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Is being asked how old you are actually a shit test? I kinda figured it was but wasn't sure if it was gonna seem like I was insecure about my age or something. What's a good response? "I'm 122, but I eat really healthy." "Old enough." "How much you willing to pay to know?" All responses I've used in the past. Not really sure I've had excellent responses from them but I've never crashed out on that one.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 12:07 AM
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You didn't get any benefit from nofap/noporn? I get a larger benefit from noporn than nofap. Porn overstimulates my mind and leaves me unmotivated. But not fapping at all leaves me so sexually charged I can't be productive by the third day (I live hours into the country so women are a weekend thing). Noporn seems to be the best medium for me personally. TV becomes a habit. Bored? Put on a show. Something to watch while I eat? Sure, 3 hours and 8 episodes later.... avoiding tv altogether gets me …
/r/askTRP21/11/14 05:54 PM
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For reasons I cannot explain, I feel like an absolute loser. Hmm, sounds like you might be struggling with some depression. You're moving forward with life, have a well established foundation, independent, lost weight. So what's the next step? You have to decide for certain what gives you your jollies but I think that's what the next step is. Passion. Find a passion. You have your foundation. Ever hear the saying "do what you can tolerate to fund what you love to do"? It sounds like you have the…
/r/askTRP20/11/14 05:52 PM
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Ah yes. Would it make you feel worse if I said I use my pinky as equally as my others? Haha But seriously, even doing those wouldn't build calluses for me because on my solid body I use .010 gauge. I love your style of working those into your game. I need something fun like that.
/r/seduction23/06/13 09:03 PM
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Damnit. You're making me self conscious about my apparent LACK of callouses on my finger tips. I play jazz guitar so every chord is blocked together. I can play for hours and not get sore fingers but they don't get firm. Haha it ridiculous.
/r/seduction23/06/13 05:11 PM
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Dude I really fucking love this quote and find it to be extremely accurate. I didn't get it when I was younger, and then when I did first get i thought it was extremely offensive and disrespectful. Now, I can't think of anything in his response that I would change.
/r/seduction15/06/13 05:54 PM
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There had to be a w-flip or a z-thingy in there somewhere. Or at least a j-hop for his ZMS or she wouldn't FKQW, amirite?!
/r/seduction21/04/13 03:31 AM
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8/10, would only read again if more Tits.
/r/seduction21/04/13 03:27 AM
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way after the fact, but ive had this saved for a while and was busy. I often find this sort of scenario in ANY "scientific" study on men v. women now. It's constantly being put out there and I really can't see an unbiased study being published because something that claims that men are better at something without having a 50% balancing act that shows women to be equal would simply be seen as the sexist article. However men simply are better at many things than women, but of course I'm a misogyni…
/r/seduction17/04/13 02:39 AM
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I say lay it on the line. Direct is better in my experience, however I'm a good looking guy. Idk if it would be much different for the average guy. I took hb7 out twice and the first time I couldnt isolate and the second time went for the kiss and got rejected. She did break up with her gf (bisexual) earlier that week so she may have wanted to wait, but the next weekend I was eating her out well onto f-close when her brother comes home haha. Point being, lay it on the line and don't be afraid of…
/r/seduction13/04/13 02:51 AM
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So whereas throwawaypua seems to be saying its situational you seem to be saying it is better to die trying. Your content is fine, but your delivery needs some lovin.
/r/seduction13/04/13 02:41 AM
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16 years old. Meet a hb8 at summer camp. Get her number. Travel 2.5 hours to visit her. Take her around town, lay under the stars, sing to her. The works. I honestly was just happy spending time with her cause she was so beautiful. End of the night I'm driving her home, she tells me to pull over. I stop and she grabs my face and kisses me, then sits back in her seat and waits. I say thank you and drive her the rest of the way home. Looking back, I wish I wasn't dumb and made out with her at leas…
/r/seduction13/04/13 02:10 AM
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Read sex god method.
