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| 1 | Why do all you guys care about finding a relationship/love instead of funding solutions to your sadnessThanks for your reply. I was trying to understand, hence a start in dialog. I mean, I could have just lurked and ignored you. It's cool for us to have different opinions. No hard feelings. That last assumption of my thoughts is why I'm disengaging though. ✌🏼 | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do all you guys care about finding a relationship/love instead of funding solutions to your sadnessI just can't with this. What a weird generalization and devaluation of the efforts here to be a voice of resistance against some versions of Red Pill which is still very as relevant as it was in 2014 through today. Look around at the mess it made! 🤢 Of-fucking-course they want us to just drop stuff and move on. People are still finding it and people are still leaving it. Most resistances go until the thing in question dies. I mean, shit, I've been in this one fight for almost 4-years and broke u… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/22 05:16 AM |
| 1 | How'd you save PUAs, Redpillers who never really aproach women, but they'd say shit like"I've fucked and impregnate 3 million hot models already by treating them like a dog, be an asshole" or "my guru is like a second Jesus you have to believe him everything" and like.. RSD,Owen Cook,Julien fanboys?My favorite part of this is that these guys are the same people. 🤣 He's talking to himself. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 2 | How was the perception of sex presented to you when you were younger?To practice for yourself? Nothing. To force onto others due to your beliefs? A lot. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 4 | How was the perception of sex presented to you when you were younger?This may be very similar to me as well. Can you elaborate please? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 3 | How was the perception of sex presented to you when you were younger?How was the school's teachings? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/22 04:39 PM |
| 6 | How was the perception of sex presented to you when you were younger?Same! Trad Roman Catholicism here. "Sex is bad, mmmkay." is mostly all I got and was afraid of it for too many years because of that brainwashing. Unlearning sex negativity is not easy but totally possible. I'm not undermining your experiences or anything, so please forgive me for what may seem like a stupid question, but do you have access to any FWB arrangements? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/22 04:38 PM |
| 5 | How was the perception of sex presented to you when you were younger?What answers would you like to select and I can manually add numbers on my side. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Early Results of the Informal Mental Health Poll of Former Red PillersThat's not for me to judge or say. We don't know these things and can only assume. Lifting doesn't help with things like autism and ADHD anyways. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Why Red Pill leaders hide their identity, aside from fear of reprisalIf they hide well enough, it protects them from liability too as in a lot of cases, they can hide long enough to get passed the statute of limitations and walk away with zero accountability. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | [Trigger Warning: Abuse] How many of you who got caught up in Red Pill are abuse survivors?Yes, many years in. I would say I'm like 80% healed. It's a process. I've read LOTS of books, studied a bit of the brain to learn deeper things, therapy, grief counseling, cannabis to drop the walls occasionally, shrooms to cry (some of my emotional responses are still kinda borked, like crying, as my go to is still to dissociate and go quiet), and I've completed one full thing of BrainPaint (which I LOVE) a few years ago and I'm currently back in for another 20 to go deeper. But for the most pa… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/22 08:50 PM |
| 3 | [Trigger Warning: Abuse] How many of you who got caught up in Red Pill are abuse survivors?Similar here. I'm so very sorry that you went through all of that. If you need some resources for healing LMK. I have lots. 🫂 | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | (Updated) How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill have one of the following mental health issues:With Autism comes very specific anxieties and Red Pill helped a lot of those anxieties by providing answers. But in that process, some certain distortions worse and only cause anxieties to be transferred to another worry because the root of the anxieties hasn't been dealt with. It's a lot like trauma. If you don't heal what hurt you, you're going to bleed on those that never cut you. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/22 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Ex redpill discord anyone?r/BroPill has an amazing Discord server and they have a rehab section there for the Manosphere as a whole. ex-Red Pill discussions are welcome there last I checked. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Ex redpill discord anyone?The Discord this sub did have got overrun by dangerous trolls and kiwi farmers. Had to be shut down for safety. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Just because you're a feminist and progressive, doesn't mean others are here. And that's okay.He deleted everything after some rando came in and insulted us both. It was absurd. Challenging things is fine, but some rude person came in called him names and basically put a ton of words in his mouth, then argued that and not what he was even saying. It was weird. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/22 12:47 AM |
