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| 130 | She is at your place, how to you make her horny | Fundamentals | Nabbzi | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 10:35 PM |
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| 6 | Unpopular Opinion: Strip clubs are the best place to learn “Game”I go to car dealership and hold my frame and try to talk to the dealer as long as possible until he gives up. | /r/seduction | 15/06/26 08:43 PM |
| 2 | How are some men so successful with hookups or casual relationships?Lean is law. | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 04:13 PM |
| 2 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?As a man with 100+ girls on my resume I would say in general I trust them. Majority of them are trustworthy. You just need to be a good judge of character which is what many guys lacks. In general if a girl will do the guy wrong I would say it is in most cases the guys fault for not being socially aware and judging the girl well in the early stages. Same with single mothers. They are mad at the dadbeat father that were clearly not going to be good future partner to begin with. I blame the single… | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How to get women in the gymIm not jacked but I got the six pack and im in pretty good shape (being 6´2 doesnt hurt) I just walk to the girl and say hey i see you been working very hard in the gym , I see the vibe I get from her after that if Im asking for her number or not. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Sex is not happening to me at all!Are you in shape? Height? Handsome? Looks matter. | /r/seduction | 12/04/26 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Has stopping masturbation and porn helped you approach women????? | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Has stopping masturbation and porn helped you approach women?lay is a lay | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 12:25 PM |
| 11 | Has stopping masturbation and porn helped you approach women?Dating apps is the most common way to get a lay brother. | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else experienced this? (since 2022)Aging might be a factor if you not keeping yourself in shape. Have you gained weight? | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to go to clubs or bars on Friday or Saturday nights?Country? City? Planet? | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Getting laid on vacation?My last vacation I slept with 12 girls on 21 day holiday. Best is two ways: Online dating apps and nightlife. Why not daygame you may ask? It is too time consuming. Its good for your home country when you not in a rush. But if you have only few weeks and want to get some lays under your belt you should skip it. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Guys do you think red pill will decline in the coming years?BP next up. Which is more realistic tbh. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/26 05:57 PM |
| 2 | What is your go to opener?Cold approach opener. If she is from Italy she be impressed and ask how did I know. If she is not, she might ask why I think so. And I say some complimentary and make the convo flow. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 11:17 PM |
| 2 | What is your go to opener?You must be from Italy | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Manufactured pre-selection is the ultimate cheat code. Here is exactly how I fake it.1 might be fun experience. Might do it with a throw away lady. Not a girl that I really want. 2 and 3 has happened to me by accident many times and it has been a trouble . Especially earrings. Almost lost a lay because of it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 09:26 PM |
| 11 | Best city in the EU to be single?sorry but what is your race? It shouldn´t matter but if we can give you best advice you might want to tell us | /r/seduction | 01/03/26 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Lunch dateDont be to "reserved" because you dont want to drop the ball. Better to drop the ball being opposite of reserved. | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Lunch dateShe definatly is shooting for the romantic spark. So have your mindset also there. Hugs, light touches. Playful and flirty. | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 06:20 PM |
| 14 | Does any of you have experience with oversize girls? How was it?Their pussy is very good. After the first one i thought it was just random. But after few of them Im like what, is that standard now! | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Went to a bar last night, panicked, and immediately foldedMany good advices here. I want to add it is crucial to mingle in the first few minutes. You have to take action early on. All the things you planned to do before you entered the bar you have to do right away. If you hesitate and roam a couple around the bar people will notice it and your hope is pretty much done if you still roaming solo after 30 minutes. | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 09:36 PM |
| 1 | What's the most women you've had in your roster at any given time?2-3 at any given time is the regular. | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 02:31 PM |
| 2 | what is your best gambit/routine to make her turn on?On a date or nighlife? | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 07:03 PM |
| 4 | How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women?I promise you some brokie chad is having sex with them. So to meet them, first step is be very handsome. | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 08:58 PM |
