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| 445 | Refinery29 Wants Y'all To Be Cam Girls But Pretends It Supports High Dating Standards (Patreon)I can’t even get past the first paragraph. During the date, the guy (who was handsome) was honest with me that he just wanted sex. We hadn’t spoken much prior to the date but I knew I wanted more, thanks to the newfound sense of worth that webcam work had given me. I’m sorry, what? That’s how you needed to find out that you deserve more than to be treated like a fleshlight for the night? I’m so sad for all the women beaten into submission by this world and so furious at all the men who prey on t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/22 09:49 PM |
| 11 | High-value actions that stood out to youThis could be the key to making me a morning person Also. Ugh. That’s so sweet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 04:21 AM |
| 17 | High-value actions that stood out to youLove all this! So sweet. True HVMs are HV in all aspects of life! That’s why we are careful to see the way he treats his mother, a server, someone he doesn’t like much, etc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/22 01:06 AM |
| 18 | High-value actions that stood out to youIncredible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 03:55 PM |
| 42 | High-value actions that stood out to youHusbands doing the housework and working full time?! Literally the dream. Sad that the thought of it is so novel and surprising, since that’s the reality for most women in relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 03:37 PM |
| 40 | High-value actions that stood out to youWhen we have different opinions and disagree on things, never gets annoyed or angry. Sometimes we have to agree on disagreeing but he always shows empathy and interest in listening to my opinion Great examples. And this one is sooo important! When I need to discuss something tense or potentially disagreeable with my bf, I never actually feel tense because he creates a truly safe space where he’s genuinely interested in hearing me and wants to work together to understand each other. We never actu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 03:36 PM |
| 47 | High-value actions that stood out to youFantastic. I love all of this. The impact of a HVM on his family and inner circle can be immense.. and the ripple effect that has on the women those men know… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 03:29 PM |
| 45 | High-value actions that stood out to youLove these examples ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 05:12 AM |
| 123 | High-value actions that stood out to youAmazing! Truly good men are thoughtful and will love doing things to make your life easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 05:07 AM |
| 112 | High-value actions that stood out to youSo great. The ones who make you feel good when you’re feeling realllll bad ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 05:06 AM |
| 129 | High-value actions that stood out to youThat’s nice that he makes you feel cared for when you really need it. (It’s also adorable that you gave them both pseudonyms and then never used them lol.) He would also give me - what he called a Free Pass. I could be a blazing inferno and he would just feed me lol. Love it. My bf and I were searching without luck for a place to eat recently and I was getting really hungry - super genuinely he was like, “you can be as grumpy as you want.” It just made me happy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 05:04 AM |
| 116 | No comment.“Normal erectile responses for healthy nondeviant men” mfs just SHOWED that 83% of these men get a boner looking at naked children and they still call them normal and nondeivant. This is why we’ll never get society to see the deviance and pervertedness of porn and its portrayal of nubile teens. Even in research they consider men who get aroused looking at naked children to be nondeviant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 10:35 PM |
| 25 | How can you tell if a guy is negging you or not?Simple and true. It doesn’t have to be about identifying negging based on a definition. FDS teaches us to trust our intuition. If it makes you feel weird/confused/defensive, that’s all you need to know that he’s likely negging you. Two recent negs from my bud dealer: “you look dirty” (I had just showered…) and “you’re aging well” (I’m 29.) The latter reads as a backhanded compliment, and the first was a “pLaYFuL” insult. They’re both negging. The definition doesn’t matter so much as the way it m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 07:44 PM |
| 42 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂I literally put in my profile “Not interested in anyone with fish or other dead/dying animals in their photos” and separately mention that I’m vegan, and still get likes from these braindead twats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 168 | Here’s to deleting our OLD profiles 🥂Sadly very accurate. The major one missing might be the fish-holder whose only other photos are in groups and/or drinking Keystone Light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/22 09:55 PM |
| 6 | I have an album saved of the best (re: worst) OLD profiles I’ve come across. I present to you: Men Who Love Telling on ThemselvesFrequent mood when dating, sadly. Also I love your phonetic spelling of tchotchkes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:31 AM |
