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Bingo. And... it's a just about entirely man-made crisis. These idiots can't organize the most common sense solutions to simple, basic problems, which have been solved in most countries and cultures CENTURIES ago. ​ FFS... paving over natural water sources, not building drains in the roads, no sewer systems? It's almost as if a 9yr old with a Lego set could plan a better city design. The amount of political waste, nepotism, and corruption in India across all sectors is unheard-of.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/19 11:55 AM
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But if you're leading a kickass life and improving, staying in shape, honing hobbies and hustling - wouldn't what "you represent" be qualities like determination, hard work, ZFG, skillfulness and charisma? If that's the case, then aren't those qualities "you." ​ That's a good thing. She might only love you "now" - however, a solid chic will bring out and motivate those best qualities in "you."
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 05:50 AM
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I've had moderate success via Insta with a few girls I've DM'd there and have gotten laid. Ironically, a few years ago my model gf made me get an Insta & helped me post stuff from my travel & performances. I started with 30 likes on a pic and didn't know how to use hashtags & posted maybe 3x a month max. NEVER commented on ppls stuff unless it was a guy friend. In two years I'm at a few thousand followers & get a few thousand views for videos - its still the same shitty camera angle, poorly uplo…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 12:53 PM
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Bro how do you go for the jugular on snap? Can you give a few pointers - I don't know how to use it. I've had a few friends take pictures of me on their just to make stupid voices & I've got to admit, it's pretty fun to troll and blow off steam. But how do you game with it?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/18 12:35 PM
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With that attitude, guess we can learn nothing from Greek mythology or Dante?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 05:21 AM
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You'd be surprised. I had a friend who banged not one, but TWO of the female teachers at our college. One of the teachers was married to a coworker at the time if I remember correctly. Zero consequences for her, but it had to be awkward because most of the students knew. She was in her upper 20s at the time and we were all around 19-21 & periodically she'd show up at bars with him - the rest of us were jealous. She was COOL af and a fantastic teacher too. ​ On the other hand, I once worked as a …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/18 05:19 AM
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Upvoting just for the creative, hilarious, and effective misspelling of "sexy" LOL
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 08:21 AM
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You're really exaggerating the point of my comment. I'm responding in regards to meeting girls on "hard mode" - obviously you should pursue difficult tasks or hobbies or exercise that gives your life meaning. ​ BUT - if a girl isn't crazy about you and is unresponsive to texts/plans to meet/etc - SHE IS NOT THAT INTERESTED ​ There's a big difference between that, and say, a quality girl who doesn't have much relationship experience, but is shy but still will be responsive to plans and reach out …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 10:57 AM
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Yeah the mindfuck is a big part of it. You probably won't encounter these girls very often while you're monking. They are usually after beta prey, or guys that have been there, done that and don't worry about "the game" ​ In fact, with these girls, using game is the WORST thing you can do. In my experience these girl are usually interesting to talk to, can actually hold conversation, usually have some sort of competition or competitive experience. For me, I usually just have an honest af talk, b…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 06:03 AM
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Hard mode is BS. There is no "hard mode" - it means you're a backburner option and shes counting her orbiter tally. Got more things flying around her than fucking Saturn... ​ You see these Saturn n Jupiter bitches are usually insta #influencerssss who think super high of themselves so they move painfully slow unless you're a filthy piece of shit blue collar guy or rich af trad chad she can swing to. If its "hard mode" its because socially your on too close of a similar level and these girls only…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 05:55 AM
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I've been in that situation or similar before. One just last night with a CRAZY girl who I found out is a mid-level actress. I usually go with "cool" "thats the idea" or just kiss them. Last nite the girl said "so are you taking me home or what?" my response was something along the lines of "stop annoying me, I'm finishing my drink" ​ As soon as we get in my room, I grab her by the hair the roughest I've ever grabbed anyone, tossed her on the bed, then walked away from her. When she went to kiss…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 05:50 AM
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OK so then to hire as contractors I assume you have to do some paperwork and set up as some sort of sole proprietor or business? Best way to go about clients? Problem is, in my country this would make jack shit as everyone has a maid paid next to nothing. If I move to the US this would be dope tho.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/18 05:33 AM
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Without knowing you, I don't know that I can give much actionable advice. There was a time, years ago when this and other blogs were all about PUA and approaching, so I'd nervously drive myself to bars alone & try stuff out. Eventually you start figuring out what works for you and it doesn't feel like "game." ​ There are a few techniques I use and sticking points I had and still use from time to time if something isn't working out. But basically I try to find girls that are into me - in person, …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/18 04:22 AM
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Dude scroll up I wrote a book of a comment on it. He's 30 now and I've known him since 26.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 06:48 PM
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Not to be a dick but if you don't know what AMOG means, you haven't read enough here.... It means Alpha Male Other Guy - when a dude tests you or you test another guy. I'll give a rundown on his game. Keep in mind he speaks 5 or 6 languages fluently (French being one) and with good accent, barely any Indian or Mid East accent on his English. He is also very stylish, hip hop/tight fitting clothes, blazer, sneakers, backwards baseball hat. Accessories, etc. His game is mainly verbal dominance, and…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 04:14 PM
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Bro height is only an issue if you make it one. I've had 3 friends who KILLED it with girls - easily 2-3x more than me (one would occaisonally dumpster dive tho, lol) and they were all short around 5'5" and not in shape. One was toothpick thin and Indian, and he exclusively slept with French girls. Guy had some of the most devious game & AMOGing tactics I've ever seeen. ​ Let me know if you want to know more about his approach if you think it will help you.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 03:11 PM
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Don't agree man, at least if you're referring to guys having no friends. If you move around a lot - especially internationally - like I have from a young age, it is very VERY hard to find/have/maintain a meaningful friendship. ​ I seriously think its stunted my emotional growth, as you basically adapt to the constantly changing environments by going full IDGAF at age 5 and becoming the center of attention (like I did) or you go super introverted and reclusive. There are pshcyological studies to …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 03:06 PM
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The home cleaning biz is a great idea. Just buy a few used vans, some vacumms, brooms and get an ad up. Nice job on the savings. I'm fucked right now salary wise. I have an epic job with high social proof in the arts/fashion world, but it pays fucking shit. I make barely 30k a year but am able to save 15-20k bc perks of the job are all my expenses, international travel, hotels, events, shows, apartment, etc are all paid for... Definitely tucking that cleaning idea away with a few others. Thanks,…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 02:48 PM
