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| 169 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow. | Red Pill Theory | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 10:45 AM |
| 43 | BB, RP, relationships and depression | LTR | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 03:00 PM |
| 40 | TRP and depression | Rant/Venting | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 07:50 PM |
| 20 | The 10 Commandments of The Red Pill | Red Pill Theory | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 03:40 PM |
| 12 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies? | Meta | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 02:15 PM |
| 8 | TRP and Therapy | Red Pill Theory | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Rant: Why can't I change? | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/15 01:27 PM | |
| 0 | Continuous Shit Testing is akin to Mental Abuse, especially true in some marriages. | Red Pill Theory | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Nice Guys vs Nice Girls: it's a question of timing | Red Pill Theory | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 02:39 PM |
| 0 | [FR] My first hookup [NSFW] | Field Report | N0TH4PPY | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 05:19 PM |
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| 1 | How do you cope with feeling hopeless? I have no purpose and literally no reason to wake up. *Rant*Hi there. Your story is not that uncommon, to some degree parts of what you wrote describes me as well at different stages of my life (I am a lot older than you), and believe me, I see some of those aspects in people my own age. If you think that older people have their shit together, you'll be surprised! But this is about you, not about me. I will try to give you a comment with my perspective. You are correct about TRP being the one and only place where you might find honest commentary and man-… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/16 04:16 PM |
| 3 | What I've learned working for a crisis center...I second this post. I do similar work, specializing in depression, I actually realized that it helped me with my own depression; so I did it for quite a while, even after I beat my own depression, but then I got burned out. The "When I said I wanted to fix it, I meant help him figure out how to be happy with who I am, not change me!" is so very true, especially with women, young and old, they want to fix the problem but they don't want change. If you have any doubt whatsoever about TRP premises,… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice from men who may have dealt with this problem: How do I stop being so fucking angry?Things work differently for different people. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice from men who may have dealt with this problem: How do I stop being so fucking angry?This resonates with me, a lot "I hated myself for transforming into a pussy during my teens/young adulthood.". No more. I am busy, very busy living my life now. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice from men who may have dealt with this problem: How do I stop being so fucking angry?http://www.7cupsoftea.com/depression-test/ | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 03:15 PM |
| 8 | Need some advice from men who may have dealt with this problem: How do I stop being so fucking angry?Let me attempt something here, something that's about me, but it might apply to you too. I used to be depressed. As in Severe Clinical Depression and I didn't know. I had it for a few decades, yup you heard me right, decades. I was diagnosed in NOV 2014 and started therapy in JAN 2015, and now I am finally depression free after a lot of work. I am still working on it, and just today I was reading an article that mentioned that having a temper is one of the signs of depression. Depression is a we… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How to get out of the depression phase.Great post! I am also just getting out from a long period of depression. I would put Take responsibility Do not rely on your girlfriend/plates at the top of the list, along with "TRP will help you more than a good shrink". Now that I am a few months out of depression I look back and the major culprits were the toxic people in my life, and the toxicity has a name "Blue Pill Poison". I have severed many of my old friendships, I have a whole new set of people around me, and a handful of old acquain… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 04:24 PM |
| 1 | In an LTR, want out, but can't bring myself to do it.Sounds like the story of my second marriage. It did last 18 years, I started as Alpha-ish and ended up Beta and with Depression. I don't blame her, I blame me. If I were to go back, I would not marry her, for her own sake first, and then mine too. During the marriage I cheated on her, at times for the sex, at times for the intellectual aspect. I am not saying don't do it, I am saying you are a lot more aware than I was, think it thought, then make your decision and live with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/15 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on "I am still not happy"The reason why I was diagnosed with depression so late it's because for a long time I thought that I was simply unhappy, and my quest for happiness would solve all problems. Then I realized I was clinically depressed, I have educated myself and understood that Not being depressed and being happy are two very different things. So now I am working on my depression first, and at the same time being happy. Part of the work is to rid myself of all the false beliefs about life and women that i was ind… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on "I am still not happy"I have my physical health. My so called life is coming along slowly. I was focusing too much on women, I know that now, and I was also in denial about it. I am keeping on going, and improving, I have no intention to ever go back to the way I was, nor to stop my work on myself. This is a good sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 03:33 PM |
