I haven't done a FR for... months, or a year, or I'm not sure, so I figured I owed one! I met the girl at a bar and went on one date within the week. All talking was in Japanese so if you have specific questions on what I said then please feel free to ask.

The girl, let's call her N-Chan, is a Japanese girl I met at, though I hate to admit it, HUB. My friend opened the set and was talking to her friend and turned her away like the good wingman he is. It was quite easy to #-close with the similarities we had, such as occupation and music tastes. We listened to music on her iPod and then I planned the date right then and there. I told her to come to Oktoberfest with me on Saturday, to which she agreed.

Throughout the week she texted me quite a lot, which showed her interest. I also found out that my station would have a fireworks festival on Saturday, so I mentioned that I wanted to go there as well. What a wonderfully timed show, allowing me an excuse to have her come to my station.

Saturday comes and I have her meet me at (1) Shimbashi station so we can ride the train over Rainbow Bridge together to Odaiba. This in itself is a fun experience. We talk and I lead her off the train with my hand on her lower back. After stumbling around for awhile, and me joking how I never get lost, we find the actual (2) Oktoberfest. It was quite dead compared to past ones, but it was great to sit in the sun and talk.

We talk about many things, like music, hobbies, etc., but also what we want in the future. She is quick to talk about how she wants daughters someday and how she likes working but assumes she will need to be a housewife someday to take care of the kids (what a Yikes! conversation). I listen but don't really add to much of my own opinions since I really don't see myself getting married soon.

After a few drinks the "German" music starts and I take her hand and lead her to the stage where we jump around and dance. After about half an hour at the stage I tell her we need to go if we are going to catch the fireworks at my station. We hop on the train and listen to music all the way there.

When we arrive at the station she says she needs to go to the bathroom, and we see that there is a long line since hundreds of thousands of people usually watch this fireworks show. I tell her that I only live about 5 minutes away and she can use my bathroom, so we walk to (3) my place. She asks if my room is dirty, so I let her know that if she steps carefully, she won't walk on any of my clothes. In truth, I cleaned thoroughly the day before knowing that I would almost surely have her at my place this day. She is quite impressed!

I have a dim lamp on and my room has earthy colors. I thought this would be the best sort of theme for having girls over when I first moved here and started buying furniture. We sit on the couch and she notices different things I have laying around the room. I have picture boards with friends who have signed messages to me, a certificate that says I completed bungee jumping, and even a modeling picture I did for some magazine. I also have my guitar and ukulele proudly displayed. I don't bring any of it up, but I knew what I was doing when I placed it in each location. The stuff that can be seen as vain I put in less seeable locations, but when a girl comes to your place she will look everywhere.

N-Chan says she wants to play Mario Kart on my SNES before we go to fireworks, but I hear them starting and tell her we need to go now if we are going to catch it. (4) We walk along the streets of my area which are very old Japanese style, almost Showa. There are lots of shopping streets and small izakayas, which she loves. She says she wishes she lived in an area like this!

We arrive at the (5) river and watch 20 or 30 minutes of fireworks and start heading back to my place. We pick up some takeout food on the way.

When we get back, we eat our food on my low couch and I play guitar for her. She loves music and seems impressed. She tells me to play ukulele too, but I am not so good so I have to look up tabs. I end up playing a Hawaiian version of "Somewhere Over The Rainbow" and she sings along.

After we finish eating and I finish playing, we are both turned towards each other and I go in for the kiss, placing my hand on the side of her head and pulling her in. She only gives a tiny peck and pulls back, "I can't kiss you. We are just friends."

"We are just friends, huh... Okay." I say, giving my best George Clooney smirk. I wasn't expecting that but I try not to let it get to me.

I tell her that we should play some Mario Kart, so we do. I kick her butt and tease her, but realize that I may have been a bit harsh in the teasing and I let her win the second one. She returns the teasing but I take it gracefully. She tells me that she doesn't play video games, but she said she loved Chronotrigger, and I tell her I have it. I boot it up and she plays through the entire Guardia Fair part while I watch, singing along with the game music. It was fun for both of us, but she feels bad for having me watch. I tell her that I used to watch my older brother play games all the time, and she mentions that she has 2 older brothers as well.

We finally finish Chronotrigger and we are back looking at each other on the couch. She starts asking questions about girls I have dated, if I have at all. I mention that I have had some Japanese girlfriends, but that my 好きなタイプは少ない. My type of girls are few and far between, and that is true. This let's her know that I don't take just anyone; that I choose. I ask her if she had a boyfriend, and she says she broke up with one of 3 years just this month.

I can't remember the exact conversation that followed, but I always try to emphasize doing what feels good, and to have fun in life, but that I don't like to get too serious too fast. Two years ago I would have not have had an identity as far as love and women go, but through seduction I have come to learn what I want, what women want me to want, and how to align my goals with theirs. By the end of this conversation, she is twirling her hair, getting quiet, and looking into my eyes. I go back in for the kiss and she jumps down my throat. We finish in time for her last train, and I walk her there and give her a peck on the cheek for a goodbye.

As she arrives back at her place, she sends me a text saying she is alright. I ignore it, go to bed, and wake up in the next morning to play some video games with my brothers in America. Before starting, I let her know I had fun as well and that we should hang out again one of these weekends. She texts back almost immediately asking when is good for me. I ignore for a couple hours until her next message.

She sends me another message asking if we are a couple now. Apparently I described how Americans become couples in such away that it is an unspoken rule. "Shit," I think, since obviously she has misunderstood. "Now I got to let her down because she thinks we are a couple."

I send her back a message, in which I tell her that I'd prefer to move slowly since I have had bad experiences moving so quick in the past (which is true). I'd like to meet her again on Saturday and talk some more there. We wouldn't have to have sex.

Lo and behold, she texts me back in relief, saying "Great! That is what I wanted to. I like to move slowly." Apparently she thought that I had thought we were a couple now and was worried about that. Nope. We are both right where we want to be. By emphasizing that sex was not necessary, I also had the pleasure of this reply, "Let's meet on Saturday. How about we watch a movie and I'll stay at your place?"

Deny the sex, get the sex. Worked quite nice.

I am looking forward to this relationship. I honestly don't know if she is girlfriend worthy, but since we both want to move slowly (emotionally) and have great sex, I can't see any downsides right now. I know that she does want marriage and kids sometime in the coming years, so I know this won't be a long term thing for me, but I'm living in the now.

Key Points

  1. We did a variety of things at a variety of places. I counted at least (5) separate experiences throughout the day. In truth, she probably felt like she had known me for several weeks.

  2. DHV items in your house should be carefully chosen and displayed!

  3. Logistics and LMR. If you have down the logistics on how to get them back to your place, that is half the battle. LMR, is the other half, although arguably easier in some cases.

  4. Sharing personal things, about either your past relationships (IF THEY ASK) or your family can make the girl feel more comfortable with you. It could also make the relationship more serious than you want.

  5. Honesty. You don't have to lie about your values and morals to sleep with a girl. You don't have to "game" them either, though I have done my fair share. If you and the girl have goals that are A and B, respectively, there are at least some goals that lie in overlapping C. You don't need to emphasize your goals that are not akin to hers. Emphasize the goals that you both share.

TL;DR I started typing, it got long, and many people will find most of the stuff irrelevant. I will bold stuff that is pertinent to the story or seduction.

There it is. Please feel to ask more specific questions on certain conversations or anything. Hope you enjoyed.