| 32 | I have an album saved of the best (re: worst) OLD profiles I’ve come across. I present to you: Men Who Love Telling on ThemselvesHis next pic was him making another weird face and wearing a shirt that said “I’m Marty. Fuck You.” His first prompt response was “Believe it or not, I DGAF about you being vaccinated.” So hot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:50 AM |
| 88 | I have an album saved of the best (re: worst) OLD profiles I’ve come across. I present to you: Men Who Love Telling on ThemselvesSSRIs are Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors, typically prescribed for depression and/or anxiety. He’s saying he’s attracted to vulnerable women with mental health struggles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:59 PM |
| 88 | I have an album saved of the best (re: worst) OLD profiles I’ve come across. I present to you: Men Who Love Telling on ThemselvesBeing a woman interested in men on these apps is like sifting through pile upon pile of toxic, rancid sludge hoping to find what ultimately amounts to, like, the worth of an Oreo. The only positive is that it makes vetting faster and easier, in my opinion. Men put all their shit right there for us to assess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:50 PM |
| 151 | I have an album saved of the best (re: worst) OLD profiles I’ve come across. I present to you: Men Who Love Telling on ThemselvesThis post is partially for humor and partially to serve as a heads up. I’ve noticed that nearly all of men’s profiles on dating apps fall into one (or more) of three categories: low effort, self-tattling, or offensive content. I’m bi, and it’s the exact opposite for women’s profiles. Nearly all of them are high-effort, with thoughtful prompt responses and attractive photos that showcase their personality and interests. Here are my basic guidelines. Low effort: Do NOT feed men’s egos by engaging … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 11:41 PM |
| 45 | Which one of you is this about♥️ I’m so here for it! Keep us posted ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:41 PM |
| 374 | Which one of you is this aboutmy master plan to weed out the orgasm-obsessed losers is working 😈 But an important note: if you're at the stage where you need to ask your partner to "focus on you a little more" during sex, you've already established he's worth dumping. He should be focusing on you already--every time--otherwise he's just using your pussy to masturbate. The no-orgasm thing is just a next-level path to pleasure, imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:00 PM |
| 25 | Help me find this FDS post/comment?YEEEES SIS! 👑👏🏻 Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:22 PM |
| 12 | "Do not underestimate the obsession of a bruised ego."Couldn't agree more - well said. During our last fight, my toxic LVM-ex saw that I was trying to leave, locked me in his room, and used his significant size advantage to intimidate me and back me into a corner. He grabbed my shoes out of my hands and threw them out of reach. I didn't get out until I was screaming and crying so loudly that his Dad demanded he open the door. I ran so fast out of there that I fell down the stairs. Can you believe that even after that, I told my therapist that I wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 08:01 PM |
| 64 | Safety tips for Internet.Very important information. Thank you. I deleted all social media aside from Reddit and I feel so much more.. private.. (which is weird, because this is just how we used to live??) I highly recommend getting off those platforms. It also makes it much easier to truly block people when you don’t have such an easy means of looking them up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:49 PM |
| 34 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmWe love to see it!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 07:32 AM |
| 26 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmI hear you. I think there are some telltale differences, namely the vibe from him -- is he frustrated? Exasperated? Not focused on you or looking at you? Does he literally never cum? Then he's probably pornsick. If he is connected to you and the mutual pleasure is there, and he's withholding orgasm to prolong that, then his body language and what he says during sex will be an unmistakable indication of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 05:11 AM |
| 441 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmScrotes sending me Reddit crisis reports, die mad with your hand around your little dick. I love the attention. 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 05:02 AM |
| 234 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmIf a man responded like that, I’d assume that he cared more about nutting than connecting, and I’d dip. What makes him think he’s entitled to cum every time? It’s like, relax dude, sex is not about you using my pussy to achieve orgasm. Connection and mutual pleasure is the ultimate goal, not a one-sided nut in the bathroom Edit: I’m also imagining the sheer chaos if every woman ran to the bathroom to rub one out after each one of our bouts of orgasm-less sex. The humanity! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 04:14 AM |
