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NMMNG_1/r/askMRP22/03/19 05:45 PM
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OYS #9 It’s been some time since my last OYS here on the sub. A man has to prioritize his time and effort, so I’ve spent less time online and more time getting shit done. Lifting: I have adjusted my lifting. I have had a series of knee surgeries in the last few years so my introduction to lifting has been unorthodox. Lot’s of trial and error, good and bad personal trainers, my own inexperience, you name it. With the help of excellent people here and at the gym, I have improved my core strength t…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 06:18 PM
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Validation seeking much? Look man, you're slaying like I can only dream of doing... but this is a shitty post. Good thing you did it here in the locker room and not in front of your wife.
/r/askMRP04/10/19 02:58 PM
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On point. "I's" all over, almost asking, "do you think I'm a whore because I let you do X and Y?"
/r/askMRP01/10/19 07:57 PM
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The therapist says she almost certainly has borderline personality disorder. You still have oneitis. Also, I would find a different counselor. If you don't understand why, read 1 and 2 again.
/r/askMRP01/10/19 07:38 PM
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Why do you care about what other people think of you? Do you even sidebar?
/r/askMRP25/09/19 09:13 PM
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My right elbow is killing me. I'm over-flexing my wrist (bench press). I'm also adjusting my OH press grip (I need a wider grip, just a bit though)
/r/askMRP25/09/19 09:04 PM
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This^ And that's why MRP is TRP on hard mode. Spinning plates, fucking orbiters, nexting low value women??? lol that shit is puppy piss.
/r/askMRP25/09/19 08:43 PM
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Ok, OP. Take this present and run with it. This brother is giving you unconditional love with this post. This shit is on point!
/r/askMRP25/09/19 08:40 PM
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All of this ^
/r/askMRP24/09/19 05:14 PM
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Actually... the OP should start gaming the sister with the wife still in the house. If anything, for entertainment purposes and practice.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 09:37 PM
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on the weekend. Exactly! lol
/r/askMRP20/09/19 09:29 PM
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Advanced MRP shit right here.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/19 05:59 PM
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Just accept your own fucking choice, if you're not sufficiently motivated to do something about it! And if you're going to resent it, then do something about it. You have the right to be your own judge. - WISNIFG Absolutely on point.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/19 09:49 PM
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Not a guarantee but at least as a competent captain you can avoid the rocks and safely make it to shore so the wife can get off your boat peacefully. On point.
/r/askMRP12/09/19 01:18 PM
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Fuck man, it's a constant struggle, good on you for keeping the beast under control. I've improved quite a bit but I still have some events of know-it-all verbal diarrhea.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/19 08:03 PM
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Stop my self when I try and sound like a smart ass, it’s not attractive. I’ve done it for years it’s like I need to have an answer to everything, I don’t and that’s ok. I just need to catch myself doing it and STFU. Stop correcting people when they get something wrong. Thank you for verbalizing this; I have the same issue. Absolutely on point.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/19 07:27 PM
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Fuck. Thanks for calling me out man. You're absolutely right, it was a bitchy move.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/19 07:16 PM
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OYS#8 44, 5'10", 165 lbs, 13% BF. Wife 39, 2 kids (8 and 5). Bench 155 lbs, SQ 205 lbs, B-row 135 lbs, OH 115 lbs, DL 205 lbs. I have to address my elbow pain. It's limiting my bench and OH progress. I have to book appointments with a physiotherapist and a powerlifting coach. NMMNG x 6, WISNIFG x 2, RM x 2, How to be a Stoic (HTBAS) X 2, MMSP X 2, PM X 1, TWOTSM X 2. Frame: My wife's uncle (only father figure) passed away this summer. Like I said here before, he was diagnosed with stage 4 brain/…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/19 04:42 PM
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Jedi level game. Impeccable.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 09:25 PM
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"have you done x,y,z? Imma remind you when you failed to do z." AWALT. I can guarantee we all have heard this shit. A(fk'g)WALT!
/r/askMRP09/09/19 09:15 PM
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Instead of answering questions directly go over the top until she reveals her intention for asking the question? Rarely a question out of the blue is a genuine question. AWALT. Do you think she was going to be satisfied with any of your answers?