| 4 | (Updated) How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill have one of the following mental health issues:Dating and having Autism is very hard, let alone adding the unpredictable nature of depression and OCD too. I'm very sorry you're going through all that. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 12:27 PM |
| 1 | How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill are Autistic?I mean, be real. It's a rough economy and if I have something a good looking man with money wants to buy, then so be it. To each their own. If both parties are consenting and are aware of the arrangements, there is no harm in my mind. Not sure what this has to do with the post though. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 12:14 PM |
| 3 | (Updated) How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill have one of the following mental health issues:Former poll numbers: Autism+ - 63 Depression+ - 12 Anxiety+ - 10 ADHD+ - 15 Schizophrenia+ - 1 Not Autistic - 85 Different Issue - 61 Not Listed - 3 Not everything can be listed unfortunately. Feel free to name yours if you wish for it to be included. For issues like PTSD, Complex PTSD, and the like, anxiety might be the best option to choose if you want to choose that one to fit under 'other'. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill are Autistic?I, too, am a supporter of transactional sex for other reasons too, but for the same reasons you list. Being Autistic makes relationships very difficult, but transactional or FWB can make it easier, however, some men want more than that. That's where I think some paid e-girlfriend/escorts thrive, because they can offer more than sex. Many actually pay for company, intimacy, and cuddling too, surprisingly. The bonus being for both when they neither want relationships, but want the benefits. But ye… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/22 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill have one of the following mental health issues:The none and I haven't ever checked options can be said in comments. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 11:42 PM |
| 2 | How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill are Autistic?I agree, it's in abundance there, but there is A LOT of spill over from those communities, which is why a lot of the information is being twisted as well. It's still good information, it may just not be relevant to you. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Not finding intimacy is the new normalFor inquiring minds, the description says: These statistics show the results of a survey among boys and young men aged 14 to 25 in Germany on the subject of experiences with sexual intercourse by age and origin. In 2015, around 58 percent of 17-year-old boys of German origin stated that they had already had experience with sexual intercourse. The study "Youth Sexuality 2015" was carried out on behalf of the Federal Centre for Health Education among adolescents aged 14 to 17 years and young adult… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill are Autistic?For those that have other non-Autism disorders: https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/vuj9e2/how_many_of_you_that_got_caught_up_in_red_pill/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 3 | How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill are Autistic?We're just trying to get a clearer picture of their user base and make sure many of them have valid and healthy information regarding other possible relationship-ending issues, the issues they are facing obtaining dates and sex, or issues while the relationship is active, that are directly connected to their mental health issues rather than other things like "you're just being a beta pussy, bro" stuff. But yes, not everyone is affected by one. There are many that aren't being heard, are fed dang… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 08:39 PM |
| 6 | How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill are Autistic?So the people who suffer from the same symptoms but probably cannot afford an official diagnoses feel included. Getting an official diagnoses isn't easy or cheap for many, especially in the US. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Not finding intimacy is the new normalThis article might help you feel better as well: https://lifehacker.com/here-s-how-much-sex-everybody-is-having-1795561168 (quality source listed despite the article location) | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 11 | How many of you that got caught up in Red Pill are Autistic?Because it's a large part of Red Pill's listener/practitioner base and they deserve to be heard. Many being depressed/MDD, anxious, ADHD, Autistic, or other mental health issues signaling that often it wasn't the personality of the men causing the issues (like it was being accused). It was likely symptoms of their disorders that their partners were picking up on that neither realized until it was too late (not all of course). However their failures were being told that it was who they are as peo… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Not finding intimacy is the new normalI figured as much, but it's still nice to post sources so others can see it and try to see through the bullshit. (Love your username BTW.) | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 07:12 PM |
| 10 | Not finding intimacy is the new normal90-95% of people that age have had sex. the bottom ~5% of men are unable to get laid/a gf etc. Can I see sources for these? I'm curious as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 02:35 PM |
| 3 | There should be more than four horsemen3 and 4 always kill it for me no matter how hot we run. I can do little cool off breaks, but once you're giving me the silent treatment for weeks and months, I mentally check out. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/07/22 08:44 AM |
