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DiscussionMyronBlayze/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 06:59 AM
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I was about six or seven years into dating my now husband, trying to explain how my he had two moms to my friend, when I realized that technically the one I was describing the relationship of (raised him from about 3-4 or so on, but didn't birth him) was "stepmom". He had never in our time together referred to her as that. I was no stranger to complicated family units, as mine was incredibly convoluted, but "step" just didn't cross our vocabulary at all, even though I knew the full situation. Hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:33 PM
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I have one kid, and the fact that I am still following my hopes and dreams has been a bit of a surprise with a few people I've talked to. It's like, you become a mom, and have no time for anything else. But I'm working full time, taking classes part time (2-3 a semester), I just published an anthology, organize a weekly writing group, sometimes hang out with friends, obvs spend time with my spouse and my kid. There's a lot of caveats - my house isn't sparkling clean at all times (normal amounts …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:37 AM
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I have one kid. The main reasons we don't have a second is childcare and finances, in that order. Childcare under 2 years old is impossible to find. So if we had a second, we'd need to be able for me to afford being off for 2 years, or 1-1.5 years (live in Canada) and then have a nanny for 6 months to a year, but nannies are incredibly expensive! We went through this with our first one, and since the 3 grandparents all work full time, we had to bounce my poor kid around with any family available…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:23 AM
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Posting under here because apparently you need a user flair to post saying you're a woman, but there is no "no pill man/woman" which is kind of dumb. Anyways here is what I was going to comment: Oh my God. Even my husband, who HAS ran into a bear in the woods, chose bear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 04:21 PM
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If it helps support my point (it shouldn't matter) I don't always wear makeup? I personally don't wear foundation ever because I don't like the feel of it. Everyone I know has seen me without makeup. Otherwise the amount of makeup I wear is random. Many days I wear none, some days I go "all out" although I see makeup as an art form, so when I go extra on it these days it's usually in fun. Like for Mario day, I did my eye makeup as red and green mushrooms. Also handed out stickers and asked trivi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:22 AM
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Toxic femininity isn't only fans and wearing too much makeup. Toxic femininity is saying that having a c-section means you aren't a real mother. That using formula makes you a bad mother. That having a life and hobbies outside your children makes you an inconsiderate, absentee mom. It's judging women when men would not be judged for it. Toxic femininity is looking down on women who aren't moms, who chose a different life. It's expecting all women to act a certain way, for all women to be nutruri…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:08 AM
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I'm of the same mind. I don't "get" jealousy because it just doesn't make sense to me. Everything someone does to be controlling and try and prevent their partner from cheating won't actually prevent it. All it will do is build resentment in the relationship at best. Also, really writing off 50% of the population to be friends? How depressing!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:55 AM
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Honestly the best years in our relationship was when my husband was unemployed but financially it didn't make sense to continue that. We've agreed if I made a ton of money he would be a SAHD. We had a baby late last year and he took the first 5 weeks off with me, I have a year off, and he is taking 3 months of parental leave off at the end of my leave. We will see how it goes then but at this point we are both absolutely "if one of us made enough the other would be the SAHP" but it's a pipe drea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:47 PM
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I'm 5'3" and the best shape i was in I was 135lbs, which seems on the higher end for weight for my size but honestly I fluctuate normally between 125 - 140lbs and no one but me can tell the difference. Due to my fat distribution, body shape, and muscle tone I've always looked thinner than I actually am, people always think I'm smaller and lighter than I am and are very surprised to find out how much I weigh. Normally i play roller derby (jammer) and work out a couple times a week. I'm 8 months o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:58 AM
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Thank you! We are very glad to have her and she's a wonderful little human being
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:18 AM
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I'm going to jump on this since I'm the same as the person you responded to - I'm an equal in the relationship with my partner of over a decade. For finances, we've always made close to the same amount - usually I've made a little more than him but not by much, and he is now earning a bit more than me. The big differences is he was unemployed for (not continuous) about 2.5 years due to bad luck with jobs and then schooling so I supported him then, and he did more house work. Now I'm on mat leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:29 PM
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(Reposted under automod as top level comments supposed to challenge view) My husband actually is part of a family where his dad got full custody of both him and his sister when they were incredibly young - and turns out his sister wasn't even biologically the fathers (came out in court). This was almost 30 years ago now as well. His dad knew he wanted to have custody of the kids and clearly the judge agreed. For myself, I have the docs from my bio parents separating and my bio father had no inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:13 AM
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Oh for sure. And then it ends up being a cycle of not cleaning --> heavy duty clean once in a blue moon --> exhausted and not cleaning again. Which they just need to realize, a little effort breaks that whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:51 PM
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Because often by the time they get to cleaning, that's the point they are at
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:43 PM
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I will also support this that I would gladly support my husband as a stay at home parent if we could afford it. For the first few years of our relationship he was having trouble with jobs (just horribly unlucky) and honestly the times he was home were great. He is a way better house spouse than I.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 05:09 PM
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We do want kids some day but I'm stil answering the question. So, my husband and I have been together for 8 years now. There was a chunk of time- almost 2 or 3 years total- when he didn't have a job at all. I was actually fine with him not working because he's so much better of a house husband than I am as a house wife, lol. But long story short, the life that we want to live requires both of us earning money, not just one. Right now, I make a smidge more than he does but it has gone back and fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 08:13 PM
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C
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:22 AM
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I've literally never met a conventional Chad, or the two dimensional representation of one. Like, there's a guy at work that does bodybuilding/used to go into competitions but he's actually a very sweet person, goes to his grandparents for lunch everyday, keeps his personal life quite quiet. I'm just blanking on any sort of examples at all. I don't know if it's the town I live in but it's very different attitudes. I'm sure they exist but they don't run around any circles I run in. All the women/…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 12:41 AM
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It's different kinds of fun. My fiance (husband as of tomorrow!) Is great to be around because we have fun, make each other laugh, and can spend literally 24/7 together and I don't get burnt out. He doesn't wear me out socially, which literally everyone else on the planet does eventually. I love spending time with him. As for my friends, it depends. My closest friends I can spend a lot of time with and be fine for quite a while, but no matter how much fun I have I'll burn out/wear out/become soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/19 04:38 PM
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Yeah, this could very much cause inbreeding. Best case scenario is that it would be a clone of you, but that chance is very small. Eggs and sperm are all haploids, meaning they carry half your dna- but it's essentially a random half. All the correct chromosomes, but not all the cells are mixed in the same way (if that makes sense?) So let's take three sets of chromosomes. Your normal DNA would look like: Aa Bb Cc. Now when your haploid cells hold DNA, they could be holding them like A B C, A b c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:26 AM
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I ask my spouse if he thought we did and (after explaining what the question meant) he said "I like to think so." We've been together/lived together for 7 years and mostly it's a really easy relationship and we spend all of our free time together.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 06:19 AM
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You know my theory why Christmas music sucks and is just so awful to listen to? Theres nothing new! It's all the same, and covers of covers of covers, same songs and movies we've been listening to and watching for nearly a century in some cases (maybe a slight exaggeration). Where is the new music? Tradition is great, don't throw out all the old entirely, but maybe come up with something new?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/18 05:04 PM
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Alright we just need to get a GoFundMe going to get this show on the road.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 07:25 AM
