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1

I don't think being a jerk is rewarded. It's more that people who are attractive and are interested in transactional relationships are not given any incentive to be nice/a better person. Why do it if you are getting what you want? Starting to be a jerk, from your position, will not help you achieve any goals.
/r/seduction31/01/26 06:44 PM
4

A woman who agrees to come to your place is generally interested in you kissing her. By remaining non-physical at that point and beyond, you're just setting yourself up for failure.
/r/seduction18/12/25 05:13 PM
0

Kiss her on the way to your place.
/r/seduction18/12/25 05:12 PM
1

No. Not at all. I feel like you missed the point. This is language. Your language. About your feelings and emotions.
/r/seduction28/09/25 07:52 PM
1

"Whats your name?" The ask them something about the place you're in.
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:47 PM
4

This is a stranger. Let it go. Try again.
/r/seduction28/04/25 11:28 AM
34

I can barely read/understand this post But your neediness is coming through hard. And if we're seeing it, she's seeing it twice as bad.
/r/seduction06/04/25 03:32 PM
38

Sounds like she's a normal person who likes you, and it sounds like you're overthinking it.
/r/seduction13/01/25 02:58 AM
16

Did you ask her to meet up outside the softball tournament? If not, none of this matters - it's not about perfectly flirting for a number of hours - it's about building attraction to meet again and progress. If you are not asking this person to meet up later or on a date, then I don't really care if you feel a particular thing you said didn't 'vibe' at the time.
/r/seduction25/11/24 02:27 PM
2

Why would you ask about how many dates she has had? Why would you then follow up about this other guy? Is this your normal habit, to discuss other peoples dates and other men with people you are interested in? How's that working out for you...?
/r/seduction15/10/24 02:27 PM
8

Look, there are people that have 24/7 phone tracking on each other so they can verify if they are cheating on each other. Then there are people who don't cheat on each other and don't track each other. Just because you CAN do something doesn't mean you need to. If you are insecure about a relationship, then either figure out why you're an insecure person, or find a relationship that doesn't make you insecure.
/r/seduction13/10/24 01:30 PM
31

How the heck does 'allow me to go through' a phone come up during a second date, on EITHER side. Did you ask for this? Did she volunteer it? Either way, one or both of you have major red flags. Even AFTER #1, if you went through her phone, you're kind of a nut.
/r/seduction13/10/24 12:55 PM
1

“If this was bumble or hinge would you swipe left or right You walk up to strangers and ask questions? That's what you think an opener is?
/r/seduction12/10/24 11:57 AM
0

My first dates were to a bar that sells a high variety of craft beers in cans. $100/night would kill me AND my date. I did fine.
/r/seduction26/06/24 12:01 PM
4

What works for him (literally doing nothing) will not work for you. Look to have a good life, be happy with things going on, and work on approaching consistently.
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:04 PM
1

It doesn't work this way. Develop abundance and skills so you are ready for opportunities like this, don't get all sweaty about a complete stranger.
/r/seduction25/05/24 09:01 PM
3

Game techniques helped with dating and introducing myself to people. It helped a lot. It is not at all relevant in my marriage - my partner is chill, fun, independent, and we share many interests. Game helped me make friends (and dates) and being successful in that may have helped me meet her. But it doesn't have anything to do with maintaining my relationship.
/r/seduction27/03/24 06:39 PM
3

You're pretty normal looking, you just look a little sad. You have what it takes to do well.
/r/seduction29/10/22 03:02 AM
10

If you can do it once, you can do it again. It's worse if you CAN'T make that happen. Nice job! Get back out there!
/r/seduction26/10/22 08:19 PM
13

Why would you not do this? Yeah, you purposely ignored her.
/r/seduction15/10/22 10:56 AM
2

Oh you should DEFINITELY self-defeat. Self-defeating yourself and making yourself miserable is the best path to dating success and happiness.
/r/seduction13/10/22 05:04 PM
2

The sex worker didn't want you, she wanted your money. It is different to be wanted.
/r/seduction11/10/22 10:33 AM
19

'maybe give me somewhere to put my mouth.'
/r/seduction07/10/22 04:50 PM
2

ok
/r/seduction07/10/22 03:00 PM
27

Change the real life stuff. Don't work on developing an online relationship with somebody you aren't moving things forward with in real life.
/r/seduction03/10/22 04:33 PM
19

Who is 'her'? A fucking rando you've never met? Who gives a shit. Only spend time on people you know, and spend that time to get them on a date.
/r/seduction03/10/22 04:26 PM
4

Why are YOU doing this low yield behavior and simping about it like a low-value guy?
/r/seduction15/09/22 04:53 PM
29

Woof. Yeah throwing money at strangers is a very low-yield strategy.
/r/seduction11/09/22 06:01 PM
1

He is tall, funny, attractive, confident, and vulnerable, with very large social proof. IDK why this is hard for anybody to see externally.
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:24 PM
1

You don't need to lie at all. You don't need to share if you are a virgin. If you DO choose to share anyways, don't be surprised if there are consequences.
/r/seduction03/08/22 02:33 PM
1

It's a risky decision to date a coworker. It's an absolutely stupid decision to date a coworker then blab about it to coworkers. And it's clear from the comments here that you are absolutely stupid and can't even see how you've made a mistake.
/r/seduction12/07/22 07:50 PM
8

you're the scum bag who is 'telling', FYI
/r/seduction12/07/22 02:36 PM
26

Nah, you win by not engaging with problematic women without personalities. I'm not interested in women who talk about yachts and photo shoots, especially with other men, in the least bit.
/r/seduction26/06/22 08:25 PM
29

Sounds like they're unavailable or shallow. Why are you engaging with them?
/r/seduction26/06/22 04:35 PM
8

How would we know
/r/seduction23/06/22 05:22 PM
1

'My dick is not small'
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:11 PM
0

Anybody who says that had unprotected sex with strangers all the time, and therefore WILL give you an STD.
/r/seduction12/06/22 07:22 PM
10

Nobody wants the attention of a cop in uniform. Nobody.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:12 PM
3

It was ONE NIGHT, move on.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:09 PM
1

Leave her alone and stop being clingy. Use this stage in your life to grow up and realize that you can't make somebody like you, and that there are other fish in the sea.
/r/seduction26/05/22 03:02 PM
1

what a boring text
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:35 PM
1

get her number next time then text her 'Let's get together Thursday night' done.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:40 PM
1

It helps, but strong advantage.
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:53 PM
15

People want to be made to feel things. They don't want people they just met throwing feelings at them.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:13 AM
118

Your first text - bad. 'I'd love to keep getting to know you more' - no, don't talk about your feelings. If you want to keep getting to know her more, THEN GET TO KNOW HER MORE. 'Yesterday was really fun. Next time is over drinks ;) ' something that moves things forward and isn't like "I <3 u" She rejected you, prob was going to anyways Your last text? Actually I think it was pretty great. It wasn't bitter and you moved on. That's fine. Nice job, OP.
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:23 PM
15

yeah this is 100% a way to waste OP AND the girl's time if you don't want friendship, move on. don't lie and try to be manipulative.
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:20 PM
1

You can be tall and not get women. But 6ft me would do way way way better than 5'6" me - that's a fact of reality. 5'6" me does great though.
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:11 PM
5

trust me the struggle is the same across the board Nah, not helpful. There is a very specific height effect that you can't comment on, and therefor can't just dismiss.
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:52 PM
87

Have you tried being shorter? Dating as 5'6" is easy. The height effect is real. I have the same disadvantages as you, but worse. Even if my height loses me 80% of the population of women on Earth, 20% of the women on earth is a staggering number. By learning game and working on myself, I do really well with an abundance of women.
/r/seduction12/05/22 03:51 PM
1

Yeah. You do not need to mind-read to ask a woman you're interested out and see how things go.
/r/seduction11/05/22 02:51 PM
14

'Let's get together tomorrow night' Literally just that.
/r/seduction11/05/22 10:28 AM
2

