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Doesn't sound like a quality chick from the brief overview you gave, thus the way it started is the way it will end (fast and hot). Don't worry too much about it, enjoy it while it last.
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:05 AM
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"I'm going to bed soon but keep the conversation interesting and maybe I'll stay awake" Fantastic qualifier! Mind if I steal it???
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:55 AM
2

"realizing that at the end it's even not worth to take such revenges." amen brother.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:20 AM
3

Rent a night or two in a hotel at your closest "big" city once or twice per month and go out to the bars/pubs/clubs and TALK TO EVERYONE. Eventually you'll build some solid social network.
/r/seduction12/02/17 08:18 AM
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Yeah, this sub has gone to trash. Don't feel bad. A look into ops history shows he's been spamming with that website.
/r/seduction01/02/17 01:41 AM
5

That's not seduction, that's inner game.
/r/seduction15/01/17 12:50 AM
2

So ridiculous it looks like something out of the onion.
/r/MensRights03/12/16 05:13 PM
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This is actually not that difficult. If you live in a somewhat large city check out meetup.com. there are groups there for this. Likewise you could just search around for forums. Just don't expect a Lisa Ann.
/r/seduction23/02/16 08:25 PM
19

Agreed. Utter shit.
/r/seduction12/10/15 05:39 AM
12

I don't really give a shit, and neither should any of you.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:12 AM
5

I wonder if she would reduce herself to being objectified again if her husband threatened to "not talk to her". I would guess, no. But chad thundercock? oh yeah .
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 06:05 AM
1

I dig it. Good way to demonstrate cockiness/confidence/playfulness. A freeze out could follow a denial. I will for sure give it a try next time I'm out. Good post op, this is the type of posts I like to see on /r/seduction
/r/seduction20/04/15 04:28 AM
1

the book store. no joke. Also coffee shops around campus.
/r/seduction23/02/15 05:06 AM
1

Completely agree. She could have simply been drunk and easy. OP probably failed to properly seduce and therefore got tossed into the "fuck, i made out with who?" basket.
/r/seduction23/02/15 05:01 AM
1

Read the side bar so you can learn some pick up and escalation. There isn't a golden answer/one liner.
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:59 AM
1

Step 1. Don't let 5 months pass without properly approaching/following up with someone you like. Step 2. Don't be a goofy muthertrucker and " Pretend to forget her name". Step 3. Read the side bar and learn how to properly approach a girl.
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:57 AM
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Read the DiCarlo Escalation Ladder but most importantly READ THE SIDEBAR!
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:53 AM
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i swiftly grabbed my phone and proceeded to text my homies about how i got laid. Come on man...your better than that. While a lay is a lay, it does seem like she is way into you. We look forward to your future FR's with hopefully a bit more explanation of the techniques used.
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:51 AM
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You don't. Tell her to explain to you exactly what she means with "tax reductions". Chances are she has no effen clue and is full of b.s. Don't play into those games. btw take these questions over to /r/askseddit
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:44 AM
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Ask him what you did wrong. Unless you give us a FR we don't know what you are doing right or wrong. One thing i have seen in the past is guys getting too drunk and being crude.
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:40 AM
1

He might be a little jealous of you.
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:38 AM
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Go about your approach differently. Instead of leading into straight hook ups, go for some dates. Quick question, how are you meeting up with these girls? tinder? From the point you meat them, how long before "you drive them away"?
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:33 AM
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A few observations and questions. Great job approaching (it takes balls) but it feels like you failed to show intent/interest. If she wasn't giving any negative signals, don't forget to always be escalating. What hook point where you looking for? What were you looking to get out of this? Why didn't you ask for her number? Edit: forgot to answer your question. I eject when it is very obvious the conversation is leading nowhere, or her lack of eye contact.
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:29 AM
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Depends on what you said or how you acted prior to that. for someone your age that is the last thing i would want to be called. it might indicate you are being over protective or attempting to come off as older. on the flip side there is a saying about girls wanting to marry someone who resemble their dad, but probably unlikely at your age. also, for these kinds of questions stick to /r/askseddit (i believe there was also a seddit for highschoolers)
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:18 AM
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how do you go about it correctly you don't. you practice and practice until you find a system that works fairly well for YOU. look into the 3 second rule. it will help you avoid looking like a creep staring into space mapping out an unknown interaction.
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:15 AM
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In short: They're haters. They hate things that are "cool", popular", "successful", and attracts attention.
/r/seduction23/02/15 04:09 AM
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Mate, the quality of content here has been going downhill for some time now, and every so often someone creates a post like yours and different solutions get tossed around but at the end of it, nothing changes. The most common suggestions that get thrown out are A. report/downvote offending post (equivalent to putting out a forest fire with a garden hose) and B. Contribute the material you would like to see. I personally feel that stricter moderation would go a long ways. A sticky with some brie…
/r/seduction23/02/15 03:59 AM
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I've actually done this to a few girls. Albeit i like cars and am genuinely curious. Lol Nothing like switching roles
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 11:53 PM
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I like how elementary post here are just getting the "/r/askseddit" response. Tough love.
/r/seduction01/12/14 07:29 AM
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Back when I first started coming to /r/seduction, 98% of the post we're self posts and the mods were pretty strict about blog postings. Personally I would like to see a change where blog/video links are placed from within a self post with a brief description.
/r/seduction05/11/14 10:41 AM
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And take care of her kid from the previously failed relationship
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:58 AM
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+1 for dating a foreign woman. If you have the time/funds I would suggest traveling. You'll be surprised how well women take care of their men in other places of the world.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 06:03 AM
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^ this. I would also like to add. Body language/posture (take up space), tone (slow & clear), eye contact and finally touching.
/r/seduction03/07/14 10:17 PM
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Reddit ironically has a hate complex. They hate on others success.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 12:11 AM
5

She needs to realize not everyone is into horses.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 09:33 PM
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There should be a rule about using /r/seduction as a personal journal
/r/seduction23/05/14 08:18 PM
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Ask questions. Ask thought provoking questions, questions that make them feel. Then off of those questions ask more questions. Eventually you won't need interrogate them and the information will pour out of their mouth. Some examples; Are you currently going to school or working? School - Oh what are you studying? When did you first realize you wanted to major in blah blah blah? Work - What is a typical day for you at work? Do you enjoy where you are currently? If you could do anything what woul…
/r/seduction16/04/14 08:35 AM
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Don't play hard to get if you haven't built up enough attraction it won't accomplish anything. Be aloof instead. Show intent but likewise demonstrate abundance. Be that other person who plans a date or outing with her while someone else messages/calls hers continually. Man up or move on.
/r/seduction16/04/14 08:23 AM
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" too commanding" Damn right, you're the man aren't you? If you are having trouble with pronunciation then i would stick to nicknames.
/r/seduction16/04/14 08:18 AM
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Loud bars/clubs give you the perfect reason to isolate. Most Clubs/Bars have an outside smoking area you can take them to. If you are dancing with a girl simply lean into her ear and tell her "FOLLOW, ME!", take her hand and lead her. If she seems a bit resistant, turn around, spin her, dance a few seconds with her (while holding her hand) and then continue leading. If you are not dancing with her but simply approaching, every time she talks act like you can't hear her, even if you can(don't for…
/r/seduction16/04/14 07:41 AM
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Basically the same list you see every other day with the exception of two host attempting to be funny. Very basic, very elementary.
/r/seduction16/04/14 07:26 AM
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Fantastic point. Too many times beginners will get stuck in the "consumption" phase. The trick isn't to digest as much content as you can, but to internalize the few techniques that work best for your surrounding.
/r/seduction16/04/14 07:13 AM
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Sounds like you had the right temperature. Should of gone for a walk and isolated then escalated. Good luck on your next meet up.
/r/seduction25/03/14 10:04 PM
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Fantastic response. The very same sentiment applies to people who "don't" like the clubbing scene.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:54 PM
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I would agree they do want both, but not simultaneously. Generally speaking I think the same goes for us men.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:46 PM
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Have you tried the side bar? There is excellent reading material. Like wise, sort The post by top> all time.
/r/seduction25/03/14 08:24 PM
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IMO you came off as too needy. You should be building attraction/seduction and having her chase you an nd not the other way around. Going in for a kiss 15 minutes in is pretty ballsy but you might of came off as a player. In the future I would suggest keeping an abundance mentality going in to avoid seeming needy/clingy.
/r/seduction25/03/14 07:34 PM
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This is exactly why i migrated from that shit hole /r/seduction. It is nice seeing mods actually care about the quality of their subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 04:18 AM
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She sounds pretty Alpha while you are coming off extremely beta.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/14 02:43 AM
3

