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Grow a pair and Travel AloneNothing really, just stigma. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Grow a pair and Travel AloneYou just have to watch out for the ladyboys (and I’m not even joking about that). Is it really like that? So many ladyboys? Where i'm from it's very common to go to Thailand on vacation, and there's been a stigma about going there to find a "thai-wife", as they can't get a girl at home. (like you said, many girls there wants to find a rich dude). Everytime people mention thailand i always hear "oh watch out for the ladyboys", or if i tell people i slept with a thai-girl, they always laugh saying… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/19 08:01 PM |
| 3 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Sry a bit late to the party, but this corvus_uraeneus dude is the fucking worst lmao. He also commented on several of my posts here just calling me "scum". How on earth can anyone be so fucking butthurt about someone else's situation? | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Delete, Block, ContinueWhile i generally agree with some parts of this, especially nexting after giving her a few chances, most of this just comes off as you are being waaaay to stuck on being "the prize". You can't just block people left and right because they refuse to fuck you that night. No girl is worth more than two attempts You literally say this in your post, but then you only made one attempt with the girl before blocking her. You said you've been with her in social settings before, but this seems like the fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?It can apread with a condom aswell. There’s a reason why so many have it. I suppose you get your BJ’s with a condom aswell? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Cheers mate. You have posted on like five seperate occassions in this thread that you think people are selfish scums. It’s pretty obvious where you stand on the topic, seems like it hit close to home on you or what? Now do me a favour and fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Could be, but its impossible to know. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?You are completely missing the point of this thread. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?kek | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Wouldn't have mattered, as she often gave me blowjobs. And since it's HSV1, it's a big chance it came from oral sex and was transmitted to my dick. I feel so unlucky, always been very careful to use condoms with strangers, but I had started to get comfortable with the girl, and she really wanted to try without condoms. So we tried, and then i immediately got infected. I have a friend who doesn't give a flying fuck and fucks everything he comes across raw, but hasn't had a single STD. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?No, my doctor told me that she didn't need to go and get tested as long as she didn't have any sores. You can not go to the doc and get a test for herpes if you don't have clear symptoms. In my case, i had two blisters, which the doctor swabbed and took a test of. She told me if i didn't have those, it would be near impossible to find out through tests like that. She even said there was a chance that the test could come out negative, because it often didn't register, even with a clear blister. B… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Out of the 21 girls i've had ONS's with, none of them have ever told me they had herpes. If the statistics are right, then like 16 of those girls should be infected with herpes. (at least the statistics in my country are around 80%). So either the stats are just completely wrong, or they have simply just not told me. This might sound weird, but i've always been a man of morale and principles, and i feel like fucking a girl without telling her i have herpes would really gnaw at my conscious. I'm … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Lets be real here, if you tell a girl you have herpes there is a 0% chance you're gonna fuck. Guaranteed. Yeah this is what's really bumming me out. I've been quite down mentally after I discovered that herpes is something you have forever, and you can always spread it. I feel like all the reading's on trp is almost gone to waste when I literally sit with a card that will turn 99% of all women away. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?But oral sex is the best though.. (screams internally) | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Yeah, thing is, not everyone on reddit lives in the US. There's 0% chance that girls around my 10k "city" will be on "positive singles". | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?You can get tested for STD's, but it won't detect herpes if you don't have an outbreak. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 12:18 PM |
| -1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Great this is very encouraging xD | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?I see your point, but also with this mindset i will likely also be «the guy who never gets laid because he tells every girl he flirts with that he has herpes». | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Yeah my doc actually said that in most cases you often can’t know for sure who you got the virus from, as it could have been in your body from a young age without you knowing it. That’s how common it is. Many people don’t ever get an outbreak even with the virus in their body. Still, even with how harmless it is, no one wants it if they can avoid it. I think most people just straight up don’t tell people that they have it, but rumours can always spread. Like, i feel like not telling a girl you h… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How the hell can you remain frame when you got herpes and has a MORAL responsibility to let future partners know?Like i said, i have no legal responsiblity here in my country. I know there’s no cure and that the risk is always there. I can take pills to lower the risk of spreading it even more. The problem is still the moral responsibility of it all, crossed with an RP mentality. If i meet up with a chick from tinder, or game a girl at a bar, how do i seal that deal when i most likely need to tell her at some point before having sex that i have herpes. Most girls are gonna walk out after hearing that lol, … | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Grow a pair and Travel AloneJust don't be an idiot, and get scopolamined in Colombia, or stabbed in Nicaragua, or Ass fucked in Russia because I told you to travel alone. Crawl before you ball. I’ve wanted to travel alone sometimes, mostly because most of my friends are in LTR’s and don’t have time to go with me. (Yes, most are bluepilled, living the family life where the wife decides everything.). Getting into trouble has always been one of my main concerns if i wanted to travel alone. I’ve heard some stories from friends… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 02:30 AM |
| 1 | I think i just experienced the light switch effectWhy do you make it seem like it’s completely over? That you’ve lost? It’s fine to admit that you’re hurt, but from what you are telling i don’t see why you can’t keep seeing her. Seems pretty simple from my point of view; she told you she’s in love with you and you didn’t say it back. Nothing wrong with that, but she probably feels you don’t value her much and just want to have sex. She cut down on talking to you to shit-test you. She wants to find out if you do actually care. The picture is als… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck do I need to do to last longer in bed?!The problem with this for me, is that when i've already reached the beginning of the "climax", i can take a 1 mind break to tease, but once i start pounding again it just takes a few pumps to get back to that stage again. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Best summer destination to visit with your boys? (All early-mid twenties)Isn’t that more of a family-oriented place though? | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 03:32 PM |