I'll be honest - you're a 16yo, you know people your age better than anybody giving advice here. I'd use the thing that girls your age are more comfortable with - I trust you to know best. I WOULD encourage you to think of a #/social media as a gateway to MEETING UP WITH people though. Don't just mindlessly chat and send messages forever - find a way to hang out with somebody you're interested in.
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:20 PM
132

Jesus, talking about height and being 5'10" and using 5'8" as another example? This post ain't it.
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:13 PM
3

Gross comment.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:23 PM
130

Ask her, or don't ask her. Mind games and bullshit are not real.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:22 PM
5

No. They are working out. Fuck right off.
/r/seduction07/05/22 01:10 PM
9

Yeah probably. Definitely don't text MORE. You cannot win somebody over text, you can only lose somebody over text. Think about that when you're texting.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:38 PM
1

Try moving on because she has a boyfriend and is choosing not to pursue you.
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:23 PM
5

It will have a better effect of showing her that you're pathetic. It will not help you.
/r/seduction05/05/22 08:00 PM
11

Nah that sounds pathetic. It's one date. Get over it. If you don't want to be her friend, don't pretend to be her friend.
/r/seduction05/05/22 07:40 PM
4

Why are you suggesting you have interest in a woman over text?
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:46 PM
5

These aren't shit tests. The girl is literally flirting with you and finding ways to spend time with you. And you say no every fucking time. How do you expect to win this woman? If you are shutting down any attempts at physical engagement or spending any time with her. These aren't shit tests, these are shit-for-brain tests and you're failing them. Find a way to spend time with her, make her laugh, and develop physical comfort. She's giving you help and you're fucking it up.
/r/seduction04/05/22 03:07 PM
1

Forget this stranger who is not interested in dating you.
/r/seduction03/05/22 04:45 PM
0

Guess what, people who don't like you don't owe you shit. And women that give feedback, even kind feedback, become targets including of violence. Redirect your energy from wishing strangers would soothe your butthurt towards making people like you.
/r/seduction03/05/22 12:23 PM
1

100k ain't nothing. I have many multiples of that. I've had dating success when my net worth was negative. Is it easier now? Yeah. But I can walk and chew bubble gum.
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:23 AM
9

This sounds fucking stupid. OP can't walk and chew bubble gum at the same time.
/r/seduction30/04/22 03:00 AM
3

move on
/r/seduction30/04/22 01:32 AM
5

Imagine being so butthurt and reactive. Maybe try to cultivate some inner happiness where you aren't trying to irritate other people to feel better about yourself.
/r/seduction29/04/22 06:18 PM
2

Move on, she's not interested.
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:38 PM
1

Think of how you could have had HER showing YOU pictures. Why are you trying force somebody to pay attention to things they haven't expressed interest in?
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:52 PM
1

She invited you over, you said 'I got it' and then just let the convo dropped. You confidently told her 'I hear your invite and I'm not accepting it.' Yeah you're an idiot.
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:27 PM
2

lol that's incredibly sad. imagine being that insecure.
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:09 PM
3

If he says 'wait two years' he's not into it.
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:37 PM
1

yikes. no. yikes, your comment history
/r/seduction11/04/22 02:32 PM
1

literally don't know what that is and literally don't care sounds scammy
/r/seduction06/04/22 03:43 PM
1

lol 'give her your number' already fuckin up, not surprised your fuckups also have DEPTH
/r/seduction05/04/22 03:51 PM
275

'Dating success' is not an issue. Your 'friend' was using you for his ego and purposefully trying to hurt you and lower you down so he could feel a little higher. He's not a friend. Leave your thoughts on 'dating success' out of it.
/r/seduction01/04/22 07:15 PM
3

Move out and move on.
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:00 PM
153

This is a red flag tbh. Pursue if you want, but: - a person being possessive of a stranger and flailing back and forth between nudes and being withdrawn is going to be a problem 100% Even if you 'win' you lose.
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:57 PM
302

I don’t have any intention of meeting her Then who cares what you do?
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:17 PM
4

Dude quit telling her how you feel. You never should have done that in the first place. Just ask her to hang out. Get to know her. Quit saying over and over again how much you like her - instead, be fun and LIKEABLE.
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:24 PM
2

This is stupid and a waste of our time and your time. Focusing on negative energy is why you struggle with dating. What if you focused on adding to people's lives - the women AND men around you, instead of brainstorming how we could all be pathetic misanthropes like you? I help men I know meet women. I help women I know meet men. I help people. I make people happy. It has helped me do well in my life, and with women.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:34 PM
2

You cannot 'win' by texting. You can DEFINITELY 'lose' by texting. Be clever, be fun, get the date. Let ACTUAL HUMAN INTERACTION drive the dynamics.
/r/seduction30/03/22 10:25 PM
25

You're 5'7" so you know it's true. Height matters. It will affect how people treat you. That said, you can do just fine, especially at your height. Source: A 5'6" person who is successful in dating.
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:33 PM
7

No. You're doing perfectly now. Don't wait a week. Wait a day or two and be like 'Let's grab a drink Thursday night.'
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:05 PM
1

i have to find a way to not be crippled by anxiety Stop seeing a single date as a life-defining event. Continue to live your life, see other people, etc.
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:35 PM
1

lol what do you think unmatched means. Yikes, you're not ready for online dating.
/r/seduction24/03/22 02:34 PM
2

You're right, the phrase is 'banging your head against a wall' and not 'banged your head against a wall'
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:34 PM
2

Not interested enough to even see your face = this is going nowhere. Don't put your hopes on a stranger you don't even know. You don't even know if it's a girl.
/r/seduction23/03/22 08:03 PM
4

Create a network of friendships and activities. Meeting more people + social proof goes a long way.
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:50 PM
235

Yeah OP banked it all on a shit plan that made the girl feel low value, and it didn't work out. Yes. This is the natural outcome of a shit plan.
/r/seduction19/03/22 03:42 AM
2

It's four months dude. Shit or get off the pot.
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:45 PM
0

Why should she choose you over an infinite amount of guys who could actually meet her? Get over yourself. I'm glad she's getting her pussy eaten, and you should try to meet some humans too.
/r/seduction18/03/22 11:22 PM
2

Dude why are you acting possessive about a girl you've never met, yikes.
/r/seduction18/03/22 10:41 PM
3

Move on. Work past your need for a response. The only answer is to move forward.
/r/seduction18/03/22 09:06 PM
3

oneitis Move on. This is a human you don't even know, who has a boyfriend, and who is not leaving him for you.
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:24 PM
5

"Thursday night. Meet me at *landmark*." ​ You can't WIN people via text. But you can easily lose them. Get the date.
/r/seduction18/03/22 07:02 PM
2

Don’t be getting what goes through they mind man She knows you're the kind of guy who slides in the DMs of a stranger and then gets butthurt about it and posts on reddit.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:08 PM
7

'Welcome back. Want to pick up where we left off? ;)'
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:05 PM
1

Yes, you can. You don't or won't, but you can.
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:54 PM
12

If you want to have sex with her, ask her to hang out alone and make moves. If you don't want to have sex with her, don't have sex with her.
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:43 PM
17

You don't want strangers seeing you talk to a woman. OK.
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:39 PM
13

It's a girl on tinder. People at the house party will be strangers. What's so hard about being seen by strangers with somebody you want to sleep with?
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:34 PM
71

How pathetic, you'd sleep with her but not be seen in public, with strangers, with her? How much time in the day do you spend looking in the mirror?
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:25 PM
5

This is pathetic misogyny, and this is not the place for it. Don't settle for low quality posts if you're looking for advice on how to better your relationships.
/r/seduction17/03/22 07:39 PM
3

Why do you feel entitled to the attention of women? Such that you feel you should have it without providing any value?
/r/seduction15/03/22 09:53 PM
3

Who are you arguing with here? I don't really see people saying that. OP isn't saying that. I'm not saying that. The thread we're both replying to isn't saying that.
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:36 PM
5

