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MOOD FOR LIFENannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:58 PM
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SEX STRATEGYNannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 01:55 AM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTNannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:13 AM
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TRIGGER WARNINGNannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:12 AM
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STAY WOKENannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 11:32 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?NannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:53 AM
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REMINDER 👑NannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:05 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨NannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:40 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYNannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:52 PM
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COUCH CREATURESNannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:21 PM
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DISCUSSIONNannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 08:15 PM
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COUCH CREATURESNannuhBannan/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:37 PM
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I can’t even get past the first paragraph. During the date, the guy (who was handsome) was honest with me that he just wanted sex. We hadn’t spoken much prior to the date but I knew I wanted more, thanks to the newfound sense of worth that webcam work had given me. I’m sorry, what? That’s how you needed to find out that you deserve more than to be treated like a fleshlight for the night? I’m so sad for all the women beaten into submission by this world and so furious at all the men who prey on t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/22 09:49 PM
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This could be the key to making me a morning person Also. Ugh. That’s so sweet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 04:21 AM
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Love all this! So sweet. True HVMs are HV in all aspects of life! That’s why we are careful to see the way he treats his mother, a server, someone he doesn’t like much, etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 01:06 AM
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Incredible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:55 PM
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Husbands doing the housework and working full time?! Literally the dream. Sad that the thought of it is so novel and surprising, since that’s the reality for most women in relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:37 PM
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When we have different opinions and disagree on things, never gets annoyed or angry. Sometimes we have to agree on disagreeing but he always shows empathy and interest in listening to my opinion Great examples. And this one is sooo important! When I need to discuss something tense or potentially disagreeable with my bf, I never actually feel tense because he creates a truly safe space where he’s genuinely interested in hearing me and wants to work together to understand each other. We never actu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:36 PM
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Fantastic. I love all of this. The impact of a HVM on his family and inner circle can be immense.. and the ripple effect that has on the women those men know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 03:29 PM
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Love these examples ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 05:12 AM
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Amazing! Truly good men are thoughtful and will love doing things to make your life easier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 05:07 AM
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So great. The ones who make you feel good when you’re feeling realllll bad ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 05:06 AM
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That’s nice that he makes you feel cared for when you really need it. (It’s also adorable that you gave them both pseudonyms and then never used them lol.) He would also give me - what he called a Free Pass. I could be a blazing inferno and he would just feed me lol. Love it. My bf and I were searching without luck for a place to eat recently and I was getting really hungry - super genuinely he was like, “you can be as grumpy as you want.” It just made me happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/22 05:04 AM
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“Normal erectile responses for healthy nondeviant men” mfs just SHOWED that 83% of these men get a boner looking at naked children and they still call them normal and nondeivant. This is why we’ll never get society to see the deviance and pervertedness of porn and its portrayal of nubile teens. Even in research they consider men who get aroused looking at naked children to be nondeviant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 10:35 PM
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Simple and true. It doesn’t have to be about identifying negging based on a definition. FDS teaches us to trust our intuition. If it makes you feel weird/confused/defensive, that’s all you need to know that he’s likely negging you. Two recent negs from my bud dealer: “you look dirty” (I had just showered…) and “you’re aging well” (I’m 29.) The latter reads as a backhanded compliment, and the first was a “pLaYFuL” insult. They’re both negging. The definition doesn’t matter so much as the way it m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:44 PM
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I literally put in my profile “Not interested in anyone with fish or other dead/dying animals in their photos” and separately mention that I’m vegan, and still get likes from these braindead twats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 12:08 AM
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Sadly very accurate. The major one missing might be the fish-holder whose only other photos are in groups and/or drinking Keystone Light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:55 PM
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Frequent mood when dating, sadly. Also I love your phonetic spelling of tchotchkes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 03:31 AM
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His next pic was him making another weird face and wearing a shirt that said “I’m Marty. Fuck You.” His first prompt response was “Believe it or not, I DGAF about you being vaccinated.” So hot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:50 AM
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SSRIs are Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors, typically prescribed for depression and/or anxiety. He’s saying he’s attracted to vulnerable women with mental health struggles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:59 PM
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Being a woman interested in men on these apps is like sifting through pile upon pile of toxic, rancid sludge hoping to find what ultimately amounts to, like, the worth of an Oreo. The only positive is that it makes vetting faster and easier, in my opinion. Men put all their shit right there for us to assess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:50 PM
