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ConversationMyUsername0_0/r/seduction14/05/24 04:37 AM
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1

Are you physically escalating at all?
/r/seduction23/07/26 10:30 PM
194

that shit mine buddy, sorry
/r/seduction22/07/26 09:05 PM
1

Next date ask her out for dinner/drinks and ask her if she would be down with getting a hotel? Maybe if you want you can make a short trip out of it and you stay at a hotel in another city.
/r/seduction20/07/26 09:12 AM
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This has never been an issue for me. Don't seem desperate and don't force them to do anything. Make them feel comfortable. Don't get mad if they say "we aren't having sex". 90% of the time we have sex even though they say that.
/r/seduction15/07/26 06:13 PM
1

I would say it depends. If you have crippling approach anxiety and can not approach a single person sober then maybe have a drink or two. Over time alcohol will stop working though. When I first started I was a socially awkward virgin loser who did not have social skills. Eventually I started going out with like-minded wings and started having a couple drinks. I got liquid courage and started talking to some girls. At first it was anyone not just attractive women and I was happy with any results…
/r/seduction14/07/26 09:19 AM
9

Well no shit, you don't have experience. It's like reading about playing an instrument. Does that mean you can play the instrument? No. Go take action first.
/r/seduction12/07/26 12:33 AM
1

I've had girls in my bed saying we aren't having sex multiple times and we always have sex. Like I said girls just want to make sure you're not a weirdo and you can make her feel comfortable.
/r/seduction11/07/26 11:15 PM
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I know you’re a virgin but she will get bored if you don’t try to have sex with her. Girls don’t want to seem easy so they usually will not initiate. When making out cuddling if she moves your hand just wait a bit and try again later. If she really doesn’t want you to do something she will make it clear. The goal is to turn her on so much she is begging for you to fuck her. I know you’re probably nervous but you’ll regret it if you don’t try.
/r/seduction11/07/26 10:06 PM
1

Obviously internal game is very important and part of game. It’s been stated in this subreddit plenty of times
/r/seduction11/07/26 10:02 PM
2

“Don’t get jealous I can help you next”
/r/seduction11/07/26 09:46 PM
1

Just because you go on a date with a girl and kiss or hookup doesn't mean she owes you anything? That's not her not changing it just means she wasn't attracted to you enough.
/r/seduction08/07/26 08:32 PM
1

yeah because strangers are going to admit that they are unfaithful. Women will tell you their secrets when you are intimate with them. Also i'm pretty sure infidelity has increased over the last decade with dating apps, social media etc. This is just my personal anecdotal experience.
/r/seduction08/07/26 07:34 PM
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Talk to enough women and you will understand. This is why I don't believe in marriage and am extremely hesitant to even be in long term relationships.
/r/seduction08/07/26 03:45 AM
41

yes women cheat and the majority of people are not faithful.
/r/seduction08/07/26 01:36 AM
6

I doubt dating the 20 year olds is that big of an issue. There’s no way cockblocking is a common enough issue.
/r/seduction05/07/26 11:09 AM
1

Go out and try different things and see what works? Seems like you mostly watch content and take little action.
/r/seduction04/07/26 07:08 PM
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The main thing when it comes to attracting women imo is being okay not getting them. It’s hard when you’re in scarcity but if you’re desperate they can sense that. I’m pretty sure they don’t take you seriously. You are either coming off as desperate or insincere.
/r/seduction03/07/26 05:20 AM
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Focus on approaching other women don't worry about a singular one. The more you do it the better you will get. You will do awkward or cringe shit at first but who cares. It's part of the process.
/r/seduction03/07/26 02:53 AM
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You can train models with pictures of your face and yes you cannot tell if you're using a good model.
/r/seduction30/06/26 12:42 AM
1

Like a normal person? Is it that hard to not creep someone out?
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:36 PM
1

Well that's why. Attractive women don't give choosing signals to men unless you're like a top 0.01% man.
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:11 PM
1

Well are you approaching women??
/r/seduction26/06/26 09:00 PM
1

25min is that bad just keep her distracted during travel and time flies. 30+ it starts to get harder.
/r/seduction25/06/26 01:53 AM
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That’s risky to say off the bat. Yea it can work with the right girl but why risk it. You could have been safer and gotten better results.
/r/seduction20/06/26 09:35 PM
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Not necessarily. Logistics are a big factor too
/r/seduction18/06/26 05:33 PM
1

I disagree. Only if you are at the point where you literally cannot have conversations with women then maybe to get rid of that fear. Strippers come up to you and start talking. Women will almost never do that at bars/nightclubs etc
/r/seduction16/06/26 01:53 AM
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So are you just trying to get anything? 70-100 women you are attracted to a week would take forever to find. You would have to spend several hours a day to get to that.
/r/seduction16/06/26 12:40 AM
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Must be mainly men you had sex with because how do you not understand women? Make them comfortable around you and they tell you their fantasies and kinks.
/r/seduction10/06/26 12:06 AM
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At EDM festivals its all about having fun and enjoying the music and yourself. Just approach people in general not just women. Don't act like you need anything from them. Honestly I would recommend you buy trinkets/stickers and kandi and give them out. A lot of people are friendly at festivals but you can tell when someone is just trying to hookup with women and you can come off as creepy or desperate.
/r/seduction09/06/26 05:22 AM
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I don't think you have been with many women, or at least talked to them when they are comfortable.
/r/seduction09/06/26 01:43 AM
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yeah what you said was kinda weird, like you were trying to be smooth but it wasn't calibrated you just met her.
/r/seduction09/06/26 01:40 AM
1

Playing games is dumb. Also if a girl likes you she will chase you no games needed. If she's not then she's not super into you.
/r/seduction08/06/26 11:46 PM
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Ask her to get tested?
/r/seduction03/06/26 08:49 PM
5

Tall, rich, athletic, famous, not giving a fuck.
/r/seduction01/06/26 03:03 AM
11

Your ability to seduce women.
/r/seduction30/05/26 10:41 AM
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"let you know" is 90% a no from my experience. Also usually they dont even tell you and just ghost.
/r/seduction28/05/26 06:09 PM
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Pop some Viagra or cialis
/r/seduction26/05/26 10:43 PM
2

Well yeah if he’s getting close to cumming from head and then the pussy feels good you can cum very fast
/r/seduction25/05/26 07:13 PM
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I did this a couple times in the past years ago and it did work at times but dont do this. At least get some eye contact first
/r/seduction24/05/26 08:09 PM
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you're lucky its not longer
/r/seduction23/05/26 07:51 AM
2