I don't see that here. It's OK to say it out loud, acknowledge it's there, and acknowledge it as part of a starting place. It's silly to say 'DON'T TALK ABOUT IT.'
/r/seduction15/03/22 04:28 PM
5

I'm short and I'm very successful in dating. It doesn't mean it's not a hindrance. It's ok to talk about it being a hindrance.
/r/seduction15/03/22 03:48 PM
18

You can change self esteem.
/r/seduction15/03/22 11:38 AM
1

Yeah this is some incel shit.
/r/seduction12/03/22 12:36 PM
3

Yeah OP is pathetic. There are LOTS of reasons she doesn't want to date you. Thinking things like in OPs post is definitely one of them.
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:46 AM
1

Is that a Wikipedia article about u bein mad, bro? I don't need to read an article to see this. Yeesh.
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:07 AM
1

Yes. I seem so triggered right?
/r/seduction11/03/22 01:22 AM
1

Oh look a slur. Nope, not everybody is like you. I get emotions and I don't get mad and flail about.
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:27 PM
3

No, not all of us get super butthurt and use homophobic slurs from time to time.
/r/seduction10/03/22 10:04 PM
35

lol this guy is living rent free in your head. You snapped and used a slur and wrote a reddit post. Look. You're not coming out on top. Everything about this was weak, reactive, and pathetic. The response should have been 'uh... why are you talking to me?'and staring at him like he's an idiot, then going about your day.
/r/seduction10/03/22 08:33 PM
10

I'd consider telling the manager that a server was behaving really weird and tell them he wouldn't look at you and was flirting with your partner when you were gone. With MY girlfriend though? She's attractive, and she'd tell me, and we'd both have a good laugh about it, but I would not be the least concerned, mad, or disrespected. It would be a funny story about a creep.
/r/seduction09/03/22 02:07 PM
7

This ain't dating advice. You're haggling. Just pay the girl what she's asking for.
/r/seduction08/03/22 07:25 PM
136

To me this is just like Online dating This is not at all like online dating.
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:56 AM
1

prostitute?
/r/seduction06/03/22 11:56 AM
2

Break it off. A mismatch in values at 1 month is enough.
/r/seduction05/03/22 12:41 PM
1

Dinner sucks as a first date. Expensive and obligates you to something for a long time. Try something more casual to start out.
/r/seduction04/03/22 09:38 PM
3

Sure - maybe you will do well with women who are into that kind of guy and language. I am not interested in women who are into that kind of guy and language, tbh. To each their own.
/r/seduction01/03/22 04:03 PM
1

Near or above 20, stopped counting but could if needed.
/r/seduction27/02/22 01:32 PM
3

Again - the VERY ATYPICAL experience you had being confronted by staff is not because you were 'too nice' - you continue to miss the point.
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:38 PM
5

Why are you talking about your one success, when clearly your behavior that night was a noticeable issue.
/r/seduction26/02/22 07:01 PM
5

You weren't 'too nice.' You weren't calibrated. You should realize if you're approaching almost 100 people that you are recognizably odd.
/r/seduction26/02/22 05:38 PM
97

My way of saying this is 'you can't win a girl over text, but you can lose a girl over text.'
/r/seduction25/02/22 10:04 PM
1

Imagine simping so hard you have to post on reddit to analyze a single fucking snap. Chill out.
/r/seduction18/02/22 11:36 PM
9

super cringe. 'Nice pipes, you had the room jamming! - *name*' That's IT. That's all your first text is. And after that? You still don't flood her with tons of bullshit. You make conversation and tell her you should get together sometime.
/r/seduction18/02/22 06:39 PM
7

Nah, it's weak whiny bullshit. The moment of being deceitful is an opportunity to come clean. Every moment is. OP's desperate cry for help is just that - desperate, crying, passive, etc.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:23 PM
10

I also texted her that literally the same time she posted a story coming out of the dudes house at 7am. Yes. This is straight up passive creep behavior. Grow up dude.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:55 PM
15

Dude, you've already been a creep by texting her that you dreamed incredibly specific shit. Being MORE passive isn't going to help.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:49 PM
20

"I had a bad dream you did this very very specific thing that I can tell you did based on your public social media. It was just a dream though. What do you think?" It's passive and weak. How about 'Hey, I saw your IG stuff. We should talk about things.'
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:34 PM
29

"I know it will be VERY awkward if I confront her. But I can’t help myself. I already texted her saying I had a bad dream that she went home with a promoter and fucked him." lol what a creep, how passive are you trying to be here it happened. talk about it or don't.
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:25 PM
5

She has a boyfriend AND is a coworker. You'd be dumb to screw up your job to simp for a taken woman with red flags.
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:59 PM
0

"she even let me tell intimate fantasies without telling me to stop." Cringe. If she has a boyfriend, and is not participating in that, you're being a creep.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:28 PM
12

Dude she literally told you.
/r/seduction17/02/22 07:27 PM
2

This disappointment will be a disappointment to you. It's not what you want, and you can't make it be what you want.
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:58 PM
2

Ask her: "I'm having a good time, but sometimes I get a slight sense you're holding back or that you're not interested..." *pause* "What's your reaction to hearing that?"
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:16 PM
-2

I think one of your issues is compartmentalizing this - seduction is a state of being - being charming, friendly, engaging etc. should be part of your autopilot. If you are 'taking 3 years off to work on yourself' and you're not cultivating those basic things, you're missing the point.
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:53 PM
-4

You've 'taken 3 years off' on talking to women and learning how to be compelling to other people?
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:45 PM
4

I tend to be all over them too much by telling them good morning and how are you doing and shit like that. What do I do to stop this? Stop this.
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:28 PM
3

Your plan to self-sabotage and make sure you never have ANY sexual encounters will definitely work! Can't go wrong!
/r/seduction10/02/22 10:20 PM
19

No. Bad idea. Prepare to be banned from the business.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:55 PM
7

I am delaying this meeting with her and she is now asking me if everything is ok Look, the only obstacle here is yourself. You're gonna have to meet up with her. You're gonna have to see how it goes. No way around it. If you try to flail around, you'll only lose worse.
/r/seduction10/02/22 08:41 PM
4

You asked a person, who you have never been out with, to go out with you on Valentine's day? Yeah, ya made a mistake.
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:21 PM
10

2 months is nothing she's a stranger
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:50 PM
5

Yeah so, like... you pushed her away And she got pushed away. Bud she's away. Ya missed it. Let it go.
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:48 PM
0

'Ghosting is wimpy' 'You should be butthurt instead, and continue to be butthurt, and tell women you're butthurt, because you're STRONG.' Uh, yeah. It is probably better to just move on.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:30 PM
1

forget it, move on you can't change the things you cannot change you pass by attractive strangers every day and don't do shit about it move on.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:42 PM
3

She wants to be your friend. She is pursuing friendship. If you want that, keep interacting with her. If you don't want that, don't keep interacting with her.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:05 PM
35

Why is this in this subreddit? If you're friends, sounds like a friend problem, not a 'seduction' problem. If you ARE interested - guess what, she's REALY not.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:43 PM
1

Let it go. She let you down kindly. You responded maturely. That's literally it. That's how it goes. She did the right thing. You did the right thing. Now go live your life. IF something happens it will be if something changes with her. But that WILL not be helped by you flailing around, texting her back, liking her message or some shit, or being weird. Move on and have a good life. You've literally done all you can except the 'believe her and move on' part.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:33 PM
45

You're overreacting. She has told you her limits. She enjoys some things but not others. Now, you get to decide - do you want to keep doing this with her? If so, keep doing it. If not, then tell her you're not interested in this.
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:42 PM
5

He's part of a friend group. I've been in friend groups where there is somebody there that people may enjoy and trust socially but would not let their sister date etc. because they are worried about them. If he is hearing this, he should assume something is up and have an open mind to learn and improve.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:02 PM
3