/r/askMRP09/09/19 08:57 PM
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On point.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 08:48 PM
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This is good. Thanks for the idea!
/r/askMRP07/09/19 05:15 PM
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Not much you can say IMO. This happens often with SAHMs. Last time that happened I A&A'd: *As I'm pulling into the parking spot* Her: Park here. Me: STFU *I get out of the car to get the little man out of his buster seat behind me* Her: Can you get him? (as I am literally unbuckling his seat belt) *I look at her, grin on my face as I point the alarm fob at her pretending to press buttons* "How do I turn off the play-by-play on this show???" and start laughing while looking at her and getting my …
/r/askMRP06/09/19 09:21 PM
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She's not suggesting anything. She instilling dread 100%. Chick is RP AF
/r/askMRP06/09/19 08:49 PM
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I wish I could upvote this twice.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 07:55 PM
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Welcome to Marriage "The people growing machine". On point.
/r/askMRP06/09/19 07:33 PM
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On point.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 09:15 PM
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Gains/losses are all back to nothing. What you do from here going forward is all that matters. "Reset every day". On point.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 03:44 PM
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Stop DEERing. Lift Read the Sidebar STFU Those are the basics. However, I've read a bit on your history and your OYS. You need to read Passionate Marriage by Dr. David Schnarch. ASAP.
/r/askMRP24/06/19 03:33 PM
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Most men in their lives will always choose the blue pill. It's easier in their estimation, but what us that have taken the red pill and found our frame discover is that it's actually easier to be red pilled. Do you believe that now? Is that how you live your life now? Is it easier? I don't know if it's easier, in my view, it's actually harder. However, life is more "natural" now; it flows. It was so easy to sit back and be a little whiny bitch because mommy didn't pay attention to me. Life on th…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/19 08:06 PM
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Indeed.
/r/askMRP14/06/19 01:48 PM
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OYS#7 43, 5'10", 165 lbs, 13% BF. Wife 39, 2 kids (7 and 4). Bench 155 lbs, SQ 175 lbs, B-row 135 lbs, OH 105 lbs, DL 195 lbs. NMMNG x 6, WISNIFG x 2, RM x 2, How to be a Stoic (HTBAS) X 2, MMSP X 2, PM X 1, TWOTSM X 2. Frame: It has been weeks since I have owned my shit on here; I've been busy owning my shit in the real world. I don't have any down time, working, lifting, reading, playing, and resting. My days are full. My main issue has always been Frame. Revisiting TWOTSM and PM continues to …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 04:36 PM
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So what is best way to handle these 4-5 days. The answer is on the sidebar. Read "When I Say No I Feel Guilty".
/r/askMRP30/05/19 01:44 PM
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I started using the "meow" and holy shit! The cheesier and unapologetic you make it sound the better! For minor shit testing I defuse with "I got ya Boo, I got ya..." with a silly fake empathetic voice... almost making fun of her girlfriends. It works like a charm.