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This post is partially for humor and partially to serve as a heads up. I’ve noticed that nearly all of men’s profiles on dating apps fall into one (or more) of three categories: low effort, self-tattling, or offensive content. I’m bi, and it’s the exact opposite for women’s profiles. Nearly all of them are high-effort, with thoughtful prompt responses and attractive photos that showcase their personality and interests. Here are my basic guidelines. Low effort: Do NOT feed men’s egos by engaging …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:41 PM
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♥️ I’m so here for it! Keep us posted ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 04:41 PM
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my master plan to weed out the orgasm-obsessed losers is working 😈 But an important note: if you're at the stage where you need to ask your partner to "focus on you a little more" during sex, you've already established he's worth dumping. He should be focusing on you already--every time--otherwise he's just using your pussy to masturbate. The no-orgasm thing is just a next-level path to pleasure, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 03:00 PM
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YEEEES SIS! 👑👏🏻 Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 09:22 PM
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Couldn't agree more - well said. During our last fight, my toxic LVM-ex saw that I was trying to leave, locked me in his room, and used his significant size advantage to intimidate me and back me into a corner. He grabbed my shoes out of my hands and threw them out of reach. I didn't get out until I was screaming and crying so loudly that his Dad demanded he open the door. I ran so fast out of there that I fell down the stairs. Can you believe that even after that, I told my therapist that I wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:01 PM
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Very important information. Thank you. I deleted all social media aside from Reddit and I feel so much more.. private.. (which is weird, because this is just how we used to live??) I highly recommend getting off those platforms. It also makes it much easier to truly block people when you don’t have such an easy means of looking them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:49 PM
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We love to see it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 07:32 AM
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I hear you. I think there are some telltale differences, namely the vibe from him -- is he frustrated? Exasperated? Not focused on you or looking at you? Does he literally never cum? Then he's probably pornsick. If he is connected to you and the mutual pleasure is there, and he's withholding orgasm to prolong that, then his body language and what he says during sex will be an unmistakable indication of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:11 AM
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Scrotes sending me Reddit crisis reports, die mad with your hand around your little dick. I love the attention. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 05:02 AM
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If a man responded like that, I’d assume that he cared more about nutting than connecting, and I’d dip. What makes him think he’s entitled to cum every time? It’s like, relax dude, sex is not about you using my pussy to achieve orgasm. Connection and mutual pleasure is the ultimate goal, not a one-sided nut in the bathroom Edit: I’m also imagining the sheer chaos if every woman ran to the bathroom to rub one out after each one of our bouts of orgasm-less sex. The humanity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:14 AM
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Exactly! Both partners I’ve done this with have loooved it. It’s a total game changer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 04:01 AM
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It’s very threatening to the weenies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:26 AM
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Love that for you! That’s how it ought to be. And yes, the other upside is that when he does orgasm, it’s so intense and hot. 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 03:10 AM
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I’m still worried 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:49 PM
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Thankfully that photo is with his daughter, who’s 12. But he fathered her when he was 61 and his wife (edit: live-in girlfriend 🤡) was 28. Help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:33 PM
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I read the article - he’s 73 in that photo, and he’s standing with his daughter (who is now 12). Thank god. But he still married and had children at 61 with a woman 33 years his junior — a 28-year-old. That is literally the exact age difference between me and my father. 🤢 Men are so gross. Even if she were genuinely interested in him, he shouldn’t have entertained it. People make all sorts of fucked up choices in their 20s, especially those borne from trauma or naïveté. He’s the much more experi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:32 PM
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I'm writing it now ;) Edit: here it is! 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 07:06 PM
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Or if we start orgasming twice as much. Edit: also, regarding the blue balls/men orgasming half as much - we need to start normalizing sex wherein the man doesn’t orgasm for at least, like, 85-90% of the encounters. I might write a post about this. My last two relationships have been like this and it’s… amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 12:23 AM
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You’re totally right. I’m absolutely appalled by this behavior and so, so proud of these women. Dude has a wedding ring and a son (whose photos are right next to the pervy ones he took), and zero shame until he’s loudly outed in public. Disgusting. Note that he looks totally unassuming and normal. This is what we mean when we generalize and fight back against the “not all men” bullshit. Would anyone have pegged this guy to be a pervert? This is why women are forced to always be cautious and cons…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:13 PM
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Thanks for saying that. I know he might be trolling, but it really doesn’t matter. The comment still gave me a pit in my stomach and made me wonder whether he might be crazy enough to act on his threat — I blocked him, of course, but that doesn’t stop him from making an alt account to find me if he wants. It’s a sad reminder that we need to be very careful with posting identifying information (including pics/vids with identifiable metadata) on Reddit — I could stand to be more mindful of that an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:11 PM
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For those asking me why I’m protecting his identity: it’s only to comply with anti-brigading policies. But I’m not stopping you from doing your own independent sleuth work by looking at my comment history ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:05 PM
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How dare I call him a weirdo! That’s a protected class and he has every right to get so upset!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:30 AM