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Right? Like I 100% dont believe in that stuff because it's silly but it's also fun and my spouse is totally a Taurus and I'm totally a sagittarius and it's funny to read and laugh about those things sometimes. People like to fit in boxes and it's nice when the boxes are pretty and flowery and happy, and even if you dont really fit in the box it will still be fun to try. Exhibit A
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 06:00 AM
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Then I prefer friends not money. Also, why are you hysterical? Or are you just memeing? Admittedly I'm not following the whole movement too closely but from what I understood "Believe all women" doesn't mean "all accusations are 100% true throw all the men in jail without any due process". It means more if a woman tells you she was raped, or assaulted, don't go "well what did you do to provoke it" or "I'm sure it wasn't as bad as you rememeber it" or "just get over it" or "why didnt you tell som…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:33 AM
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Well hopefully by the time the show is done they no longer have those attitudes. Maybe I'm idealistic but I think people can change and for the better too. It wouldn't be about tricking them into pants, it would be about helping them learn how to interact with other people. Self improvement. Therapy. Just help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:22 AM
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Our offices have glass that are partially see through. More importantly, that would be a shitty thing to do. Most importantly, his fiance(è?) Is a really cool person who I totally want to become friends with. False accusations don't make friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:49 AM
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Can you link other sites you shop at?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:28 AM
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Man I love the shoulder cutout style in shirts. Where it's still a long shirt but has those (lack of) shoulder bits. It's my fave. Also, anyone see that totally Mass Effect inspired loungewear at the bottom? #need
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:08 AM
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Well for starters, that's not how I roll. I'm sure that would still be the case even if I had a penis. If i was still friends with my same friend group, I'd ask my friends to help introduce me to people at parties. Also one has gone through the Tinder grind so she would know how to help me there. Crowd source my life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:04 AM
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My boss is the only man in an office full of women. You know how many accusations we've had in the past year (since he's been here, or actually ever, but I'm just using him as an example)? 0 (Zero) Because decent people exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:49 AM
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I apparently missing most of this week but that's okay, this place is always pretty entertaining any day of the year! Even when there are rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:45 AM
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Fuck it, I'm screwed then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:43 AM
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+/u/User_Simulator MyronBlayze
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:41 AM
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Doesnt even need to wear contacts, just needs BETTER glasses. They all wear the same type of glasses that look so terrible, while a nice frame can do goddamn wonders
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:36 AM
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You know that whole "queer eye" makeover show or hell just any makeover show? I want to start one, for 'cels, and we can go and help them out. Start with going into their house, clean up the rooms, hoarders style. Then a wardrobe overall, hair cut, introduce them to workout and skin cleansers and taking care of themselves, showing the whole makeover. Then get to the dating game, help them set up good profiles and help them talk and learn how to go on date and just talk to people. Hold their hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:33 AM
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Made me chuckle out loud and have to explain to my spouse what the heck this is all about
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:21 AM
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Can this be the new meme
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:18 AM
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She should post that Mariah Carey (sp?) Song in response to all of his posts/comments
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:16 AM
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I've gotten some wild things said about me and my spouse. Not just here, on other subreddits as well, but it's really hard for some people here to believe that loving, normal relationships were two people genuinely care about each other and have never/will never cheat actually exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 01:10 AM
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Height- I'm 5'3" and my spouse is 5'11". I kinda have little dog syndrome where I think I'm way taller than I am, so it didn't play into it for me. I think my SO would have definitely still dated me if I was taller, but he likes how cute and short I am. Age- I'm 24 and he's 29 (about a 4.5 year difference). It didnt play into anything a first because he didn't realize the age difference at all, and neither did I- we looked to be about the same age, within a year or two. It just never mattered or…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 03:53 PM
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Okay so for starters I wouldn't say I was socially unadjusted but I did have some troubles socially throughout my life, and I'll see what I can answer here .. Do they struggle to make friends? I had less trouble making friends than I did keeping them. Making friends was easy for me- i was always smol and cute and feisty and some of the other girls wanted to just pick me up and carry me and keep me like a doll. I remember in elementary school, one girl always wanted to play house and be my mom. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 06:28 AM
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Always forgotten about :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 06:14 AM
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There are millions of little things that don't always come out in the regular dating atmosphere that could absolutely break a relationship. Like, what if they are a sleep talker or snorer? What if your standards of cleanliness are very different, or even timeliness? For example, maybe the sheets are washed and the floor is vacuumed when you come over, but turns out they don't actually do that as often as you'd find acceptable. There's even silly little things. For myself, I can't stand milk bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:09 PM
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With the baby thing, my relationship is backwards and it makes for funny stories. For myself, I don't really care about having children and have no want or rush to have children. Really just don't care. I have a coworker who has been on maternity leave for the past year and she brings her little girl in- this is an objectively cute child, absolutely. And people always ask "doesn't this/she make you want to have kids?" Nope. There are no maternal stirrings here. However, my spouse can't wait to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:11 AM
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Shared with my spouse. He had same reaction as me: she was justified in kicking him out, he was rude. She's cooking a meal and he only has to buy a bottle of wine? If they went out to eat, even if he only paid for his half, it would most likely be more expensive than a bottle of wine. Bringing something over is common courtesy, whether you are a spouse or a friend. I never go to a friends house empty handed, and if they ask me to grab something I always do. Also to the commenters saying that she…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 06:35 AM
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I'm going with what white bunny said. Disgust/second hand embarrassment. He didn't find it funny, just unfortunate. Ah Well, I'll just add "hitting my spouse" to the list of things that made him laugh that a redditor thinks I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 03:33 AM
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Two things. 1) in places it is actually illegal to take pictures of people without their consent, even in a public environment. 2) I let my fiance read your comment. He physically cringed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 07:17 AM
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Everyone who is saying they would be fine without the wife having any other interests really don't realize how bored they will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:10 PM
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Yeah I'm Pacific Northwest as well and I don't feel like it's nearly as bad up here. It also definitely depends on the style- Western lends itself to being more laid back, being in tune with your horse and environment, English more uppity, being about perfection. So I think when people talk about crazy horse girls they refer to the English style where everything is about perfectionism and being the best. Where it pays to be neurotic- that's how you win, it's partially political, Facebook tear do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 09:35 PM
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Nope as white as can be, but I am. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 06:53 AM
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My fiance has vitiligo. I think he's handsome just the way he is, and think the vitiligo is interesting/neat/cool. He doesn't like it but I wouldn't have him any other way :) Edit: more info-he didn't seem to get the vitiligo until about 2 years into our relationship, or at least wasn't noticeable until then. We've been together 6 years now. Vitiligo is rare but seems to be a little less rare up here in the north- probably because of the lack of Vitamin D. Edit 2: I also have eczema although it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 04:38 AM
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YES. Spouse and his family are massive hockey fans. And he wants to watch hockey, but with me sitting beside him/cuddling and chatting between periods. But I can't be on my phone because then it's not really spending time together(?). So, I've decided to (re)take up knitting, that way my hands stay busy and I don't get as bored and can still pay some attention to the game. I've been making a cozy scarf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 05:35 PM
