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| – | What if we stopped caring so much?Should I even bother reading all this stuff Yes, see my other reply - read it once or twice, understand the basics then go into the world and have fun - don't continue reading it or watching videos. | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 06:03 PM |
| – | What if we stopped caring so much?good job you found some little exception | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | What if we stopped caring so much?Watching videos on the regular is putting in too much effort, that's why it's exhausting. Just read the basics a single time and then have fun. For some the basics are intuitive but some people need to be told how dumb it is to only compliment / over compliment, text too often, the benefits of teasing and joking around, having healthier and sexier posture, worrying about specific sentences, etc. I've seen those videos and they are just people trying to make a living off pick up stuff, when much … | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to Get Laid on The First Date (Complete 5 Step Guide)Parties, friends of friends, class, but it's tough since they tend to have small circles of friends and not go to parties much | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 06:40 PM |
| 0 | How to Get Laid on The First Date (Complete 5 Step Guide)4 makes complete sense but for 1-2, man you gotta get with more prude girls cause that is often not the case. and for 3), they don't tend to be more fun (probably less) but they often more wise and emotionally mature and other nice things | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 12:06 AM |
| 0 | How to Get Laid on The First Date (Complete 5 Step Guide)wait, why are you so anti prude chicks? a lot of those are the marriage material ones | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 11:31 PM |
| -1 | Girl doesnt initiate conversations in texts/sc (more info below)move | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 11:25 PM |
| 14 | Taking a step back from this community: TherapyI don't come here much but i thought the basics WAS to work on yourself and then attraction naturally follows | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 08:29 PM |
| 4 | "It won't make you happy."It's like money, it won't make you happy, but having 0 of it will make you sad eventually. But yes, IMO PUA obsessed with putting their dicks in random vaginas for a few minutes are no different than wealthy people still choosing more money over friends and family. At the end of the day I think pretty much all that type of behavior just comes from not having awesome friends that you spend very frequent time with. | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Create the Perfect Tinder Bio to get laid (w/ text screenshots from girls)Great point about the tour guide thing, seems so obvious in hind sight haha. Thanks a lot for everything man | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Create the Perfect Tinder Bio to get laid (w/ text screenshots from girls)It has made a difference and it will keep making a difference, in terms of physical attraction. This isn’t you but if an obese person goes from 350 to 300, they are still not “attractive” at 300 but they are more healthy and still more attractive at 300. | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Create the Perfect Tinder Bio to get laid (w/ text screenshots from girls)Dont be an idiot. Fit guys are more attractive end of story. You wanna make excuses that’s on you | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Create the Perfect Tinder Bio to get laid (w/ text screenshots from girls)So where’s that article on multiple orgasms lol Also do you recommend doing any sexual lines if using hinged? It seems like everyone is trying to be classy on there (and I never see any women with sexual lines) so I can’t decide whether to use a line about not all scientists are bad in bed...or to stick with my current thing about being new so I need help seeing places. My other two prompts are about “simple pleasures” (evening hot tubbing) and “most spontaneous thing you’ve done” (move abroad f… | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 12:25 PM |
| 10 | Becoming impatient with women and no longer putting up with their shit has improved my game a lotDoesn’t respond for a few hours, move on? Needy much? Her phone died for a few hours? I’m done She flew on a plane? I’m done She took surf lessons? I’m done She was busy at work? I’m done She was in a different room for a few hours?? I’m done She has a life aside from texting me? I’m done | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 02:59 PM |
| 2 | I deleted my online dating profilesI don’t ride the bus and am not in college but see what you’re getting at, should probably learn how to pick out fruit myself | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 07:27 PM |
| 8 | I deleted my online dating profilessigh, it’s true. But god I hate the idea of approaching a girl on the sidewalk who’s probably on her way to meet with friends and saying “excuse me, I hope this isn’t too forward but I saw you and thought you were cute and had to say hi so, hi...my names butthole, I’m new here, and we’ll anyway, do you wanna go out and get sushi with me tonight?” well maybe that wouldn’t be terrible | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | A girl goes on the most amazing date of her life and then...This is why if you make seduction tactics your life or hobby, you're a pretty pathetic (and probably sad/hateful) loser. But if you read absolutely nothing about it, you set yourself up to be that guy. | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 09:27 PM |