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examples? And how much money do you put in savings each year?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/18 09:40 AM
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You haven't travelled much in Asia yet. Hell, even in Italy I found a few people who find American accents sexy, and I also remember eavesdropping on some middle eastern girls gossiping about "hot foreign accents" like American... I think for some reason it just takes us Americans longer to get used to the fact that, when abroad, we're the ones with the accents.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 03:59 PM
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Dude your a legend and deep af. thinking bout them existential gainz
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 04:42 PM
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Dude - I really like the photoshoot with the black girl. Your shots communicate a sense of calm or have a very intriguing placid quality. Also - gotta love that you message 4 girls to come to some victorias secret fashion event and only one turns up......like WTF could they have possibly had better to do!? ​ My gay friend is a mega successful stylist and designer and works with major movies and models. He meets these girls left and right and they hang out with him for coffee - but he always blow…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/18 07:34 PM
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Still waiting on you to contribute some form of advice for OP and compare notes, rather than sitting back, cracking your knuckles, and acting like a little twat.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:33 AM
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I'm 30. My plates are 18, 20, 25, 22, & 24. Since that's basically what you're asking.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:30 AM
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It is. And these worked for me in nearly every instance. You're forgetting one caveat. FRAME. Reading just those lines by themselves looks a bit butthurt or whatever, but with my personality type, I'm very playful so they come off sarcastically to the girl. Try it out some time. They're my go-to last resort texts if something is fading. Has worked for me very, very well.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:26 AM
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OP just read this guys comment^ You should've just invited her to watch one of your basketball practices & told her to join you after. Sort of made this harder than it needs to be, oh well. Live and you learn!
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:22 AM
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Fuck these "double texting" rules. Give it a day or so, and hit her up with a non-sequitur that doesn't require a response. If she responds, its game on and proceed as you originally planned. Then, you've got a few other options. "Sorry you were too shy to meet up" "whats your romantic interest in me? getting a bit bored" "i hate u" 1 & 3 I've used many times and turned around an interaction that was fading. #2 I only used once, and it was on a girl who was a bit wishy-washy. We had hung out onc…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:10 AM
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Basically, be Frank Sinatra.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:02 AM
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You're overthinking a lot. It's 4 years. Have a dorm for the first year or semester - you can always move out. It'll put you in close contact with other students & be easier to make friends. Plus... some of the "annoying" stuff ends up being really fun and memorable. Don't go into debt on your apartment. Please get a scholarship whichever college you end up. Social media: you'll need decent amount of followers & pictures to be able to pull from DMs on Insta or FB. Minimum you need a few thousand…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:58 AM
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Is there a fitness or yoga group you could join? Maybe do that regularly while seeing a chiropractor for your neck? Also - I gave a quick Google search - there are headsets and things you can buy to help with the neck while using the computer that seem pretty easy to implement. May be worth taking look at. Good luck bro
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:02 PM
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It was just a caffeine mixed w vitamins BCAA & creatine primarily. I've never drank coffee & not much soda, so I never really had caffeine. My dumbass didn't read the full ingredients and was drinking 300-600mg per day. Apparently 150+ is enough to cause dependency and withdrawal is similar to that of a hard drug addict. So I was taking 4-6x the amount. Constant migraines, exhaustion, panic attacks, mood swings, weird appetite, etc. Thankfully that's mostly behind me, but it defintly aggravated …
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:53 PM
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Then it sounds like you know what needs to be done.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:24 PM
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why is that "the worst thing"? Its socially acceptable for a guy to not wear a shirt, but for a gf to be topless.... anywhere other than with you...….is....not good my friend. You should probably move past this. I don't know your exact situation, but I'd assume with the working knowledge that she was sending you this stuff to make you jealous, knew you were also "shirtless" so she had plausible deniability, and probably wished you had taken her to your party instead...which actually makes sense.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:22 PM
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And I just saw you were a bodybuilder - yeah man.... DEF cut. Unless you look insanely muscular at your weight, over 200 at your height sounds insane. Fuck if you could cut for a few months to 190 range you'd probably look like a tall Zac Efron and I think he weighs like 165... da fuq are you waiting for?!
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:19 PM
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I feel you brah. I liked having thicker shoulders too, and I realllly noticed it when my shirts started getting baggy. You may just like it because you did that routine or added the weight so long, so there is work associated with it. Psychologically it was weird for me to look in the mirror, see my chest is much flatter, etc. But the definition makes it look so much better in photos and in person. Hard to explain. Study classic mens physique photos nd you'll realize some of the guys are not hug…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:14 PM
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Hmmm, you may need to just mix things up in the gym. Perhaps increase slow, uphill steady state cardio, and keep the calories down for another month or two. 14% is NOT A CUT unless you were really fat before. PS: If you're 14% now and over 200lbs go for the 6 pack. It will never be easier than it is for you now. Also - if you're an athlete, just bulk up then. In terms of girls opinions, plenty want to bang The Rock & plenty want to bang Sacha Baron Cohen - just do what suits your frame naturally…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:05 PM
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Where do you live? It takes a while to detox from porn and every now and then we all fall back to it. If your around devastatingly feminine women, you'll be hard pressed to not feel attracted. If you're in a large Western City, one thing I noticed since leaving the States, is that it is very hard to find a girl who exudes pure femininity there. I'm not sure how to explain it, but in Asia, India, the Mid East, you'll find feminine girls all over. They dont even have to be the best looking, but so…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:51 PM
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Dude, a childhood friend, who was the older guy always trying to get everyone to drink in HS had this hilarious thing he would do. He'd lock people out of the house/room/whatever, and come back with a Star Wars shot glass and say "do your Jedi training! You must" and if they didn't do whatever funny shit he said, or do the shot with him, they got no drinks, were locked out, whatever. Guy was a playful natural LOL haven't seen him in years, from the looks of his FaceBook, hes mid 30s and still up…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:45 PM
