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I disagree I approached over 1000 girls and still feel nervous sometimes. Yes I am able now to approach ANY women but being nervous is still part of the game but thats good trust me
/r/TheRedPill02/06/24 09:42 PM
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Its not that they dont like socially akward guys they just dont like average. So many girls I talked to are just plain stupid and they dont know how to carry a conversation. If I am in the gym and see a guy with a berserk shirt he does not stops talking for 20 years about this shit
/r/TheRedPill02/06/24 09:41 PM
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"Too much guys put too much pressure on themselves." Obviously, because for most guys its a fight for life or death. The sad or depressing thing about this whole dating scene is that genuine effort is not appreciated. Lets say a girl would approach you and was extremely nervous and stuttering, most guys would think its somehow cute. Sadly the opposite is not true. And thats why so many guys put so much pressure on themselves. I dated girls that told me some guys approached them in the Gym, Baker…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/24 08:29 PM
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I cold approached 1000+ girls in 1 1/2 years and my biggest leason is: Its either working or not. What does this mean? Culture/Country matters the most. Do 10 cold approaches in London and you get rejected from left to right, do 10 in Sao Paulo and get your dick sucked. My point is, you can be the biggest G and cold (!) approaching will still be hard in some settings. Just bother and cold approach (I dont talk abou warm approach!) if you are literally good looking and great in shape.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/24 02:46 AM
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Ok wow I see, but there must huge willingness from your employer in this case. But nice to hear that.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/24 11:56 PM
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Bruh how long did this process take? In Canada the whole process of getting a temp. visa and transition from the to a permanent residency takes years. The US is much stricter than any Gov. in the world. It takes years to get a green card like that. They dont have even have open work permits (I dont talk about the green card). So you are codependent on your company which is sometimes even exploitet. H-1B visa holder have lower wages (still high compared to the rest) and are dependant on the compa…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/24 09:12 PM
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So true, I was delivering drinks for months and I paid attention to my back all the time but you still messed up when you have to carry, bend, squat all day long.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/24 08:59 PM
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e.g. regrowing your hair back Finasteride army where are you
/r/TheRedPill29/10/23 12:28 AM
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Same for me, I stopped drinking around 2-3 years because my gym performance just dropped by 25-30% when I even just drunk a few beer. I personally noticed that I just drunk anyway to be braver to talk to girls lol, and even though when I was drunk it was hard for me. I took the hardest route and cold approached like 1000+ completely sober and no I dont give a flying fuck to drink.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/23 11:56 PM
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Meditions is my favourite book of all time. I am curious, where to you disagree?
/r/TheRedPill24/05/23 02:26 AM
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I approached over 1200+ girls and I still have this feeling and to be honest I think sometimes its totally alright to listen to that feeling BUT you should make sure that its not a cope defensive mechanism. I know tons of guys who use this as their main excuse and deep down they know they chickened out. I had it too from time to time but after proofing myself countless times I know myself now good enough when I really dont feel in the mood to approach or if I am just a bitch. I am scientiest and…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 04:46 AM
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Is it not sad, that even what you consider as just the 'basics' men have problems to attract a girl? I mean like, objectively the guy seems stable but its still not enough. If we were to compare the average girl to the average guy, the average women would totally lose. But still she is not attracted to this guy xD.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 04:18 AM
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Man this is basically impossible. I like your idea but this will NEVER happen. There is so much money to make with hopeless guys. If you remove the hope of a guy that is a 2/10 that he can have a 10/10 its over for those sides. I personally think there just should be better mechanism like "you just can have atleast 5 matches AT THE SAME TIME" or "5 Matches max. per week etc."
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 01:16 AM
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Man I love this guy, seriously he is able to explain complex mechanism in a really simple way and is atleast someone who has an IQ over 4 (which is quite hard to have nowadays)
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 01:13 AM
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Bro I feel you and I believe you that you are a good catch BUT I hear women tell their male friends all the time "You are such a good catch, omg I dont understand how you are single", then I see those guys and I am like "wtf I see why he is single". My point is women talk all day long, what matters is actions and not words.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/23 01:10 AM
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Yeah exactly I think the same. Try hard for 1-3 years but then slow down
/r/TheRedPill21/04/23 01:15 PM
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I approached over 1200+ girls and trust me its not as rewarding as you might think it is. I had the goal to kill my approach anxiety and I did it. Nowadays I literally can approach everywhere. I am not scared of any women anymore but I had another realisation during my journey. We WASTE SO MUCH TIME on women its incredible. Most worries we have are linked deep down to the other sex. "Oh I am getting older, I dont make enough money, I am not great shape, I am not tall enough, I am not interesting…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/23 04:49 AM
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Its funny, you are only 17 and talk like you are the big boss here. Maybe you should chill the fuck out a bit behind your keyboard ? As someone who lived already in a few countries let me tell you the grass is not always greener on the other side. By leaving your home country you leave so much back that you dont even realize. It does not matter if you HATE your home country and have 0 friends there. Home is home and the older you get the harder it gets to adjust and accept different ways of livi…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/23 01:22 AM