There is a reason why the wealthy mainly associate/date/marry exclusively within their circle.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/14 07:18 AM
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Don't rely on your job to meet girls. There is no skill in forced interactions. Advice on lifestyle,changes? Become an outgoing person, work on being able to successfully cold approach girls anywhere.
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:10 AM
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Work on your inner game, enough said.
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:59 AM
1

Agreed. I think Tyler durden said it best "this is your life and it's ending one minute at a time"
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:56 AM
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Sidebar m8, read it.
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:52 AM
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/R/askseddit. For girl specific questions
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:49 AM
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Wrong subreddit m8 Girl specific questions belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction27/05/13 07:45 AM
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Yes that's why you implement other techniques e.g. Venue changing. Kino etc. As a rule of thumb u want her to be doing most of the talking (60/40)
/r/seduction13/05/13 03:48 AM
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Sounds like you have a lot to work on and are aware. The next step would be to go after another girl refining your technique from the first one. In no time you'll be kclosing and if you keep at it, snl.
/r/seduction13/05/13 02:56 AM
2

Work on your inner game. By relying on drugs you'll never develop proper confidence
/r/seduction05/05/13 08:53 PM
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It went to absolute shit around the 60k user mark. Currently, it is being over run with white knights. I find it difficult to believe that the mods haven't noticed. perhaps they are enjoying the fact that they are over 100k users? The mods were called out a few times but nothing was ever done other than having them say "use the report link". The worst part is, all of these new beta's/whiteknights are destroying the Top Links.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 08:52 PM
1

Well it depends on her tone. It can either be a shit test to see how you react or its a genuine comment.
/r/seduction28/03/13 04:15 PM
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It all comes down to fit.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/13 06:35 PM
4

Why not take the friend also?
/r/seduction11/03/13 06:43 PM
1

I was honestly interested in learning tips about what guys looked for, for my guy :) yeah....you are definitely in the wrong place /r/askmen
/r/seduction11/03/13 01:02 AM
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F-closing an ex isn't much of an accomplishment. Had you f closed either the hb7 or hb8 this story would have been much better. Two steps forward one step back. Nonetheless, props on the new skills.
/r/seduction03/03/13 04:03 PM
1

Yo! I had joined the sac lair but it looked pretty dead. I noticed you had set up a groupme. Is that still active?
/r/seduction24/01/13 08:59 AM
1

Great post. I think another one of the reasons many guys are screwing up qualification is because they have the scarcity mentality.
/r/seduction18/01/13 06:34 PM
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"Why are you the type of person i should get to know better?" Of course that is more of having her qualify herself to me. Unless they are drunk and being silly, the girl will normally stay silent and you can see the thought process through her eyes as she is accessing different parts of her brain. I will later use the information i have extracted to build rapport. If it is something unique you can later mirror that quality.
/r/seduction18/01/13 06:04 PM
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Go out and open, open, open.
/r/seduction18/01/13 05:49 PM
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Excellent post OP. Whether we want to admit it or not, we have all been there, and this state of mind is extremely destructive to ones self. Although we sometimes know the answers to our problems it isn't until we see them written down or get someone else perspective that we finally see things for what they are. Thinking logically and using the situation as fuel to go out and open other girls is a great way to overcome this form of oneitis.
/r/seduction18/01/13 05:29 PM
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Some small things i do to achieve "state" Listen to upbeat dance music. Dress my best. Always. (you never know who you'll meet) Read [FR's] on seddit
/r/seduction14/01/13 07:59 PM
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Yup, and i agree.
/r/seduction10/01/13 06:54 PM
2

I completely agree with the sentiment here. I feel that by attempting to "Text Game" you run the risk of becoming common to her vs mysterious. In this day and age i am sure she receives anywhere form 5 to 456458487 text a day. Don't be just another text. Granted, texting can be a powerful tool in pinging (girls you've lost contact w/) and setting up logistics.
/r/seduction10/01/13 06:49 PM
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Asking for Advice Any calls for specific situational advice with a specific female should be directed to /r/askSeddit. Note that is askSEDDIT, not askREDDIT. It exists to give you a place where sedditors can answer your questions without bogging down the frontpage of /r/seduction. The problem with these topics is they are specific to YOUR situation,
/r/seduction09/01/13 11:51 PM
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Yes. The confidence you will gain/discover from this subreddit will help you in more aspects than just seduction.
/r/seduction09/01/13 07:38 PM
0

Become an interesting person.
/r/seduction09/01/13 06:16 AM
6

I was tired of waiting for things to happen, decided I would take control of my life and MAKE things happen.
/r/seduction08/01/13 10:06 PM
2

Going out on a limb here but i think you do not approach hbs in your age range because you are scared.
/r/seduction07/01/13 08:23 PM
1

my friend had put it out there that she may have just been being friendly due to being in the service industry more than likely this.
/r/seduction07/01/13 08:11 PM
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I would change; you should come To: you should join me. Makes it a bit more personal.
/r/seduction07/01/13 09:26 AM
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As someone who works as an office manager who spends his entire day on /r/seduction i would like to volunteer as a Janitor. To help the community i used to try and direct people/posters (mainly newbies) to the relevant area of their question/issue. It worked when we had <45k, but eventually i just started getting downvoted: Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on ALL ABOUT…
/r/seduction06/01/13 09:46 AM
2

I completely agree with you. I've become a lot more picky with who I invest my time/energy with.
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:39 PM
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it's not needy, It's attention seeking, which can be just as bad.
/r/seduction05/01/13 09:20 PM
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Agree + amplify
/r/seduction04/01/13 07:09 AM
1

/R/askseddit
/r/seduction04/01/13 07:07 AM
2

Really interested in reading that article.
/r/seduction03/01/13 09:58 AM
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Reading the sidebar would be a great start. Any calls for specific situational advice with a specific female should be directed to /r/askSeddit. Note that is askSEDDIT, not askREDDIT.
/r/seduction02/01/13 11:32 PM
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Read the side bar. Work on your inner game.
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:16 AM
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I am interested in hearing how you are proposing the dates, how much time has gone by since you acquired the #. I follow the no less than 24hrs, no more than 72hrs. For setting up dates... Learned the hard way.
/r/seduction31/12/12 09:10 AM
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Honestly, pretty bitter at first but I make the best of it. It quickly exits my mind and I get my frame back. Nothing wrong with having a plan B.
/r/seduction30/12/12 09:07 AM
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I do believe it is mirroring
/r/seduction29/12/12 11:31 PM
2

Agree and amplify. Don't forget the smile/smirk
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:27 PM
1

Don't forget to keep some of the mystery, and be careful with the friendzone. Show intent early on. Game on.
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:26 PM
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Advice? Take this to /r/relationship Personally, I would never go back to someone who would treat me like that, I feel like I'd never feel at ease. Find out what happened with them.
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:00 PM
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I eject, no reason why I should waste my time. If I am in a situation were the selection is extremely limited, then I'll roll out a neghit.
/r/seduction28/12/12 06:45 PM
0

Sounds like you need to work on your inner game.
/r/seduction27/12/12 08:36 PM
1

Being cool/interesting is only part of it. Stop expecting and start going after the women that you do want.
/r/seduction27/12/12 08:34 PM
1

abundance mentality + "no reason why we still can't get coffee".
/r/seduction27/12/12 05:30 PM
1

This is how you learn where to 'draw the line".
/r/seduction27/12/12 05:20 PM
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damn auto correct. i meant to say allevents.in
/r/seduction27/12/12 04:52 PM
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Allergens.in Meetup.com
/r/seduction27/12/12 08:48 AM
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Got any examples of casually mentioning other girls?
/r/seduction24/12/12 11:20 AM
2

nice..
/r/seduction21/12/12 09:13 PM
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Hey Karmaologist try checking out /r/highseddit its seduction relevant to high school.
/r/seduction21/12/12 06:32 AM
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Let her be the one to say No. Do not dismiss yourself.
/r/seduction21/12/12 12:26 AM
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+1 26
/r/seduction20/12/12 11:44 PM
2