| 2 | I'm ready to be the girl who has game.get lots of guys effortlessly If she has game she can go for quality in addition to quantity. | /r/seduction | 30/04/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Are career questions about yourself generally a good sign?her caring about that has always been a bit of a negative I mean their instinct is to make sure their partner is someone who can provide reliable housing (i.e. buy a house, which a lot of guys can't afford), food and clothing and education for potential children, plus hobbies and vacations. Kind of normal to care about that. Of course there's also gold digging whores | /r/seduction | 19/04/19 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Why aren’t we having sex?probably the hissing. try to stop doing that if possible, unless she responds with slither me timbers | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Is being too friendly to girls a bad thing?Is it really that hard to read someone? If they aren't responding positively then tone it down, maybe they think you're trying to hard or being fake. | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Why do guys like older women?They’re awesome in bed and 0 games/bs. They are mature when you end things too. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Need helpbut if she already told you what to do then what do you need help with | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 08:52 PM |
| – | Need helpIt’s a bit sad that it had to be her idea, that should not be the case. If you’re young and a virgin then I forgive you, just do it and have fun. So yes, find an airbnb that allows free or cheap cancellations (because women are finnicky especially since they have periods and she obviously couldn’t go then), and say “so some beautiful mountains and a lil airbnb on Saturday, you in? I’m thinking this one (send her the link)” I’m already old so translate that to your own slang/language. Btw do not … | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Need helpInvite her to a trip to the mountains renting an Airbnb. Btw are you being serious? | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Seduction is making me depressed.just went from grad school party life to living somewhere that I have 0 contacts and focusing completely on career. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is making me depressed.my situation is weird since I just left years of an extremely constant social lifestyle to live for 1 year in an isolated area where I have no friends...but anyway I no longer play video games, I try to do 15 min HIIT at work then do weights after work then try to cook or learn something about cars, soon I'll start snowboarding (probably alone) and I try to watch interesting films too that broaden the mind while being cool. Ballad of buster scruggs is the most recent and was amazing, some great … | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 08:54 PM |
| 10 | Seduction is making me depressed.Try fully avoiding the artificially high stimulation activities (video games, YouTube video after YouTube video, reddit) and just keep trying real life stuff. you’ll find something eventually...if you keep trying | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 07:29 PM |
| 5 | 5 Ways to Create Sexual Tension Immediately (Use These To Turn A Girl ON!)How is approaching a hot girl "random" god damnit. stop saying that! | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 08:10 AM |
| 10 | Remember "Put a women on a pedestal and she'll kick you in the face"agree but it isn’t really the deciding factor, as we see in his case. The deciding factor was that he wasn’t upset about it | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 11:14 AM |
| 12 | My first date EVER, next week, with a girl I met last weekendBuddy I dunno how it is in the midwest but on the west coast: "Hey! I was actually about to message you. My schedul is super busy this week and I am working all weekend. What about next week?" can be literally translated as "I'm not interested just wanted to have some fun when I was drunk please don't message me anymore" which is fine. maybe she has a bf, maybe she only wants one night things currently, maybe she has an std, who knows. | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 10:53 AM |
| 2 | My guide on how to kiss girls at clubs.Does knowing to dance really helps? God yes. It really takes the right mind set though, if you're serious about it you'll look stupid. It has to be a way that is fun for yourself. It's sort of a negatively self fulfilling thing though, because if you worry too much about "looking serious" then you'll look serious. So really it just takes some practice not giving a fuck (having friends who like that is the best help ever) | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 01:30 AM |
| 13 | My guide on how to kiss girls at clubs.Phone number and the morning after : You should try to get her phone number before the kiss. I don't bother taking theirs anymore. "Do what I literally do not do" ? Also, why the hell would you exchange numbers before you've even kissed her? There's no physical relationship yet, exchanging numbers is way too boring and throws the vibe off. I either do it at the end of the night or in the morning if we're in bed together. | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 01:28 AM |