/r/seduction12/04/13 10:56 PM
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Heres the way I see it: I've never had a situation where not smoking has worked against me. I can join and be the life of the party without smoking (same thought as drinking). Hell, all smokers talk about it smoking anyways usually. haha. Also it could work against you because some girls dont like smoke. Period. And I guess it's not something that can't be overcome, but it could be a bit against you. And pot really isn't as big of a deal as tobacco IMO. I don't think anybody but super conservati…
/r/seduction12/04/13 04:20 PM
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Marbleized is cool for sure and the used them a lot. I prefer Dunlop blacks though. However I met a guy who used turtle shell. Honestly amazing and I can never find them. This is for jazz. I guarantee if someone wants to shred they'll go light. No dynamic control with lights.
/r/seduction11/04/13 07:40 PM
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I get confused too. My understanding of value was things that make you attractive to women: Social status: talking well, many friends, body language, popular Health: good body, no unhealthy habits like smoking Passionate: hobbies that are important to you and how they help you and others There are more but can't remember of the top of my head. Also, my understanding may be off because health is somewhat limited to yourself and if the other dude doesn't have hobbies then you can't really give val…
/r/seduction11/04/13 07:29 PM
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Nice post. Reminds me of a good friend of mine who is a natural. Btw, the best guitar pick is thick... And hard... Giggity. ;)
/r/seduction11/04/13 06:51 PM
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Ouch. Ya, if he's coming to you asking help maybe you can share with him, in your own personal style, that he can't be with her. Here's why: Aside from sexuality, the fact that she has this much control over him is flat out unhealthy. People that have been committed to each other for 8 months should be able to match the level of their sexual and emotional intimacy. What she is doing to him is equal or worse than a man denying emotions but demanding sex from his girlfriend for 8 months. No woman …
/r/seduction11/04/13 12:31 AM
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showing someone they are insignificant vs how they've wronged you. Will Wheaton vs. Sheldon Cooper.
/r/seduction10/04/13 11:28 PM
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I have many contentions with this. Though your style isn't wrong, variety is great. I often wear jeans, slacks, and even shorts and get complimented on them. You know why? Cause I put it together with my shoes and shirt. Light jeans go GREAT with a sage green button shirt, tucked, dark brown belt, dark brown dress shoes, and green socks. Dark jeans or black slacks wouldn't do this outfit justice. It may not be your style but its DEFINITELY fashion. Don't be limiting bud. ;)
/r/seduction10/04/13 06:53 AM
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Id say getting married to a mentally ill chick at 19, that turned into a divorce at 20 (thank god, no kids) was a big mistake. The relationship was very abusive and I was a pussy. The biggest thing everyone was always afraid of for me is that I'd become callous towards women after it. I am not callous towards women in general, I do have a problem with principals that my ex held and see them as hurtful to all men. I don't think that's wrong because things like 3rd wave feminism only serve to hurt…
/r/seduction10/04/13 12:49 AM
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I understand your point, but gonna have to disagree. Honesty is attractive to women and calmly telling her that you don't like that nickname and she's not allowed to call you that. I used that on a woman once and she tried to fight it and I added a playfulness to it, I'd call her a nickname she hated whenever she called me the one I didn't like. Attraction through the roof. I didn't use the other nickname like a child calling someone a poopy face, but as a playful neg, "how'd work at the gelato …
/r/seduction09/04/13 11:17 PM
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High risk high reward. Go big or go home. Tits or gtfo my elevator.
/r/seduction09/04/13 05:40 PM
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If its working well I'd just turn it sexual: "and what's the deal with sex on an elevator? Amirite?" Haha I'm exaggerating a hair. :p
/r/seduction09/04/13 04:55 PM
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This is not a thread about texting or text game.
/r/seduction09/04/13 05:21 AM
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playing catch Mother of god... You nailed why this happens. An AFC is just happy to be playing catch with a girl whereas an alpha takes the ball and shows off for a while and then lets her have it for a while knowing full well he can take the ball back whenever he wants and she will be happy to since he is fun when he controls the ball. In fact, after about 2-3 of these "catch" questions, you could easily comment on how asking questions like that back and forth is like catch; nobody finds it tha…
/r/seduction09/04/13 05:10 AM
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Haha this guy. I was afraid someone would misread my post when I posted it. But yoloswagbrolo. Amirite? And other stupid shit we think is funny. :D
/r/seduction08/04/13 07:13 PM
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I didn't say to say anything. I said wear a smile that says (implies) that.
/r/seduction08/04/13 05:43 PM
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Ya Asians smile when uncomfortable more than any other girl. Open up with "hi, you're cute, I had to come and meet you" and then do qualifying questions.