| 121 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmExactly! Both partners I’ve done this with have loooved it. It’s a total game changer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 04:01 AM |
| 353 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmIt’s very threatening to the weenies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 03:26 AM |
| 118 | Start having sex where the man doesn’t orgasmLove that for you! That’s how it ought to be. And yes, the other upside is that when he does orgasm, it’s so intense and hot. 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 03:10 AM |
| 66 | Why do they keep normalizing this gross behaviour????I’m still worried 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 08:49 PM |
| 227 | Why do they keep normalizing this gross behaviour????Thankfully that photo is with his daughter, who’s 12. But he fathered her when he was 61 and his wife (edit: live-in girlfriend 🤡) was 28. Help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 08:33 PM |
| 106 | Why do they keep normalizing this gross behaviour????I read the article - he’s 73 in that photo, and he’s standing with his daughter (who is now 12). Thank god. But he still married and had children at 61 with a woman 33 years his junior — a 28-year-old. That is literally the exact age difference between me and my father. 🤢 Men are so gross. Even if she were genuinely interested in him, he shouldn’t have entertained it. People make all sorts of fucked up choices in their 20s, especially those borne from trauma or naïveté. He’s the much more experi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Why Splitting the Check Isn't as Feminist As PickMes Think It IsI'm writing it now ;) Edit: here it is! 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 07:06 PM |
| 149 | Why Splitting the Check Isn't as Feminist As PickMes Think It IsOr if we start orgasming twice as much. Edit: also, regarding the blue balls/men orgasming half as much - we need to start normalizing sex wherein the man doesn’t orgasm for at least, like, 85-90% of the encounters. I might write a post about this. My last two relationships have been like this and it’s… amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 12:23 AM |
| 70 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay.You’re totally right. I’m absolutely appalled by this behavior and so, so proud of these women. Dude has a wedding ring and a son (whose photos are right next to the pervy ones he took), and zero shame until he’s loudly outed in public. Disgusting. Note that he looks totally unassuming and normal. This is what we mean when we generalize and fight back against the “not all men” bullshit. Would anyone have pegged this guy to be a pervert? This is why women are forced to always be cautious and cons… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:13 PM |
| 10 | Reason #8265 why our female-only space must be protected at all costs. Women simply don’t say shit like this. Lurking men might say he’s just a troll, but the reality is that we can’t afford to not take violent threats seriously. And of course Reddit only gave him a temp ban.Thanks for saying that. I know he might be trolling, but it really doesn’t matter. The comment still gave me a pit in my stomach and made me wonder whether he might be crazy enough to act on his threat — I blocked him, of course, but that doesn’t stop him from making an alt account to find me if he wants. It’s a sad reminder that we need to be very careful with posting identifying information (including pics/vids with identifiable metadata) on Reddit — I could stand to be more mindful of that an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:11 PM |
| 10 | Reason #8265 why our female-only space must be protected at all costs. Women simply don’t say shit like this. Lurking men might say he’s just a troll, but the reality is that we can’t afford to not take violent threats seriously. And of course Reddit only gave him a temp ban.For those asking me why I’m protecting his identity: it’s only to comply with anti-brigading policies. But I’m not stopping you from doing your own independent sleuth work by looking at my comment history ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:05 PM |
| 278 | Reason #8265 why our female-only space must be protected at all costs. Women simply don’t say shit like this. Lurking men might say he’s just a troll, but the reality is that we can’t afford to not take violent threats seriously. And of course Reddit only gave him a temp ban.How dare I call him a weirdo! That’s a protected class and he has every right to get so upset! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:30 AM |
| 229 | Reason #8265 why our female-only space must be protected at all costs. Women simply don’t say shit like this. Lurking men might say he’s just a troll, but the reality is that we can’t afford to not take violent threats seriously. And of course Reddit only gave him a temp ban.On such a mild sub. The mod even commented saying they haven’t had to ban someone in a long time. As I read somewhere else: “sure, not all men, but many men. And those men are indistinguishable from other men.” He was just commenting normal-ish things, then.. this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:22 AM |