| 12 | Thoughts on "I am still not happy"Here I am: I am not happy and I look at TRP as one of the possible ways I can finally be happy. And while being happy is not complicated it's not easy either. I was recently diagnosed with Depression, and I have realized that I have had it all my life. And I have been BP for just as long. Is there a causation and/or correlation between my depression and me being BP? And in which direction? Being BP did't help my quest for happiness, that's for sure; nor it helped with my depression symptoms eith… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 01:56 PM |
| 3 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.Well said. TRP is like going to a doctor and discovering you have a chronic disease and being given a lifelong treatment: you understand the situation, but it's not necessarily emotionally OK with it. "I had sex with them but it didn't mean anything, it was just sex. But I love you, it's different. Women will never understand that when they say that it's an offense to the guy to whom they say that, and a praise to those guys. That is the fundamental difference. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 01:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.It feels good to feel wanted. It sucks to feel wanted for the wrong reasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 01:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.Rationally I didn't lose anything, I lost fake stuff, and gained tangible improvements to my life and my persona. Emotionally I lost something that only existed in my head. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 12:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.All planets hold a spherical shape., therefore that statement implies that all books hold a spherical shape as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 12:52 PM |
| 4 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.Women who get tired of the CC, after a while do miss the calling of the Alpha/CC. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 12:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.I blame me. I started Alpha I let them turn me Beta, partly due to my belief that this one is different, this is special. No more, and realizing that AWALT is part of the new me. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 12:44 PM |
| 0 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow."Models" is about PUA< advanced PUA still PUA, and not TRP. I am good on the PUA depratment, TRP is the next step up from PUA. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 12:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.It was my own epiphany to AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 12:13 AM |
| 3 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.Sad because a dream vanished forever, because it never existed to begin with. Happy because a new, more truthful way of living starts. So, let's call it bittersweet. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 10:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.No practically difference, dumping sounds worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 10:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.Jerk is definitely not the right word, but it's the code-word that my brain understands, so for now it stands for effectiveness and practicality until something better comes along. Most probably as I reach unconscious competence there will no longer need for a code-word. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 10:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.Unless one is one of those natural Alpha, or extremely lucky to score a unicorn, or extremely clueless; what I have gone through is Business as Usual for the average non-Alpha guy. I am not ashamed to say that this is not the first time, it has happened to me in my pre-TRP days, when I had no idea what to make of it. Having said that, I am glad it happened to me; I am reaching bottom right now, not yet there, but I know that in the next few days/weeks it's going to hurt even more, and I welcome … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 10:31 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.I won't be burned again. Just spinning plates, expecting nothing more than mutual naked company. Always looking for new plates and replacing older plates with new ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 07:09 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.It's how I come to embrace AWALT. And I believe that my experience is very common. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 05:59 PM |
| 2 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.It's proves to me, it's the latest one in a series. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 05:29 PM |
| 3 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.It's like finding out that there's no Santa Clause. Knowing that it didn't exist all along doesn't make it any better. EDIT: This just in, No tooth fairy either. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 05:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.That was my position all along. I just changed my mind, AWALT it is for me going forward, it just makes so much sense; and it's a protection mechanism too. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 05:27 PM |
| 5 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.At this point my concept of Quality equals getting laid with the least effort and without getting hurt in the process; with willing participants so that it actually becomes an equal exchange. I am tired of exchanges that are not equal. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 02:42 PM |
| 7 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.I was in Love. so, YES. Now I believe: AWALT unless proven different. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 02:32 PM |
| 5 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.Next time I hear a woman complaining that there are no nice guys and they are all jerk, I will tell her that behind every jerk out there there's a nice guy who has been fucked a few times too many. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 02:27 PM |
| 0 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.This has to do with me convincing myself of AWALT. YMMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 02:24 PM |