/r/seduction08/04/13 04:28 PM
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Or even add a smile. It would appear to be a confident pity smile that says "how nice for you, but she's with me now and I'm pleasuring her far better than you could ever hope." Smiles convey a lot. Plus wouldn't it show you are outcome independent; like you don't have to prove yourself to him or the girl that you're having a good time and this guy means nothing?
/r/seduction08/04/13 06:08 AM
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Follow up: therefore with the doing vs knowing, did the (for lack of a better term and the way I perceived your tone) crutch of the trip leave you with improved skill, or was it just an experience of its own class? Meaning, did the acid act like a social steroid and without it you're back to 'normal' or did your actual skill grow?
/r/seduction08/04/13 05:55 AM
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My move is to just dance. Yup. Alone. Out there dancing on the floor lookin cool and happy. Then when I see a girl make eye contact, and she looks away I turn away from her and start to shuffle her direction. When i get to her I "accidentally" dance into her, turn my head and show her that I see its her and she's not putting up a shield, then I just grind into her. Girls love it especially cause I like to grab their hands and hold them closer and I bump them aggressively to give a clear dominati…
/r/seduction07/04/13 10:41 PM
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Crazy. Never done acid myself but that was very interesting. Do you feel like those 'revelations' could stick with you or was the state purely drug induced and without that reality the state is also gone? Being around people on acid is too weird for me but they seem to enjoy it. I need to be drunk anymore to enjoy those guys on trips. Makes me wonder what their state of mind was alongside their hallucinations. Cool story bro.
/r/seduction07/04/13 08:37 PM
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Ya. And anything short of selling this way is simply manipulation, which is not the aim of seddit. Also, regardless of OP's scenarios, it seems to me that "be a value giver" would cover all of them and make ANY sense of self-esteem or anyone in a different walk of life feel better being around said value giver. Hope that made sense, I was having trouble deciding the best way to organize that.
/r/seduction07/04/13 04:19 PM
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I agree with that guy. Your opener was good if you got to talk to them. Don't take girls advice. At least word for word don't. It was more of learning to not stick to your opener. You can imo use her line as a follow up to your opener. Having diffused her shield by getting her to laugh and showing her you have some aggression, be direct. Hell, if the girl was attracted off the bat, direct can pull her in.
/r/seduction07/04/13 03:24 AM
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Excellent. I'm sure it was worth it either way. However I like my version better. More dramatic.
/r/seduction06/04/13 01:16 AM
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I cant either. Day game I would rather just be a calm, seductive, confident, direct guy. I don't like jumping around and shit. But, he has a great attitude about overcoming aa.
/r/seduction05/04/13 10:20 PM
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I'm curious what you taught him about winging in 30 sec . I imagine you seeing a hb9 and her hb7 friends and looking around quickly like she is a unicorn that will get away. You see this sad nerdy dude and grab him quickly, his glasses fall off. "alright kid, here's the deal. See hb9? I'm gonna Fuck her tonight. I need you to distract her fat friends with stories of world of warcraft and pokemans. Ready? Break!" Haha I enjoyed typing that too much...
/r/seduction05/04/13 09:58 PM
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I like sasha pua on YouTube. I don't really learn much other than body language and attitude, but it helps. Also, he did an exercise with some guys where they walked up to a girl and said hi, then didn't say anything but "uhhhh" while staring at her for as long as they could, until she finally got weirded out and walked away. The point is to realize that at its very worst... What have you lost? Did it really embarrass you or do you look back and realize... Hmm next time maybe how are you is bett…
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:35 PM
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Maybe its something the girl read in Cosmo?
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:30 PM
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What kind of results did you accomplish? Full body multiple orgasms? Sexual energy transfer between your partner and yourself? Due to lack of tone I realize it sounds confrontational, rather I'm being purely inquisitive. Especially since I've been starting practicing, if for nothing else than controlling my already high sex drive/energy.
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:29 AM
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Idk if its about value or lack of... But public boners can definitely be a negative: at best you're comfortable but I don't even think your gf would proudly hold your hand if you're walking down the sidewalk sporting a Ron Jeremy. Although I may be wrong. Let's field test this shit!
/r/seduction04/04/13 11:58 PM
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Not casual in the sense of time necessary to be put in for results? Or how distinct the practice is from western standard?