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On such a mild sub. The mod even commented saying they haven’t had to ban someone in a long time. As I read somewhere else: “sure, not all men, but many men. And those men are indistinguishable from other men.” He was just commenting normal-ish things, then.. this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:22 AM
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Exactly right. As I become more vocal with close friends and family about finding FDS and leveling up, I’ve been told that I will inevitably push potentially “good men” away who don’t meet my high standards and possibly end up alone. Yes, and? I’ve been in a number of relationships where I felt more lonely than I would‘ve had I actually been alone. I’m such a good girlfriend — including to myself, as I realize now. Why would I accept someone who isn’t as amazing of a partner as I am? The societa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:22 PM
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To the rescue! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:33 AM
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Important discussions happening here but if someone wants to let a sis know where to buy that sweatshirt...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:35 PM
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It’s the lurking baby boys downvoting who insist that they’re entitled to fuck us by date three.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:03 AM
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Atta girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:28 AM
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Please be careful. I don’t like the sounds of this guy - “you owe me”?? He’s already setting up a manipulative power dynamic. If he were simply expecting a rescheduled date, that wouldn’t qualify as owing him. He is thinking about other things. I love your response to his hangover comment. But I think it’s time to block and delete. Do you agree?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:25 AM
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It really is that simple. Acknowledging that will save us from the additional anxiety of dealing with analysis paralysis. Cut ties and enjoy your newfound unfettered mental freedom and peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:23 PM
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Poor girl. And I hate how it ends with her asking what she can do better. Men are so callous. They get pissed — even violent — when ghosted for treating us like shit, but they have no qualms about hurting someone who is clearly invested in and cares about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 05:00 PM
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My pleasure dear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:44 PM
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I didn’t - I don’t think there was an option to. But you’re absolutely welcome to message me whenever you want. Good for you for advocating for yourself and others. But I’m sure it’s a tough situation. Sending good vibes your way - again let me know if I can actually send something physically helpful :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 06:07 PM
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Of course. It would really be my pleasure to help a fellow sister. Please, please don’t be shy about contacting me in the future if your circumstances change. Wishing you the best ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:18 AM
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You’re absolutely right, I love that. Part of me was feeling a little down lately realizing that leveling up via FDS was making me feel more guarded and “cold” towards strangers — but you’re right, I can be my normal warm self towards strange women, just not strange men. No woman has ever harmed me or made me uncomfortable the way men have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:44 PM
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What a fucking nightmare. So glad you’re both safe. Btw, I saw on your profile that you’re at a women’s refuge right now. I can’t DM you but please feel free to message me if there’s something I can do to help you - money, supplies shipment, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:15 PM
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I’m so sorry for you both. This is the shit that kills me. Women are so conditioned to help others. I do it all the time — I’ve realized that I actually look around for people needing help when I’m out places. It’s so sick that people take advantage of that kindness with such dark motives. How did you and your friend manage to get away? Thank god you’re okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:21 PM
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Awesome, tysm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:02 PM
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Right? I’d like to think the article’s author (a woman) intentionally did that as a way to highlight the preposterousness of that dichotomy. But who knows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:30 PM
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I’m also interested in this. u/LilithWon, can you advise? If we make an alt account and can verify that it is indeed us (e.g., giving you the new username in a DM from our original account), can we be given our flair?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 05:26 PM
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Wow. I know it’s said a lot, but coming to this sub really does solidify how often our experiences are not just similar, but literally the same. My NVM also bawled like a manipulative baby when I broke up with him (during my second or third attempt), threw up, got on his knees begging me to stay, and then locked and blocked the door — and he had about 7, maybe 8 inches and 100+ pounds on me. He ripped my shoes out of my hands and threw them somewhere - never got them back. When I finally got out…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:36 AM
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Do you have a link for that? I’d like to carry something on me that can’t be turned against me the way a knife could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:14 AM
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And I’m sick of men having us believe that the fear is our own mental concoction. Wouldn’t that be nice! All I have to do is just.. stop feeling this way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 12:12 AM
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Yeah, unfortunately it sounds like you still manage and teach him more than you should have to. It’s so sad that we have to teach each other how to maximize that equity instead of it just being a given when we enter a partnership. I promise I’m not shaming you or your input — I know it’s just a function of the reality we have to deal with. But if I ever have to make a chore chart for a man I’m gonna jump off a bridge. I never had to make one when I lived with women, even when we were drunken slo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 11:53 PM
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That’s wonderful. Must feel so nice to be partially relieved of that mental + physical burden and know that you can rely on your partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:49 PM
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I can never understand how that is viewed as a peripheral or supplemental responsibility for men. My mom saw my neighbor playing with his kids and said, “It’s so wonderful how involved he is with them.” Well, yes, he is their father. Can you imagine a comment like that being made about a woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:40 PM
