NGOSLEP Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays?	Discussion	NGOSLEP	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 05:45 AM
7	Would you guys ever settle because you can't handle alone, or are you okay with being alone, and rather wait for the right one?	Discussion	NGOSLEP	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 06:17 AM
2	What is your thoughts on couples having their social media profile pictures together, rather than the solo individual?	Discussion	NGOSLEP	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 04:10 AM

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–	CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern day Not the toxic one at all; I had to walk away from her by choice, after she was friends with toxic people, one who wanted to cause physical harm to me and I no longer wanted to be around that. She also let people manipulate her about me, just because I was depressed to hang out with her, convincing her I’m some sort of leech.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 05:17 PM
–	The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be there I really don't like being there, and I agree. The one boy I was trying to get to know as friends, and then I was making effort to meet up as friends (although he was gorgeous), and I thought were vibing so well. It was such a major turn off how I was making all the effort, and then he expected to sleep with me off the bat. It was creepy, he wouldn't even do a date. I was like, oh, okay never spoke to him again. And then you got the men who don't approach at all. I can't tell if I'm just really f…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 04:23 AM
–	CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern day Yeah, this happened with me. We were all teenagers, a group of 5 girls, total. Originally it was always me and my best friend, but I was good at getting everyone together and moulding groups. Worst choice of my life. It took one girl with BPD, to ruin my entire life, and demonise me, and I got alienated out. I still had my best friend in my life (we were like a pea pod, so close for over a decade) but I ended up burning that bridge after I was so uncomfortable with her being friends with the oth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 04:19 AM
–	CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern day Yeah, I don't see it as a red flag. It comes with black and white thinking. My take is though if you do get a sort of sense that the person is in fact creepy, and crosses your boundaries, then you can see it as a red flag, but I think that is more rare case then common. I'm someone who barely has friends, I went from having a close knit group of friends, and a best friend of a decade, to just one remaining friend. How did it burn out? It took one friend with BPD, to turn them all against me, the…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 04:16 AM
2	Would you guys ever settle because you can't handle alone, or are you okay with being alone, and rather wait for the right one? Taylor has never had long gaps, when she broke up with Joe, she immediately had Matty and some fans are claiming there was emotional cheating. She jumped from Calvin to Tom Hiddleston than Joe very quickly too, and Travis was only a month or less after Matty split. She has never had a long period of months (besides Jake Gyllenhaal) where she stayed completely single and even when she has she was going on dates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 05:17 PM
1	Would you guys ever settle because you can't handle alone, or are you okay with being alone, and rather wait for the right one? Of course but I met people who refuse to be alone and need a body to sleep with them at night lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 05:16 PM
1	I'm single because "they're all just intimidated" A woman obviously writes this. I've seen a lot of relationships break down merely because the girl was making MORE than her boyfriend or husband.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/24 06:19 AM
1	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays? Same with Tik Tok, etc you will see all this couple stuff, vacation, looking like they're thriving. Nope. Turns out it was toxic behind the scenes or those couples who are famous on social media and only staying together faking it cause their branding is about it lol. Knew a couple where this guy was up his own bum hole, toxic self obsessed tik toker. has a beautiful gf and hes all lovey with her, turns out he cheated on her so many times. she is so sweet but a rancid person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 08:05 AM
1	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays? Oh she most for sure was brutual	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 08:03 AM
2	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays? Yeah I avoid social media too other than Reddit I don't care for people to look at my life tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:53 AM
1	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays? Yup and she also basically tried to imply she was miserable too with Tom Hiddleston.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:52 AM
2	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays? Right, and it's similar to people who are TRULY rich, and who are TRULY not. Real rich people, filthy rich that is, won't be showing logos, brands, etc, they look like a regular person, with the most simplest and boring clothes and or attire. Just your normal Joe. Fake rich people, constantly flexing on social media which they don't have, wearing all these designer brands, etc, but aren't actually rich.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:51 AM
1	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays? You don't know that though because they don't post it, that said I'm not really talking about karma in this post, more so how curated social media is, and people who overly post their lives, or need social validation about their relationship or life one shape or form, aren't actually happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:18 AM
4	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays? Exactly, I still remember even like Justin Bieber once writing a post saying if you see those celebs who are happy or has everything, they aren't or something like that. Even Taylor Swift, she dropped a new song, saying how depressed she was an alcoholic. You'd never know that because her life, social media, and image she presents herself, is curated. And exactly, you wouldn't have to tell strangers you are happy, lol. You just are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:17 AM
0	Do you feel like couples who need to say "they're happy" on social media rather are the opposite, and aren't actually in fact happy and how fake in general social media is, especially nowadays? I actually am a firm believer in karma, and it happens any time, I learned my lesson when I wasn't a believer with how hard it hit me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/24 06:15 AM