NOLATRP Archive

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11	My experience being married to a BPD woman - in gory detail. I read every word, and appreciate every one of them. 2.5 years back I was in a very similar situation. With a woman who possessed no sense of remorse for her hateful speech, consistently demeaning, and never in the wrong. I should have left after the lease on our first apartment ended. Hell, I was going to until she convinced me that she'd be better and we'll get a 2 bedroom so we could separate if our arguments got bad. That she couldn't live without me. All the while she'd be texting ex's or '…	/r/TheRedPill	25/07/18 08:14 PM
1	How do you pull when you don't have a place to bring girls back too? Heh, thank you for this.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 09:08 PM
1	Is being goofy ok? Just be yourself. It's a little difficult considering you're so young, so it's easy to do dumb shit and not realize it's a little immature. Don't be a spaz, be confident and clever. Crack a dumb joke once in a while. Confidence in yourself is what matters though, and it seems like you're doing well.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 09:07 PM
2	Revisit: HB8 at the gym I'd say more than likely she wanted you to hit her up again, not wait for her. It's just a game. The body language is what matters the most. She wants you to put in the effort. I'd say go for it once more, and if she can't, chose another time. If it's another excuse, then next.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 09:05 PM
2	My biggest fear I kind of disagree with the idea that you can't find a copilot in life. I won't say that being in love isn't going to hurt you, it most certainly will. You first need the strength to love yourself. Without worrying about your mom, your S/O, etc. Don't base your value on them. You're a fully capable human being. From there you can try to find that copilot. Contribute what you have to the relationship, and so will they. You can help each other here and there, but it's important to remember that yo…	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 08:28 PM
1	How to last Good foreplay, mate. Make her cum a couple times before you go for it. Then when you start, just focus on your pleasure. What you want out of this. She'll love that shit, and want to please you too. Win-win situation. And bust on her tits/face too. If it's been that long, you'll have an impressive load.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 08:22 PM
8	Revisit: HB8 at the gym How did the logistics not work out? If you were unable to set something up to get to know her/escalate, then it's best to just move on and not waste your time. It's the most precious resource. Use it to better yourself, and get with girls that reciprocate.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 08:14 PM
5	Anger/Sad Phase Workout Read insightful books Get healthy/eat well Focus on yourself Realize that it's just how women are. Its not an inherently evil thing. Men are men, women are women. Be yourself, be calm and rational. Be kind, be funny, work hard. Life will be solid, and you'll get pussy.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 08:11 PM
3	Our top news in my country is about the model Mara Martin breastfeeding, What is your guys opinion on breastfeeding at public place. It is what it is, a natural thing a woman has to do to feed her kind. This shouldn't even be an issue. Saying it's an attention seeking ploy is just plain ignorant. Kids hungry, feed it. If you can't handle your judgement because you see a tit, then you have more serious problems than a woman feeding her kid.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 08:09 PM
1	I don't know how to handle my weirdly behaving grilfriend anymore Forgiveness is fine, but inviting her back into your life would surely be a poor choice imo.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 08:05 PM
2	Had a fight with my plate, she branched out and this got my a oneitis, and she made a boyfriend after a week. How should I move on? Move on to the only acceptable oneitis there is: Yourself. Meditate, lift, read, and eat healthy. It's a lot to do, but those are the things that make a happy, stable person. Focus on loving yourself, feeling confident with yourself. Being obsessive over anyone is unhealthy, because you can't control other people. Shit happens, she left. Others will leave. You'll leave. The constant is you.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 07:20 PM
1	I don't know how to handle my weirdly behaving grilfriend anymore Whether she cheated (she most likely did) or not, it's an obvious betrayal of trust. If you're willing to tolerate her cuddling with another man, or even hanging with someone she was interested in, then you're just kind of fucked as a man. You obviously don't love yourself enough to understand that you don't deserve to be treated like this. Hard next, she fucked up. There's no room for excuses. Also, don't call the other guy a beta when he's obviously gaming 'your' girl.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 07:16 PM
1	Does anyone ever take a week off from the Gym? If you can get back to it, I can see a week off being beneficial if you've been reliable and working hard beforehand. It's good to give your body a rest longer than a couple of days, once in a while. Enjoy vacation!	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 07:09 PM
2	Sucking ass at my new job cause of social anxiety Congrats on the new job, mate. I would say the best thing for you to do would be waking up a little early and meditating. Just start out focusing on your breath, and your awareness on where you are. Realize it's all just things happening, that's it. Nothing too important. Do it in the evenings too. Perhaps do some reading as well. They hired you for this job because you're qualified, and because you impressed them. So work your hardest, that's all you can do. Take pride in it, and your confidenc…	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 07:06 PM
16	How to get into an LTR and not be emotional and beta? I think it's important to not subscribe completely to this entirely emotionless persona that a lot of TRP promotes. Men, more than women, are emotional. We love more intensely. Women, though, biologically want a strong man who doesn't crack under pressure. I really think the perfect way to balance this, speaking from personal experience in a 2 yr LTR, is to first love yourself. Think of yourself, and how you can be strong and calm. From there, I think it's okay to tell her you care. Don't over d…	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 02:43 AM