/r/askMRP22/05/19 02:56 PM
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So I’m out here and I send her a pic of me in the morning... I’ve been making major fitness gains and I look good. She liked the pic a lot so I told her to send me one of her body later... surprise me. She said “OK, I will! “. She never does. So, you're working out. So what? What do you want, a medal? Stop seeking validation. Keep owning your shit, STFU, and get back to work. I fucked up huge by communicating over the phone that I was annoyed with her non compliance. I have no clue how to procee…
/r/askMRP22/05/19 02:50 PM
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You want your wife to desire you the way you want to be desired - which is not the way she desires you - which is what has you all hot-n-bothered - unless you want to get all pedantic and say "desire" is different than "pleasing" and the two are in no way related - in which case you could just search for a mail order bride in the Philippines who'll provide you with a life of servitude, bent over your knee, and ready to do your laundry at a moment's notice. Spot on. It will never happen. (Rationa…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 06:56 PM
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So right there, we had sex....during which I blew past some of her prior boundaries and she was hot for it all, not a word or even hesitation. And this continued in the immediate aftermath. I'm under no impression that this is the new normal. Hysterical bonding, for sure. But it was fun to play in this end of the pool with her. For a bit, anyway. If I were to describe what I want vs what I'm getting, you wouldn't be able to tell the difference. I can't quite put my finger on it. The desire seems…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 06:52 PM
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How do you deal with anger? Do you get angry at the sky when it rains? Do you lose your composure yell at the wind when you leave a book open outside and the breeze flips the pages? When you get angry, you don’t make a scene. You STFU and go take it out on the iron. Iron doesn’t talk back, she never lies. Iron is your best friend. Iron gives you back as much as you give her.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 12:07 AM
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Impeccable comment. Thank you for shearing this.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 07:44 PM
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So much wrapped in this comment. Impeccable.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/19 10:09 AM
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​Because your incongruent Silent But Stupid alpha routine is leaving her uncertain about what you want and your commitment. Thank you for your comment, MITW. It is true.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 07:09 PM
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Are you sure you read it? Yes. It hit me like a ton of bricks because it was like a mirror where I could see so many of my shortcomings; thus, I'm reading it again, and again, until it doesn't hurt anymore. Thank you for taking the time to comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 07:07 PM
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OYS#6 ​ 43, 5'10", 160 lbs, 15% BF. Wife 39, 2 kids (7 and 4). Bench 155 lbs, Squat 155 lbs, B-row 135 lbs, OH 90 lbs, DL 175 lbs. Thank you, donmcde for the great tips on creatine and protein intake. I adjusted my intake, I feel amazing and my lifts are better. NMMNG x 6, WISNIFG x 2, RM x 2, How to be a Stoic (HTBAS) X 2, MMSP X 2, PM X 1, TWOTSM X 2. Frame: ​ Shout out to Persaeus. Thank you for taking the time brother. Your insight has been extremely effective these last few weeks. TWOTSM wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/19 02:45 PM
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Absolutely on point. It's part of the shit I have to own this week (OYS coming). She has deferred almost any decision to me for the last 3 weeks since she came back from her trip. Whenever I say something like "I don't know" or "either is fine" she gets quiet, not bitchy but definitely not content. It became obvious by the 2nd time. On the other hand, if I make a decision, right or wrong, she would say "right? do you think? yeah, you're right". The outcome is literally meaningless after that.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 02:46 PM
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This is great insight. I'm starting to experience this as well. Now I have my formerly very harpy wife texting me from the mall asking if I like the shoes she's getting for our girl, or what do I want for dinner... at 11 am.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 01:31 PM
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Read them again. You skipped very important basic material. No More Mr. Nice Guy. When I Say No I Feel Guilty You have so much work to do. So much.
/r/askMRP08/04/19 08:55 PM
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Under the same argument, some researchers have concluded that listening to audio material while doing another engaging activity actually "engraves" the material on the visuals or actions we perform while listening. Kinda the same way a song can transport you to another time and place in your memory. Granted, these things are different for everyone.
/r/askMRP04/04/19 03:05 PM
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When I remove it, should I keep myself out of the house or is just doing separate activities and not engaging with her it? Do you seriously want us to believe you've read the sidebar? ​
/r/askMRP04/04/19 01:15 PM
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So new account because new to MRP which is my new focus I guess... You "guess". Interesting. I got a question that I really need some help on and I can’t see anything in the sidebar on it. It’s a pretty basic question, so point me in the right direction if you can, or better yet just tell me. Read the sidebar. Stop lying to us and yourself. Stop being a lazy turd and do the work. This whole thing sounds like a victim puke and I would suspect that there's a lot of shit to be owned that you're lea…
/r/askMRP03/04/19 02:08 PM
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yup
/r/askMRP03/04/19 01:26 PM
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Savage. /s
/r/askMRP29/03/19 09:45 PM
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It doesn’t matter what I think.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/19 05:24 AM
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OP, you have no idea how important, loving, and life changing, this post is. LISTEN.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 07:47 PM
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That whole paragraph sounded like a huge victim puke. This would be her dream come true. She would get all the leisure time possible and still get all the cherished family time that's so important to her without any chores at all and none of that yucky sex she hates so much. What do you get out of sex, validation? punishing her? It doesn't sound like you enjoy it, so I just don't get why you do it and then complain about it. It literally sounds like you want to punish your wife by fucking her. D…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 07:24 PM
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Adding value to my life? She literally does two things for me. Starfish sex and laundry, and she sucks at doing laundry. I've fixed these 2 things. I do laundry now. All of it. If I was single I would have to do it, so I do it, bedding, kids clothes, my clothes, and her clothes. Why do I do her laundry? because leaving only her laundry out is petty. Awesome Men are not petty. Starfish sex. I stopped duty sex for 6 mo and started sex again last week. I didn't like duty sex, so... why was I doing …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 06:03 PM
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Thank you for the feedback. I'll look into these items some more.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 05:50 PM
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For as long as I've been with my wife, I've never pulled the trigger to make a move in situations where that move was deserved. Examples include, 5am at french girls house. dancing at various nightclubs with various women, Vegas day club with black chick, going back to a hotel room, etc. Love flirting, love the game, don't mind the lack of escalation. I chalk those reasons from being a pussy to blue pill ideals to people who know me + wife were around. Flirting without fucking...