| 12 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI like this sub, but if they say looks dont matter it will decrease the value of what they have to say because nobody want to hear from delusional people. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 01:48 PM |
| 40 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI thought we agree on looks matter. We are just here working with what we got the best we can. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 12:57 PM |
| 8 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itMaybe money/status is a bit of a factor also? | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | It's easy as fuckI support this message. We tend to complicate things. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Turns out I'm a Coward. Help!I know the feeling. I mean party is over and you probably hangover so there is no help. Hope you got with her though. You can go to her and say hey i see you are enjoying yourself, you like the music? , And if yes or no just say what kind music you like, and say lets play it, and put that banger on and dance with her. Its a house party so they wont mind you pick a song or two. Other is comment on her outfit. I like your sweater but why you wearing those socks (compliment and playful negative com… | /r/seduction | 25/01/26 01:05 PM |
| 1 | What's the best style for 2026 that attracts most women?Have a good selection of outfits. Ive noticed girl have ick when they see a guy in the same outfit twice lol. | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 05:32 PM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Is OP an average guy by any chance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Girl at the gymSend her dm. Not too shy for that is you | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 10:26 AM |
| 5 | She asked me out but already had plans after, would you still go?Next date you chat more, dont overthink it | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How to get dates/laids?Flirt | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 11:23 PM |
| 1 | The fact that prostitution is partially or fully illegal in most of the world is proof that the world is misandrist.no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 10:06 PM |
| 1 | The fact that prostitution is partially or fully illegal in most of the world is proof that the world is misandrist.Incels don´t want prostitutes. They just want a regular woman and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 04:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you glow upGetting lean and fit is the best life hack ever | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 03:35 PM |
| 8 | Women ghost because it's convenient, not because they're afraid of men getting violentIm a man and I ghost women. Its easier instead of giving some kind of bullshit reason and getting into convo about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 03:34 PM |
| 2 | How To Approach Women For A Happy New Year - The Principles Of Approaching Women“My article”,,,, bro this is GhatGPT slop | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Trying To Be Alpha - The Most Idiotic Way To ExistAI post slob | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 12:33 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why men like "night clubs" for finding womenGood way to get laid. I love nightclubs. | /r/seduction | 27/12/25 05:17 PM |
| 3 | How to approach girls to get laidTry talk with confidence to a girl you find attractive. Get her number and set up date. Good luck | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls to get laidWhat country are you in? What is your race? | /r/seduction | 26/12/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | I am sick of not being able attract womenFind lookmatch | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | With a rich girl, should I hang out near her place/neutral/my place?Your place and hang out around that area | /r/seduction | 22/12/25 11:17 AM |
| 13 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityBro, get out of your basement once in a while at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Women logically are the cause of most dating problemsYeah, and what are you going to do about it OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 09:17 PM |
| 13 | Real question, be so for real right now. But why does Andrew Tate - specifically - hate women?I he still relevant? Whos listening to him lol | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/25 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?men should just bail out of the relationship, why wait for the woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:30 PM |
| 0 | I can bring the girl home, but she leaves without even a kiss.Dont wait too long to kiss her when you arrive to your place. If you wait too long she will think you are not confident which is a turn off for women. Also you can make her see that your are excited if you know what I mean. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 04:37 PM |
| -3 | Where do women want to be hit on?Get your definitions straight and come back lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 08:02 PM |