| 5 | Is there even a limit of assholhery with hot women?Yes. Being a straight up asshole rarely works. You can be kind of an asshole, but you need to do it with some charm to pull it off in the right way. If you look like a fucking model, you can get away with being too much of an asshole, but even then it's kind of a stretch. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys know some successful/sustainable LTRs where the girl is taller?I am slightly taller than one of my childhood friends (I'm 5.9), but he is currently in a LTR with one of hottest chicks emerging from my town. We were all in the same class, and everyone wanted this chick. Tall blonde with nice tits, ya know.. When i see them together, it seems a bit silly as she's much taller than him, but my friend is pretty jacked from lifting for years, and he has a good job with high salary. They have a daughter now as well, and things seem pretty great between them, so i … | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 10:09 PM |
| 3 | How do girls behave after good vs bad sex?If you didn't last too long and she doesn't seem satisfied, just wait a bit and go for round two. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Tinder first date, end up at my place, everything's going fine, she smokes weed daily and asked to smoke from my bong, next thing you know she's vomiting and shitting on my couch...I mean, she obviously blocked you because she's incredibly embarrased and just wants to forget it all. Since you are asking what to do, does it mean you are still interested in her? She probably said the thing about paying for cleaning to just try to smooth out the situation. Unless you for some reason have some interest in her (after she puked and shat on your couch lol) then just forget about her. She probably wants the same thing. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 04:31 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill changed one of my endgame goals: Marriage. Yet, there are times when I romanticize about that Blue Pill life. What methods have helped you move on form your deeply ingrained Blue Pill mindset?What methods have helped you move on from your deeply ingrained Blue Pill mindset? I think about one of my best friends, who is currently married and basically a slave to his wife. He has no connection or communication to our group of friends anymore, except for a few times during the holidays. He doesn't decide what to do, she does. His wife has also become extremely overweight and is generally always in a bad mood and depressed etc and just a chore to be around. I have no hope that he is going… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Need some urgent adviceThis isn't the first time she's with me when she's drunk. I'm quite confident she won't pull a #metoo on me, i'm just uneasy because of her friends. It was mostly one of her friends who was being a bit sassy, the others seemed okay with it and just wanted me to take care of her. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: The Power of Sexual CompetitionCan’t agree enough on this. Don’t get too invested in just one girl for the night, you risk ending up with nothing. I have a great example of this, which shows exactly what i mean. At the bar one night with friends, two girls came over when my friend went to the bathroom. I quickly got in good terms with one of them, a blonde. We talked for a long time and flirted. Out of nowhere, one girl i had previously slept with, and who had «rejected me», came over to talk to me. She showed zero interest i… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: The Power of Sexual CompetitionThe guy was standing next to her as you did it huh? Haha | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | The RP way of dealing with hotheadsUgh, read again please. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | The RP way of dealing with hotheadsThis is imo the best response. It honestly worries me that the most upvoted comments in here is about "learning BJJ" etc, so you can win the fight. Yes, it's a good thing to know how to defend yourself, but that should only be used when you are in real danger or you have no other choice. I always figured this sub to focus on being rational. You shouldn't use violence unless absolutely necessary to defend yourself, not because you "might lose frame". Just ignore people like that, simple. I've nev… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Noticing how seem all western women under 35 seem have tattoo these days?You don't put stickers on a Ferrari | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:26 PM |
| 1 | How to handle patronizing teachers?Why is this even a RP question? It's school man, just do what you need to do and get over it. Not a single person in this world has never experienced a teacher that has annoyed them or similar. Literally causing me and my closer guy friends in class stress due to the fact we feel as though we are being treated and talked to like little kids who know fuck all. You're a grown ass man getting stressed because you feel like you are talked to as a kid? Grow a pair dude, or maybe she actually should t… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Small town woesI know how you feel, and honestly there isn't a lot of discussion about "small town life" in this sub. There's always a big focus on "plenty of women in the sea" and "abundance" mentality" etc, and to me it feels like 90% of people here live in massive cities like NY or whatever. Some people simply don't have the same opportunity to create "abundance". I don't know how old you are but you sound like you are in your twenties. I've found that small-town life in your late twenties is especially dif… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?Well, she's a coworker that i often talk with about random stuff like this. (don't worry, it doesn't affect my job) I sometimes tell about some of my "adventures" and she does the same. Thing is, she was in a relationship with this dude for a year or so, and she is still in love with him. She once went on "vacation" which happened to be in the city he lives. He probably just snapped his fingers and she was there in an instant when he was on a dry-run or something. I think some of that is the rea… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?True, i've never specifically mentioned TRP to someone, but i have sometimes "sprinkled" some of the theories behind TRP in conversations and it's kinda baffling how mad some people get. I think it's mainly because they know deep within that it's the truth but they won't accept it. I remember having a talk with a female friend one time where we discussed dating etc, and i mentioned some of the theories about branch-swinging and women always wanting what they can't have etc, and she just complete… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 10:27 PM |
| 2 | OT, Hypothetically. Would a girl orgasm more from Brad Pitt ( 4 inches) vs Joe Pesci ( 8 inches) in bedThe fuck is this question lmao | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Iron Rule #2So what is the appropriate response to the "how many have you slept with?". Avoiding it completely? Lie? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | What is the optimal way to respond if you suggest a day to meet and she's says she's busySounds like a good plan. I don't think she's rejecting me but I think she might be meeting another dude Listen, this reminds me of a lot of a similar occurance i had. I was having sex with this girl, but when i suggested we meet she said she was busy. Yet, she always said in her response stuff like "oh i would totally love that, BUT..". To me i didn't feel like she rejected me, how could she when she said she was interested? If she WAS actually interested, she would tell a valid reason for being… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | What is the optimal way to respond if you suggest a day to meet and she's says she's busyIf she doesn't offer a reschedule then you should already be prepared that she isn't interested. Wait a bit, suggest another time, and if you get another negative response, then you soft-next. That means you tell her "okay cool" and stop texting her. If she's actually interested she will find a time to meet. Don't be surprised that she'll text you or similar after a while, but in most cases she just wants your attention. You have given her the opportunity to meet, she knows this. Don't seem need… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Why are some women so comfortable physically abusing guys?LOL | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 02:17 AM |