| 1 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.Thanks for the reply, I have read Models, and I do lift regularly. I know that "jerk" is not the proper wording to use, but I need to repeat that in my mind since that is what my mind understands. And right now I am in so much pain that I don't really give a fuck if someone thinks that I am an asshole at this point; I need to do this to alleviate the pain and to protect myself. There will be time in the future for finesse. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 12:52 PM |
| 4 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.You are correct in all points except for one: she actually dumped me. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 12:20 PM |
| 17 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.It's my epiphany of AWALT. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 12:19 PM |
| 6 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.We all need to read these FR, success stories and screw ups. But we all need to experience the screw ups first hand, it's the only way to learn. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 12:18 PM |
| 16 | [FR] AWALT is the hardest thing to swallow.It's a sad day because I stopped believing in unicorns and realized that AWALT is so fucking real. There's nothing anyone can say to convince someone else about AWLT, one has to get there on his on, and through pain. I knew about TRP, but I believed that this time was different. This is bottom for me, it can't get any worse. Somewhere I have read that when in doubt be a "jerk". That is going to be my new way of operating. And it's sad. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 12:17 PM |
| 2 | There is no greater success than rising after you've fallenI meant emotionally. Not looking to develop any addictions. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 07:17 PM |
| 2 | There is no greater success than rising after you've fallenIs there a shortcut to fall so hard to reach bottom? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/15 05:57 PM |
| 0 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?I see a but of myself in most comments, but you hit the spot right on so many levels! I was pursuing women out of narcissistic desire for validation because I didn't have a strong sense of self And then again I was a game equipped beta you might say. Really attractive once you get found out. Not. I will get there, slowly, painfully, but I will get there. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 01:58 AM |
| 1 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?I did. It happened recently. It fucking hurt, and still hurts badly. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/15 01:56 AM |
| 0 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?EFT tapping works in the very short terms since it distracts the mind. It's just like having an annoying kid bugging you. Then after a while the mind knows it's you and yawns, the issues remain there long term. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 09:48 PM |
| 0 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?Actually I have the book, and I have read it a few years ago. Great book, I have read more stuff since that. Still it doesn't address being overly emotionally attached. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?To be mad at Love is to say you hate pooping. Really? That was funny and profound at the same time. I have swallowed TRP, I am under the influence now, lots of side effects, but the metamorphosis is not fully completed. At time I find myself shutting off, at times contemplating and acting like a sociopath narcissist, other times I experience long periods of depression. Overall I am very confused. Thank you for your thoughtful post, I will read it a few more times to process it and let it sink in… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 05:46 PM |
| 0 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?I get mad at myself, I get angry at myself. Often it's my drive and motivation. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 04:28 PM |
| 0 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?"Reaching the deepest level of absurdity", now that's an iteresting way to verbalize it, part Buddhism part Therapy. Thank you, and nice username BTW. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 04:27 PM |
| 0 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?That EFT is crap. And that in a way is the point of my post, is there an effective way to "cure" emotional attachment tendencies? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 04:00 PM |
| 2 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?I feel the same way, with the exception that I never got positive emotions from my parents, which in my case makes it worse since I was a lot more co-dependent on anyone, anything, or any event. I am a lot better, I no longer have attachment to things like money, material things or things of sentimental value; I am OK with not letting myself be co-dependent on people in general or what they think; working on emotional attachment to events; but often I get emotionally attached to women with whom … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 03:59 PM |
| 1 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?I was thinking about THAT EFT crap. It is related to emotions. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 03:44 PM |
| 1 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_Freedom_Techniques | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 03:37 PM |
| 1 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?I, like many other in here, I try to NGAF like you do; it's a process that starts intellectually with awareness, and then eventually gets incorporated in someone's personality, I am not there yet; reading this sub helps a lot, so does talking by posting and reading comments. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 02:55 PM |
| 1 | TRP help: How to overcome "Emotional Attachment" tendencies?I am mad and angry at myself, not yet disgusted, I hope to get there soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 02:53 PM |
| 1 | So, how do I detach emotionally from a girl I want?I can relate to that, similar situation here. At first I thought I was going to comment something along the lines of Dude, you're Beta, not Alpha, but then I realized that Alpha-Beta is not an analog switch, but it's a spectrum; therefore even the worst Beta will on occasion exhibit Alpha traits; and the Alpha(s) at times might exhibit Beta behavior. From your post, my experience, and many anecdotal evidences n this sub and from people I know, I think that often when a guy attracts a girl with h… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 12:31 PM |