| 6 | As a woman, how do I help my male best friend get a girlfriend or an FWB?I don't think she's too surprised that male redditors aren't socially adjusted enough to think it's possible to have female friends. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 06:35 PM |
| 15 | How to Make Your Online Dating Profile More Attractive12 minutes is enough time to read several wall of texts - OP should have given a tl;dr. anyone else want to? | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Snapchat, insta stories, I think they're more of an hindrance than a toolBut if you’re like me who moved to a new city/wanted a bigger social circle/wanted better relationships/hates texting That makes sense. The only time I moved to new cities were either for college or internationally, and socializing/meeting new people in those cases is constant by default. May have to try the stuff out again when I get in a situation like yours though. Thanks | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Snapchat, insta stories, I think they're more of an hindrance than a toolI don't follow...I've never been in a position to ask for a girls snapchat until after we've already escalated things physically (in which case it's pointless, you're already in) or we are friends. Is the idea that your friends will invite you out to more stuff (where you can get laid) if you have cool social media presence? | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - K-close after some smooth ass talking despite being out of the game for some time.keep in mind girls try to 'neg' too, wouldnt be surprised if they use race for that sometimes. also a whole lot of girls are just real bitchy when they go out as a shield against nonstop, unwanted attention. unless they say some obvious shit i wouldn't assume it's race based | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Snapchat, insta stories, I think they're more of an hindrance than a toolI also think it's an awesome way to stay in touch with friends - via messaging. | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Snapchat, insta stories, I think they're more of an hindrance than a toolA student town in Belgium. So basically, a place where you'd expect a whole lot of social media | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 09:54 PM |
| 12 | Snapchat, insta stories, I think they're more of an hindrance than a toolIn 2014 I stopped posting anything to fb and deleted my instagram and Snapchat. I never looked back. The reason - I moved to Europe and it was like nobody there was into social media, everyone just enjoyed the moment. It was really fucking nice to not have 20% of people in a room/bar be looking down at their phone at any given time. And I'm talking 19-25 year olds. Once I came back to the US it was like night and day, I fucking hate it. I notice when people look around and see people on their ph… | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 08:25 PM |
| 4 | [FR] - K-close after some smooth ass talking despite being out of the game for some time."people were not down to dance or get acquainted with a fucking terrorist." fuuuuuuck hahaha, nice work man, love your stuff | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 07:58 PM |
| – | [FR] I went for it.I don't visit this sub much but I hope you people give a shit about discussion and learning things, so how about you debate the dude instead of just downvote him and say he's wrong. I too was a bit worried when he said they never socialized with other people after the introduction despite no signs of affection like kissing or even dancing. Even if you assume this dude is good at reading people (i.e. that he would be able to tell if she wanted to socialize with other people too) I think it's impo… | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 04:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I went for it.I personally like having no fancy words and just showing emotion. Like during intense discussion about philosophy or whatever, if I were you, I'd pause for a moment after she said something and just look at her for about 0.5 seconds then say "fuck." (tone of voice being, where you have just realized something big) she says "what?" "you're really smart... AND gorgeous do you like Vietnamese food?" (or whatever, just something kinda dumb, go from there) | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I went for it.Hey cousin, sorry for being a wuss but I'm shy, could you try to find out if your friend Anna was into me at all? Otherwise I'm just gonna message her on facebook and hope for the best, since I was too afraid to ask her out at the party. Copy paste that to your cousin. This is called doing what you can to correct for your mistakes, getting outside of the comfort zone, and possible crushin some puss good luck. | /r/seduction | 08/12/17 04:36 AM |
| 16 | Nobody Owes You AnythingGot emotional in less than one hour. No girl he's ever interested can take a nap, have their phone die, go somewhere without reception, or just be away from their phone for more than 1 hour. He's fucked. | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 06:15 AM |