| 1 | How to handle disrespect from male friendNext, your situation was ripe for a 3some since you were sleepin and you'd be surprised how many girls would have gone for it Well I guess not everyone wants to have sex together with two guys and a girl? People are different. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | What's the most fucked up thing a woman has done to get a little bit of attention?One girl rejected me in the past, and after that, i decided to ignore her obviously. Well, women don't like being ignored. I was chatting up another girl at the bar, and the girl was there, and she and her friend tried constantly to sabotage for me on purpose. Probably mad she didn't get my attention anymore. They kept bumping into me, leaning into me etc acting like they were really drunk. I kept ignoring them. The highlight then came when the girl "accidentally" bumped into the girl i was talk… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Major flaw with TRPI've never felt like TRP is a recipe you need to follow to the point. There are plenty of theories, posts and aspects of this sub that i don't necessarily agree with, and i think that's okay. Use trp like you want to, it's basically just a compendium of advice on becoming a better man. Pick what you like from it. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Girl cries after sex, says she's afraid I won't want to see her againI just wanted to say i agree with you, and it pains me to see how much you get downvoted. There are so many people in this sub that are just simply angry at women, and they completely miss the whole point of what TRP really is. People think they can say with certainty that a girl is a slut from a two-sentence-post like this. Could be many reasons as to why she was crying. Every woman is a slut according to this sub, so does it even matter anymore? | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl cries after sex, says she's afraid I won't want to see her againNo, it's a shame this sub, which has so much great advice on how to become a better man, is riddled with people that are just simply angry at women and miss the whole point of TRP. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl cries after sex, says she's afraid I won't want to see her againHe had perfectly valid points and the "kid" just bailed out of the argument, and left with a "buhu ur bluepilled" ending. Fuck off with your insults. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you sympathize with "nice guys" or at least understand them in some way ? Why or why not ?Essentially there isn't anything wrong with "deleting" a girl after she just wants to remain friends, but i personally don't do that because i feel like a lot of girls will take it as a sign that you're being extremely butthurt about it. Girls talk, all the time, you might get labelled as a guy who doesn't take rejection well, and that's not good. Personally i have been rejected many times, but it's always amazing to see how some of them come crawling back when they see that you are wanted by ot… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | I have problems dealing with rejection as long as I do not know what it is based onThis is the reason why people in general have problems with ghosting/flaking. Because you don't get any closure as to what happened. Here's what made it easier for me to deal with being ghosted: No girl is ever going to tell you the exact truth as to why she isn't interested anymore. I kept going almost paranoid from rejection wondering why they suddenly went cold. Was it something i said? Did? Was i terrible in bed? Was she seeing someone else? etc. I've learned the reason really DOESN'T MATTER… | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 10:03 PM |
| 2 | An eventful night. Had three interested women, ended up with nothing. Would like some analysis of what i did wrong please. [LONG]You are the one wasting your own time. If you don't feel like reading then don't bother replying. It's simple. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/19 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Every girl I meet is fucking damaged in some way. Where do you guys find girls that are LTR-potential? Seems impossible in my late 20's to find a decent girl.I didn't want to write a wall of text. There's more to it. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Every girl I meet is fucking damaged in some way. Where do you guys find girls that are LTR-potential? Seems impossible in my late 20's to find a decent girl.I've been with girls all ages 18+. I know for a potential LTR mid 20's are the best bet, but i find some of the girls i've dealt with in their mid 20's to be even more immature than some 18 year olds. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Every girl I meet is fucking damaged in some way. Where do you guys find girls that are LTR-potential? Seems impossible in my late 20's to find a decent girl.Mostly when i'm out at the bar, or i will setup a date with someone i meet through tinder or whatever. I live in a small european city. There isn't a ton of things to do here or to meet women. I have in the past. I used to be extremely beta walking after their breadcrumbs for months before i figured out they weren't interested. I am now better at nexting girls that don't seem excited to meet me. For example i met this 24 y.o who i had a lot in common with, and we had talked about going out. She … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you drop a plate?Just respectfully tell her you don't think you should see eachother anymore. If you're lucky she will take the hint and don't cling to you asking questions about why etc. If she asks, just say you are really busy atm or you "don't see anything LT with her". I know many people will say to ghost her; text her less and slowly make her go away, but imo that's a shitty and immature way of doing it. Just be honest and tell her, and you won't be wasting eachother's time unnecessary. You would have want… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Friend of mine is angry because i fucked a girl he's "talking to"Is this too much for you to read? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | On male friendshipsFriends come and go. I remember when i was younger and i was told "after high-school people lose most of their friends", and i told myself i wouldn't let that happen. Thing is, because of career-choices and locations you are bound to lose contact with many of your friends. I don't have any of my childhood friends in the city i live in now. We still play videogames and talk in chat quite often, and we always meet during the holidays. I'm happy to say i still have 4-5 friends i've had since 1st gr… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Chicks with boyfriendsWell if you didn't know she had a bf then you're not to blame. I remember first time i slept with a chick that the day after told me she had a bf and a kid. Made me terrified that she would tell her bf and he would beat the shit out of me or something. But i didn't do anything wrong. Man, as time passes i'm not surprised anymore at how much women branch out to other dudes. It's insane. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Got completely humiliatedLol honestly i don't get this. You went to visit a friend of your girlfriend's family, and the brother of your girlfriend's friend came in and started questioning you? Do you not see how stupid that sounds? Why would you give a fuck about that random dude? He has no business digging into your private-life like that, you should have just declined to answer. "He had a way of twisting his words"? What the fuck dude, just say you don't want to and tell him to stop asking. Why did you let that guy ho… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 01:35 AM |
