Hey,

23 years old, started getting closer with some girl and I’m gonna ask her out, situation is different then normal though so I’m not sure what to say.

I go to school with her and only spoke with her 3 times, she lives really far from it and stays at a friend place after school day is over. Setting up a date for a certain day in the week is impossible. (4 hours drive apart, she’s moving to my area very soon though)

I read the sidebar and some books and it’s either say, “be mysterious, don’t let her know where you’re taking her, bluh bluh bluh...” and the other options say “give her a full specific invitation to do something with you” so I’m not really sure what to do.

Was thinking of something like that: “Hey are you doing something after school today?” she’ll say no or something like that, I’ll say “so let’s do something” then if she agrees and asks what we’re gonna do, I’m just gonna tell her to leave it up to me “something fun”.

Gonna take her bowing, haven’t done that for years but I find it fun so I’m gonna enjoy myself...

What do you guys think?