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/19 02:15 PM
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As a man, when I fail or feel inadequate I am able to introspect and figure out how to improve myself. Women are incapable of introspection due to their nature and attack instead of improve. If it is the "mans fault" in their mind, they hamster and relieve their guilt and feelings of failure. Women don't own their shit but pass the buck I want to frame this differently. When women respond (almost always emotionally), they are not coming from a rational place, we know this. They are the weather, …
/r/askMRP27/03/19 03:36 PM
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OYS#5 My shit: 43, 5'10", 160 lbs, 15% BF. Bench 155 X 5, Squat 110 lbs x 5, B-row 125 lbs x 5. I've been having issues progressing so I'm actively going through the Strong lifts sub. Shout out to JudgeDoom69. Thank you! You brought up a few items that I neglected from my routine: "Are you getting enough protein?" No, I wasn't. My diet has been pretty clean for years but with my new emphasis on lifting, I was lacking protein in my diet. I increased my protein intake to 300-400 grams per day via …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 08:33 PM
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This Man speaks the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 04:38 PM
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This is what stoicism looks like. Helluva post. What I did, instead of focusing on this one person from my past, I registered on a national marrow system, so hopefully she will be but one of multiple people I help, because it’s what I choose to do. It’s altruism from my mental point of origin. Talk about OI. You Sr. have chosen to add value, literally at your expense. This is Frame, folks. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 07:52 PM
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So, her pulling a knife on you and your kid was NOT a deal-breaker for you? If you're still together, do you have any boundaries? I don't know you or your situation, but from the outside, you have not established the most basic boundaries for human interactions; like not pulling knives on your family. Again, that would be a pretty hard one for most people to "get passed".
/r/askMRP25/03/19 07:42 PM
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Horse Hockey! Learn to forgive yourself and then to love yourself and the "love" for your wife will return. It will likely be a very new kind of love- one that she did not have for you and you did not have for her. Thank you. I needed to read this.
/r/askMRP25/03/19 07:29 PM
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This is an absolute gem of a post. Thank you.
/r/askMRP25/03/19 07:12 PM
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Jesus Christ. That’s a masterpiece.
/r/askMRP23/03/19 02:11 AM
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Thank you. I appreciate this feedback. It was my mistake assuming most folks here would be familiar with the idea I was trying to convey. I did not provide context here. ​
/r/askMRP22/03/19 08:53 PM
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Exactly! And that's the point. She's not unreasonable. It's a reminder that no woman will ever love a man in the way he expects to be loved (TRM). AWALT
/r/askMRP22/03/19 07:13 PM
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Given that you seem to be under regular medical supervision, I'll assume any chemical unbalance is getting sorted out. Now, you need to deal with reality. That's your job. Have you read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" yet? If not, stop everything and get a copy. YOU MUST DO THIS. I took a look at your posting history... STOP WASTING YOUR FUCKING LIFE on video games. Sleep more. Please don't lie about your "lifting". You don't lift fuck on 5 hours of sleep, medication, and video games.