| -5 | Where do women want to be hit on?Warm approach is such a cuck move. Hey mam do you know where the bathroom is? oohh thank you, anywyays, you look nice what is your name | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Can we all agree black pill is wrong?It caaaan lead to eating disorder but majority just get healthy and fit. If fear of eating disorder is the reason you dont want to start eating healthy and getting fit is by far the most absurd excuse Ive ever heard to be honest. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/25 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Can we all agree black pill is wrong?There is debate what % divide between Looks/money/status/personality . Black pill say looks are most important , they dont ignore the others completely they just say looks are number 1. Some positives comes out of it. There is Lookmaxx. Looking the best you can. It is fashion, skin care, gym, better diet and not "inaction" as you mention. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | What’s the smoothest way to invite her back to your place?Never do indirect, thats lame af. Just when the coffee is half done just ask her if she want to continue the conversations at your place , and say you really want to know her more. And if you talked about music or series during the date you can add and we can listen to that band we like, you can show me your favorite songs. Side note: Extra bonus points if this coffe place or a mall is close to your place. If not, remember to always pick a diner/activity near your place becasue it comes easier f… | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Perfect amount of beers?Maybe hes not weak like you | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Perfect amount of beers?4 beers is sweet spot. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 12:12 PM |
| 0 | Men should NOT be so forthcoming or honest about their intentions despite how much women claim they shouldImportant post. Thanks OP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 07:25 PM |
| 2 | A few weeks ago everyone was talking about how Halloween night is the best night of the year to get laid as your chances are high. What other days of the year are close to Halloween in terms of women “letting loose”?Spring break? New years? Also if you meet a tourist ladies in your town/city. They are defiantly letting loose in another country. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 04:36 PM |
| 5 | A few weeks ago everyone was talking about how Halloween night is the best night of the year to get laid as your chances are high. What other days of the year are close to Halloween in terms of women “letting loose”?Yes i did, went to a club with a scream mask, Danced with this lady for a while without see seeing my face lol. Eventually took the mask off and luckily she didn´t run away. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Ideas for 4th dateCook at home. Go to grocery store together, pick out some good stuff and cook it at your place. Escalate please. | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 03:05 PM |
| 25 | 35M - 32F - We haven’t had consistent sex for a year. I need help being more assertivePlanning having sex on a set day and time is maybe not the way? Nothing sexy about it and yes, the pressure | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Will it really get so much easier in your 30s?if 20s is fucked,,,,, 30s be double fucked sorry. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/25 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Will it really get so much easier in your 30s?Not really. My point is don´t wait until your 30s. Use your 20s and your 30s for living the live. If you wait for the 30s you will miss out on the 20s, good luck. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/25 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Will it really get so much easier in your 30s?Im in my 30s,,,,,20s is peak, hurry up. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How to make someone comfortable with me ?dont be vulnerable it will dry up their p&%$, and dont smile to much also. | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 02:46 PM |
| 7 | Text game tipsGirl gets bored about texting. Your next text should be hey I know this great place, wanna go with me tomorrow? | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 02:23 PM |
| 1 | How I stopped getting friendzoned instantlytrue | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 12:21 PM |
| 6 | How I stopped getting friendzoned instantlyBut the other strategy he stuck in friend zone | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 12:09 PM |
| 1 | "How's bumble been treating you?"Yes agree. Mixing dating apps with daygame is perfect mix. | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | "How's bumble been treating you?"Love this post. So many saying "delete dating apps bro" | /r/seduction | 09/11/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Any experience in Thailand?Heyhey. I was in Thailand last week. I have some tips for you. Avoid Pattaya if you dont like freelancers. Dont even try. If you want to dip in the beach you can go to Phuket or Hua Hin. Bangkok will be the best place for regular girls. Dating apps are basic, fire up and start swiping and you be racking up matches and arranging dates. If you want nightlife it depends if its a weekend or not. If its a Weekend you can go to Sing Sing Theater or other clubs around Ekkamai, also Levels at soi11 is g… | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Men should embrace “She’s not yours, it’s just your turn”Only your turn true, also its her only turn on you. Win win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….Yes, for sure. Many ways to build sexual tension. Compliment her, find reason to touch her hand , maybe leg. Tell her she looks good, , that you like her lips (indicates you want to kiss her later). Smile, genuinely enjoy her company. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 08:38 PM |
| 0 | Which dating coach programs or systems have you gotten laid with?None, they try make it more complicated than it really is. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….Yes, 100% | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:33 PM |