| 38 | Why I don’t feel bad about having uncompromising standardsExactly right. As I become more vocal with close friends and family about finding FDS and leveling up, I’ve been told that I will inevitably push potentially “good men” away who don’t meet my high standards and possibly end up alone. Yes, and? I’ve been in a number of relationships where I felt more lonely than I would‘ve had I actually been alone. I’m such a good girlfriend — including to myself, as I realize now. Why would I accept someone who isn’t as amazing of a partner as I am? The societa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 6 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadTo the rescue! 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:33 AM |
| 14 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadImportant discussions happening here but if someone wants to let a sis know where to buy that sweatshirt... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:35 PM |
| 65 | How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heartIt’s the lurking baby boys downvoting who insist that they’re entitled to fuck us by date three. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:03 AM |
| 11 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysAtta girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 01:28 AM |
| 18 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysPlease be careful. I don’t like the sounds of this guy - “you owe me”?? He’s already setting up a manipulative power dynamic. If he were simply expecting a rescheduled date, that wouldn’t qualify as owing him. He is thinking about other things. I love your response to his hangover comment. But I think it’s time to block and delete. Do you agree? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 35 | If you are asking yourself whether you should block himIt really is that simple. Acknowledging that will save us from the additional anxiety of dealing with analysis paralysis. Cut ties and enjoy your newfound unfettered mental freedom and peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:23 PM |
| 300 | This is why we don’t call men HV or get our hopes up ladies.Poor girl. And I hate how it ends with her asking what she can do better. Men are so callous. They get pissed — even violent — when ghosted for treating us like shit, but they have no qualms about hurting someone who is clearly invested in and cares about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPMy pleasure dear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 5 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPI didn’t - I don’t think there was an option to. But you’re absolutely welcome to message me whenever you want. Good for you for advocating for yourself and others. But I’m sure it’s a tough situation. Sending good vibes your way - again let me know if I can actually send something physically helpful :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:07 PM |
| 15 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPOf course. It would really be my pleasure to help a fellow sister. Please, please don’t be shy about contacting me in the future if your circumstances change. Wishing you the best ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 12:18 AM |
| 25 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPYou’re absolutely right, I love that. Part of me was feeling a little down lately realizing that leveling up via FDS was making me feel more guarded and “cold” towards strangers — but you’re right, I can be my normal warm self towards strange women, just not strange men. No woman has ever harmed me or made me uncomfortable the way men have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 77 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPWhat a fucking nightmare. So glad you’re both safe. Btw, I saw on your profile that you’re at a women’s refuge right now. I can’t DM you but please feel free to message me if there’s something I can do to help you - money, supplies shipment, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 04:15 PM |
| 117 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPI’m so sorry for you both. This is the shit that kills me. Women are so conditioned to help others. I do it all the time — I’ve realized that I actually look around for people needing help when I’m out places. It’s so sick that people take advantage of that kindness with such dark motives. How did you and your friend manage to get away? Thank god you’re okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡Awesome, tysm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 2 | P&G survey shows that 31% of men say they do most of the chores — but just 2% of women agreed that their spouse took on most of the workRight? I’d like to think the article’s author (a woman) intentionally did that as a way to highlight the preposterousness of that dichotomy. But who knows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡I’m also interested in this. u/LilithWon, can you advise? If we make an alt account and can verify that it is indeed us (e.g., giving you the new username in a DM from our original account), can we be given our flair? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡Wow. I know it’s said a lot, but coming to this sub really does solidify how often our experiences are not just similar, but literally the same. My NVM also bawled like a manipulative baby when I broke up with him (during my second or third attempt), threw up, got on his knees begging me to stay, and then locked and blocked the door — and he had about 7, maybe 8 inches and 100+ pounds on me. He ripped my shoes out of my hands and threw them somewhere - never got them back. When I finally got out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:36 AM |
