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Imagine you are Neo, seeing the matrix. When you finally understand it all, through practice, you can see people who are like you used to be. You can go into a room and quickly see the social situation. Who are the shy guys? What are the potential barriers for you meeting a girl that night? If you aren't this person yet, you show up on the radar of people who are well-versed socially. It is very easy to sense shyness or fear.
/r/seduction05/02/15 08:22 AM
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Imagine you are Neo, seeing the matrix. When you finally understand it all, through practice, you can see people who are like you used to be. You can go into a room and quickly see the social situation. Who are the shy guys? What are the potential barriers for you meeting a girl that night? If you aren't this person yet, you show up on the radar of people who are well-versed socially. It is very easy to sense shyness or fear.
/r/seduction05/02/15 08:22 AM
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In a 1 to 1 situation, you just gotta keep practicing and then making note of what works. Talk to many people. It's like the first time you pick up an instrument. "It's difficult," you say, but 10s of millions of people are able to do it. Why can't you be one of them? Practice it, note improvement and technique, and work from there. When you feel good in a 1 on 1 setting, you just extrapolate from there. At a party, you build value in 20 different 1 on 1 settings, and each subsequent relationshi…
/r/seduction04/02/15 03:21 AM
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In short: http://www.pualingo.com/display-high-value-dhv/ The most important way to build value is to give value. Be the life of the party by introducing people to each other and making sure everyone is having fun. People notice throughout the night who is having fun and making it fun for everyone else. You can make yourself higher value in other ways, but remember that if people realize your value from a secondary source (your friend, THEIR friend, third hand from watching you!) it counts for m…
/r/seduction03/02/15 09:56 PM
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I'm sure a good amount of it does, it was just note taking afterall. There are a lot of things from RSD that aren't good, though, so be careful. I also like David Wygant a lot, so there might be some things of his in here, too. I guess what this is is a list of the things I found to be true. Some I realized on my own, some of it is confirming what others have said to be true.
/r/seduction03/02/15 09:52 PM
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TL;DR if your 2 poly arm is clipping through your 5 poly body, you are a bad dancer.
/r/seduction25/03/14 02:44 PM
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When you have gone through the cycle of having a good run and having a dry run enough times that you realize that no matter what happens, you will always recover.
/r/seduction23/02/14 11:47 AM
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Approaches never need to change. It is what you do after the first lay that matters. You can have the dirtiest SNL ever and still end up being a long-term couple if you express what you want either directly or in subtext later in your relationship.
/r/seduction26/08/13 06:21 AM
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Good luck man! I'm sure it will be a hit! Use the profits to come back to Japan!
/r/seduction16/05/13 11:28 PM
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Any way to sort "Top [FR]" or something? That would be a good feature.
/r/seduction17/11/12 10:51 AM
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Eating candy in a van.
/r/seduction10/11/12 08:08 AM
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Is stuttering incurable? Aren't there speech therapists that can help? If it is an obstacle that can be removed, I recommend trying everything you can to do so.
/r/seduction07/11/12 05:14 AM
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Negging has nothing to do with teasing man. They shouldn't expect that you are meaning any offense at all if you are using a neg. Any effects that occur come from within the receiving person, because of how they feel about the comment, not because they care about what you feel about it. The reason negging is misunderstood is because topics like this perpetuate it.
/r/seduction07/11/12 05:10 AM
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Thank god, get this post to the top. Negging is not teasing, and negging doesn't even need to be used in 99% of situations but people read about it, like the word, and think it is some ultra-great strategy to get a girl.
/r/seduction07/11/12 05:07 AM
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Not less than inviting as in mean to foreigners, it is just that the Japanese style bar has private tables so you don't go around meeting people. I started off as a college grad English teacher but I have moved up to an actual teaching career. My Japanese is okay, level 3 on a 1-5 scale (1 being the highest) No problem, questions are welcome!
/r/seduction04/11/12 02:53 AM
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I'm American. There are great bars, but they aren't western style where you can just stand around and talk to people or go to their table. If you have a group of friends, they are great. The western style bars in Tokyo are nothing special, but I can tell you a couple of them. The best clubs are Womb for dancing, Muse for girls, Feria for non-Japanese speakers, I'd say.
/r/seduction03/11/12 05:53 AM
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Boner-five! thwap
/r/seduction03/11/12 04:28 AM
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Value is how people see a person, their "worth" in the currency of social life. Giving value means you are making someone's value go up. For example, telling a girl about your friend's good qualities, including someone in plans, introducing people to each other. In the social world, everyone wants to meet people. If you are good at that, you can help others by meeting them and introducing them to your friends or to another person you have just met. Giving value is important for altruistic reason…
/r/seduction03/11/12 01:40 AM
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Thanks! I did another long one about a Day 2 a while ago: HERE
/r/seduction03/11/12 12:58 AM
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Thanks! I live in Tokyo and work full time.
/r/seduction03/11/12 12:30 AM
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"Sure, we can reschedule. Is everything alright?" I guess it depends how close you two are or if you hit it off. It isn't necessarily a flake. Could be something happened in the family or there is something she needs to do.
/r/seduction02/11/12 11:52 PM
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Yep!
/r/seduction02/11/12 11:11 PM
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I'm white, and I don't really have a picture of my costume. My camera got stolen at a club a couple months ago and I don't have a smartphone ;) It was a soccer player though, with a Japanese national jersey, so people loved that a foreign guy was wearing it.
/r/seduction02/11/12 11:10 PM
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A fellow Tokyo Sedditor! Sorry bout that!
/r/seduction02/11/12 11:08 PM
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You are reaching for stuff here. It is like trying to find the value in Cosmo. Even if it is there, it isn't worth digging through the bullshit. Licking a hand has perhaps 1 context in the world it would ever work, and we are talking about confidence and knowing if they are on the Pill or not. Dumbest stuff ever, sorry.
/r/seduction02/11/12 11:57 AM
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Either you need to go to a doctor or you just need more experience.
/r/seduction02/11/12 11:30 AM
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You definitely don't even need that much literature. A single seduction book is probably enough to get the gist of it. Then, go out.
/r/seduction02/11/12 03:01 AM
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This adds nothing man. Perhaps if you provided a field report or context? People generally don't like bragging posts with no substance.
/r/seduction01/11/12 03:58 AM
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Hmmmm, I don't know. A few of those examples seem to me like you come off as insecure about whether the girl is interested in you, and they have to reassure you that they will come. That isn't them qualifying themselves, that is them reassuring you because you weren't confident in them showing up. I think the best flake prevention technique is getting solid attraction before closing. I'd venture to say that if a girl qualifies to you after your text, they are low enough value to have not probabl…
/r/seduction01/11/12 03:57 AM
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Yes! This is all true. People talk about techniques, strategies, lines, what to do in so and so situation. You can give them the tools, but ultimately the only people who "get it" are ones who move beyond those things, throw them out the door, and embody what women attract. It is the difference between being an attractive guy and portraying an attractive guy. Even so, we need to recognize that the gamey part of seduction, the intro where everyone wants to know the best line, the techniques, ever…
/r/seduction01/11/12 03:49 AM
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I agree, though a bit more politely ;) Don't shoot yourself in the foot. Just give them the number man.
/r/seduction31/10/12 05:16 AM
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Frogma obviously didn't build up enough attraction before closing.
/r/seduction31/10/12 05:11 AM
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At the risk of offending you, I have to say that you are the same type of person who thinks "The Game" movie will bust us all open and make everyone amazing with girls and we won't have what we once did. Guys who truly "get it" need not worry about other guys studying "game." If you rely on routines and canned stuff, sure, I can imagine why you wouldn't want other people to know. If it makes you feel better, probably 80-90% of Seddit are keyboard jockeys or guys who want to get better but will n…
/r/seduction31/10/12 01:18 AM
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Regardless of whether this is true or not, this is a reason why it is good to have people to discuss this with outside of Seddit. The city subseddits are very good if you live in them. I hate calling them "lairs" though.
/r/seduction31/10/12 01:15 AM
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I am on Japan time so in case I don't have a chance to ask, please do it for me? Wygant was the first material I ever listened to. Thanks!!! 1) Have you ever met girls using a different language or in a country where English isn't the native language? If so, did you think it was different or that the girls were different? 2) A big topic on Seddit lately was about keeping the girl after you have her. What do you think the most important thing for keeping a relationship is? 3) What actor/celebrity…
/r/seduction31/10/12 01:11 AM
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Oh jeeze, that's kind of depressing but true. I don't know if I should thank you for posting this or what ;) I still don't have a Smartphone but could easily afford one. I don't want to become the kind of person that pulls out their phone in the middle of a conversation or goes to hang out with friends and sits with their phone in their hand. It is sad as shit.
/r/seduction30/10/12 12:31 PM
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Very true! Last Saturday I was heading to the party area of Tokyo and on the train I opened up this group of 5 girls and 2 guys and number closed one of the girls and told them maybe I'd seem em around (everyone was wearing costumes). I went to a party, picked up a hot girl, and then left with her. While walking down the street, 4 of the 5 girls were walking the opposite way and waved and said hello to me while I had the hot girl on my arm. We talked briefly and continued to another bar. At that…
/r/seduction30/10/12 12:20 PM
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Well, "I love you" as an English phrase is very strong, and I imagine for most couples it isn't something said for many weeks or even months. You probably do not love someone you just met, even if you think they are perfect. When you have seen someone at their worst and best, and you actually know the true type of person they are, and still want to be with them, maybe then you love them. Anything before that is infatuation, attraction, or lust. Everyone has different opinions of love, though. I …
/r/seduction30/10/12 11:58 AM
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Well, when is the test? To maximize your studying you should probably meet before it and in a place where you won't get distracted.
/r/seduction30/10/12 11:55 AM
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Nope, nope, nope! I used to be Mr. Nice Guy and only thought about others. Do good when you can, but often times you should be thinking about what you want. Guys concerned with only other people's happiness: -Supplicate -Stay in relationships that aren't good for them -Aren't ambitious -Think that being nice should reward them with something Never let go of your own happiness. It is more important than anything, because a man who does what he wants fulfills himself and becomes a better person in…
/r/seduction30/10/12 04:34 AM
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... if you are dating the most boring girl in the world, that might be enough. Do you think girls don't think about trading up if they have the opportunity? You can open up and be honest with a girl and be romantic, but she needs to believe that you are still the most interesting, most fun, and sexiest guy in the world.
/r/seduction29/10/12 02:28 AM
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Don't directly call the guy out using insults like that. Anything like that will instantly make you a pariah at the party, regardless of whether you are right or not. If you don't have a witty, conflict defusing comment, just ignore it and give your attention to people actually worth your time. Of course, this is just my opinion and personality. I don't like conflict, I don't like arguing, and I don't like fighting. It is pretty easy to avoid that since we can choose who we hang out with and tal…
/r/seduction28/10/12 11:19 AM
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Don't lean in. Imagine there is a string attached to your sternum and some puppet master is pulling your sternum up. Do your best to to imitate a George Clooney smile as you say your opener. Say it with a strong voice and more "matter of factly" than surprisedly. Basically don't let your tone go up in the end. Also, don't approach them from the side of from behind. You need to come right up and have their attention.
/r/seduction28/10/12 02:54 AM
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Is this a date or an approach? If it is an approach, it is more likely she isn't interested in you. Plow or eject. If it is a date, I usually tease or call the girl out. Either "Is your mom worried about you being out so late?" or "Ahhh, you are one of those kinds of girls..." Depends on how much you want her. If a girl does that, I don't mind calling her out because I don't care if she is offended or not. Usually, though, they back up and are more like, "No, no! Sorry!" and put their phone away…
/r/seduction27/10/12 11:06 PM
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Tell her "Let's take a break outside." or if you guys are really going at it just tell her you two are leaving together, something like, "Let's get out of here." and start leading her away.
/r/seduction27/10/12 11:03 PM
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Body posture, confidence, smirk/smile. Honesty is pretty attractive as long as you aren't stuttering, hunched over, or look nervous. Direct opening amplifies whatever presence you have, so make sure it is good.
/r/seduction27/10/12 11:01 PM
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Not as bad as already recognizing them as "friends." Seriously though, a missed cue isn't a big deal if you are going to see them again. If you guys consider each other friends, though, that is going to be the real hurdle.
/r/seduction27/10/12 11:00 PM
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Could you like... explain what you are talking about?
/r/seduction25/10/12 10:19 AM
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If you aren't in a relationship, you shouldn't expect a guy to not try and meet other women. It is on you to tell him what you want if you are disgusted by this. There isn't any dishonesty or lying going on.
/r/seduction25/10/12 09:47 AM