| 10 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….Ive been to 100+ dates and flirting/kimo is far more important than a kiss. Majority of the women that ive been successful with on date I din´t kiss at the bar /restaurant. Many of them not into kissing in front of waiters/bartenders/other guests. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….Flirt : Yes Kiss: Not necessary. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:41 PM |
| 16 | girls ghosting me/dry texting after hanging out and acting like a ouple for 2-3 monthsAfter 2-3 months she is asking herself is you are bf material for the next several years. 1-3 months of dating is basically the feel out time and unfortunatly for you she did not pick you. She either: -Found another guy - she thinks she can to better. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 10:08 PM |
| 29 | Why do you guys keep using Dating Apps?Doing both | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 03:16 PM |
| 10 | I'm not sure if I'm just a pussyThat is so true. He lost time. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 09:11 PM |
| 5 | Women on this sub - Why if you go on a first date with a guy and there is no spark. Its over and there's nothing the guy can do about itWhen they say "spark" they mean spark or they don´t mean spark. Its just a good thing to say to stop the communication. The reason can be anything really. Don´t focus on the word spark, its just a code for she don´t want to see you again. On to the next one. | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 10:42 AM |
| 4 | Never, ever miss out on the opportunity to talk to women, no matter how random the circumstance isI wish I was comfortable doing it. I just need to do it more and more an by time it will feel more smooth. | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 12:08 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?Been in the game for years, more than 100dates and it definably happens. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 06:26 PM |
| 3 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?What if she doesnt want to go straight home with you and would want a date first and maybe after date come home with you ? | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?same same | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard to find a solid wingman?My wingman doesn´t have to be "good". Just a normal friend to hang out in the club instead of being solo. So I go alone approach and maybe ask her to sit with us for a chat. My "wingman" basically doesn´t need to do any approaching. | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 09:48 AM |
| 30 | I wanna get a girl obsessed with me in a good way. Cuz I love her.Never go full oneitis. | /r/seduction | 27/08/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date but girl didn't show up. (Need mental guidance)When did you plan the date? And did you communicate regularly until Monday? Im asking because if there are 2-3 days between you decide the date and when the date should be you need to communicate every day until meeting. Ive been to hundreds of dates and this is just how girls are wired. | /r/seduction | 25/08/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I just be upfront about my faith in a country where faith and caste matter?Bro, you geomaxed and you good, don´t ask us | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 12:31 AM |
| 4 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyI think you are exaggerating the "hate". Reddit isn't real life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 03:51 PM |
| -6 | What are your best openers for talking to a stranger on the street?You must be from Italy. Either Yes or No it will be some conversations. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 09:37 PM |
| 0 | The internet has made dating easier, and not harderThank you, this needed to be said, im born in the 80 and i would wish for a tinder when i was 17 yo or something. Guys love complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?What attempts you did to escalate? | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.dont understand how guys paying for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 06:44 PM |
| 6 | Tea App is #1 on the app store - let’s discuss how it will implicate datingChads gonna Chad right? | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Why can't I have success with women?How long have you been hitting the gym and how many times per week? | /r/seduction | 26/07/25 01:40 PM |
| – | I am startled at how easy it is for my female friend to get sexSex dynamics in its purest form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it not smart for 20’s women to be in long term relationships with 20’s men in 2025?Times are different. 20s is for fun, 30s find a mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Went out to a bar/restaurant with some girls and just sat in silence...First ten minutes are important. When 20 minute pass its kind of over right. Speaking up after that time feels weird. So you should pep yourself up on your way to the event and encourage yourself that you will be into it from the first moment. | /r/seduction | 22/07/25 10:04 AM |
| 3 | I invited a woman back to my apartment but she passed outOP a real one! (so we are complimenting a guy for not being a criminal now? lol joking). Happened to me once but a little bit different. Met her in the club and her last drink was Long Island Ice tea which is a really strong one coctail. She was into going to my place but in the Uber I saw that this drink hit her too much. When inside I hit her with the "water treatment". Thats what I sometime do with my friends when they are too drunk. Its about drinking alot of water. I told her I challenge yo… | /r/seduction | 21/07/25 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Passport bros don’t take advantage of third world women, it’s actually the other way aroundpaying for sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 02:29 PM |
