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It makes it difficult to not give in. I keep thinking that this rhetoric is normal which makes it more acceptable in a way, like sometimes I'll think that if this is how most people think, and those people are able to get relationships then is it really so bad to think on that level. It feels like I'm putting in the work to be more critical and rational but barely anyone else is, which makes me wonder why I'm even bothering to do it. If you're not getting what you give then what does that mean? …
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 04:01 PM
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I just went through some old threads on this forum and it's fucking disgusting the amount of people who are still falling for RedPill bullshit. I literally saw someone defending double standards in on thread, what the fuck?
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 02:38 PM
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So while "spinning plates" is best for the individual man (I argue, his short term needs), it is bad in the long term for the community and society, and ultimately creates an unstable society which all must live in. I don't think it's that drastic. I think there's a lot more threats to society than men trying to sleep with multiple women What are your thoughts on "spinning plates" in general? Is it something all men desire? Fuck no. I could never do it, it seems like way too much hassle. I just …
/r/ExRedPill30/12/21 07:54 AM
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The rest of life falls into place once you have a solid sense of self and a fire for who you are and what you do. It also might not
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 09:02 AM
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Please don’t recommend learning a hobby because that dosent help with long term loneliness.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 09:01 AM
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If you're doing it because you think it will make you more confident then yes I would say do it. If you're doing it because you think it will make you more attractive then I would say no There's a pretty well documented phenomenon of guys who work out to attract women and find out that even after getting their body, women still don't find them attarctive
/r/ExRedPill26/12/21 06:41 AM
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The fact you refuse to see this tells me all I need to know about you.... And the fact that you refuse to see the toxic elements of FDS tells us all we need to know about you But of course, that takes a level of self-awarness that you clearly do not possess.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 02:48 PM
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The fact that you can't see the toxic elements of FDS means you must be VERY young and naive.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 02:45 PM
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Since one group idolizes sociopaths and tries to emulate their tactics and the other is prevention against falling prey to those same people FDS also promotes the same brand of sociopathic thinking. In attempting to prevent themselves from being victims they become perpetrators instead. Hurt people hurt people y'know
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 06:31 AM
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They don't feel comfortable being overtly sexual, they don't feel comfortable putting that card on the table You gotta realise that as a man you can't really do that nowadays. Consent is key. These women have not signalled or intitiated or informed that OP can flirt with them, so he knows not to flirt with them. If they were attracted to OP then they would have done something about it As men we cannot risk creeping a woman out, you cannot risk making a woman feel pressured or uncomfortable. Not …
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 06:40 AM
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America and it's consequences have been a disaster for the human race
/r/ExRedPill23/12/21 04:54 AM
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Damn bro I treat a woman right and I can't even get that jk what world is that dude living in?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 11:55 AM
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As in, it’s pretty much all neurodivergent people I was pretty aware of that
/r/ExRedPill21/12/21 03:24 PM
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As far as I understand the blackpill, it is a super unhealthy "cope" for that, because it seems to basically say "give up, you wont be able to change anything". That alone isn't unhealthy, it's more the responses to it that become unhealthy Sometimes the best thing to do for yourself is to know your limits and quit
/r/ExRedPill21/12/21 03:08 PM
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Honestly the blackpill has actually been helpful to me in areas of life other than dating. Sometimes there is a great sense of catharsis in stepping back and saying 'this is out of my hands, there's nothing I can do about this' You can do that and move on and it's fine, but the problem is that people often don't move on, they stay and obsess about how they're not in control of their own lives And that makes total sense because being out-of-control in life can be very fucking scary, but the answe…
/r/ExRedPill21/12/21 02:52 PM
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r/femaledatingstrategy Female version of the redpill. I suggest not visiting it
/r/ExRedPill21/12/21 01:04 PM