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Have a good date? Really like the girl? Go out and meet another one. Don't sit at home and wait for texts or ponder over whether something you said was taken poorly or if she likes you etc. etc. Basically, do anything to get out of the house and get your mind off her.
/r/seduction25/10/12 09:03 AM
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Just remember that progression isn't a straight line. It has up swings and down swings, but in general it is increasing. Also, analyze what went well/poorly each night you come home.
/r/seduction25/10/12 09:01 AM
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That song is sappy with romance. It isn't a bad thing. I like to dim the lights and then I have an iTunes list: I Wonder Who's Kissing Her Now - Ray Charles As Time Goes By - Carol Sloane On the Sunny Side of the Street - Billie Holiday Misty - Carol Sloane You've Change 'round Mignight - Jack Jones I'll Be Seeing You - Billie Holiday If You Were Mine - Frankie Laine These Foolish Things - Billie Holiday I'm Thru With Love - Nat Cole April in Paris - Ella Fitzgerald
/r/seduction25/10/12 08:59 AM
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What is the situation that you would be texting someone you have never met before? Also, you are already assuming it is going to be awkward. Have some higher expectations man. You have met and had first conversations with 1000s of people in your life.
/r/seduction25/10/12 08:53 AM
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Girls don't like dicks. They like confidence and guys who don't care what other people think. If you are trying to be a dick then you have a vast misunderstanding of how to meet women. You asking how you can change your personality to be a dick shows how much you really do care about how people perceive you. If you get numbers, and you get "interest," then you need to learn to escalate. More kino, more sexual tension in conversations.
/r/seduction25/10/12 08:50 AM
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Yeah, that's going out. Guys with AA often have trouble meeting people in their daily lives, walking around, going to work, eating, shopping. Sometimes it takes a specific goal of going out and meeting women to make the next step. Once you go out with the purpose of solely meeting women for awhile, you get good at "gaming" them. However, eventually when you have good inner game, you don't need to go out to pick up women. You got out to have fun with your friends, or you can just meet girls in yo…
/r/seduction25/10/12 06:24 AM
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It can be exhausting or exciting. You get to a certain saturation point. It isn't like I have 30 girls I am constantly dating. You get to a point where you are fine with dating 3 or 4 or whatever your number is. Then, when you meet new girls, you aren't needy and you can choose which one wants to be part of your "rotation" and through this you can get better quality. Sounds sort of inhumane and scientific, but abundance gets you over neediness which allows for selection which gives you quality.
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:15 PM
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First it was actually going out. I imagine about 90% of people on Seddit are not doing that or are having trouble getting the courage to do it. It's not bad, but people need to be honest with themselves and get out there. Next, once I began going out, it was going over things I did well and things I did poorly. I took notes and went over nights after I came back. After that, it was going out with a wingman/other seddit guys and going over things with them and observing each other. Yeah, that's 3…
/r/seduction24/10/12 03:12 PM
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Listen to this guy's advice! Even if you don't feel like it, you need to get out and meet people. If you are "too busy," do it while you are walking to lunch or any pause in the day. Do it because your mind knows it is what you should do, even if your heart doesn't feel like doing it.
/r/seduction24/10/12 02:52 AM
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Wygant was the first "pick-up" stuff that I ever listened to or read. I put it in quotes because I know he doesn't like using the word pick-up. He teaches about what I and many people here aspire to be. Not an artist, just a guy who enjoys his life and attracts girls going about his normal day.
/r/seduction24/10/12 01:28 AM
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A lot of people seem so scared or worried about being able to go direct, but I just can't understand that. It takes all of the pressure and weight off your shoulders. All you have to do is just say something honestly. Seems much easier than making up a story or question to try and hook someone.
/r/seduction24/10/12 01:21 AM
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Nice link! In hindsight I can imagine myself doing this a few times.
/r/seduction24/10/12 01:17 AM
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I have lost probably 20 or more girls on poor texting, but don't over think it. Basically I have 3 things: "It was fun meeting you" type of intro. Recall a nickname/inside joke/something you two shared. Ask a question that leads into your date invitation. I like taking girls to darts or to a restaurant where we make food together. I might ask "Have you ever played darts?" It isn't an amazing text, really. As long as you built attraction before closing, it shouldn't matter too much. The main thin…
/r/seduction23/10/12 05:54 AM
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You don't have to be in college to meet college girls. If there is a college in your area, any place around the college will have them. Go to some coffee shops around there or just walk around. Go to the actual campus and walk around, in the student union, etc.
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:50 AM
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The question you need to ask yourself is, "How do I not give a f*** if she is checking me out?" Do you really want to spend a second of your life wondering whether someone looked at you? Save yourself some time and just go talk to her if you are interested in her. IOIs are not meant to be searched for. They are noticed, and they aren't even necessary. All that matters is that you are interested in her.
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:45 AM
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Err... college? Anywhere around a college?
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:43 AM
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Generally I do it the next day unless it is early in the evening, and then sometimes I'll send one as it gets later. You will find in the beginning that you really care about how long until you text, how long in between texts, how often you text in a day, etc... As you get more experience, you will realize that it is not the timing of your texting, it is 2 things: The quality of your close. If you really hit it off and got her attracted to you, timing doesn't matter cause she is still probably g…
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:40 AM
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Kino is only creepy if it isn't congruent with your personality. I imagine you think that everyone thinks it is creepy, so when you do it, you don't believe it is normal nor that people will like it. Do it because you like it and it is part of your personality or what you want to become, not because a book tells you to. I live in Japan and am white and have no problem kino-ing. I also have Japanese friends and often spot Japanese guys kino-ing Japanese girls they are trying to pick up. I think y…
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:37 AM
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Well, if they go really well, you could take her home. If that isn't your style, get her number and tell her you'll call her the next day when you have some free time. Throughout the night though, if you like her, make sure your intentions are understood. Kino is important. She is YOUR date, blind or not. You have free reign of her backside. That sounded weird... but what I mean is, from the moment your date starts, you can place your hand anywhere from her hips to her shoulders and it should be…
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:09 AM
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Talking on the phone I don't go after. I can't remember what PUA said it, but the issue of efficiency... why go after a girl on the phone when there are more available ones? iPods just make the international "take off your headphones" gesture and ask them what they are listening to. Walking in a group you will have to open all of them, not just one person of course. I don't do this that often to be honest, except at night out at the bars. Depends during the day or at night. Girls walking briskly…
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:02 AM
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Example? Usually if you do something that bombs or could be offensive, they look at how you respond to realizing your own mistake. If you continue the conversation and not sit there looking like an idiot, it will go better.
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:59 AM
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Texting? Hell no, that is easy. All she has to do is look up. Think of alternatives: iPods, talking on the phone, walking in a group, walking briskly/as if in a hurry. Texting is the EASIEST thing a girl could be doing when you talk to her. Just say "Hey" and she will stop and look up. It isn't rude in the least bit.
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:56 AM
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Sleep with a girl. I was a virgin until 22. After my first time, you stop putting the pussy on a pedestal. Life gets easier ;)
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:53 AM
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Probe for a date or two, maybe it is an excuse. Otherwise, don't make a girl compromise her morals. There are plenty of other girls out there. I wouldn't wait around for a girl who says she doesn't want to have sex to change her mind.
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:42 AM
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Same way you beat AA. Do it because you know you have to. I hope, even if you don't do it, you can recognize that it is a huge part of picking girls up, right? Force yourself to take steps. Touch upon meeting, upon making a point, push and pull depending on if you are teasing/complimenting, or if you approve/disapprove of her answer, or agree/disagree.
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:40 AM
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Oooo slow down there bud! Haven't met her and you are already going through contingencies on if you wanted to date her? You are too in your head right now. Go, be cool and fun regardless of the girl, and enjoy the night. I'm sure you will be able to get the number of your own date if you don't screw up royally. Live in the moment!
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:38 AM
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Be more specific in your compliments. Don't tell her she is pretty, or she is good at something. Comment on what part of her wardrobe is good, what part of her personality you like, which body part is beautiful. Also, sure, she is good at cooking, but tell her what process was impressive to you, or what flavor/dish was good. If you pinpoint the exact thing you like and can tell her that, it is harder for her to shut it down.
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:32 AM
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You will see a lot of talk around here saying "girls are all the same" and to treat them all the same way. The truth is, they are different because hot girls have been treated differently their whole life. You shouldn't compromise your personality or change the way you are to fit their mold, but know that they will act differently at the start since they are used to guys coming up to them. I think you could approach 7s your whole life and be pro with them. When you start approaching 9s, just lik…
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:30 AM
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Go out a lot, share your hobbies in conversation and tell people your situation. Genuinely nice people love to meet people from out of town. A direct opener letting them know you are new can be refreshing. "Hey, I just moved to _____ and want to make some friends. You guys looked interesting. What is there to do around here?" Also, use online resources to find clubs/events to go to. Think of what you did in your old city and how you found those things. Try to emulate and expand on how you did th…
/r/seduction23/10/12 01:26 AM
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Sure man. I think they especially go for the hidden pictures.
/r/seduction22/10/12 10:31 PM
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Starting to work out have made me feel a lot better about my looks and help my confidence. I used to be one of those guys, too, that always though, "Fuck, enough with the 'hit the gym' advice." It actually works though. Give it a shot.
/r/seduction22/10/12 09:11 AM
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No, but I have had girls type their entire mail in and then hit cancel because they are drunk or something :D It kinda hurts the fluidity of the situation, but if they won't type it in again, they probably were never going to respond anyways.
/r/seduction21/10/12 01:36 PM
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I agree with 2nd_class_citizen . Also, as long as people put useful titles, you should know what you get or what you may learn from it. For reference: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11jb58/fr_day_2_multiple_venues_and_time_distortion/
/r/seduction20/10/12 11:22 PM
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I usually put their name in and just open up the number part. If their name is already put into my phone, I feel (not sure if it is true or not) that they feel like it just another small step to put it in.
/r/seduction20/10/12 11:18 PM
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To expand on this specialized technique, I also give give her the phone with the "enter number" part open. This is where you need to be careful. If she has fat fingers or is an idiot, she might forget to hit "save" and just hit cancel instead. ;)
/r/seduction20/10/12 11:17 PM
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I go with, "Tell me your number." I know, groundbreaking, right?
/r/seduction20/10/12 10:15 AM
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Average I don't know, but my goal is Day 2 every time, and I do pretty well with that. Unless it is a girl who I want to have a relationship with instead of just a night of sex, I will go for it Day 2 and if it doesn't work out I don't really hang out with her again.
/r/seduction20/10/12 04:55 AM
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I can confirm that. He introduced me to one of my girlfriends/sex friends within a week or two of meeting him!
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:09 PM
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A wingman helps if you have one. Also, if you have won over her friends already, most girls can be isolated by asking their friends for permission, which gives them the validation that are looking for. "Can I steal your friend for a moment?" And by "moment" I mean, the rest of the night and a bit into the morning.
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:02 PM
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If you can't open without magic, don't open with it.
/r/seduction18/10/12 03:00 PM
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Be hot, and if you aren't, dress hot. Touch him on the penis was also a good piece of advice. 99% of guys care about looks, so do everything you can in that department. Another thing we like is value, and how our friends see the girl we are with. If your friend can get even the slightest bit of interest from him, then show that other guys are interested in her, he will like her more. If you want to treat her like a guy in /r/seduction ,though, here it is: your friend has oneitis, go meet other g…
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:09 AM
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You need to lower your standards for one. No guy is attractive enough to warrant only 1-2 girls a year being able to reach his standards. You don't have to marry these girls and have children. Fuck a fatty. Sleep with 6s, 7s, and 8s. Girlfriend an 8. Don't think so far in the future. Enjoy now with many girls. People say "date more girls" because it works. You get better at your game, and you will naturally progress your ability to pick up better women.
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:52 AM
1