| 1 | She said i have the smallest dick she has ever fuckedGuy with below average dick here... Problem is that i have experienced girls that refuse to let me go down on them. This one girl i was casually seeing never let me go down on her, or even finger her. She just stopped me. One time she complained she hadn't shaved properly and that was the reason. Tried to tell her i didn't care, but yeah. So at that point i'm just left with the only option which is teasing and my dick. Because of my small size i have practiced getting good at foreplay, and i've … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Hard next after revelation from LTRFuck me, i would never have had the balls to do something like this LOL. Idk, for me this seems a bit harsh, but we all have our limits i guess. I think i would definitely be cautious about her intentions after that but i wouldn't immediately turn around and drop her off. Kinda hilarious really, i like your guts, would have loved to see her face LOL | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | [16M] Should I quit playing video games entirely?As long as you play games a healthy amount. Don't let it become an addiction. I always had a rule to myself that i would never choose video games over other important events. I always played a lot of sports besides video games, and i had a decent balance. There were so many times where i just wanted to sit in my chair and play games instead of going to workout or go to soccer-practice, but i always forced myself. Somewhere around highschool though, i got kind of an addiction, where i just played… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | What was the situation that made you swallow the pill?Mostly from years of being rejected and not understand why it happened. Just being lead on for attention and validation now that i see it for what it was. The peak was when i got involved with a girl, and i really started thinking we had something going on, even though she had recently come out of a serious relationship(red flag lol). She slept with me once, but didn't give me sex, i just got to fondle her tits under her shirt a bit and spoon her. Pretty sure i got oneitis at that point. She the… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | When dancing and girls start dancing really close to you and back up into you what do I do I am lostThe "fuck off" part was merely a figure of speech. I haven't literally experienced a girl telling me to fuck off, but when a girl turns around and gives you a look of disgust it's basically a "fuck off", even if she's not saying it out loud. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | When dancing and girls start dancing really close to you and back up into you what do I do I am lostNo girl ever grinds on a guy with zero intention of the guy at least holding her hips and vibing with her. Remember that a lot of girls get off on teasing guys. There's a reason the term "cocktease" exists. Girls love to do a "you can't have this" to someone they consider to have a low SMV. It boosts their ego. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Found a weird video in ex-fiances data, need opinion how to handleOkay, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Found a weird video in ex-fiances data, need opinion how to handleVery unrelated to your question, but i read about how you used to be skinny-fat but now you've transformed. Did you focus on lifting or getting rid of the stomach fat? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:55 PM |
| 1 | When dancing and girls start dancing really close to you and back up into you what do I do I am lostWhen clubbing you have to take into account that women are generally extremely unpredictable. Most of them are with a group of friends, and they are out there to show-off and flirt with guys. They want attention. The "grinding against you" thing is basically russian roulette, either she will enjoy it if you start grinding on her, or she will turn around and tell you to fuck off. I also remember how puzzled i was when a girl first started backing up her ass against me, and i responded by placing … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Finding your Higher Purpose168 upvotes for someone who encourages you to get into a fist-fight and kill an animal yourself yearly. If you feel the need to get into a fist-fight to find your purpose then you have completely missed the point of trp. You can be a man without resorting to violence. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How am i supposed to utilize the "sex god method" when i can't last longer than 1-2 mins in bed?Wtf is dickbuilding? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Is my girlfriend in the midst of a branch swing?Do you completely rule out the possibility that his gf might have gotten conflicted feelings from seeing her married friend with a baby, like some people suggested here? That she might be thinking the guy is not "marriage-potential"? I'm not sure i agree with how most people immediately come to the conclusion that she fucked someone else. The possibility is there, i agree, but i don't think he should next her yet. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do girl friends ghost or start to distance themselves?I'm a bit conflicted about this. I have two girls from work whom i consider good friends now, after working for around 2 years together. I have no sexual interest in them. I also naturally follow the rule of not shitting where you eat, so maybe that has something to do with it. We occasionally hangout outside work and there haven't been any conflicts between us so far. I moved to a new city 3 years ago, and i had two good male friends. Surprisingly these two male friends started to ghost me, no … | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 04:28 AM |
| 2 | How easy is it really to pick up women? My experience as a British guy in the states.I can't take this serious when you look like a fucking greek god with that jawline lol. Add to the fact you are british and you are pretty much the dream for every american girl ever. I think you could literally write anything to these girls and you would get their snapchat lol. It would actually be an achievement to NOT get laid when you look like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/19 05:26 AM |
| 3 | Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning)Sure you can mate. Would be happy to discuss things. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning)Can't see your face but your body looks good to me. Hair looks nice too. Like people said, not shredded, but should still be enough to get a substantial amount of women. Maybe you'll go on a vacation and get a couple of pics there? When you say you don't get anything on tinder, do you mean matches or actual hookups? I've had plenty of matches myself, i only have a single picture, with my face, my body is not as good as yours, but i have occasionally met women on tinder and a few times it has end… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/18 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning)Do you use that pic on your tinder? I would try to get a more natural picture, maybe something at the beach or whatever. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and the Reality Factor (Trigger Warning)Nearly every member of the TRP forum who has been here longer than 6 months should be physically attractive enough to inspire desire through looks alone, netting at least a satisfactory number of quality matches on Tinder. Correct me if i'm wrong, but do you assume almost everyone who started reading this sub should in a span of 6 months be attractive enough through fitness and diet? Or maybe i read that wrong.. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/18 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Have you experienced judgmental looks from service workers when you bring a different date every week?Small-town gaming is difficult, because you meet the same people all the time, and rumours spread like wildfire. We have two local bars in my town, and i am a fan of the initial meeting being with drinks as it looses the tension a bit. However, since i go out pretty much every weekend, and i have often taken tinder-matches and stuff on dates to these bars, i've noticed that i often get looks from the people working there. One dude who works at the bar used to date one of the girls i had been fli… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Women and the workplace - just shut your mouthAlthough i see your point, for me this is a bit of an overexaggeration. Yes, work is for working, but for me i find it important to have good relationships with people at work. My motivation to go to work is certainly a lot higher if i feel like i have people there whom i consider friends and that i can joke around with from time to time. I completely agree however that you should never sleep with someone from work though, and this rule is embodied in me now. I have like 3-4 women at work i am g… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/18 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Small penis, very good endurance.Listen mate. There will be girls out there who have dick-standards, just the same as how some girls have certain height-standards. You just have to live with that. Luckily there are plenty of girls who doesn't give a shit about that and aren't influenced by what the media tells them to believe. You can make a girl have an orgasm from using your fingers alone, why shouldn't you be able to do that with your dick, which you said is around two fingers in girth, and longer in size than your fingers? … | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Nexted my Oneitus, you know the story, fucked other bitches and am lifting and she calls me.Love reading this shit, good job man. Nothing is more empowering than having girls who refused you try to get back to you. It's a confirmation that your SMV has increased, and it's a great feeling. Incredibly satisfying to shut them down aswell, you can almost sense their regret. You can do whatever you please now though, why not plate her? Just dont fall into the trap of getting oneitis for her again. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 07:42 PM |
| 3 | She sent me this.I completely agree with you. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 12:57 AM |
| 38 | A reminder to live your fucking lifeWhy do i feel like this is taken from some kind of motivational video on youtube or something | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | She sent me this.Well, i've been reading this sub and the main sub for many months now, and although there are so many people in here with great insight, that have blown my mind and changed the way i feel about girls and dating, i'm starting to get a bit annoyed at how many times i see people just generally act angry when people don't agree with their opinions and principles. It always feels like a "if you don't agree with this, you are a fucking beta and you need to read the sidebar". Every time someone asks fo… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | My overweight friend has more luck with women then i do. What am i doing wrong?You are, but that's fine. Are you denying your post is not made out of envy over how your friends get more pussy than you? It's not a shame to admit. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | She sent me this.I don't get why this post got like 8 downvotes, it's not really bad advice? The girl never stated she isn't interested, meaning OP definitely has a chance to plate her still. Yes, she said she went out with someone else(probably fucked), but if she didn't give a shit about OP she wouldn't text him and say that shit. She's testing to see how he's gonna react. "what's the issue" merely translates to "u went out with someone else, i dont care, what's the issue?". | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | What are the 3-5 most influential Red Pill Theories?jelq Why jelqing? Isn't there sufficent evidence that it doesn't work that well and you could risk injuring your dick? | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 11:12 PM |
| 24 | Thumb rule: Women are always sleeping with the highest value man they have access to.I think this is especially important to remember in adherence to The Lightswitch Effect. How many times have you yourself experienced a girl showing interest in you, then she suddenly stops responding to you or ghosts you, and you sit there wondering what you did wrong? Just go to a dating sub here on reddit and read the hundreds of posts from guys who can't seem to understand why a girl who's interested in them just suddenly wants to remain friends, or they get ghosted. That's because women mak… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/18 02:21 AM |
| 7 | Stop getting on the HubSo, is this about only porn in general, or masturbation aswell? Are you referring to the "nofap-feeling" or the fact that porn as a media is poisoning you? I've read a lot about people's experiences with nofap and it sounds a lot like you described, so i'm curious what you mean exactly. Like, usually before i go out, or if i have a date planned, i'll want to masturbate, because i will last a lot longer in bed if there's a potential f-close coming up. I don't want to go into sex knowing i will ex… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/18 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Complete Guide To Going Out AloneDepends, for example, if you are in line and there's a queue i can often just start talking a bit to someone in the same situation as me, just commenting how it takes forever to get a drink. Just try to find a topic. There was this football tournament in my town this weekend, so i asked this dude if he was at it, and we started discussing football (soccer). There's nothing wrong in not talking to people too, but it's definitely wise to do it occasionally. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/18 11:30 AM |
| 3 | Complete Guide To Going Out AloneGood post on a topic i think should be further discussed. At the moment i'm sitting at home contemplating if i'm gonna go out or not. Last year i moved to the city centre, i literally have a bar across the street from my apartment, and because of that i have been going out a lot more, and often alone. Often, i might sit at home playing video games or something and drinking beer and maybe a whiskey. I listen to some music and get in the mood. Most often my friends are not willing to go out (most … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | in need of some kinky shitWhat's this move called | /r/askTRP | 11/11/18 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Getting jacked after winning frame battle with another guy. Was I in the right or would the more trp thing would be to concede my ground?This is fucking stupid, what's the point of this? You didn't win any frame battle, i'd even say you lost it. Or, you know what, you BOTH lost the battle. Sure, the guy was acting a bit silly by getting insecure about his girl, but why couldn't you just move? TRP isn't about acting like a tough-guy. You should have been the better man and just walked away, instead you sat there and asked for trouble. You ruined your own night and others. Turn down your ego a bit, you are not an alpha. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | A year and a half after a major breakup. I am kicking ass. I hope this helps some of you freshly heartbroken bros. fuck em. you're better off.Awesome dude. Only recently started attempting to swallow the pill. Posts like these give me a lot of motivation. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 09:47 PM |
| 14 | Alpha widowing in action. I wouldn't believe it if I didn't hear it from the horse's mouthCurrently witnessing alpha-widowing myself. I think i had slight oneitis with this girl, but i've finally been able to stop chasing her and just realise she is just unshakeable. Very similar to your own situation, sometimes i just wonder how i can't see the red flags earlier. We started seeing eachother, things seemed fine, but she told me she still had feelings for her ex and wasn't looking for something serious with me. I thought, "fine, then we can just have casual sex at least", but she didn… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 09:33 PM |
| 17 | How To Pull A Girl From A Club Me: “Are you from Tennessee?” Her: “Why, because I’m the only ten you see?” Me: “No, because you look like a child of incest.” LOL, takes a bit of charm to pull this off i guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | The importance of a journalTrue, i often find myself having a monologue inside my head throughout the day, thinking about stuff i've read in this sub and how it applies to me. I feel an itch to talk to someone about it, but, like you said, the topics are usually taboo or it makes some people uncomfortable. I have this female coworker whom i talk to quite often at work, and we're pretty close, so we tell eachother things about our private lives. She's the typical girl who likes gossips and has strong opinions, and i have o… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/18 06:43 PM |