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I like the "if she's a really hot chick, she gets ONE strike.". I am not sure why I like it but intuitively I found it good. I might have an explanation, I am open for ideas. I talked to so much girls and I think why I like the idea is is because the HOT chicks know what they are doing. So if I talk to a semi hot chick, I am open to ask twice because I am more open to believe her that the first flake (for whatever reason) was honest. I dont trust hot chicks that much. I already made a few experi…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 01:21 AM
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So true I am German/Arabe and at home I was raised with german values but because of look/name etc. I got pushed into the arabe community during my whole childhood. So now I know both cultures extremely well and I have to say that most of time a mixture of both is right now the best. But some immigration kids (father as mother foreigner) still have a way to konservative mindsets, especially women. If you met girls with arabe background you will most likely have problems dating her in a open mind…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/23 12:40 AM
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At some point I really dont know what to do anymore. I am 6ft2, have an athletic body (some people already told me I have a dream body), started my first jop after graduation and already earning more than 75% of all canadians and still struggle with women. I did over 1000 cold approaches and my success rate was shit (at some point I had 1/100). I went out the last week the first time in canada and talked with 4-5 girls, they all talked back to me and give me the "chance" to prove me (all really …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 10:15 PM
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One question I did not understand. So you have your girlfriend but you fuck a side chick from time to time?
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 03:10 PM
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Such a good point, if it just about fun I also could just inject heroin and thats it. Sometimes I am just shocked have much effort I once put in to get laid. For me at this point it just does not make any sense anymore (even though it got simpler for me). Sometimes I have the feeling I am losing my soul piece by piece while I chase women. Is this shit even worth it? I really tend to say no. I know I need to shake around a bit from time to time but thats it. I dont need to approach 100 girls per …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 03:05 PM
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Man this is so true! Thanks for the wise words. I think my brain slowly realises that. I am a bit mad that I "wasted" so much time but maybe I had to go through all this to understand whats important in life. Thanks so much again!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/23 05:34 AM
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This is actually a good point, I was recently looking for a job and got pissed about the rejections but it was not the same as with women. I assume because I did not give a fuck most of the job interviews. If I wanted a job and got rejected it of course annoyed me but I have a total different approach towards it. I fail an interview and see my weekpoints, so next time I just prepare better and thats it. You could apply the same logic torwards picking up women but I unfortunately think like that.…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 01:57 AM
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Thanks for those kind words, I really appreciate that
/r/TheRedPill01/01/23 05:00 PM
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Hey man, thanks for your reply. The thing, I really dont want (and still dont want) to have some special activies in my life just to get some pussy. I want to meet women trough my daily life. Thats the reason I was so hardcore approaching to include it in my daily life. I stopped Cold approaching rn because I meet a girl, I just found out for me, that I am not a plate spinner because its to time consuming (I did it). I focus on one girl and if she is pissing me of, I next her and start approachi…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/23 03:00 AM
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I would suggest, try to monitore as much as possible. For example lets take lifting: I trake my calories/food, my weight, my gym session (every set, how much I lift) etc. If I dont progress as expected. I just look at the data and try to analyse it. Sometimes I notice a few things for example, to less sleep combined with not enough carbs and too much fat etc. ​ Always have some statistics about your progress to identify things like that
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 11:57 PM
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Thanks for your comment. This does make sense. To be honest my objective value is actually quite high but my subconscious feeling is actually really low I guess. Its probably because of my childhood. Even though I dont like to take the childhood path, its probably it... And its true, I have the feeling that I dont deserve this and that not just with girls, even with my education/professional career. My strategy was just to prove my self. But I slowly get the impression that this strategy is not …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 09:02 PM
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Hey man, thanks for your reply. I agree with you, I have limiting beliefs. I believe if I can erase my limiting beliefs I can be truly free. I am going to watch your video, you have some other advices?
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 04:10 AM
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You are absolutely right but the question is now, is there a correlaction between your value and your success with women? Because if not it would mean everyone has the struggle to meet girls and the struggle would follow an equal distribution but sadly this is not the case(?). I once read that just 40 % of men of the history of human kind had children so it would more or less mean ~2 girls are mapped to one guy. For me its just hard to understand how to judge your own value nonjudgemental when p…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 06:45 PM
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Thanks for your reply. What other strategies you are talking about?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 06:14 PM
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It makes sense but I think your logic has some flaws. First of all, you start to mix cold approaching with warm approaching (night game). Warm approaches have way higher success rates What you are trying is, is to sell yourself completly to have access to women but on other hand you are preaching to stand out of the group.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 05:08 AM