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Dude if anything you'll be at a huge advantage, especially if you have some work experience and get those grades up. You'll probably be thought of much more seriously by the teachers too. My good friend lived in the dorms and was a mid-20s freshman. He had the time of his life! Tons of girls interested in him, and he became an RA. Now, I teach college, and I have students from 17-29 a few even in their 30s in my class. There's really no difference. Some of the older ones have their lives more so…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:41 PM
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And it's strange, for what seems like an epiphany to me - at 30 experiencing deep emotions for the first time. I've been happy, excited, crazy, impatient, etc in social settings, but I've never considered other people's perspective. Hence, the darker part of TRP seduction came really naturally - all the "just focus on you" "forget her, spin plates" and "text only for logistics" came easily. But now, it's like a revelation. I don't want to just focus on me. I want someone else focusing on me, and…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:34 PM
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Would you mind private messaging me about your experience? I'm getting back on track, but have these very scary moments, filled with deep thoughts that are primordial in nature. I'm trying to make peace with it and accept things that can't be changed. Honestly, just typing stuff here is helping a lot too in a forum with men who have experienced similar, since it feels so crushingly alone. Reading Marcus Aurelius was not helping LOL There may be much that's buried, as I've been known as both chil…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:29 PM
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Just tell her what you're working on. In a fun way (helps if you have a cool job or hobbies) I'll give some examples most of these I'm making up now so feel free to use or tweak for yourself: Just finished learning that new song! come here me play it Just gassed the motorcycle. join me for a ride Wow, guess what I found out etc
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:20 PM
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What should I meditate on? That is part of what led to this "Oneitis" awakening. I realized I profoundly missed her. It could be because her & I were pretty much fine, it was mainly due to her parents - wanting arranged marriage, etc. I recently re-arranged my whole room with a new girl. New curtains, sheets, etc. I'm not adding unicorn qualities to her. There were other girls that I had more sexual chemistry with - but this girl just added so much to my life. Picking me up from work, surprising…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:14 PM
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I'm going to start re-reading that stuff. Problem is, after the breakup, I was practically congratulating myself on how quickly I moved on, and was meeting new girls. I've never had "Oneitis" before - other than when I was 18 with the girl who friend zoned me and helped me find the RP community. That was ages ago tho, so I don't fully understand how this came out of nowhere, months later. Has this ever happened to you?
/r/askTRP08/11/18 02:10 PM
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Hahaha will try to trim it down. Sometimes just need to vent. Maybe someone with more patience will have something of value to add.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 10:17 AM
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Why weren't you at the party with her? A bit weird she'd get drunk "for the first time" without you... And then send you the pictures. Quite cruel.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 10:16 AM
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Now that I've read your response, in my personal experience I'd recommend focusing on the logistics only over text with her at this point. Save the sexual banter until after you've sealed the deal. It could be just that I live somewhere where you have to be exceptionally discreet, but it seems to me that if you hype up the sexual tension too much over text, it can lead to putting too much pressure on the girl when your next "coffee date" comes up unless you leave enough room to increase and defl…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 10:06 AM
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DONT COMMENT ON HER BOOTY unless you can be witty as fuck about it being her "handle" - there's a pun in there somewhere. You need to be FUN with your responses. You can come on wayyyy too strong, just leave room for plausible deniability. Also, sending gifs as a response can be funny too, but all in all, you need to just not care so much.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 10:04 AM
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Just don't think about it. It's POINTLESS to think about. You think those guy #5 was thinking about guy #4? Girls have sex. Some have effing CRAZY sex. You need to disassociate that from the girl - you're just pissed (understandably) that she wasn't like this with you. From experience, if you find yourself in bed with a girl who's going nuts and wants to be choked, calling you daddy and begging for it up the butt, she DEFINITELY has done that with other guys. Like 99% certainty. I've had my mind…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 11:32 AM
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Please highlight this ^ also goes nice with something you wrote "I am in the driver's seat of my mind" goes great with my mantra when I feel my mental state & emotions slipping "I am in control of my thoughts"
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 10:04 AM
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Honestly bro, sloots gonna sloot… It is in the deep past before you knew her, and doesn't change any fun you had together with her. Yes, its dishonest af…. but your best move is to just try to be the best version of yourself possible, hit the gym, and maybe you'll get attention from other girls, and this will propel her into wanting to please you in a few years, and you can move past it for your fun. It will take time, and be hard. But forget her, forget your disgust, don't be a worrier. Be a wa…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 09:51 AM
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Who knows? Maybe they'll marry the president of france...
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 06:12 AM
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Yeah, and socially this can lead to you getting doubts about your own self image, if you start believing them (which may be what they want) AND/OR - when girls no longer continue showing interest, you'll wonder what the problem is (it's bc they're intimidated, not that you're suddenly unattractive bc you cousin or whoever says so.) In my head I think of myself as a positive, amazingly fun, charismatic guy. However, most people tell me my very presence is intimidating. It causes people to lie to …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 05:43 AM
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I'd like to add experience from a personal epiphany. Eventually, you may get to a point where you're tired of the negs, game, calculated withdrawing of attention, etc. I theorize this is the male equivalent of the once-hot used up slut who no longer gets that "buzz" when some random guy hits her up on Insta or Tinder...bc we all know what lies down that path. My mantra is simple "The purpose of life is to add value to others." This means laser focus on anyone I'm interacting with, having a GREAT…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/18 05:31 AM
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You know you spend too much time on TRP when you read "started with a $100 bench and a couple plates" and imagine he's already lifting non-monagomous girls....
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 11:02 AM
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Yep, agree. Taking action, responsibility - once you're conscious of the path. He's been asleep, can't blame the guy for that. Some never even make it to the wheel. It's what he does now that he's woken up that matters.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 12:35 PM
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Perception includes thoughts & feelings - of others too, and not just the image (is what I think he is getting at.) RP example.... One time I was hooking up with a girl I met at a bar. She was young, half Asian, kinky school girl look, and totally all those fun slutty seemingly hard-to-get fetish types. Semen Demon in bed. I usually have a considerable degree of sexual prowess, but I drank slightly too much and that combined with the Sex Olympic performance this girl was putting on had my heartr…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 12:30 PM