Obviously it does work, but going in direct puts more pressure on girls and some shy ones won’t react positively or girls who constantly get hit on will put you in the same category as everyone else that approaches her. If you can come up with more creative openers it’s a plus. But that works when your mind goes blank.
/r/seduction21/05/26 12:44 AM
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You can complement just do it with something that’s not generic and be unique
/r/seduction20/05/26 10:03 PM
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you should have done it in person but there's nothing to lose now, just send it.
/r/seduction19/05/26 11:19 PM
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/r/seduction13/05/26 11:09 PM
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Just tell her you had fun and ask her out for drinks again, it's not that complicated.
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:58 PM
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Not true. People can try to work on themselves and they never take action because they feel like they’re not perfect. It’s better to take action and talk to women while you work on yourself. Self improvement isn’t a task you work on and then you’re done. It’s something you constantly work on throughout your life.
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:03 AM
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You’re blaming everyone but yourself. Life isn’t fair but everything is in your control. If you don’t love yourself why would other people? Most of the time when people say they always get rejected it’s because you’re overly needy and people can tell you need something from them.
/r/seduction13/05/26 06:00 AM
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Depends on how attractive you are and how attractive the women you go for. If you go for average to below average women it’s honestly not super difficult
/r/seduction09/05/26 08:21 PM
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There’s yes girls, who are into you and you just have to not be retarded and not fuck it up. Maybe girls where game can sway their opinion as they’re undecided and No girls where its pretty much impossible for you to do anything that will make them attracted to you.
/r/seduction07/05/26 02:22 AM
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Not giving a fuck if a woman rejects you or not is part of it but it doesn’t necessarily make women want you
/r/seduction06/05/26 06:18 AM
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If someone SA's you they should go to jail. That's what SA is.
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:06 PM
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So you think he should go to jail for having consensual sex with you? You didn't tell him to stop or anything.
/r/seduction04/05/26 08:03 PM
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Girls can change their mind at any moment. If a girl wants to have sex with you she makes it easy not hard. She doesn't want to have sex with you. You arent a priority to her.
/r/seduction01/05/26 01:27 AM
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It's because you have little experience around women. You put them above you. There's no cheat code just talk to more women, be around more women. Approach more women. Women are not special.
/r/seduction30/04/26 10:08 AM
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Girls say shit like this and then still get cracked. I have girls on IG posting shit saying how they hate men and I have had sex with them before or shit like that and they’re messaging me. It’s mainly performative
/r/seduction28/04/26 08:36 AM
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I've known people like you who started killing it. Like from 0 women to 50+ in a couple years. You need to change something. If you do nothing different then nothing will change. It's up to you. 30 is young still but time flies. Start now or you will regret it forever.
/r/seduction27/04/26 10:15 PM
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I never lie and put long term open to short, because I am truly open to a long term relationship but most of the time that's not gonna happen. im also open to hooking up if she is. I never lie to them.
/r/seduction20/04/26 06:51 AM
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Show her you are a man. Usually when a girl says "she will let you know" it means she doesn't respect your time. She will hang out with you when she's bored and just wants to keep you around like one of her orbiters. Men have to be intentional. If you don't like the way she texts you call her out on it. You have to be okay losing women. You are playing it too safe and you seem to lack abundance. Would you be this worried about a singular woman if you had other ones? What's the point of texting s…
/r/seduction19/04/26 07:11 PM
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You should have taken her to grab some food or dessert or something after the class. That's what I would have done. But the girl seems to be low interest. She has other guys she talks to. When girls go hot or cold like that its usually when they have other men they like more and while that guy is responding she's lower interest with you. When he's not she starts giving you more attention.
/r/seduction19/04/26 06:55 PM
1

Women are at their peak attractiveness in their 20s it's normal to be attracted to them. Most men in their 50s cannot get those women but if you can go for it. Two consenting adults.
/r/seduction15/04/26 08:21 PM
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Electrolyte drinks before hand. Either buy the powders and put in water or get the electrolit, gatorlyte drinks and drink one before hand and if you drink a lot one before bed too. Get the ones without sugar if possible. Also try to stick to tequila/vodka sodas. Sugary drinks are terrible for hangovers. Food also does help but you might get fat because you crave junk/fast food when you're drunk.
/r/seduction14/04/26 08:16 AM
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Looks have always mattered. Obviously its not the only factory but you can't look fuckin deformed or homeless and attract hot women. It's common sense.
/r/seduction13/04/26 07:06 PM
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The hard part is finding a good woman that you like and she likes you genuinely. It’s extremely more difficult to find that nowadays. Everyone is increasingly shallow and always trying to find the next best thing
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:09 AM
2

It does get old tbh. Right now I’m at the phase where I’m burnt out on going out. I don’t even have the energy to go out and talk to women. I just got a FWB I have sex with a couple times a week. Eventually maybe I’ll get back to it but it’s not fulfilling.
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:06 AM
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Brother how does this help people who are not in high school. Adds nothing to the conversation. You can learn how to talk to women at any age.
/r/seduction01/04/26 11:11 AM
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>Its like, even if i or other men do manage to get better at this, its easy to still be filled with painful memories of all awkward interactions we ever had with women in the past that caused us to get labeled weird or creepy, uncomfortable by women, even if we do manage to get results. You could do nothing wrong and someone could still find you creepy. There's nothing you can do about this but you can minimize those interactions by getting better at social skills. Also attraction definitely mat…
/r/seduction01/04/26 11:09 AM
2

If she’s wearing jewelry “oh hey let me see your rings/necklace/bracelet. See how she reacts then from there you can continue or stop.
/r/seduction28/03/26 11:57 PM
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It’s not complicated she doesnt like you enough to have sex with you. Girls like sex too. If she’s avoided it for 5+ dates then she probably just likes the experiences you provide.
/r/seduction26/03/26 10:42 PM
2

For warm approaches you don’t treat them like cold approaches. You’re just friendly flirt a bit and feel it out.
/r/seduction24/03/26 01:46 AM
1

Fair enough. I did have a friend that loved Todd V until he started going out a lot and after a while he agreed with me.
/r/seduction23/03/26 04:37 AM
2

Todd V does not have good game imo. He over complicates things and comes off as corny/try hard and unauthentic.
/r/seduction23/03/26 01:18 AM
3

Bro said make her shit test you 😂 such a dumb premise. Imagine a girl ready to have sex with you but in your head you’re thinking “ermm 🤓she hasn’t shit tested me yet I need to get her to shit test me so I can impress her” true inner game is not giving a fuck about tests. I already know I will be okay handling any situation.
/r/seduction23/03/26 01:15 AM
1

I’ve know people who were virgins till 30 and then started working on self love and going out to cold approach and hit 30+ bodies in 2 years. As someone who has more than that honestly it doesn’t make you feel better but it does make you more confident with women. I don’t regret getting better with women but sometimes I wonder what other things I could have done with that time.
/r/seduction20/03/26 09:01 AM
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If you don’t like yourself then girls won’t like you either. You need to work on inner game and dive deep on why you don’t like yourself. It’s not easy and takes time.
/r/seduction20/03/26 08:58 AM
1

Flirt with sexual intent. Yes some women will not be into it and probably stop responding or tell you they aren't down. But I would say invite the girls over for something. Movie marathon, cooking, smoking, drinks etc. If they aren't interested they could ghost, decline or suggest something else. You said you get a lot of match so you have to be okay with girls rejecting the hookup.
/r/seduction13/03/26 01:02 AM
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It doesnt matter what you talk about it matters how you make her feel
/r/seduction07/03/26 01:33 AM
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Stop being a pussy and ask her out. Literally there’s only one way to find out.
/r/seduction27/02/26 11:17 PM
1

How are you approaching them? There’s things you can do that will get most women to reject you. Being overly nervous like speaking too quickly, putting her on a pedestal, seeking validation, not coming off as masculine etc.
/r/seduction27/02/26 06:08 AM
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You can but you don't even need to if you're nervous. go to parties and talk to girls then. Clubs and bars as well. You can approach women around campus if you know how to approach properly and won't creep them out. You don't want to build a reputation on campus of being a weirdo. This is the time in your life when you will be around the most women your age. Take advantage of it.
/r/seduction13/02/26 07:41 AM
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Brother you are 6’3 get in the gym, work on your style and you will get some baddies. You are young but time flies. Start rn and also do cold approach.
/r/seduction13/02/26 04:45 AM
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you're a man and waiting for women to approach you lol
/r/seduction13/02/26 01:00 AM
2