| 8 | Passport bros don’t take advantage of third world women, it’s actually the other way aroundPPB and sex tourist gets confused together. On the PPB sub any p4p post is not welcomed. The real PPB go to other countries to get a wife or meeting honest regular job women who will maybe sleep with you and maybe not and not a p4p. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 01:41 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of female friendshipsIts added benefit. Guys friendship is number one. But if you have a girl friendship is ok if you have to choose her friendship or nothing at all. By friendship i mean pure friendship, If you have feelings for her its a disaster , also if she has feeling for you its not good. but if its real friendship it can be good. It can be helpful meeting girls in social circle. If you have this one woman friendship she can introduce you to her friends. And social approve from you friend is priceless man. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 06:41 PM |
| 3 | What are the best cities in Europe for getting laid?Barcelona, im decade older than you but my 10 day trip with 10 lays tells the story. Its not about the local girls which is more difficult but I slept with Venezuelan, Peuran and local. , Barcelona has so many nationalities. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How to Have Better Conversations Over Text In Order To Make It To The First Date - Amateur Levels of Success?Sure. Lets start from the beginning. You get a match. And as a man you send the first message of course. Hello XXX (please adress her with her name so its not like a copy paste to all matches) Im glad we matchec. I like your photos, you look very beautiful. ---and here is the kicker---- say something about her photos so she knows its not just boring copy paste. If she has a dog you say something about the dog. If she has a photo from gym ask if she is a gym enthusiast, If she is on the beach jus… | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 03:01 PM |
| 3 | How to Have Better Conversations Over Text In Order To Make It To The First Date - Amateur Levels of Success?5-7 | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 06:48 PM |
| 7 | How to Have Better Conversations Over Text In Order To Make It To The First Date - Amateur Levels of Success?100% . Its dating app not a chat app | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 05:58 PM |
| 7 | How to Have Better Conversations Over Text In Order To Make It To The First Date - Amateur Levels of Success?Ask to meet her earlier in the convo Source: been on over 500 tinder dates since 2015 | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Insta, snap or phone numberWhatsapp,,,,, depends on the country though | /r/seduction | 18/06/25 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Messaging a girl on InstagramI would honestly wait until 4th of july. Having zero photos in these day and age for a girl is mad. Better yet, go out, take photos of you in nature, go to gym, take a photo there. Go to some restaurant, take a photo. All in one or two day. Post it with 3 days between. And send her DM because we don´t want to wait for almost a month. | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | my girl broke up with me please help me and give feedback"I’d prefer to close it in person rather than over text " Please don´t . Nothing good can come out of it really. What is your hope honestly? " she wants to focus on her career and doesn’t think a relationship is right at this stage." This is maybe true and maybe not true. You will never know the real reason and you have to feel ok about it. The relationship is over that is the main thing you have to focus on. | /r/seduction | 13/06/25 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverI guess you in the US? Tinder is still the king in most other countries. | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Would you hit up a hookup from a long time ago?Do it, I did last week and she is from 2021. She came over right away | /r/seduction | 09/06/25 11:08 PM |
| 1 | It's not offensive to ask for dna testTalking from experience: No need to tell the mother. You only need to take saliva with a small Q-tip and yourself and send it for DNA testing. Me personally did it when she went to the bathroom. It can be in any situation. Tell her to get you a glass of water and you can do it. Results: Not my kid. I bounced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 04:40 PM |
| 7 | How I Get Dates With Just 2 TextsI like your concept of less texting and more meeting IRL. But it always gets me when so many guys make us think you have to choose one or the other because cold approach and dating apps does not conflict with each other. You can do your cold approach one day and the other day swipe online. Or if you really want to cold approach every day (which is unlikely) you can swipe in the evening instead of watching Netflix. I think most of the guys that tell us to drop the app has some agenda behind it. T… | /r/seduction | 07/06/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Let girls introduce other girls: One of the Easiest Ways to Meet Women (That Most Guys Sleep On)Take initiative. It is kind of awkward and stressful but worth it. Online : We have internet so connect with some old high school or college people. Send them a text whats new with them and go from there. Some old work buddies even you dont work with them anymore. Just say hello and tell them you enjoyed their company at the time and if they want to join you for a beer soon. It goes with female or male. This has to be on you to reach