Well offering a girl you haven't had any physicality with yet the chance to have you over to her house to watch a movie (which is basically a euphemism for sex) probably isn't the best idea. I'd say go out for drinks then. Alcohol and solid game will make her more willing to have a guy over to her own place, but you will likely have to make some suggestions and insinuation that it needs to be her place.
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:46 AM
6

Reflectiveness is a good thing, but negativity isn't. A good mindset to deal with this is that EVERYTHING you do is a learning experience. The bad stuff is especially educational. If you truly believe this, even when you royally fuck up you will still come out ahead by being smarter and knowing what to do in the future. Reflect on everything! "hasn't called back, probably due to me." True or false, we may never know, but let's just assume it is true. Who cares. You slept with a girl, she probabl…
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:41 AM
1

Or you could just do it. Or don't. Why does it matter what we think? This is barely a step below "50,000 likes and I'll ______" facebook posts.
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:25 AM
2

Change questions to "accusations." Example: Where are you from? --> You seem like you are from out of town... Makes the conversation more fun, playful, and there are more chances for banter.
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:23 AM
1

Depends on the girl, your interests, the day, the country, the city... there are a lot of suggestions if you search "Day 2 ideas" or similar searches. In brief, do something you enjoy, lead her and make the choices yourself, think about the logistics if you want to bring her back to your place, and don't pay for everything (necessarily).
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:20 AM
1