I never say after party I just say "we're going back to my place to keep drinking" what's so hard about that? A lot of you get no results because you lack common sense and lack action.
/r/seduction10/02/26 04:23 AM
1

You didn't seduce her, you were happy she gave you attention and were needy.
/r/seduction05/02/26 02:28 AM
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It’s clearly Vegas pretty much an infinite supply of rotating women
/r/seduction04/02/26 06:26 AM
0

One night she disappeared with a guy she’d exchanged numbers with earlier. That snapped something in me. Remember that, and remember what you did to make her do that. I'm not saying she's a saint but a lot of the time when things like this happen it's because you contributed to it. Either by not making moves, not holding a masculine frame, letting her walk all over you. And this takes time to internalize. If a girl that was with me on a trip and we were sharing hotels and beds was openly flirtin…
/r/seduction28/01/26 02:29 AM
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I then said “yeah sure, I’ll let you go once we schedule the second date.” Do not do this. At least the way you said it makes it seem like you're holding her hostage. Also unless you know she's really into you don't ask for a second date in person. Women do not like confrontation so they will agree or say they had fun pretty much 100% of the time just to get out of there. From reading your date breakdown you scared her off somehow. Maybe you don't realize what you did and I can't tell you what i…
/r/seduction26/01/26 09:35 PM
1

Obviously I don't know for sure but I feel like you're in your head on the date and not present and having fun. 50 first dates and 0 second dates is insane. Can you maybe walk through one of your more recent dates so we can see if we can figure it out.
/r/seduction26/01/26 07:30 PM
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I had sex with three different girls this past week and also work M-F 8:30 - 5:30pm. I do work from home most days though so I can go out on weekdays if I want to.
/r/seduction25/01/26 01:04 AM
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I can already tell you need to see a therapist to help you with your mentality. Do this first. Also I can tell you lack experience with women and watch/read too much seduction/pick up content and don't take enough action.
/r/seduction23/01/26 07:59 PM
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Then how are you a 3/10??
/r/seduction21/01/26 02:25 AM
1

And what are you going to change to raise your attractiveness? Style, grooming, being low body fat % do wonders. Even if you are ugly/short you can have success.
/r/seduction20/01/26 07:48 PM
1

If you're gonna do something like this don't let people know
/r/seduction08/01/26 11:02 AM
2

I don't think you did anything wrong if you were escalating before the kiss which it seems you were. Maybe ask her?
/r/seduction07/01/26 08:28 PM
1

I mean I can still last long as hell but I can cum when I want to most of the time.
/r/seduction06/01/26 02:54 AM
2

Stop gripping your dick so hard 😂. Honestly I used to have the same issue and yeah sex was good but I could never cum. When it goes away and you can cum from sex it’s way better
/r/seduction05/01/26 09:21 PM
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Brother relax, there's people who don't lose their virginity until way later in life like 30+. You are scared of being physical with women because you have no experience that's normal. Honestly if girls approach you next time you get approached and are nervous just tell her you're nervous. She might think it's cute. You are scared that she will sense you are inexperienced but girls usually can't tell, everyone has a different perception. Many people are/were in your position. You just have to go…
/r/seduction29/12/25 10:24 PM
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Easiest way is to just try talking to a bunch of random people when you are outside running errands or doing whatever.
/r/seduction29/12/25 02:22 AM
0

I mean dating is definitely the hardest its been for most men right now but if you approached 1000s of women and didn't get results you are doing something wrong. Can you describe your approaches?
/r/seduction29/12/25 02:15 AM
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Obviously maybe an opening line can get the girl to respond but if you can't figure out what to send and have to post on reddit to figure it out then your text interaction will probably be needy or if you even end up getting the girl out on a date you will put her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction27/12/25 08:56 PM
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You aren’t turning her on enough tbh. I have girls begging me to fuck then after they tell me no. I’m just patient and don’t react. If anything I say “I don’t want to do anything you’re not comfortable with” and it turns them on. Maybe you react negatively and she senses that
/r/seduction26/12/25 12:18 AM
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How do you react when she says no?
/r/seduction25/12/25 11:42 PM
0

You said move to. For spring time I’m not sure it’s short term. You could get laid in either if you have good game
/r/seduction25/12/25 05:07 AM
2

NYC apparently has more single women. Miami seems to be very superficial like people lead with money and women expect that. Not necessarily all of them but still. Also Miami is mainly Latinas, NYC is more diverse if you like that.
/r/seduction25/12/25 05:03 AM
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Women can tell when you’re needy, or when you want her more than she wants you. If you are already thinking this much about an opening message she will pick up on this fast. Only way it works is if she finds you so attractive than nothing you say or do matters but this is almost never the case.
/r/seduction24/12/25 03:59 AM
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If you care that much you already lost
/r/seduction23/12/25 06:55 AM
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you're too nice, safe and not decisive probably
/r/seduction23/12/25 04:58 AM
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Yes people stick to their groups more and it's more cliquey but that's why it's up to you to go talk to them. Everyone is just scared to initiate but a lot of people are still open to socialize. There are people that will look at you weird for attempting to talk to them but that's a minority imo. If you approach its more rare so you will get better results imo.
/r/seduction21/12/25 09:57 PM
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A lot of men including myself overthink everything. As long as you're normal anything 'can' work. In this situation you wont attract her through text. Just send her a message and find out.
/r/seduction20/12/25 11:01 PM
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A lot of girls lack accountability. But it is what it is.
/r/seduction20/12/25 08:39 PM
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I mean the alternative is they agree to go on a date and then flake. Or you go on a first date and they ghost. Girls on apps are way more flakey than girls you meet in person. They have too many options they always want something better. Imagine you are getting hundreds of likes a day there's always someone better.
/r/seduction20/12/25 04:29 AM
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That’s strange because pretty much all girls that I do foreplay with I have sex with. Even if they say they don’t want to have sex you have to say something like “I don’t want to do anything you’re not comfortable with” that gets the more turn on ngl 😂. Also enjoy the foreplay. I enjoy foreplay as much as the actual sex part. The anticipation, turning the girl on. A lot of the time they end up begging for me to have sex with them.
/r/seduction02/12/25 11:36 AM
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I want women I want. Getting women I don't find attractive isn't even seduction.
/r/seduction28/11/25 11:30 PM
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Seems like it has gotten harder for most but easier for some. Where do you get most your success? Cold approach? IG/dating apps? For me I’ve been doing pretty good at cold approach but it seems to be because most people’s social skills fell off a cliff and they don’t know how to talk to people. Both men and women, so when I talk to them it’s like a breath of fresh air. But yeah talking to some women makes me want to gauge my eyes out. A lot of people look at you like you’re insane for trying to …
/r/seduction27/11/25 10:21 PM
3

Brother even Jesus got rejected.
/r/seduction24/11/25 09:14 AM
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“Just be confident” that’s not how life works. You gain confidence through experiences and action. Not watching YouTube videos.
/r/seduction24/11/25 03:12 AM
1