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Thanks for the comment my friend. Yes that is true, most interactions are over within minutes (1-3) because they are in some way already "occupied". I reached the same stats as you at the end of my approaching break, this stat is kinda realistic, to push it even more is quite challenging. Have you approached approaching, if yes why is that? How did you deal with rejection etc.?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 05:04 AM
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I really appreciate your comment, thank you a lot for that! Your analysis makes so much sense. Sadly you are right. my results are really attached to my identity. I want to prove that I am "worth it" through my success with women. And if I dont get the success I think I personally failed as a man and as a human being. Do you maybe have some book recommandations about "an internal locus (focus?) of evaluation"? It sounds really interesting. Or maybe some generell advices to reach this kind of sta…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:58 AM
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I say my face is uncommon because I have german/arabe background, In my whole life I just mad 2 persons who have the same roots. Its quite uncommon, girls describe me as "exoctic" and in my opinion sadly thats a good description because its so rare. I double approached girls sometimes (I did not know I already approached them) and they told me, they cant forget my face because its so uncommon (or maybe because I was the only one who approached them). I started to grow a beard this year, but not …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:49 AM
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I wanted to avoid that but here we go: I am 6'3 my friends 5'7, I have a good body (people even told my I have the perfect body), face is uncommon because of my background, cant tell if cute or not, started to make good money. The reason why I avoided to say that is, I do not think my friends look better than me its their attitude and their game, I meet guys who looked like trash and had good success at the end of the day, your looks just help you to avoid get hard rejected thats it. ​ And with …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:29 AM
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No not at all, I dont wanne defend anything. I am just trying to say, that you can also have success without choosing signals and you would be suprised how much. I approached with a few friends of mine that were more successfull than me and they mostly did not get any signals. I am just trying to say its better to approach than to freak out and do nothing.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:16 AM
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In my personal experience, I had more success with women who did not even look at me lol. I think at the end it just matters if you approached or not, fuck choosing signals
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:09 AM
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Bro I checked your profile. You are good looking and really young. Try to focus a bit more on your physique and you will be a 10/10 (lookswise). Good job and I wish you the best
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:39 AM
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I approached within one year 1000 girls. If you fuck 5% of your cold approach attempts you are already REALLY good and I personally think everything above 5-6 maybe 7 % is just a straight lie. Not gonna lie, this number game is at some point really taxing. I would recommand everyone just to approach from time to time. Even when your fuck less then 5% (my current success rate is between 1-2% I would say, at the beginning it was 0.5 % or something lol). If you approach 20-30/40 girls per MONTH you…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/22 05:11 AM
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I am honest to you. I really dont know. Sometimes I think it was the biggest waste of time but sometimes I think it was a great experience. I think time will tell if it was worth it or not.I am going to elaborate a bit about my experience: To make things clear. I approached 1000+ girls in 1 1/2 years. I fucked 4 of them and I dated like 15 or something. The first 400-500 approaches were a warm up more or less. I did not give a fuck how I looked while approaching girls, I did not try to improve, …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/22 01:35 AM
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Don't believe this bullshit that focusing on your career and your gym body is going to make all the women come to you. I know guys that are 6 figure salary earners with a gym body and over 6 foot tall who have NO game at all and no options. What do you recommand to all those guys who have those traits about where to meet girls or how to include them in your life? I will start my first real job soon and earn 90k, I am 6'3 and have a great body. Everything is getting better slowly but the thing is…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/22 01:53 AM
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If you are really really good I would say you can fuck 5/100 (daygame, cold approach) which is not that bad each 20 girls one fuck, but you have to be on point. You easily approach 20 girls in 1/2 weeks. 10 are blow outs, 10 you talk to, 7 are just not your typ, and with 3 you exchange numbers, 1-2 flake and the last one you fuck. keep it simple as that Right now I am at 1/100.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 11:03 PM
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Man the way you described what I think is the optimal alpha male. You are in touch with your feelings, you allow emotional connections, you share what you fell BUT you are also stoic as fuck. If it matters you dont care if things dont work out. You are not a slave to your dick. You dont tolerate shit and if it matters you walk away
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 10:28 AM
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So you wanne say people with low IQ tend to be more toxic?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/22 09:16 PM
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I am asking myself why has it to be like that? Why cant we just be honest, friendly and giving to each other. All this crap you hear and all the stuff they teach you here is to defend yourself. Sometimes it seems that almost everything is toxic or could get toxic if you dont watch out. It is so tiring...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/22 08:35 PM
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Thats a valid reason my friend, good luck with that
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 04:22 PM