Excellent post. Flakiness is something we will all encounter at one point. It is important to understand how to act/feel when such a situation arises.
/r/seduction19/12/12 11:15 PM
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Most over-looked piece of advice? The banner on the front page: New here? Confused average guy? Read: NEW HERE in the sidebar below! Don't post until you have read that material
/r/seduction19/12/12 07:30 PM
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Work on your game/seduction skills. All the help you could want/need will be found on the sidebar and/or the top post of all time. If you are willing to put in some extra work, keep a detailed journal. It will help you see where things went wrong.
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:54 PM
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Let all see my faults and learn from them exactly, and it is awesome you are being a good sport about things. I truly do wish you the best of luck. I know you are in a difficult place..shit we've all been, hence the reason most of us are here. To answer you question, i don't actually downvote things too often unless i feel someone is trying to self promote their blog (few exceptions). Or the post is irrelevant/unnecessary to the subreddit.
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:52 AM
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WOW....I cringed at the title and my cringe didn't let up. So many things done wrong, where do i begin? Overly texting, clingy, dramatic, complying to her, allowing yourself to be walked on, putting her on a pedestal, being Beta neigh Omega, extreme oneitis. We both fucked up really Nope, YOU fucked up. You weren't even on a date. you were just tagging along. Let this be the ashes you rise like a phoenix from. Avoid her, work on yourself, work on your game. Read the side bar, go out sarging. Nex…
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:43 AM
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Stop faking it and start over. One step at a time.
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:02 AM
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Should i post on /r/askseddit? Yes. Quick note: Be confident, be cool, abundance mentality.
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:54 PM
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Did you completely ignore the front page and go straight to the submit a link? (this article is STILL on the front page)
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:40 PM
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Why is it thrown away so much? Well, when you are trying to seduce someone, it is very difficult to express/invoke emotion (ei, confidence/sexual/excitement) through short messages. Emoticons don't cut it. I feel that overly texting/messaging can make you appear clingy and lead you down the friendzone path. I don't see a problem with it when used as a tool to figuring out logistics. If you are a teen, you might want to check out /r/highseddit (assuming you are still in high school). They will be…
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:37 PM
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does it work all the time No..this is real life, nothing EVER works 100% of the time. Personally i would advice against it. She already has her g.f's to listen to her and i don't see how you would build any rapport by having her do all the talking. Make it memorable by contributing fun, interesting topics.
/r/seduction18/12/12 11:26 PM
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"The female of the human species has always been flaky, and she has always been flaky for the same reason: To test the persistence and dedication of men." What a gross generalization.
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:56 PM
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Hey Leomentheus, /r/seduction is for intermediate/advanced. You might wanna try /r/highseddit (high school seduction) and /r/askseddit (girl specific questions). Good luck!
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:54 AM
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reported.
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:49 AM
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This is a really old technique that i have been meaning to try out but haven't had time to research. Thanks for the wiki.
/r/seduction18/12/12 12:39 AM
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This is why working on your inner game is so crucial. Read all the text book theory you want, but until you feel comfortable in your own skin, you aren't going to have the courage to get out there. Congrats man.
/r/seduction17/12/12 08:46 AM
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Search for Lmr, and how to get past it. Girl specific problems belonged in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction15/12/12 01:40 AM
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The most difficult thing is that this feeling is all internal, its not as easy as dhv, abundance mentality, you aren't trying to prove anything to her, its all about you. You know where that road leads to. Save yourself and avoid her.
/r/seduction14/12/12 01:06 AM
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You are in the wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction13/12/12 12:12 AM
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Guy's ego is making him oblivious to reality.
/r/seduction12/12/12 05:30 PM
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Thumb wrestling with both hands, preferably on your bed or an open space with carpet. Couches could work too.
/r/seduction12/12/12 05:07 PM
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Sounds like you are coming down with oneitis. what is my next best move to make in this situation? Abundance mentality. Show her you aren't affected by her games. /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction12/12/12 06:42 AM
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/r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction12/12/12 06:37 AM
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/r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction12/12/12 06:33 AM
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/r/askseddit
/r/seduction12/12/12 02:09 AM
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About a year ago i had a major crush on a girl. I wouldn't approach her because i would disqualifying myself by thinking "she probably only likes guy's in her scene" or "i don't dress like X therefore she wouldn't be interested in me". I tormented myself on how i wasn't what she wanted. It wasn't until i had a conversation with my ex that she said something that totally blew my mind. "Who cares if you are not her type, "Her Type" is not the right type". Since then, i don't let groups, types, sub…
/r/seduction12/12/12 12:59 AM
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I agree w/ slow, and would like to add concise, clear, "cool". Also don't forget your facial expressions. Lastly, this question belongs in /r/Askseddit AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction12/12/12 12:41 AM
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This should all be commonsense and does not belong in Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction11/12/12 07:54 PM
1