A lot of people here are giving you terrible advice. Yes he’s going to quit his job because he clearly wants to focus on the area of his life that needs work. He’s an engineer not a bum he clearly can get another job if he wants to. I would say move to a major city you can afford to live in and live in the nightlife areas/downtown where you have great logistics. Las Vegas is a good city to get good at cold approach and closing fast since there are always hot girls arriving. NYC is also good for …
/r/seduction24/11/25 03:08 AM
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Literally just 👀 and it was one of those tiktoks where they’re like “I’m done healing” and yeah I did have a profile picture and she found me attractive. Btw I don’t consider myself very attractive I’m like average to maybe a lil above average because I focus on grooming and style a lot.
/r/seduction13/11/25 03:08 AM
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She's just a person bro. I posted a comment on a tiktok of a girl who was pretty popular and attractive and didn't expect her to respond but she did and we went on several dates. She ended up being kind of a weirdo but that's unrelated. Just treat her normal.
/r/seduction13/11/25 02:11 AM
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From reading your replies it's not like you listen to any suggestions/feedback anyways.
/r/seduction13/11/25 02:03 AM
2

wah wah I don't want to get out of my comfort zone to meet women so i'm going to struggle with women for the rest of my life
/r/seduction13/11/25 01:57 AM
1

My friend is like 8% body fat shredded and muscular and gets no girls. But he also doesn't even put himself in the position to talk to girls and he isn't the best at seducing. So no being fit alone will not get you girls. But for someone who is somewhat social and can speak to women with even an ounce of confidence it does help tremendously.
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:50 AM
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Yeah we’re definitely in a simulation 😂. Literally same shit happens to me. Girls could go hours without responding and then they always reply within a couple minutes of each other.
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:58 AM
1

"good" what is good? Were you sleeping with women you liked? Lots of people sleep with unattractive women or women they don't like to try and make themselves feel better about themselves.
/r/seduction09/11/25 02:36 AM
1

Buy performance enhancing drugs LOL but fr cialis or viagra will help when you're nervous.
/r/seduction07/11/25 03:26 AM
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If she doesn't have sex with you by the third date she doesn't like you enough.
/r/seduction07/11/25 03:25 AM
1

I'm also 33 and no I don't feel guilty because I'm not a creep. If I hit on a girl and she happens to be in college and I find her attractive I'll shoot my shot. When I was in college older guys would do the same.
/r/seduction28/10/25 09:58 AM
1

There's obviously a self awareness factor and you have to understand your strengths and weaknesses. If he is asking about getting laid and following a program, one of his goals is to improve his skill set with women. So those rhetorical questions don't matter in this situation.
/r/seduction24/10/25 02:45 AM
1

What I said doesn't mean you are being inauthentic. It means being your BEST self. Leveling up and understanding how women think and operate. If you aren't good with women that's an aspect of your life you need to work on. There are a lot of traits that you learn that will help you overall in life not exclusively in dating.
/r/seduction24/10/25 02:19 AM
1

This isn't good advice for most people who are struggling with women. "just be yourself" lots of men are being themselves and are virgins or haven't had sex in years. Focus on hygiene, grooming, style, working out and obviously social skills. Run lots of volume and trust the process at first. If you are starting out don't mind the rejections over time you'll get better at conversing and seducing women. And review your approaches and fix what doesn't work and learn from mistakes.
/r/seduction23/10/25 04:40 AM
13

Not necessarily while that can be a possibility maybe she just doesn't want him to contact her again? Maybe she has a husband or bf.
/r/seduction16/10/25 05:35 AM
2

It's funny because porn would actually motivate me to want to talk to girls so I could have sex with them.
/r/seduction15/10/25 04:14 AM
3

Its not hard but you do have to put up a front or lie if you arent naturally a asshole. Brother you still don't get it. The reason they like assholes is because they actually are being themselves. The reason they didn't like you was because you were being fake nice to get something out of them. You just have to not pedastalize them and be your TRUE self like you are around friends.
/r/seduction11/10/25 08:42 PM
6

Bro you let her control you and then she's bored and prob wants to make you waste more money.
/r/seduction07/10/25 11:21 PM
6

Well if you claim there's no nightlife in your city then move? Focus on making money to move to a major city.
/r/seduction07/10/25 10:29 PM
1

Just start by going out to a bar or club, drink a little bit if you have to. You might not like it at first but try going out 2-3 times a week for a month.
/r/seduction07/10/25 09:52 AM
2

yeah but it can make it way easier for girls to open you and if your costume is sexual or can be perceived as sexual your interactions could be easy to sexualize.
/r/seduction07/10/25 07:37 AM
46

Do not ask a girl off the bat if she would like to go on a date, she doesn't know you. Build some rapport and comfort first. It doesn't have to take long maybe a couple mins
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:09 AM
1

Honestly if you work on looking your best, hygiene and grooming it helps a lot. Looking bad makes you creepy by default. Treat girls like normal humans with respect and they won't think you're creepy.
/r/seduction30/09/25 01:57 AM
13

Didn't read the whole post but it comes down to social media and dating apps providing the illusion of there being endless options and no one wants to settle.
/r/seduction29/09/25 07:10 PM
2

If you live in the USA the OP said he lives in Switzerland so it could be cultural differences. In the USA if you're a 10/10 you dont even need a job and you get hit on literally everywhere.
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:48 AM
5

Sadly most women are like that. Not all but the majority now. It's hard to meet women who want a real connection (even if they claim they do) usually it's more about what you can do for them.
/r/seduction26/09/25 03:35 AM
7

Game alone will not get you a very attractive woman. He is attractive end of story.
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:06 AM
1

I don't know where the fuck you guys are located but attractive women get bombarded with guys approaching them in Southern California.
/r/seduction25/09/25 08:48 PM
1

In the car it can be harder tbh. Some girls don't want to have sex in the car so anything past a make out with touching could be difficult. It doesn't seem like you did anything wrong, you might just have to try another time. Also make sure your car is comfortable. Also have windows tinted or be able to block people from seeing somehow. Maybe you can try driving her to a view or somewhere "romantic" and it could help with LMR since it's not just a simple parking lot. I almost never have sex in a…
/r/seduction22/09/25 04:43 AM
3

Entitlement is always such a turnoff. This is why you shouldn't go on dates with women who only want dinner for first dates
/r/seduction22/09/25 12:25 AM
3

No problem, learned this over the years through reading, watching videos and then putting into practice over a bunch of dates. Over time you'll get more confident and do this naturally.
/r/seduction17/09/25 06:35 PM
17

What I do is just escalate physically slowly through out the date. Like from a hug to greet her, then during conversation if she's wearing jewelry tell her you like her jewelry and touch her hand, wrist, maybe brush her neck as you go to touch her necklace. If she doesn't pull back then just continue through out the date, touching her thigh slightly, guiding her with your hand on her lower back. Do the whole your hands are small, compare hands etc. Also never bring attention to you touching her,…
/r/seduction17/09/25 03:55 AM
51

Honestly what I’ve realized is that most men are not patient enough with women for first date sex. Some women need a lot of comfort and don’t want to come off as sluts so you need to build a lot of comfort and reassure that you won’t judge her.
/r/seduction16/09/25 06:53 AM
1

Never been speed dating because i've heard it's mainly unattractive women but would anyone else recommend it? The closest thing to that I did was a mixer where it's all single people but it was by accident. I just happened to go to a bar where it was happening lol. But the majority of girls were not attractive but were friendly.
/r/seduction15/09/25 06:28 AM
3