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Its funny, people always wanne move a class higher. I had a discussion with a friend a few days ago. Why is it like that? Ok you get a bigger house, possibly a more beautiful woman, more money? But is this really happiness? I am pretty sure you can have such happy life without being the highest in your hierarchy. Make a career is a fucking concept to put you all straight and to make you a good employee who stfu and works his ass of for another guy with another dream. And now you all are sharing …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/22 09:29 AM
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You are absolutely right and I say this as a guy with more than 800+ approaches within a year. I would consider myself as a beginner to advanced and I still struggle to find the right opener. Of course its way more important how you say than what you say but still if you wanne get really good with it, you have to read the room correctly. I just know you cant be static you have to be dynamic in all situations. There are situations where a direct approach is the prefered one but it depends. When y…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 09:40 PM
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You liked her appearance thats it. You should dig deeper to know if you like her or not. Appearance is nice but it goes by faster than you might think
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 06:18 PM
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Yeah most of the time. Of course I wanne fuck too but you have to get to know her before. And trust me if you like her personality its good for your soul too. The sex is better with a person you like. And at some point its more about getting better with women or conversations sex is like the 2-3 priority because its inklusive when you are good with women. You think right now, that you have to talk with her about the weather but no, you talk about her. Dont ask question make statements. Me: Hi Gi…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 07:12 PM
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I mean everything is limited right? Its called game for a raison, just 10 minutes ago I approached a girl, she was really bossy and I did like 200 mistakes really xD She throws so many shittest at me it was crazy. She reminded me of a girl i met last year, she was exactly like her, super bossy. I fucked up the conversation but I realized it went better than the conversation from the last year. So I made progress and I realize what i said wrong. For me its a skill I try to train and like every sk…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 05:19 PM
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You can say whatever you want its more important on HOW you say it. I still struggle with it, but when I have beta vibes I dont receive good feedback. Just start with a hi whats up. I have to work on my mindset but I try to assume attraction, that she knows me already and that I wanne have fun (without fixing on getting the number). Yes I memorize some stuff but rather by coincidence. Most of the time you get the same bullshit responses or questions and you know how to deal with it. For example …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 11:42 PM
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Last year I went crazy and approached over +700 girls. I spend whole evenings just approaching instead of working on my thesis or other important stuff. I was like possessed, I wanted to change so much that this was my first priority. You have to know whats important in your life. For me definitely my personality, to grow as a human being, to understand what are my strenghts and weaknesses were way more important than to own fucking more money. You can always work on getting more money but you w…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 09:22 AM
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I have a question. I have met a girl from cold approaching yesterday. I wanted to fix a day for a date this week but her family is in town so we said yeah lets do it next week. So she gave me her number (I did not give my nor did I call her). I was not sure what to do. Should I text her the same day or should I wait until next week and hit her up? I was a bit afraid that she loses interested if I dont text her at all. I did not want to text with her, just invest 2-3 memos and thats it. So I send…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 10:07 AM
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Seriously whats the end goal here? I am fucking young and I am so confused. Not now but when I am older. I want to have a family with kids and a wife. Why should I know marry a women or have kids with her when I know this bitch is going to betray me?
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 06:16 PM
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Thats a really good question. I once read that in order for a man to change, he first has to get really fucked up. And this happened to me in different aspects in my life. It happened to me when I was a child regarding education (since then I have the drive to do a phd) and it happened to me in my love life too. 2019 I left the country to study abroad for 2 semester to see my ex girlfriend. I still remember I was lying with her on the bed and started to shake. A while after I took the train to m…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 11:52 AM
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I noticed something during my seduction career. Its one of my golden rules The more people are around you, the more likely the chance that she will like you This counts especially for day game. Its funny usually you are getting more nervous with more people around but, but for the girl its nice, because she knows you are not a thread
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 12:35 AM
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I started to cold approach like mad dog last year. I had over 700+ cold approaches only in 2021. And trust me if you have met me in 2019/2020 you would have seen a different person. I literally changed me. Before that, I was so much in my head. I started to hate myself because I could not do what I actually wanted to do. It feels like a prison in your own mind. One day I realised the fucking prison is open and I just have to leave it. It gave me such a big relief to overcome my fears that I am w…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/22 12:23 AM
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Most of the time you can say with the mask if the girl is cute or not. I have to admit I had a few occasion where the girl looked completely different without mask but quite rare. Most of the time when her upper face is good, its the same with the lower part but be prepared to have some exceptions
/r/TheRedPill10/01/22 10:19 PM
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Thanks for the video, I will watch that!
/r/seduction27/09/21 11:06 PM
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Thanks for your advice. I really dont look for a fast path. I am looking for the path that helps and works even if that means it will take years
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:54 PM