Texting should be used to set up a date. You almost never 'win' from texting but you can often 'lose.' It's stupid to try to 'text harder' and improve your romantic chances. Quit fucking around. He asked you to hang out, so hang out and feel it out. This isn't hard.
/r/seduction06/02/22 09:30 PM
22

They aren't your friends. This is still probably a reflection of YOU. Go ask them what's up. If they help they help. If not, move on from them, but start working on understanding 'even women close to you think you are scary'... that means something.
/r/seduction06/02/22 06:50 PM
19

you don’t hear me asking you about that busty girl I hooked up with right cringe
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:16 PM
1

This is the most basic thing ever. People want to seem nice - they don't want to have to reject you directly, in-person. You've been rejected though. Nothing surprising. This is normal and expected. Move on and don't dwell.
/r/seduction04/02/22 05:18 PM
3

What even is this post? A collection of sentence fragments? Are you trying to explain something? This isn't even understandable.
/r/seduction03/02/22 05:28 PM
3

Continuing to flail and play games won't serve you. Looking for a hail mary here won't serve you. Settle your shit down and quit love bombing her and going no contact etc. You're giving out every red flag here.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:35 PM
7

'A deal' 'You pay me a lot of money and I do my job.' Yes. That's the 'deal.'
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:38 PM
5

Ok, so are you a basic PUA and breaking a 4 year dry spell? If so, why should anybody click your link? Or are you advertising your skills with a beginner FR? Choose which one you are.
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:32 PM
15

This is dumb, low effort, and not funny. Feel free to send it to her! She can find out you're dumb, low effort, and not funny. I'm sure it will move things forward.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:51 PM
1

Yes, it is possible he is a human with complex human feelings like you. You could talk to him and ask him.
/r/seduction24/01/22 03:21 PM
4

'Outcome independence' The greatest strength you can develop through this journey is not being hooked on external validation. You have to keep trying and believe in yourself and your goal. Failure is not that you are bad, it is an opportunity to learn.
/r/seduction23/01/22 02:32 PM
185

Overthinking. It is normal to think about and talk about exes on occasion. Doing it a lot is a red flag. This does not sound like doing it a lot.
/r/seduction20/01/22 05:56 PM
2

No. Nobody does that, assumes strangers have specific partners with specific relationships. Don't do mental gymnastics - ask her out.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:55 PM
79

How are you going to 'make' women make the first move? Why is this your goal? Why waste your time sitting around literally waiting for life to happen?
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:16 PM
45

Yeah, not gonna take any perspective of a 6'4" person on height. You literally can't understand. You have problems, they're not related to your height. Other people have problems, they are related to their height.
/r/seduction18/01/22 08:19 PM
2

"Want to hang out alone sometime?"
/r/seduction14/01/22 08:52 PM
1

Sounds like depression.
/r/seduction08/01/22 07:25 PM
1

I'm a doctor and it doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:10 PM
0

Not a thing.
/r/seduction01/01/22 07:06 PM
1

You did nothing. She's crazy. You can keep trying to stick your dick in crazy. But you're not gonna stop the crazy. Price ya pay here.
/r/seduction23/12/21 03:28 PM
1

Do you have friends? Male or female? Tell them this and ask them if they have a sense as to why it happens. Have an open mind about the feedback you get.
/r/seduction15/12/21 02:52 PM
26

She enjoyed your attention. That's all it means.
/r/seduction02/12/21 02:01 AM
9

cringe
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:31 PM
2

Yes, you did screw up. If you invited her out, and she came out, she was there for you. You were there for something else.
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:12 PM
-3

Ah, yes, toxic misogyny is the answer. Thanks for this enlightening comment.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:27 PM
-1

You're not being 'unrealistic' - you're being judgey and lame. You haven't discussed your number. You probably wish you had one partner for every 2 years of active dating life. You're just being judgey and you should work on yourself - its a you problem, not a her problem.
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:26 PM
5

Guess what, you did have a conversation about it. You brought it up. She turned it down. Asked & answered.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:43 AM
42

Get her Twitter and MySpace
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:47 PM
5

Yes. They 100% say 'I am not interested in interacting with the world'
/r/seduction24/10/21 06:36 PM
3

She sucked + she blocked you. Take the hint & move.
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:41 PM
4

You told somebody you wanted an open relationship. They didn't want that so they left. What's there to comment on or guide you on?
/r/seduction22/10/21 07:33 PM
1

send back rick roll
/r/seduction22/10/21 01:17 PM
0

Do you want to talk to her? Her message, in itself, is meaningless. Only you and people who know you/her can give you advice on this.
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:21 PM
13

Def the dumbest thing I've read on this subreddit.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:22 PM
1

I didn't discuss looks. And this is my only response so 'and again' doesn't make sense. You're obsessing over your testosterone level in this thread. You're obsessing over your looks in this thread. Your obsession and negative view of the world is present in this thread - I can only imagine it's very visible on you in real life as well.
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:46 PM
2

Imagine thinking testosterone levels have anything to do with this Imagine taking multiple testosterone tests and thinking you understand what they mean. Imagine taking supplements to 'naturally' increase your testosterone. ​ Maybe they sense you're a weird creep obsessed with hormones staring at women wondering if they can sense your self-perception of your testosterone level.
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:23 PM
1

Oh maybe you can ask if she'll be cuddle-buddies with you
/r/seduction18/10/21 01:09 PM
11

You're not gonna make a FWB with somebody who doesn't want to sleep with you.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:16 AM
3

By DMing her
/r/seduction11/10/21 04:06 PM
4

Yes, you're failing in slow motion. Keep this up and you'll definitely lose You have to play to win. Put your arm around her.
/r/seduction09/10/21 09:10 PM
3

Quite mincing around. Calling her but not talking? Texting her a lie about why you called? Why are you being like this?
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:56 PM
4

Get therapy, bud. You're only defeating yourself. I'm 5'6". I could have fret about my height my whole life and disqualified myself. Instead, you accept it and you move on. Literally no benefit to whinge about it and sit in your basement. Move on, and get therapy to help yourself move on if you need to.
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:57 PM
2

Did you meet with this girl in person? Did you sleep with her?
/r/seduction30/09/21 02:57 AM
10

No. Not really. What are you really asking here?
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:05 PM
4

And look what mincing about it got you. Lesson learned.
/r/seduction28/09/21 10:07 PM
91

This is a #thathappened fantasy post. Talk to the human.
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:54 PM
1

Good luck! If it doesn't work out (again), you know where to find me ;)
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:18 PM
5

Your mistake was getting married to a stranger and having two kids with her. Counseling is your only step.
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:16 PM
189

Why is this about paying? Why aren't you dumping her?
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:13 PM
2

Alone.
/r/seduction21/09/21 01:12 PM
6

She sucks or she's not interested (because you're not interesting)
/r/seduction15/09/21 11:12 PM
11

wiping my lips were you drooling?
/r/seduction05/09/21 11:54 AM
1

Why isn't the person living rent free in your head, getting all the attention she wants, cutting you off? Oh I wonder.
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:33 AM
2

You're right, but you're choosing to spend your time being a whiny sad person about it rather than accepting that, being better, and moving on. As I said in the other thread, I'm shorter than you, more successful than you, and I'm not butthurt about it. Why are you being so whiny and butthurt?
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:50 AM
1

No, don't bitterly text her like a whiner. Ya good?
/r/seduction29/08/21 11:46 PM
16

Height matters, HOWEVER, I'm 5'6" and I've had a great dating life.
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:16 AM
2

Move on and be normal, like a normal person who is not obsessed with somebody and who has their own life. She might not ever reach out. You should not be waiting for her to. You should be living a better life.
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:47 PM
2

Not in the classic way of 'fix.' You're looking for something to DO. Instead, you should stop doing things. Your instincts are bad. They got you here so far.
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:18 PM
3

She you she wanted to be friends. Then you went and got all dramatic, telling her no, unfriending, refriending, telling her yes, etc. She did not want the complications. In response you got more complicated and annoying. You need to chill.
/r/seduction18/08/21 06:26 PM
13