/r/askMRP22/03/19 02:29 PM
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You're speaking of things you know nothing about.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 01:44 PM
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“Building a Man” this fall on ABC...
/r/askMRP22/03/19 06:13 AM
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Stop DEERing. You're butt hurt because you got called out on your weakness. Faggot.
/r/askMRP21/03/19 06:35 PM
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This comment runs deep. Painfully deep.
/r/askMRP21/03/19 06:14 PM
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Ala Corey Worthington (TRM ref.)
/r/askMRP21/03/19 04:56 PM
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I'm not sure if you're trolling or serious. If you had in fact read NMMNG, TRM, and MMSLP, you wouldn't write this POS. GTFO, there are Men at work here.
/r/askMRP21/03/19 04:44 PM
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Took a long time to get to where you are now, you can't fix it in a few months. I repeat this to myself at least 10 times a day.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 03:13 PM
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I now operate on "If I was single... it still needs to be done" This is my rule as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:43 PM
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During the week when I come back home, we always spend all our time together.. can't seem to just be in another room without her complaining that we never spend time together. I give her all my free time and I have to learn to not engage her but I'm having trouble to keep doing what I want without creating a drama everytime. Are you on your phone while with her? NO CELL PHONES. Phones are a tool to get shit done, we've become men children that need to be "entertained" all the time. Need entertai…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:27 PM
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Man, are you having any fun? of any kind?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 02:13 PM
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MISSION: bring value — I bring it for somebody every day, somehow. I like this mission statement. Short and actionable.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 01:59 PM
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On point.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 08:21 PM
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This. I'm all over the map. I have to go through the complete check list. As I keep lifting, weaknesses in my routine are becoming more evident. I will have to get back to you on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 06:31 PM
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STFU
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 06:26 PM
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OYS#4 My shit: 43, 5'10", 160 lbs, 15% BF. Bench 150 X 4, Squat 90 lbs x 5, B-row 110 lbs x 5. I'm having issues progressing so I'm actively going through the Strong lifts sub. wife, 2 kids (7-4). NMMNG x 6, WISNIFG x 2, RM x 2, How to be a Stoic (HTBAS) X 2, MMSP X 2 Frame: Slowly becoming a Man... at 43. Achieving an outcome independent mind Frame has been probably the single most difficult part of this process. I can see the progress, the hamster is on a short leash, but still present at leas…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 04:46 PM
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Acta non verba
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/19 09:04 PM
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DEER
/r/askMRP06/03/19 07:24 PM
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She says that sometimes I just wanna fight with her on random topics and conversations just to show her I disagree. My thoughts: No captain wants to fight with the first officer over if that over there is a bird or a whale. There are more important things. However, she is better at me at debating, so at the end I either lose the point of the discussion or I am just tired about rambling. I will approach this more with the socratic method and more willing to learn. NEVER debate a woman. What was y…
/r/askMRP05/03/19 07:15 PM
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TRM was a book of filler posts. I read the whole book because I want to read the sidebar. After I finished the book I think I learned one or two things which are now in my subconscious, in other words I forgot. But on the drive to work I realized something. It's not about learning something or getting a new skill. It wasn't about deeper insights into myself. In fact it was surprisingly female focused and hyper focused on how 'they' treat us. What I took away from it was a resonance with how I fe…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/19 05:55 PM
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So problem is I'll pass the shit test and she'll want to bang, but I'm like no thanks. This doesn't sound like OI to me. It sounds like her shit tests still affect you; even if you pass them. ​
/r/askMRP28/02/19 02:56 PM
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Isn't the real problem here that you aren't attractive enough for anyone else to fuck? This. As painful as it is, this is the reality. The OP can ignore it and call it a "celibate period" or man up and see the truth. She's not attracted to you. OP, she may become attracted to you again as you become more attractive in general to other women.
/r/askMRP26/02/19 03:45 PM
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STFU Lift Sidebar. You can literally start 2 of those right now. Instantly.
/r/askMRP26/02/19 03:30 PM
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Sidebar?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/19 05:24 PM
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He sounds like a wise man.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/19 05:23 PM
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On point.