| 28 | Chinese gf's list of requirementsWhy aren't you trying to score with someone better than 5-6/10? You're saying she will be alpha widowed, meaning you think you have a pretty high SMV in that area, so you shouldn't have a problem getting hotter girls right? I shouldn't be surprised about the height thing, but it still amazes me everytime i come across a girl stating that a guy needs to be at least this exact height. I'm especially surprised since she's 160cm herself lol, you would think height wouldn't be one of her top requirem… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 03:39 AM |
| 7 | They're All PlayersWomen will always want a man who has options, because they want what they can't have. When they see other girls with a guy they get jealous instantly. They want what other girls find attractive. I made the mistake with a girl where i constantly tried to prove to her that i wasn't a "player", and i told her that i always viewed myself as the completely opposite of that term. I wanted to distance myself from that term, because i felt it was negative, but in reality you should embrace it. She wasn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Why friendzones have nothing to do with actual friendshipsI'm in this kind of situation right now with this girl, and i think i'm going to test out if she loses interest in a "friendship" if i only treat her as a genuine friend, like you said. We tried to date some months ago, but ultimately she told me the classic "you are nice, but i think it's best if we are just friends". After that, i cut contact, then met her out one night and we talked and i felt like we flirted and stuff. Dumb as i was, i texted her next day, but it was evident in our convo tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you establish to a girl that you want to fuckNo problem. Would be interested in knowing how it went! | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you establish to a girl that you want to fuckThings seem to be going fine dude, don't worry. You have set-up a "date" now. Considering how it seems like she doesn't have a problem with hands on inner thigh and stuff like that i'd say she's definitely ready to fuck. I actually think you could even slow down a bit, don't overwhelm her. Go to the party, act like usual, but this time you go the extra step and you kiss her. It's up to you how you want to do the last part. You have this in the bag. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 01:24 AM |
| 4 | Whisper's Comprehensive Guide to the Shit TestHonestly think i've done all the four horsemen with one of the most recent girls i was seeing. Reading this just makes me realise how massively obvious her shit-tests were. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/18 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Whisper's Comprehensive Guide to the Shit TestI'm definitely saving this post to read again, what a terrific read. Posts like that is what drew me into this sub in the first place, the kind of post where you are just hit with wave after wave of harsh truth that just makes you go "damn, i have done this EXACT mistake before", and you realise why you failed. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | To all the young guys out there.Man, what i wouldn't do to go back in time when i was 18 and have the mindset i currently have. I was so shy, i never dared to approach women, i was skinny as a pencil. No wonder i never got any action during my college years. I still remember when i was 18 and i started lifting with my buff friend, but i gave up after a few weeks. Imagine if i had started to lift properly then. Man, things would have been a lot different i figure. Start now, younglings, i envy you | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/18 09:33 AM |
| 24 | Passing Shit Tests: Beyond the Clever ResponsesAbout your example on how you backed away when she gave you LMR. I find that i often read advice on how the correct response is to actually back away and seem like you don't care, like you did. But it seems like in your example you think this was a bad choice right? So, what you are saying is that it's all about the mindset, and if you don't have an alpha mindset it doesn't matter what you do? Can you elaborate? After reading about how to do Push/pull, i had this tinder-date over for wine and mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 12:10 AM |
| 46 | Beta male orbits thot for 9 years while she rides the cock carousel, then she hits the wall and he buys her a house. Don't be this guy.The guy is probably thinking: "A lot of guys wanted to be with her, but in the end, she settled with me! I won!" But the reality is that the guys she's slept with doesn't give a fuck about her. They have pumped and dumped already. The guy didn't win, he just got sloppy seconds. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | She Sells NudesYeah, there's the phrase "liking older men" for a reason, i guess, but i think you need to at least be reasonably attractive for that to work? Regardless of the TRP principles. Would you say you are an attractive man for your age? Do you often sleep with girls in their early 20's? I'm curious. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 07:13 PM |
| 9 | Beta male orbits thot for 9 years while she rides the cock carousel, then she hits the wall and he buys her a house. Don't be this guy.Ideally no one would want that. I think a lot of guys at some point decide that they give up and they feel the need to settle for something. Then, when a girl they like finally gets herself off the cock-caroussel, they decide to go for it. Deep down, i think most guys know that they've "lost" and they are being cucked, but they don't do anything about it. They are too scared of the consequences. Then again, if every man dismissed all women who are in the category of "post-wall", what would that … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 05:16 PM |
| 3 | She Sells NudesOn another note - no 50-year-old man has any business transmitting emojis in any format. Oh, I agree totally, but good for him i guess. This girl is easily a HB8 in my books, young and has an amazing body. I know because i almost slept with her once. I didn't go all the way because i don't want to complicate things with co-workers. She's a loose cannon, that's for sure. To be fair on the guy, if you have been occasionally slamming an old dried-up pussy for years on end, then you divorce, and you… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/18 04:59 PM |
| – | [FR] Date ended on a sour note after she resisted escalation multiple timesMan, this hit me hard, i'm exactly the same as you. I really hate myself for having these thoughts, but i can't help it. I've been rejected/led on too many times, and i've started to enter this state of mind where i am generally just "expecting" the LJBF to appear after a few dates. Because of that, i don't want to waste my time on someone who isn't really interested in me, but is rather just looking for validation and comfort. This makes me kinda "aggressive" i guess, and i feel like a first da… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 05:04 PM |
| 26 | She Sells Nudesno female is as innocent as society leads us to believe This, so much. The amount of times i've seen these presumably "innocent girls" sleep around or hit up sugar daddies etc is mindblowing. They are very good at hiding it from public eyes, but they do it still. One of my new colleagues(young, 22 y.o teacher) seems completely innocent, always talks about values and all that shit. Yet, i know she sleeps with this 50 year old divorced man with two kids, who most likely gives her a ton of benefits… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 2I guess i could, but i was already talking to another girl i've been seeing so i kinda forgot about her. I kinda feel like, since she was the one who "closed the door", that she needs to open it? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 04:06 PM |