i appreciate your rebuttal but I don't know if i would qualify what you did as faking confidence. My question would be, how far before faking confidence blows up in your(not you, but generally speaking) face? Confidence is the result from hard work in inner game.
/r/seduction11/12/12 07:44 PM
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i feel people go through phases. Before i discovered the seduction community i was bitter towards women because i wasn't getting the women that I* wanted and was left conforming. People will read whatever applies to them at that point in time, but will eventually move on. Where do you see the seduction community going in the next few years? If the production of The Game movie goes through, i can see it turning very mainstream.
/r/seduction11/12/12 07:08 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on ALL ABOUT INNER GAME. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how you are a beginner. Please respect the community. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced PS. if you are "faking" confidence, you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction03/12/12 02:14 AM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared exactly what you need, it's on the sidebar, look under NEW HERE?. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as you are a beginner. Please respect the community. Read before you Post. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction03/12/12 02:05 AM
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Oh look...another blog with the same 10 concepts every other blog has. I thought /r/seduction had a rule about spam/linking to your own material. Reported.
/r/seduction29/11/12 08:26 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. the following is my interpretation of where persistance with a girl can lead you. Persistance -> Needy/Clingy -> no value -> Friend zone -> Oneitis = AFC Avoid it!
/r/seduction29/11/12 08:07 PM
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Don't be that drunk guy at the club/bar/party.
/r/seduction28/11/12 09:14 PM
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An extremely important yet underrated topic. One should particularly be alert when walking after hours with a date.
/r/seduction27/11/12 07:59 PM
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Start with your lips relaxed, or just slightly puckered. You aren't kissing a relative where you do that "MUA" thing with your lips looking like you're about to blow out a candle. My personal preference is heads tilted to the left, my lower lip between dude's lips, his upper lip between my lips. (I'm a chick, btw.) Just . . . do to her what feels good to you. That is to say, if she does something you like, do it back to her. Do to her what you want her to do to you. Run your tongue over her lip …
/r/seduction27/11/12 07:30 PM
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Future Projections, particularly in a situation where drinking is involved. Anything from "we are going to make cookies", "We are going to go skydiving/anything adventurous". These things aren't meant to be seen as things you will actually do, but help the female become comfortable with the thought of you in the future, thus making it easier to bed them.
/r/seduction13/11/12 11:53 PM
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Yes. Something you might want to check out that is more relevant to your age: /r/highseddit - high school seduction.
/r/seduction10/08/12 12:28 AM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how it is girl specific. Please respect the community. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction03/08/12 09:09 PM
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"I tried but I guess I just didn't get there fast enough :P. I wish the best for both of you and tell your new found boyfriend I said he's a lucky man." - this was incredibly beta and should have been left out.
/r/seduction03/08/12 09:03 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how it is girl specific. Please respect the community. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction03/08/12 08:50 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how it is girl specific. Please respect the community. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction03/08/12 08:43 PM
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tl;dr You are the prize, act like it.
/r/seduction31/07/12 10:42 PM
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I remember when i was first getting into the whole pua scene, i would constantly see the youtube vid of "the worlds best pick up" (featured cajun on Keys to the VIP) and dismiss it as some bs until i finally watched it. Man was i blown away.
/r/seduction26/07/12 08:56 PM
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I kept pushing forward. Seems like everyone falls into a slump at one point or another after discovering seduction. you have to just plow through. You say you've been browsing for months and yet you don't know the answer to this? You are being the very definition of an AFC. Fix your inner game, then worry about getting a girl. Lastly, read the sidebar.
/r/seduction25/07/12 05:26 AM
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This question is far too vague to be answered appropriately. My personal pointers when talking to a girl and or replying to her question; Keep eye contact (you have the power to give her the best orgasm of her life and you know this) 2 . believe what you say (never doubt yourself. "Yeah, i'm the god damn batman") 3 . say it with confidence (cool relaxed tones, none of that fast over enthusiastic tones)
/r/seduction20/07/12 05:51 PM
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looked to see if he was an active member of the community or just someone dumping links back to his/her site.
/r/seduction20/07/12 12:29 AM
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Just looked through his history and you are correct, this guy is definitely spamming with his website. Unlike itsmevichet who will have an insightful post and then later link to his blog this guy just dumps links directly to his website.
/r/seduction19/07/12 11:19 PM
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This is an excellent reminder we all need to hear/read every once in a while.
/r/seduction19/07/12 11:07 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. What is the point of your post? Please respect the community and post only after you have read the sidebar. Likewise this post appears to be more appropriate in /r/pof or /r/plentyoffish AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction18/07/12 11:33 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how it is girl specific. Please respect the community. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced ps. there is no quick fix/shortcut in seduction.
/r/seduction18/07/12 05:11 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how it is girl specific. Please respect the community. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced ps. there is no quick fix/shortcut in seduction.
/r/seduction18/07/12 04:44 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, read under NEW HERE?. Respect the community and read before you post. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced ps. there is no quick fix/shortcut in seduction.
/r/seduction18/07/12 12:09 AM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on 'Shit Test'. Likewise try doing a search next time. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction18/07/12 12:05 AM
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Spin it into something positive.Be confident. Talk up your parents about how cool and supportive they are. Your plans to move out The financial advantages Keep in mind that you don't always have to bring them back to your place, you can go to theirs. If the girl senses you are ashamed your situation, it will turn her off.
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:33 PM
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Pimples and zits are temporary. They are gone within a couple of days. your job during that time is to make them see beyond that.
/r/seduction17/07/12 09:10 PM
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you shouldn't be looking for external validation blah blah blah.... I personally don't like cats (unless it's that corgi cat), and the fact that cats are often associated with that whole internet beta nerd thing doesn't help either. If i were you, i would forgo the cat until you have worked on your inner game/confidence. also: AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:08 PM
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It probably comes down to the basic principle of wanting what you can't have. When you hit them with that text they realize they are losing you.
/r/seduction17/07/12 08:02 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared a location to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on /r/AskSeddit. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction17/07/12 07:57 PM
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|I was finally seeing the matrix unravel. |I open 30 girls in 5 minutes Jesus Christ man?!! :O i can only imagine this being like how Neo dealt with Agent Smith after he revived. Great fucken job.
/r/seduction15/07/12 05:50 AM
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Quality [FR] 10/10. |I drove her across town and had a few more experiences, I'd be embedded in her mind that much more. Oh so very important. Dates are all about experiences/memories, otherwise you run the risk of being "just another date".
/r/seduction13/07/12 11:54 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on ALL ABOUT INNER GAME. I have somewhat experienced this. When i first started my friends would "hate" one me for wanting to pick up girls. I now realize they were doing it out of Jealousy.
/r/seduction13/07/12 10:47 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS & TEXT/PHONE GAME. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how it is girl specific. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction13/07/12 10:41 PM
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The thing is, most people lie on facebook. They make their life appear more interesting then it really is. If someone does have a really active/interesting lifestyle, they hardly have time or simply don't care to be on facebook. Personally, i just use facebook as a means to stay in contact with old friends.
/r/seduction13/07/12 09:03 PM
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The ol'freeze out lol.
/r/seduction13/07/12 07:30 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on MORE HERE then 2) Can't get over her? AKA Oneitis. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how it is girl specific. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction13/07/12 07:29 PM
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No problem. I realize the sidebar is a bit more catered to the male pua...so.. here are some tips: dress classy, not slutty. heels are a must. Give a hug, don't shake hands. wear a pleasant perfume (anchor) demonstrate high value kino don't be too available, otherwise he won't chase you. check out The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, Part two is where the good stuff is. Google the pdf, or pm me.
/r/seduction13/07/12 07:18 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, read NEW HERE?. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how it is specific. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced ps. there is no quick fix/shortcut in seduction.
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:36 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. Thanks for reading the sidebar btw. hopefully more people will weigh in. When you give out your number, you give her control and the responsibility of initiating contact. The problem is that probability that she will contact you again diminishes vastly unless you did a stellar job seducing. Your routing sounds fine and is a great way to further anchor yourself.
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:24 PM
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"FB game" is looked down upon, therefore you won't get very many responses. edit: your name looks familiar, i think i've seen you around here for some time....you should know how ppl feel about "fb game".
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:07 PM
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This is pretty old and has been documented, therefore i do find it to be 'textbook'. I do forget what it is called though, i believe Mystery is the one who came up with it. Regardless, this has worked for me a few times.
/r/seduction13/07/12 05:57 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. You might want to check out 'All About Inner Game' on the sidebar to help you prevent it from happening again.
/r/seduction13/07/12 05:52 PM
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The biggest problem afc's & sap's have is that they always disqualify themselves. We've all done it at one point or another. The best way to go about it, is one should ALWAYS assume attraction.
/r/seduction13/07/12 05:47 PM
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Add some value to this post and include what you did to help you get over your oneitis.
/r/seduction13/07/12 05:36 PM
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I would also like to add: 10 . Do not over consume alcohol. Binge drinking at a party/bar/event is not as attractive as one might think. Likewise it completely throws your game off.
/r/seduction13/07/12 05:33 PM
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thanks man. i decided to stop complaining about the influx of new users and instead become more proactive.
/r/seduction13/07/12 05:28 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit seeing as how it is girl specific. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction13/07/12 07:07 AM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on Shit Tests. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction11/07/12 11:42 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. Like puaCurveball said, "you get yourself laid not your music". Seeing as how you are fairly young, you have a lot to learn. You should consider checking out /r/askseddit & /r/highseddit. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions HighSeddit - high school related game/seduction Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction11/07/12 11:37 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. This question is more suitable in; /r/highseddit , likewise you might want to try /r/askseddit seeing as how this is one girl specific. AskSeddit - Beginner, specific questions HighSeddit - high school related game/seduction Seddit - Intermediate/Advanced
/r/seduction11/07/12 11:29 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, under NEW HERE? I suggest reading the first three post as they hold the most value to your situation.
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:17 PM
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You're doing it wrong...oh so wrong, big time. You should be directing that frustration to picking up women. Sure, you don't have a lot of free time but i am sure you probably run errands during the day. Perhaps you are using this "i'm super busy" attitude to mask the AA. Also, by giving you that sob story and stroking your ego, that escort probably just picked herself a returning customer, a "regular".
/r/seduction11/07/12 07:02 PM
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Your response sounds more than adequate. Remember to keep a smile when saying it. You don't want to sound like a butt hurt AFC. I suggest reading Shit Tests on the sidebar.
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:40 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on All About Inner Game. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:34 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit.
/r/seduction11/07/12 06:25 PM
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Hi, and welcome to /r/seduction. You're going to love it here. We saw you coming and have prepared an answer to your question already; it's in the sidebar, click on MORE HERE. Likewise this question could have been more suitable in; /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction08/07/12 09:24 PM
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Great job mate, way to dhv, show social proof, and get her blood pumping. I can't remember where i read/heard that creating experiences/memories is the best way to seduce. Have you decided on your third date? Or are you moving on to the next flower?
/r/seduction07/07/12 12:17 AM
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You shouldn't rely on putting yourself down as a conversation piece to talk to the opposite sex. They will see it as a clear indicator of an afc. Regarding what you can do; i would start by reading Shit Test (on the sidebar), and work on your conversation game.
/r/seduction06/07/12 11:56 PM
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Good advice that could be applied to general first dates.
/r/seduction06/07/12 07:07 PM
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Sometime ago i read "if you can't do it sober, it doesn't count", since then i decided i would cut back my drinking and game as sober as possible. Whereas before i would be drinking 6-7 drinks, i now have 2-3 at most. It was definitely easier to socialize w/ people when i was buzzed/drunk but there was very little value to those interactions. Nothing would really come of them. Without the massive alcohol intake, i now feel sharp and in control. It was hard at first, but it has definitely paid of…
/r/seduction04/07/12 08:09 PM
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IME, picking up girls at a rave is like shooting fish in a barrel. If you consider yourself to be an AFC i wouldn't cut out the "social lube" that is alcohol until you have gotten some experience and feel comfortable with yourself. I am by no means a PUA, but i feel i have gotten to the point where i am trying to game as sober as possible.
/r/seduction04/07/12 07:58 PM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/s3kgi/quicktips_i_find_important/ this was an awesome post. wth happened to you?
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:51 AM
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I would also like to add The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. The history lessons can be a bit much but i have found it to be an excellent read if you are intent on seducing one person.
/r/seduction04/07/12 01:15 AM
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WTF are you talking about?
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:48 PM
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You misunderstood. Seduction does not equal /r/seduction. /r/seduction is a subreddit on www.reddit.com. Seduction is the act of seducing/A tempting or attractive thing. The problem i am having is with the white knights/preachers/disrespectful newbs(disregard the sidebar)
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:34 PM
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Agreed, there are plenty of women out there STUCK in shit relationships.
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:14 PM
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"Suppose her bf and her had a fight " It is not our place to give a shit what problems she has back home (that's better left to the poor sap who's been friendzoned). If she is out looking for a good time, then we can show her a good time.
/r/seduction03/07/12 09:11 PM
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I have been here just over 7 months and have found this to be one of the best post on the subreddit. Clicky I have found myself continually going back to it.
/r/seduction03/07/12 07:12 PM
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Valid point. I used to see some women as my Mt. Everest that i needed to conquer (fuck/have). When things wouldn't pan out the way i wanted, i became overly fixated on said girl and why she didn't want me.
/r/seduction29/06/12 08:57 PM
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I would always read the "sleep with 10 girls" antidote to oneitis. Never thought too much of it. A couple of months ago i came down with oneitis for a few weeks until i finally said fuck it. Decided to go out, had a one night stand. BAM! Cured.
/r/seduction29/06/12 08:52 PM
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" pussy way of initiating at best. " - this
/r/seduction29/06/12 08:46 PM
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Agreed. I remember reading somewhere "if you can't do it sober, it doesn't count", since then I've limited myself to 2-3 drinks at most. Too many people rely on alcohol to work up confidence.
/r/seduction29/06/12 08:28 PM
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if you are so insecure why not just simply change the date to something else? If your friends (guys&girls) are going to be there, have them wing you for social proof. be alpha and show her an excellent time.
/r/seduction29/06/12 06:20 PM
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Say you pull this off again, how would you improve this time around? Aside from not saying ""always smoke your bud" " lol.
/r/seduction29/06/12 06:11 PM
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that sounds totally fake and butthurt
/r/seduction29/06/12 01:09 AM
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Help yourself by reading the sidebar.
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:21 AM
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Sometime ago i read "if you can't do it sober, it doesn't count", since then i decided i would cut back my drinking and game as sober as possible. Whereas before i would be drinking 6-7 drinks, i now have 2-3 at most. It was definitely easier to socialize w/ people when i was buzzed/drunk but there was very little value to those interactions. Nothing would really come of them. Without the massive alcohol intake, i now feel sharp and in control. It was hard at first, but it has definitely paid of…
/r/seduction27/06/12 11:58 PM
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Everywhere you go, as long as there is an HB is a good place to pick up. Don't limit yourself to just bars/clubs. Do a search for Day Game in the subreddit and you'll see plenty of [FR]'s with success..of course whether you succeed or fail is up to you.
/r/seduction27/06/12 07:35 PM
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Good post, some of the items you listed imo go hand in hand with the definition of an AFC. (poor body language, Rambling)
/r/seduction27/06/12 07:26 PM
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If you are going to be an active member of this community i feel you have an obligation to Upvote quality post Downvote lame post Report unrelated post
/r/seduction27/06/12 07:09 PM
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I too am sick with all of these new post that blatantly disregard and disrespect what the community is. Perhaps we need to make the "New here? Confused average guy? Read: NEW HERE in the sidebar below! Don't post until you have read that material" banner a little bigger. Although it could also be that most kids are on summer break, or the point of the spaming was to dilute the quality of seddit. Likewise /r/highseddit (high school seddit) should be added to the sidebar.
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:59 PM
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Excellent post! I would also like to add that their is no quick fix/magic pill. Seduction/self improvement/inner game, take time and effort. If you aren't willing to work for it, you're in the wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:47 PM
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" Help me land a cute girl nerd in a sea of orbiters and socially inept dudes while in Vegas." Help yourself by reading the sidebar. Everything you need is right there. If you are looking for a quick fix, you're in wrong place.
/r/seduction27/06/12 05:01 PM
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Focus on day game.
/r/seduction26/06/12 08:11 PM
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"a high-status basketball player grabbed my girlfriend by her ass and said something dirty to her." Sounds like he has a lot to lose. Have her press sexual harassment charges and fuck him over.
/r/seduction26/06/12 08:07 PM
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" Got my dream girl bitches. You can too. " I'm going to disagree w/u on this. Let me explain why. IMO you didn't get her, you had one drunk/stoned fueled hook up and whether you "got" her, will be determined in the following days.
/r/seduction26/06/12 08:02 PM
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Sounds like you are off to a great start! You have an advantage over most people here. You clearly don't lack confidence. Going out solo is imo one of the most difficult things to do. With a bit more reading/lurking, you will be getting #'s no problem.
/r/seduction26/06/12 06:00 PM
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i did
/r/seduction26/06/12 05:32 PM
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First, thanks for having read/researched. 2nd, congrats on actually going out and trying. Too many times do people get stuck being keyboard jockeys. 3rd, Keep in mind, you/it can only get better from here. If you are looking for some awesome reading material, hit the "Top" tab up top. I find myself continually going back to those posts.
/r/seduction25/06/12 08:23 PM
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Much like a dog can smell the fear in someone. Girls can pick up on your lack of confidence and or fear. I would suggest you read the material in this subreddit on inner game.
/r/seduction25/06/12 08:15 PM
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New here? Confused average guy? Read: NEW HERE in the sidebar below! Don't post until you have read that material
/r/seduction25/06/12 08:08 PM
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Everything you did seems to have worked for you. The only advice i could give is to not get attached or over clingy, maintain an abundance mentality. Remember, she is the lucky one getting to go out on all of these dates with an awesome guy.
/r/seduction25/06/12 07:37 PM
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Quality [FR] 10/10. It's obvious you have put in the work and done your research. Although i somewhat find myself in the same predicament as yourself (not looking for LTR), what i usually do, is touch base with them. I ask them how long ago their last relationship was, why it ended and what they are currently looking for. Those questions are usually reciprocated. My answer to the last one is that i am simply seeing what is out there. Wording it this way i feel it doesn't sound so bad(In retrospe…
/r/seduction25/06/12 07:13 PM
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26, i'm down.
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:28 PM
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+1 "not giving a fuck is about attitude but it certainly does not mean disregard all consequences. "
/r/seduction25/06/12 07:47 AM
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Didn't let me down. It's good to see people making an effort. Next time go for a girl who doesn't have a kid ;)
/r/seduction25/06/12 07:45 AM
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Also in Sacramento. Been looking for a wingman.
/r/seduction25/06/12 07:29 AM
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When i was in 4th grade i also got a stick in my eye. It somehow broke leaving me with a lot of splinters on my eyeball. To this day i thank god i was only left with a small spot on my eye. Next time i am feeling like a pussy about approaching, I'll think back to your story bro. As far as dealing with your situation, think about it this way. What if the damage would have been worse? what if you would of lost your eye completely and been left with a hole. All of a sudden having a lazy eye isn't s…
/r/seduction25/06/12 07:26 AM
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not douchebags, just disrespectful newbs.
/r/seduction25/06/12 07:19 AM
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Haven't you ever heard the saying "Nice guys finish last" & "girls always go for the asshole/jerk/douche". Being a nice guy is a sign of weakness IMO because nice guys always put everyone else before themselves in various aspects.
/r/seduction23/06/12 12:35 AM
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I don't see anything wrong with it, you're both adults. i certainly do not believe in the whole "don't shit where you eat" mentality. I find it to be as stupid as the whole "don't stick your dick in crazy".
/r/seduction22/06/12 07:29 PM
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I would say 30 or so at most contribute in the comments and the rest are disrespectful one time post newbs.
/r/seduction22/06/12 06:50 PM
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You need to keep an abundance mentality. Don't let such a meaningless incident change the way you act around her. Go about your day as if nothing is different and you have plenty of women to chose from. Personally i don't subscribe to the whole "Don't shit where you eat" philosophy, it's as stupid as the "don't stick your dick in crazy". High school bullshit.
/r/seduction22/06/12 05:54 PM
1