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What a joke! It goes to show that no matter how you approach it, that narrative of being naggy will always be used against us, even when we’re asking them to please consider doing just the absolute bare minimum — or enough to help us keep our head above water. If it falls outside the realm of letting them litter the floor with their dirty clothes or leave dishes in the sink, it’s naggy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:37 PM
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Exactly. Reminds me of that “invisible mental burden” comic. I’m sure it’s made its rounds here before, but I’ll go find it... link - “you should’ve asked”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:24 PM
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God, why didn’t you just communicate??? Clearly it’s on you. This reminds me of when my ex said I had “a weird thing with money” because I was starting to point out the disparities in our spending — so I made an excel sheet to show him how much money I spent on him and on maintaining our relationship. This was the same ex who, when the check was put in front of him at a restaurant, would say, “you got this one, sugar mama?” Would’ve been a cute joke if he did it once, not every time. Or if he di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:20 PM
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They consider programming the Roomba and remembering to take the trash to the curb as “most of the chores.” What’s really sick is that they might actually think that that’s true. Men aren’t just delusional, they’re clueless. They frequently have no sense of what it takes to adequately manage a family and household.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:14 PM
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Someone, please, take her phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:27 PM
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Kinda unclear, seems like she cleaned it, no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:25 PM
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Truly. Every sentence is another gut punch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:13 AM
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“Babe I almost just got pepper sprayed and when I saw my life flash before my eyes it made me realize how much I miss you”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:41 AM
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Very true. I’ve played a lot of stupid games before thinking I was in control, or ”but he’s different!”, or being convinced that it was the “normal” thing to do to please a man. I feel furious at the man in this post and only pity the woman, who thought she was in control but fell prey to cultural conditioning in the same way most of us have at some point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:13 AM
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Thank you so much, you as well. ♥️ We are all learning and growing and leveling up. I will be more protective of my mind, body, photos, and secrets because I value myself more than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:47 PM
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I’m so regretful for the times I was too naive or stupid to know this. Even if they never end up in a bad place (which I’ll likely never know), it feels like a part of me no longer belongs to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:16 PM
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Exactly. On my original post, someone else also expressed astonishment at this woman’s willingness to have a conversation about this. (Copy/pasting my response): The sad reality is that so many of these dating subs encourage women to just cOmMuNiCate about things they should never have to tolerate or be subjected to in the first place. We have nothing to gain and everything to lose by lowering our standards, especially standards of respect and decency. “What you put up with, you end up with.” I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:28 PM
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(Reposting per mod guidance with subreddit name cropped out.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:53 PM
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Oops, sorry about that! Will do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:50 PM
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Right? The relationships sub makes me so sad. So many women who are encouraged to just cOmMuNiCate about things they should never have to tolerate or be subjected to in the first place. We have nothing to gain and everything to lose by lowering our standards, especially standards of respect and decency. “What you put up with, you end up with.” I feel so distraught for this woman, and for my past self who so often considered talking through things that should have been obvious dealbreakers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:33 PM
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Meep. I think Lily Allen is pretty talented; also not sure it helps/adds much to compare two great women by framing one as better than the other. Just a thought. Also Lily Allen has this FDS jam which is such an anthem. 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:55 PM
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I’m so sorry. We are all here for you, we’ll always have your back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:08 PM
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Isn’t it nice having a place where women’s voices are amplified and men are the ones being talked over? Bet it feels bad being interrupted and silenced, huh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:15 PM
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The sub automatically and immediately pulls comments for mod review if the person doesn’t have a flair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:11 PM
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This article doesn’t have a paywall. “All's we wanted was an investigation that's it. And they couldn't investigate the biggest presidential race in history with mail in ballots who everyone knows is easy to fraud." Not sure this poor bloke graduated second grade. A man who picked up a publicly listed phone number for Michetti initially identified himself as the suspect, asked for money to pay legal fees and said, "I think what's being done is horrible." I mean, it couldn’t be better if it were …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:49 AM
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Oh, that is too good. Vive la resistance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 03:39 AM
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Don’t tell me these idiots were bragging about being at the riots on their OLD profiles?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:25 AM
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My NVM gamer ex had the audacity to tell me that when we were first dating (and I was about 10 pounds heavier, though not even overweight) he felt like people would give us confused looks in public because he was much more attractive than me. No you idiot, I’m hot, they were confused why I settled on some scrote who only wore tank tops and basketball shorts! I grieve for my past self that so easily fell prey to these types of manipulation tactics. I will never feel bad for having standards about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:00 AM
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