Why do you, as a 24 year old male, have a mother with a 23 year old friend? This just doesn't add up so far.
/r/seduction29/07/21 05:25 PM
21

"Pick up this battery and let me know when you have it, and come hang out with me while I switch things out"
/r/seduction24/07/21 03:16 PM
2

I honestly can’t figure out what she’s doing because this on and off friendship/more has happened at least five times. you can't figure out when it's happened 5 times? it's literally this. it's happening right now. it's happened before. she will keep playing with you when she's bored then drop you.
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:21 AM
1

Yes, and you already know that.
/r/seduction11/07/21 02:09 PM
35

Gonna be honest, the partner I have now (and intend to marry), I can play Rocket League, Warzone, Deep Rock Galactic, etc. with. It's amazing. Took a long time to find a partner like her.
/r/seduction30/06/21 07:49 PM
3

A stripper possibly peed on you. I bet you gave a bigger tip. She literally is trained to do whatever it takes to make sure you have a good time, feel special, and leave more money. It has nothing to do with you.
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:20 PM
124

I play guitar. Met multiple very attractive partners swing dancing. I'm intermediate level, not great by any means. Hobbies that DON'T get me any - playing lots of video games, D&D.
/r/seduction30/06/21 06:18 PM
7

Agree, there are a bunch of bitter unsuccessful people here creating an echo chamber. Also, lots of misogyny. I'm 5'6", in my mid-thirties, and have had 20+ partners at a decent clip, all objectively attractive, and have obtained a partner I intend to marry. Being here 10+ years ago was part of learning that, but you still had to dodge all the misogyny and peacocking and garbage BS. It's about bettering yourself and adding value to people around you. It pays off. I'll always downvote and call ou…
/r/seduction28/06/21 04:18 PM
2

Lost virginity ~21, have had like 25 partners and ending up with the best. Suck it up.
/r/seduction26/06/21 03:09 AM
1

Weak argument. I'm talking about the enslavers, who judged black people to be justifiably enslaved just because they existed with darker skin.
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:29 PM
0

Some personal beliefs suck. Especially the ones that label people for doing completely normal things.
/r/seduction25/06/21 07:14 PM
-2

The one that negatively judges others for arbitrary reasons is objectively worse. A person who judges people as immoral for a haircut is objectively a lamer person than a person who doesn't judge others for haircuts.
/r/seduction25/06/21 04:18 PM
-2

Yes, we MUST enforce cultural stereotypes. Preach, brother! /s
/r/seduction25/06/21 03:08 PM
-2

Other people have the opinion that casual sex is immoral, and both opinions are equally valid False equivalence here. That's like saying the opinion that shaving your head is immoral is just as valid as people who say prior hairstyles are unimportant. An arbitrary declaration of immorality is not equivalent to the default state of 'people can do whatever they want with their bodies consensually.'
/r/seduction25/06/21 03:06 PM
12

Scrolling down for actual wisdom here. Totally with you. Rest of the thread are thirsty tryhards with limited success with real women. They're idealizing something they don't understand.
/r/seduction25/06/21 11:09 AM
3

Yeah. 'you seem really cool, I'd like to take you out.'
/r/seduction20/06/21 11:48 PM
59

You are not 'dating your crush.' Things are going well. You have not had a date. Don't get ahead of yourself.
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:54 PM
4

You posted here, and lash out at feedback? ​ Counting hours and obsessing about every message is toxic. You're shooting yourself in the foot over and over again.
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:23 PM
3

Sounds like a sad, bad plan. This will only work if you are good with women. The fact that this is your plan to get women suggests you aren't good with women.
/r/seduction06/06/21 05:01 AM
3

This gonna be the first time in your life that the person you thought you knew in the first few weeks of dating isn't the same thing as who they really are?
/r/seduction20/05/21 03:47 PM
1

So?
/r/seduction20/05/21 03:42 PM
1

Yes. It's been a few weeks. She owes you nothing. You don't know her. Sounds like they have a better connection. Don't fight it, there's nothing you can do.
/r/seduction20/05/21 03:40 PM
4

Sounds like you want to lose your job.
/r/seduction09/05/21 04:54 AM
2

God, comments like yours getting upvotes are confirming what I'm writing elsewhere - this sub is turning into an incel haven.
/r/seduction28/04/21 01:39 PM
-3

Yeah, the comments here are a sign of how far this subreddit has fallen.
/r/seduction28/04/21 12:14 PM
-7

And you'll get what you paid for. It's just not a shortcut to why people practice seduction. Giving up on developing those skills won't help you in the long run.
/r/seduction28/04/21 11:32 AM
0

OP and all commenters are myopic. This isn't just about sex, seduction is the art of making people like you. You can't get by paying people to like you forever. Sure, sex is great, but y'all are joking if it's the main point of seduction or dating. This is the most incel post I've seen in a while.
/r/seduction28/04/21 11:22 AM
1

Thanks... I have a partner of about two years who recently moved in. Things are going really well. You sound like you're really getting on well too, I'm glad.
/r/seduction14/04/21 04:06 AM
1

Do you come to /r/seduction to make yourself mad and project all of your issues on others?
/r/seduction13/04/21 09:18 PM
1

Uh, this is stupid and weird and reflects poorly on you, not me. Starting from a place of thinking you know a stranger's intent on the net, and spending lots of words trying to tell them they don't know their own life.
/r/seduction13/04/21 06:46 PM
1

No. I've never done the hookup culture thing. I've happily had lovely partners that I treat well.
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:17 PM
62

Yeah. Just because it's a woman with an opinion, it doesn't mean it's good dating advice. I personally look for advice from people achieving what I want to achieve, not people who think they understand how it all works.
/r/seduction12/04/21 07:30 PM
1

her libido is very low(usually have sex like 3-4 times a week). lol. Your expectations are unrealistic here. That is a pretty objectively solid sex life. If she agreed to an open relationship "because of this", it's also because she is wanting to fuck other people too. This sounds ok only because you imagine you fucking other people and she's never gonna do it. That's not gonna happen. She's getting fit and opening up the relationship because she's gonna fuck other people and it's going to be su…
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:58 PM
1

It's Graham here again with the body dysmorphia. ​ Coming to reddit instead of getting help. How's that working for you, years of doing this instead of getting help, Graham?
/r/seduction27/03/21 03:33 AM
2

Agree. It's people asking about individual text messages. Like... Zero game involved.
/r/seduction26/03/21 01:19 AM
1

Yeah, that looks boring. ​ Glad I'm not you.
/r/seduction12/03/21 04:14 PM
4

you need an OBGYN - you need a specialist to treat this, not your primary doctor.
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:35 PM
8

In the sky
/r/seduction01/08/20 12:14 PM
3

You need to get mental health help. ​ You have a problem.
/r/seduction21/04/20 01:53 AM
1

repetitive throwaway-type name body dysmorphia ​ hmmmmmmmmmm
/r/seduction15/03/20 02:07 PM
3

No, I'm 5'6" and doing fine with many, very attractive partners over the course of my life.
/r/seduction02/03/20 04:13 PM
1

Condom you fuckin idiot. ​ Why? STDs and babies.
/r/seduction29/12/19 02:54 PM
16

She left because you made no move. She didn't come over to your place to cuddle.
/r/seduction27/10/19 03:26 PM
1

'love of my life' = 'guy I dated two weeks' = yikes
/r/seduction20/10/19 03:06 PM
10

She probably doesn't like you. She's probably is nice to you because you control her employment. ​ Move on, find something else.
/r/seduction19/08/19 01:44 AM
3

Therapy
/r/seduction12/08/19 01:48 PM
2

100% this guy's toxic attitude is the major culprit in this situation. Agree with your posts.
/r/seduction12/08/19 01:47 PM
11