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I get what you are saying. I still have some "training days". For example if I know ok I am heading to the gym today, I am telling myself to approach atleast 5 girls or something. Its rather rare that I just go out to talk to girls anymore. And I actually prefer your way. But I still think there is nothing wrong about to go out with a friend 1-2 times per week
/r/seduction24/09/21 08:11 AM
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I always had the same question and almost nobody answered me that question, so I am happy to give an honest view. From 400 Girls, I had sex with 2 From 400 Girls, I went with 10-15 to dates From 400 Girls, I got like +- 50 numbers But let me elaborate those numbers. My first 50-150 approaches were just bad, I literally had no game, was nervous as fuck and did not know what to say. Sometimes I just fucked it up, even when I got a number. I would say when I hit 200 approaches I got better. Most nu…
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:42 PM
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I am really open for any advice. Could you elaborate on that? You mean for example I am heading to the gym and when I see a cute girl then its a good time to approach? And not going out just in order to approach girls?
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:33 PM
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Few months ago I saw a comment that said "The first 500 attempts are just a warm up" And I am pretty sure thats kinda the truth xD
/r/seduction23/09/21 11:48 AM
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Its a girl I am just fucking. But you are 100% right, she is acting weird atm, I am not sure if her interested lv is dropping or something else. But I wont contact her, thanks bro
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 08:13 AM
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No shit man today (1 hour before you have posted that) I got a message from my girl, that she cant today because she felt sick. Inside I was raging because she texted me that at 4pm, usually we meet up at 6pm. In addition, I was also extremely horny. When I am in this state of mind, I tend to let my emotions control me. We discussed a bit if its a good idea to meet, because she asked me (lol why do you ask me if its a good idea, its your body). I just said, yeah I mean we can just hang around fo…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 10:07 PM
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I dont understand girls sometimes. When I boy goes over to a chick, most of the time he is prepared as fuck. He has is condomns, is shaved, smells decent even when you are not sure that you are fucking. But girls sometimes really think we meet up to talk for 2-3 hours lmao
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 10:07 PM
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Just flag the pictures that got reported? Now you can difference catfishing and people who are recreating their accounts
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 10:58 PM
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Sometimes I even think that this still wont work because they could hash your pictures too https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hash\_function So even if you delete your account, get a new number etc. They still would know that you are the same person. And maybe even worse, if they use AI to screen your face they could know that you are the same person on new pictures and get your old elo value back. But I am not sure about that
/r/TheRedPill13/09/21 09:00 AM
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Do you have some books for this topic, so I can start to learn that stuff too? I am a beginner
/r/TheRedPill08/09/21 09:26 PM
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Could you send me that too?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 07:30 PM
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Whats NDA?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 09:23 AM
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Bruh if spain is exotic then africa is a new planat for you haha
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:36 PM
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Your post history looks like shit
/r/seduction27/07/21 08:44 PM
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I have a friend of my, I would say we are more or less on the same attraction level. But he is extremely good with it, its the vibe he is giving compared with the right cold reads. I had a lot of experiences when I started to do cold reads and it just did not clicked as you have described. The girl is not really into the conversation. But I dont know why, I still have the feeling I just did the wrong cold readings. Some weeks ago I met a girl on the street and I told her she looks like a crazy a…
/r/seduction27/07/21 08:03 PM
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wtf calm down
/r/seduction27/07/21 07:09 PM
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Just approach, go from one time a day/week to more and more
/r/seduction26/07/21 08:45 AM
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I literally have a challange with a friend this week: For each day of this week we have to approach atleast on group of girls. And it was surprisingly easy to get the number
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:13 PM
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I am also struggling with this. I am far away to be a pro but I am pretty sure if that happens, then its just because of the approach. Everything depends on the approach. You cant convince (atleast most of the time) a girl over text to go out and like you
/r/seduction08/06/21 12:04 PM
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Good point, I am rather new in the pick up / redpill stuff and I am still struggling when I got a girls number and she just stopps to answer in the middle of nowhere. But I noticed its slowlyyyyyy getting better and better. I think its just a matter of time?
/r/TheRedPill07/06/21 10:21 AM
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Why is NYC the toughest city in the world to date in?
/r/seduction22/05/21 03:44 PM
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Man bro thanks for your analysis! Recently I have a "bad" time, I get ghosted all the time, girls asking for my number to hang out with me, they propose a date, anything and at the end I am still getting ghostet. If that happens a few time in a row you start to get soft. My rule is, if a girl does ghost me I just delete the fucking number. It prevents simping. But still you feel bad about it. So its nice that you keep repeating whats important: To have a self worth and to work on ourselfes
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 08:04 AM
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So just because I became a Champ at something I stop training? There is always more to learn
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:23 PM
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I still prefer to ask a fisherman that does not catch any fish than the fish itself. You know why? Because then I can learn what did not work
/r/seduction18/04/21 09:03 AM
17