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Disagree. Society & family play a part. If he blamed everyone else, still stayed stuck in his mess, and continued to live a lie - then yes - he'd be to blame. But this reads more like he's waking up and realizing his agency is with the future. Taking command of decisions now. It's the same bullshit with saying "its your fault you got cheated on, you're BP bro" - and to us RP, yes - that could well be the case. But don't forget that BP delusion is fueled by a massive, collective consciousness - f…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 12:17 PM
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This is key - "waiting on that retirement check - with a broken down body & mindset" I don't think ANYONE truly considers the consequence of this. Like, what is the point? You get old, fat & stuck next to the same person for years, just so when you're way past your physical and mental prime, you can watch TV all day and not work.....BORING! My dad is approaching retirement and should be pretty damn rich. I have no idea how much money he makes, but he burns it fasttttt on useless stuff. New BMW, …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 12:12 PM
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between 85-90kg at tops, when I got weighed at the hospital I was 69kg….
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 02:19 PM
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thanks man. thanks for posting those links. Pretty helpful.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 02:18 PM
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Got trapped in the basement of an apartment during a natural disaster in a 3rd world country I was travelling to. No food for a week and very, very little water.... I lost 15kg and looked like a fucking stick.... Trick to loosing weight fast? Starve yourself. Oh, and having non-stop diareahe from the water I drank definetly helped cut down LOL
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 04:56 AM
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Dunno - my metabolism is INSANE. I ate like garbage in an effort to dirty bulk. Got bloated around 90kg. I changed my diet to plain vegtables, raw fruit, and meat only - one large meal a day and maybe some eggs & caffeine for breakfast. Did 20-45 minutes of cardio everyday in addition to 1.5hr of lifting and eating about 1500 cal per day. I lost 5kg in the first week..... now im down 10kg after a month and a half at 80kg bodyweight, abs coming thru and this 79-81kg range seems to be where my bod…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 04:53 AM
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Hahhahaah feel free to PM me who it was and/or more of these stories. But I'm not into pop at all and Ariana is the only one I recognize, so I'd have no clue. Yeah, nice dude. I'm living the stingy life too LOL
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 04:45 AM
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Glad to know this can still happen. Crossed paths with a girlfriends coworker, and turns out the chemistry I had with the coworker was off the charts. Never felt anything like it. I took her virginity and it was practically a spiritual experience. Just being around each other was enough. I pushed things too far, we saw each other for a month or so. Then she knows she'll be whisked away in an arranged marriage... I still think about her
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 02:01 PM
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This guy is totally right. But there is a balance to it. If you're new and in a small town/city and start banging girls left right & center, that preselection is going to backfire & you'll just be left with lower quality girls. In my experience there is the Law of Passive Certainty but there are a few articles that follow it: a) if your reputation becomes too predictable, it will cost you lays/dates - even when you're genuinely interested in the girl b) too much Passive Certainty creates Active …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 11:42 AM
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Dunno man. Young girls are all over Insta and FB messaging. Sometimes you have to chat & by default I'm a logistics only guy. Depending on the girl's temperament, it can cost you lays. I have had a few tell me they think the way I text is "rude" or how I "disappear for days" and send them a date and just "expect" them to be there. Don't get me wrong, they didn't flake. But in retrospect, they had their guard up a bit because of the texting. Ideally, texting should be logistics + the occasional F…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 11:36 AM
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Dude you are mistaken. You need to frame max or looks max hard for this, or money max. Keep in mind this is only a handful of girls spread out over like 10 years. Thats 1 or 2 of these stories per year, out of probably dozens of lays/plates. Seems normal to me. Fuck, just last week, I went to the movies and sat next to a random cute girl that was by herself. She spoke very little of my language, but you could tell there was an insane vibe/tension. Midway thru I put my hand on her lap. She starts…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 11:06 AM
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Hell yeah!! I love this stuff. I have sooooo many stories like this too that I can't even tell anyone, because it would just be so unreal. My childhood friend - who is mildly handicapped- not remotely in shape, and skinny as a twig has done even crazier shit (usually with girls that correspond to his SMV but a few cuties) When he was 16 he showed up to work with booze, gave it to his female boss, and had a threeway with two of his supervisors. I think that was how he lost his virginity LOL One o…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 11:00 AM
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Should be a reminder to everyone who is/has cultivated hobbies - you need a few interests that you should be exceptional at, that you can monetize on the side. You're RP right!? You should be doing interesting shit. I'm poor af, but save like a motherfucker. I could live over a year without working, because I live a super stripped down lifestyle. I've monetized almost all of my hobbies and am starting to make as much or more thru my freelancing than I do thru salary, and it only takes maybe 5-6 …
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 10:46 AM
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My other favorite is when she tries to replace you with a less attractive version of yourself - ie. a guy who looks just like you, same style, same interests - but is like the C grade version LOLOLOLOL
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 04:15 AM
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That's actually awesome dude. It says more about you that she had to tingle for NFL Chad to branch swing. Some guys get cheated on with the damn waiter or college flunk out...
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 02:17 PM
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its disgusting, I read somewhere that US avg bodyfat is close to 27% thats INSANE! 27%!!!!! that means next to NO arm definition and visible fold of fat
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 02:16 PM
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Just here to brag.... that notch count will go up exponentially when you get close to 30. Man, I don't know how to explain it - young guys, you can literally feel you SMV start to ramp up. Even if there's nothing objectively different about yourself. Damn, not gonna lie I like this survey.... 6'2" ,7.9inches, 40-50 girls (lost count, more if you count random HJs and bar make outs) savings to live for 2 years without working, earnings = total shit tho, just good at living below my means and getti…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 02:14 PM
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This is an awesome post. Useful in so many different interpersonal scenarios. BTW - could you elaborate on it at what exactly you do? Do the casinos pay you to show people around? Or do these rich vacation guys pay you? I'm really trying to grasp how you make money - it seems ridiculous, but at the same time something I'd be really good at, as I'm an exceptional networker. It all comes down to just being able to get a good read, know their angle and add value.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 02:05 PM
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Its a term that seems mysterious because understanding it will involve putting your personal twist on the concept. The idea itself is firm, but the definition is malleable as to one's temperament and personal experience. I think of frame as the intersection of personality, beliefs & attitude with perceived reality. Keyword perceived - the purpose of frame is to interpret reality in a way that is beneficial to you & congruent with yourself. Basically where your mindset meets the world. Abstract e…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 03:18 AM
6

