Hey Seddit. Been working on my game a lot lately at the local college bars in my town. A friend and I go out a few times a week and most of the bars are more of a dance club environment than a chill lounge environment; by this I mean it can get really loud, making it harder to open girls by talking to them and easier to just start dancing with them.

I've been trying to work on my "dance game," and I think I'm getting better. Last night I had an interesting experience with getting rejected while trying to dance with girls. My friend suggested that I just walk up beside a group of dancing girls and kind of put myself in the middle and start dancing, then see if they reciprocate. On a few occasions, I've just had a girl stare at me deadpan. When that happens, I usually move on.

He told me that it's a shit test. Basically, the girl is thinking "is this guy for real?" and waiting to see what I'll do next. If I stick it out, then I'm in. If I bail, then I'm not someone they wanna hang out with. What do you guys think of this mindset?