Guys watch out female response spotted (Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman). ​ There is nothing reprehensible about fucking around when both parties know whats up. Its not my problem if the opposite cant control her/his feelings, I mean if both decide to go into a relationship its fine, but if not its not a problem because I have communicated that
/r/seduction17/04/21 08:47 AM
1

Yeah what I said too 😵
/r/seduction16/04/21 08:12 AM
1

Source?
/r/seduction16/04/21 12:11 AM
1

Yeah but you dont have to forget that men are most of the time the ones that initialize violence. So its like men starts to fight men and men starts to fight women. Its not like women starts to fight men. So how high is the chance when 2 women meet at the night that they are fighting compared to man/man and women/man?
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:46 PM
2

In our western society you as a man dont have to be afraid to get attacked, atleast not as much as a woman. I have never walked home at night and were scared that the guy behind me is going to rape me, have you? I agree on the point that we men have to do WAY more to be accepted. If a chick is inviting me to go for a drink at her place do you really think I am worried if she is crazy? I just slap her to hell if she is getting aggressive. Now try to play the game as a women
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:59 PM
20

Trust me, when I was younger (like 18-23) I HATED it when men told me, that it makes no sense to listen to women advices. I told myself, that cant be true, human is human, the gender does not matter, if she likes x and y, he will like it too. But the reality hit hard, unfortunately, this is not the case. It can have several reasons, society, biology or hollywood. The main point is, women and men live a completely DIFFERENT life. ​ One example, when women told me, they had an argument with their …
/r/seduction12/04/21 11:40 PM
66

My Rule, when I see Posts from women here, I say to myself: "Read the comments from men and do NOT listen to her"
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:13 PM
5

Women really dont have a problem nowadays to ghost someone, from 10 cold approaches, 5 dont even respond, 3 are responding but then suddenly ghost, 1 is actually saying that she is not interested and the last you date
/r/seduction06/04/21 02:22 PM
8

From now on, each conversation you have you try to maintain eye contact, but dont be a weirdo, glance to left and right from time to time
/r/seduction06/04/21 12:18 PM
11

Man like, I am a computer scientist and you cant imagine how hard it is for me to stop my logical thinking when I am with girls. When I am with my male friends there is NO PROBLEM at all, we are honest, direct and say things that make sense. But when I am with women, I really have to remind myself to talk to her with less logical thinking. Sometimes its so frustrating because you get the impression that women (not all I know, I know) cant deal with a logical mind or its not the way they think it…
/r/seduction22/03/21 12:02 AM
2

Hey man, ich weiß wie du dich fühlst. Ich kann dir aber bezüglich Cold Approach raten, geh einfach öfters raus, vor allem wenn das Wetter gut ist. Wenn das Wetter gut ist, gehe ich meistens mindestens für eine Stunde raus und cold approache ein bisschen (gut ich wohne in ner Großstadt, kein Plan ob das für dich auch so schnell möglich ist). Aber verteile deine Einkäufe einfach auf 2-3 mal die Woche. Dann haste wenigstens auch noch ne Ausrede, dass du sowieso nochmal raus musst, falls du dich unw…
/r/seduction21/03/21 08:54 AM
2

Ahh bro I got you. Fuck her man, she belongs to the streets, nobody who has a good heart would ever do that
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:29 AM
0

Your face was visible? If not who cares if someones sees your dick, most men will say "wow you are gay because you have a dick pic on your phone" and women will maybe even like it How people react to nudes of men or women is completely different
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:16 AM
4

Hmm no, if I sended a dick pic I would do it to make her horny thats it
/r/seduction21/03/21 12:09 AM
48

Man for real I watched the video and sometimes I am asking myself if this is all a huge joke, right? I mean it seems like you need a fucking PhD to understand women
/r/seduction20/03/21 11:37 PM
9

Look, we've spotted a SIMP! You know just because you have the emotional intelligence of a stone and dont see that the behavior described above is completely wrong you dont have to pissed.
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:17 PM
41

And those are the men we other men have to fight against. I really hate those guys myself. Everytime you approach a woman you have to fight against this type of guys because like in your example most women had some bad experiences with random guys. I am just sorry for you that this happened to you. There are also some cool guys
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:20 AM
11

So true man, I thought more about this than I would like to admit. But thats just life, some girls will find it creepy. But thats the funny thing, what is creepy? For each person the definition of creepy is different. Some say the way, he talks, walks, thinks or blablabla is creepy. As long as you are charming and respectful everything will be fine
/r/seduction20/03/21 08:11 AM
2

Haha oh man so true! I think to logical all the time 😂 In summer I will try it!
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 01:59 PM
16

True bro. From now on I wont say shit
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 09:19 AM
72

Thats so true, and thats why I am struggling with this whole crap. I am not sure if I have found a solution but, I am still me but I wont allow any manipulation/bullshit beta stuff. Example: Yesterday I met up with a girl I have cold approached and she asked me if I can help her to get abs. I told her you have to lose weight, and this bitch told me no I have to train my abs more. She told me she does crunches almost every day, she does not know if she is gaining muscles or is losing weight, she …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 08:55 AM
2

I think its not that easy my friend. I dont know how many people I know who are not clear about their intentions. Its not even just the intention its your whole mindset. Of course you can be clear about the intention but still you can be manipulative. How? You start to pay extra attention to the girl, you start to ask deeper questions and you let her talk more. If any of this examples is just happening because you think you will get an easier access to here then you are actually already manipula…
/r/seduction13/03/21 06:52 PM
2

Haha safe bin ich auch, merkt man auch safe an meinem englisch. Generell muss ich sagen, super anstrengend, aber ich glaube das liegt einfach am Verhältnis von Mann zu Frau und vice versa, das ist meiner Meinung nach teilweise echt gestört. Schreib mir doch ne PM und wir können mehr darüber quatschen, würde auch gerne deine Meinung hören
/r/seduction13/03/21 08:17 AM
2