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We do and we also have our own computers so I can play whatever whenever. Another thing that can often happen is that the woman is pushed to roles of healer/support in co-op games. Which can still really suck, but when there are limited roles to play and the guy is like "I'm the better shooter/player so I always get this class" that can cause burn out too. Luckily that doesn't happen to me but it's because I'm terrible at healing- except as Maya in Borderlands 2 but that's because she's the funn…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 05:32 PM
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Nope, I've had my share of both. Hell, even my SO (been together 6 years) has accidentally done it before to me. We are both very much gamers, mostly PC. When BoTW came out, we bought it and he wanted to play it with me- Oh, but turns out he wanted to do everything combat related and I could cook/craft, the rest of the time just sit there and cuddle or watch. I was not into that and eventually we settled into a more fair game session.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 03:01 PM
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Every guy I've met that has said "I want a girl who plays games" has actually wanted a girl that was content to sit and watch them play. Source: am a woman who plays games.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 02:42 PM
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Breaking my heart here
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 09:28 PM
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It's not?😢
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 09:20 PM
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Dozens of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:06 AM
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I've taken some of those before! Why so many?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/17 05:04 AM
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No, but admittedly I'll probably never have to deal with it directly. I know one of my old coworkers bought her husband one as he was out of town lots due to work. She was quite frank about it and had a good perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 03:49 PM
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Similar for me except I didn't actually end up separating from him as we decided to work it out. But I was in an airport in another city, crying in the bathroom, realizing that I had no one that would pick me up from the airport once I got home, no one I could stay at the house of, no one I could rely on (if he and I separated). That was about four years ago though, I've fixed those and have friends I know I could turn to if I needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 04:15 PM
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What I'm more interested about is the parts that are outliers. What's it about 22-24 year olds who make around 100K that causes them to be in such a low/mid quartile? Are they maybe not believed? And same with 41 year olds- what's so special about that age? Honestly there is a general pattern but the outliers are wild and fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 07:55 PM
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Clearly OP is new, don't worry they will learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 07:48 PM
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I don't know, I feel like that would eventually feel demeaning too, and eould provide a pretty cynical outlook on any interactions with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 05:07 AM
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How about in general just caring for a taking care of dry skin? If you have flakiness or whatever on your skin, should moisturize. Smooth skin is nice. See also: SO has dry skin sometimes, so I will accost him with some moisturizer to help out his face/hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/17 03:15 PM
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Things about me that don't fit the gender stereotype: Video games, I guess? I love playing them all the time. PC mainly. Hate clothes shopping Don't watch reality TV (or any TV really) I like ATVs/dirtbikes/motorcycles. Like I don't care much about models but if someone like "hey anyone want to drive" I'll already be on the vehicle. Risk taker/thrill seeker. Ex there was a rope swing at a lake I was at that was pretty sketch and of a few friends (men and women, spouse included) I was only one br…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/17 03:14 AM
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🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️ My SO was a house spouse for a couple years and it was GREAT. I don't like most domestic duties and so he did most (not All, I still did majority of cooking and bathroom cleaning as that grosses him out) of the housework. It was great for both of us. Hard to afford a mortgage just on my income though :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/17 01:08 PM
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I like discovering new perspectives and encountering differing viewpoints. It's interesting getting to view the world from experiences unlike my own. Also I read about a lot of terrible relationships and it makes me so happy I'm in such a fantastic one (humblebrag?) Edit: it's also interesting how there is almost 200 comments and yet there were only 2 upvotes when I popped in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 02:56 AM
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That's why I am pretty sure my cat is a) a dog and/or b) special needs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 01:27 AM
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Your score is 31 out of 36. Your score is better than 82% of all participants. Wow. I did way better than I thought I would. I thought that I was being influenced because I kept seeing the word in the top left corner of the box first and then the eyes usually seemed to say that. My SO did worse than me slightly, he got 29/36 right. I think I'm more sensitive/react more to emotions in general, so that's why I may have done better? I'm definitely hyper sensitive to peoples emotions which is not al…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 03:15 AM
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Yeah, it would be /r/casualconversation 's "Selfie Sunday" all over again probably
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 12:50 AM
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I've asked to do one before, mods said no :(
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 08:21 PM
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My SO
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 04:59 PM
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Nah, I'm pretty generally the dominant one, or I'm an easy switch (fill the role as needed) but with a preferable for being dominant? Can't have control taken from me. More like, I'm an equalist and don't want people getting hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 03:54 PM
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Ah, so I'd have a high RMV with the number of guys that have decided they are going to marry me? I'd have a high RMV to them because I was someone that they'd want to Marry and not just have sex with then? I guess it's definitely a metric not really considered often that should be. Relationships wouldn't be all about the SMV, it would be about the RMV too, it makes sense I guess. Cool, thanks for clarifying :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:46 AM
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I don't think seeing my SO (or someone who I'd consider being my SO) get into a physical fight would make me attracted to them. It would probably make me upset/want to puke, lol. Not really down for genuine violence, and seeing that would probably just freak me out. I guess it's different under the "protecting" concept but I'd hate to even end up in a situation were something like that was even necessary. I think if he did get himself between me and danger, I'd probably cry afterwards and be lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:40 AM
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I made the first (and second, third, fourth, etc) move on my SO as well. He'd come out of a couple year long relationship a few months prior and wasn't necessarily sad and she was an awful person (also he was as crazy into me as I was him) but was quite hesitant despite all the neon green go lights I was giving him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:36 AM
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What is the context of parameters of that? Like how do you measure that? Genuinely curious, haven't come across the term before
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:03 AM
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What does RMV stand for? Romance Market Value?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 05:26 AM
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That's exactly what it is! No really. The blue pill subreddit was made to parody/make fun of the red pill subreddit. In this subreddit, it's more than blue pill is what red pill is not, and sometimes it's easier to flair that they aren't part of red pill than leave it unflaired. There are some general sentiments to being blue pill but there is much less cohesion, because blue pill is defined as not red pill. However, there are other pills too. Purple pill is usually where they believe some thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 03:21 PM
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Well that's why I asked for the clarification. You stated what you would not want, so I tried to infer what you meant/what the opposite would be. Yes I am a woman, how does that pertain to the conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 03:28 AM
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What? Is there a news story about this? I haven't heard if this yet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:54 PM
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This doesn't seem to make much sense. You want a partner who you believe will cheat on you and you don't trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:52 PM
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Honestly, bud, you are just giving us fuel for jokes. Thanks _^
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:20 AM
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It's nothing about the concepts being twisted and negative. It's the fact you guys push that every interaction follows those "rules" or is a particular way even if that's not the case. Literally every woman in this thread is saying that their experience is entirely unlike the way OP(wait, are you OP? On mobile so can't check) posted and yet you still argue that it's just semantics, it's just wording. But words have meaning and they MEAN different things. We can argue the definitions all day but …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:11 AM