I'm not sure what you're trying to debate? You clearly don't cold approach or you wouldn't care about what "some" girls do. I'm confident in myself enough that even if I was recorded and posted online nothing would happen. Talking to a stranger is not harassment. I can read social cues and calibrate based on that. If someone does not want to talk to me then I leave and talk to someone else.
/r/seduction12/09/25 05:21 PM
2

Do you not know what a normal response is? Have you never taken action? Rejection is a normal response, recording someone and calling them a creep is not a normal response.
/r/seduction12/09/25 04:49 AM
4

Normal responses? Have you ever talked to a person before?
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:17 PM
33

I always see these takes online but it hasn't happened to me or anyone else that I know. Using this as an excuse to not take action is stupid.
/r/seduction10/09/25 11:35 PM
29

I'm not sure where yall live but I see a lot of people approaching attractive women. I go out in OC/LA though idk if it's different in other places.
/r/seduction10/09/25 11:33 PM
1

I honestly disagree. Especially if you're dealing with younger girls a lot of them want to text and build comfort/rapport before they agree to hang out with you. But definitely don't text a lot. The girl would have to be really into you for purely logistical conversations.
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:29 PM
1

I got blocked the other week lol. We hung out like three times in one week and then she started being kind of dry in her responses so I knew a ghost/block was coming. She purposely misinterpreted my text and blocked me without even giving me a chance to clarify(wouldnt have mattered).
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:23 PM
3

ngl I was using it to come up with ideas for responses, dont just blindly copy because a lot of them are so corny and lame
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:20 PM
1

It's funny how women always talk about emotional intelligence and having good communication but in my experience most lack both. They ghost because they feel like it. Women are really emotional and act on emotions. She prob found someone else who she wanted to talk to more and just didn't want to talk to you anymore.
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:17 PM
1

Depends what you mean by out of your league. How attractive? Some girls will be near impossible for you to get without status, clout or money.
/r/seduction03/09/25 10:47 PM
2

I would say its NYC. A lot of the "best" places are not gonna have the same amount of hot women as other major cities.
/r/seduction25/08/25 06:16 PM
1

At night people expect to be approached and socialize so you can go in indirect with situational openers which are the best. During the day people are busy and usually doing something or headed somewhere. You need to provide context to why you are talking to them really fast so usually you have to be direct and show intent.
/r/seduction12/07/25 09:08 PM
2

You have to be okay with losing the girl. Also just because a girl is a 10/10 doesnt mean she's a good person. Cancelling a date for a party is kind of fucked up.
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:02 PM
1

There are girls that will only date people they meet through mutual friends. Their loss, tbh.
/r/seduction04/06/25 04:14 AM
2

They want to see how you react when they say that. Women want to feel comfortable so just reassure you're not going to make them do anything they don't want to do and watch them melt.
/r/seduction30/05/25 04:14 AM
8

I feel like this has happened to everyone once. It happened to me but even worse I had the girl in my bed and didn't escalate. I felt like such a bitch. I never made that mistake again. Once you go through that, you would rather get rejected than to not try something.
/r/seduction20/02/25 11:17 PM
23

If I have a girl in my home for the first time and we're fooling around I would say maybe like half the time the girl says we aren't going to have sex, I just tell them that I wouldn't want to do anything they're not comfortable with. We continue to fool around and eventually they're practically begging me to fuck them. Build comfort, don't get mad when they say you aren't going to have sex. Escalate slowly and turn them on.
/r/seduction20/02/25 01:12 AM
1

It's pretty good but it can misunderstand some answers since it's AI. good for testing though.
/r/seduction11/02/25 08:30 AM
2

Look for wingmen. There are telegram groups for guys who do cold approach. Check if there is one for your city. https://www.gameglobal.net/groups/
/r/seduction10/02/25 07:54 PM
3

Instead of asking questions do cold reads. They are a little better and its easier to flirt. Instead of saying something like "what do you drink?" she'll just reply with the type of drink. Say something like "you look like you drink tequila" she'll prob reply with "why do you say that?" then you can go from there and flirt, blah blah "you look like you like to make bad decisions", which is another cold read.
/r/seduction12/01/25 10:32 PM
5

bro tried to use as many outdated pickup terms as possible
/r/seduction01/12/24 12:07 AM
2

RSD Tyler or Owen Cook has Asperger’s or autism and he was able to get girls so I’m sure if you are functional you can learn to read social cues and things like that
/r/seduction28/11/24 10:31 PM
2

I go through periods where I have to take a break and stop doing game or even dating. You're burnt out, go do something else.
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:14 AM
3

if you are in USA there are 18+ clubs and you can also try to get a fake ID if you want. But outside bars and clubs on the street is good too.
/r/seduction29/10/24 01:13 AM
6

what did she message you? you should have it in the bag as long as you dont mess anything up
/r/seduction28/10/24 10:39 PM
8

He's not really a simp he just loves one women. He's also a successful author who dgaf and is pretty good looking, he's also not really a good person, he has a lot of flaws. He's truly himself no matter what which is what helps him with women.
/r/seduction22/10/24 08:00 AM
1

Are you waiting for her to pull you? How many girls have you invited over to your place?
/r/seduction22/10/24 06:18 AM
3

you haven't been in the game for 6 years if you havent even held a hand. you're on the bench. matter of fact you're not even on the team.
/r/seduction18/10/24 01:50 AM
4

good job OP, now you have the potential to have sex with a girl when you're 40
/r/seduction11/10/24 10:47 PM
1

yes, prob easiest at bars or clubs but def possible
/r/seduction11/10/24 05:50 PM
2

you have to pay sadly.
/r/seduction11/10/24 01:17 AM
2

A little, the thing with online dating is that you can have a good date and its not good enough because the person will continue to look for something better on the app. There's too many choices.
/r/seduction10/10/24 08:06 PM
22

Online dating is trash. At least from my experience its way easier to have sex than to meet anyone meaningful on there.
/r/seduction10/10/24 04:49 PM
2

No one wants to have sex with you because you don't view girls as people but you see them as objects.
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:18 AM
56

You will never know exactly what a girl is thinking or her situation. You can make assumptions but they are often wrong. You have to approach them and figure it our through conversation or other types of communication.
/r/seduction01/10/24 01:48 AM
6

"i just met you, you have to earn it ;)" if they leave they just wanted a drink, if they say "how do I earn it" or something similar and continue to talk to you then I'll talk to them and go from there.
/r/seduction28/09/24 09:38 PM
4

Fuckboys don’t have these issues. Girls try to convert fuckboys into relationship guys and get attached to them. It seems like you issues are something else. Either you aren’t congruent or you aren’t escalating enough. I don’t look like a fuckboy at all, I’m a 5’10 scrawny nerdy mexican guy but I get accused of being a fuckboy too but that’s after I smash them. And even then I ignore it or call them out on it. In my mind I’m a nerdy software engineer and explain it to them but I guess my actions…
/r/seduction27/09/24 09:42 AM
4

That's not how it works. At the end of the day you're replaceable. He has all the leverage. He wants you to be loyal, feminine, cook & clean, make his life easier and not cause any issues. He doesn't want to come home and argue with his SO. If you don't like that then you can always find a new relationship. You're dependent on him though so I doubt you will.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:27 AM
6

So you're okay with him being traditional by being the sole provider for you but when he wants to be traditional and lead the relationship you don't like that?? You can't have it both ways.
/r/seduction25/09/24 03:10 AM
11

In the moment yeah its fun but when that post nut clarity hits you can feel kind of empty.
/r/seduction17/09/24 12:01 AM
4