"Vegeta what's the scouter say?" Hypergamy Scouter reading: His Chad Level is OVER 9000!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 08:28 AM
1

I have no idea how old you are but can relate - when I first got into self improvement/pick up (before RP) I had my mind set on having to be the absolute most DGAF chad ever, or else you'll never get laid. Then, I'd get interest from average to cute looking girls, and would self-sabotage like "she's not hot enough for me, not interested." And it creates this negative feedback loop. I was skinny. Got into shape. I dressed like shit. Dressed better. I focused on a hobby. Mastered it. Still no puss…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/18 08:22 AM
1

Nah plenty come out later, but most venues close by 12 sharp. I go early to snipe a few targets when possible. Just suits my temperament better - when I first got into TRP I used to go out by myself and approach, etc. But now that I'm older I tailor it to my gym schedule LOL
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 06:58 AM
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Not necessarily. I live down the street from a place that gets super noisy. I show up around 8pm and by 9..... "its getting so loud in here, can't hear you speak. Come with me, I'm just around the corner." Keep in mind I do screen for the girls who seem off-put by the loud volume & give them an excuse to ditch early in the night. Latest I'll stay out is 10pm, got gym early in the morn LOL
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 04:59 PM
2

I can't be the only one who read this in a Wakanda accent...
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:27 AM
1

There is companies in New York making low nicotine non addictive cigarettes that have 75-90% less tar as well. Study just got published by the FDA that smokers enjoy the cigs & in a 6week period it eventually leads to quitting due to the low nicotine
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:15 AM
2

Or just be ripped and wear V neck Tee & jeans w motorcycle boots....
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 01:47 PM
1

OP sounds like you need to learn what I call "Stingy Game"... AKA never paying for anything... pretty much ever. There's been times where I've had substantial amounts of "play money" & times where I'm just about broke - thru it all, somehow, someway, my plates ALWAYS paid for my food, clothes, vacations, drugs, drinks etc. If you want I can go into more detail, but it basically comes down to setting the bar/expectation so low, that just texting her "hey cutie" has her sending back "WOW ! a compl…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 01:36 PM
1

Awesome content and I'm sure this will help a bunch of people. I just want to toss my hat in the ring for a TLDR version & give a few simple tips that help me massively - wash face after riding motorcycle - dirt gets on skin. Anyway, here's what I do - it's short and simple, see if it helps anyone: 1) Take multivitamins, specifically E, zinc, fish oil 2) wash face only every other day 3) wash/use virgin coconut oil as moisturizer in morn & nite 4) dab lemon juice or white toothpaste on a pimple …
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 06:09 AM
1

Brah - nice post but I still don't think you're handling these with ZFG. Better responses, at least in my style would've been along the lines of: "Nah, total pussy" "Yes yes, gracing you peasants with my presence again" "yeah, its a cool car" Every now and then, very very rarely friend or coworker will throw something my way. The really socially aware ones will do it in good fun, like a banter to see who comes up on top that we just do every week or so. Facial expression is much more important t…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 05:54 AM
1

Well, if it's so dull then don't use it 3 times in your post brah
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 05:50 AM
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Dude..... This is soo cringy. This is the kind of shit that gets the sub a bad rap. First of all, I think texting her about it was ridiculous - if she says no sex you have 2 options in my experience: 1) you text her and see if there's a legit reason 2) you only invite her over if you generally enjoy her company Inviting a plate to sleepover, who's made some manipulative BJ promise, whose company you may not genuinely enjoy is only asking for trouble. THEN you go the extra autistic route of verba…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 09:55 AM
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I think people greatly under or over-estimate male SMV. For girls, its pretty universal. A hot chick in Brazil is going to be hot in Japan, Dubai, US etc - save for a marginal difference on cultural tastes. Men, otoh - I think we need both a contextual scale, and international scale. Especially since so much of our "value" is social/status-driven, which is largely dependent on context. Examples: Most of us can out-game and have better social skills than Elon Musk.... BUT.... if he were to magica…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 04:19 AM
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Can you do a full post on this for the good looking guys? On paper I have the dream TRP-panty-wetting lifestyle. However, there are days where I just feel or think "man, why do people even think I'm good looking? I must not hot enough yet" Because I'll go thru week-month long phases where just about EVERY girl I meet flakes for a safe, reliable, out of shape guy. And I'm retired from plating (sort of ;) ) - I've beta'd my game so much and still people tell me they're constantly intimidated by my…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 04:01 AM
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Also - sidenote. I get it, we plate bitches and them hoez aint loyal, blah blah blah But don't you guys have any self respect? If YOU are out at an event, concert, lunch, party etc with a PLATE that you have sex with..... I don't care if you're not "exclusive" that's huge disrespect if she flirts/fucks other guys at the same venue you took her too. You ain't plating right if she's not worried about you checking other girls there... And guess what, bro - YOU'RE AT FAULT. YOUR FRAME IS ALLOWING TH…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:53 AM
2

Dump this loser. Is this the type of person you want to waste time with? An ex was into the model/coke circuit with her idiot druggy friends - two of them would do stunts like this every weekend. New it was only a matter of time till it corrupted my girl. I did the same thing but with one key difference "yeah, cya tonite…" Followed by ghosting forever.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 09:48 AM
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What if I told you..... They all put out.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 12:08 PM
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Generally, if I think hard about it - EVERY girl I've ever flirted with or picked up, the second I noticed she had tattoos, a light goes off in my head that says "yep, she's gonna put out" Doubly so if she smokes (which I hate) I have a near 100% success rate with tat girls. Doesn't matter if its a teeny tiny little bird on her shoulder, or full body back and sleeves - it's all symptoms of the same disease. In fact, the full body tat chicks tend to be cooler. I have met ONE girl with a small tat…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 03:22 AM
1

Just came in to say a few things. PLEASE....PLEASE stop saying/typing things like "interwebz" and "yaassss" its so fucking lame. I cant be the only one who thinks this. It's modern culture gay-ing up our vocabulary. ALSO - there is nothing wrong with being the Fedex guy. Society needs the fedex guy to deliver mail and packages. Not everyone can be fake Instagram models with a fake travel blog online income - just be the best damn FedEx guy you can be and fucking own it. Maybe you were - and that…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 05:35 AM
2

Cool - I've always done the same thing w venue staff. Just basic social manners but you'd be surprised (or not) by how many people skip it. Ahhhhh bottles, partying, pouring shots... All of that sounds detestable to me LOL but I'm glad you enjoy it and are TRPing it up. I'm usually posting from the recording studio when I'm working, status updates on funny shit I get into, and professional photos from small modeling gigs. Not a single selfie. Nothing with booze either - I do a lot of music works…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 11:31 AM
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Xhaka - go into more detail on the Instagram bit. You're using it damn right by the looks of things. I've gotten quite a few leads from Insta - but it seems much flakey-er than going for the number, as every follower has access to her DM. How often do you post? What do you post? How many followers? I have a few thousand followers and it has gotten me some small time paid modelling work. But I utterly HATE Instagram, nightlife, partying. It feels like there's 1000 eyes in my pocket, and I can't g…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 05:33 AM
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"I can get any girl I want, within reason" ---Has only had one gf..... Oh wait, this is a BP example, now it makes sense... Dude you def can get a second chance. I've had this happen a few times where I'm in a relationship, but its drifting. I meet a new girl thru work/school/whatever and its super flirty. Sit on it bc I have a gf. Then I follow up with her weeks (sometimes months) later - its the dude version of "branch swinging." It can easily be done. You need this stupid attention whore app …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:18 AM
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"Living, Loving Maid" - Led Zeppelin already did it.... some gems: "Alimony, alimony payin' your bills - (she's just a woman) when her conscience hits she knocks it back with pills (livin' lovin, she's just a woman)" Also as far as I know, first lyrical reference to the fabled Cock Carusel: "C'mon baby on the round about - ride on the merry go round. We all know what your name is..."
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 05:23 AM
4