| 2 | The lesson learned: Self-actualization must come from inside - On the positive outcomes from getting cheated on and dumpedI am still thinking about your post, your situation, and my situation as well. I might post a FR as well. This morning on the front page I came across this video, again, and this time I watched it https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YLnHUdVBPtU It's very important for everyone to watch this, and hear her words and watch her behavior of hamster/denial from 2:25 forward. AWALT! | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/15 12:02 PM |
| 4 | The lesson learned: Self-actualization must come from inside - On the positive outcomes from getting cheated on and dumpedFUCK! You are a good man. Some similar bad shit happened to me and I am still nowhere near where you are. I have read and re-read your post a few times and I am going to use it as a cheat-sheet blueprint of TRP for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:02 PM |
| 6 | 100,000I was recently diagnosed with Severe Clinical Depression and I am now seeing a CBT therapist on a regular basis. TRP has been helping more to fend off my Depression and better my Life than therapy and all the self help books that I have read in the past. TRP to me it's not about picking up women, but it's a way of life, and since I am a man, a way of life is also sexual strategy, a strategy where the focus is me, and not anyone else. While I have been lurking for a very long time, this post hit … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 02:23 PM |
| -1 | Depression PSAYour statement is very far from the truth, and quite misleading. As evidence I present to you my post from just 16 days ago "TRP and depression" https://archive.today/TIlF3 where this very same community that you so easily condemn provided some support and useful insight to me and to the community at large. After all this is not a Depression sub, but if someone can make a valid causation/correlation statement between the main topic here, TRP and depression or any other viable topic, I am sure th… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 02:24 AM |
| 0 | What if women don't have higher rates of mental illness at all? (a tough pill to swallow for feminists)Add to the fact that men in general might me more in denial about having mental illness, or seeking help. That was my case, I have had depression my entire life and I have only sought help a few months ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 11:16 AM |
| 0 | Long-Term Relationship Game Theory: A Beginner's Guide to Managing Your BitchesWithout going into too many details about my life, I have to say that this post hit home run with me. I have put it in my permanent collections of frequent readings so that I can internalize it and have it naturally part of me. After reading it three times I have come to a realization: if you are one of those guys who enters a relationship as Alpha-like and slowly find yourself Beta, she played this very game on you. Related reading from this sub: You can be the gatekeeper of both sex and commit… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 03:59 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My first hookup [NSFW]I know it sounds fake, just like /u/SkorchZang, TRP Endorsed, says, hard to believe before TRP. I strongly suggest you try it yourself, if you have a half a decent body and half a decent game, go all in, no fucks given, try it next time you're traveling somewhere so that you don't burn your local bridges; for fuck's sake, travel somewhere just to try different approaches, games whatnot. Try it, what have you got to lose? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 07:57 PM |
| -1 | [FR] My first hookup [NSFW]Something very immature: SUP Tinder? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 05:55 PM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionI'm trying cold shower but not easy, especially these days in New England. I do finish my shower with cold water, but it's only a few seconds. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 04:07 AM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionMy therapist uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, that was one of my requirements when I was shopping. She's good, and helps by asking the though questions that nobody else dares to ask. I am also taking vitamin D supplement as well as fish oil (omega 3). Therapy, TRP and the book "Feeling Good" have helped a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 04:05 AM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionI have it, and I found it very helpful especially the first few chapter where it explains what Depression is and what it's not, its causes and symptoms. I am also doing the exercises and journaling and everything helps! | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 04:01 AM |
| 2 | TRP and depressionRidiculous? Nothing is ridiculous to me, I am very open minded and willing to try anything. I am very familiar with mindfulness having been practicing Buddhism for quite a few years now. I have ordered your book from Amazon and I will give it a try. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 03:58 AM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionThank you, I did shop around for a therapist and I switched from a guy (gay) to a woman; she's good for now but I do foresee switching to a guys' guy before the end of the year. Thank you for your comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionSolid advice, I try to do my workouts mid-morning but often I struggle and I end up going midday to early afternoon; but I am going to switch to First Thing In The Morning. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 01:32 AM |