You could "accidentally" bump into them too and if they turn around say sorry and start a conversation like that haha
/r/seduction16/09/24 11:15 AM
28

I've had people tell me that too. Maybe they are right.
/r/seduction16/09/24 11:13 AM
149

Casual sex isn't fulfilling after a while. Honestly i'm kind of in the same boat, I wouldn't say I have peaked with my seduction but I have pretty good success and feel indifferent. I don't really have an answer to your question, I would definitely rather have a girlfriend who I care about and find "love" but I'm having trouble with that. Maybe i'm looking in the wrong places.
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:56 AM
16

Are they just looking for attention and validation? Possibly, some girls definitely are attention seeking but not all. Is that a test to see how much you'll keep going and I'm failing it by not pursuing further? When they are dancing what are you doing? Do you look like you're having a good time or do you look bored like you just want to pick up girls? You have to be confident when you approach them on the dance floor, you have to full send and not be a bitch. But you also want to make eye conta…
/r/seduction16/09/24 10:28 AM
20

Hold eye contact, stare into her soul, look at her lips, feel the tension. If she does not hold eye contact or looks uncomfortable then she probably doesn't want you to kiss her AT THAT TIME. If you have escalated correctly and she has been okay with you touching her and she is comfortable being in a close proximity to you then you can probably go for the kiss. Most of the time you will know if she wants you to kiss her or if she doesn't. If you aren't sure then fuck it just go for it, if she's …
/r/seduction10/09/24 02:38 AM
123

Through pain and practice. At the end of the day you need to just go for it. Start by touching her hands, arms maybe a casual touch of the thigh or back. Never bring too much attention to it. When you see her give you that "look" and we all know what look i'm talking about, go for the kiss. If you don't she will lose attraction and think you're a pussy. Girls are actually pretty patient but they will not give you many chances. When I first started dating when I was younger I wasn't escalating ei…
/r/seduction09/09/24 11:18 PM
13

Honestly at the end of the day she is still a woman and you will probably have to lead. Just talk with her for a bit, show her around your place and make her feel comfortable. You can probably move faster with her if it has been established that you will have sex. Just start escalating slowly with touching her and go from there.
/r/seduction06/09/24 03:14 AM
8

How are you approaching these girls?? We can't help you if you dont tell us.
/r/seduction05/09/24 10:59 PM
1

This is why you confirm the morning of and tell them you're on your way when you leave. You will save your time at least.
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:36 PM
5

Honestly I think its easier to get a high quality women during the day. I feel like really attractive ones are more on guard at night imo. It's definitely easier to pull at night but usually it's going to be mid girls are okay looking girls at best. (Unless you're super attractive like a 9/10) You can also try calmer places like lounges or bars where it's not as rowdy, honestly those are easier to converse with people. Everyone is different though, I have an easier time at night than during the …
/r/seduction26/08/24 10:51 AM
32

Only if you make it a big deal it will be a big deal. Honestly no matter your age you could make excuses. I'm too old/too young etc etc. Honestly for me I get more girls in my 30s than I did in my 20s.
/r/seduction24/08/24 01:47 AM
52

Getting black out drunk and having sex with women will not help you in the long run. You don't even remember what you said or how you approached. You don't get over the fear of approaching that's just the alcohol. I would say stop drinking so much and approach girls when you are sober or only had a couple drinks so you can remember what you do.
/r/seduction19/08/24 09:39 PM
3

That thing that people don't understand is that just because you pay a coach that does not mean you will get good results. You could honestly do it for free but its similar to people who pay for personal trainers. They hold you accountable and could be beneficial. I did have a friend who payed like 4-5k USD for a RSD bootcamp and they only focused on mass approaching women and it didn't help him at all. So I would figure out exactly what you need help with and try to get knowledge for free onlin…
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:46 AM
1

only when I lack abundance usually.
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:21 AM
1

I'm going to assume you aren't talking to many other girls. There's plenty of other girls bro.
/r/seduction22/07/24 04:12 AM
79

I have never regret having casual sex but overtime it gets boring. Some times I take breaks from having sex and it comes fun again but sex is definitely better when you care for the person more intimately.
/r/seduction19/07/24 03:22 AM
4

Google game global telegram groups and you can prob find some wings on there. They have groups for most major cities.
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:35 AM
8

Your 30s can be your best years and you have a large dating pool. Just start ASAP and i'm sure you can have a great time. I'm about to turn 32 and the past couple years I have hooked up with way more girls than when I was in my 20s. I would say focus on cold approaching whether it be during the day or at bars/clubs and also dating apps if you want but you need great pictures. And for the age part I don't think it really matters, I have hooked up with girls from 20-38 in the last year. If you don…
/r/seduction06/06/24 11:22 AM
8

do you guys have any recommendations on programs for aesthetics?
/r/seduction04/06/24 04:57 AM
2

Google game global telegram groups. They have them for most places you can prob find wings there.
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:47 AM
81

You're a girl, it's literally easy mode if you're even remotely attractive. Shit you can be ugly and still get amazing results. Just say hey and introduce yourself. If you can't even do that just put yourself in close proximity and hover around.
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:41 AM
1

might as well cut your dick off you'll never use it
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:13 PM
2

I know indians who are shorter than you and can pull plenty of attractive women. Just say you have no game and like being the victim.
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:05 PM
2

Cold approach is a part of either night game or day game. We are just arguing semantics at this point I guess but imo cold approach is approaching any stranger you have no connection to no matter the circumstances.
/r/seduction14/05/24 09:00 PM
4

This is a bad habit and won't help you when you're sober. Maybe you'll have the balls to do it but what about when you go on a date? Are you just always going to be drunk?
/r/seduction14/05/24 08:14 PM
5

Take them out for drinks, coffee, a walk in the park. Whatever you want to do man.
/r/seduction14/05/24 07:38 PM
6

I do agree with you but I still think we should be able to talk about cold approaching even though that's just the first step.
/r/seduction14/05/24 07:34 AM
3

At bars I talk to everyone and make friends like that but I'm still cold approaching and networking when I go out. It's a mix of warm and cold approaching over time.
/r/seduction14/05/24 07:25 AM
8

yeah but then your dating pool is limited to people in your social circle. If you see an attractive girl out and about you won't approach her? I don't stick to only cold approach I try to do everything, social circle, cold approach, online. I believe all have pros and cons.
/r/seduction14/05/24 06:34 AM
3

What do you prefer? It can be pretty effective if you know what you're doing.
/r/seduction14/05/24 04:47 AM
2

bro wear whatever you want, live life for you. It's not your job to please other people
/r/seduction01/05/24 01:58 AM
4

She's a time waster and likes the validation. These girls usually will waste your time.
/r/seduction27/04/24 07:11 AM
16

Bro just do it or you'll always be wondering. Also if she turns you down who cares, with women who are working sometimes they're just being polite and nice because its expected of them.
/r/seduction09/04/24 05:31 PM
4

think about it like this, how would you turn down a girl if she asked you out but you weren't interested in her? Would you be an asshole or would you be polite?
/r/seduction08/04/24 05:45 PM
1

At night girls are under the influences of substances and at a certain emotional state. I would always text back that same night or at least the morning after. If I just want a ONS, texting back right after the bars close or just late in the night in general can get you laid.
/r/seduction08/04/24 12:41 AM
13

how many irl? and that's not a lot in 4 years. To get a lot of success you need to talk to hundreds if not thousands of girls over the years.
/r/seduction07/04/24 10:39 PM
1