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< Has significant social experience < Typically find teasing done in a playful manner unless intentionally done in a disrespectful manner (ex an insult veiled as a tease) < literally just asked my SO. "No? I do it because it's funny and makes you laugh." Wait, am I dominating him when I tease and tickle him? How about when I tease coworkers/friends? < understands that not everything is a competition nor requires subjugating/dominating another human
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:00 AM
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Because the different words being used give two totally different intentions to the actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 03:26 AM
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Cougars/sugar mommas. They exist! I went on holidays with a group once. They are wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 05:53 PM
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Blank screen, website not loading. Maybe because I'm on mobile? Any chance you could Screenshot it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 03:17 PM
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First link has nothing stating extroverts would know less about individuals. Just says "where you get your energy from." Second link- again, discussing where each set gets their energy from. Nothing about interpersonal relationships. The CLOSEST thing is where it states "extroverts like WORK that has breadth, not depth, whereas introverts are the opposite" Third link- types of activities each group would like more to do, but general consensus is just that no matter what, extraverts are on averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 03:03 PM
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Okay? Then where have you come across this definition for extroverts/introverts before?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 11:38 PM
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Okay, I'm pretty introverted. But making small talk if you have to and just generally be pleasant to coworkers is now being an extrovert? like, do you go around all day with a grimace and just grunt when someone asks how you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 09:47 PM
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I kinda disagree on your concept of "extroverts would know less about the individual as they know more people"and vice versa. Anecdotal of course, but all the extroverts know EVERYTHING about anyone and they are awesome about remembering all the little details that you tell them and bringing it up to "update their information" when they need to. On the flip side, I guess introverts would know tons about those close friends, but not necessarily better or worse than an extrovert.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 09:44 PM
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I'm posting under the bot because I'm not changing any views, but I wanted to add some information about certain parts that the people who are arguing/debating against OP are completely overlooking: 1) for women in the work force, it's no longer a "should or should not" option. If we take a look at the numbers, Canada (where I live) has an unemployment rate of 6.5% and the USA of about 4.7% (if you are wondering about the difference between, Canada counts from a younger age and also has more len…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 03:36 PM
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It's definitely kind of fifty fifty for me here, I love being exposed to different points of view and this sub is great for that, however sometimes it gets so toxic and kind of makes me sad. I was away from reddit in general though for a few months, I uninstalled it off my phone so I wouldn't be distracted from studying. Did an investment funds course for work/for a promotion. Seems to have helped because I passed the exam!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:30 AM
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Me too, as of today! (Yesterday? I don't know what day I'm on). What brought you away?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:13 AM
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I get this. My SO will say or do particular things that will entice me to say or make funny noises. WOW cold brain has me stifled. Anyways he says my "sad noises" are cute and sometimes I go really high pitched until he can't make out the words until he starts laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 02:12 AM
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Okay, so I've been mostly gone from reddit for a few months and I've finally come back and it's definitely interesting how things have changed. Openly telling people to kill themselves, that you want to light them on fire... wtf? There is a lot of hate and toxicity in here, holy crap. On both sides of the fence too. I guess everyone's just been worn down from all the fighting. Doesn't mean it's okay. I don't even know what to say about this all, really. I hope for the best possible future outcom…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:38 PM
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Yeah that's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 04:16 PM
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Well, my whole shtick is that not all people are the same, so not everything is going to work the same for everyone. Which is why concepts like AWALT and #YesAllMen (is that what it was?) Are harmful to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 06:01 PM
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Not really. I can understand how some relationships may work better if one person makes more decisions or is the more dominant one, but that's just not how my relationship is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 05:41 PM
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How doesn't that make sense? We seem to be on the same page. Equality doesn't mean rigid roles or having to be the same or do the same things. It means both being treated fairly and I guess in the end both people getting a net positive. One of us doesn't defer to the other, we make decisions together and figure out what will work best for both of us together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 05:30 PM
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So there are so many things I disagree with in the video, or think people (namely the woman in the video) is being narrow minded about. I'll give some context about myself. I'm in a LTR of 5 years. My SO is incredibly sweet to me, and especially at the start when we were first getting to know each other. Nice, but not a pushover! Plus, I'm fiercely equalist. If he treats me, I treat him. And there doesn't have to be a precedent, I'll treat him just because, and he to I. For the past year (and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 05:10 PM
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Right? "Just get a maid" yeah as if it's that simple to do. Or that cheap, which it isn't, especially under the assumption the maid will be doing all the cleaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 04:43 PM
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Well, I'm in a monogamous LYR (5 years) so this is all redundant. But I prefer verbal communication with some things but simple stuff like kisses, we just go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 02:37 AM
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What app do you use?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 03:56 PM
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I was raised in a "Yeah we are totally a Christian family despite never going to church nor actually really reading the bible etc" family. My grandparents were more religious but in the always going to church each Sunday but it never played a real big part in anything. However, as a child I was extremely religious. I'm talking having read the bible like eight times by the time I was ten sort of deal. I wanted to be a prophet of God when I was young, no lie. I would get rides with anyone I could …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 11:09 AM
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It's like a mantra that needs to be said. "Women are not a hivemind. Women are not a hivemind. Women are not a hivemind." "But why do women do A?" "WOMEN ARE NOT A HIVEMIND."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:44 PM
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I'm 5'3", so everyone is taller than me. I've dated people essentially a foot taller than me and that is just way too tall. My SO is about 5'11" and it's close to perfect height for me I think :) I'd be fine with him being shorter or myself being taller though. Jk I don't want to be taller.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 04:41 PM
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nah What a well thought out and insightful response.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 08:16 PM
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Or maybe she can honestly answer it because she genuinely knows because she actually has honest and open communication with her SO?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/16 07:42 PM
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But what if you literally can't feel jealousy? Dread game is dependent on instilling intense jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 04:50 AM
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We could make a test! One of those silly quiz ones
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 07:18 PM
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I don't really know. I think I currently have one person I'd consider my best friend. Then there a couple people who I'd consider verging on friends or good aquaitances (sp?), for example one coworker who had me over at her house Saturday and I had an awesome time and stayed there for seven hours. The most close friends I've had at a single time I think is about 5, back in high school, but usually it's 2. Fell out of touch with them all over the years though for one reason or another. I do have …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 04:45 PM
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Actually, I live in Canada and we are both Atheists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 11:35 PM
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Some people feel that LTR's > casual hookups. Not everyone has the same viewpoints as you do, the same priorities, or the same morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:23 PM
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You tell them! Man are they thick. "You aren't attracted to the guys you just said you are attracted to!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:22 PM