/r/seduction04/04/13 11:53 PM
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Read the multi orgasmic male. It teaches you how to channel your sexual energy away from your groin. I've been practicing it for 4 days now and already I notice a huge improvement in random boners. As well as misguided sexual frustration, particularly from no sex in over a year.
/r/seduction04/04/13 10:12 PM
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Ok occifer, ill get my license. Hold my beer.
/r/seduction04/04/13 06:18 PM
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I could ask a bunch of guys about what they love the most about their favorite car and if I took all that and threw it together I guarantee it would not sell as great if I went to a handful of the greatest car designers and learned from them. Just in case the common fish analogy didn't ring for you.
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:41 PM
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Go home Carl, you're drunk.
/r/seduction04/04/13 04:13 PM
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Unless you can encourage them with a bigger boat... Or some dynamite...
/r/seduction04/04/13 02:48 PM
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I think this is the most natural (for confidence) of all comments. Often anxiety makes us force really hard to maintain eye contact while listening, and then speak everything while looking around constantly, like how they teach you in school during a speech (look at speaker, look ay everyone while speaking) Someone that is confident and leading genuinely will speak and know and expect that his listeners will receive the message, as well as knows that his "subordinates" (for lack of a better term…
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:41 AM
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I did too. I like seinfeld's humor style. It's taking the most common mundane thing, like a new restaurant moving in next door, and making a whole show about it.
/r/seduction03/04/13 06:57 PM
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Agreed. Usually, as long as I've made her comfortable around me, been playfully touchy and funny, when it comes to the sex part, she doesn't even think about yes or no, its more of... What else? She's intrigued with me (and visa versa) and we are just enjoying each other. I think this dude just merely stumbled upon a weak form of role reversal and didn't know it. By him asking "what do you want?" She may have perceived it as him taking the common female role of chasee, and decided it would be fu…
/r/seduction03/04/13 06:50 PM
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Spinning a girl and yourself is easy. Takes 1 min on YouTube to learn. Then role reversal and rub your ass against her. Hell, overplay it, bend over and bounce into her so hard she almost falls over (see: calibrating for drunkenness and heel size lol) then stand back up, laugh, and dip her. Ezpz.
/r/seduction01/04/13 11:36 PM
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You're missing the point I think. It's not about acting. It's about underlying desires.
/r/seduction01/04/13 10:18 PM
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thousands of girls Just cause they are drunk doesn't mean they still don't fall along the same guidelines of avoiding looking like a slut. More girls, higher risk. As far as your gf, too many variables. I'm just trying to speak for the majority, there's obviously going to be exceptions as well as varying degrees of sexuality for each gender sample.
/r/seduction01/04/13 09:37 PM
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Didnt read article, assuming the title is a good tldr. How is that an evolved mental mechanism? Women don't have the physical capabilities as men so through all of history they had to be able to attract a man to provide for them. Also a stronger man means more protection. I don't see how this is news...
/r/seduction01/04/13 08:51 PM
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The article mentioned desires that were never awakened and I have to defer to this statement for evidence. A boy learns very quickly what an orgasm is upon reaching puberty. He is told by society, consciously or otherwise, that men are extremely sexual and can't control their urges. So he generally will practice masturbation and breed this sexual desire further having his eyes opened to the nature and joy of am orgasm. Women however generally have to work to get an orgasm and very rarely do they…
/r/seduction01/04/13 08:34 PM
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good stuff. I'll do what I can. Def would FR too if something awesome like that happens.
/r/seduction29/03/13 06:49 AM
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My experience with the Mormon church is fairly limited though on paper I know a lot and have a few good friends in it. The light put on who women really are is incorrect. Like I said, it takes a lot of work to break those incorrect thoughts. One thing you may not find often talked about in seddit or the pua community is feminism and even more specifically, male rights activists. I'd suggest learning about those and getting a background on why things are the way they are. If nothing else you'll b…
/r/seduction29/03/13 12:53 AM
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Went to church a lot and had sexuality seen as a negative thing unless you're married. The problem with that thinking, as you know, is women in our society want sex from the get go. The way the church wants to run it leaves the woman in charge of sex and the man pussin out. I've experienced this firsthand with a failed marriage at 20. I am not trying to lecture but rather build up to this point. If you can target and eliminate these thoughts one by one, you'll start to see progress. I personally…
/r/seduction29/03/13 12:15 AM
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I am friends with a bisexual girl and we have fooled around. She just got out of a ltr with a girl and is very sensitive to advances. I'm thinking of wingwoman-ing her since I was able to Kino and be fun and playful with her and attract her. What's the best way to get her on board if this pivot is best done with a bi girl, as per your prerequisite?