Didn't stop Tom Cruise and he's shorter than you brah
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 05:17 AM
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thats probably still true. And many of them are already messaging new leads and putting batters on deck from Instagram. Doesn't mean you won't have any leeway, at least until your time is up.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 01:26 PM
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This guy gets it. In India - logistics is 100000x more important. If you're more than a 15minute, sweaty rickshaw ride away - AND you don't have your own place... forget about it. Gossip - assume the girls and their orbiters will gossip like crazy. Spinning plates requires you dont kiss and tell, not even your bros as jealousy and social circle drama is like crack here. In short, live near a bar. Don't get physical at all in public. Have your own place. Escalate in privacy. Don't talk about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 03:09 AM
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Honestly, when you've been in the game a while and get super stoic and unemotional naturally, I also like the random drama of a hot, young high maintenance freak.... It's just nice to feel something for a change
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:53 PM
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Dude I've had that, but also the reverse... the better and better I get, the more I find myself mirroring the different girls. It's not even conscious - I just realize that aspects of my personality mold or exaggerate naturally with different girls. If she's shy - I go extreme confident and super talkative, if she's a daddy issue, I go father figure, if shes funny and quirky, I find myself constantly making fun of her. No control over it, its just something I noticed about myself unconsciously h…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 03:48 PM
1

During the day I really don't feel stressed at all. Honestly, when I can, I lay around in the morning doing nothing until I absolutely have to get to work or the gym. I saw the breakup coming a mile away and it had more to do with her toxic family than anything. Yes - she was a huge asset and super supportive to my life, but one of the plates I'm more physically/chemistry attracted to and I spend more time thinking about that girl. During the episodes I usually think about the finality of life, …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 07:03 AM
1

Glad I'm not the only one losing sleep. For the past 3-4 months, I've been having a really hard time falling to sleep. I'm generally a positive, gregarious, optimistic guy. But recently at night I have all these HORRIBLE thoughts and I can't yet control them. I've tried meditating thru it and it helps a little - but the thoughts keep coming back - even after having a great day or accomplishing a goal. I'll have a shower, get in bed, and all the sudden just start thinking of death, and suicide an…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 01:45 PM
1

You probably just don't know your edge yet. Once you have that sorted, know your type and line that up with the type of girl who's naturally more into you. Every now and then supplement with Tinder or an average looking girl who has a great personality. Kiss that dry spell goodbye. Personally, I'm in the worse shape of my life right now. Swamped with work, next to no time to socialize - still I manage to get a girls # when I'm running my daily life. Also meet girls from FB & Insta. I'm so busy t…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 07:41 AM
1

I'm glad someone finally addressed this topic in RP. I think we need more investment/trading as a means to a RP lifestyle type of posts.... but it'd be great if you could go more into detail on how your trade and how you learned your set ups. I've been investing/interested in markets for over a year, and studying seriously since November. Up till 2am reading, YouTube, podcasts on investments, looking at charts, etc. I went on a hot streak day trading but then gave it all back and then some. How …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 05:17 AM
2

Basically, this dude does Hail Mary text game. You send her a text, something non sequiter, if she responds, you send more banal shit until the rare day you get her in the mood that she'll date you. Can work, and is minimal effort. Especially if you only text when you're taking shits. Otherwise, just stick with girls who are excited to see you. Will 100000x easier and require not much more than a few texts. The sort of game he advocates is good for young girls 18-21 who have retarded attention s…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 09:09 PM
2

Hmmm while I appreciate the formatting and write up..... sort of disagree.... Is this based on night game? Any time I've gamed a "10" during the day or at a social function it's been easy mode. Like they're excited someone finally approached them. In fact, I'd say the hot instagram model girls have shit tested me less and given less drama than the 6s & 7s who think they're hot shit but are actually immature little #metoooo sluts. Just max looks, play to your strengths and have a normal conversat…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/18 09:04 PM
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Dude your bitter bitch attitude probably leaks into your messages. I get it, we all get it. Its bullshit and not fair. But if OkC isn't working, maybe it's time to focus on day game. I'm sort of in the same boat - I NEVER get matches in Tinder (mainly because I live somewhere insanely conservative.) There's barely enough girls on it for 50 swipes - and I'm close to model looks. Its like if they know you're way out of their league, they wont even bother. Why ? Because 1) they're just there of the…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 07:43 PM
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hahahahah "I've got to reply to some emails."
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 05:23 PM
4

Comfort Tests - easiest way to put it is when a girl knows you/she are expecting to bang, she needs some type of reassurance you like something about her other than her boobs/ass/etc. These will often come AFTER shit tests, especially if you've quickly started to get intimate. Simple shit like pulling away first and pausing, giving a boring compliment about something she said both work to solve it easily. Last thing you want to do is push too hard or escalate as this will cause the girl to close…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 06:13 AM
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You're an idiot. I'm saying meet up even for 15minutes at the bar across the street. Not randomly invite someone to your home. Even the hottest chick on Tinder is damaged goods with emotional baggage. Set standards for the people you invite into your bed/home/life. Yes, I've had girls come straight from OkC or Tinder to my house and bang, no problems when I was younger. My roommates did the same shit, but didn't have as strong game. Girls slept over, would steal credit cards and shit. You CAN NO…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 06:04 AM
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You failed "comfort tests" left and right. Too forward and not subtle. Also - NEVER just randomly invite some girl over off Tinder that you have never screened in person. Even if its just to meet at the bar across the street. Not only will you get serious LMR, but it just shows a complete lack of respect for your own time/place/goals. A stranger can fuck up your life beyond recognition all from one bad interaction. Value your time and have some standards for the people you let into your life.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 11:14 AM
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Girl I had a crush on in college invited me and our close friends out for her birthday. She was wearing a white gown and loving the attention. Super tiny, petite Asian girl with a bubbly, extroverted personality. She kept asking me to show her "where the bathroom was" ... and I just didn't get it. I was like "we've been here a thousand times, you know where it is." "No, but I want YOU to SHOW me!" I remember leaving because I was pissed I struck out with a different girl, and now my friends are …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 05:54 AM
2