Don't give them options. You need to choose. As Austinus_Prime mentioned in his comment, start off with the bar and have an excuse for the movie later. Bring up movies in the conversation naturally, or something you would like to show her at your place.
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:15 AM
3

Nice man. I never really knew all that stuff about your past. I look forward to reading more in this guide!
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:08 AM
3

Her agreeing to go to coffee/a restaurant with you means she is compliant and has taken an interest in you. If I have achieved that, no, a "practical" touch like that, used to guide her, has never gotten me a negative reaction. If there is no practical reason for a touch other than to touch her, like if you are standing at a bar and you put your hand on her lower back, there is potential she could react negatively (doesn't mean you shouldn't try!)
/r/seduction17/10/12 12:21 PM
2

Nice stuff man! Lead her to the coffee line and restaurant with your hand on her lower back. Not the whole time, just when you are turning/starting out!
/r/seduction17/10/12 05:16 AM
2

"Hey, I haven't met you guys yet. I'm _______" said confidently is always a good one. Meet people, even the "less attractive" or shy ones. Meet different groups of people and the introduce them to each other. Give value to people by showing them you actually care about what they are saying and helping them meet other people.
/r/seduction17/10/12 01:29 AM
2

If bars weren't the place for singles to hook up anymore, we would see a sharp decline in population. You are seeing what you want, or making conclusions to justify a problem. People will always want to meet the opposite sex when alcohol is involved.
/r/seduction13/10/12 02:25 PM
3

Dumb kids. You would think they'd learn after the second time!
/r/seduction11/10/12 11:47 AM
1

Nothing wrong with noticing IOIs, but don't look for them and stop asking about them :) An IOI can be a big push for a new guy to talk to a girl. Don't you remember what it was like, or what it still is like trying to get the balls to talk to a girl? If you had the faintest idea that she is interested in you, it might give you the extra little confidence your AFC might need to talk to her. If you are actively looking for them though, you are just kidding yourself!
/r/seduction11/10/12 11:45 AM
11

It's not luck man. Luck is a girl approaching you. It was your choice to talk to her :)
/r/seduction11/10/12 11:41 AM
1

The opener as fine as long as he cuts off the start and the end. "I don't normally do this, but I think you're really attractive, and I know I'd regret not introducing myself" is a perfectly fine opener. Substituting other stuff for "attractive" might be better since that sounds so clinical. Try "gorgeous" or "pretty." Not everything has to be a game or a joke ;)
/r/seduction11/10/12 11:40 AM
1

People who want to learn seduction usually want to be able to win the girl of their dreams, and to do so means being able to do well with generally all types of women. When you are good enough at picking up a variety of women, you are going to be able to take the liberty of picking and choosing the kind you want. If the kind you want swoons at romantic lines, then by all means use them! If the girl doesn't swoon then hey, you keep movin' on ;)
/r/seduction07/10/12 01:00 PM
1

Turn up that AC, get a blanket, watch a movie. You must watch a movie. No one gets laid playing XBOX. EDIT: To go into more detail, a blanket makes it a lot easier and more comfortable for them to cuddle. If you can't see it happening, it will go smoother!
/r/seduction07/10/12 12:38 PM
1

Haha I know these all too well! And when you break up enough times, you realize "Hey, I have felt this way before and thought I would never get better, but I did."
/r/seduction07/10/12 12:43 AM
1

Nice! A natural progression. I came to Japan and lived in a super rural area and got lonely because I was surrounded by farms. My brother started studying "seduction" and recommended it to me since I got lonely in hickville. Then I moved to Tokyo and met Tofu and some other sedditors and really learned how to meet girls.
/r/seduction06/10/12 03:10 PM
2

Yeah. That's the thing too, "trying" a frat doesn't work well, because the only thing you are trying is pledge life, which can be an annoying first year even though the parties are great ;) Still had a good college life though. Wish I had started learning pickup during that time though. :D
/r/seduction06/10/12 09:12 AM
2

There is also less choice of who you get to be friends with. I know in my 20+ person pledge group, there were some people I truly hated, but I had to hang out with them. Wasn't a fan of that :P
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:59 AM
4

There are plenty of 70 year old couples celebrating 30th and 40th anniversaries that are completely happy. Would you prefer to turn 60 and realize that pickup doesn't matter anymore and live alone the rest of your life? You don't have to hurry to get married, but there are advantages to finding one person who you can share the rest of your life with. If there is excessive drama and blueballing in your marriage, that is your failing for marrying the wrong girl or not being desirable throughout yo…
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:55 AM
16

I was in a frat for a year and a half in college. I know that when I quit, my "bros" went cold. You have access to a lot of parties, but generally if you stop paying dues and quit, I think you will realize that you being their friend was dependent upon you staying in the frat. If you aren't in a frat, find some group of friends. That is all a frat is anyways. Sports clubs, dorm halls, anything.
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:39 AM
23

Having a trail that leads home is nice, depending on where you live. From my train station (in Tokyo) I often start the date at a restaurant near the station, bounce to a bar 3 minutes to the south, then bounce to a private darts bar 4 more minutes south. By this time we are finished at the darts bar, voila! We are only 3 minutes from my house, so when I bring up going to my place, it doesn't seem so difficult.
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:36 AM
3

Here is why long-term monogamy doesn't work for SOME people. Being an absolutist makes you sound like a preacher. Come on, people who want marriage and to be with one person can do it and be happy. Just because many people suck at monogamy doesn't mean it isn't possible.
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:32 AM
2

You will miss so many opportunities and have so much regret that eventually you will realize, it is easier to try and fail than live with that regret. If you are alone in a setting, getting one girl out of a group is difficult. If it is a club, not so much. Entertain her friends but talk to her too. If you pander to her friends too long, she will "let" her friends have you and won't see you as a potential partner cause she thinks you are going after her friend and doesn't want to ruin it. Tell h…
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:28 AM
1

Marriage is one thing, relationships are something that most people have several of throughout their life, and if they are willing to cheat during their current relationship, then obviously it isn't one worth keeping. The only things that keep me from going after a girl in a relationship are: 1. The guy is there and he seems like a nice guy. (Often you see that the guy is nice and really batting above his paygrade in terms of his game. I find this endearing and I don't like to ruin a good thing …
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:19 AM
3

It's not a book or video, but firsthand experience. In my current setting (Tokyo) I am actually seen as a pretty good looking guy. However, I have lost girls to guys who I consider less good looking, but who were able to provide something I can't. Usually they have some fun plans to invite the girl to that night, are the leader of a large group, or are able to speak more eloquently because I am not completely fluent in Japanese. So yeah, going out enough and seeing guys who look like their mothe…
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:13 AM
1

No harm meeting her, but I wouldn't bring her back to your place or share specific life details in case she is a bit crazy. Just go meet for coffee or something.
/r/seduction06/10/12 08:01 AM
6

Riveting narrative.
/r/seduction06/10/12 07:49 AM
30

If you have any excuse to hang out near your house, and also have a fun pad or something to do at your pad, it is millions of times easier. I often mention somewhere in the night that I play guitar, then I tell them that I'll play for them sometime. Later in the night, if we are near my place, I'll just say "Let's have a drink at my place and I'll play some guitar, but you have to go after that." Works well.
/r/seduction06/10/12 03:44 AM
1

Just keep doing what you want to do until they challenge it or make something in direct conflict with what you want, like saying they really like/love you or inviting you to their parent's house ;) Voicing what you really want, for example a sex friend, can ruin it regardless of whether they do or don't want it. Having it be an unspoken agreement is best, I believe.
/r/seduction01/10/12 12:15 PM
1

I'll try this, but I will also confirm that many PUA guys will recommend the exact opposite. I HOPE your way works the best, because setting the date is such a bore.
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:09 PM
3

College isn't high school. You can hang out with people who aren't your "year."
/r/seduction18/09/12 12:26 PM
2

Does she want to marry now? If you aren't ready to settle, don't feel forced to do it. You can keep dating indefinitely if she is okay with that. You can still have "game" and confidence. Be cool in social situations. Make hot friends, introduce your friends to them, give other people value. If you feel like you really do want to end the relationship, there are billions of women out there, and probably millions who you could find happiness with. Assuming that there is just one girl who can make …
/r/seduction16/09/12 06:49 AM
1

Every interaction doesn't have the possibility of sex. Sometimes people are on the way to something such as work/get together with their friends, busy, or it goes vastly against their morals. A # close can be the best possible outcome of an interaction, so I don't see why you wouldn't see it as a success if someone you are interested in gives you their number.
/r/seduction16/09/12 06:46 AM
0

