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| 25 | If you ask for her number and she offers Instagram instead, don't fall for itDude, just take her IG, if she doesn't respond, makes boyfriend excuse, just unfollow her and move on. Some say unfollowing is reactive, but I don't give a shit, she won't be having another follower | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 11:37 AM |
| 2 | If i am talking to tall girls and if taller guys approach the same group and set, should i leave? Because clearly, women prefer taller guys and i think, i become a block between them. I feel girls might be upset with me because of that. They just don't show it on their face.This applies to all kinds of situations where someone try to cockblock you or steal your girl. Rule number one, don't fight with him, or don't try to one up him. If you compete, you lost. Remember, that if you are talking with a random girl, you never know if it's her friend, brother, or someone else she knows. Also very important is to remember, that if she is talking to you and suddenly shifts her attention to someone else, that is rude from her part. What I do is give her a short moment to ha… | /r/seduction | 30/06/26 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Stats for Top GuysWell I would like to see how handsome/rich/successful men start conversations on OLD | /r/seduction | 29/06/26 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How do i portray myself as non needy?Only real answer to become non needy is volume. You can enter "buyers" mindset, but even buyer folds when the toilet paper's running out. Talk to multiple girls, even when you going out on dates. If one ghosts, you will find that feeling, because you be unbothered, you just text second girl. You suddenly stop trying so hard, when you know that in a couple of days you have date with another woman. Don't hide it, but don't push it. when she asks if you're seeing another women, answer truthfully, b… | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 02:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with your buddies just pulling more than you ?I have a buddy like that. He's a good guy, but there was this one time. We were having a beer, and we saw two girls outside, smoking with us. He said he liked one, I liked the other, so it was really natural. I came to those women, chatted them up, invited them over to our table. Smooth. When we were at the table, I was talking to "my girl" he was talking to his. I was hitting it up with the girl I like, but his convo somewhere got wrong and there was an awkward silence. That guy started to talk… | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 08:30 AM |
| 1 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachExactly... plus texting is just a necessity in modern world. Even if you kill it during cold approach, you will need to text, so why not cut out the awkward middle man. Also if you think about it, guys who are good with women usually don't have the need to do cold approach, because they are texting with multiple women. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 08:05 PM |
| 0 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachMaybe but I've got a pretty good reason why not developing this specific skill. OLD, Instagram are my primary tools and I can approach IRL when I feel it. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 02:26 PM |
| 3 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachThis. Of course you can approach, but apps help you get to the similar-ish volume of talking stages as woman have. You can talk to multiple girls, while you can do cold approach as a side thing, when you feel the pull. If you'd have cold approach only, soon you'd be known in your area as the "pickup guy". If you somehow wouldn't and you had massive success, you never had trouble with dating in the first place. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 08:34 AM |
| 3 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachI don't know, cold approach never worked out well for me. I talked with friends, I read stuff online. I learned that maybe I am not "present" enough. So I looked up what being present meant, nothing much changed. Then I learned that maybe my body language was saying something different than I was saying. So I worked on not having closed off body language, and nothing much changed. Then I learned that maybe I wasn't congruent enough.... nothing much changed. Cold approach may work if you are real… | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 08:26 AM |
| 2 | How to have a non-interview conversation with cold approach?You shouldn't expect half an hour/hour long conversation from strangers you cold opened. I think your openers are good, I love the one about everyone else have the same bag as her. I would use it to paint some sort of "conspiracy" make her laugh and when she does, make your intentions known. Tell her she is cute, ask her number, take her out for coffee on the spot. People know you want something when you approach them, even if it's just to pass the time. Especially if it's a man/woman conversati… | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 02:54 PM |
| 1 | I want to learn how to talk to women and be charmingMy best advice to you is don't think about what to say next, feel... It sounds like a jedi bullshit, I know, but communication is so much more than what to say. Your microexpressions, your body language, your tonality. You cannot master everything everytime at once, you become stiff, unnatural, sociopathic. But if you believe what you do, everything comes to place. How do you get this confidence, by practicing. Go out there and be nervous and fuck up. But your goal isn't to get the number or F-c… | /r/seduction | 17/06/26 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game”There is a point there to be had. I wouldn't do it quite like OP suggested, because I believe those kind of women have already seen all sorts of men, and staying in a conversation with a desperate chump can be a viable strategy to get more from him overall than in a single night. But it's similar. As someone correctly pointed out here, in strip clubs women are paid to like you and the more they "like you" the more they get. If you have money, enjoy yourself, but if I should give my two cents, th… | /r/seduction | 16/06/26 02:30 PM |
| 1 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)sure buddy, go get 'em! go try it with a good sample size and prove me wrong I'm proving you wrong already without doing this cringey bullshit | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 12:47 PM |
| 1 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)Dude, you replied to me twice, one comment got deleted, or You've deleted it, doesn't matter, it shows your mental state and puts your advice into much needed context. I've listed several objective shortcomings, and besides masculine bullshit you are writing, there is not much substance, but I'll bite, at least once. Why giving women directions isn't masculine? Because this isn't giving her directions, this is coping out and leaving the hard part on her. Leading and "giving directions" is callin… | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 12:29 PM |
| 2 | How to smash without taking her number (actual results, not theory)So basically it's the same dynamic as you giving you her number.... you come over, open, talk, suggest hangout, but instead you give her your number.... wow, truly groundbreaking. If she likes you, it matters fuck all who texts first, but now you weeded out women who like a little more of traditional masculine frame.... well done. Also, you didn't say anything at all about the "smashing" phase.... If I was a betting man, I would bet that yesterday you've hit your low point after Xth woman in a r… | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Volume will save youI say volume is anyone's best tool in dating. Women have it naturally, because men are still supposed to approach and that happens IRL, on online dating and even on socials like Instagram. Yes, the common argument is that the 95% of woman's options are shit, but if you get hundred times the matches of average men, you'll also find hundred times more better options. Besides, women ghost and flake all the time, so it's not like they are locked to a guy when they decide to talk to him. with men it'… | /r/seduction | 09/06/26 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Why Approaching Women in Real Life is a CheatcodeYou need to be in the mood, having the life of a party. You cannot keep this state constantly and when you're not in the state it's next to impossible. Next thing is, you soon realise, that it's just not worth it. Yes, approaching can get you talking to a pretty girl, have a little fun, but are you seriously that desperate that you cream only from mid convo and a promise of talking to her other time? You need to keep her entertained, you need to sometimes buy her couple of drinks, and even if yo… | /r/seduction | 06/06/26 02:17 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do I fuckLike what do you mean? focus more on your own pleasure and don't care much about pleasing her? | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 08:11 AM |
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