You've proven you weren't mature enough to handle the truth, so your friend lied. Is that all his fault? Maybe yours, too. Having a crush on a woman doesn't give you ownership over her. Let her and him live their lives and get over yourself.
/r/seduction12/08/19 01:46 PM
2

Need therapist
/r/seduction11/08/19 08:34 PM
0

You need therapy, not just seduction.
/r/seduction14/04/19 03:05 PM
3

Congrats, man. The best thing I've ever done for MYSELF is to talk to any woman and man. Make friends by being engaged. Nice job!
/r/seduction14/04/19 12:42 PM
4

How is that a mixed signal? ​ She's into you and likes touching you. ​ She wants to get to know you better before she fucks you. ​ Those are two independent, coexisting things.
/r/seduction10/04/19 03:45 PM
193

Meet people. Talk in class. Plan a party. Don't talk about your lack of success. Approach women. Show interest in women. ​ You're acting like the world is just supposed to happen to you. You're listing all your own solutions and asking why the world isn't giving them to you.
/r/seduction22/02/19 05:56 PM
2

You're probably not as good at reading signals as you think. I agree with others, have others check your breath and BO.
/r/seduction15/11/18 04:21 PM
–

No. It doesn't.
/r/seduction30/10/18 03:37 AM
19

Wrong. If you swipe right on everything, you will be 'ranked' lower by their system and shown to less/less quality matches. Aim for swiping about 1/3 of the time.
/r/seduction18/10/18 06:26 AM
6

Guys, this person has a mental health problem and posts the same post under different alts over and over. He needs help with his mental health, and his posts should be removed.
/r/seduction16/09/18 11:41 PM
-2

It's enjoyable and requires somebody else. Nobody is stopping you from jerking off. You aren't entitled to any activity with somebody else.
/r/seduction11/09/18 10:06 PM
11

Disagree. All confidence is 'fake' and unearned. ​ Faking it is the first real step.
/r/seduction07/09/18 10:20 PM
7

Get a therapist. Get a therapist.
/r/seduction17/08/18 02:04 PM
2

No answer will satisfy you. Thats why you need a therapist.
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:37 PM
5

OMG this guy. You need to see a therapist man. Stop posting in all of these forums. Please stop. Please.
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:14 PM
1

why are you here
/r/seduction26/07/18 10:57 PM
6

Yeah, sounds like a personal problem!
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:37 PM
3

Do people even give a shit how tall someone is? Yes. Very much so.
/r/seduction07/08/17 06:11 PM
12

I'm 5'6". I'm acutely aware that this limits my pool of available women significantly. I'm also aware that my pool of available women is still likely billions. I am killing it within my pool of available women. If you don't try, if you make excuses, you will get nothing. There is nothing to do but work on yourself and get out there. It's perfectly achievable to have a great sex life with very attractive partners at 5'6".
/r/seduction07/08/17 06:11 PM
8

You were 27, and now you're 37 and divorced, but it's online dating that's changed...
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:59 AM
3

You're doing something wrong.
/r/seduction19/09/16 04:45 PM
26

So you got preliminary confirmation of a date via text? And this is worth writing an inspirational post on? Let's see if the date happens, let's see if you're able to talk to her. We're setting the bar super low here...
/r/seduction21/06/16 04:22 PM
1

What?
/r/seduction31/05/16 04:18 PM
0

People with sexist beliefs are continually going to be disappointed by the opposite sex.
/r/seduction03/05/16 02:20 PM
6

Enjoy your first steps into the wonderful world of MLM.
/r/seduction29/04/16 11:49 PM
1

It's unfair for you to decide for other people what should be stigmatized or not.
/r/seduction05/04/16 04:46 AM
1

HSV-2 is different. And yes, if I had outbreaks on my face, I'd tell people before I kissed.
/r/seduction05/04/16 04:22 AM
2

But if you DO know it, and don't tell, that's pretty fucked up. Also, I wouldn't call it a 'badge of honor' by any means.
/r/seduction04/04/16 09:16 PM
2

Pretty much everything about your post is super fucked up.
/r/seduction04/04/16 08:23 PM
23

Times are changing, and Mark Manson isn't an idiot. I used different language five years ago too... doesn't mean I feel pressured, I just see things differently.
/r/seduction24/01/16 11:48 AM
1

Online dating, random day pulls (hot girl sitting down next to you on the airplane, etc.)
/r/seduction20/11/15 06:37 AM
1

Boy, tryhard, Ooh, he called you that name you called him! Burn!
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:23 AM
1

It's a bad idea to try to pick up or shift the balance of a girl you are not familiar with.
/r/seduction12/11/15 04:25 AM
8

Hand behind her head, pull her to you.
/r/seduction12/11/15 02:41 AM
1

Bad idea.
/r/seduction12/11/15 02:41 AM
7

It sounds like you never approached this from a place of stability. The fact that NoFap changed your life shows that... you were always just searching for something to complete or fix you. This seems to be a problem independent of pickup.
/r/seduction04/11/15 09:43 PM
1

That's stupid.
/r/seduction27/09/15 09:36 PM
2

Washington, DC or Boston.
/r/seduction27/08/15 10:30 PM
6

No-effort generic opener commenting on looks. You're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction31/07/15 12:16 AM
2

You kinda sound like you're losing...
/r/seduction28/07/15 03:03 PM
2

No, they make money from people who pay and never come. That said, yeah, leave it for the water fountain or the shake bar. Don't interrupt people lifting or doing cardio.
/r/seduction21/04/15 12:32 AM
35

People don't go to the gym to meet people.
/r/seduction20/04/15 10:54 PM
2

Great post!
/r/seduction03/02/15 05:23 PM
1

Join groups to meet other blind people!
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:55 AM
6

By the time they've seen my car, we've already had sex. shrug
/r/seduction06/07/14 03:29 PM
2

Things that never happened...
/r/MensRights17/06/14 05:59 AM
1

Guy.
/r/seduction29/05/14 10:42 PM
0

OkCupid is great, and at 5'6", if I'm having many quality dates, sometimes multiple in a week depending on my effort level, and I'm transitioning them into small relationships or sex fairly often enough, it must not be all that bad.
/r/seduction29/05/14 03:19 PM
2

Be tall, don't be not tall.
/r/seduction23/07/13 02:31 PM
17

What about the time he collected a bunch of money to get Cyanide and Happiness to come to Japan, and then just disappeared with it? I honestly don't remember how that ended up. http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/iqho3/whats_my_next_move_should_i_just_drop_this/c25ups8 (response from C&H guy who said he'd donate to charity in lieu of Tofu disappearing with money) And forgive me if I'm out of line, I honestly don't know how that ended up.
/r/seduction17/05/13 05:33 AM
1

Sorry, I've worked in an ER. Never ever getting on a fucking motorcycle.
/r/seduction09/05/13 02:39 PM
2

You sound super white trash.
/r/seduction01/05/13 01:10 AM
32

"Boy, I'm on the shot. Please, just plow me" WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Fireworks went off in my head/testicles. The one thing every guy hooking up with a girl wants to hear. I was about to go bareback on this HB9. Nope.
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:01 PM
3

Useful information for those who want to pursue prostitutes. A very small crowd. Cool story, bro.
/r/seduction06/11/12 06:24 PM
2

Solid FR, great tactics! Could have lost it, but you powered through the hardest parts!
/r/seduction03/11/12 12:53 AM
6

He's a native English speaker.
/r/seduction03/11/12 12:52 AM
2

Solid moves, especially the way you framed future meetings... I get the feeling that with Japanese girls, that can be a huge obstacle. From what I've heard, they're often way too serious about romance.
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:02 AM
2

The reason he's doing this is that he's immediately framing the conversation as sexual. He's showing interest in a way that shows he doesn't care TOO much about the specific girl.
/r/seduction03/09/12 06:42 AM
8

It's all about the way he maintains frame. Anybody who talks to a stranger in public will give off a LITTLE bit of a creepy vibe. He's trying hard to talk to strangers, but he is still very disarming and is a very non-threatening guy. I think his peacocking, which is almost literal here, makes him seem even LESS threatening... 'he's obviously some bumbling goof who is harmless, so maybe I'll hear him out...'
/r/seduction03/09/12 06:35 AM
3