With the role women have had in seddit up until now, it just bores me. It largely is women saying "How do I seduce men?" which isn't what guys come here to discuss, or "This is what we like!" when it is a common held belief that women generally don't know what they like. I also think it is a lot of attention whoring; women looking for "pick-up artists" to talk to them. I mean come on, seriously, does it turn us on that a woman reads Seddit? Are you kidding me? EDIT: To clarify, I am talking abou…
/r/seduction05/09/12 10:59 AM
-6

I disagree. This is a subreddit for men built off of a school of thought for men, of which most women are highly hostile towards and largely clueless.
/r/seduction05/09/12 10:55 AM
2

Negs aren't for lowering self-esteem of girls with low self-esteem. They are for getting bitchy girls off their high horses. I don't think you fully understand "pick-up" nor what women in general want, subconsciously. People here have been practicing talking to women for years and have done very well and have had great relationships for both halves. You have "skimmed" their techniques and find that they are bad news. I don't know if you have had a bad experience or what, but I honestly never exp…
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:01 AM
0

You belong in a museum!
/r/seduction08/08/12 07:53 AM
1

Ahhh but see, that is what this whole thing us guys "study" is based around. You say that it is the same for women, but many of us will tell you that you are wrong, because a lot of normal looking guys are sleeping with amazing looking women because they know what they are doing. I think that generally, women don't know what they want!
/r/seduction07/08/12 11:59 PM
2

That's a good mindset. Sorry to be blunt, but first impressions for guys = looks. And 2nd and 3rd impressions. Eventually a good personality matters :)
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:46 PM
5

No it isn't. Both are acceptable.
/r/seduction07/08/12 05:03 PM
1

Are you hot? That will probably answer the question.
/r/seduction07/08/12 04:43 AM
2

I don't buy it. LMR is beatable. You don't force them to do it, you make them want to do it. The best way to convince someone to do something is make them want to do it. Beating LMR is the best way to get your one night stand and your relationship. Of course, LMR can hit a wall where it is nearly impossible to beat. At that point, yeah, give up for that night before you completely turn her off.
/r/seduction04/08/12 04:52 PM
4

Or we just don't care about a girl who just got out of a relationship and is sleeping around with guys. This is /r/seduction ya know. It is about picking up girls.
/r/seduction10/07/12 02:53 AM
2

Congrats! No matter how much you like this girl, the best thing you can do to increase your chances with her is meet more women. Having more women that you are talking with and dating makes you better with each individual relationship. It changes your personality and your level of neediness.
/r/seduction08/07/12 09:29 AM
34

It seems like you guys think there are 2 types of people: Those who don't watch porn and those who watch 2 hours a day or watch shock porn. While I have no research to back this up, I think there is something to be said about porn not being the problem, but addiction and overuse. Treat it like alcohol, in moderation and not every fucking night of the week.
/r/seduction02/07/12 10:45 AM
2

I just put 2 and 2 together to realize that you were the guy who wants to jam in June. I'll make some time for that ;) By the way, are you Japanese yourself? If you have a work social circle, I have to imagine that you are, but your English is fluent, so I am not sure...
/r/seduction30/05/12 11:01 AM
2

I torrented it a while back. It is pretty depressing, but an honest look at real sexual addiction.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:48 PM
2

That's some good shit! I love these kinds of videos.
/r/seduction15/05/12 12:46 PM
2

Let me Google that for you. Don't become a performing monkey.
/r/seduction15/01/12 12:16 PM
1

Pretty much sums up why last night wasn't so fun for me :P
/r/seduction15/01/12 10:51 AM
1

Nope! But luckily I was a regular at a really nice bar and had friends there to hang out with. Gifu City (the center) is the only place you can probably find things to do if you aren't part of a group. There are izakaya's and stuff, but the bar I went to was probably the only western bar where you can approach people easily. Almost all travel in Gifu is done via bus, and the last buses are so early, so people generally didn't seem to stay out super late.
/r/seduction14/01/12 06:43 AM
1

I lived in Gifu in 2010, so I have been to Nagoya several times, but I don't know anything about the night life :P
/r/seduction14/01/12 06:37 AM
2

I think it depends on who is throwing the party. I have visited various international party websites and always make a point to check out the pictures of the last party. Check out the venue too. If it is at a TGIF... pass on that. In GENERAL, according to a few friends who have been to more than I have, it seems to be older male foreigners. Cute college-aged/20something girls don't need to go to international parties to meet guys. I bet Nagoya has a HUB... it's like an international party every …
/r/seduction14/01/12 12:53 AM
7

Meeting girls can be whatever you want it to be. Lots of people like to open them in English because it is exciting for the girl and it usually sparks laughter, but really as long as you are confident, you will be fine. Some girls will discount you immediately for being a foreigner or speaking English to them, so don't let that get you down. I always tell people that as a foreigner, you have a better than average chance with 50 percent of the girls, and worse than average chance with 50 percent …
/r/seduction14/01/12 12:39 AM
3

Someone posted this earlier, a Tyler video on alcohol. A lot of it sounds like bullshit, and there is a lot of tangential stuff, but it is worth it because he makes some good points. Tyler on Alcohol
/r/seduction12/01/12 10:02 PM
3

Me likey. People are so afraid to have a real conversation these days. This week I opened a girl looking at me and started talking to her. I was already having fun with my friends and the topic of boyfriends and girlfriends came up with her. I told her I had broken up 2 days ago, which was true. We got into a really deep conversation about love and relationships and she confessed that she has had a boyfriend for 5 years. I would have been content with just talking to her, since it was fun, but I…
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:36 AM
7

Nonsense! You have attitude... just right now it's not a good one ;) Have faith! Be positive! You will get there :D
/r/seduction10/01/12 12:07 PM
2

I would never presume that I know a person's full personality, but there is nothing wrong with judging someone based on an action of theirs. Giving dating advice to the masses through a status update is attention seeking and not intended to be helpful. Also, she seems to be using this particular update as a demonstration that guys like her and she often friend-zones guys.
/r/seduction10/01/12 08:27 AM
7

Because people who use status updates as a forum for opinions like that are generally self-serving and aren't honestly trying to help people. Now, if I was her friend and was complaining to her about the friend-zone that some girls create, and she said that, I might think she honestly cared.
/r/seduction10/01/12 07:29 AM
1

It doesn't take more than one mess-up to realize the importance of logistics. A younger, dumber me took a girl on a date for okonomiyaki and the place was PACKED, and I hadn't made reservations. I had no back-up plan and wasn't able to think well on my feet, and that date bombed.
/r/seduction10/01/12 06:57 AM
3

I went up to some girls in a club in Tokyo and said something, and I can't remember what, but one of the girls just put her hand out like a stop sign and said the equivalent of "NOPE" to me in Japanese. I was still pretty inexperienced so it hurt a bit, but I made out with some girl later in that same club, so it made up for it.
/r/seduction15/11/11 08:50 AM
0

Ohhh come on, every means is an end towards sleeping with girls. Why did you want social skills?
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:32 AM
16

All people start pickup because they want to fuck girls. It's the truth. The successful people are the ones that put in the time and study and reach the realization that pickup/seduction is about making you a better and more interesting person. For some people it means realizing your mistakes or weak points. For others it means getting over anxiety and shyness that is covering an otherwise good person. From reading FRs, and the way people talk here sometimes, it is easy to get the vibe that peop…
/r/seduction05/11/11 10:26 AM
1

Another subseddit? Yawn. :/
/r/seduction05/11/11 07:54 AM
1

It is because listening to music can get pretty much everyone to a guaranteed level of happiness/entertainment. Not having them in, though, gives you an opportunity for something even more fun, like conversation, but it isn't guaranteed. People will go for the safe bet and listen to music in their free time rather than wait on the CHANCE that they will talk to someone.
/r/seduction01/11/11 10:26 AM
1

Yes, they are women, but dating one or trying to date one is different than dating an American or European woman. Culture affects people, believe it or not. I am glad this guy getting interview mentions that "Asian" women are different within that group too. I have found Chiniese/Japanese/Korean girls to all be quite different.
/r/seduction30/10/11 07:28 PM
1

Probably something cute like Minnie Mouse ears + bow. I live in Japan, so that works :)
/r/seduction19/10/11 08:38 AM
3

Testimonial: TofuTofu introduced me to my last girlfriend. ;)
/r/seduction18/10/11 09:38 AM
1

I think people just need to upvote/downvote the correct advice, or cite reasoning for their advice so the OP can decide on their own. Flair is just a way for people to feel superior to everyone else or have recognition.
/r/seduction17/10/11 10:32 PM
1