| 39 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.Do you have a link for that? I’d like to carry something on me that can’t be turned against me the way a knife could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:14 AM |
| 64 | In the UK, carrying Pepper spray has a max 10 year prison sentence. So if you get caught using it on an attacker, you lose 10 years of your life as opposed to all of them.And I’m sick of men having us believe that the fear is our own mental concoction. Wouldn’t that be nice! All I have to do is just.. stop feeling this way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:12 AM |
| 7 | P&G survey shows that 31% of men say they do most of the chores — but just 2% of women agreed that their spouse took on most of the workYeah, unfortunately it sounds like you still manage and teach him more than you should have to. It’s so sad that we have to teach each other how to maximize that equity instead of it just being a given when we enter a partnership. I promise I’m not shaming you or your input — I know it’s just a function of the reality we have to deal with. But if I ever have to make a chore chart for a man I’m gonna jump off a bridge. I never had to make one when I lived with women, even when we were drunken slo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | P&G survey shows that 31% of men say they do most of the chores — but just 2% of women agreed that their spouse took on most of the workThat’s wonderful. Must feel so nice to be partially relieved of that mental + physical burden and know that you can rely on your partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:49 PM |
| 8 | P&G survey shows that 31% of men say they do most of the chores — but just 2% of women agreed that their spouse took on most of the workI can never understand how that is viewed as a peripheral or supplemental responsibility for men. My mom saw my neighbor playing with his kids and said, “It’s so wonderful how involved he is with them.” Well, yes, he is their father. Can you imagine a comment like that being made about a woman? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | P&G survey shows that 31% of men say they do most of the chores — but just 2% of women agreed that their spouse took on most of the workWhat a joke! It goes to show that no matter how you approach it, that narrative of being naggy will always be used against us, even when we’re asking them to please consider doing just the absolute bare minimum — or enough to help us keep our head above water. If it falls outside the realm of letting them litter the floor with their dirty clothes or leave dishes in the sink, it’s naggy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 6 | P&G survey shows that 31% of men say they do most of the chores — but just 2% of women agreed that their spouse took on most of the workExactly. Reminds me of that “invisible mental burden” comic. I’m sure it’s made its rounds here before, but I’ll go find it... link - “you should’ve asked” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 8 | P&G survey shows that 31% of men say they do most of the chores — but just 2% of women agreed that their spouse took on most of the workGod, why didn’t you just communicate??? Clearly it’s on you. This reminds me of when my ex said I had “a weird thing with money” because I was starting to point out the disparities in our spending — so I made an excel sheet to show him how much money I spent on him and on maintaining our relationship. This was the same ex who, when the check was put in front of him at a restaurant, would say, “you got this one, sugar mama?” Would’ve been a cute joke if he did it once, not every time. Or if he di… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 25 | P&G survey shows that 31% of men say they do most of the chores — but just 2% of women agreed that their spouse took on most of the workThey consider programming the Roomba and remembering to take the trash to the curb as “most of the chores.” What’s really sick is that they might actually think that that’s true. Men aren’t just delusional, they’re clueless. They frequently have no sense of what it takes to adequately manage a family and household. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:14 PM |
| 51 | Male Pandering At Its Finest.. Embarrassing.Someone, please, take her phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 76 | The right way to do the tell me you have a husband trendKinda unclear, seems like she cleaned it, no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.Truly. Every sentence is another gut punch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:13 AM |
| 4 | TELL ON HIM 2021 | A Capitol rioter texted his ex during the insurrection to call her a ‘moron,’ feds say. She turned him in.“Babe I almost just got pepper sprayed and when I saw my life flash before my eyes it made me realize how much I miss you” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:41 AM |
| 10 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.Very true. I’ve played a lot of stupid games before thinking I was in control, or ”but he’s different!”, or being convinced that it was the “normal” thing to do to please a man. I feel furious at the man in this post and only pity the woman, who thought she was in control but fell prey to cultural conditioning in the same way most of us have at some point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:13 AM |