out. I promise you there is nobody going to bring you social c… | /r/seduction | 06/06/25 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Logistics of the dateWhatever you pick (drinks,dinner or coffee) have it near your place. It is much easier for her to agree to go home with you if it is short distance (best if it is walkable). | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Tips for Enhancing Your Dating Profile: Ditch the Selfies!Good tips! | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Be flaky to avoid flakes?Ive done this few times (mainly by accident) and its kind of stressful. Also it is time consuming to get one date. You need to text, arrange logistics and stuff. And doing double work knowing you will not have the double rewards is draining. Also whenever i did the double date of course no one flaked lol. | /r/seduction | 05/06/25 10:11 PM |
| 2 | What to text after kissing in a party? Noob questionDon´t ask her if she enjoyed yesterday because you are a confident man that knows of course she had fun yesterday because you two had a moment. Just send Hey i had alot of fun yesterday, would you want to meet this week?(don´t mention the kiss. You know you kissed, she knows you kissed, everybody knows you kissed). | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Why do most guys mess up dates and how can I help them get better?This is it! You got it! | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 03:20 PM |
| 2 | The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first dateFor sure! | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 03:09 PM |
| 1 | The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first dateWhy everybody talking about pubs lol. I would rank pubs the least place for a first date. Its not horrible but I would explore other options first. | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 03:06 PM |
| 2 | When is it time to ask on a date?Don´t wait. Best was yesterday. Second best is today. Shows you have condfidence, you know what you want and chase it. You have no fear. Girls like that. To build emotionally comes by meeting you and meeting you again. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Can you have good game without doing 'gamey' things?All you need to jump straight to friendzone yes. | /r/seduction | 03/06/25 11:27 AM |
| 3 | The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first dateDrive then. Just pick the closest one to your place.. Not that complicated. Skip drinking alcohol and focus on doing good on the date. | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 11:09 PM |
| 4 | The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first dateIf its not 2 block. Pick the closest one from you home. Not that complicated. | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 10:27 PM |
| 3 | The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first dateNot great to pick a place near your home? So its better to pick a restaurant that you have to drive far distance? Is that the way to go? | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 10:20 PM |
| 5 | The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first dateGreat great advice. Number 5 is so crucial. Ive been to 600-700 dates and this is the way. You learn from experience and having dinner near your place is elite! If you live deep in the suburb I understand its not possible but if you in urban area you good to go. And if you are traveling you of course will not stay in a Hotel in the suburb so you good. Its easier to invite her to you place and more likely she will say yes. "Hey you want to talk more at my place its only 1 minute walk". "Want to l… | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 10:19 PM |
| 6 | Let girls introduce other girls: One of the Easiest Ways to Meet Women (That Most Guys Sleep On)100%%% Can´t count how many times Ive dated a girl from that strategy. Even right now im dating a girl who my female friend introduced me. | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 10:56 PM |
| 2 | 3 Flirting Principles That Get Me Laid Over TextThis is an excellent post. Must read for guys who doing tinder game. Ive been to 200 plus Tinder dates and my strategy is very very similar to yours. Only thing is I never say "date" to the girl, and would never say "our romantic date". At least in my country saying a "date" is kind of hinting a serious tone. Maybe might call it a formal thing. I usually say "meeting you" or "knowing you in person". Again great great post man, hats off to you. | /r/seduction | 26/05/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?Hiring coaches is like reading a self help book. Not effective. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How often do bar hookups happens?7/10 guy might get a girl at a bar about 10-20% of the time which could be worse. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 06:34 PM |
| 4 | Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake?Alot of PUA theories. Some I like some I don´t. Just wanted to say there is nothing wrong with coffee date. She is there to meet him not for the "activity" (you mentioned concert). If we offer too much for the first date I feel like we are offering the "thing" but not the ourselves which is the purpose of meeting the lady. Especially on first date. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Should I try to reschedule dates with girls who flake?“no worries, whenever you’re free and wanna hang out, just hit me up.” This is actually good answer man. The ball is at her court. And leave it at that. She bailed on you once. You didn´t block her (would be the second best option) but gave her the option to meet you again but it has to be her who will be reaching out. If she dont. Its basically over. Doesn´t matter if she likes your story or not. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 06:15 PM |