/r/askMRP25/02/19 04:33 PM
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Finally, one day, it came to me: Our relationship, the way I understood it, was dead. There was something there, but it wasn’t what it was before. That was gone, dead. And I was staring at the corpse. I’m not terribly woo woo, but once this sunk in, I swear to God I found TRP completely by accident within about 24 hours. If I had found TRP even a week earlier, I probably would have dismissed the entire premise. This is EXACTLY how I discovered MRP. I read this and it gave me chills. ​
/r/askMRP25/02/19 03:57 PM
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Perhaps we see stoicism from a different perspective. The concept of stoicism in its simplest form is to let go of the things that are not under your control (outcome independence, squarely MRP), and not wasting energy on futility but on improving yourself (building Frame, the bases of MRP). ​
/r/askMRP25/02/19 02:52 PM
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Probably some sort of faggotry we can live without.
/r/askMRP25/02/19 02:09 PM
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On fucking point.
/r/askMRP22/02/19 06:42 PM
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This. I'm following.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/19 02:54 PM
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As you would imagine it didn't last long until my wife filed for divorce and the only reason she didn't pull through was that the paperwork was too much effort on her part and I managed to get on the ascending branch again. So she backpaddled and withdrew the divorce When I read this I though, "red flag, she's a conniving bitch." But then I read this... Couple weeks ago I found a 480.000€ real estate investment and went through with it, without even telling her about it. She still doesn't know. …
/r/askMRP22/02/19 02:43 PM
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I tend to side with give less fucks. Choose your battles. If you call her out on everything, you are living in her frame. I tried that long ago - it doesn’t work. Amused mastery and A&A work well unless she is PMSing... then, stfu and remove your presence. This is my experience... use it. This man speaks the truth. The art of STFU in one paragraph.
/r/askMRP21/02/19 04:13 PM
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This is gold. Stoic frame.
/r/askMRP21/02/19 04:06 PM
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I do need the feedback from the guys here, thank you for letting me know.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 02:34 PM
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I sleep in the guest room because wife tells me she doesn't want to have sex anymore. If I don't sleep in my bed, its a massive punishment to her. I lay in bed until 3am and can't sleep. All I can do is think. I never have insomnia. More than one time I jumped out of bed to go confront her. The 4th time I went upstairs and grabbed her phone. I needed to verify there wasn't anything happening. She woke up and asked why I took her phone, I just went downstairs and ignored her. I opened my laptop t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 10:31 PM
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-Almost all arguments have ended, due to my lack of arguing. No longer explain or ask why, just plan and we do. Stopped asking for input or discussing things repeatedly. -Once I created some distance I gained perspective on all the freedom and free time I had given up willingly. Having taken back all that time, I guard it well. I am busy, have things to do always. -Wife does not want to lead or be responsible, I am responsible and delegate. This alone improved her mood 100% and submissiveness ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 10:11 PM
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Gold.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 07:58 PM
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OYS#3 (updates in bold) My shit: 43, 5'10", 160 lbs, 15% BF, 200X1 squat, bench 150X4, finally squatting with some weight 70 lbs x 5 after I Rambo'd and paid the price; faggot. wife, 2 kids (7-4). NMMNG x 6, WISNIFG x 2, RM x 1, How to be a Stoic (HTBAS) X 1, MMSP X 1 Frame: Progress is slow. Some days are better than others. Sometimes I ask myself if all of this is worth it. Truth is, my fellow faggot, there's no other way. No body said that being a Man was easy. The MMSLP is on point here; the…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 05:54 PM
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You need to learn how to STFU.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 03:07 PM
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This. 100%. Stoic fucking gold. Frame.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 06:47 AM
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I smell Rambo. Be careful, side bar and iron first.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 07:18 PM
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This.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 06:59 PM
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I told her I didn’t think there was much to be gained by talking about shit I didn’t like 18 months ago and would prefer to focus on the future. Actually, this is Game. In my view, you shifted her frame towards yours (Captain), and also planted the seed in her imagination... BTW, I hope you actually used the word "shit" when you told her this. I rediscovered the power of swearing. Look her in the eye and say the words "fuck", "shit", "pussy" peppered into your conversations. Trigger her. She tex…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/19 04:18 PM
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“I've lived through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.” -Twain Fucking gold. Stoic connection is evident.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 10:19 PM
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I noticed my wife using a lot of the same manipulative language. I assume I should just be leading by example instead of directly asking her to change how she speaks to the children? Two weeks ago our 4 yo was giving us a hard time at bed time. The little shit kept coming up with excuses and I kept going [BROKEN RECORD]. My wife said, "come on... give it up... do you think he really is going to listen to you because you keep repeating yourself??" I AA'd or ( variant of FOGGING) "Oh really???!!! …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 10:04 PM
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Knowing what I know now I would have established a boundary when she originally asked What boundary would you have established? Get your hamster-brain excited if you want, but being insecure and second-guessing yourself is unattractive. I would use the time off to relax, lift, read the sidebar, and show you're the captain of the ship by showing some leadership and getting some shit done/fixed around the house. Outcome independence will set you free. ​
/r/askMRP13/02/19 05:31 PM
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Now you're talking.