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Yup! Impossible to help them see that the world isn't just black and white and also that there is such thing as good and happiness in the world. Ah well, I tried. At least we have our nerdy handsome men :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:14 PM
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Nope, definitely not a gold digger- we met working at the same place (different departments but similar wages) and I am currently the primary earner while he is in school and not working. Definitely still completely attracted to him, if not more than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 06:01 PM
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Oh, and for how he (and I) look, I'm sure I have a pic on him here somewhere or on my instagram account.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 06:00 PM
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No, I am definitely extremely attracted to him. I wouldn't be with him if I wasn't. He never had casual hookups because he wasn't interested in having casual hookups, plus has pretty much exclusively been in LTR'S. Want to know a nice story? Before we started dating but after we were hanging out lots and spending lots of time together, we went to a party and I got a bit drunk. We went back to my house after and I proposed sex, which he turned down because 1) I meant too much to him to just be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 05:56 PM
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1) no. He has only been in LTR'S, no casual hookups. 2) I'm assuming no, on mobile so it wasn't loading. He's a white guy with glasses and although he's beefed up slightly since we've been together (five years and a good diet will do that) he was really skinny, nearly scrawny when he first met(was only ten pounds heavier than me back then). No, he isn't over 6' tall. Yes, he (we) play video games as our main hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:25 AM
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girls aren't sexually attracted to nerdy guys Huh guess my SO doesn't actually exist then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:17 AM
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By his comment, he is stating that he wouldn't have a set up like that at all. So there isn't a "what if it was you do x I do y". It would be negotiated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/16 10:19 PM
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Were do you live that there are no unattractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/16 04:04 PM
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I'm too lazy to go in depth so just making a mini comment under AutoMod. I'd be short for a guy (5'3") but I'd make it work. I think the worst part is my SO is definitely not gay so we'd just be friends. I'd hate not getting to wear makeup/dresses/etc (as often) anymore :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/16 03:06 AM
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Totally unrelated to the thread but /u/AliceOxalis I noticed that you (recently?) Changed your flair to TERF-RPW-TBP, which I guess is to help give a generally summary of your views or where you stand. However, from what I understand of these three, they definitely would conflict with each other on viewpoints. So what views do you share with each?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:59 AM
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It's different for everyone. Some people need to experience different people. Others grow together and learn from each other. For myself, I've learned way more about myself and how to be a great partner in my current relationship (nearly 5 years now) but that could be due to many different factors. Like age, maturity, length of relationship, trust, intimacy, willingness to open up and having an open, honest, supportive partner. So like you, I didn't need a bunch of partners to "find myself" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 09:16 PM
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Maybe. I find a fair few of my experiences to be very different than average though, so I wouldn't take my sample size of one as the standard and instead as the anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 01:28 AM
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Yeah but that entire concept seems to be lost on some people unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/16 01:26 AM
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It's kind of funny how some people are coming out and saying, Despite the fact that this is a Q4W and based on women's experiences and perceptions, that the women are wrong or that it's not creepy or whatever. Okay, I've been more lucky because I seem to come across less creeps than most I guess. Here are a couple I can think of though: •Using a false premise to obtain your phone number. Had a coworker do this at a previous job. •Lie about their age. When I was 15, I had a 21 year old say they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/16 04:10 PM
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Yeah really,that was a pretty blatant attack. Just report and move on I guess (tis what I did)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/16 03:43 PM
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What makes me interesting? My past. I get into it with people and they are always fascinated to find it about the things I've been through and the experiences I've had. People are always fascinated when they find any of it out and definitely dig in, trying to find out more. I'm definitely open about it all, but some of it is hard to talk about. I know how to dance around the conversation though, only discussing what I'm comfortable with and sidetracking when needed. What am I passionate about? S…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 10:49 PM
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Wow that was actually really fascinating to read, both of the PI's AMA'S.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 04:42 PM
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Do you understand the definition of solipsism?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 04:02 PM
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I know my biggest problem is I don't use my SO, or anyone, as an emotional tampon. I keep it all bottled up inside and try and sort it all out myself which can be hard. Talking it out and being able to discuss problems and get help with issues is helpful and really helps towards a healthy psyche, I think. However due to my own past issues I can't talk to people about my emotions or stuff relating to it. I wish I was able to,instead of always waiting until it boils over.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 09:28 PM
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Yeah, I never go clubbing and am in a LTR so most of the time I am hanging out with him and then other times it will be out with friends. So definitely few if any opportunities. Also, thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 05:08 PM
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Those are definitely hard ones to answer, anything subjective is hard to measure properly. Like, I think I'm reasonably attractive (pictures in my post/comment history if you care) but maybe I'm just average, maybe even below and I can't tell? Also I am never approached. Or cat called or anything. Could be due to a few things, like I'm never in a situation that would increase the likeliness of that happening. Or it could be how I present myself, maybe dissuading people from being like that to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 04:46 PM
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I wish meetup had a few more groups in my town. One is for singles (so obviously not for me)and the other one is a dead group that they forgot to update on. I guess it doesn't help that irl I am pretty shy with strangers so it is so hard to make friends and meet new people. Even a few of my coworkers I'm sure I could invite over (and I actually organized a thing just the other week actually and it turned out great!) And go from there to become friends but I just can't bring myself to it. Crippli…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/16 12:34 AM
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I just combined "workin" and "working out" together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 09:39 PM
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Whoops, I skimmed your post a wee bit too quick so never mind :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 09:39 PM
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I like to go and experience other perspectives, which is why I come here. However it often makes me sad, in general and for the other people here, that they have the viewpoints they do. That they were hurt or pushed away or shunned or whatever to the point that they believe that people are these one dimensional creatures who are pretty much objects in the stage play of their lives. They don't see individuals, just trends and they form self-fulfilling prophecies. They don't see people as people. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 09:38 PM
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Thanks for responding to this one! Would you consider yourself a homemaker then? Trying for kids or just works better for the dynamic with you staying at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 09:21 PM
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Yeah. I'm 23 and honestly this places depresses me a little, so I try not to spend too much time here. Also I'm relatively busy with so many other things anyways. Although arguing with strangers on the Internet is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 09:18 PM
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What does this nefarious plan consist of ?;
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 05:06 PM
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I recently( last year actually lol) upgraded my video card and I definitely need to get am external hard drive for all my stuff next haha . And the Steins; gate VN is one I want to play so badly! I loved the anime so much, it was amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:57 PM
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Same here with the last part! Honestly I lost most of my friends for various reasons (most moved away) but the big killer was never having time for them. So now I am restarting from near scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:55 PM
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You know, I've never actually blacked out in my life. Hell, I finally player Beer pong (and battleship beer pong!) For the first time in my life a couple weeks ago. I don't think I'd enjoy your life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:36 PM