| 3 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?sometimes it's embarrassing to tell that your bullies were girls and such. There is no shame in this. Some women can be absolute mental terrorists and bully relentlessly. But on the flip side, so can men. Some people just suck. Not gonna lie after making my comment I had a good cry about afterwards. To really sit there and just let it out. All of the pain and anger that was dwindling in my head I had one last outburst before I said it was the past, and I'm over it now. Thank you for taking the t… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 2 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?Ahh yes, the "House, wife, cars, 2.5 kids, and the dog" life script most of us were fed. What a load of bullshit that whole thing is. Makes you feel like you're not good enough if you can't make it work because all it takes is "a little effort", right? Ugh. Sorry you're left feeling this way. Do you have friends and a good support circle? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 02:33 PM |
| 3 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?Quite honestly, as a woman (albeit quite the nerd myself) find that incredibly fascinating. I have no clue how ham radios and antique computers work, so I would be asking all kinds of questions! 😅 I definitely had issues with conspiracy stuff myself, but dealt with some stuff mentally and it just rarely appeals to me now. I found it too exhausting to follow personally. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 3 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?Wow, this resonates very deeply for me. I'm so sorry you went through all of that. I know your pain well. I'm a woman and my experience with school was nearly the same. Bullied relentlessly, sometimes violently, and I, too, caused trouble to get ISS instead or "the closet" instead (was basically a room that was only big enough for a desk and a little walking room, but then you could do your homework or just think in peace and quiet). I loved learning so much, but the people just sucked. And come… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 01:56 PM |
| 2 | How to build attraction?What kinds of things do you enjoy doing or what are your hobbies? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 01:13 AM |
| 3 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?I'm a woman and that's the kind of woman I aim to be, so thanks for that! Helps me know I'm on the right track. One of my woman role models is Donna from Suits. I dunno what it is about her, but she gets shit done and still maintains a great level of femininity and class. That's awesome that you two are still able to make it work after separating. That's hard to do. Great story though, thank you for sharing! You gave me things to think about. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 12:49 AM |
| 5 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?Damn good story! That is so awesome you were able to find someone that broke through that veil and helped you see a better view. That's the down side is that some was good info, but it just got all twisted and some merged with other things and it just became a big ol' mess. The Red Pill I got into wwaayy back in the day is VERY different than this current version. Crazy to watch the transformation. So what things specifically did your girl do to help you see through it? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 12:33 AM |
| 3 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?I'm Autistic too and it makes things so much harder. Mine caused me to lose someone important to me, so then I started to dislike myself and have negative self-talk similar to yours. What do you think makes you "too weird" to get someone? (You obviously don't have to answer, just trying to start dialog). | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 5 | What was your exact reason you got into Red Pill?Your English is great. Couldn't even tell! Sorry you hear about your experience. That toxicity is so hard to escape from but with a quality support system, you'll get there. Best wishes to you during your recovery. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | RealFemSapien is terrible personI think it's more because she's pumping out a lot of the same things that keep people stuck and mentally rigid. "The REAL reason X" stuff is just garbage because there are so many variables to things. When people get rigid like this, like a lot of Autistic people can, then it causes a sort of blindness to other things. It's just more gimmicks rather than teaching. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | RealFemSapien is terrible personCapybaras are chill AF. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 10:27 PM |
| 3 | So what do I do if I think she's throwing a tantrum/overreactingDid you ask her what she was upset by at that time? One of my parents was like this and still is to a lesser extent and though it did take a long time to figure it out, I learned that she would have meltdowns when things were just done and not discussed. With your example, I would guess a lack of validation, plus being ostracized right away after being included, plus other variables like a bad day. Tantrums are their own language and if you learn human behavior, sometimes you can decode them. (I… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | RealFemSapien is terrible personSeriously. She makes $300-$1,200 PER DAY from her channel ($11k/MONTH). Incomes like these only lead to these channels eventually pumping out garbage to keep the numbers flowing. Seems like just another paid grifter. "Meet the newest hated woman in the West!" Uhhh who? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 06:11 PM |
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