/r/seduction28/03/13 11:40 PM
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I said, lookie here negger, if anyone's gonna having sex with my sister, It's gonna be me!
/r/seduction28/03/13 10:18 AM
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I could've swore you were being racist until I remembered the thread.
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:31 AM
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I've been with girls that are not highly confident and they'll sometimes say "... Awkward" or bring up something they aren't used to like if I suggest that we go sit on that bench or go watch the stars. Ya know what I say that shows I'm confident: "its only awkward if you make it that way." It shows them you have direction and intention. Bitches love direction and intention. Haha. But seriously. Relax. Let whatever you do be in the spirit of self entertainment: do it for no once else but yoursel…
/r/seduction28/03/13 12:39 AM
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With negs. In fact, do it to her friend instead of her.
/r/seduction27/03/13 11:20 PM
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If OP would've incorporated Kino into said magic trick it wouldve happened 3x as fast.
/r/seduction27/03/13 10:31 PM
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Hmm, not a lot of clarity. Before we go any further, I just want to mention as a long time dancer without "formal" training, but someone who feels pretty comfortable with a lot of moves and does well in "clubs", that you should NEVER go dancing with the intention of pickup up girls. I've had the funnest nights solely going out dancing for my own fun. That level of fun was based around me enjoying whatever moves i could mix and match and be confident in them. Some came out stupid and some people …
/r/seduction15/03/13 03:33 PM
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Hmm. Slightly off topic: some (feminist) women, who I might add thought they were more intelligent then they really were, have contended that "women are, in general, more attractive than men". I'd disagree entirely but I'd still be curious to see how men fared in this study vs women. I wonder if there was a scale or if it was "hot or not? ;););)" next to their pictures.
/r/seduction14/03/13 05:22 PM
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Came here to say this verbatim. Ah well, thanks for the type up. I'll have those tps reports on monday?
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:22 PM
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Seattle-ite here. Having been to Portland, sf, and san Diego (and la), socal is one of my favorite spots on the west coast. Don't come to Seattle. People are like the weather here; cold, dull, and uninteresting. Plus it's almost as expensive as san Diego.
/r/seduction13/03/13 12:19 AM
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She may have just been on the fence about you since you said you could've done better on your first date. Shit test anyone? Personally (whether I thought it was a shit test or not) I wouldn't see that comment as anything less than a low quality woman telling you up front how she'd treat you if things got more serious. Why even go on the date if she is really seeing someone else? Idk though,I'm not too amazing at this.
/r/seduction12/03/13 07:28 PM
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"stop trying to make fetch happen"
/r/seduction12/03/13 07:16 PM
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the "pre-approved group fuck" was kinda icing on the cake for a hilarious line. however you make a good point, why would they want me over any other dude? gotta prove it somehow.
/r/seduction28/02/13 08:50 AM
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I feel like there should be a website for this sort of thing. Not even kidding. I might even pay a little if I knew it was gonna get me in a pre-approved group fuck.
/r/seduction28/02/13 06:53 AM
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I'm 23 and still get carded not because it's questionable but I legitimately look barely older than 18 on a good day. When I shave 16. Being in your boat and having 4 years on you, here's my advice looking back: nail everyone you find attractive. At first they may think you look young but the second you come out with your alpha attitude they won't give it a second thought. If it ever comes up, I've had the best responses with full on embracing it. "I'm 19" "oh I thought you were 16" "it's cause …
/r/seduction28/02/13 02:59 AM
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As others have said, appearance is only enough to maybe let you in the sack, its not enough to keep you around. Even then, you won't be happy about it, at least in the long run scope of things, feeling used and what not. As our wise master Lil' john has said "we want a lady on the street, but a freak in da bed!" haha in all seriousness, he was right, learn to carry yourself not with a stuck up manner, but confident. Not so independent that you are completely dominating, but enough that you can h…
/r/seduction19/02/13 05:49 AM
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Why thank you good sir. I spent a week or so before I knew anything about pick up learning about feminist influence on america. If youre interested I learned the most from 'thehappymisogynist' on YouTube. Smart dude.
