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I think she may have that medical condition, don’t remember the name of it but it’s just too tight down there, it gets better with time and use...
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:04 AM
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You don’t know what I did. I’m not clinging to a meh relationship, I’m simply not dumping a good potential LTR for an issue that may be resolved in a week or two. Outside of bed everything is great, good sex going to take some time, she had sex for the first time 2 months ago, she kissed a guy for the first time 4 months ago. She won’t pick up on scarcity mindset because she knows me well enough to know I can get other girls every single night. I’m not too “Moral” I simply don’t like or enjoy pl…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 04:00 AM
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No.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:44 AM
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Soaking wet, but painful, it’s getting less painful for her every time so we will be over that soon.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:44 AM
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She is a keeper, if the sex issue will be resolved. The fact that she almost cried and still let me fuck her was a very good sign, I do get sex when I want. She’s not that tiny, but that combined with only recently losing her virginity slows things down.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:16 AM
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I had my time with plates, I know I’m only 24 but I just don’t enjoy having more than one girl.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:14 AM
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It is painful, usually not to the degree she’s experiencing so far, it’s not stopping me from fucking her anyhow... I’m still in this since besides the blowjobs issue, she seems to fit exactly what I’m looking for.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 03:05 AM
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I don’t want plates, that’s just not me. I’m not gonna let her turn sex to a reward, I will not stay in a relationship where that is the case. Right now it’s only about blowjobs, she tries to please me in many other ways and I can see the effort she’s making, that’s the only reason I’m still with her.
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:59 AM
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Yeah, that’s so funny...
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:56 AM
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Porn is a good idea, but I think it would be a bit too much for her, she’s too shy to even say “condom”... Flavored condoms is something I did not think about and could help. Just my turn yeah, but the best option is to just keep working on myself and make sure I’m the best option she got, if she leaves than so be it. I may have introduced her to sex but I’m not showing her the power of it, I’m keeping her very submissive and I’m planning to keep doing that as long as the relationship is ongoing…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:55 AM
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Maybe I am being a bit too harsh, I’m already considering dumping her, yet it is possible she just need a bit more time. That’s a good idea, baby steps, idk why I didn’t think about it. Thank you!
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:29 AM
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Well, so far I’m successful in “training” her in everything else, I lead the relationship where I want and she follows. Dog training? Well, I do use positive feedbacks with her a lot, I realized it works really well with her so...
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:27 AM
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Yeah that’s a bit tricky though, any suggestions on how to say it? I’m gonna stop giving it myself that’s for sure.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:57 PM
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She’s not prude, she has no problem doing other things I want to do in bed, nothing too crazy so far but I’m leading in bed and outside of it. What we do in bed, besides BJ’s is pretty much up to me and she follows. Besides blowjobs she does many things to try and please me in the relationship... I naturally became more distant last time she didnt want to do that so I guess I’ll just keep it at that, she asked me if “everything’s ok?” I said it is and just stayed more distant, maybe I should jus…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 12:53 PM
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Thanks, that’s what I thought.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:45 PM
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Cool, must be fun knowing everything about everyone...
/r/askTRP05/01/19 08:44 PM
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She was a virgin and that’s her first relationship, she wouldn’t have let things move forward physically or emotionally without commitment. Of course we’re not long term yet but it’s headed there, she’s not a plate.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:26 PM
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Thank you, that’s exactly what I was thinking, a guy here was saying, 3 date no sex then next. Yeah AWALT, but people are different, as long as we’re moving further each date I’m good!
/r/askTRP30/11/18 08:08 PM
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So far I’ve been leading, kinda hard to do with zero experience but I’m faking it pretty well. She is an introvert, will escalate further and see where it takes me, thanks!
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:31 PM
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First of all thank you for the helpful reply. I wrote it before in a comment, my country is still somehow fairly strong on religion and values, plenty of 20+ girls had 0-2 boyfriends, not to say I 100% believe her but it fits the experience I have with her so far. I know I shouldn’t expect things like that, I guess it’s just my own insecurities... I’ve been improving a lot lately but I still have thoughts like “why the hell would she even go out with me? What’s wrong with her? There’s gotta be a…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:29 PM
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Not really the case with her, I would agree if it was a different girl. TRP and all I do believe some girls especially virgins may take a bit more time. My country is still pretty strong with religion and values so... I’m not saying I’m gonna date her for 2 months without sex and be fine with it but escalating further next date would be enough for now.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:28 PM
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We both have less then high school level of inexperience haha. If she’s playing it cool, well, it’s working, it shouldn’t but it is. I will escalate further next date and see where it gets us. Thank you!
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:25 PM
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I read the sidebar, book of pook helped me the most, I guess it’s just insecurities I still have to work on. She’s also my first kiss, she has no idea obviously but I’m also fairly clueless in relationships. Ill just keep improving myself and escalating with her to see where it gets me. Thank you!
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:20 PM
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I don’t 100% percent believe her but I have no reason to doubt it, It’s a bit different in my country, values and religion are somehow still pretty strong, many 20+ girls had 0-2 boyfriends. And just the way she said it, it pretty much looked like she wanted to run away and hide. I will get more physical, I guess that’s the only way to really understand what I’m dealing with.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:55 PM
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Hopefully that’s the case, it just kinda takes the fun out of dating her, feeling she’s out with me only since she doesn’t have anything else to do.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:52 PM
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Yeah I get that, I know some about IOIs, but from guy friends and girls I know, I keep hearing about girls summarizing dates, saying they had fun, texting/calling, she never do that. When we’re on dates it’s good, I can pretty much kiss her when I want and she keeps being physical, hugs/wants to hold my hand/kissing me on my cheek... just nothing verbal I guess. And when we’re in school she’s just distant.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:51 PM
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We already set a third date, my plan is to be more physical with her and see how far I can get. Sex may be tough, she’s a virgin, and a “good girl”, doesn’t mean I’m not gonna push for it but yeah...