/r/askMRP13/02/19 04:28 PM
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Savage!
/r/askMRP13/02/19 04:14 PM
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The medium IS the message. TRM
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/19 02:23 PM
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The beginning of WISNIFG got me thinking. How much stock do you all put in his theory that non-assertiveness comes from parents using manipulative language with their children? I started noticing that I couched my demands of the children in "Only bad kids..." or "Good kids...". I'm trying to replace that with assertive statements like "I need you to...". I noticed this immediately and corrected just like you're doing. HUGE impact and I feel much better too. You, as a parent, have the responsibil…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 05:29 PM
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The lesson here: Men do not get sympathy. As a husband, I can not expect emotional support or comfort when I need it. The idea that I need to be more open and vulnerable about my own feelings is complete horse shit - something she THINKS she wants. People despise weakness in men. In reality, whenever I open up I get kicked in the face. She expects me to be perpetually open to any emotion that she has, but she will try to punish me for doing the same. I don't owe anyone anything. They don't owe m…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/19 05:15 PM
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My question for the group is what should I be concentrating on when interacting with my wife knowing that anxiety and depression could appear at any moment? This seems like a slippery slope knowing that I have needs that need met at the same time. STFU Read "When I say no I feel guilty" and start FOGGING, NEGATIVELY ASSERTING and NEGATIVELY INQUIRING. If it all fails and no one is in danger (the kids are safe with her), remove yourself from the situation and go to the gym or go to another room a…
/r/askMRP11/02/19 04:49 PM
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This sounds like such a great opportunity to inflict some Game pain on her just for the practice value.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 02:43 PM
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Your friends will be attitudes such as ones inspired by Stoicism (control what you can; she and her BS attitude are like the weather) and resources such as the High Conflict Parenting podcast. You need to detach yourself and tune her out. Verbal jiu jitsu (if she engages you) such as that learned from WISNIFG or complete silence should be the default. This. Every word. OP, listen closely. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iyCQVMLpZ2I ​
/r/askMRP08/02/19 02:42 PM
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Bingo.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 07:42 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/acvzgx/steels_guide_to_married_red_pill/
/r/askMRP07/02/19 07:20 PM
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Right now me and my pregnant SO are living together. I have 2 main problems that I feel might change when the baby is born in 4 months. Sex of course.... You're up for a HUGE awakening. I'm not as optimistic as other redditors commenting here. Perhaps give this post a read. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/acvzgx/steels_guide_to_married_red_pill/ ​ ​
/r/askMRP07/02/19 07:10 PM
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This is good context, thank you for sharing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 06:14 PM
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Allow not sleep to close your wearied eyes, Until you have reckoned up each daytime deed: ‘Where did I go wrong? What did I do? And what duty’s left undone?’ From first to last review your acts and then Reprove yourself for wretched [or cowardly] acts, but rejoice in those done well.” - Epictetus
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 06:01 PM
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"Fucking a lot" is no Frame; at least not to me. Then again, every journey is different as every Man is different; but not special. Wanting to "fuck a lot" just makes you a guy. When I say that you're having much more sex than me, I'm declaring a statement of fact. You are having a lot of sex, but I would not confuse that with Frame. In my limited understanding of the the concepts explained on the sidebar, Frame (for me) is the blueprint of the values that define the Man I'm working to both, bec…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 04:31 PM
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Some things are up to us and some are not up to us. Our opinions are up to us, and our impulses, desires, aversions – in short, whatever is our own doing. Our bodies are not up to us, nor are our possessions, our reputations, or our public offices, or, that is, whatever is not our own doing. The things that are up to us are by nature free, unhindered, and unimpeded; the things that are not up to us are weak, enslaved, hindered, not our own. -Epictetus.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/19 03:03 PM