I wouldn't go to medicine so soon. Have you had friends push you into sets or situations where you are likely to get blown out? Sounds like you need a day, week, or month of getting put into awkward situations so you stop getting so anxious about not performing well. Everyone fails, and I had terrible AA until a few people (TofuTofu, reseddit) pushed me into sets. I still get it during daytime :P
/r/seduction17/10/11 12:46 PM
1

How can it get deeper than chemical releases in our body when being touched?
/r/seduction10/10/11 10:20 AM
2

Focus on the girl who isn't nicest. If you can't win over her friends or have a wingman occupy the "mean" one, it is very difficult to close the target.
/r/seduction02/10/11 09:29 AM
1

Always split! And it is acceptable in Japan. My station is far away from most girls I date, so usually I tell them "I know it is a bit far to my place, but maybe I'll buy you a drink ;) "
/r/seduction27/09/11 03:42 AM
7

"What did you get me?"
/r/seduction24/09/11 09:30 AM
2

Haven't even sat down and you are already thinking about how to eject if it gets awkward? ;) Who cares! Have confidence, say anything.
/r/seduction18/09/11 11:19 PM
0

Text all of them saying "Did you leave a sweater at my house?" Simple, right?
/r/seduction16/09/11 08:44 AM
2

Stop reading, stop writing, start approaching. That's all one can say. Anything else you are doing right now is a subconscious way to avoid actually going out there and putting yourself on the line.
/r/seduction10/09/11 03:00 AM
1

I pretty much always use "You are a fun person. Tell me your mail." in Japanese. Simple.
/r/seduction07/09/11 12:29 PM
4

HB6 with no legs.
/r/seduction01/09/11 01:44 PM
6

I did a frat for a year, a semester in the house, a semester out. I don't recommend it. For one, you are paying money for friendship you can find otherwise. Two, you aren't going to be required to learn social skills since you immediately are just accepted. Three, all of these people will disown you the moment you decide you don't want to be in a frat. Are they really your friends? Maybe I just had a bad experience ;)
/r/seduction01/09/11 01:16 PM
2

She seems interested. You have the date. I used to suck at text game, and come to think of it, I still do. However, the best advice I got/read was to stop when you are ahead. You have the date, don't try to develop anymore via text. You could respond with "Me too. :)" with a little smiley or something, but I wouldn't ask her any questions in an attempt to get more conversation going. I have screwed up many certain dates by continuing texting and then screwing up .
/r/seduction01/09/11 11:58 AM
2

A lot of times people ask how to beat AA, as if there is any easy way. There isn't. You have to go talk to hot girls. If you don't have the willpower to beat AA, then you don't need to worry about the other 50% of seduction/pick-up. Also, even the best PUA get nervous or have AA. I always like to post the quote, "The day you no longer feel fear during an approach, is the day you need to find something else to do that has enough meaning to cause fear in you."
/r/seduction01/09/11 11:47 AM
11

Don't send that last text you thought about sending. That is horrible. Just move on. People don't always say no outright. It is less awkward to give your number and then not respond than it is to crush some person right up front :P
/r/seduction29/08/11 09:38 AM
43

The side bar :) -----> Seddit is here to challenge you. You aren't here to be a challenge to Seddit! You need to read some material and you need to get out and practice. Read The Game if you haven't. It is a good view on the lifestyle and outlines a type of person who is appealing to women. Magic Bullets is more like a textbook and will help a lot. Find a wing if you can, go out a lot, take notes on what works and doesn't work.
/r/seduction28/08/11 11:15 AM
1

Nice job man! Don't wait until the end of the conversation to number close. Also, having a few simple and silly routines can be helpful when you start out and don't know what to talk to people about. You will get better.
/r/seduction27/08/11 01:35 PM
5

Man, just reading your FR gave me a flash of frustration! :D
/r/seduction27/08/11 01:17 AM
9

DHV them. Think of stories you guys have together and tell it in a way that you come out admiring them or valuing their friendship.
/r/seduction26/08/11 06:44 AM
5

I really hate how broad "sexism" is. People completely ignore the evolutionary aspects of males and females. It is ignorant to think that we are the same, act the same, and respond to the same stuff. For a man to treat a woman based on how the majority of women act is completely reasonable. Also, I hate how much publicity "negging" gets. It is not a common tactic but it gets talked about the most.
/r/seduction25/08/11 02:28 PM
2

Lean back. Smile!
/r/seduction24/08/11 03:22 AM
1

It's actually Don Quixote after the Spanish guy :) I will use that first date one of these days. So far okonomiyaki as worked well, though :)
/r/seduction23/08/11 03:04 PM
1

Plow or bail. I am not a fan of all these people suggesting insults or equally rude things to do. When you sarge, people can be assholes. Avoid fights and arguments and be efficient. Just move on and don't get offended.
/r/seduction22/08/11 06:43 AM
5

:/ Don't frame it as "I'd LOVE to take a girl's virginity!" If you like her, just do your usual stuff. Leave girls better than you found them.
/r/seduction22/08/11 01:34 AM
2

Neither is best. It depends on your confidence and body language, and also how high value the girl is. Sometimes doing a direct opener on an HB7 makes them melt if you are confident, since these girls don't always have guys lining up like HB8 and 9 might. Also, as mentioned, it is different for day and night game.
/r/seduction22/08/11 01:33 AM
2

:/ Sometimes I think people go too far with the "This is a great example of an AMOG" thing...
/r/seduction21/08/11 08:16 AM
3

It's not a competition.
/r/seduction20/08/11 10:33 PM
2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFOW5Kwe62M There you go!
/r/seduction20/08/11 09:42 PM
2

Did you watch the video that AFCAdam put up a day or two ago? The hand-eye coordination one? I tried that routine and it went really well. I recommend it :)
/r/seduction20/08/11 03:07 PM
6

Just make jokes :) After you have introduced yourself and they know about it, tell them that the worst part is that you can no longer count to ten or properly pick your nose.
/r/seduction20/08/11 03:05 PM
1

I've seen my friend reseddit do the kino test and I really need to incorporate that. I also like the idea of the kiss test. I'm gonna have to try these and report back :D EDIT: friend
/r/seduction20/08/11 03:02 PM
12

Do you really do multiple of these routines to a girl? I imagine it would feel like going to a fortune teller or something, no offense... I think one or two would be best, but you are the one who has done it so tell me if I'm wrong ;)
/r/seduction20/08/11 02:58 PM
1

I feel like I just read the thesis of an essay and am expected to fill in the rest myself... People disagree. That's a good thing :)
/r/seduction20/08/11 10:53 AM
19

What did you expect wearing a top hat? Unless you legitimately like the fashion, or are a hipster or something, then you are doing it for attention, right? If you are, I'm not judging you, just saying that you should expect it. You can scold someone who does that, but do it in a playful way. It's like you are peacocking and then getting upset when it works too well... :)
/r/seduction20/08/11 10:50 AM
3

Hmmmmm.... 15 so young.... I feel like people need to go through that awkward phase. Basically, be confident, be direct. "Hello! You looked like a nice person so I wanted to meet you." Think of what you would want to do if you knew you couldn't fail. Do it. A lot of people in life regret not doing things in high school or college. Don't be one of those. Have fun man, and talk to EVERYONE, even the nerds. You don't need to spend your time studying seduction just yet. If you just talk to people an…
/r/seduction20/08/11 10:46 AM
1

I'm not a fan of the idea that PUA or people who run routines are not being themselves. The amount of time in a conversation that "game" takes is miniscule compared to natural flirtation and actual conversation. Routine and game is spice on your personality, and at times it makes it more fun for you and the girl. Also, I think your post comes off as a little bit "holier than thou," whether it is intended to or not. I'm sure many people had the same eye roll reaction when you felt the need to inf…
/r/seduction20/08/11 09:52 AM
1

I agree. Do it for fun, but don't become the Tic Tac Toe Shirt Guy. You are trying to hard if this is what you need to do to open a girl or do kino, but if you are just doing it for a fun night, go ahead and let us know how it goes! :)
/r/seduction20/08/11 07:41 AM
1

Wow! I just did this at dinner and it was great. I was sitting next to my target and my friend (absurdconcept) next to his. I wanted it to be natural so I joked to my target and told her she was really good with chopsticks (She's Japanese, duh). She laughed and then I told her I would give her a "hand, eye" test since I wasn't sure of the best translation. I did it and turned back to my friend and took a sip of my drink, and she did the exact same thing the girl in this video did. She slapped me…
/r/seduction19/08/11 02:00 PM
1

Wow, that's great stuff! I think I'll have to try that tonight in Japanese :D
/r/seduction19/08/11 08:35 AM
6

I go out more than I read seddit. I don't have the attention span to write long FRs, but I like to read the FRs of people I know on here and also comment on them. Also, helping new people is great because I was a huge chump only half a year ago.
/r/seduction19/08/11 08:30 AM
1