| 2 | TRP and depressionI feel like I am in a movie, or I have schizophrenia and better me from the future is talking to me. Thank you /u/cagethepepper so much of what you said resonates with me a bit too much and a bit too close for comfort, especially the part of * I HAD to be THE BEST. If I had an opportunity to improve myself, I HAD to take it. Why? For approval. From both genders.* Food for thought! | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 01:22 AM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionVery good insightful comment. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 12:41 AM |
| 3 | TRP and depression"Sitting with a strong male and having him call me on my bullshit" very good point. My therapist is a woman and a gentle one, we've only had a handful of sessions, but I am ready to switch in a few months if I don't feel like we're making enough progress. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 12:40 AM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionI do workout, I do prepare most of my meals and healthy meals. I don't have much of a social life, part because I am Introvert, part due to the depression I realized that in the past few years I have isolated myself more and more. I wish I could find a workout bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 12:37 AM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionI just started therapy and yes I will do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 12:36 AM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionI second that. I have been lifting for 3+ years and it's the one thing that keeps me going although I need more help. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 12:35 AM |
| 1 | TRP and depressionOK, now I am curious: do you think your Depression was attributable to issues with women/relationships or to life in general? My guess is both, if so could you estimate a % of each? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/15 12:34 AM |
| 1 | The Most Important Lesson for an RP Male: You Create Your Own HappinessI've got issues, including depression, and while I am in therapy I am trying to do something along the lines of what's described in this post in order to beat depression and life a happy and mentally healthy life. There are a lot of similarities between BB and depression, I am not stating that it's the same thing, or that they are related; what I am saying is that if you believe that being a BB is a problem, putting yourself in charge of creating your own happiness becomes the solution to being … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 02:34 PM |
| 1 | TRP shower thought: Women's advice to "just be yourself" is probably the most self-serving advice of all time.Confident guys are themselves, so when women are asked that question they think about the guys to whom they are attracted to and... those guys are being themselves. So the unedited true answer is "Be confident and be yourself". | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 12:49 AM |
| 11 | Women are ChildrenUnfortunately this rings so true and too close for comfort. All my life I treated women as equal and always explaining myself and my rationale in life and in business, only to be confronted with the face and later on clear sign that women can't process logic, and act emotionally. FML | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Guys that do better with women after college than in college, what is going on there?Timing: I came across PUA/TRP after college. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 07:15 PM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionSpinning plates presupposes that you are a plate too. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 01:07 PM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionYou sound like me, just more advanced and enlightened. Thanks for the comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 12:57 PM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionI know my life is a mess right now, a comfortable mess in a way, but things need to change in order for me to change. Thanks for the comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 12:55 PM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionThat is correct, the marriage is practically over. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 01:27 AM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionMy marriage is not going well. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionI was in a dead bedroom in my first marriage; sex is boring in my current marriage; however me practicing TRP improved things in the bedroom with my wife. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 12:45 AM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionNice rides dude, respect. Without going into details I am getting myself busy doing something that I love, but I am making a business out of it, and you could too out of yours. Thanks for the comment, it is very in line with TRP, probably one of the best comments that I have read in a long time. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 12:43 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting yourself getting affect by stuffHow to become Outcome Independent using a Stoic trick https://archive.today/ifXO8 | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 09:52 PM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionI am with you, what causes the chemical imbalance? The best explanation that I have seen out there, is the "flight or fight" response mechanism, which is still very much functioning in us humans, an yet our environment... is not the same as the one where the "flight or fight" developed. Back in the days, when we were in danger and the "flight or fight" response would fire up, it was a matter of seconds, or minutes before it was over, either we were safe or we were killed. Nowadays the "flight or… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionI have come to the same conclusion and the way I look at it, it's a cycle: I must break the cycle. Beside therapy every day I try to get the energy and motivation to do things that I want to do and that are active and not passive, and that they are as social as possible. But it's not easy, I struggle it with, but I keep pushing to break the cycle. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 08:57 PM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionGood comment, thanks. That's exactly how I feel about my marriage right now, outcome independent, stay married or not, it really doesn't matter. For now it's convenient for me to stay married so be it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 08:55 PM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionSevere Clinical Depression. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 08:47 PM |