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I am learning. Rejection still hurts, but I am faking it until I make it. I was so close to cumming and it was snatched from me. Today is a new day and I reset. I got a bottle of wine and I plan to fuck her tonight. I went 5 days in a row fucking, and now its 4 days in a row swinging and missing. Frame is still in tact. This sounds like DEER, my friend. You are having more sex than I am. Exponentially more. My question was about frame and you responded candidly and overtly in your previous respo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 10:22 PM
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I want to ask her what got her thinking about toys and why. But I think that shows insecurity, so I’ve only asked her if she’s excited to get them and told her when they will be delivered. Let'er be brother. She's opening up and seems to be enjoying the guidance of a more confident man. Enjoy it. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 07:38 PM
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Whenever I am regularly laid, I am tons of fun. If I haven't had sex in 4 days I might be a little edgy Does your frame break if you don't have sex in a week? ​
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/19 07:22 PM
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OYS#2 (update in bold) My shit: 43, 5'10", 160 lbs, 15% BF, 200X1 squat, bench 150X3 wife, 2 kids (7-4). NMMNG x 6, WISNIFG x 2, RM x 1, How to be a Stoic (HTBAS) X 1. Physical: Used to play tennis at competitive level during university (UF) and destroyed ACLs and meniscus on both knees. Damage has been repaired but I have weight limitations while squatting. Certified spin instructor, spin 3-5X a week. I'm in good physical shape. Frame: Beta, quintessential "enmeshing, nice guy". Faulty frame. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/19 07:53 PM
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DEER. STFU.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 04:53 PM
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She said if I got them to bed at a decent time tonight, it was on. I wouldn't have responded. I would've STFU. Later, if she came looking for some (EXTREMELY unlikely), I would kindly decline in a completely nonchalant way. Say something like, "Oh, darn! it would've been fun... but I'm meeting "so and so" at the "wherever"... " Just get busy, remove your physical presence. Use this as a chance for dread and creating scarcity. ​ LOTS of reading still required it seems. Perhaps read the basics aga…
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:44 PM
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Just starting to read the thread, great info there. I appreciate the comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/19 02:58 PM
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40% through WISNIFG, Started MAP (putting on hold to work on WISNIFG), Good choice, in my view. She has been picking up after herself and keeping a cleaner house and kitchen while I work so I don’t come home to a trashed house. I used to come home to a trashed house most days I noticed this exact, change also at the 2-3 week mark. Interesting. ​
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/19 02:47 PM
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I agree with you, those are not impediments to lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 06:09 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I'll read on, this is excellent material.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 06:04 PM
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I asked, "Is this not my house, too? Do I have to ask permission from you anytime I want to do something?" This sounds beta, brother. Perhaps FOGGING/NEGATIVE INQUIRY/BROKEN RECORD would've been a better approach? Something like, "I don't understand, why is it wrong to have a SB party? I really want to have a SB party." Then, continue with FG/BR until she has no more ammo.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 05:37 PM
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OYS#1 My shit: 43, 5'10", 160 lbs, 15% BF, 200X1 squat wife, 2 kids (7-4). NMMNG x 5, WISNIFG x 2, RM x 1. Physical: Used to play tennis at competitive level during university (UF) and destroyed ACLs and meniscus on both knees. Damage has been repaired but I have weight limitations while squatting. Certified spin instructor, spin 3-5X a week. I'm in good physical shape. Frame: Beta, quintessential "enmeshing, nice guy". Faulty frame. I rely on my physical appearance to get the attention of women…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 04:50 PM
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On point FOGGING.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/19 07:40 PM
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