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| 30 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted? | Question For Men | N0_name83726 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:20 AM |
| 14 | Gaslighting 101 | STAY WOKE | N0_name83726 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 12:03 PM |
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| 1 | [deleted by user]No, I compete in fitness and want a partner with similar interests. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Older guys seem to be more courting and not so childish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?I’m 20. Age range anything up to 35, I’m talking to someone who’s 31 and very well established in life. The guy who turned out to be in his fboy phase was 23. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 03:18 PM |
| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Good luck girlie with that attitude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:57 PM |
| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?So do mine. That’s just an excuse lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:53 PM |
| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?At least I got them, that’s the difference between us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Had a few chads already wrapped around my finger, don’t worry about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Moved here from Europe girly 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?😂😂😂😂the fact that you’re even interested in a free trial tells me enough about you. Good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:45 PM |
| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?I’m not American. Google bikini fitness and see the requirements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:44 PM |
| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Sorry I don’t accept tips from girls who play Sims lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Well if you’ve won national bikini finals like I did, maybe 🤠 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:42 PM |
| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?You’re a bitter 22 yo female scared about your desirability. Go to the gym instead of replying to reddit comments lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?That’s the point here 🤷🏻♀️ not my desirability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Obviously, cause we met on Tinder and he’s a fuckboy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:33 PM |
| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?They? 1 dude, and he literally begged to meet again 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:32 PM |
| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?True, but why do you immediately assume I’m a 4? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?In a top model management firm in my country. Good try though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:16 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?No I’m not, I just categorize guys based on what kind of signals they put out. He’s either hubby material or fun times -material. If I meet a guy on Tinder, who’s good looking, hints at sex, I still demand he’ll take me on dates and only then fuck him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?You’d be surprised how many women get coached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?This is incorrect and been confirmed by various of my guy friends. If a man is in his early 20s, he won’t look for a relationship if he can get attention from pretty women. And will fuck every one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?I’ve been a face model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?I can confidently say I’m going for men who are in my league. And so do other of my gorgeous friends, but they still get used only for sex or get placed in the FWB category because the guy is in his fuckboy phase and purely not looking for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:54 PM |
| 3 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Thanks lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Sexual attraction doesn’t automatically mean i’m ready to take his dick inside me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:14 PM |
| 2 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?I don’t see the point in including femininity here as it’s the basic standard in my opinion. I’ve been coached by top femininity coaches in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:08 PM |
| 2 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?The perfect first date and the fboy were two different people. I’m still in contact with the first guy. I’ve only slept on the 2nd date with one guy who was obviously looking for sex. The men in the future will not ask about my past, nor do I have to tell them the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Obviously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?So basically I have to wait a few years until they get more mature and ready to settle down from their fboy phase? 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Correct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?So if a guy goes on a date with the only intention to get laid, when, why and how does he start to realize he may want more with her, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?And a fuckboy will see that as a challenge and take it, and then dump me later. Why should I make sexual promises when I don’t even know the guy well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:56 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?I want to have sex, but only when there is a crush developed from both sides | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:55 PM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Nobody pays for the girl’s expenses if you ask her out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 12:07 PM |
| 3 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Has only happened once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:51 AM |
| 3 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Then don’t date girls who make $5/hr and take advantage of your dates. I personally value my time way too much to go out just for the sake of food that I could order to my house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?No, because I know there’s no need to stress about that stuff before we even know each other. How can I know that I want a relationship with HIM before knowing him? I’ll convey with my actions though, that I won’t come over and chill etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Thanks for the input. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:30 AM |