Bro I believe her that she was sick, really. But its not about being sick its about "I let this guy wait and maybeeeee I am in the mood to meet him if I have nothing else to do"
/r/seduction13/03/21 08:14 AM
-1

Oh shit guys, watch out! Here we have a SIMP in his natural terrain. Its very typical for SIMPs to defend women at any cost! ​ Realtalk: You would never ever talk with your family/friends like that how she talked to me. If I am feeling sick or whatever, I will say "Hey you know I am sick, lets do it another day If I am feeling ok, alright?" Maybe even "Yo give me some days I think Wednesday is to early, but how about the weekend? blablabla
/r/seduction13/03/21 07:54 AM
7

I had a situation a few days ago. I cold approached a girl and we started to text each other. I asked (monday) her if she free on wednesday she answered "I am not sure, because I am sick, but mayyyyyyyyyybe I will be ok then". Actually I hate responses like that, because that is clearly manipulative but its getting worse. I told her (btw that was a mistake), ok lets do it anway if you are sick we can cancel it. Is 5pm fitting for you? She saw my message immediately and responded tuesday evening(…
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:28 PM
0

Problem is rather that girls think its actually creepy when the boy is not attractive. So where is the line? You will never now, sometimes during my cold approaching sessions, I have girls they love me but sometimes (I try to be uncreepy AF) they still think I am creepy. So be you works. Of cours there are a lot people who behave creepy but its not always your fault. ​ Hot girls can handle cold approaches way better than mediocre because they get way more approached
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:13 PM
3

Hey I really would like to have some references. Could you post some good papers, books etc about that?
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:07 PM
1

I watched the film yesterday, but since i started to loathe hollywood I'm a little cautious with their tips. Yesterday I realized most of the times already your background determines with what girls you will get along well. Dont get me wrong but for example me, I am German/Arab and I rather look Arab but most of the times I have good connections with girls with similar (mixed) background or black hair. You think now, why black hair? Because girls with black hair still have a different standing i…
/r/seduction12/03/21 11:01 PM
1

You can do it too my friend
/r/seduction11/03/21 01:20 PM
1

Ah ok haha. Yeah you are totally right, I need the feeling that I make some progress. I dont know sometimes I have really good convos, but then I wanne exchange numbers and the girl says she has a friend. I dont know why but girls with boyfriends are actually the funniest ones, maybe because there are more relaxed about it, dunno. But I need to have more fun in those convos, I think this is the key-part which will help me. I mean who can resist a funny, confident, cool guy :)
/r/seduction08/03/21 08:46 PM
1

And as I said, that is clearly not my intention.
/r/seduction08/03/21 08:31 PM
9

Sadly, I actually have to reprogramm my whole fucking mind because I thought Hollywood is true
/r/seduction07/03/21 02:28 PM
0

I have to add that an abundance mindset is also super important the more you give a fuck if she is texting/calling you back the more relaxed you are. It's incredibly liberating to know that if is not going well with one chick you know that you just get the next one. I dont wanne know how many times I have been super carefull because I did not want to fuck up the conversation, because I just had one girl and it was already exhausting enough to get her number (or any number in like 2-3 months lol)
/r/seduction06/03/21 01:05 PM
1

Hey man great post. Let me share my statistics too: First of all, I started to cold approach etc beginning of 2020 so now i am over 14 months in the game. I would say my skills are way better then before. At the beginning I was quite nervous, I depended on the reaction of hers and so one. So I think in 2020 I approached around 40 girls in total, i know that's not much but yeah. From this 40 girls I got like 8-10 numbers I would say and I dated 3 of them. And I literally fucked no one, not even k…
/r/seduction06/03/21 12:00 PM
1

I agree, me for example because of Covid, I am basically just just home. I work, train and eat at home because (I am not from the USA) everything is closed. Thats why I telling myself to go out 4-5 times a week for 90 minutes and approach atleast 5 girls. If life is finally going back to normal, and I am heading back to the gym etc. I will stop that and just approach on the way
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:47 PM
1

Where are you from?
/r/seduction24/02/21 04:24 PM
1

Mean great comment! I will work on that, thanks!
/r/seduction11/02/21 09:41 AM
1

Yeah you are right. Sometimes I have the feeling she is not that interested but I still ask for the number (I mean why not xD). But yeah I have to flirt more, thats true
/r/seduction09/02/21 09:11 PM
1

Depends bro, I cant really tell. I approach from each direction haha
/r/seduction09/02/21 07:00 PM
2

Another think I dont understand is, why the fuck, do I even get the numbers? I mean if you are not interested why do you give me your number or why on earth do you even respond and then start to ghost me?
/r/seduction09/02/21 03:14 PM
0

Ok thanks bro
/r/seduction09/02/21 03:11 PM
1

Yeah I like your viewpoint. I will keep that in mind, my friend!
/r/seduction09/02/21 03:10 PM
2