Good for you! :D Talking about the current situation is always good. Personally, I would have asked her if the panda here tasted good.
/r/seduction19/08/11 08:27 AM
1

I agree with some of the posts I have read in this thread. You need to go meet a lot of people and develop yourself if you can't get the balls to ask this one girl out. Seduction isn't a one-shot skill for a single girl you like. It is a long term thing about improving yourself. That said, if you really HAVE to choose this one girl, who you obviously have oneitis with... go up and say hello, then tell her that she should go with you to _______ on xxxday. Be confident, don't ask her if she wants …
/r/seduction19/08/11 08:23 AM
1

I'm not giving my opinion on the definition of sarging :) This is actually the definition. From Wikipedia: The practice of going out with the purpose of meeting women is known as "sarging", a term coined by Ross Jeffries, after his cat "Sarge".
/r/seduction19/08/11 05:13 AM
2

Sarging is going out with the specific purpose of meeting girls. Going to the supermarket and shopping and meeting a nice girl there is not sarging, but it's still nice :)
/r/seduction18/08/11 09:10 AM
1

I don't want her I just want my respect. Fuck 'em! Next! Unless you really want to tell her how insulted you were or make a scene about it, just move on. Have an abundance mindset. There are many other girls and this one isn't one you should want.
/r/seduction14/08/11 03:09 PM
3

People get invited to things by inviting other people to things. You can't just mooch off everyone else's plans your whole life. People that get invited to parties or get together contribute something, and a lot of time that is mutual invitations because they "owe" each other. It doesn't have to even be a party. Just invite some people out for drinks or something. They will invite you to their next thing.
/r/seduction13/08/11 07:29 AM
11

Great FR! One thing I have done and which I have heard my friends talk about: Don't wait till the end of the conversation to number close! Do it at the high point. "Are you sisters?" is a good opener in many cases if you follow it up with some stuff. After they say no, you could try "Oh, I thought you might be her little sister or something." teasing whoever your target is by implying they are the older one. I used "Are you sisters?" 3 times the last time I went out. It got mixed results. Lastly…
/r/seduction12/08/11 05:31 AM
0

Chicks dig The Little Mermaid!
/r/seduction12/08/11 04:07 AM
1

I use the exact same and have also been commented on. That stuff is great.
/r/seduction11/08/11 10:07 AM
1

I love doing dates with games. Gives an atmosphere where you can tease, have flirty kino, and make nice bets :D Good choice!
/r/seduction10/08/11 04:52 AM
4

Nice FR! That was a long night. We started at about 7PM and didn't head back on the trains until around 8AM. On any other night we probably could have number closed more girls, but we had specific goals that night. We decided to only open 2-sets and only if we were both interested in the girls. Luckily, reseddit and I have quite different tastes, and there is never a time where one of us got screwed on which girl to take. The gyaru (blonde, really made-up) set was pretty hilarious. I am not inte…
/r/seduction10/08/11 03:49 AM
3

Cool man :) Reseddit is a good guy to go sarging with. Send me a message sometime and I'll join you. How long are you in Japan? Learning Japanese is pretty important, at least enough to have a casual conversation.
/r/seduction09/08/11 06:18 AM
1

Buttons. Very cheap and easily commented on. I own 2 but am gonna load up soon. One is just a smiley face, the other says "SEXY"
/r/seduction08/08/11 02:35 PM
5

Hired gun implies someone hired because they look good, not just someone who is working a job. Don't even view this as a hired gun situation, because you are putting her on a pedestal that way. She is just a normal person such as yourself, except now you are armed with tools to help build attraction :)
/r/seduction27/06/11 01:44 PM
3

A warm up set when you are out of state is always a good idea. I've done that on the train before going out to meet friends. A wise sedditor once told me to think of a time when you were totally awesome. That has helped me too :)
/r/seduction12/06/11 12:46 PM
3

No matter what school of thought you are in regarding women, and no matter what your goal is, the one truth as that the more women you meet, the better chance you have of reaching whatever your goal is. Unless your goal is to be lonely :)
/r/seduction12/06/11 08:49 AM
1

Best thing my wings have done for me is occupy the girls friends or any other guys when I am trying to number close.
/r/seduction08/06/11 08:19 PM
5

Puh-leeze! Plaid is not hipster. Hipster fashion comes from the lame hats/hair, or accessories. Plaid is fine anytime :P
/r/seduction31/05/11 10:22 AM
3

Any long sleeved collared shirt, sometimes with a tie or jacket, usually with sleeves rolled up. Then jeans.
/r/seduction30/05/11 10:33 PM
0

Research conversation threading. In a single sentence, there are usually multiple bits of information you can branch off on. "Yeah, I went to New York with my brother after graduating from Uni." You could ask that person about New York, their brother, or their Uni. Helps so you never run out of anything to say.
/r/seduction25/05/11 10:29 PM
2

Another "Bitches love ____ " thread? :(
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:36 PM
1

Like, the sucking/prissy girl noise? I hate that.
/r/seduction25/05/11 09:20 AM
3

I don't think you can be friendzoned if you only hung out with her twice. Until she starts confiding stuff in you like she would a best friend, you should be safe. As for the other stuff you mentioned, each situation is different and none of us can know the dynamic you two had at that party. You seem to be very much in your head right now. Brush that night off and next time you see her, change the feeling between you too. Give her a cheeky grin, touch her arm more, and come off differently than …
/r/seduction22/05/11 12:18 PM
2

I think that is exactly what he is pointing out by posting this video... I loved it! I aspire to be that guy, the one who knows everyone, has many surprising talents, and is generally a nice, cool guy.
/r/seduction22/05/11 11:52 AM
4

No. Just say something simple at first like "Hello!" in passing and give a kind smile.
/r/seduction22/05/11 02:25 AM
1

Haha that is great man! I don't think my Day 2 last night deserves a FR :D
/r/seduction21/05/11 01:04 AM
1

Some people have high levels of Japanese, some mediocre. Everyone can hold a conversation which is pretty important. As for jobs, that also is an assortment. One of us is going to make a company, another does IT, teachers, etc. As far as I know we have no students in our group.
/r/seduction19/05/11 09:41 AM
5

It was a fun night but I can say that I was only truly interested in one girl I met that night. I ended up using some AMOG shit I made up on the spot that worked pretty golden. It was a Korean girl that was with two (supposedly) Japanese guys. I went over and cheers-ed them all and asked why they all spoke English so well. One guy said that he went to New Zealand or something and so I began the nerdiest AMOG ever, "Oh, like Lord of the Rings?" The guy got excited and was like "Yeah!" I proceeded…
/r/seduction19/05/11 04:36 AM
1

Then tell us about your experience, oh master. Seddit isn't about comparing which girls you have fucked and who is hotter.
/r/seduction19/05/11 04:26 AM
2

Know too much? I doubt it. Practice too little? More likely :)
/r/seduction17/05/11 09:47 PM
1

You in Japan? If so, let's go out!
/r/seduction16/05/11 12:34 AM
1

All games must be played with the bet that, if you win, they have to give you a kiss. They will always agree. :)
/r/seduction15/05/11 12:09 PM
7

I only got one kiss and number close, but I made about 10 new friends and had one of my best nights in Japan. It's okay to go out and have fun with friends. You don't have to be on the prowl for girls 24/7! With that, I will confirm that Tofu is the ultimate value giver. That was one hell of a party and you will surely be missed by everyone!
/r/seduction15/05/11 08:12 AM
2

Good luck with it man! I'm sure it will work ;)
/r/seduction15/05/11 06:32 AM
2

Make sure you also bring divorce in as an option! It gives a good way to do push pull (physically). Tofu is a big proponent of physical push pull, and he is right, it works. If she says something you don't like, tell her so and tell her you want a divorce while pushing her away. She will most likely cling on and beg you not to divorce her!
/r/seduction15/05/11 06:32 AM
13

Good job man! Nice of you to do that. I did something a BIT similar recently. (Remember, this is JAPAN) Our group of girls and guys met another group while at a bar. I got to talking to this guy who spoke zero Japanese, and he was telling me about how he liked this girl in our group who was actually my target. I was sort of into this girl, maybe a 6.5 or 7, but not completely, and normally I wouldn't mind stepping aside for a nice guy to give it a try, but this girl spoke zero English and this g…
/r/seduction14/05/11 03:31 AM
4

I number closed the hot photographer and she should be coming tomorrow to your thing. :D Also, 3 girls we met at HUB last week might be coming.
/r/seduction13/05/11 09:57 AM
3