| 0 | She Ghosted You? Here's What to Text to Reignite the Spark (Without Looking Needy)One strategy is just send week later message like nothing ever happened. Not hello. Just fun thing you saw or are doing. Hey look i saw this one legged pigeon (send the photo) thats crazy. To take a random example! | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 02:31 AM |
| 2 | How to pull a girl when ur aloneYou are not wrong about stigma going solo to the nightlife. I do it sometime and just meet girls at the bar or at the dancefloor. Sometime they ask why Im alone I usually say I had some drinks with co workers earlier and they all went home and I felt continuing the nightlife enjoyment. Its an innocent white lie that works. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 06:12 PM |
| 7 | Any tips on how to pickup girls in the uk as an American?You are in a liberal echo chamber. We love US | /r/seduction | 14/05/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | We should get rid of dating appsYou can do both. The days you are not going to nightclub or cold approaching outside you can swipe instead of watching Netflix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Is Tinder any good for travelling?Tinder is 100% good when you traveling. You arrive in a new country and start swiping. I don´t effect your tourist experience or "cold approach" moves because this is something you do in your dead time. | /r/seduction | 09/05/25 09:33 PM |
| 2 | How important is social proof?100% true. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 04:27 PM |
| 18 | Stop using Instagram to get womenIf your looks is 6/10 dont get mad if sydney sweeney ghosts your DM´s to take an extreme example. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 04:06 PM |
| 14 | Stop using Instagram to get womenIve pulled plenty through IG. Just be realistic. | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 03:58 PM |
| 13 | First Date - Girl wants to bring her friend with her??You did the right thing about refusing to meet her and her friend on a dinner date. You would probably end up paying for both of them and you would not have the window to bring your girl home with you because if she dont want to leave her friend out on a date with you why would she say yes to leave her friend when she goes home with you. If this happens again just tell her you will meet them (yes both of them) after dinner at some bar. You just pay for your beer or whatever. And at least you can… | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | "The game"I don´t disagree with this strategy. Have you tried it? I usually just say " I want to know you better in person how about you meet me at X day, how about it?" And when I meet her in person I make sure to escalate ALOT. I usually go home with her on first date so I havent find a need to switch up strategy. But I like the way you think fella. | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | "The game"Texting shouldnt take that long. Just invite her to a date on day number one. Maybe she free next week so the "text game" will be the 5-6 days until you meet her. I promise you she will dry up if you be talking for weeks or even month without you asking her out. Shows you are afraid, lacks confidence and no masculine energy (not my opinion, just thats how her brain works) | /r/seduction | 03/05/25 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Do girls not like nice guys at all?Looks like you want something in return for being nice. That really is not being nice at the end of the day. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 11:21 AM |
| 5 | How to compliment WomenTry pick out one of the group and compliment her. If you complimenting the group none of them feels the one. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Are coffee dates just a bad first idea for women you meet online?In western countries coffee dates are very good. | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Is it more attractive to seem like a guy who doesn't care about sex or a guy who seems like he loves sex and is not afraid of saying it?Middle ground please lol | /r/seduction | 17/12/24 09:43 AM |
| 0 | Is it better to play the long game or be honest with a girl when it comes to looking for something casualDon´t say it up front. Just try 2-3 dates and try sleep with her. And if it doesn´t happen then move on. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 12:58 AM |
| 5 | What are certified moves to break the touch barrier?This. And not even need to rub fingers. The touch is everything | /r/seduction | 29/08/24 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Lots of female friends, no play.try a bit of touching of the hand and shoulder, if they recipicate you can touch lower hip when you dance. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | How many kisses on first date?Did you invite her to your home? | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Why not just become a Passport Bro?I was in Philippines last week. Women there are stunning, they like western man, speak good english and they are easy going. What more you like to know ? I recoommend | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Need help with flirting in a nightclubI like your lips | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Women will respect your courageIf you ugly, you creepy one. If you hot, you are brave. | /r/seduction | 27/05/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Hot Take: This sub might be stopping you from getting girls.Yes, something not good to over-analyze things. | /r/seduction | 07/12/20 01:01 AM |
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