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How does one become a dom? Is it just something you know before you even have sex, or is like an evolution? Are male virgins welcome in the BDSM scene? Honestly I've thought about trying to get into it purely for how communicative it all seems. From what I've heard it's very much about open communication about your wants and needs, no flirting or games that enfuriate me in modern dating, so I'd love to try it... But let's be honest no one wants a male virgin, we're a red flag
/r/ExRedPill21/12/21 11:39 AM
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Sure man whatever you say
/r/ExRedPill20/12/21 11:29 AM
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People often conflate the redpill with being right wing, and people conflate being right wing with transphobia Culture wars shit y'know
/r/ExRedPill20/12/21 08:36 AM
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You've been downvoted but I largely agree with what you say We have a problem in this culture of being unable to see men as victims. It seems like whatever issue a man might bring up there's always some way to loop it back round to being his fault. We treat men as these beings of hyperagency, who are solely responsible for their problems and how to fix them, like nothing can effect them because their big strong men. It's why the responses to incels is so often 'pick yourself up by the bootstraps…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/21 10:35 AM
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Bro I just want a girl who dresses and act in a 'masculine' fashion That question is a joke based on a Twitter trend where women would post pictures of men wearing outfits they like and say 'Men, what is stopping you from dressing like this' Also I know about 'not like other girls', I just don't care. I really don't see the problem. If a girl wants to say that she's 'not like other girls' well then right on sister. And those videos look like most nauseatingly annoying r/breadtube level trash. I'…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 07:26 AM
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You're supposed to be actively chasing women It's 2021, why don't women chase me? Fuck these gender roles, absolutely retarded
/r/ExRedPill16/12/21 07:17 AM
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Yes but she's hottest in the first panel
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 02:38 PM
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The first girl is hot as fuck and there is literally nothing anyone can do to convince me otherwise Need me a girl who wears muddy jeans and wife beaters and smokes menthols. The perfect woman. Women, what is stopping you from dressing like this?
/r/ExRedPill15/12/21 12:37 PM
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If you feel a huge dread or depression or obsession over TRP, there is a good chance that there's something MAJOR that you aren't paying attention to within your psyche. Nah I'm definitely paying attention to it. Its definitely there and I see it
/r/ExRedPill13/12/21 06:28 AM
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I mean I just think it's possible to succeed romantically without sticking to the script of the redpill or modern dating standards. Will it be harder? Maybe. Will people use you? Probably. But if you can't even imagine success outside of that script, then I'd call that narrow
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 03:57 PM
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Not to suck my own cock but I'm pretty sure I can tell when I'm bring used. I hang out with genuine people, I know when someone isn't being genuine I'm sorry you have such a narrow view of the world
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 12:33 PM
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Why are you sorry?
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 12:26 PM
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I'm a man... I like masculine women There is something very attractive to me about a woman who choose to embrace masculinity rather than femininity. There is a sense of rebellion in that that is very attractive to me personally I don't see why things need to be as rigid as you make them seen. Honestly I don't even believe in 'masculine' and 'feminine' much these days
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 12:22 PM
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I understand your point about desensitizion and think that could work, I'd just prefer to do it the old fashion way. I'd feel kind of cheated if I paid a few hundred to a thousand quid to get something that people out there are getting for free. Perhaps if I reach 30 and still haven't had sex, but who knows I didn't realise these communities are that selective? To be fair that's just what I've heard. I'm sure there are some communities that are more accepting
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 11:15 AM
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I could see why you would think that about me but I'd like to say that no where did I say that all player are bad people I'm sure there are plenty of players who are good people, I'm also sure there are plenty of them that are bad people. I think labelling all players as either 'good people' or 'bad people' is reductive
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 10:31 AM
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Sorry man but once again, generalisations don't mean much of shit to me I'm afraid. I prefer to see people as people
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 10:27 AM
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even among broader feminists that claim masculinity to be an absolute evil I mean... You can definitely find some of those people. I've definitely noticed a growing demonisation of masculinity in a lot of spaces, especially those that lean more liberal or feminist. Generally it's people hearing the phrase 'toxic masculinity' and taking it at face value, that everything masculine is toxic
