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He also used to be a lot better looking and now just isn't, but maybe doesn't realize that? I do think you should gently approach him with that and help him get back in shape
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 03:23 AM
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Which country is this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 02:12 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:55 PM
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Yes. REally. He watches me instead
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:27 PM
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I'm 20 and have a 26 year old boyfriend who is a nice stable husband material guy who is not an ex-player. So yeah, it may come as a surprise to you RPers but Women are people with emotions and feelings and - gasp - the capacity to love!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:01 AM
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It's cheating. 100%. Pleasure comes from partner and doing so is disrespectful. My BF doesn't watch it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:25 AM
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Well our plan is BF will become SAHD. Guess I'll see what happens. Also why are you an SAHD then^
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:45 PM
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red pillers larping as tradwives Ah I see I agree with most red pill teachings So you agree that most of us are shallow, superficial beings who just want to fuck "Chad" till we are 30 and then marry the lonely "nice stable husband material guy" for his money while never loving him and pining for Chad? (That is how Red Pill views us right?)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:44 PM
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How do you link RP and SAHD? How do they connect in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:27 PM
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ELI5 - what exactly is a REd Pilled Woman. How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 10:25 PM
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My BF has had an interesting life and didn`t date anyone till he met me. He is 26 and I am 20
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:24 PM
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My BF has had an interesting life and didn`t date anyone till he met me. He is 26 and I am 20
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:11 PM
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Yeah. It took him a while but he found someone who was representative of what he wanted. No PUA stuff. No Stacey chasing and wishing he was Chad. We were both working on ourselves and found each other via common interest group. If Red was a thing, wouldn't I at my age be snubbing him and focusing on geting every frat Chad to fuck me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:08 PM
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RP wants traditional roles. Sleeping around is tradiitonal? Oka then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:01 PM
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Anecdote. I am 20. BF is 26. I have had a couple teen stuff and some kisses but nothing serious and no sex. BF had no experience. I was surprised he would want to date someone sitll in school while he has a job and is well settled. One of the reasons he said he liked me was that he felt he wanted someone who has not had a proper relationship before so that we could have our fist time and grow and explore together and in a way to make up for not having a relationship when younger. I love him; it …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 07:01 PM
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Gatekeeper?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:39 PM
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Thanks!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:53 PM
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misery and revenge fantasy pits that thy are. I would have to agree. They both suck; I wonder what is causing the rise of them. I imagine they are both rising in response to the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:49 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:49 PM
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From whatever reading I did; FDS and TRP really do sound exactly the same; especially after reading this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:48 PM
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It was night I was sleeping. Seesh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 04:41 PM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 06:43 AM
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Yes I think anyone can be a prize as long as they are awesome and make themselves one. Though of course luck does play a role... I mean I think I am a prize, and my BF is as well. He probably thinks the same. I mean if we want to play who won the better deal; I am younger, more atheltic, and higher social status as he is an immigrant minority. He wins by having a good job right now (while I am sitll in school), being better with kids, more settled in life, and taller. LT our earning projection i…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:16 PM
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Exactly. I am a professional (well student aspiring to be one) and my BF is a professional. Now he is 26 and I am 20 so he took a bit longer to find his fit. But I am not leading him on while fucking "Chad" and then marry him when we are are 30 and 36 the way RP seems to think it works. Who wants a man who is all muscle but nothing else? Or a woman who is body and nothing else. Other shallow people. Sure attraction matters, but it is only part of it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:08 PM
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Hmm.. Ok. Say I am a Woman who is super hot but an idiot. Guys sleep with me when young but then leave me for the motherly types. Yes I would be hurt. Likewise though if I was the Motherly type, guys slept around and ignored me and then wanted me when I was older and just because I was a good Mom, I would also be hurt. Point being - it hurts all ways. Me personally, I believe in seeking a life partner and found a guy who feels the same. Nothing wrong with a little fun; but aiming for life partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:04 PM
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Personally; I think they both suck. You can party if you want; or look for stability. If you seek stability, you should end up with a partner also seeking stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:57 PM
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Interesting. I'll ask my BF about this. He did tell me hat he left the faith but still retained certain values like wanting monogamy and saving ones self and all that even after he did. A
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:52 PM
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Interesting. He also had a Muslim upbringing so maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 05:42 PM
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That's not true. Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:45 PM
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I was using those terms as just descriptors. I see. it thinks he will struggle with women. Ok. Well he did struggle untill now I did find it surprising so maybe? I just find TRP to be very odd to say the least. SExist for sure. Know very little about it though Anyone who is ambitious See I do disagree because he has two professional degrees and is focused. He just is both career and family oriented; something many women do juggle It sounds like the right thing to do, imo. Kids should have a pare…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:42 PM
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but his not wanting to work (at all?) is a red flag When kids are young for like a few years or so. He likes his job Does he even have any experience with young children? I mean he has been babysitting for years.... emotionally tone deaf to the point of cruelty, What?? He is one of the kindest, most empathetic people I know. An actual nice guy if you will
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:31 PM
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no career ambition He has a job and enjoys it and is hard working and quite successful. He wants to stay at home when kids are young; take a break if you will. Not all the time you know best how your relationship is going Amazing negative stuff about yourself like mental health stuff? Well COVID took a toll but it is great
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:30 PM
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I'd say. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth and enjoy it Will do!! :) Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:46 PM
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worried that he's a catch but there's something bad about him that you must be missing? Not really; I was at the start but I've been assured that that isn't the case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:40 PM
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He lets me set the pace, Oh same here. He treats me like an equal If he's completely understanding and accommodating and gives you your space, Oh yeah. 100%. He is not like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:30 PM
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Yeah. Hey /u/CrabMaster, my BF has no sisters. Does that mean anything in your system?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:18 PM
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was i accurate with the rest of my post? No. My Dad did not «wish i was a Man» WTF
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:13 PM
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genuine interest in engineering Yes. I mean both my parents are engineers so that influence was always there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:09 PM
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Also why you'd pick a virgin/someone inexperienced . I did not. I liked him and was surprised when he told me about his prior relationship experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:09 PM
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definitely not going to last very long Why do you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:07 PM
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No have a significant younger one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:52 PM
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I am inclined to support this. People would be more likely to have meaninful relationships and the tropes that sem to cuase problems would die out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:50 PM
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Curious to hear your dissection of my relationship Me F20 Studying engineering in university; aspire to have a career Active, fit, enjoy the outdoors White 5'4" Healthy weight Had some casual teen "boyfriends" and a few kisses in highschool but nothing serious. University was in lockdown untill now so never did anything else. Boyfriend M26 Working as an accountant, also has a law degree (it's compicated) Wants to be a stay at home dad when the kids are young Enjoys the outdoors though not as act…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:49 PM
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Please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:48 PM
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The thing is men value you more if they have to chase, Says who? My BF disagrees and appreciated that I initiated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:48 PM
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So I approached my BF. Well he started the convo (we were in a group) but I kept the focus on him. I told him where I worked and when and when he came I gave him free coffee and attraction ticket. He got the hint :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 02:47 PM
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This is what seems most likely
/r/MensRights24/02/22 02:45 PM
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