I disagree I would saw maybe a couple days before send a reminder or something. Girls forget or if you don't follow up sometimes will just change their minds.
/r/seduction02/04/24 07:43 PM
10

I do kind of agree, also they're harder to plan meetups with, they're usually busy with work as well so when i'm busy she might be free and when she's busy I might not be free. I don't have anything against them if they put the relationship first but they usually dont.
/r/seduction01/04/24 08:17 PM
9

Wrong, it the US the age of consent is 16 in 31/50 states which is the majority.
/r/seduction01/04/24 07:20 PM
1

well some girls dont like giving out their number until after they meet you so either be okay with the conversation ending there or share your IG. You can make another IG just for online dating as well up to you.
/r/seduction01/04/24 04:59 PM
1

I would have put it more on her like "let me know if you ever want to hang out" Honestly though from the like she seems low interest so I would move on tbh, if hits you up in the future then cool but she most likely wont.
/r/seduction31/03/24 09:17 PM
2

Sorry I meant be your best self. You are seeing success because you're taking action not because you're using cringe pick up lines and techniques.
/r/seduction31/03/24 08:15 PM
3

bro this is so cringe, its like you transported to the mid 2000s with this type of game. Just be confident and be yourself. Make them comfortable, lead, escalate its not complicated.
/r/seduction31/03/24 10:00 AM
3

Not even, having girls on your instagram that you met irl and couldn't meet up with for any reason is a good way to meet up with them in the future. They can see your lifestyle and want to meet up with you later. Compare that to a number where they can't see anything...
/r/seduction28/03/24 05:22 AM
15

Wrong, nowadays having a good instagram is extremely beneficial for dating. Instagram is the best and most popular dating app.
/r/seduction27/03/24 05:50 PM
140

I'm pretty sure that's the majority of men. At least for me I wanted to get better with women so I could figure out what type of women I enjoyed being with the best. While I am still looking for the "one" that is definitely the end goal for me. Casual hookups are fun for a while but the time, effort and energy wasted can get old and its not really fulfilling.
/r/seduction27/03/24 03:46 PM
2

Honestly she probably already wanted to fuck you if she came to your hotel and pregamed with you. You don't need game yes, just lead.
/r/seduction25/03/24 06:59 PM
1

Honestly I didn't start getting better with women until my late 20's so don't necessarily feel like you're hopeless. If you truly want to get better with women you do have to work on yourself and make yourself as attractive as you can to women. The most important part is that you must take massive action. If you don't socialize with women you won't get any. And i'm not talking about approaching 1 girl a week or getting drunk and approaching one girl. (in the beginning its okay to approach few gi…
/r/seduction14/03/24 07:54 PM
4

The only way to find out how far you can get is to try. She'll let you know if you went too far then you can recalibrate by easing off a bit and trying again later. The easiest way to know if a girl will go home with you is to move her around the club/bar and see if she complies and follows you. Also to pull the girl its always good to have a reason/excuse since girls don't want to seem like sluts. Seeding the pull is important. Just bring up things in the conversation that you know you can pull…
/r/seduction14/03/24 07:46 PM
7

I do both, sometimes I go out with the intention of hooking up and sometimes I just go out to concerts and shows with the intention of having fun and enjoying the experience and I still end up hooking up. Over time with experience and practice you know what you have to do to hookup with girls. The most important part in my opinion is to lead the girl and know where & when to pull the girl. So many times I have seen guys making out with girls at bars/clubs and the girl is ready to get pulled and …
/r/seduction14/03/24 07:13 PM
3

who cares, either say yes i'm out alone, or make some shit up, "oh i was here with a friend but he left and I wanted to stay out"
/r/seduction04/03/24 12:22 PM
2

David Duchovny or Hank in the show legit has no filter and doesn't give a fuck. He knows he's not perfect and an asshole, he doesn't care if people don't like him or what people think.
/r/seduction20/02/24 08:48 AM
14

Dating in general is difficult for the average man, you should be meeting women in person and also using OLD. For OLD if you don't have good pictures don't bother. Get good pictures first and then try it out. Also for the best results you will have to pay for a membership.
/r/seduction07/02/24 04:57 AM
3

I always just say "do you want to smoke weed?", if she doesn't want to smoke "I want to smoke weed, want to keep me company?", "wanna watch a scary movie?", I always seed the pull beforehand by mentioning things I have at my house or things we can do. If she's super into you she will come with you no matter what.
/r/seduction30/01/24 06:44 PM
5

It's the opposite, women date up. They don't settle for men who are less accomplished.
/r/seduction27/12/23 05:45 PM
3

That's not how real life works you're just in your head making excuses on why not to approach. If you are confident in yourself it doesn't matter if you get a no. There is no downside to approaching. I've never approached a girl and felt worse. I bet you feel regret when you don't approach someone you were attracted to.
/r/seduction13/09/23 07:41 PM
0

How do you know this? Are you a mind reader?
/r/seduction13/09/23 07:26 PM
1

What's the worst thing that will happen? They say no? They yell at you? You will live.
/r/seduction13/09/23 07:25 PM
3

It's sad to say but in 2023 most men are completely invisible to women.
/r/seduction11/09/23 02:31 AM
2

You have to take risks and not care about rejection. Also you have to be persistent and be physical without being creepy.
/r/seduction18/07/23 04:20 AM
1

ah got it. cold approaching isn't for everyone.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:27 AM
1

What's stopping you? Join groups where people do game and go out with them. It's sad to see that we're in a era where most men are not having success with women because it also coincides with the period where women have the most sexual freedom. You have to take action. That is the single most important thing.
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:24 AM
6

this subreddit used to be good but it gives pretty bad advice now. I wouldn't take most of the information from here to heart.
/r/seduction22/09/22 07:39 PM
4

Not very fulfilling but it can be fun for a while. Also seeing a lot of women will help you figure out what type of women you actually like.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:17 AM
2

This is dumb as fuck. You're a man go out there and choose.
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:24 AM
3

A thing that helps is whenever you catch yourself saying anything negative about yourself replace it with something positive.
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:13 AM
1

I enjoy reading your posts man. I’m thinking about moving to Vegas this summer to work on my game. I’ve been going out for years but not consistently enough to get good. I feel like Vegas is one of the places where you can go out consistently and improve quickly.
/r/seduction14/03/22 06:33 AM
1

Im thinking about doing this too. Would like to know if it’s a good idea…
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:23 AM
9

I mean I don’t know what you guys talk about but if you guys are on winter break rn tell her you hope she’s having a happy holidays and you guys should hang out when you get back. Honestly it doesn’t matter what you say, you know her so you should know things she likes, make an excuse to hang out irl.
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:36 AM
17

Who tf cares about a streak. Do you want to have sex with her or do you care about a snap streak? You need to ask her out. It doesn’t matter if you wait for the streak to end or not. Do you think a guy having sex or dating her cares about a streak?
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:18 AM
20

You’re a grown man asking about Snapchat streaks. Ask her out or stop wasting your time
/r/seduction25/12/21 03:48 AM
2

It's not easy. It depends what you are insecure about. You have to face your fears. If you are scared to talk to women because you don't feel like you are enough you just have to tell yourself you are enough and approach anyways.
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:04 AM
2