Perhaps she is no longer happy in her relationship. All too often do people get stuck in relationships that are like a bad habit. This is going to sound terrible...but don't let a relationship discourage you. Search for a post titled "boyfriend destroyers".
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:47 AM
1

Amen.
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:36 AM
2

"Is it Beta to ask them a lot of questions about their culture?" No, use it as a tool to get to know them better and build some rapport, genuinely appear to be interested. Push for some dates where the girl takes YOU out to show you around.
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:15 AM
0

stop spamming the site. This is your second post on the same subject.
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:09 AM
1

"so we are going to be friends? And hang out?" Sounds like you have her on the hook. "Is this the beginning of a FWB thing?" I don't doubt it. Just keep in mind, this girl has feelings.
/r/seduction22/06/12 12:06 AM
1

I have/had the same issue you are experiencing. I go crazy for a girl, work my ass off to try and get her, then when i find out i can have said girl, i no longer want them. Little things will turn me off about them. I think one of the reasons i did/do this is because i am a commitment-phobe. Perhaps you are afraid of commitment and your brain is pushing the eject button before things get too serious.
/r/seduction21/06/12 08:22 PM
1

I completely agree and IMO i find their disregard extremely disrespectful.
/r/seduction21/06/12 08:17 PM
1

Once or twice is okay, anything more than that unless an emergency is a huge no. It won't dhv. If a girl is one of those texting whores, i simply ask the girl if i can see her phone, once she hands it over to me put it in my pocket and smile at her.
/r/seduction21/06/12 07:57 PM
2

i think it's pretty awesome you have such a busy lifestyle. IMO these would all be DHV to a female. As Kingcal said, try running game at each of these events, perhaps not full blown out serious game, but try to seamlessly incorporate tips/tricks.
/r/seduction21/06/12 07:45 PM
1