| 2 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?I think I’m looking from the wrong places. Guys that catch my eye on Tinder obviously don’t look for serious stuff, and the ones in college are living their “best frat life”, shouting about who fucks more girls in one week. I do go out, but clubs and bars aren’t still the best areas to find someone long term. I acknowledge the fact that my self-esteem is low, and it’s mostly cause of some childhood experiences I had, and the scars that those left still make me unsure of who I am. A really distor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:30 AM |
| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?A basic dinner date is usually $20. How would a woman who makes $40/hr “take advantage of him” if they spend 2 hours together on the date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?How about choosing the shy nerdy guy This is my dilemma. I workout 6 times a week, have a skinny, fit body, take care of my long hair, nails, outfits and makeup every day. I’m also highly interested in self-growth, business, philosophy. And want a partner who meets that criteria too. I naturally want a partner with similar habits: works out regularly, puts effort into appearance. And most guys I go on dates with do tick that box. However, they all seem to be so self-centered or overconfident in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:16 AM |
| 3 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Don’t go on dates with men you’re not 100% attracted to This is my dilemma. I workout 6 times a week, have a skinny, fit body, take care of my long hair, nails, outfits and makeup every day. I’m also highly interested in self-growth, business, philosophy. And want a partner who meets that criteria too. I naturally want a partner with similar habits: works out regularly, puts effort into appearance. And most guys I go on dates with do tick that box. However, they all seem to be so self-centered o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:10 AM |
| 8 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?“just for the money/food” what money? what food? As I mentioned, If a girl isn’t homeless, I doubt she benefits much from a cup of coffee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 11:01 AM |
| 2 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Noted 🙏🏻 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Has only happened once, luckily. But it’s extremely difficult to see whether a guy is putting on a show in hopes for some kitty, or is he genuinely interested. How can I see that, then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:45 AM |
| 3 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?Can you explain more about your 3rd date rule? How many of those lead to actual relationships, and how can a girl know so early that he’s actually into her, not just for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Cool, but this a seduction subreddit. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 10:50 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]If the girl assumes you have options, that’s all that matters. And you can create that assumption easily. At that point the real amount of your options doesn’t matter. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 06:33 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I agree, I don’t like the word cute either. But that’s the catch, it’s ambiguous and creates uncertainty. Guys can use it to their advantage. | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 06:30 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Thank you. As I said, those who ignore this advice do it on their own risk 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 03:23 PM |
| 5 | I was told I have "no game"This man knows the game. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 07:46 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Sorry bud, this is what dating is nowadays. A cat and mouse game. | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 04:42 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]My advice is don’t waste your time on girls who don’t reciprocate the same energy. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 07:18 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]It’s not rare if you talk to a girl who’s mature and interested in you. | /r/seduction | 18/08/21 05:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]it comes naturally to me I was a “nice girl” earlier too. But I just got taken advantage of. Girls take advantage of nice guys too - for reassurance, compliments or just company. You don’t want to be that guy. I find her beautiful so I tell her I’d do this only when you guys are exclusive. Until then, just be lowkey and not too direct. Sounds weird, but too direct compliments conveys us girls that we’ve already got you and there’s no challenge left whatsoever. You can compliment her in subtle wa… | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Correct, women are different, but all these points are based on pure psychology and for women to find the man as the masculine mate, which is biology 101. | /r/seduction | 16/08/21 05:07 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That’s why I recommend dating women who are not that broke to spend hours of their day just for a free one meal. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]some people just don’t want have things to talk about then you’re boring. Go grab a book, watch movies, check out the news regularly. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 07:01 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I disagree. How can anyone know their intentions when they don’t know the person yet? Concentrate on getting to know her (like, actually) at first. Women know that high value men want to feel it out at first, what kind of woman she is, and does she fit HIS criteria. Of course; flirt with her and show romantic interest, but not more. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 06:59 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]There are lots of points I want to make so I’ll just break them down in parts. Don’t praise her beyond limits. It’s human nature for us girls also to want a challenge, a man who isn’t in love with you the second he meets you. Cause that screams “I don’t have other options and will take anything”. She will see you as a pet rather than a potential partner. Use the guide on compliments I wrote in the post, and don’t compliment too often. If she doesn’t keep the conversation alive, end it. She shoul… | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 06:53 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Y’all do realize that these standards women have wouldn’t even exist if some guys wouldn’t agree to them? It’s y’all men who are making it easy for us. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Being an introvert has nothing to do with it. I’ve met many guys who told me later they were super nervous and introverted, but they knew how to handle it. The guy I met, surely didn’t. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 12:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What have you actually done wrong? | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 11:21 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Of course it’s sympathetic? A guy who has the looks may not score the best he could just because he’s self conscious about something. In my eyes he was very handsome but after talking with him.. :( Nope | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 11:20 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I knew you were gonna pick up on that. There are already men doing that for me so of course I won’t go for less (-: | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 09:52 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Chill, I’m just giving advice to men from a woman’s perspective which has worked on me and my girl friends. Don’t worry about me doing my part, I haven’t had any problems with it. Feminine energy and tasteful flirting is definitely something girls should master too. However, I’m not going to plan dates or pay for dinners, but that’s only because of the types of men I’m attracted to - they just insist on doing those things. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 09:48 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]we think of attractive people automatically as confident Wrong. I’ve met many attractive guys, but when I went on dates with them, my attraction towards them dropped. They didn’t have any confidence which is sad. Also, remember that often confident people look automatically more attractive, even if they aren’t a total 10/10 | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 09:46 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]What about it? I’ve dated men in their 20s, 30s and 40s. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:49 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thank you very much! 😊 | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:19 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Thank you! So true. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:19 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]I never expect him to make all the moves. I’ve had guys like this (who did everything written in my post), and the compliments, teasing and flirting were also coming from my part. You have to realize there are women out there who expect good treatment and love this type of guys, but who also are ready to reciprocate and work for the relationship once they find that guy. I’m one of them, and definitely not the only one in the world. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:08 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Congrats! 🎊 | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 06:06 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Lol, why? | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 11:20 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Seems like I’m in the first woman you’ve met who’s not passive or talks in circles then 😉 | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 12:59 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]I’m not flexing at all. He’s the one who hit 😏 | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 03:37 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Nobody forced you to read r/seduction or click on this post. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 02:37 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Thank you stranger 💕 | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 08:31 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]I’m working on my attachment issues as they stem from childhood trauma. It’s safe to say I have anxious/avoidant attached, but maybe some day I’ll find someone who makes me feel safe. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 08:14 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]I understand your point, but what I’m saying is, if he was self-conscious and not confident at all, he wouldn’t be so attractive to me and I wouldn’t have slept with him. This has happened. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 08:05 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Why are you attempting to belittle me? Of course I’m attracted to handsome fit guys and that’s the only type I sleep with. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 08:03 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Well, I’d like to think I’m fit and reasonably attractive too, so we’re both in each other’s leagues. That’s more important. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 07:58 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Handsome, muscular, fit. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 07:53 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Just don’t show him too early that you’re too into him, but just be interested in him. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 06:27 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]I like to confirm that he actually is the person in the pictures. On Snapchat we send each other real time pics of each other. I can send voice messages, videos and call him. I like to get their social medias before meeting up to do some background research. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]We talked for like a week or so. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 06:24 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Yes sis I get you! That’s why you shouldn’t show him immediately you’re head over heels for him, but some guys just are douches. Better not to get attached too early and judge his behavior in person when you meet him. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 06:06 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]He did indeed. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 06:04 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Because I love men. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 05:32 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]IDC, show any girl attention 24/7, she’ll put you in a friendzone box. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 05:05 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Well obviously, he was attractive and had good pictures in places where I saw we had something in common (in the gym, hiking, mirror pic and a selfie). I don’t rigorously read every bio or check every pic before swiping right. Only when we started talking I saw he had a short and sweet but fun bio, good pics. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]We just clicked, and he’s very masculine which I like. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 04:03 AM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]👌🏻 | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 04:00 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]He’s 25, so no. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 03:56 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Doesn’t matter to me, just showing what helped him to get laid. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 03:53 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Yes. It’s not about the topics themselves or WHAT you’re talking about, but HOW you talk and what kind of emotions does it create. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]He got laid. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 03:51 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Just a regular fun conversation, asking each other questions and talking about themes we both have in common, a big one was working out. Joking about him being my personal trainer and stuff like that made it a chill experience. At some point he just said “lemme get your Snapchat” | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 03:51 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Don’t focus on the topics themselves or what to ask. The most important thing is the FEELING. How you make each other feel - so I recommend something chill as if you were chatting with a friend. Takes the pressure off of you and shows her you’re comfortable. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 08:17 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]This guy I met was amazing 🤩 | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 08:12 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Told ya | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 08:09 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]I’m sorry you deal with women like that. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 08:07 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Got many awards though 😃 | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 07:36 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]What makes you think that? | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Shows you’re busy and have a life. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 04:54 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]In fact, he wasn’t faking it. It was just the way he communicated, like we were two friends who were flirting. true personality That’s something I get to know on dates. Leaving someone on delivered every now and then doesn’t equal personality. don’t you find yourself disappointed I’ve been disappointed as many times with “regular” guys as with “seductive” guys like him. There’s no connection between these things whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 04:49 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]I don’t care. I’m just sharing tips that eventually got him laid. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 03:44 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]🥰 Couldn’t have said it better! | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 03:20 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Yes I agree! That’s a short and sweet compliment, not too desperate. But complimenting all the time or stuff like “you’re so gorgeous I wish I had a chance” is a turn off. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 03:19 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Thank you, yes, I didn’t mean addicted in literal sense, but rather in a way that made me very excited to go on a date with him. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 03:18 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Dick pics, dirty talk won’t work and will just get you blocked. But don’t be afraid to show yourself off in a good fit/workout clothes/flexing muscles etc. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:57 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]This is a great way to get the girl excited and intrigued BEFORE the date online. Never said I’d date a guy like this if he acted similar during the dates in person 😇 | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:51 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Obviously, but if you have a chance, take it. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:50 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Did I, at any point, say that me and him would be dating exclusively or that I’m in love with him because of these things? Just sharing tips that worked on me to gauge my attention. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:20 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Too much complimenting will position you in the “nice guy/friendzone” box unfortunately. The key is to ask questions, but not in an interviewing style. When she replies, continue the convo and just be chill about it. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:18 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]If she’s keeping the conversation on, that’s a good sign! I’ve noticed often that even though I like the guy and the convo, I might not ask him too much, but rather continue our chat in other ways. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:16 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Yes exactly! | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:15 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Unfortunately it’s human nature to think that scarce = valuable. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:15 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Exactly. We women like emotional stuff and he made me smile, laugh at his texts alone. You can reveal more about yourself on the actual date, the point is to get her intrigued. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:14 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Thank you! | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:13 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Scarcity is attractive to women. If you have your own life and we see that you have stuff to do and have an interesting life, we automatically want to be part of it. Regarding No. 3, I maybe worded it out incorrectly. Be honest, tell about yourself and so on, but leave that for the date! Don’t be too much about yourself and let her talk. | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:12 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Hahahahaha. Thought I’d just give some free game as the guy was quite impressive with his skills 😇 | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:10 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]2: Ask about her! Women like to talk and that’s basically the way to get us interested. Just keep the conversation chill, every day topics and such. The guy I used as an example teased me on how many reps I did in the gym and so on. 4: Basically don’t compliment her too much cause she’ll see you as one of those guys who are constantly complimenting = boring. If you stand out by not doing that, she’ll be curious. OF COURSE show interest in other ways so she won’t be confused, but you can slide in… | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 01:09 PM |
| 5 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?oh my what I would tell them What would he tell them? That he didn’t get some coochie he didn’t even deserve in the first place? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:05 AM |
| 1 | She is not replying to your texts? MOVE ON instantly.A good dose of their own medicine makes wonders! Ha | /r/seduction | 14/09/20 02:54 PM |
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