Yeah, the fat girls that say they don't like muscular guys say that because they're used to muscular guys ignoring them because they are doing well enough with average and above average women. If a good looking, muscular guy gave them attention, they would instantaneously get moist.
/r/seduction03/09/12 02:13 AM
1

YouTube. Seriously. Watch a ton of 'how to dance' videos on YouTube, and practice in front of a mirror.
/r/seduction01/09/12 01:21 PM
2

Bad link.
/r/seduction23/08/12 08:15 PM
2

Masculine makeup Just call it makeup, man. Saying 'masculine makeup' shows that you know it's pretty silly to do.
/r/seduction21/08/12 03:45 AM
4

You should remove 5 of your front teeth then.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:03 AM
1

He is KNOWN. People see him and already know him. We can't just be that. He's not a good example. Show a pic of an unknown ugly guy and tells us about all the crazy shit you've seen him do. Steven Tyler is irrelevant here.
/r/seduction20/08/12 03:02 AM
3

And that's why you need to relax. Your first partner was fine with it. And that bothered you.
/r/seduction15/08/12 01:47 PM
1

You don't develop herpes the next day after an encounter, if that's the story you're telling.
/r/seduction15/08/12 01:40 PM
3

Yeah... I don't know why he wouldn't use a seductive move here instead of a pratfall...
/r/seduction20/05/12 04:49 PM
1

Count me in. Relocating there on June 1st for three years.
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:47 PM
4

Moving to D.C. at the end of the month. iamokwiththis.
/r/seduction11/05/12 04:40 PM
3

You don't get it. The reason you are not alpha is not because of your penis size. The reason you are not alpha is because: 1. Nothing seems to make you realize you don't have a small penis. 2. You THINK penis size has something to do with being alpha. The only problem you have with this, is that you're having a problem with this. The only barrier is in your head.
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:28 PM
3

Just think about what answers you WANT from a post like this. What would be an ideal answer? I don't think there is one. ESPECIALLY for somebody with an actual small penis. It's an uncomfortable topic, and the answer is to deal with it and adapt. The good thing is, you DON'T have a small penis. And the FUNNY thing is, the answer still is 'deal with it and adapt.' That's good life AND bedroom advice.
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:17 PM
7

Wow, this is a super normal penis, did not expect that reading the title. Congrats, this will only be an issue if you make it one. Which you are. So don't. Stop doing that. This won't affect you at all.
/r/seduction02/05/12 03:39 PM
47

I'm going to be honest, only do this if the guy is in on it, otherwise he might switch targets and think you're really interested (and I'm assuming you're not).
/r/seduction06/04/12 03:22 AM
4

Going from nothing to a number close with somebody you really find attractive is a big step. We're not competing here, we're improving and talking about it.
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:00 PM
-3

I've been so much of a badass that ive been kicked out of my halls. That, and losing all of your friends, etc., makes me really think you might ACTUALLY be a dick...
/r/seduction11/03/12 09:30 PM
4

He does have a plan. Thursday. Being vague is like "want to hang out sometime this week?" or "I'm free thursday and friday, when are you free?"
/r/seduction27/02/12 07:10 AM
101

But still fucking him.
/r/seduction22/01/12 08:11 AM
11

And you didn't bang her? And that's a problem with her?
/r/seduction16/01/12 09:52 AM
3

Yeah, and experience hasn't been working, so stop fretting about it and bringing it up. Fake it til you make it.
/r/seduction05/12/11 03:55 AM
16

GO BUY A FUCKING BRA IF YOU'RE THE ONLY PERSON WHO CANT LEARN ON A REAL PERSON. GO TO WAL MART. BUY A BRA. PRACTICE. Shit's pathetic, yo.
/r/seduction02/12/11 05:57 AM
1

Next to no sex appeal.
/r/seduction17/11/11 08:37 PM
3

She's not very attractive. Plus, this point is moot. The HB scale is not a pure physical attractiveness scale.
/r/seduction17/11/11 03:24 PM
2

You can. HHV-8, HPV, and EBV are all viruses that cause cancer, especially in immunocompromised hosts.
/r/seduction22/09/11 01:56 AM
2

Like you're the first guy who says "It's not that I don't CARE...." when he wants to keep fucking a girl he doesn't want to date. This isn't exactly a revelation...
/r/seduction10/09/11 05:42 PM
1

Sex is fun and not a huge deal. You should have it. Side effects of being laid will include not freaking out when you actually are fully into a girl, and not screwing it up... like you did.
/r/seduction21/08/11 10:51 PM
5

Sounds like he needed to run some haloperidol IV into her.
/r/seduction21/08/11 03:49 PM
2

Ya. Either way don't sweat it. You fucked her twice so it's not a reflection on you... if she's that influenced by friends she's not worth it.
/r/seduction16/08/11 12:21 AM
1

She's running game on you, Tofu, and you should have realized that when it got you to the point of making a post :-D All you can do is be more aloof... you may still win, but reengaging can't do anything but hurt you.
/r/seduction15/08/11 11:59 PM
9

I'm subtracting two from every HB number you report to make this sound like a real thing ;)
/r/seduction12/08/11 02:29 PM
5

Pursuing kino with a slap close being 'ok' is inappropriate. You don't own these girls' bodies. Kino is great, sexual harassment is not. You should have a fucking clue before you get slapped.
/r/seduction05/08/11 05:09 PM
1

Slap close is never a success.
/r/seduction05/08/11 01:10 PM
1

Do it now. Make sure you are legal, ID her, then have fun. You will lose this small window of possibility.
/r/seduction04/08/11 08:33 PM
45

If it's legal, do it. This is your last chance to sleep with a 17 year old. Use birth control, and have fun. You will always regret not doing it if you don't do it.
/r/seduction04/08/11 08:33 PM
1

Was your short guy built well?
/r/seduction24/06/11 05:40 PM
7

"Want to go sometime" and her saying yes is not a date yet. Good on ya, but when you have a time set and she's agreed to that, it's a little different.
/r/seduction23/06/11 06:09 PM
2

This is what we need to see. I'd love to see a solid post on this from you that makes the FAQ, Wiki, sidepanel, or something. Even though people say height doesn't matter, it's rarely a short guy saying it. It's nice to hear it from those who are successful.
/r/seduction20/06/11 04:10 AM
2

Don't push girls about strip clubs. It makes you sound like an expert and that you're a creeper who can't get a girl who goes there every night to drool over girls. Girls are opinionated about strip clubs. Next, you followed it by saying 'tramp stamp.' These statements in the context of each other make it sound like you think girls are sluts and whores and that these girls are sheltered and boring if they aren't strippers or tramps. Watch misogynistic references. I think it reflected poorly on y…
/r/seduction29/05/11 05:22 PM
4

Don't talk about exes unless it is a very funny story that shows no interest in the ex and is a DHV. Especially don't talk about recent exes. Also don't refer to her as 'my ex.' Maybe 'one time, a girl I dated _____.' Saying 'my ex' is like taking ownership, and you don't want to drag a failure around like that.
/r/seduction29/05/11 05:06 PM
1

Actually, I'm talking about the sentiment that has been expressed that you only stop when you get a firm verbal and physical NO. I think that's inappropriate. Push boundaries, but a no is a fucking no.
/r/seduction23/05/11 12:48 PM
-5

So you are only interested in her for sex, and are willing to make her uncomfortable in the pursuit to get it?
/r/seduction23/05/11 05:43 AM
2

Yeah it is. It means you are doing something that somebody doesn't want, already. Anybody else here have a great sex life and has never pushed a girl til she pushed you off and told you "NO!"???
/r/seduction23/05/11 04:56 AM
2

But what happens if a girl just wants to make out and doesn't want to have sex? Is that allowed? Can't she ask you to slow down or stop?
/r/seduction23/05/11 04:53 AM
8