/r/askTRP30/11/18 02:48 PM
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Went through the same thing, eventually realized there’s no point in blaming others for my own problems, there’s no point in entertaining negative thoughts, move on.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:30 PM
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It does sound very likely that you have low testosterone, go get it checked out. No harm in that. Would also suggest you to completely stop watching porn, you don’t have to go all extreme nofap but do it maybe once every week or two, and without porn! You will notice that after a week without jerking off, the urge to talk/seduce/fuck women will be stronger.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 02:30 PM
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I only recently lost weight and getting used to interactions with pretty girls, I’m usually very confident with her but at those situation I still can’t just be myself, I said it in a very nonchalant way, it’s still a shitty response but I learned from it. In a month the semester is over and I’m not gonna see her again for 6 months.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:30 AM
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Yeah, if it works out I’m gonna take her bowling, I love it myself and will enjoy it no matter what. My problem before was being boring, after finding out about TRP and starting to improve and gain confidence things are better.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 12:07 PM
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Oh haven’t thought about push/pull like that, in such a shot timespan, I’ll watch the vid. It does seem like she’s into me, but by now I’m so used to getting eventually rejected by girls, I’m just trying to not build any expectations and just try to have fun. Thank you!
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:33 PM
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Yeah, when she asked “what do you want from me” I gave her a look that pretty much says everything... just need some time alone with her... maybe next week, i still think like she may have been just nice but I’ll find out.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:27 PM
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Yeah I know that's usually the way to go, but come on, who goes bowling alone? I feel like it's gonna come off as a desperate attempt to get her to come with me... I feel that it is something I would say even before TRP....
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:19 AM
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Thank you, I actually really like that mindset, not chasing it, not avoiding it, just enjoy the experience whatever it is and learn from it. Already lifting and dieting, I look better every week. Yeah I do have a tendency to compare myself with others. Following your advice I’m going to try and just focus on myself.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:35 PM
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I really appreciate your detailed reply. I have some muscle but it’s mostly excessive fat. I’m actually not losing much weight anymore which is weird because I eat as clean as possible and workout almost everyday, but people keep telling me all the time that I look better. I will keep working towards improving my life in general and not go into monk mode, I agree with you as any experience is good experience because I can learn from it. Thanks again!
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:30 PM
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That’s what I thought, my plan all along was to forget about women until I’m happy with myself, but after reading the sidebar And some books I changed my behavior, especially towards woman, I’m very confident when interacting with girls, I do not let what I feel show. I’ve been getting some ioi’s from a certain girl, at least I think they are and that’s what made me contemplate whether I should try something or not.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 04:05 PM
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Thanks man, my main goal does not have to do anything with women. But certainly having women around will make the road there more fun. I am gonna make a move you’re right, it’s better then regretting it later and worst case scenario I will learn something.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:46 PM
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I’m also quite muscular, big arms but yeah got too much fat in the belly and chest area and in the sides if you know what I mean, I guess it’s better then being a twig but I just can’t help feel not worthy because of that, it’s a fucked up way of thinking but I’m trying to change it...
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:43 PM
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Thank you for replying, It’s pretty much the other way around, interacting with women makes me wanna work even harder... Thing is, this girl is pretty, but she’s really not high up there, lots of guys wouldn’t give her a second look and yet I still don’t feel worthy... it’s like I can imagine her being with anyone else besides me... I am gonna make a move though, I rather not regret not doing nothing later.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:40 PM
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Ohhhhh now that makes much more sense, I get it now, thank you! She did message me for the first time couple of days ago (we never texted/talked outside of school before) asking some random questions like I'm already friend of hers, I replied after a long time and was just very cold I guess, shes could have asked these questions any other person in our class (it was study related) so I have no idea if that's a good thing or not, fuck, here I am overthinking again, I'm just gonna ask her out...
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:19 PM
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What I said before where? Do I need to simply ask her out on a date? that goes against a lot of things I read here including the sidebar especially in situations such as these. shouldn't it be more vague? as "let's hang out"?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:04 PM
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Doesn't it come off as needy? I feel weird to out of nowhere just ask her out for a date... that's what I used to do before TRP... Shouldn't I keep my intentions more vague with her? Should I not keep the "mystery" going on? I feel like asking for a date breaks that and lowers my value...
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:32 PM
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Yeah, that's what I'll do if that happens, thank you.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:30 PM
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I do overthink a lot, need to stop doing that eventually, thanks!
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:30 PM
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First of all thanks for the reply, Now I'm certain I'm at least gonna try and move things forward with her. One problem though is that she lives really far from school and my place, so setting up a date is near impossible, shes moving to the area in a couple of months though. I was thinking instead of setting up a time saying something like that: "How about today after school well go sit somewhere and ill drop you at the train station afterwards?" She asked for a ride to the train station last t…
/r/askTRP03/05/18 07:29 PM
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I’ll sum things up next time, thanks for the reply, I do have a few questions to follow up, how do I escalate while keeping my intentions hidden?what do you mean by being 100% upfront with her, no push/pull at all? Why? Lastly, it’s the first time I’ve heated about social game, any good resources?
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:53 PM
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