Stop being beta and keep your options open. If anything you should be worried you will cause a girl to get dickwhipped.
/r/seduction21/06/12 07:30 PM
1

Quality read, 10/10. This is what seduction is all about.
/r/seduction21/06/12 07:22 PM
2

Serious question: Having the knowledge you have now, if you could go back how would you handle the situation? Much like everyone i am also left scratching my head as to what happened after you built such awesome rapport. There is a lesson in all of this.
/r/seduction20/06/12 12:26 AM
1

Keep the momentum and on to the next one!
/r/seduction20/06/12 12:22 AM
1

yeah that last post you did was gold. i don't understand wtf was up with all the commentators giving you so much crap (over grown moral conscience) and not adding anything of value. Seddit is about to hit 60,000 readers and i really think the quality of post is starting to reflect that.
/r/seduction19/06/12 07:28 PM
1

According to Stendhal, if there is a woman you are interested in, pay attention to her sister/friend. That will stir a triangular desire. - Robert Greene The Art of Seduction. Tell her it is fine, do not tell her you do not have a friend for her friend. When you meet them at said location, casually tell them all of your friends were busy. Do your best to insure everyone is having fun and focus on scoring some points with the friend, even if that means you pay more attention to her.
/r/seduction19/06/12 07:16 PM
1

I would have caved and texted her back after that second text message. Kudos on the abundance/idgaf mentality.
/r/seduction18/06/12 10:13 PM
1

this is what /r/askseddit is for avoid falling into the friendzone and set up a date.
/r/seduction14/06/12 08:16 PM
1

create some positive/sexual tension to the point where she craves your touch.
/r/seduction14/06/12 08:03 PM
1

I've come to the realization that i am going to die. Could be tomorrow, 1yr, 5yrs, 60yrs down the road, and i have concluded i no longer want to live my life full of regrets over missed opportunities. Also, read the god damn sidebar.
/r/seduction14/06/12 08:00 PM
3

Good start but it sounds like you still have quite a bit to learn/read. Be sure to ask her out on a date (preferably something casual) before the moment becomes stale. There is plenty of material in this subreddit on asking girls out. I would suggest you read the top articles and likewise take more of a lead next time you meet her. Good Luck.
/r/seduction13/06/12 07:51 PM
4

Completely agree. There is no way in hell i would ever pull such a clown/beta move. IMO this is the afc's version of a shit test.
/r/seduction13/06/12 07:16 PM
3

Try a freeze out. Get them all hot and bothered and then pull away. The key is to leave them wanting for more.
/r/seduction12/06/12 07:23 PM
1

tell her you are gay, and wanted to experiment after being rejected by your family. But that you cannot deny who you truly are.
/r/seduction12/06/12 06:54 PM
-1

ALWAYS use protection. That said, there are plenty of clean hookers on craiglist. Don't go scouring the streets. At said age, it isn't uncommon for normal ppl to be carrying an std.
/r/seduction09/06/12 08:34 PM
-3

If i were in your shoes, i would hire a hooker and get the whole virgin thing out of the way. Most women at your target age are fairly well experienced in sex, the last thing you want to be is lousy in bed. Befriend said hooker and have her show you the ropes. Also, a healthy active sex life promotes confidence.
/r/seduction09/06/12 08:14 PM
2

stop thinking so beta and putting them on a pedestal. You have to remember, you are the prize. Work on your inner game, achieve abundance mentality.
/r/seduction08/06/12 07:12 PM
1

"Was I invited? Fuck no! How many fucks didn't I give? They're just falling from the sky." - YES YES YES FUCKEN YES!!!! ppl need to realize the world doesn't owe them shit! and likewise they don't owe the world shit. Go out, have fun, fuck if you fail. Nobody cares.
/r/seduction08/06/12 08:47 AM
2

"I don't think that all the advice in here is always the healthiest approach to romance." Not everyone is looking for romance/ltr. Seeing as how you have moved quite a bit i would be really interested in hearing your take on oneitis.
/r/seduction07/06/12 09:54 PM
1

It sounds like you don't really have any feelings for girl A or any desire to have her as fwb. Be open with her as to where you both stand and let her know you are interested in another girl (in a sense, friendzone her). Avoid a potential mess by being clear and perhaps you can get her to wing you with this new lady.
/r/seduction07/06/12 07:49 PM
1

I don't see how we could apply it to our subreddit and therefore I don't find it necessary. i am open to hear others opinion/suggestions.
/r/seduction07/06/12 07:05 PM
2

Good post, looks like i am currently in phase two. Perhaps because of that, I am having trouble seeing the whole "Leave them better then you found them".
/r/seduction07/06/12 06:40 PM
1

I somewhat know how you feel. i am constantly teased about being a commitmentphobe. The usual advice i get from my close friends is that i haven't met the "right" one. It's definitely difficult to settle when there are so many beautiful women out in the world.
/r/seduction06/06/12 10:52 PM
1

IMO it sounds like your laziness is a mask for your fear.
/r/seduction06/06/12 10:04 PM
1

The judges judging is all over the place IMO. Still quite entertaining though.
/r/seduction05/06/12 11:26 PM
1

i believe what the author was going for was, don't be Beta. Take charge of the situation and don't plan something that gives her the opportunity to flake out on you. Giving a girl a time and a place opens the possibility that she might not like the place for whatever reason and therefore flake out before she sees you. Giving her choices shows you can't take the lead. Asking her where/when to go makes the situation awkward because now she is the one taking you out on a date.
/r/seduction05/06/12 10:09 PM
2

Flip the roles. friendzone her. Next time she sends you a "xoxo" text, catch her off guard with something like this; "it's really cool talking to you and you are a great person, but i really feel we should just stay as friends/keep a distance" You have to be willing to lose it all in order to gain it all.
/r/seduction05/06/12 08:20 PM
6

slow cap that turns into thunderous applause*
/r/seduction05/06/12 06:12 PM
1

i feel ya bro, that is one of the reasons i am trying to game as sober as possible. Whiskey dick taught me a major lesson w/ an HB9.5.
/r/seduction04/06/12 10:44 PM
2

I like the fact that you were able to stay in frame and point out the techniques, but not a fan of the way you are referring to the girls. I am baffled as to why you didn't fuck the brunette though?
/r/seduction04/06/12 09:03 PM
1

Good close mate but it sounds like you really need to work on your inner game. You have all the tools necessary to dhv, have an abundance mentality, and have social proof. Keep in mind that YOU are the prize, out of all the girls you could have talked to that night, you chose her. Also, read up on switching the roles and getting her to qualify herself to you.
/r/seduction04/06/12 07:49 PM
3

Actively seeking rejection to desensitize you from potentially being shot down is a huge mistake if you are not mentally prepared. If you struggle with inner game this can potentially back fire and leave you feeling like crap. Why not actually try and seduce/pick up the girl(s), see what works and what doesn't for you. Trial and error. Use it to shape/narrow down your game.
/r/seduction04/06/12 06:05 PM
3

i had oneitis for over 5 weeks. didn't buy the whole "sleep with ten girls" antidote. one weekend i finally decided enough was enough, went out had a one nite stand....bam! cured. i still think about her but not as badly. Try it.
/r/seduction04/06/12 03:44 AM
2

lurk more/ sidebar->text/phone game DHV = demonstrate high value abundance mentality /r/askseddit
/r/seduction04/06/12 03:38 AM
7

DHV = demonstrate high value abundance mentality MFA
/r/seduction02/06/12 07:27 AM
1

Keep your composure, stay in frame, dhv, and above all else...have fun. If you look tense, or your lines rehearsed, things are going to be a bit awkward. Just remember you are the prize.
/r/seduction30/05/12 10:18 PM
4

It honestly sounds like she was/is interested, but from the fact that she just recently got out of a relationship, she is scared. If you really like her, slow things down a bit.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:56 PM
28

i just started doing sit ups.
/r/seduction30/05/12 05:50 AM
4

I have found it to be pretty destructive to my game. But then again, it did help me when i was starting to catch oneitis.
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:17 PM
2

Completely agree, and the way the universe works...the one day you decided to under-dress, will be the day you meet an HB10. Got to look your best, got to feel your best.
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:10 PM
1

I had a girl friend that would usually puke after cumming whenever she would hook up with someone she didn't have a deep emotional connection. o_O She would also say she felt repulsed by the guy(s).
/r/seduction25/05/12 08:52 PM
1

Prior to discovering seddit, i also hated it. I felt incredibly awkward, didn't have the confidence to lead and take her hand, or grab her by a belt loop and push her into me or do a push away. Things got better as my inner game improved. None the less i still feel a bit awkward every once in a while.
/r/seduction24/05/12 09:03 PM
65