| 2 | 28 years old female virginI had a similar upbringing as you, very religious then not, but still had no idea how to get close to girls because of said upbringing, and my body and mind still treated sex as a big, scary, extremely important thing so any girl who had ANY flaw I would reject. What eventually happened was I met someone similar and finally got my first kiss and lost my virginity. If I hadn't been at university it would've been even later. The problem is, I dated this girl for 3 years just because she was a good… | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 09:18 PM |
| 11 | Guys, I spent a week writing a Tinder guide for the beginner Swiper. I hope it helps :)Ask out before it gets to a dead end | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 02:46 PM |
| 6 | I started saying "how's it going" instead of "hey" to cashiersKeep in mind these people HAVE to act like they enjoy conversing with you, so carefully gauge their response and if they don't seem to genuinely want to talk then lay off after. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 05:27 PM |
| – | Honestly, where's the best place to find attractive/intelligent women?Depends on where you are for sure. I think at least the medium/large liberal cities use it for hooking up. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 10:09 PM |
| – | Honestly, where's the best place to find attractive/intelligent women?Tinder was great last I checked. It allows for decent vetting of the smart part and if you can stalk them on facebook first you can hopefully see if they're attractive or not. | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Honestly, where's the best place to find attractive/intelligent women?If you're a bit older I recommend dating a girl doing a useful degree or who at least seems capable of getting a decent job with her useless/semiuseless degree. | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Being Girl-Height in College I thought was a Blessing, in the club it feels like a CurseMaybe I should just find an azn woman like me Well...why not? What's wrong with asian women | /r/seduction | 05/02/17 11:21 PM |
| – | Being Girl-Height in College I thought was a Blessing, in the club it feels like a Curseand have amazing career prospects in whatever path you choose. If I went to the Netherlands would I really have the right to be mad at all the tall white people? No, it'd be my damn fault for going there. If you're so sick of tall white guys and trying to be what white girls want, why not move to a country or city where that isn't the population? | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Herpes"No real doctor would say", how many doctors do you know for sure their opinion on this? I think you're talking out your ass here. | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 09:28 PM |
| – | HerpesAs in oral herpes, which like 90% of people have anyway right? Not too worried about that. | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 09:25 PM |
| 2 | We've heard "just be confident" ; This is my heartfelt guide on how to be just that.Great post dude, keep kickin ass! | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only person that finds infield videos creepy as fuck?how the hell can someone so skinny punch so fast and hard with so little wind up? If i tried that i'd get 1/5 the power | /r/seduction | 20/10/16 08:20 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Zero kino to sex? Yeah, I was surprised too.I always thought I was original by using my knee, does everyone do that? | /r/seduction | 23/03/16 11:07 AM |
| 17 | First Date: How To Keep The Conversation Going [x-post from /r/OkCupid]so you DID take it from there! gettim boiz | /r/seduction | 21/03/16 10:22 PM |
| 2 | How should I physically escalate as a dude with high functioning autism?I always just make a joke out of it. While walking down the street try this: How's your hand by the way? (grab her hand) Her: What?? (after examining her hand, bring it back down) ah it's good, just checking for ya. (then keep walking. you are now holding hands) | /r/seduction | 20/03/16 07:14 PM |
| 17 | How to respond to finding out she has a boyfriend?Or maybe she actually has a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 01:35 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to finding out she has a boyfriend?And if she says yes, he'd then have to buy her flowers for the first date. How horrifyingly awkward | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 01:34 AM |
| 5 | How I picked up a 10No part of that story negates my post. If the guy is ugly, it's considered creepy. If an attractive guy does creepy behavior then yes, he will be considered creepy, but that does not mean the previous statement is false... | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 05:35 AM |
| 2 | How I picked up a 10Being alone and walking up to two dancing girls and smiling at them while they dance is not difficult, and does not require a special level of confidence or social skill. if the guy is ugly, that action is considered creepy. | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 04:02 AM |
| 2 | How I picked up a 10walking up to two girls and watching them dance while smiling/laughing at them is not a unique attitude or ability. That's what most guys do on dance floors already | /r/seduction | 31/08/15 04:00 AM |