Thanks. My original comment on that thread was 'this is a good way to end up in jail.' If you pick up a girl from a bar, and she's had a few drinks, and she wakes up regretting sleeping with you and remembers that she said no repeatedly, you might be FUCKED. No means no, and in that thread the OP only emphasized that he kept going, not waiting til the girl invited contact again. I thought the standard for LMR was to disengage and act aloof til she reinitiates, etc... I have NO problem with that …
/r/seduction23/05/11 04:51 AM
3

I'm sorry, that thread was still offensive and more than a little rapey to me.
/r/seduction23/05/11 03:48 AM
7

You lost my interest when you mentioned 'curb stomping' somebody. A true alpha doesn't fight people who are idiots fucking around. Hope ya feel like a tough guy.
/r/seduction21/05/11 08:59 PM
1

This man wears Affliction.
/r/seduction18/05/11 07:17 PM
-1

But you didn't pick anybody up. I don't get it.
/r/seduction04/05/11 10:03 PM
12

You reallly give a shit?
/r/seduction01/05/11 11:23 PM
52

-_-
/r/seduction24/03/11 12:46 AM
1

You have written in multiple places (original post and a later one) to have your fingers CROSSED. You mean fingers TOGETHER. As in gesture with fingers together, not splayed out. Just lookin' out for ya.
/r/seduction23/03/11 05:10 AM
1

No. Nope. Read the sidebar. Meet with her and build attraction. With that message you'll lose your chance, your friend, and your dignity.
/r/seduction13/03/11 04:01 PM
1

'what's a virgin?'
/r/seduction05/03/11 01:27 PM
1

How are you 'opening' here? You need to open a girl to GET her # or IM.
/r/seduction02/03/11 07:35 PM
0

Because field reports necessarily have to be from guys? This wasn't the same as a FR, this was a woman posting complaints about a.man with a sense of entitlement, as if her shit doesn't stink. Posting a FR is humble, pointing out YOUR strengths and weaknesses, asking for opinions. This is a girl's judgment of a guy with no analysis of her behavior. It begs to be challenged for the sake of learning.
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:42 PM
0

I thought we're being taught here not to supplicate women who are acting entitled. That we should challenge them. If we do it here, in a thread, calling the girl out on HER mistakes too, suddenly we are assholes? I see this as a huge case of white-knighting. If a guy had posted that, he would have defended himself well or taken the shame. Nobody would have rushed to his defense.
/r/seduction28/02/11 03:32 PM
2

Wait wait wait, so he makes a well-thought out post showing that it isn't good advice, because we're taught to attract QUALITY women and he doesn't feel she is projecting quality... and he gets at LEAST 59 people to agree with him... And YOU reply calling him an average frustrated chump, as a moderator, and get -3 karma... and he's the one who's not being constructive?
/r/seduction28/02/11 03:26 PM
-1

Link his post, not yours... this is useless to me.
/r/seduction28/02/11 03:17 PM
-1

Plainviews original post, as with his two posts here, are VERY nice, gracious, and right on the money. It's reflecting poorly on the seddit community that HE is being downvoted.
/r/seduction28/02/11 03:07 PM
1

This is actually my root problem. I would never be in this situation.
/r/seduction28/02/11 12:54 AM
5

Well put, Tofu.
/r/seduction27/02/11 08:45 PM
12

This girl gave many reasons she didn't like the guy but she STILL expected a drink. This guy wouldn't have improved his chances with shelling out money. I only pay for a done deal or a good friend.
/r/seduction27/02/11 07:38 PM
2

And apparently has feels entitled to having all her needs met because she smiled at a guy with those lipsticked lips.
/r/seduction27/02/11 06:58 PM
7

I wouldn't end up on a date with you cause I'd have screened that you feel entitled to a drink beforehand.
/r/seduction27/02/11 06:26 PM
30

I don't date girls who'd require a drink to feel wanted. I'd never buy at the first bar, but after I've got a kiss OR a relevant close, I can buy a drink. Basically only when it's a done deal. I don't buy 'girls' drinks, but I'll buy MY girl a drink.
/r/seduction27/02/11 06:20 PM
9

You didn't neg her, instead showing you were close-minded, TOLD her you were conservative, insinuated even YOU thought you were boring. 'Here's why you shouldn't date me' works very very rarely... and only when you're obviously being funny. That didn't happen here.
/r/seduction27/02/11 05:44 PM
75

Fuck buying girls drinks. I disagree.
/r/seduction27/02/11 05:20 PM
20

Unexpected comment with questionable relevance.
/r/seduction26/02/11 08:22 AM
1

Nobody can fix you.
/r/seduction26/02/11 12:31 AM
3

No you shouldn't. Sounds like she didn't show any interest in you.
/r/seduction26/02/11 12:09 AM
-1

Strippers.
/r/seduction25/02/11 11:57 PM
16

It sounds very very creepy. At the level of comfort you could pull off this line, you could find other ways to kiss her, too.
/r/seduction21/02/11 01:54 AM
1

close, not K-close?
/r/seduction14/02/11 01:36 AM
3

Have something novel. Crayons and paper, craft stuff. Make collages. Just something different to do. I'm not shitting you, you want to have one of those nights where the girl tells all her friends about it. Do the standard stuff, get her in on the cooking, but do something to make the night stand out. Make the craft/activity be someplace you sit right next to eachother, escalate naturally from there.
/r/seduction13/02/11 06:58 AM
1

And you didn't bump into her or steady her when the crowd swayed? Put your hands on both shoulders from behind at some point for a short bit, playing 'protective.'
/r/seduction13/02/11 06:55 AM
1

Sounds like someone was a little drunk. You won't be able to 'read' as well if you are drunk, and you will feel like things are going better than they are. You can also become overconfident. You need to weigh relieving AA against relieving you of your decision making capacities.
/r/seduction13/02/11 06:34 AM
1

kino is easy when listening to music! dance a little together, put a hand on her shoulder!
/r/seduction13/02/11 06:19 AM
5

Text briefly after you meet, something that will remind them of the convo. Text brief and direct to set up the next meeting. If you need to clarify, call. You should be the one to end the call too, don't let it last too long.
/r/seduction13/02/11 04:25 AM
3

Too many uncomfortable 'haha's you say instead of standing by what you are saying. You're destroying the impact of all your teasing and any point you're trying to make. Keep it short, direct. No conversations over text with new girls. If you wanna see her, tell her to meet you. After? A good teasing text, not a never-ending gentle probe.
/r/seduction12/02/11 02:16 PM
2

Pretty good, try to tell her more than suggest. Make plans... don't get caught up in the negotiations.
/r/seduction11/02/11 10:31 PM
2

Less texts, less talking, less searching, less asking questions. Tell her what you want to do. CONVERSATIONS are for being in person. You aren't building attraction as a beep on her phone
/r/seduction11/02/11 05:05 AM
1

Find out what works for you.
/r/seduction10/02/11 04:45 AM
2

Derpers gonna derp. AFCs gonna AFCs. Care package with a note, I miss you, and a rose? Really? Try reading something here, ANYTHING, before posting. There's lots we can do for you, but you gotta start your journey yourself. Start by reading about one-itis, then read enough to see how beta you're acting.
/r/seduction08/02/11 05:31 AM
1

Just ask her out to something specific. Don't make big plans for other days. One try. If she doesn't go, it's over. This will have nothing to do with Valentine's day. Next time, press your advantage when you have one. While she still might be thinking of you.
/r/seduction04/02/11 07:33 PM
8

Tapping on the shoulder is not how you open. A generic compliment on looks is not how you open. Be interesting and confident.
/r/seduction04/02/11 06:18 PM
2

If you haven't seen her in a month, you've already lost.
/r/seduction04/02/11 04:59 PM
2

People can still have erections after they drink. Do you read FRs just to attack people that actually get girls?
/r/seduction03/02/11 12:19 AM
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