Yeah I've thought about the mouth thing too, and got over it. Still gross to think about though, Probably since I was a late bloomer. Not worried about tips, I'm good at the mental games of it. More just getting over the mental barrier and going down to do it.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 05:18 PM
1

TBH I've never eaten a girl out. One or two gfs have asked and somehow, I've always dodged it because I'm an awesome, intimate, and intense lay. The thought of doing it has always grossed me out to the point that I couldn't even fake it. I'll kiss between the thighs and that's it. I mean, you have NO IDEA how many dicks have been up there and it just grosses me out. Any tips?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 05:24 AM
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Great post in here man and I'm glad you are young and learning. Side note - I have no idea what your friend Emilia does... nor do I work in business... but I have no idea how effective it is to give free service to a client that openly disrespects you. Unless she has a plan to overtake them later down the road, that sounds really ineffective. At your age and with your business, you should also focus on investing. Start small if you haven't already, so when you hit 25-30 you'll be even farther th…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 04:55 AM
1

hope they threw in the sales girl for that price...
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 04:41 AM
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What dumbasses.... "Maroon Blues" would've been a much better title. They could've easily kept ambiguity and said that Maroon is a shade of red...blah blah...pills etc... Or "Maroon Pill Blues" but whatever, that guy has like one note to sing in every song, and even that note is auto-tuned. Where was the outrage when The Stones named an album "Cocksucker Blues"?? LOL
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 07:02 AM
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We're both inside And the song remains the same, its the "raw dog blues"
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 07:03 PM
1

"manipulative" is my trigger word. I propose we use the more active term - womanipulative
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 07:20 AM
0

Or.... you can have some semblance of text game. Turn her on, and not be at the mercy of some 3 week cycle for every girl you meet...
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 06:06 AM
1

Maybe when I get the time. FR on a specific incident or general work flow and common traps? I'm by no means an expert, went thru about 7 ME/Desi girls before one became long term gf for a year or so.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 05:46 AM
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I'm that guy. Handsome Italian living abroad. The challenge isn't so much getting past her cultural restrictions, etc - it's bypassing the family who if they find out, will flip the fuck out. The ones who aren't DTF are pretty easy to spot, as they'll be really, really, REALLY lacking in social skills. They barely have friends in school, and are on the fast track to an arranged marriage with a guy just as awkward as she is. Steer clear, it's a time sink. OTOH - you need to tone down your game by…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 05:25 PM
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"you could have any girl here, why me?" Is NOT A SHIT TEST Comfort test brah That's when you throw in a compliment, or just say something you genuinely like about her. "You know, tonight was already great..but you just make me...feel......xyz"
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 10:37 AM
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Yeah was gonna say..... and if it's for aesthetics only who gives a shit how much you lift? I eat fucking Mc Donalds 4x a week, bench in the low 200s, and still have way more cut chest than him and abs.... I just do 40 min routine bench, deadlift, fly, curls, and a shit load of chin ups LOL
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 06:14 AM
1

Having options can be as simple as her seeing other girls comment on your social media. The cashier who takes a little too long to give you the bill, etc. Girls notice all this shit way better than guys by default. You really don't need to actively do much. Should be passive. If you're in shape and have gf, just assume other girls are checking you out.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:35 AM
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He's gonna get dumped. Can't go on forever without ever complimenting her looks - especially if she's TRULY hot. Girls want a guy who makes them feel beautiful. That's it. If he doesn't, she'll swing for that validation elsewhere - which is exponentially more likely now that social media is a constant temptation. I've been in a few LTRs with semi-celebrity women & models who have so many Insta followers, they get paid $100-1000s to post selfies painting their nails or some other product shit. Ev…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 06:20 AM
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"well, that's not all ;) " and eye her up
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 09:53 AM
1

Good truth here - but beyond using it for girls, networking and career opportunity can be huge. I use my FB exclusively for networking/work. I tag restaurants and people I'm with and it basically is promotion + social proof. Every now and then I'll post a status when I need a favor (like getting contacts at a major hotel) and you'd be surprised how many people pull strings for you. Not to mention all your old "real world" friends get jelly, as do all the new acquaintances you add. It sounds corn…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 07:22 AM
1

its more like "bitch, why don't you science up and make a better product."
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 07:08 AM
7

So glad this is posted here. Woke up and scrolled thru FB to see a bunch of people sharing...like wowww "life is so hard for women, men can't even handle it" or "wow what weak men" I was tempted to comment, but didn't. My first instinct was to point out that that's a REALLY immature viewpoint. Further proof why women should not be involved in science or advisory committees of any kind - if their knee-jerk reaction is so biased and that rather than be concerned about the safety of the medicine or…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 07:07 AM
5

Just got into an argument over this with some friends. I made the point that most of the attacks on Trump are personal, and I can't stomach how Hillary betrayed Bernie, so I won't be voting for her. My friend is a HARDCORE liberal, but agreed (as he was all about Bernie) So I asked him what do you hate so much about Trump that you would rather vote for the woman who RUINED your favorite candidates campaign? They then went on a huge rant about how Trump is a rapist, advocates sexual assault, and …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 08:50 AM
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Patently untrue, you probably just hang with the wrong crowd. One of my best friends here is Indian, and has some of the most effective game I know. He's short, terribly skinny, can not do 10 pushups, and not attractive. But he fucking owns it and makes it work. He's tooled me in sets before LOL Humor and an ability to give compliments in a way that somehow put him in a good light (i.e. Frame 25/7 "look at my friend, hes sooo HOT what am I supposed to do? I'm an ugly Indian, but I'm horny wink w…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 06:49 PM
1

OKay - any good books or analysis techniques you'd recommend? Everyone jazzing their pants about Technical Analysis, but I tend to only look at Support&Resistance, and volume. If there's tons of sell volume, I don't care if the stock price is rallying, it's gonna drop soon. Then I try to get in. I try to think of it like taking a train and getting off at a certain price stop. Problem is I'm new, and have gotten too attached to stocks I was buying (investing vs. trading) - Yes - my returns are be…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:42 PM
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White guy here whos lived/travelled extensively in India. Outside looking in - sure there is the arranged marriage and career pressure BUT most of the people in this generation are shifting from that. It's mostly the parents. In fact, in regards to the girls being "stuck-up" or acting virginal...its just that...an act. They don't want to get in trouble with their parents. Hell, I've had police harass me for holding a girls hand when I took a plate to the beach. That being said, behind closed doo…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 01:35 PM
2