| 1 | The Shit Test Buster Game: Round 2Yes. The key is to not be butt hurt. It gets her hamster going. But, you also have to watch out for her trying to draw you back in just to “win.” It’s more about maintaining frame during and after. Actually JUST had this event happen. Girl i slept with three times suddenly 180's and tells me she doesn't see anything long-term between us and says she likes me more like a friend. Really surprising since she seemed so into me. I told her that's "too bad" and she then said something like "i like you… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Why you should not unfriend your male beta friends or your hot female friendsI work with mostly women, and I've started to have great chemistry with some of them and we hangout occasionally outside work. I am careful not to shit where i eat, so i don't make moves on these girls, and most of them have bf's anyway. But it's a great way to get in contact with other girls in their social circles. Got invited to a pre-party next weekend where there will be lots of girls. When we hangout at bars these girls often like to help when i'm trying to chase girls. For some reason gir… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Girl suddenly 180's me? Is she still possible to plate, or is it a lost cause?Considering how she always wanted to meet when she was free from work i don't see her having time to go out with other dudes. But yeah she was probably talking to other guys on tinder/other and found someone else who wanted to hookup with. I will leave her alone. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Teacher Tales: Play Misty for meI teach primary school so i haven't faced that problem. I mean, if you teach 18 year olds, which i guess is what you mean, i guess it's all about staying professional. It's your career we're talking about afterall. One slip-up as a teacher and you're done. I don't personally know any teachers myself that has been in that situation either so i can't say much. I do know a teacher who hit a kid once though. The kid was a typical shitkid who probably deserved some solid dicipline, but needless to sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 04:51 PM |
| 16 | Teacher Tales: Play Misty for meHeh, don't tempt me to start a discussion on football/soccer.. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Teacher Tales: Play Misty for meTeacher aswell here, in Europe. Let me just say that i know very well how easily you can get attached to people you work with. There's something special about the working enviroment between teachers i feel like. Where i'm from, it's a profession dominated by women. I've worked at three schools, and all of them have had female principals. The two first schools i worked at it was literally 95% women. I only had like two other men i could chat football with. The school i'm working at now is very 50… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/18 09:54 PM |
| 12 | Serena Williams has a meltdown at the US Open - and the rest was expectedI believe Williams was Osaka's idol growing up. Imagine beating your idol in a Grand Slam final only to have your idol throw a tantrum like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - All that matters is what she is feeling NOWYeah i can see that. Usually it's a no-no from me if the girl is clearly very drunk, but i never got that vibe from her. She seemed pretty normal. Anyways, we've met a few more times after this and we've had sober-sex too so no worries. Good advice though, i completely agree. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/18 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Field Report - All that matters is what she is feeling NOWWell said. I just recently had a very similar occurrance. Met girl from tinder, had the first date where we talked and got to know eachother, didn't get a vibe that she wanted to makeout so i didn't go any further. We took a walk around town before she took a cab home and she asked to see me again. Next date, i propose we make some food and drink some wine while watching a movie. When i invite a girl over for drinks and movies i expect it to lead to sex. We share like three bottles of wine and w… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Never fall into a long distance relationship. Get out if you're in one.True, LDR's just never work. I've witnessed too many women giving in to their desires and deciding to cheat, i'm not even surprised anymore. I actually had an interesting convo with a coworker today that i'd thought i'd share. We talk shit all day and have gotten pretty close, so we usually share stories and stuff with very little filter. This girl has a bf that she lives with. I know this guy, he isn't handsome or muscular, but he is insanely smart and treats her well. After my workout i had a … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 09:58 PM |
| 7 | Never fall into a long distance relationship. Get out if you're in one.Women also seem to really appreciate that you use it, in my experience. I've had countless women tell me "props for using a condom even though i was on the pill". It shows that you are mature and care about your health. One girl i had a drunken, no-condom, sex with, texted me like crazy the day after asking me if i had tested myself recently and begged me to get myself checked and everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Stuck my dick in crazy, went through a month of hellWhy on earth would you let her control you and burst in with her dad at work.. if that isn't the most solid sign to tell her to fuck off then i don't know what is. Did you actually present yourself to her dad as her bf? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 10:46 AM |
| 1 | First time dating for a while, felt like i got loads of shit-tests. Possible red flags? Next step..I agree with a lot of what you say, but like you said, it's not every single time, which is why i just think it's a bit unfair to just crush OP with the "she fucked another dude after you left" like it's completely evident. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | First time dating for a while, felt like i got loads of shit-tests. Possible red flags? Next step..Sorry about my rough tone earlier, was in a bad mood, but i stand by what i said though. I've dated several girls from tinder, some of them i slept with on the first date but lots of them it took a few dates to get in bed. I agree that there were probably several signs for OP to escalate if he wanted to, but at the same time from what he told she didn't seem overly flirty with him, not reacting to his approaches etc. I just don't agree with your assessment that OP completely screwed it, and that… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | First time dating for a while, felt like i got loads of shit-tests. Possible red flags? Next step..Yeah, because since the guy failed to have sex with a girl on the first meeting that of course means the girl thinks he's a fucking loser and she will immediately call another tinder guy to come fuck her. Even though they have agreed another meeting and the date seemingly went alright. I'm tired of reading this pretentious shit where you know for a certainty that the girl is a skank. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Here's the Top 20%I guess you mean wearing taller shoes? Already do that. I also guess you mean gelching my dick or something? Read there are a lot of possible negative aspects by doing that. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Women have a lot of sex. It's there for the taking.Once a woman has already pegged you for a loser, you can’t dig yourself out of that hole. Acting like a winner after she’s already seen your potential for being a loser will rub a woman the wrong way. She’ll see it as though you’re an asshole trying to trick the world and cheat at the game. Very conflicted about this. I feel like i've read so many times about how guys start lifting, improving themselves and increasing their SMV, and then the girls who used to ignore them start paying attention t… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Here's the Top 20%It's really tough dealing with something you can't change. You can improve your body, make more money by working hard, but you can't change your height or penis-size. It's always been a huge burden for me too, considering my penis size is even slightly smaller than yours, and i'm 5'9". Used to be extremely shy even being naked in locker-rooms. Thing is, you just have to accept it and try not to think about it. Don't act insecure, that's what girls notice. My N-count is around 13 at 26. I've neve… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with a girl falsely accusing me of rape?I couldn't understand why Amy was upset either. Really? Isn't it obvious? | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Need advice if she is into me -> Why would she say all of this in my presence? To test you and see if it would get a reaction from you. She invited you over to an afterparty, i presume, but you didn't escalate anything. Because of that, you don't know whether she's into you or not, however she probably wouldn't have invited you along if she didn't find you attractive. Read the sidebar on r/trp, you need to learn how to escalate. Talking to a girl all night doesn't do shit if you don't act. You left her place after 30 mins bec… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Fucked OneitisI honestly don't see why people here keep saying "she's not into you". Are people getting paranoid about TRP stuff or am i just not getting it? She literally left notes in his luggage and made him playlists. How tf is she not into him? As much as i value people's insight and advice in this sub, sometimes i just get so confused. I think this is the best advice so far OP.. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 06:25 PM |