Your main problem is that you're not making an emotional connection and having memorable interactions. Learn how to be more charismatic/polarizing and be "in the moment". Yeah I really think thats it. I am going to try it out the next time
/r/seduction09/02/21 03:08 PM
1

Haha I was thinking about to call the next chick
/r/seduction09/02/21 03:06 PM
1

Hmm it depends, most of the time "Hey its me Nado155, how are you ..." and then I add something. Last few times I tried "You reacted confidently when I spoke to you" but it really depends, I try out different things. I noticed if I ask to quick for a walk most of time it does not work out. Maybe because she does not trust me enough (?), or because of slutshaming(?) that she might think if I go out withhim after a few messages. ​ Edit: For example on Bumbe I just exchange a few messages and then …
/r/seduction09/02/21 02:01 PM
1

Dont give up man. Go start Approaching and if you are already approaching just approache more
/r/seduction07/02/21 08:18 PM
6

What should I do if i am behind the Girl?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 02:10 AM
1

Games? Get the fuck out bro
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:19 AM
2

This guy is a joke. Let him Troll
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:10 AM
1

Hahaaha you guys are killing me. Literally just read the edited post
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:08 AM
1

Hahahha good one
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:05 AM
1

Yeah I will do that the next time
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:03 AM
3

When I first met her I asked her if she would like to go out and have a drink or something. She agreed on that (yeah I know I know maybe just not to hurt me). I have added the convo to the post. Thats why I thought its a good idea to ask immediatly. But really some guys think I have to overthink every word, like come one next time I will hire a social media agency that helps me
/r/seduction09/10/20 08:02 AM
1

Exactly, thats why I wrote her WHEN are you free the next days
/r/seduction09/10/20 07:59 AM
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I know what you mean. But still I dont know why she is even answering. She just could ghost me. But maybe you are right
/r/seduction08/10/20 11:58 PM
-104

Bruh, are you serious its not important what I wrote (besides that I recited that because we talked abou that) but who cares except you. Not a great advice
/r/seduction08/10/20 11:43 PM
1

I dont get what you think you have won by paying for her? I wont pay something for a person I dont even know much. If we go drink 2 beers for 6€ fine but not like 20-30€
/r/seduction19/03/20 02:04 PM
6

Is it that hard in London?
/r/seduction24/02/20 01:41 AM
2

The problem with Tinder is not that your profile is maybe not good enough. The problem is rather that most guys are shadow banned. Every time I install Tinder I get like 20 Matches on one day, next day just 5 and so one. And even if you pay, you wont get this boost back. Tinder is a profit-oriented company dont forget that, they dont even want that you find your big love, it makes more sense for them if you just swipe your ass off, because you might buy their bullshit tinder plus or see their ad…
/r/seduction12/02/20 10:51 PM
1

I am not sure about AMS, he is like 40 years old and hanging around with girls who are expecting expensive Restaurant dates in New York City. Girls around the world are mostly the same but can behave completely different from different countries or cities. Are the Girls AMS is dating the same as the girl you are dating from Bali? Never Ever my friend
/r/seduction04/02/20 05:10 PM
1

Its probably because society (depends on your country but almost all think the same) says its weird to approach random people, so thats why we think but its not weird at all. The goal should be to include it your daily life thats why we are out and start roaming around. We want to be good and train for the future. Think like that
/r/seduction04/02/20 05:04 PM
1

No man dont approach her infront of her door, do it Outside or something but never ever knock
/r/seduction29/01/20 12:15 PM
6

So at the end you still had to hide something? Thats the point with poly relationship they all say they dont care if the partner has sex withsome else but deep down you have a favourite one and it hurts when he, her or it has some sex with someone else. In Germany we have plenty documentations about this type of relationship and mostly you hear raisons like "Its good to have 2 partner because when one of them breaks up I have someone who is still loving me"...
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:32 PM
1

Party=Club
/r/seduction02/11/19 06:30 PM
1

End of the Party
/r/seduction02/11/19 05:56 PM
1

Haha why?
/r/seduction25/10/19 02:31 AM
1

Hey I am going to PM you! :D
/r/seduction19/10/19 08:36 PM
1

Actually it was 3 days ago after 5 years I managed to approach a girl that I saw on the street. We took the same bus and after we left the bus, I went to her and told her she was cute and stuff. I almost pissed into my pants but I managed it and we exchanged numbers and see us tomorrow. I mean I had girlfriends before but I was since ever to shy to talk to woman I see on the street or women which I TOTALLY dont now but I realised 2-3 days ago after 5 years (I took me 5 years to this, with 18 I a…
/r/seduction10/11/18 10:40 PM
2

Wtf I dont understand guys like you. A lot of people getting distracted all 5 to 10 min, and scrolling trough whatsapp/facebook etc. so where is the problem if he just talk to her 20sec? Gosh with your mindset you can talk to no one because everyone is doing something
/r/seduction22/10/18 07:20 PM
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