| 1 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionGood comment, thank you. I know I am not in a good place right now, the fact that I am in therapy right now is an indication. The present state is a transitional period, I don't know what my future holds, but I really don't care to bring much to my future that I have here in the present, except for my own self and my health; everything is disposable: wife, mistress, possessions. Just like the Buddha I am willing to give it all up if it comes to it. In the meanwhile I survive as best as I can, tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 07:31 PM |
| 5 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionBorrowing from your comment: TRP TL;DR: BP is the outcome of when you act the way women tell you to act. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:59 PM |
| 13 | What's the deal with sluts? A field reportMy experience is that they convince themselves that the CC period was not who they are, but the nice girl is who they were all along, they just took the wrong turn or something, usually rationalizing it and blaming it to some guy who treated them badly, or that's what everyone was doing, or I didn't know any better, or - my favorite - I didn't know you back then. Guess what? You didn't know me, but I am sure there was more than 1 nice guy who had his eyes on you and you wanted nothing to do with… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 03:54 PM |
| 3 | BB, RP, relationships and depressionI like your username, very appropriate. I don't have kids and I don't want kids. I have read No More Mr Nice Guy already, and it is one of the seminal books in my life. Thanks for the advice, it's probably the advice I would have given if I was not the OP, unfortunately I cannot find within me to give up the companionship and sex that wife/mistress provide, I am severely depressed and companionship/sex help. I am seeking a new plate to substitute my mistress, and while I do have an abundance men… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 03:51 PM |
| 79 | What's the deal with sluts? A field reportThis is when a situation like this turns into a nightmare: when a girl like this hits the wall and meets a Mr Nice Guy / BB; he would fall in love with her, and she'll think that she has found husband material. A Disney-like story will follow, she'll think she was on the wrong path while riding the CC and now she is finally her true self, the nice girl that she was always meant to be, and she has finally found her white knight. They will even get married, and live happily for a while, till the n… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 12:21 PM |
| 6 | Why it's Important to Learn how to Spin PlatesOnce in a while some Beta orbiters get some crumbs too (get laid), I know, I was one for a while, and I thought I was a player. FML. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/15 03:49 PM |
| 3 | The Sex God Method: Wow Wow Wow Wow WowIf you want something popular TRP and Red Pill related sites are not for you. Fox is popular, so is Cosmo and Huffington Post. Take your pick, choose wisely. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 06:08 PM |
| 10 | The Sex God Method: Wow Wow Wow Wow WowFor a shorter version How To Turn Your Girl Into A Nympho http://www.returnofkings.com/33304/how-to-turn-your-girl-into-a-nympho | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Books for Class?Why are you taking that class to begin with? I would refuse to take it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 03:13 PM |
| 2 | The Hardy Personality (Maintaining Frame)Hardiness (psychological) , alternatively referred to as psychological hardiness, personality hardiness, or cognitive hardiness in the literature, is a personality style first introduced by Suzanne C. Kobasa in 1979. Kobasa described a pattern of personality characteristics that distinguished managers and executives who remained healthy under life stress, as compared to those who developed health problems. In the following years, the concept of hardiness was further elaborated in a book and a se… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 10:32 AM |
| 1 | So... how does TRP feel about love?Love is an emotion. Live your life Rationally. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 09:05 PM |
| 3 | The 10 Commandments of The Red PillYou might be clinically depressed, even mildly. Good book to read: Feeling Good by David Burns. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 08:21 PM |
| 1 | The 10 Commandments of The Red PillI mean positive toward myself. Hindrance is covered under 7. Dread works. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 06:35 PM |
| 2 | What are some female social/relationship strategies that you weren't aware of previously?From Lover to Nester. Girl fall in lust/love for TRP/Bad Boy because all the reasons why he is a RP/Bad Boy, they crave and want The Lover with whom to do things that they will never tell her parents, and will tell only some to her girlfriends and only when she's drunk. And then, slowly, she'll want to transform him into her father, she'll want to nest with him, doing all the things that she can tell her parents and her girlfriends: cuddling, shopping, romantic trips, dining, movies, theatres, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Guide to ConfidenceThis helps me a lot with my struggle with Depression. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/14 12:02 AM |
| 1 | TRP and TherapyJack Gets It. This is the simplest and best comment. Thank you dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/14 12:09 PM |
| 3 | TRP and TherapySimple advice, but to the point. Thanks. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop caring for her?OP here: did she cheat on you? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 05:18 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop caring for her?I didn't know she was promiscuous, she hid that from me. The side of her that I saw was perfect in every sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/14 05:17 PM |
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