I know its not fulfilling but I feel like going through this phase would be beneficial for most men. They wouldn't be wondering what if, and if you have intimate connections with different types of women you can realize what type of women you truly like. But at the end of the day most men will not be able to do this since they don't work on themselves.
/r/seduction19/10/21 05:40 AM
7

sjws and metoo movement killed the industry. Pick up content gets deleted on youtube and they had to adjust their business to self help content. Honestly their self help content still can be used for pick up.
/r/seduction06/08/21 07:56 AM
23

Doing cold approach and mastering it is a skill. It will improve your life tremendously and not just with girls.
/r/seduction26/07/21 04:17 AM
5

chill out bro, yeah he should have tried to pull but this is very good anyways.
/r/seduction20/06/21 06:37 PM
1

Yall are reading too much into it, he thought she was legal and hit on her, big deal. He didn't pursue once he realized her age.
/r/seduction17/06/21 04:03 AM
1

She could be a 9 in looks but you're a man and higher value I'm assuming.
/r/seduction03/06/21 02:04 AM
46

I got to the part where you slap her hand and say "bad girl" yeah this is made up.
/r/seduction08/05/21 08:00 AM
1

I don't agree, its better to assume attraction and don't ask about a boyfriend unless she brings it up.
/r/seduction21/04/21 04:28 AM
3

Weird how some of the only useful content in this subreddit is down voted. It's sad to see how low the seduction community has fallen.
/r/seduction20/04/21 09:03 AM
7

You have to do the same shit she's doing, start casually flirting with other girls and giving them attention. Abundance is key.
/r/seduction05/04/21 05:10 AM
3

Yeah you have to work on your self esteem issues my guy. You have to be your biggest fan. Stop comparing yourself to other people and become the best version of yourself you can be.
/r/seduction07/12/20 08:22 PM
2

Why are you already focusing on negatives? Just go into every interaction and assume they will like you. Most people are not complete assholes. And if they are assholes then move on and find new people to talk to. In nightgame most people are out to socialize, they are willing to talk.
/r/seduction07/12/20 08:11 PM
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I think people underestimate how much not being creepy and being a normal guy works. A lot of these comments make it very clear that you guys have never cold approached. Most women are actually pretty nice and receptive if you are normal/not a weirdo and sometimes it gets you dates/laid.
/r/seduction19/11/20 06:49 AM
2

they're not interested because he's not being interesting. all he's doing is being polite and having small talk, that's not enough to build attraction but its better than not approaching.
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:23 PM
4

what is wrong with the sub bro lmfaoo
/r/seduction31/03/20 11:14 PM
2

I agree. It’s mostly that you have your shit together. Younger girls like that and girls your age are past their prime and scared they will be alone forever.
/r/seduction03/02/20 10:31 PM
1

Money
/r/seduction03/02/20 06:30 PM
13

jfc take a hint
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:16 AM
1

It's all about yourself man. Once you don't give a shit about getting the girl is when you will do the best with girls. You could not give a fuck about getting rejected and still just go around like an idiot mass approaching looking awkward as fuck wasting your time. Be confident with yourself and become the best person you can be. Be genuine as fuck and you will succeed.
/r/seduction09/01/20 10:04 AM
1

No shit its a TV show. If there's people who think watching a TV show that was made for entertainment will help them with women they are delusional to start off.
/r/seduction22/12/19 11:29 PM
3

tbh if you're a famous writer and handsome like him its more believable but yeah its unrealistic. the main thing you can learn from the show is that being witty is like a cheat code.
/r/seduction22/12/19 11:46 AM
2

Owen is still teaching pick up but its under the umbrella of self development. I mean all that pickup line shit is superficial anyways. Just be okay with yourself, lift and have abundance mentality.
/r/seduction08/10/19 08:29 AM
46

I need this advice, as a natural introvert its exhausting being social. I've noticed that days where I'm tired or not feeling like socializing I go out still but it's pointless for me as I don't socialize. I need to work on how to make lasting impressions even when I'm not feeling 100%.
/r/seduction08/07/19 06:16 AM
1

Reading these comments make it apparent how people will make any excuse to not be the best version of themselves.
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:56 AM
1

Excuses, I've made friends from RSD groups and we go out and kill it consistently. You are putting in no effort to change that.
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:55 AM
2

I am going out, no excuses
/r/seduction08/06/19 03:54 AM
6

Working out does make you more sexually attractive but I feel like its more about the confidence that you get.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 06:08 AM
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It’s not necessarily making her feel as a woman, more as you have to act like a man.
/r/seduction28/09/18 03:21 PM
2

Girls are weird, sometimes they ghost you without you doing anything wrong. On to the next one.
/r/seduction04/01/18 02:35 AM
2

She likes the attention. friendzoned btw
/r/seduction14/10/17 12:45 PM
24

Looks kinda fake.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:49 AM
8

Try to dance close to them and try to make eye contact with them. If they don't try to get away from you then you can try and grab em to you. Make sure they know you are there though, girls usually don't like when someone randomly grabs them. If a girl is dancing in front of you and glances back occasionally she wants to dance with you.
/r/seduction12/08/17 10:10 AM
1

Looking at your past posts, you need to go see a psychiatrist. Also you need to leave your boyfriend, ik you won't do it though.
/r/seduction14/07/17 02:15 AM
2

Rave at an anime convention what in the world.
/r/seduction05/07/17 12:22 PM
1

You have oneitis, yes you should break it off.
/r/seduction06/06/17 10:59 AM
3

Why would I quit? It's fun, why do we do anything? This only applies if you have a problem and its affecting you negatively.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 09:47 PM
5

You are an idiot. More American women for me.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 10:52 AM
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Why are people hating? I usually can tell when videos are staged and this didn't look fake.
/r/seduction06/12/16 08:43 AM
2

"I've been able to slide by and still be attractive." LMFAOO to who?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 09:19 AM
11

why start on New Years when you can start today?
/r/seduction03/12/16 09:16 AM
3

Trump won because Hillary was that bad, not necessarily because people were enthusiastic about voting for him. I believe most people would have won against Trump.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 05:14 AM
8

Dude didn't have a chance with the DNC rigging that shit.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 04:12 AM
61

A lot of the states that gave Trump the victory were states that Bernie won in the primary, just saying lol.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 01:24 AM
29

Nah Hillary Clinton is the reason the election was lost, Bernie would have probably won tbh.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 01:08 AM
1

Everyone has insecurities, if it is something that you cannot change you just have to accept yourself as you are.
/r/seduction04/07/16 12:58 PM
2

Moved to a new city for school and my new friends don't really like going out. I feel like if I expanded my social circle getting girls wouldn't be a problem.
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:48 AM
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Are you me?
/r/seduction30/05/16 12:14 AM
2

Looks matter but ugly guys can get girls too you just need to put in more effort.
/r/seduction29/04/16 10:47 AM
1

I live in Orange County and there are so many hot girls on Tinder, it is difficult to get a response but I'm pretty sure there are more hot girls on Tinder is bigger cities.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 01:01 AM
13

Suck his dick. Don't be a tease getting blue balls is the worst.
/r/seduction12/04/16 08:32 AM
1

Definitely insecure about my teeth, but nothing I can do atm.
/r/seduction15/12/15 12:57 AM
4

I'm 23 and cannot afford braces atm, but I feel like I would be too embarrassed to get braces and would get invisalign.
/r/seduction15/12/15 12:23 AM
1

"drama free" umm until her boyfriend finds out and you are at drama central.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 08:54 AM
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