It'd be awesome if you wrote a beginners guide to trading. I'm a recent college grad with a high-status job that pays horribly (professor) I've been investing/trading my savings for the past year and have made about 45% return on my portfolio. But I'll admit I had some MASSIVE losses along the way that could've been avoided. I usually focus on Biotech/healthcare - any industries to look for or advice?
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 10:43 PM
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You lost the second she didn't apologize or show any consideration for intentionally being late. You VALIDATED her shit behavior by ignoring/saying nothing. Girls are shit with time management. But its one thing to scurry in late to a date, applying lipstick, filled with apologizes because she wanted to look her best, and taking a 45min shower "just because" ruining the plans you made, and then rubbing it in your face. You should've nexted the second she sent that text and didn't offer to resche…
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:43 AM
1

Yeah, figured. These are the most annoying kind of shit tests, because you can never underestimate how truly insecure a girl is.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 05:35 AM
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You failed. She probably felt rejected by your shedding comment. I know, I know, it seems like a joke. You ASSUME she is/wants to sleepover so she'll laugh at it. Girls live in the NOW, your plans aren't real. My gut says she prob felt insecure from sunburn and now is worried she'll actually peel in your bed. After her first text I would've said something like "That's okay, you and I both know we weren't planning on sleeping ;)"
/r/askTRP21/07/16 06:46 AM
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Let me ask you this: If you weren't disturbed and broken and hurt by her behavior and neglecting you - would you have posted here in the first place? AND What do you think she is more likely to be doing right now? Posting on some girls forum right now asking what she can do to make the marriage better - or is she texting this other guy?
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:37 AM
1

This is the WORST way to go about anal. Why even talk about it? Just do it. You get her turned on, smear her pussy juice on her ass. Then shove it in. Just do the tip first and tell her to take a few deep breaths. As she exhales, go deeper. Tell her about how filled and trusted she feels. Go further. I've turned girls who were completely anal averse to ASK for anal and switch holes. You just need to not talk about it and do it. It turns them on when you can do it super smooth. Even had girls cum…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 11:11 AM
1

I've gone with that plus A&A. So far so good. Another commenter was right, I've been massively failing comfort tests - just addressed this today. Thanks guys!
/r/askTRP18/07/16 06:39 PM
1

It's marketing. You can leverage it to your advantage by actually having fun/cool/hot shit to post. I get 150-200s likes per picture or status update. Which is much more than many people, but also consider age/location. Many high school girls get that many likes and then some. I don't know that it corresponds to SMV, but it definitely doesn't hurt if you know how to leverage it. I use my FB popularity to advertise projects I'm working on and displaying my artwork. Until I started using FB with a…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:26 PM
1

Good insight. But see - I feel I have shown plenty of beta. Too much that at times I wonder if I'm losing myself. I occasionally surprise her with lovey emails, I leave mustard packets in her purse since I know she loves mustard, etc. Even though it's small things, I've never texted a girl an emoji before or gotten small gifts. She's the ONLY girl in 10 YEARS I've done that for. I tell her that and that she's my "first love" in as frame holding a way as possible. Like "I've always been with many…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 08:51 PM
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just turned 27. She takes exceptional care of her skin and looks closer to 22. Most would peg her as a 9/10. I'd give her an 8
/r/askTRP17/07/16 08:48 PM
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How would you do that?
/r/askTRP17/07/16 08:46 PM
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LTR. Part of it is cultural - people here - even grown ass men - all texts tons of thumbs up, emoji, etc. It's shocking for me since we read so much about texting less, poor spelling, etc. After a while, I've noticed if done sparingly it actually helps, esp if you send really random emoji
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:55 PM
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Lots of work. Hope its worth it. Can't speak from experience as I'm not married and don't have kids. But I would never engage any "we had sex so xyz" argument seriously. The second you do that, the second you acknowledge an unspoken transactional nature. I'd retort a quip about her age, sexdrive, or accuse her of using you for your dick in good humor. Then change the subject. A good way to gauge her respect is to give her an easy task and see if she complies. "I'm grabbing little Timmy's laundry…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:52 PM
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Yes for sure. It just can take a while. I have really good control over edging for orgasms, etc. It's just a ton of work. I did A LOT of reading on it. And a common theme revolves around lack of sensitivity due to circumcision, dry masturbation, and porn. I was guilty of all 3. Luckily I haven't watched porn in close to 2 years, and almost NEVER masturbate. For me, and due to how long I last in bed, this creates a paradox where I get a bit tired of sex because I've somehow always had girls who c…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:44 PM
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At first I felt it was excessive, but I really enjoy it. I like the imbalance it implies since it has her constantly chasing. And in this day and age, would you rather a girl who responds to texts immediately and starts your day with "I love you! Cant wait to suck your cock! Have a great day xoxo!' or the girl who checks her tinder immediately after leaving your place and leaves your messages unread?
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:37 PM
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That's what I've been doing. But it's becoming too much of a paradox in that my gut is she isn't feeling the "comfort" from me. I've had plates tell me I'm super intimidating and they always had the sense that "I'd never be theirs" or that I was one of the most emotionally distant people they've met. I see myself as a positive, gregarious, friendly guy. But I've heard this from a lot of people - and perception is reality.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:35 PM
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I should've been more clear - she didn't try to throw away my stuff in a fit of rage. She was playful like "how can you be so hot! That's not fair I'm supposed to be the sexy one!" And joked about buying extra large shirts to cover me up. It was all playful - no malice. For the sake of specifity that's when I went "how bout you come with and you can feel me up between sets" If she had thrown it away in rage, etc or yelled, I would've went radio silent for as long as it takes for her to apologize…
/r/askTRP17/07/16 01:08 PM
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Witholing sex makes no sense for a guy - since girls can find dick ANYWHERE. BUT - I've done it to girls before. Very, very sparingly. Phsyical sensation isn't very intense for me, so sex for the girl, can be unbelievable. But for me feel like non-stop sweaty cardio. It's just not that pleasureable and most girls don't know how to please. I've withheld when I felt that my dignity/respect was infringed upon due to HER failing to do a task or expectation put forth in the relationship. When a girl …
/r/askTRP17/07/16 12:40 PM
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