/r/seduction08/02/13 10:17 PM
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Not a bad thing if so. Girls like a man who can get girls. It's not really a turn off. Switch it around to show her commitment if that's what you want. It works the other way as well like everyone in this thread is saying. Upfront honesty of what you want goes a long way. If she won't bite then she may not be worth your time either way.
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:38 PM
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HAHA! No wonder. I was like, his response is confusing. Am I that far off? Too good. No worries. Good luck!
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:28 PM
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I'm trying not to jump ahead. I'm saying you should go about your crush in the way you would any other girl: joking, kino, playful, etc. But AFTER you get her to like you, show her another side. Make her tell herself "wow this guy is funny, makes me feel good, AND has a deep side" Opening with something too deep often is a turn off. I'm trying to advise you to stick with what works. I wouldn't even say to CHANGE anything you're doing, if you are f-closing comfortably. I'd say if you want a relat…
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:20 PM
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oh lawd I dont mean opening. haha you can be jokin an stuff, GOTTA GET IN DAT N BE STOOPID FEEL ME BRAH?! I'm talkin closing, near the end of the night. Throwin in some comfort material AFTER you've already attracted her and qualified her, instead of staying with joking/playful and making the move to make out/sex, will greatly increase your chance of it turning into a relationship. Restated: if you want a relationship with a girl that you've met/taken out (or stayed in, just some time spent)/get…
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:10 PM
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I'll give you a lil example, take from it what you like. I'm a music major so I liked to talk about music. A good attraction/comfort builder routine: "Music is an odd thing. It is entirely tangible, yet it seems to be the only thing that crosses the bridge between the tangible and intangible realm. You see, we can measure it, but we never understand it. The sound waves are there, but their effect penetrates humans on a much more profound level. Music... Touches someone's soul. It comforts them l…
/r/seduction08/02/13 06:07 PM
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Not sure if I should downvote the bad thread or upvote it and your post so the world can see how you DEMOLISHED OP! Haha. But seriously. Can't agree with you more. Just to take it a half a step further, I find it extremely ironic that most of what came from the coveted (later) feminist movements (particularly third, some of second) was supposed to be what women wanted yet its effects I only see women complaining about. Like the friendzone. Or "why aren't men strong anymore?" Or "why is it men on…
/r/seduction08/02/13 09:21 AM
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Talking with women about meaningful things in life tends to get me there. If I stick to jokes I notice the attraction without commitment. I can still qualify without being terribly deep, though I find more success with deep qualifiers that in turn create an almost relationship dynamic. But what do I know? I've moved to nowhere and haven't been laid in closing in on a year.... Wow has it been that long? I need to get out somewhere. (sorry, I'm a tad drunk)
/r/seduction08/02/13 09:02 AM
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Adhd
/r/seduction26/11/12 04:53 AM
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In terms of women, cold showers help the nervous system and raise testosterone. My thought on this: maybe it'll help me get out of best faster. I have the hardest time waking up, not because best is comfy but because I'm so fucking tired when I first wake up. I can't think clearly so I decide well maybe a little more sleep will help me feel better. Any others have thoughts or experiences on this?
/r/seduction25/11/12 06:20 PM
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Honestly, lets approach this logically. If she flat out rejects you you have two ways of looking at it: uninteresting approach: time to work on self flat out stuck up woman: in which case i dont care how hot she is i dont want her. Neither of those are too bad or unlivable. Or she could accept you and you could fuck the living shit out of her and make her happy. :)
/r/seduction23/11/12 10:06 PM
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Or blowjobs...
/r/seduction11/11/12 05:38 AM
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And the reverse is true: if you start to play the guitar to pick up women, you're gonna have a bad time. As a guitarist (also sax and drums proficiently) I have wondered a good way to work out my musical talents into my game. If I can safely push cocky without exaggeration, I'm a pretty fuckin awesome guitarist and it'd be nice to demonstrate my awesomeness because talking about it doesn't communicate the value I have.
/r/seduction11/11/12 05:17 AM
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I have a great father and he is my best friend. My mom is a very submissive gentle woman. I love pua so I can analyze the depth in their relationship and so I can have what they have someday.