| 24 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.Thank you so much, you as well. ♥️ We are all learning and growing and leveling up. I will be more protective of my mind, body, photos, and secrets because I value myself more than ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:47 PM |
| 56 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.I’m so regretful for the times I was too naive or stupid to know this. Even if they never end up in a bad place (which I’ll likely never know), it feels like a part of me no longer belongs to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:16 PM |
| 97 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.Exactly. On my original post, someone else also expressed astonishment at this woman’s willingness to have a conversation about this. (Copy/pasting my response): The sad reality is that so many of these dating subs encourage women to just cOmMuNiCate about things they should never have to tolerate or be subjected to in the first place. We have nothing to gain and everything to lose by lowering our standards, especially standards of respect and decency. “What you put up with, you end up with.” I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:28 PM |
| 22 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.(Reposting per mod guidance with subreddit name cropped out.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.Oops, sorry about that! Will do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:50 PM |
| 7 | Male depravity knows no bounds. Never film yourself having sex, don’t trust BS attempts at covering the truth when your gut is screaming at you, and if you learn that your partner has a PHub ACCOUNT, by all that is holy, RUN.Right? The relationships sub makes me so sad. So many women who are encouraged to just cOmMuNiCate about things they should never have to tolerate or be subjected to in the first place. We have nothing to gain and everything to lose by lowering our standards, especially standards of respect and decency. “What you put up with, you end up with.” I feel so distraught for this woman, and for my past self who so often considered talking through things that should have been obvious dealbreakers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 10 | Another anthem from this queen, since you all enjoyed the last one so much! 👑Meep. I think Lily Allen is pretty talented; also not sure it helps/adds much to compare two great women by framing one as better than the other. Just a thought. Also Lily Allen has this FDS jam which is such an anthem. 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:55 PM |
| 3 | I feel so sad and angry for her! The comments are all calling him a “king”.I’m so sorry. We are all here for you, we’ll always have your back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:08 PM |
| 9 | I can receive a notification, see a part of the comment, and not even a MINUTE later:Isn’t it nice having a place where women’s voices are amplified and men are the ones being talked over? Bet it feels bad being interrupted and silenced, huh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:15 PM |
| 51 | I can receive a notification, see a part of the comment, and not even a MINUTE later:The sub automatically and immediately pulls comments for mod review if the person doesn’t have a flair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:11 PM |
| 37 | TELL ON HIM 2021 | A Capitol rioter texted his ex during the insurrection to call her a ‘moron,’ feds say. She turned him in.This article doesn’t have a paywall. “All's we wanted was an investigation that's it. And they couldn't investigate the biggest presidential race in history with mail in ballots who everyone knows is easy to fraud." Not sure this poor bloke graduated second grade. A man who picked up a publicly listed phone number for Michetti initially identified himself as the suspect, asked for money to pay legal fees and said, "I think what's being done is horrible." I mean, it couldn’t be better if it were … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:49 AM |
| 81 | TELL ON HIM 2021 | A Capitol rioter texted his ex during the insurrection to call her a ‘moron,’ feds say. She turned him in.Oh, that is too good. Vive la resistance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:39 AM |
| 76 | TELL ON HIM 2021 | A Capitol rioter texted his ex during the insurrection to call her a ‘moron,’ feds say. She turned him in.Don’t tell me these idiots were bragging about being at the riots on their OLD profiles? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:25 AM |
| 12 | Accurate representation of ladies dating gamersMy NVM gamer ex had the audacity to tell me that when we were first dating (and I was about 10 pounds heavier, though not even overweight) he felt like people would give us confused looks in public because he was much more attractive than me. No you idiot, I’m hot, they were confused why I settled on some scrote who only wore tank tops and basketball shorts! I grieve for my past self that so easily fell prey to these types of manipulation tactics. I will never feel bad for having standards about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:00 AM |
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