| 4 | The TRP fallacy - why don't most men need TRP?Kind of in a similar situation, although i didn't have a turbulent upbringing, quite the opposite. I don't really think your upbringing matters in whether you are getting girls or not, unless you are mentally unstable or something obviously. I grew up in a respected and loving family, but it never gave me any advantages with women. I have been the "best man" in two weddings to two of my best friends who've been in relationship since secondary school. Literally over 10 years relationship both of … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Bouncer Tales 4: Bartender Beat-down10 years for a broken nose? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Love your failures.I think accepting rejection is one of the first hurdles to overcome, and i've personally found it very difficult. It's easy to dig your grave after getting humiliated or rejected by some girl, and it makes you feel like you've lost. You need to get into the mentality of "you're the prize", a phrase that i read here. If she doesn't want to see you, fine, her loss, plenty of other girls to meet. I mean, i literally had a tinder date once, that lasted like 3 hours, where the girl talked continiousl… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/18 11:31 AM |
| 1 | A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your GirlThink you quoted the wrong sentence mate | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | PainSo your brother was cheating on this girl aswell, since you said "anyways he wasn't too loyal"? So he breaks down when his girl has had enough of his bullshit? Seems fair. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your GirlI actually called the police but i backed out. Was really drunk and i remember thinking that i didn't remember what i said or did to this guy so i didn't want to escalate the situation any further. I talked to a few of the people who were there afterwards and didn't get a clear picture. One girl said she saw us arguing and then he suddenly started choking me and then punched me or something. I got a small tear on the end of my lip and had to do stiches the day after. Got a small scar but not ver… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 02:56 PM |
| 13 | A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your GirlI don't really think anyone deserves to get suckerpunched in the mouth and needing to get 3 stitches because someone is mentally unstable. But it could most likely have been avoided if i just turned away from him. I was pretty drunk i remember, probably said some cocky things to this guy lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/18 11:35 AM |
| 1 | A Word On AMOGs/Guys Hitting On Your GirlI think there’s a sweetspot between acting like you are bothered by having someone chatting up your girl, and not giving a fuck at all. Showing that you get easily jealous isn’t a good trait and makes you seem needy, but letting your girl possibly branch out isn’t a good idea either, it looks weak. Like, when you got out from the bathroom and this stranger is there chatting up your girl, why would you shake his hand and start talking to this random guy? Even if he was acting nice, it wouldn’t be… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Stop Hating Girls, Otherwise You'll Never Grow UpThanks for sharing. Forgot to mention it in my post, but what makes my situation even more pathetic is that i didn't even get to fuck this girl. She said she wanted to take things slow because of "just getting out of a relationship". I ate it all up of course. I thought she would eventually come around. She slept with me once, but no sex, only spooning and blueballs. I'm literally cringing thinking about how stupid i was to not see the obvious red flags. Funny thing is she's still on her "vacati… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Stop Hating Girls, Otherwise You'll Never Grow UpGood post, found myself relate to a lot of it. I’ve been having this problem with a girl i was seeing before summer break, and i’ll admit i got too easily attached and like you said, thought she would be a great potential gf i could bring home to my parents etc. All the green flags you mentioned. Educated, circle of close friends, financially stable etc. Then reality kicks in. The worst part when you get into that «unicorn» mentality is that you blind yourself from seeing obvious flags. Or, you … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Not sure if i should try to smash this girl who turns 18 in two weeks or not (16 is legal in my country)Thinking of at least waiting until she’s 18 yeah, even if the age of consent is 16 here. It just does something when i can meet her in actual grownup enviroments i guess lol. Last year i slept with a 19 y.o, while i was 25, and it’s so clear how immature and insecure they are in their teenage years. We had been talking for some time, then we met both drunk and we fucked at my place. She left straight after, and the day after she kept texting me asking if i had gotten tested before we had sex and… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if i should try to smash this girl who turns 18 in two weeks or not (16 is legal in my country)Well she is in highschool in my city while i teach at a primary school in the same city. Obviously would never sleep with a girl at the school i’m teaching lol. This isn’t my hometown, i’m from a different region and moved here a few years ago. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Magic HourSeems to vary a lot from culture to culture on when people go out. In my culture girls don’t really seem to go out a lot earlier than most guys. A little before midnight seems to be the most common time for me in my city when people start to go out. I prefer to be a bit earlier though, always nice to have some time to chat up girls before the horde arrives. Gives you an edge. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 10:00 PM |
| 7 | Men's Fashion - Basic Guide To Dressing Better!I agree that you need to kinda dress for the type of women you want to attract. I do however find your suggestions for fashion inspiration to be a bit dull, although i respect that it's your opinion and everyone has different opinion on clothes. Conor McGregor? I really don't associate him with fashion. The guy literally has two looks: Tight t-shirts with jeans and his million dollar custommade suit. Not really inspiring. It all really depends on what you like, however fashion is so strongly aff… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I came here to learn how to handle women, but accidentally learned how to handle men.I agree. I also feel a lot of guys likes to put pressure on you by making you uncomfortable in social settings and trying to test your frame. Like, i came to this party once and everyone was sitting around a table. This guy, an acquintance, goes like «hey, where’s sarah?» and then laughs, referencing that i flirted heavily with this girl named Sarah last weekend. It put me off because i didn’t want people to know that, especially all the girls at the party, and i kinda blushed and didn’t handle … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill dynamics not applying to South Germany? Hottest young girls exclusively dating soyboys & losersGlasses Damn man, we just tryna see | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 04:25 PM |
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