Typical shit test shouldn't be answered with a serious response. Great! So do i, but i left him at home to have some fun. Whats your excuse? (should be said in a manly voice...not in a girly/gay way) (later while dancing the girl asked "your not really gay are you?", i responded w/ "you don't really have a b.f do you?". laughs were exchanged, # closed.)
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:39 PM
15

Obviously this open relationship isn't working for you*. Personally, i would never want to be one. If this type of open relationship is making you feel like crap, let her know. If she truly loves you and puts you first, she will stop. If she is unwilling to stop. Move on. IMO It doesn't matter that at the end of the day she is coming back to you for several reasons. 1. She could be coming back with some std. 2. It isn't guaranteed she will always come back. 3. Do you seriously want someone who c…
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:13 PM
9

Realize that 1 year from that nite, those feelings, that rejection won' t mean shit. Life isn't guaranteed, you could die next week and none of those feelings will matter. Kind of depressing but it helps me overcome many obstacles. Take advantage of life.
/r/seduction24/05/12 06:31 AM
1

IMO this is what seduction/gaming is all about. I am generally against trying to game a girl with text/IM's/video chats but in this case, texting was used as a tool in seduction/gaming instead of a means. great job mate.
/r/seduction23/05/12 06:28 PM
0

It's called being an AFC.
/r/seduction18/05/12 08:27 PM
1

Great job mate. build up some rapport, then text her before lunch "meet me at so and so" (preferably an isolated area). escalate, kino, kclose.
/r/seduction18/05/12 06:38 AM
1

if you keep going at this pace, your soda is going to go flat. you need to step your game up and show her who the man is. Take control, make decisions. Women like to be lead, not followed.
/r/seduction15/05/12 07:48 AM
6

Great save! This is an excellent example of how to be persistent in a cool smooth way without being desperate and off putting.
/r/seduction15/05/12 07:35 AM
1

Don't linger on it. Personally i would walk away. if she still chases you, cool. If not, then o well. You don't owe her anything and she doesn't either. If she happens to move to your location, great! hit her up when she is in town. Otherwise show her you've moved on.
/r/seduction14/05/12 08:41 PM
1

sounds too me like u left too much time pass. i wouldn't talk to her again until i saw her personally.
/r/seduction14/05/12 08:17 AM
2

The usual: The Game (nice storyline, not too technical though) The laws of attraction. I prefer audio seminars (RSD, The Mystery Method, David Wygant) . Youtube is littered with them. Just get a youtube audio downloader and load them up on your mp3.
/r/seduction11/05/12 08:29 PM
2

For me its the way they present themselves. Cleanliness is next to Godliness.
/r/seduction11/05/12 08:06 PM
1

Awesome job staying in frame Great job on the time constraint smooth job transitioning into getting her # Good job on DHV 9/10 Could have perhaps done some future projections? "i bet you anything that i would end up dead if i ever tried"
/r/seduction11/05/12 08:04 PM
1

I could see this concept being really convenient if you are a MPUA and are opening up on tons of girls on a regular basis. Good way to easily weed out the girls that are not attracted and a good way of making you* the prize.
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:56 PM
1

Knowing if someone is interested in you is the difficult part about gaming/seduction. Obviously she is interested in you. From this point on, use that as motivation (you no longer have to "assume attraction". This is what you are going to do. Mirror her. Tomorrow when you see her again, you will ask her for the time. when she gives you the time you will say, "don't you mean 7:xx (take one hour )" When she begins to reply, cut her off and and introduce yourself "hi my name is cris". Do this with …
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:50 PM
0

If you get involved with your ex again.... your going to have a badddd time. Steer that sexual drive into picking up other women.
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:34 PM
13

As a personal opinion, i find masturbation to be pretty destructive. It kills your drive to game. Porn has its pros and cons. A pro - It gives you ideas for sex positions, and various other tips (lesbians eat a mean pussy!). A con - It can desensitize you to sexual involvement with your partner, e.g head is okay, but now you want more. you want her to deep throat...and so on.
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:28 PM
3

Time Constraint. Hey i am about to take off, i really enjoy talking to you mind if i shoot you a text or a call sometime? If they are interested, they will comply. If they question what going somewhere has to do with not being able to message them, tell them you are on wifi.
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:12 PM
3

What would i think? Perhaps it is a sign of insecurity on her part. She is looking for validation from strangers on the web. This is an are you can use to your advantage in eliciting values. But! before that, it sounds like you have really bad inner game issues you need to work out. I suggest you read up on on all the top links in seddit and kill that AFC inside of you.
/r/seduction11/05/12 06:47 PM
8

they are trying to become descenciteized to rejection
/r/seduction11/05/12 07:36 AM
2

Short answer: No. If you have properly set up attraction, she could be genuinely trying to figure out what kind of a guy you are. Giving her constant, quick/indirect/funny responses might turn her off and make her assume you don't view her seriously. protip: Shit test questions are usually pretty common and obvious questions e.g "do you do this with all the girls you meet?", "Are you a player?", "When was the last time you had sex?"
/r/seduction10/05/12 09:03 PM
1

Barns & Noble. Great place to find girls just casually hanging out. A better place to say where you/they met someone as opposed to a bar. Bonus points if you have some knowledge regarding the book they are looking at/for.
/r/seduction10/05/12 08:34 PM
1

The word/idea of peacocking has developed a bad connotation largely because it is misunderstood. Do i peacock? Yes. Do i wear furry hats, and demonic jewelry? No. Peacocking can be something as simple being the best dressed in a bar/party/etc. Being the best dressed doesn't mean you have to have expensive clothing, just a cool style that stands out. I suggest /r/malefashionadvice
/r/seduction09/05/12 10:09 PM
2

<3<3
/r/seduction09/05/12 03:37 AM
3

The first problem i see here, is that in order to get over oneitis you must sleep with 10 different chicks. You have only slept with 9, therefore you have 1 left in order to cure your oneitis. Kidding aside, it sounds like your drinking is really starting to hurt you. Take a step back and reflect on life in general. Use this time to work on self improvement. IMO no matter how many girls you sleep with, you will not fill that void you feel. The reason for that is, you are not ready to have the vo…
/r/seduction07/05/12 08:18 PM
2

I've seen many instances where a person overly drinks (6-7 drinks in 1-2hrs) in order to achieve a social state of mind. They rely on the alcohol to become confident instead of being confident from within.
/r/seduction07/05/12 06:54 PM
1

Great job mate. One of the things i liked about your escapade is that you didn't rely on alcohol to achieve social proof.
/r/seduction07/05/12 05:56 PM
3

Jealousy is the best type of flattery. Although i would have preferred a screen cap instead of a direct link.
/r/seduction04/05/12 07:57 PM
1

J & B on the rocks. STRAIGHT.
/r/seduction11/04/12 01:24 AM
1

I somewhat agree with everyone else on "don't shit where you eat" but feel as though some random/casual/drunk hook ups would be cool. Personally i would be very cautious not to fall for her and get oneitis. Nothing worse than having her bring a guy over and hearing him plow her.
/r/seduction11/04/12 12:49 AM
1

should of #closed ;) lol j.k
/r/seduction11/04/12 12:44 AM
1

"as I pull out my phone it has a fresh text from the previous girl" what did it say?
/r/seduction07/04/12 08:16 PM
1

Lately i had been losing my focus/sense of direction. This short but concisely written article definitely turned some light switches back on. Game on!
/r/seduction30/03/12 02:10 AM
2

Looks like you caught her off guard, and in a small sense "swept her off her feet". Great Job.
/r/seduction21/03/12 02:22 AM
3

i too live about an hour away
/r/seduction20/03/12 10:31 PM
1

Like everyone else has said, the age difference doesn't matter. If anything it just shows you are that much more awesome and should be giving you a huge confidence boost. IMO i would totally go for it, if it doesn't work out, oh well, move on and friendzone her. keep the Alpha male mentality. Nothing says this has to go on to be some huge over dramatic fall out. I would hate to later be full of regret for not having made a move.
/r/seduction16/03/12 08:41 PM
7

Unless her relationship is/has been on the verge of callapse, be prepared to be friendzoned. "Anyway what am I supposed to do?" Move the fuck on. "I am not interested in just quitting by the way" Then...read this: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/oj4s0/boyfriend_destroyers/
/r/seduction10/03/12 02:14 AM
1

Sounds to me like the girl got bored and moved on. Best thing to do, would be not to linger on what you did wrong/what you could have done, and simply move on before you get oneitis.
/r/seduction01/03/12 08:55 PM
1

Challenge accepted. Will start tomorrow.
/r/seduction28/02/12 07:41 AM
4

"Well i normally don't go for older women, but you seem pretty hip. So i am willing to give YOU a chance." neg+dhv+abundance mentality
/r/seduction26/02/12 09:49 PM
19

needed to hear this, thanks mate.
/r/seduction22/02/12 11:40 PM
12

wow, even though those two statements are completely identical i read them in a completely different way.
/r/seduction22/02/12 06:31 AM
2