/r/seduction09/11/12 08:09 PM
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Sick man. That's alpha for sure. Making everyone around you feel good and they want to be around because of it. Back to topic. I have never gone to a large school. High school was 200 people. Even the school I did my student teaching at was 300 people. So its interesting to see that people will always break down into smaller groups.
/r/seduction08/11/12 07:19 PM
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I went to an even smaller college (1200) and can confirm this. However, I stayed middle of the road for a while. I'd do things that were cool and got a bit of attention (I'm a musician and would perform) but never really followed up. When I started getting into PUA people would sometimes comment: oh I've seen you around before but I never knew you'd be this cool. Or how come you weren't here earlier? Maybe a good piece of advice to small school puas is that everyone knows they are at a small sch…
/r/seduction08/11/12 05:37 PM
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Carrying on with a thrifty point about this "compliment": You said you were in the club. Generally a high energy place that girls put effort into looking good so they'll be attractive, and they know when they feel hot. A guideline I heard a while back applies: the hotter a girl feels in that moment the more likely she is to reject you. She feels her value is higher. She doesn't need to be told this. She's looking for a no BS man. Cute is halfassed. An alpha wouldn't half ass half of an ass. He w…
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:38 PM
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Oh I'm sure you do. Nice try, "I'm a rapist"
/r/seduction25/10/12 05:59 PM
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This. Be alpha and do it. I mean shit... you took the time to memorize it. You must have like a 1 in 15 chance. Of it goin in your favor.
/r/seduction18/10/12 04:35 AM
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Dance game is an interesting thing. My brother thinks I'm good at it but I don't get near as much as another friend of mine who is a better dancer than myself. Its almost like conforming to stereotypes trying to "win " at the dance game... get out there and flat out compete against other men and see who comes out on top then reap the attention. Also in my experience its EXTREMELY hit and miss. Some nights I can get 10 # and an f close other nights not a single girl will dance. Not sure why.
/r/seduction12/10/12 09:23 PM
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So... are you saying the woman has a different intention or undertone to "compliment women "or that "compliment women "is just terrible advice because a woman endorses it? I'm trying to learn by the way... not be confrontational. Not really an advocate of complimenting women personally(at least before sex), I think you can get her interested and show interest other ways just fine. Even so I always want to learn more and refine my social understanding.
/r/seduction12/10/12 05:22 PM
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"Do you have a boyfriend?" Did the article mean this as a direct follow up to an opener or even an opener itself? Also :are there preferable scenarios / venues where this is most effective? I would imagine its great day game but bars may not induce interest... but what do I know? Lol
/r/seduction12/10/12 01:00 AM
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I may get downvoted too but I agree with you. The only issue here is that this woman is not giving advice. In my experience discussing PUA with women has proven to get good responses. They usually say wow, I wish more guys were like that and show some IOI's. Its entirely fair for a woman to say she would be engaged or at least have some interest. Especially a woman online with 0 attachment to OP. Even so, yes, out of the blue, women have no clue how to give advice to get them into bed, or whatev…
/r/seduction11/10/12 11:44 PM
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Also, thinking of her as this hot girl can make kino difficult. You feel like everything is really special and it puts a lot of pressure on yourself. Try to remember no matter how hot she is, she is a human also and that makes her on the same level as you: with needs and wants and if you can fulfill them, why not?
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:12 PM
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But ideally by this point you've already displayed great characteristics (solid eye contact, humor etc.) That would get her interested. Keep in mind with girls its not about physical beauty as much as social value that increases attractiveness. If she was attracted to you she's probably already thinking that shed like you to touch her. In the same way you can see a hot girl and say you want her to touch you. Also, without kino escalation you often end up friendzoned. If only the rest of Reddit k…
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:08 PM
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Haha. Okay you'll have to excuse me... I was not all there. Here... this Upvote should be fair recompense.
/r/seduction09/10/12 08:40 AM
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^ I think he thinks redditors are... geeks! *gasp. Redditor or not... people are moving home more often than in the past. Don't ask for a source or quote me but some rediculously large percentage (~20 I think) moves home after college for like a year. Bad job market... uncertainty in future... shits expensive... burnt out from college. Things like that. Either way... lotta people goin home.
/r/seduction09/10/12 12:11 AM
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