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 10:24 AM
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but most players aren't like that How do you know that? Did you take a consensus? Have you met most players and can attest to their character? Generalisations don't mean much of shit to me I'm afraid.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 10:20 AM
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And beeing masculine is a good thing Agreed. Masculinity is a good thing. Which is why women should start embracing more masculine traits and aesthetics. If masculinity is so good why should it only be enjoyed by one gender? This is a joke by the way. Well kinda... Because I'd love to see more masculine women
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 10:17 AM
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Most players arent actually assholes, if they were they wouldnt be players. I mean... You can hide the fact that your an asshole long enough for a woman to sleep with you
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 10:12 AM
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I'd say there's nothing wrong with paying a sex worker? You'd say that, I'd say differently. I want a woman to save yes to me without any outside incentive, no monetary or physical transaction, I want her to actually want me. Other than that, if money is a concern, there are kink communities and a variety of other sex communities that exist in cities I'm a virgin and I've heard a lot of those kind of places won't accept virgins, they want you with a few notches on the bedpost already, of you get…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 07:41 AM
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I think some TRP counter-programming might be some male-focussed Ethical Slut-type education. The thing is it is very difficult for men to be sluts because sex is quite difficult for lots of us to get, this is why people resort to redpill and manipulation. How can you be a slut of no one wants to have sex with you? I guess I could start calling myself a slut and hope people catch on haha
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 06:21 AM
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How can you find ethical sluts? (Not trying to sound like I want to 'use' them or whatever)
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 06:18 AM
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How can you find ethical sluts? (Not trying to sound like I want to 'use' them or whatever)
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 06:17 AM
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understanding and working to dismantle the system under which women have been historically forced to rely on men What's also important when undertaking this is to focus on both sides. There has been a large social movement of informing women their worth is not related to their relationship to a man, but there has been hardly any of that for men. There is still very much a dominant social script that tells men they are worthless if they're not having sex or in a relationship. You can find example…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 08:52 AM
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And those are all systems (except mental health, bit that is dealt with in a system)
/r/ExRedPill03/12/21 04:49 AM
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I suppose that would help in destigmatising sex and it's importance. Put personally I'm never sure if more commodification is a good thing. I've never felt that it's just about the sex, it's about the validation of a woman saying yes. Also some people just want partners, it's just a thing inside people's heads, good luck getting rid of that
/r/ExRedPill02/12/21 07:34 PM
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working together for societal change benefits almost everyone and would genuinely solve a lot of what they consider to be dating inequity across genders. What changes do you think will be of benefit and help solve dating inequity, if you don't mind me asking
/r/ExRedPill02/12/21 07:10 PM
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which is arguably a viable way to help cause change if enough people do the same From what I've seen people are far more resistant to change than they actually believe, the system is so familiar that they fear it's absence. Its much the same reason redpillers and incels are so resistant to change ironically, they just have different systems. Do you have any suggestions of personal actions one can take to oppose the dating system?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/21 06:32 PM
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But doesn't accepting it just propagate the system, ensuring it's continuation? I see this attitude so much and it's honestly so depressing, but I suppose your right, ain't shit I can really do to change it now is there? The people are retarded. I'm trying to get better at not participating in broken systems (fuck me is it hard), and this is one I'm fine not participating in. If something happens it happens, but honestly being alone and whining about it every now and then beats the hellscape of …
/r/ExRedPill02/12/21 05:47 PM
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The fact that I can't do anything about the system is what makes me mad at it. It's a rigged, unfair, and broken system, why would I accept a broken system?
/r/ExRedPill02/12/21 01:05 PM
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its the Culture Wars my friend, foster distrust in the people, create an 'Us Vs Them' mentality and then profit off the division Likewise I'm tired of it, even if I still find myself slipping into it every now and then
/r/ExRedPill02/12/21 09:09 AM
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