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SMV is such a strange thing and impossible to rate objectively. Plus extra hard to rate yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:34 PM
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It's funny, it seems that only the above 30 people bothered posting their ages initially. I forgot as well because it didn't occur to me it may be important
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:32 PM
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What books are you currently reading and what games have you been playing? Also I always try to squeeze out a day for friends each week as well, it's too easy to end up busy and missing time with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:30 PM
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I've only played WoW for about a week while I lived with a friend, but for MMO I've put so many hours into GW2. I definitely play tons of PC games, maaaaybe even too many. I don't think I've played any VNs myself but I've watched a couple let's plays of them and I'm pretty sure I have a couple in my steam wishlist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:26 PM
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Hey, I'm proud of you that you are trying and you are figuring what works best for you to work through it all. Good job :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:05 PM
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Do you think bring a "five" has impeded your life at all? I'm pretty sure TRP would insist you couldn't even have a gf at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:58 PM
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What do you watch on Netflix? Also what does the "dex" stuff do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:56 PM
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What book (s) are you reading right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:54 PM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:41 PM
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I'm glad you think this is one of the best versions :) it's so easy to think that "the others" have such a different, maybe bad life in whatever way compared to you but whatever, we are all people in the end. It's fun reading through everyone's days and seeing how similar it all is haha. What games do you like to play?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:41 PM
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What are your favourite Pokemon that you've caught so far? I'm so happy, I caught a Dratini AND a Dragonair the other night! Although my Arcanine is still my strongest by a long shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:38 PM
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For once I'd agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:36 PM
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The real world is just so much more complicated than TRP would have you believe. I also believe that people aren't as Machaivellian (I don't that's correct.. ) as they think everyone is. Plus nuance seems to be a concept they don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 03:35 PM
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Hopefully you like them!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:32 AM
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I definitely know what you mean by structure making you sound. I like a bit of freedom to have the options, but I find I'm much more motivated if I do have deadlines and stuff I have to do at very particular times of the day. .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:30 AM
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I've only watched FMA (not brotherhood, haven't gotten around to it yet) of the ones you listed but I think I've heard of the other ones in passing. I really liked Steins;Gate, Elfen Lied, Deathnote, Darker Than Black... have you ever seen Knights of Sidonia or Anjin? I think they are Netflix originals and the animation style weirds people out but I liked it and the stories are great- especially KoS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:26 AM
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Thank you! I don't know where exactly I fall on the "scale" or whatever, but I don't really care either. I like looking nice just for fun ( and the SO of course!) And to look professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:22 AM
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Also link isn't working :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:20 AM
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Thanks for responding :) what anime do you watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:19 AM
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Glasses I'm out the door gonna hit this city?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:17 AM
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Alright so here is my average day. Pic of myself at the bottom. 730am-ish : wakeup, cuddles and more with the SO usually. 8am: get out of bed, hop into shower after doing some push ups/situps / other morning workout stretches and stuff 830am: have breakfast, drink some tea, read a book or read reddit. Just slowly wake up. 9am-ish: intersperse doing my hair, makeup, getting dressed, etc with reading some more. SO usually wakes up around now so he will join me for morning chit chat. He usually ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 07:12 AM
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Hell yeah, I genuinely wish most men understood this. I have a few I follow on instagram (men who wear makeup) and it's awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 01:24 AM
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<3 Also- it's evident that satire is wasted on you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 07:11 PM
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It's hilarious how they don't understand satire or "flipping the script"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/16 03:34 PM
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I'd say "Show Me" because what he says may not be exactly the reality, and it'll be easier to help if I know exactly what to fix.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 08:17 AM
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Oh, you meant it as a joke? Because you really can't be sure around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 12:40 AM
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Why? I didn't down vote at all either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 08:19 PM
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Have you ever actually met someone who was 7 feet tall? Seriously the tallest person I've ever actually met was maybe 6'4" iirc. Also pretty sure your averages are quite skewed on what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 03:44 PM
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Pem, are you insisting it doesn't happen because you've experienced a time when you've thrown a sexual comment at a woman in public and got yelled at/beat up/arrested? That's the only thing that makes any sense to me for you to so passionately disagree with other people's experiences. That you tried it once (or maybe more) and didn't get away with it, so now believe that every man would get the same treatment as you did. These things do happen. I know for myself, calling the cops is taught as a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 03:48 PM
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And men are more likely to cheat while married/in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/16 07:52 AM
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With red pillers you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/16 04:55 PM
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Ah I forgot women are a hive mind with no distinct personality and preferences, goals or ambitions. That no woman ever has had arm candy or a "hunk" they are with just for the looks and the physical relationship. I forgot that all women must know a guys income before considering even looking at him. Really though. Even if you pull back and say that it's different because a woman wants a man that has those qualities you listed, why wouldn't she get a Ken-doll while she looked? Has what she physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 08:18 AM
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I'm not denying that men and women are different, or even discussing that at all. Literally every thing that you give as reasons why a woman would be more towards an organic man could be easily corrected for in a mechanical model. Who currently uses more sex toys? I'm pretty sure women do. Why would they not upgrade to the perfect boyfriend deal? The point I'm arguing is there is nothing for either gender to be worried about because they will also get equivalent options available to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 07:35 AM
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But what you are describing is not a robot, and I'd even go as far to say that it's more advanced than an android. What you are implying is closer to genetically engineered human slaves, totally complacent. And at what point would they maybe have their own rights? But perhaps I grow too philosophical and I should bring it back to the main topic. Sex bots, in your description maybe organic sex bots. My question: what stops women from having sex bots as well? Your dream woman seems rather Stepford…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 07:18 AM
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Sorry, I meant "couple" not as a two people in a relationship, but just as a couple different people, like a few different people. As for the article, I can't really comment on that because it isn't something I partake in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 06:07 AM
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Probably. Honestly I like to try and be friendly and open and give everyone a chance to begin with- so I definitely would be commenting. Hell, I'm on bumble for my city to help find some friends and there aren't any women on it. I've done the "bff" section and now have the "everyone", tempting to just try and message a couple but haven't yet because of above reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/16 12:27 AM
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I am a woman and often comment on subs similar to r4r. Here are a few reasons I rarely, if ever, comment on men's posts: 1) I look for friendship and too often that isn't respected. 2) I'm sure my SO wouldn't appreciate me messaging a bunch of random men. I do have male friends but it's all about context. 3) too often I find the men can be combative or just plain annoying, especially regarding similar interests. Or they treat me really dumb and get annoyed when I call them on it/aren't actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 11:58 PM