| 10 | How I picked up a 10"at that moment a really sexy European girl is in front of me dancing with her friend. Her friend is looking at me and dancing with a guy. Sort of signaling to her friend that she should dance with me. I am standing there enjoying myself and smiling and laughing because the European girl doesn't want to dance with me but her friend wants her to. Eventually she turns around and smiles and grabs me." Sooo step 1: be attractive | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I let go of anger, bitterness, and self-loathing?social sports (playing soccer with your friend and grabbing a beer after) is great cardio, super fun and a wonderful mood booster. | /r/seduction | 28/08/15 11:10 PM |
| 49 | College Campuses - It's that time of year!(Serious question) and how do you respond when they ask why you're looking for girls on a college campus at 27 instead of doing hobbies or hanging out with your friends? | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 03:03 PM |
| -4 | As a girl who's been on countless dates - great things guys have done to pick me up, and a few notes on when I've picked up girls.don't think so, I'm just saying most novels have a stronger element of romance than that paragraph she wrote. | /r/seduction | 21/08/15 05:59 AM |
| -15 | As a girl who's been on countless dates - great things guys have done to pick me up, and a few notes on when I've picked up girls.no offense but it sounds likely that you don't read in general if that's the case | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Reality Check: Girls just want to have fun.I dunno, if you live out the last 10 years of your life alone and in a shit hole retirement community you may think otherwise. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 02:57 AM |
| 2 | This is the most important advice you'll ever read. I call it "The Trick."Hey, you're cute - what's your name? I'll try that. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 07:04 AM |
| 2 | How do you go about proposing a FWB relationship to a woman?When a girl who you respect is sad and in pain that you didn't see the sex and hanging out as anything potentially serious, it doesn't feel right to say "that's your problem". I don't feel like a good person when I make others feel sadness. Maybe that's just me. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you go about proposing a FWB relationship to a woman?Only if you're okay with potentially breaking hearts and making someone sad and no longer friends with you. | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 02:14 PM |
| 134 | How do you go about proposing a FWB relationship to a woman?The most drama-free one I've ever had went like this: Flirted and planned a date Sent a completely honest text a day beforehand saying I can't go on the date because truthfully, I'm not looking for a relationship and I hate hurting people's feelings. It's happened before and I felt like shit. She responded saying how nice it was of me to be honest and that she wasn't looking for anything serious either. Date was back on. She was awesome in bed. And always paid half for everything. | /r/seduction | 19/05/15 04:23 PM |
| 63 | A few comments on body languageHe's saying it's good advice and therefore he should go tell it to the guy he is observing and talking about....what the hell kind of centipede is procreating in your ass? | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 01:05 AM |
| 5 | How And When To Compliment A GirlThe compliment that has worked best for me: (after between 1 and 20 minutes of talking/laughing) - "you're really cute". If they say something better than thanks, I go in for a kiss. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Inner Game for Men - In A Nutshelllate response here but thanks, I appreciate your replies. Maybe I'll just read the damn book, it's not like it can hurt a guy. | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 12:08 PM |
| 16 | Something a Female Friend Told MeTelling a colleague with a boyfriend to kiss you is a pretty shit idea in general unless you don't care about your job. It's not about fear of rejection at that point. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Something a Female Friend Told MeOr, you could build enough confidence to not feel the need to "lessen" people around you in order to qualify yourself as someone worthy of them. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 01:13 AM |
| 8 | Something a Female Friend Told MeMaybe without the fake insult because it's 2014. | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 01:04 AM |
| 8 | Get The Hell Out Of The Friendzone Forever By Risking Never, Ever, Seeing Her Again.Nice. I'm sure you get all kinds of intelligent, fun, gorgeous girls. You ought to show them how you talk on reddit sometime too. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Get The Hell Out Of The Friendzone Forever By Risking Never, Ever, Seeing Her Again.Liking a girl enough to where he's not interested in banging other girls doesn't mean he thinks women in general are of higher value than himself. That's mostly just what sexually frustrated or emotionally traumatized bros say who rarely ever actually bag an intelligent, cool girl. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Get The Hell Out Of The Friendzone Forever By Risking Never, Ever, Seeing Her Again.just go to a party together. everything becomes obvious in the presence of alcohol, and nothing dramatic needs to happen. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 04:57 PM |
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