"Hell, you even gave her a second chance, just because you're nice like that" i feel this could be turned into an awesome follow up text. thoughts?
/r/seduction22/02/12 04:26 AM
2

I find raves the perfect location to peacock. I have a kids ninja turtle costume with fake muscles, that i wear that generates a lot of attention with the girls.
/r/seduction21/02/12 12:47 AM
2

I got bailed on yesterday for a date that i had today. I've been totally digging this chick for over a year, but thanks to seddit finally worked up the courage to ask her out. The advice in this post, is exactly what i need to hear.
/r/seduction19/02/12 10:49 PM
1

i too think about how awesome this advice would have been when i was 18, but then i realize that i could very well be saying the same thing about my current age. Make the best of it mate.
/r/seduction19/02/12 08:29 PM
1

Great job on the pick up. Here is a quote a fellow sedditor said, that really hit home for me. "There's no point in stressing about it now when nothing has even happened." - Woofspider
/r/seduction14/02/12 04:08 AM
1

Please continue as to how the after party went.
/r/seduction14/02/12 03:30 AM
3

lol, i don't want this to be true :(
/r/seduction14/02/12 01:10 AM
1

Properly decorating your bedroom is a good way to invoke visual foreplay in her mind. Let them visualize themselves in your bed. One piece of item i find very important and has become very useful is a small blanket/throw i keep at the end of my bed with a small hint of my cologne.
/r/seduction13/02/12 09:04 PM
2

"There's no point in stressing about it now when nothing has even happened." +++++++1
/r/seduction11/02/12 08:54 PM
1

"how do you prevent or handle these situations? " i hate to sound cliche, but you should handle them like a "Boss", even if you aren't feeling like one inside. Show them you are unfazed by the situation, and perfectly capable of moving on.
/r/seduction10/02/12 03:39 AM
3

Hitch is okay, if you can turn off your brain for a bit.
/r/seduction10/02/12 03:06 AM
0

In retrospect, yes.
/r/seduction06/02/12 05:43 AM
1

I would go for a double date. It'll take the edge off of things, and if you are digging his girl, it might make her a little jealous to see you with someone else.
/r/seduction04/02/12 07:04 AM
10

Nice of you to follow up mate, sounds like you had a blast. Thanks for taking one for the team.
/r/seduction04/02/12 06:59 AM
3

"A tool to create rapport, connection, and kino when you bring ppl back to your place... " - Neil Strauss. Yeah. Fucken. Right. Lost my respect for this guy.
/r/seduction28/01/12 06:03 AM
1

For $29.99???
/r/seduction28/01/12 06:01 AM
2

Right you are, lol bit my own tongue.
/r/seduction27/01/12 01:53 AM
1

They are making a gross generalization about the men of seddit. We could very well make the same generalization about them and say they are all a bunch of dumb broads unknowingly friendzoning the nice guy in their life.
/r/seduction26/01/12 11:53 PM
92

"Your bed is important. Invest in it." YES!!!! so underrated, yet so important.
/r/seduction25/01/12 06:11 AM
3

She used you as a form of self validation.
/r/seduction21/01/12 11:38 PM
1

"but I was honestly worried about you becoming too attached." wow, did you really say that to her?
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:27 AM
3

Oh man...i cringed reading this lol. Good job at still getting laid, looks like you eventually took control of the situation. Use this experience as a good study guide on how you can fine tune your game, and please don't get stuck with this chick. She doesn't sound all that sane. Thanks for the FR.
/r/seduction17/01/12 02:19 AM
1

"My interests are pretty geeky (psychology[MBTI -xNTx here :)], philosophy, cosmology,". Perfect excuse to use The Cube
/r/seduction17/01/12 01:44 AM
1

"I know I should have escalated until rejection," False! Lingering around until you get rejected is a good way to ruin your night if you aren't very experienced. I would have said, "thanks for the dance, I'll look for you later" and then walked off with that confidence high.
/r/seduction17/01/12 01:36 AM
3

Completely agree, i don't understand all the guys getting their panties in a bunch.
/r/seduction17/01/12 12:33 AM
11

Looks like you flipped the table on her. Girls like that are used to having guys do/say/buy anything for their attention with the hope of impressing them. In your case you were completely cool and unfazed about her. If you are trying to get over your oneitis, don't wait too long to text her. Good job/luck, and on to the next one.
/r/seduction16/01/12 11:54 PM
1

If you were still full of doubt (which you shouldn't have been), what you could have done after you blindfolded her eyes, was give her a soft kiss on her right cheek, then the left cheek. If the response was good, you then proceed to the lips. If she had backed off and removed her blindfold, then it would be smart not proceed any further.
/r/seduction16/01/12 11:49 PM
2

Just saw this last night. Its a good video to finally see some actual footage.
/r/seduction16/01/12 11:20 PM
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I think you did excellent throughout the night except at the end. IMO you sold yourself short and gave into her. Big mistake. You should have done some heavy make out sessions with some heavy petting and then just called it a night. Left her all hot and bothered thinking about you and how badly she wants you, instead of questioning her morals. Good FR, and onto the next one.
/r/seduction16/01/12 09:50 PM
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"I wouldn't be so sure that your house is 'safe'. Nice house by the way." This is awesome, definitely jotting this down in my notes for future use. Great FR btw. It's nice to get another perspective on things.
/r/seduction16/01/12 09:26 PM
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"I excuse myself knowing I want more girls that night." this is awesome and the proper state of mind. Too many times i go out sarging with some friends, only to have them get stuck on the first chick they meet. Bit of a warning though, watch out for girls who want to get you drunk. i once, plastered my wall (in my sleep) in some girlie drink some HB's kept hooking me up with. all in all, Great work mate.
/r/seduction16/01/12 03:59 AM
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Watch out guys! this guy understands women.
/r/seduction15/01/12 03:53 AM
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Ever since i started getting into the whole Culture of seduction, i have been able to point out techniques/methods in the media. More recently, my co-worker was listening to Katy perry's hot and cold song. Under my breath, i whispered to myself; "thats the push-pull technique". She curiously asked "what's that". While it hasn't changed my perspective, i have become more aware.
/r/seduction15/01/12 03:43 AM
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Excellent fucken work mate! My analysis of your FR. Your date was different. It wasn't the typical dinner date. The whole dinosaur thing was genius, it was playful but had some serious sexual undertones. Your confidence appears to have been through the roof, and it appears she definitely noticed. Keep the momentum going with the next girl.
/r/seduction13/01/12 02:06 AM
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I am currently reading this book and i have found the constant historical lessons a bit much. It's been almost a week since i last read it, any advice to get me back on it?
/r/seduction13/01/12 01:45 AM
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I just puked on my lap...in my cubicle. Thanks.
/r/seduction13/01/12 01:42 AM
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Nay.
/r/seduction12/01/12 07:09 AM
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Not for what you have in mind. The book isn't very technical, sure it will open you up to some concepts but nothing u haven't already seen here. If it was somewhere along the lines of $7-$15, i would say yes. The story is very well written and interesting IMO. Don't believe a lot of the reviews you read around, some were written by his followers.
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:15 PM
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IMO the biggest problem i see is a huge lack of confidence. Sure there are some witty/funny comments in there, but all those are really doing is masking the fear. Think more Alpha male. Sell yourself on why you are awesome, and why they should want to get to know you better.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:55 AM
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Sometimes it becomes a good way to learn from their ex's mistakes. It is easier to succeed when someone else has tried and failed, and you know what led to those failures. If i am not looking for something too serious with the girl, i try and dominate the conversation by painting a nice picture of how much more fun they are going to have now that they are single.
/r/seduction11/01/12 02:31 AM
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From my personal experience regarding just girls and not friends in general; showing them interest and not having them become interested in me, only led me into the friendzone.
/r/seduction11/01/12 02:16 AM
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Why did you create r/CollegeSeddit?
/r/seduction10/01/12 01:06 AM
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Regarding the customers i would say to simply blame why you can't give them your number, on someone/something else (like you have been doing) with a consequence. e.g. "I'm sorry i can't, i don't want to be fired/lose my job". Regarding your co-workers, i would personally give them my number. Think about the first time you asked a girl her phone number and how good that felt. Be the nice guy and let them bask in spotlight for a bit. Who knows, maybe one day you might actually need their help (In …
/r/seduction10/01/12 01:03 AM
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Excellent job! Much like Arkhaikos suggest, you should have #closed. I've had a few situations where i've received a few booty texts after getting home from the bar/club/event.
/r/seduction09/01/12 09:58 PM
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(Learned Girls Loving Smiley Faces haha) damn it! one of my new years resolutions is to stop using so many god damn smiley's :S...maybe one is okay?
/r/seduction04/01/12 07:40 AM
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