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Honestly, guy #2 even looks a bit too lumpy/odd but the first guy is just scary. Whatever makes you happy with yourself though right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 02:06 AM
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I do the opposite, I try and be less feminine in certain ways. I do wear makeup most days (usually just basics for work) and dress nice but to men I usually lower my voice. I've actually discovered I can no longer walk in heels easily because how I generally walk isn't exactly conducive to it. I like to sit rather "unladylike" and I swear much too often. In some ways I wish I was more feminine but in others I'm happy that I'm not. I don't get much, if any, unwanted attention. Seriously had someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 01:42 AM
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Alright, I'll post how my day usually goes for a reference. I think I'm a regular female specimen at any rate. Wake up at 8am. Get out of bed, careful not to wake the SO/be too loud. Turn on computer, make sure towel is in bathroom, etc. Hop in shower. Get out of shower and dry hair with towel. Downstairs by 830am. Turn on the kettle and pop a bagel in the toaster. Pour some juice, assemble tea, put cream cheese on table, etc. Eat breakfast and drink the juice. Clear up dishes and head up stairs…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/16 07:32 AM
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Honestly, I love where I work right now. I recently got a promotion too and am in an even better position that suits me very well. I work in a bank, staff is around 50/50 gender ration (maybe slightly more women?) And I am a woman as well. There is no drama, we all get along extremely well and mesh great. I don't even know how to describe exactly what I do, because I do a lot of different things but simply put I fill in a lot of different places, answer phones, receive mail, do filing... lots of…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 05:14 PM
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Yeah I made the same argument as well, I would definitely consider TRP to be a safe space for them. Funny how they don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 03:45 PM
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Honestly I would argue that /r/theredpill is a "safe space" for red pill ideology. There is a strict narrative of what's allowed to be discussed, and any dissenters from the hive mind are banned. It literally says that Endorsed Contributors can not be argued against. It's a place for men to share their experiences and talk with people who are (supposed to be) helpful. Where they can talk about things that they normally wouldn't be able to talk about irl. TRP is just another safe space where peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/16 03:43 PM
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Yeah! Definitely agree about not being overly critical but knowing when to speak up. Okay fun anecdote/example from my relationship. My SO and I were in a city on vacation on the first year we were dating. It was incredibly hot and we were going to find the lake/beach, we knew the general direction to go. Halfway there (of about an hour walk) he starts to get bad allergies so we make a detour for a drug mart. After that we see a duck trail so make another detour down that. After we emerge, he sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 06:04 AM
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Or, what is actually encouraged: Compromise and communication. Exactly how much of either you are willing to give is dependant on parameters you set for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 09:00 PM
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But it was explained above specifically that because the measure of success is different for everyone, the best measure for that is how happy the situation they are in makes them. In the situation you provided, you admitted Joe Blow wasn't actually happy for himself, he was happy that his wife was happy but he himself is left feeling unsatisfied and unfulfilled. So no, maybe Joe Blow's relationship wouldn't be considered sexually successful, given that context.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 08:56 PM
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I've had friends in high school that were directly like this- and I wasn't even trying to set them up with some "omega", it was with people that were same SMV as them. You know what they did? Said no because they were going to "get all the hot college girls" once they went to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 09:05 PM
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Automod shows on every post in this sub now, to clean up top level comments so that they are direct responses to the question. Say it was a Q4RP but you were BP, you'd weigh in under Automod here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 03:04 AM
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I was wondering where the follow up was, glad you posted this and also glad you took the time and effort to make the survey :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 03:02 AM
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I guess my relationship doesn't actually exist then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 01:25 AM
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Really? How does that contradict each other? I specifically said that if any cattiness occurred, it was rectified nearly immediately by that same person, causing a drama-free environment. And I shouldn't even call it cattiness, the situation I'm think of, my manager was just being short with me and she realized after that she was being rude so she apologized.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 09:39 PM
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Yes, women can be friends with other women. If anything, most women are friends with other women. Also, I work in a place/professional environment where over half the workers are women and there is absolutely no office drama. None. We all have each others backs, chat with each other, take at least a mild interest in each others lives... all great people. Some are friends with each other outside of work as well, I'm planning on having a couple coworkers over sooner or later and I've been to other…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 05:28 AM
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I guess my Donnie Darko reference was missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 10:23 PM
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Why do you wear a human suit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 05:45 PM
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Eh, he said it's "like" arguing with a creationist, not that you guys necessarily are, just that your debate mechanics are similar. Obviously that BPer was some sort of religious and used a silly argument that seemed to make sense to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/16 05:39 PM
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What parameters would you require be fulfilled to have "empathy for men"? What is your definition and subjects related to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/16 08:50 AM
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Are you... are you really being serious right now? Following your logic, all men have one x and one y chromosome, so clearly AMALT right? If one man likes or does something then so does ever other man. If they don't then clearly they are either not a man or magic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 10:32 PM
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Because it says that literally "Not All Women Are Like That"? That women aren't some hive mind and different women like different things and have different opinions. Is this really such a hard concept? Or do you genuinely believe that every woman is exactly the same and if there is any difference you can't explain that with them being individuals and it may as well just be magic?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/16 09:29 PM
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Thank you! This is pretty simple and logical but seems to go over most people's heads when this is being argued.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/16 07:21 AM
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How long did you date before clarifying exclusive commitment? Eh, I don't actually know if we ever did have a talk about being exclusive. It was kind of decided automatically and without discussion I think. Did you have sex first? I tried. I got drunk, got naked and asked to have sex because I knew I liked him but I wanted to make sure we were sexually compatible before moving forward. He said no and that he didn't want to have sex with me while I was drunk especially for our first time together…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/16 09:43 AM
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WOW this is like literally exactly a couple friends I had in high school and their relationship towards each other
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/16 03:36 AM
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Never been super pretty or anything, maybe reasonably attractive but nothing special. In high school, you ask anyone to comment on my looks and the first thing they would say was that I was cute. Never the pretty/hot one of the group. However, I seemed to incite obsession and I would have to get quite mean to dissuade it and was mostly unsuccessful, probably because it was hard for me to be mean and I often came across as flirty even though I was only ever trying to be nice. I had a few boyfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/16 05:33 AM
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From the outside, everybody says I'm an incredibly happy person- always have a smile on my face, able to brighten up the room wherever I go, in general just a pleasant person to be around. And I genuinely aim to be that too. With my life, I think I'm happy, sure. Maybe I should summarize my life a bit. I'm 22 years old with a full time position in the financial industry. Bought a house with my LTR (4 years, also he is 26) a few months ago (the down payment being entirely from me). My parents, sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/16 11:37 PM
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This was literally going to be my exact response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/16 11:48 PM
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I think the biggest unanswered question is, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/15 03:04 AM
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There was a guy who's nickname was literally "Caveman" and aptly so in high school, but he had no problems dating very pretty girls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 06:50 AM