I was actually a bit bummed to leave that pharmacy group. I can't remember exactly, but I thought at least one or two were cute.
/r/seduction13/05/11 09:49 AM
7

I'm glad to hear it went well man! I thought you said "3" when you texted me, and now it is 4?!?
/r/seduction11/05/11 08:51 AM
1

I think it could be fine to gossip about a person, but only if she started it, and be careful who you talk about since she may disagree with something you say.
/r/seduction08/05/11 08:51 AM
1

You don't have to get surgery. Get some contacts. Glasses look good on some guys, but more often than not you will look better without them. Asking a question like this on seddit isn't going to get you a good idea of whether glasses wearing guys can get laid :) Of course they can.
/r/seduction05/05/11 08:35 PM
1

It also got the other girl to help me dry my pants off, but I wasn't really interested in her ;)
/r/seduction05/05/11 11:46 AM
1

It was a great day. 16 straight hours of sarging. Ridiculous!
/r/seduction05/05/11 06:31 AM
2

That was fun. I think I will carry a small ball everywhere I go now. Just throw it at their back and when they turn around say "Out!" and gesture. Some say "Out じゃない！" You can also give them a free throw on you.
/r/seduction05/05/11 06:17 AM
2

Still me, but trying to work past it :P
/r/seduction16/04/11 05:41 AM
4

I am a people watcher. I am always looking at someone, and it doesn't necessarily mean anything. I think it might make me look like a creep, though... :P
/r/seduction16/04/11 05:37 AM
1

I'm going to go field test humping legs now!
/r/seduction26/03/11 02:03 AM
3

He just asked it works, calm down. Things around here are based off field testing, not just suggesting things no one has ever done.
/r/seduction25/03/11 03:56 AM
5

I'm grinning ear to ear for you man! :D Good job!
/r/seduction23/03/11 11:43 AM
3

I am with Thaeds up above. She is asking you to spend time with her. What do you have to prove by not going to a concert with her? You will have a great time and she will love you for going.
/r/seduction22/03/11 04:48 PM
1

An age limit. Don't want 40 year olds flirting with 10 year olds who have cellphones already.
/r/seduction17/03/11 02:45 AM
82

That was great. I think the guy really had the "Don't give a fuck" attitude down :D
/r/seduction16/03/11 08:53 AM
7

No kidding. How could anyone just stand around while someone is being beaten?
/r/seduction14/03/11 10:51 AM
2

Didn't feel much in Gifu. Watching the tsunami on TV was interesting.
/r/seduction11/03/11 08:37 AM
1

A lot of guys are charming if they can ever get the guts to approach. In a sentence or two, what would you say to motivate a guy to approach?
/r/seduction09/03/11 11:03 AM
2

If it is the first time you met a girl, I wouldn't. I hate to cite Elimidate, but when Grimble (famous PUA) was on Elimidate, the first guy to get kicked off was the one who greeted the woman with a kiss on the cheek, and she commented that it was really weird.
/r/seduction05/03/11 01:27 AM
5

Personally, I don't think profanity in an opener is a very good idea.
/r/seduction03/03/11 12:07 PM
1

I haven't been able to get myself to study Japanese for a long time, despite living in Japan. Coming home from work each day, I am quite tired, and I always have an excuse... studying game and pickup has given me motivation to really study Japanese again. I feel like I could do well sarging if only I could say what I truly wanted to say. But, I can't always do that, so back to the books (or the bars!).
/r/seduction01/03/11 09:17 AM
1

"Not approaching is a fear of criticism and an inability to control your own life."
/r/seduction01/03/11 09:14 AM
2

Glad you had fun! I agree with the Wygant "Do things you love" mindset. Be sure you aren't negging too much, and giving the set equal attention is actually something you don't want to do. You need to give your target the least attention, at least initially. Once you win over the rest of the set, then you have her. Also, try not to find yourself in a defensive position. When you have to qualify yourself to her, it is a bit unattractive. I may have said something like "Once you get the cast remove…
/r/seduction27/02/11 01:35 PM
11

Usually in a request like this, the OP starts it off ;)
/r/seduction27/02/11 01:21 PM
1

Thank you! Saved for later reference ;)
/r/seduction24/02/11 01:54 PM
2

Is itsNotTheWorldItsYou new to PU or something? Either way, good job forcing him into sets. If you did it to me, while I'd hate you for a split-second, I'd realize that you are truly helping.
/r/seduction24/02/11 01:09 PM
2

Try to consciously add another second or two before each time you speak. Think more about what you are saying. Will what you are about to say REALLY improve the conversation that much? Or is it more likely to offend? Sometimes it is good to play it safe and just not say it.
/r/seduction24/02/11 12:23 PM
17

It is also a good example of referring back to jokes you shared together (bacon, Danish, spiders) which makes the other person feel like you have shared something together and helps with familiarity and comfortableness.
/r/seduction24/02/11 10:57 AM
6

That's not really a crash and burn. Crash and burn would be you then hitting on her, after which she calls her husband and he comes and kicks your ass. This is just you meeting a girl with a husband and then parting ways. You know. A conversation. Like normal people :)
/r/seduction24/02/11 07:52 AM
1

I hate using anything beyond shampoo and conditioner. Gel and all that stuff is irritating for me. Because of this, I just go to a normal barber. I have curly hair, too, so there isn't much I can do :)
/r/seduction23/02/11 10:59 PM
3

It isn't weird to talk to strangers all the time. Think of how many days you brighten. No one has their day ruined because a stranger talked to them. Many people have their day made because someone complimented them or engaged them in a conversation.
/r/seduction23/02/11 08:53 AM
6

Take voice lessons. I did because I enjoyed singing, but I also learned things to help me in life as well. There are ways to increase volume and projection that are not intuitive, like talking louder. It is not about how big you open your mouth, or what volume you are putting out, but more where the sound is coming from. A chest voice projects more than your head voice, for instance. Plus, if you take voice lessons, it can help with nervousness and anxiety too, since you are are singing in front…
/r/seduction23/02/11 08:44 AM
2

I remember many years back that I used to be the head of my group of friends in high school. Then, through a mutual class or something, another guy joined our circle. I wasn't proactive in maintaining power. In fact, I wasn't even aware of the transition. However, he always had himself at the center of attention and he nudged me out. Years later, he didn't even invite me to his wedding while he invited the rest of MY friends. What a dick. Not gonna happen again!
/r/seduction23/02/11 08:40 AM
1

Look up pictures of some of the most famous PUAs. None are Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise looking. You need to quit associating physical looks with charisma, the ability to attract, or a measure of your self-image. Undeniably, good looks make it easier, and trying to improve your fashion and body is a good idea, but positive self-talk is important, too. Referring to yourself in this thread as ugly and such is exactly what you need to avoid. You need to believe that you can do this, because honestly you…
/r/seduction22/02/11 01:30 PM
2

Congratulations! Observing IOIs, something that reading seddit will teach you, really helps you get a feel for conversation and how it is going, as well as what you can or should do next.
/r/seduction22/02/11 12:52 PM
1

Tell us how, not just that it happened! ;D
/r/seduction22/02/11 08:28 AM
1

First off, I want to let you in on a secret: I love music as much as you do, and up until last month I would use my iPod wherever I go. However, listening to an iPod often makes people ignore you, because no one considers you someone that could be talked to or someone interested in talking. Second, try something funny and a little bit surprising. When she sits down at the big, empty table with you, say, "Sorry, that seat is taken." with a straight face and a gesture. Crack a smirk when she acts …
/r/seduction22/02/11 08:21 AM
2

If you haven't already, listen to those Wygant tapes posted in the intro thread for new people. Also, here are some quotes without attribution (Sorry! I took some notes and didn't really write down who said them.) “At any moment, be able to sacrifice what you are for what you could be.” “The day you no longer feel fear during an approach is the day you need to find something else to do that has enough meaning to cause fear in you.” “If you aren’t failing, you aren’t trying hard enough.”
/r/seduction22/02/11 08:14 AM
8

Way to make the best of a bad thing, man! If you can do it during the day with a black eye and stitches, everything after must seem easy ;)
/r/seduction22/02/11 08:06 AM
1

Added one in the Gifu/Nagoya area. Someone hit me up!
/r/seduction21/02/11 01:43 PM
4

Very good! Rather than enacting a complete change on my personality, though, I would like to incorporate many of these ideas into my group interaction, namely body language, entitlement, and eventually an indifferent attitude.
/r/seduction21/02/11 01:25 PM
1

A goldmine with a long path, but no doubt a nice reward if you put in the hard work ;)
/r/seduction21/02/11 01:10 PM
1

Sounds like a great tool if there is genuine reason for mishearing in the venue.
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:59 PM
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