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Getting StartedMusashie-Mike/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 04:36 AM
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I am in the same boat as both of you gentlemen. I don't live in a city, one of my friends does. He suggested using Facebook dating. To my surprise I have matched almost daily with pretty beautiful women. I've gone on a couple of dates and although nothing came of it I did get compliments and it made me feel like I had butterflies in my stomach again. It's going to be uncomfortable, but exposure therapy is going to be the only way to get past this. Don't put your heart into it, enjoy feeling youn…
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 03:44 PM
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My brother I ask the same question and my brothers and father tell me ' why do fish swim? Why do birds fly, Why does a dog eat its own vomit'. Stop asking why, we are creatures of logic and cannot fathom why they do these things, I imagine just like they cannot fathom why they don't why they wouldn't do them? It makes no sense it never will.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 02:44 PM
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You seem like an exceptional father. I have noticed this with my own son and I have spent many sleepless night as well thinking about what's spectacular thing I can plan. It turns out he likes throwing this styrofoam plane who bought it the Dollar Tree and making bubbles or a variation of the two. He's 10 so we'll spend hours doing that. Occasional ice cream and going to a favorite hot dog place doesn't hurt. Keep up the good fight brother!
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/26 11:39 PM
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I 100% can confirm what this man says. We lost our 8 year old child and my mother in an accident. Unlike the movies 70% of the time it actually Rings married couples closer together. We fell in that 30% category. I am at the four-year point of the divorce and of grieving my child. I don't know why it's 4 years but after the fourth year there was a significant mental, emotional, spiritual, psychic change. I had to my grief under control for my little boy. That damn near killed me, sometimes it's …
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 03:25 AM
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I know there's lots of comments to your post. Please, please please leave now and take your children. I understand the legality but I was in the same situation as you. I did not act fast enough and MY EIGHT YEAR OLD , HIGH FUNCTIONING AUTISTIC SON DIED BECAUSE OF IT!! The person who I was died that day. A lot of times I still ask God why am I alive. Why can't I take his place. The only reason, and I mean the only reason I have survived since January 27th 2022 was because of my youngest child. Ho…
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/26 10:42 PM
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One thing that i have learned is that no one has a real fixed grasp on ' what they are doing'. Just like ourselves, we simply try to do our best while stumbling in the dark, reacting to things life throws at us. Was your wife trying to orchestre a situation, my experience tells me no. She was reacting to her own selfish emotions and wants while trying to maintain face. Idk، maybe i am wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 02:24 PM
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As a Salesman, a teacher, and a business owner i have discovered my strength is in the 'doing'. I excellent at performance and in the performing. Paperwork is my Achilles heal. Paperwork will overwhelm me, confound me and in the end....defeat me. For this reason alone I hired a lawyer after my father agreed to help me financially. I am lucky, if not I would be up shits creek. Divorces can ruin us financially, so I do understand undertaking the process by yourself. May i suggest a local P.A. offi…
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/25 02:43 AM
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Understand that you are grieving. Grieving the new life both of you created as one. I lost my marriage and my business after my little boy died in an accident. To say i was distrought and filled with hate was an understatement. It is ok to feel mad and angry. It did not sound like you had intentionally gone out of your way to hurt her. You have simply deprived her of the benefits she received when she was married to you. You do not sound like an evil man to me. You sound like you are hurt. Just …
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 02:23 AM
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Bravo to your friend!
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 02:29 PM
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Brother I understand what you're saying, even if you didn't communicate it. I've always battled anxiety and depression but I won those fights all throughout my life. When I was working 80 100 hours I would have panic attacks because it felt like I was just dealing with a unforgiving and demanding God I had to appease every day. Yeah it feels like falling or a roller coaster when your stomach drops out but not in a fun way. Now, now I have the super fun diagnosis of PTSD and cptsd. Cuz I was the …
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 01:36 AM
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No brother you got it correctly but I simply will not allow that to happen. I do not live in my marital home. On and off I tried to move back in and make it work but I can be as calm as a cucumber. That matters not one bit. I will not subject my already traumatized son to arguing. Even if I'm accountable to myself, she knows exactly which buttons to hit in order to get an elicited response. As soon as my voice starts raising I leave. As soon as she starts with anything, micromanaging, gas lighti…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/25 11:42 PM
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Oh gosh yes, we play. His mother is not tuned into his emotions at all. Really does not see him as a human being other a conveyance for her to read some higher Society by forcing him to play golf 7 days a week. She forgets that when most of my boys were little I was both their mother and their father even though I work 12 hours a day. I cannot tell you how many nannies or house cleaners I hired for her. Now that things are easier if she wants to appear at some other over here. And a strange way …
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/25 07:39 PM
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I love how you use the allegory of the dark room for your situation. I have been kept in a holding pattern for the past 3 years by my grief and fear. Some people would say I need to let my balls drop, it's not like I didn't try to.... I just did not acquiesce because I'm weak. I acquiesced because I got tired of my wife screaming and cursing and yelling sexual vulgarities in front of my children. I got tired because after the death of my child and my mother. My wife and her family just use the c…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/25 05:39 PM
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I love your insight! You are 100 % right! Please, please, I insist you ask questions you may have. I will answer you in the comments, or feel free to message me directly. No, you are definitely wise, and both your approach and your advice. A lot of times, we give the narrative for why things happen to us after the fact. I read about five different books on grief and grieving. Three books on life after divorce. I can't help but laugh sometimes. My situation is so specific it is rather difficult f…
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/25 06:07 AM
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Thank you, that is an amazing allegory!
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 04:53 AM
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Thank you! That is an amazing allegory!
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 04:52 AM
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Thank you! Chat GPT could be a great tool to utilize! I often wonder if going through so much grief lowerd my iq. Simple solutions like you just offered seem elusive to me. Thank you again!
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 04:31 PM
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This 100 %! Brother, I know it hurts. When my wife did this to me I sat in a chair at my parents for 2-3 weeks and did not move, or speak to anyone. I couldn't, I would start crying and blubbering. Be glad , CELEBRATE YOU DID NOT HAVE CHILDREN WITH HER! I had literally started my own business, worked 80-100 weeks for a decade , and just bought her, her $600,000 dream home on a Lake. After which I was told I was not allowed to live there. I did not simply acquiesce to this. I had two little boys …
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/25 11:15 PM
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