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But the hair is something they can physically alter and no doubt took time to actually do/maintain. In general I personally take compliments fine and in stride, I just have seen that comments about stuff the woman has control over go better than stuff she doesn't. Also, it means you are actually paying attention to her and not her just being a female body. Sorry if that doesn't make it any clearer :/ I can try and rephrase if needed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 02:03 AM
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Kind of the opposite of the question but I think the best compliments (best well received ones anywho) people can give towards women are about their items. That's something they have direct control over, unlike their genetics and some physical features. Comment on their clothes or their nails or something like that. I have a very unique amber necklace I wear a lot and it's always an awesome spark for conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 12:45 AM
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That there are double standards everywhere, and the people imposing the double standards have a disturbing lack of self awareness. Also, this sub makes me really sad sometimes. I'm much more of a lurker but I do read a lot of everything and I feel really, genuinely sorry for quite a few of the people on here. Their ideology and justifications for it baffles me, and I feel like quite a few people need a hug. People almost never come here to properly debate with the potential to have their minds c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/15 12:17 AM
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See, a big thing dread game seems to rely on is inciting jealousy. You want your partner to be jealous and be possessive, and your partner has to be these things to begin with and dread game amplifies it and focuses it. What if they aren't a jealous person though? It's not going to work. Or if they can see through it. If somehow it ended up being used in my relationship, the outcomes would be totally different depending on who used it. If I used it, it would be effective against my partner. If m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/15 07:59 PM
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Well we played five hours of video games together today, that was fun. Otherwise just telling him I love him and showing physical affection. Edit: he's a bit shy for pictures so I took my camera and took some really great somewhat candid photos of him and told him "this is how I see you, this is how handsome you are"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/15 08:41 AM
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Well especially considering it's over a decade away, 35 is really not on my list of worries. Same with hitting a wall. Beauty doesn't last forever in the first place, and I'm hardly beautiful at all (the best I get called is 'cute' other than by my SO). Also in a ltr of 4 years and I've been the one to pump brakes and say "No kids or marriage for at least a few more years" and honestly? He wants kids. I don't care if I end up having kids. He can't wait to be a dad, I'd be fine with never being a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/15 12:32 AM
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Yup. I'm hindsight it definitely felt a little like she tried to whore me out that trip / and other times as well. Ah well, long since out of contact with her and she got her grandkid (from my older sister)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 06:32 PM
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My mom started begging me/ insisting for me to have kids by the time I was FOURTEEN. Literally "You should have sex with that person and get pregnant! It's okay, I'll raise the kid for you so you can keep going to school." When I was fifteen we went to Mexico and it was reading break for all the university students so students all across Canada were there. There was one that was 21(or older? ) but lied and said he was 19, mom was too drunk to math properly the entire trip, pretty much paid me to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 05:00 PM
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Eh I'm young at its the same for me. I'm fine with anybody having as many sex partners as they want, but I wouldn't want my partner to have a crazy high number either. Luckily, my SO and I have nearly the same number of previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 06:38 AM
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Hey buddy this is the literal dictionary definition, I'm not twisting the rules. Come to think of it there isn't really a proper word for "treating as equals" (that I can recall offhand) but I would still argue it's a separate, sometimes overlapping concept. You can definitely have one without the other. Treat others as you wish to be treated is a fantastic way to see the world. So you respect women apparently, but also believe it should be government mandated for them to have sex (with people l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 11:47 PM
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Well, your definition of respect not equal to the literal definition of it. Here, from Merriam-Webster, the exact definition: a feeling of admiring someone that is good , valuable, important, etc. If you go deeper into the definition, you'll see respect isn't about just saying "oh yeah I respect everyone everyone is equal" respect is specifically about elevating usually a single person to a higher position due to admiration of some quality of theirs. You don't have to respect everyone and it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 04:10 PM
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What does he word respect mean to you? What is its definition? Because there is some serious disparity between your comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 08:22 AM
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salty amirite? And no, not out of their league. Literally someone who sees them as human. Clearly this is a difficult concept for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 05:02 PM
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Even the most unattractive women want attractive men. And would you not say that the most unattractive men want attractive women? Everyone wants to be with someone they find attractive, no matter their "number" or level of attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 07:47 AM
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That's what you don't understand, FA Women isn't about women who want to get laid (like FA men is about just wanting to get laid) it's about wanting to find a proper relationship and be with someone who sees them as more than just an easy lay to fuck and chuck(and of course there are women there who don't even get the time of day for that). They have threads on it often enough literally asking the men that wander in and start spouting that same rhetoric to stop and just listen for a moment, beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/15 07:45 AM
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With my SO, EVERYTHING is split 50/50. And I prefer it that way. With some friends, it depends but it usually goes I pay once, they pay next time, etc and while this still seems like the 50/50 idea it's less strict in making sure it's fair, I like treating people and don't like the resentment of counting every dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 02:40 AM
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You say in your OP you are staunchly against feminism, and now you say you don't know enough about it to make a distinction. Maybe, before taking a side on whether you are for or against something, you should probably research the subject yourself instead of parroting the opinions of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 04:44 AM
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I thought that was the point of the "other" section on that question ? I'm sure if the OP received enough of a particular fourth alignment, they would make sure to reflect that in the collected data.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/15 08:14 AM
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Honestly, I have no idea what exactly would be going against the RP AWALT or whatever but I'll attempt it. I always split the bill or go I pay first time, they pay next time, then back to me, etc. I love having steak at restaurants, but if I do I make sure I'm the one that is paying. Groceries, rent, utilities, everything shared is split equally. I understand/believe there needs to be some reforms on how certain Men's rights are addressed. I've had a very low number of sexual partners (talking s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 03:01 AM
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http://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3dw2mo/do_people_have_a_duty_towards_civilization/ct99dl1 this was the post that started the discussion originally. Not sure if I linked to the exact right comment though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/15 03:16 AM
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I bought my SO a "Sorry I was mean" cake too once. I have no trouble apologizing but I felt extra guilty/sad that I hadn't treated him well so went the extra step. To this day he remembers the cake (as it meant a lot to him that I did it, it was a custom fancy cake) but neither of us can remember what I was sorry for exactly to begin with. Whatever fight it was is long gone from memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/15 04:50 AM
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I made the same argument to people who were determined that RP would finally get banned: they don't actively harass individuals, DDOS or really leak at all from their own subs as far as I have seen. There haven't been any RP induced brigades or manhunts after specific individuals. People upset about FPH being banned say it was banned "because SJWs didn't like it" but its actually because it did all of the above, which are against Reddit's ToS. Posts about specific people with calls to attack the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/15 12:54 PM
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Well then you should have been monitoring my relationship because it had exactly what you believe can't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 06:12 AM
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Oh hell yeah. My SO and I have a deal as such that if it were possible to comfortably do on either of our sides, we would. And if anything it would be better if he became the stay at home dad. He doesn't mind dishes/laundry/etc and does them lots as is (he's had two extended periods of unemployment in our relationship and he steps up to at least 90% of housework when so). And he has said how much he'd love it, taking his (hypothetical) kids to school and sports and taking care of them. And I'd h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/15 06:05 AM
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